Haha Basically walking down the stairs on campus to get to a class, I noticed someone walking below me looking at me. We make eye contact and honestly, I curiously maintained eye contact.(wasn't sure if he was going to look away). Then I noticed how handsome he was and he smiled. I idiotically just stared... I noticed he tries to walk pass my classroom alot the weeks following and (I swear) looks at me... If it was to make an impression on me, it worked...but what is he thinking? We go to separate classes (next to each other) and haven't run into each other since...

So I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months. I found out through a friend he cheated on his ex and used her apparently for sex. My friend told me that they didn't hang out much too. They dated for six months. Is this something I should be concerned about..? He treats me very well right now and we see eachother a lot too. But will this change?

A girl who I know is attracted to me and was my coworker for the longest never really talked to me. She avoided and me and was very awkward but I knew she was into me. Anyway, she quit and she came back in to get a few things, and she went right to me and started a conversation. She really never did that before. She was awkward and stuttered a little bit and got flustered with her words, than went and did what she had to do. Than all of a sudden, as she leaves, we start talking a bit and she is a lot more confident and as she leaves, she kind of smiles at me and says bye, blushes, and walks out.

I'm an introverted weight lifter at 35 and never had a girlfriend in my life due to self esteem issues that rises when I was a young kid coming from people in general or parents teasing me. So in that regard I never ever really tried to get a girlfriend and just stayed to myself. Of course many girls I came into contact with who were flirty were just bullying me. Truth. I'm still into girls 18-20 something. She was about 24. So what. Like I said, still into girls like that. I was 31 at this time. I've seen this one girl in the gym when I first switched clubs. She is always training with her friend. They are eye candy for sure. Every guy in the gym would talk to her and she be surrounded by sharks lol. Noticed the one girl very innocently and maybe even got caught. Therefore, I usually keep my distance. One day I was stretching and she all giggly asked me if I left a water bottle by the machine. It was obvious it was hers. I just shook my head and continued to stretch. Moments later I went to get some water at the fountain and she was standing behind me waiting for her turn. I simply walked past her like she wasn't born. The next day I'm walking thinkinto the building and she walking to her car. I can feel a strange invisible sense of awkwardness. In the corner of my eye I could tell she looked annoyed. Why? been a few years and I stil see her in there time to time. She was sitting doing arm curls and I walk by to go to a station. In the corner of my eye I could see she made a sharp turn with her head in my direction. I just leave her alone. Besides she a college university girl. Above me. I'm a labor working person with an associate's degree and work in a warehouse so my friends are good at getting girls. I always felt I should leaves women alone due to how I kinda been neglecte ..By them. So I even go out my way and avoid this girl and try not to make eye contact. My mom and her narcissism and nagging kinda screwed me up from day one. It's better to avoid me pretty much lol Today I seen her in there and I don't know but somehow I get the feeling she was looking my way since there's no mirrors my direction. Could be in my head but the mystique is gone and I don't think I want to talk to this person. : Why if we are, playing the "looking" game? Lol I actually got news from my doctor that I'm dying and have cancer. I made the right move. Only got 2 more years left.

My mentor hugged me the other day and she was letting go of me. She goes you smell very good. I must've given her a strange look. Because she then said what are you wearing because it's very light and clean. This made the comment seem even stranger and it made me think she was really sniffing me. Normal compliment or hitting on me? Both females.

I m in a long distance relationship with my BEST best friend, we re trying to figure out a way to tell his mom, I really want to impress her, what should I message her???

I don't know I rarely get upset but we talked today around 12, and I know he works a lot . But all day we/he said he was gonna call me tonight ,we were suppose to talk tonight and so I put everything on hold and kinda layed in bed early .. then he tells me he has an early doctors appointment and he's gonna go to sleep ... I don't get it ?! He said don't be mad at him ,then he said we can talk. But it kinda annoys me cuz it's kinda misleading ..?! Is it just me

See, my crush has a group of friend's, there's seven in all. And, it just started as him and his cousin (a girl and she is a tomboy) and I was like, OK whatever, i'm only a little jealous (I didn't know they were cousins at the time) . Oh, by the way we only see each other at this church summer camp. Ok, so the first year was just him and his cousin and now the last two years his frienD AND HER friendS were going too. And, I'm FINE with that, its just they are all SO SPORTY, NOT a bad thing AT ALL!! It's just i'm not sporty but I REALLY want to be! See, my family isn't sporty AT ALL so they never taught me to play sports. I was just wondering, "How Could I Get In There Group?" Good advice would be GREAT!! Thanks! :) Update: how can I get in their group? Update: 10 points of a good answer! Update 2: I'm also a little (A LOOOOT) jealous of all the girls in the group! and they are ALL sporty tomboys. How can I stop being jealous? And how can I be more like them? Update: How can i get in their group?

This is kinda related to my last question about the girl, but it's somewhat different. So, this boy at my school who is best friends with my crush, keeps teasing me all the time! My crush, him and my crush's other best friend, and pretty much every other one of his friends know that I like my crush. Whenever I go to class they're like, "I see you Ali! You're getting the (crushes name)" or, "Hey Ali!" Teasingly. The boy especially does this and he does this whenever he catches me looking in his direction or at my crush (which happens to be a lot). He'll sometimes tease my crush and when he does, my crush will blush and look away or look at the ground. I sometimes catch my crush looking at me, but he looks away quickly or after a few seconds. What does this mean? Tell me what my crush's friend might be doing and what my crush might be doing please!

I like this girl I met at a party. I have a good relationship with her friends. We had great chemistry when we met. We danced, held hands, hugged and we were just touching eachother in general. Point is, when this happened I didn t know she had a boyfriend. Her friend was trying to help me get with her and no one warned me of her relationship status. I haven t been able to talk to her since that party because her phone isn t working and my only means of communication is setting up dates with her friend. I met her boyfriend the other day and he s a really nice guy except that he doesn t seem to care about the girl I like the way I do. They haven t been together long and apparantly they have been fighting. So anyways he really likes to fight and so I m almost sure that if I somehow managed to "steal his girl" he would look for me (he knows where I live) and probably try to beat my ***. So my question is: what should I do? Should I try to break them off first? Should I wait for them to naturally break off? Should I just hook-up with her and see where life takes us? Should I just forget it while I still have the chance or should I just talk to the guy even though we aren t really close? He knows that I know that they are dating and he does not know I m Into this girl. Her friends have also told me that she is interested in getting to know me and that she considered hooking up with me that night.

but does it still count meeting somebody if your next to that to that person and talking, but you don't look at that person

So I just started 9th grade and I'm currently in my second semester. I have a semi decent group of friends, around 7 - 8 to be exact and i feel pretty included in almost everything we do but it feels liek almost all of them have either kissed a girl or are currently dating. Now i don't have much in life and i get pretty good grades so ive always considered myself a pretty fair dude. I'm WAY too shy and asking to build up courage or confidence to ask a girl out is way out of my field. I really need some guidance to be a better person. and yes i'm aware my spelling is atrocious.

i m a girl and i have really strong desires to be with a guy. like hug them and kiss them and hold them and lay with them. i don t know what to do because i have no one i can do that with. what can i do? im young too so how can i find someone to do that with?

So my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a while now. But here recently things have been going down hill. And I'm starting to think it's just me. Everything he does pretty much is annoying me. Like he's always made cocky sex jokes about himself in bed...and I've always laughed or grinned at them (Even if I didn't think they were funny) But now they irritate me and make me wanna roll my eyes. Things that use to not bother are now bothering me and idk why. Last week I was on my monthly and my boyfriend is completely against period sex. Normally I brush it off and accept the fact that I'm not going to have sex for a week. He's the only guy I've ever dated that's had a problem with a woman's period. This past week it's really bugged me. Part of me thinks he's being selfish. I have sex with him whenever he wants to, even if I'm not in the mood. But whenever im on the last few days of my period and really in the mood he completely says no. Idk maybe it's just me being hormonal. I just feel like my needs are not getting met. Sexually or emotionally. Cause whenever I try to talk to him about my feelings he just gives short replies and tells me he loves me. I just feel alone and idk what to do or how to make this better. I care about him a lot but I don't know how to get him to meet me half way on things I need/want from him.

So i girl i work with randomly complimented me the other day while i was talking to another coworker paying no attention to her. She stood really close to me as i was talking to my other coworker. I seen her staring at me from the corner of my eye and as soon as she could she told me i have really long eyelashes. She said it kinda seductively and we held eye contact for like 6 to 7 seconds. I said thx and walked off even my coworker flat out told her that was random. Idk why but it seemes like she was hitting on me.i dont really talk to her much at all cuz im shy so it was a bit odd. Im a good looking guy but shes gorgeous so i get nervous.is she into me? Shes alson told me i smell good once. But she has my number and i have hers but we only text eachother if its something for work. I dont think she likes me because i think she would initiate a text other than work.

It's old and been in the weather.

I call her cupcake in light of the fact she loves to eat especially sweets She does not seem to mind but is it cute? Her Pic https://scontent-iad3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/16472872_10212167816533237_1850966301181032220_n.jpg?oh=e3303208cf81265ff4bb762c40674767&oe=594728AB She loves the name at first I thought she would hate it meaning that I thought she was fat but I don t I think shes cute!

My GF and I have been dating two years. She is a freshman in college and goes to school pretty close to home and has her car up there with her. I love her and she is really amazing. College stresses her out and she hates the work and she cries almost every night about it (yes, it's very frustrating) but I help her any way I can. I do some of her work and I try to pep talk her. Anyway, my issue starts with next year. I don't think either of us want to break up, but I really really really do not want to go to the school she goes to. I really don't like the school. I visited with her and I didn't like the area and I just do not want to go there. I want to go to the school my brother goes to but they deferred me so I have to wait on that. But, I got into a different school that i love. It has an amazing program for my desired degree, it's a big school which I love, it's near a city, and it's pretty close to home also just in the opposite direction from where my girlfriend's school is, but this means we can still come home and meet each other a lot because were both pretty close to home. However, my girlfriend keeps telling me to go to her school. she gets really upset when I tell her I don't want to go there and she says "so you like this school instead of me?" In reality, it doesn't have to do with her I just love the school I got into and I don't like her school, however she keeps trying to guilt me and we keep fighting on the matter because we are both sticking to our guns. I refuse to go there, so how do I handle (and stop) these fights and try to have her be happy for me and stay committed to our relationship rather than just argue all the time?

So I started seeing a guy that I sorta knew in high school but we never spoke until recently. We're in college now. So here's the chain of events: Last Monday we met up and hit it off super well and ended up making out. Then I saw him on Wednesday because I went to see his concert in Hollywood (he's in a band). The next day on Thursday night we hung out listening to music and other intimate things but we didn't have sex or anything, BUT I am not a hookups person so I casually brought it up. I specifically asked him if he was a hookups or relationship person and he said he's never just hooked up with someone so I just kinda took that with a grain of salt. Then on Saturday night I told him he could come over and he did around 1 am and we watched a movie and we did like intimate things like just cuddling and he played with my hair and held my hand and it felt pretty couple-y you know? After a while of all this the clothes started coming off and I couldn't help but ask him again. So he tells me this stuff about how he's never been in a relationship and all this has happened so fast and he needs time to think and he left. Things haven't been the same since. He slowly stopped texting me and talking to me and I know i didn't say anything wrong, he's just scared off. I didn't try and pressure him but I think he felt pressured. I just tried to let him know what my intentions were and now things are different. I need to know how to undo this! Guy advice is greatly appreciated!

They had gone to a party and she brought him back to stay at our house. I usually have my kids sleep in my room and lock the door when he's over but i forgot he would be staying over, although my kids did sleep in my room, i did not lock the door. I was trying to fall asleep and to get my kid to fall asleep when i felt a cold hand touching my ***. I thought it was my kid since it was dark and kids aren't mindful of where they put their hands, so I told my kid to go to sleep. She said it wasn't her and I saw a large person sitting at the end of my bed. I didn't want to freak my kid out so I lit my phone up while asking who are you and saw that it was my sister's boyfriend. I asked him why he touched me and he was just rambling nonsense, cursing, and pacing at the foot of my bed. I told my sister and got her boyfriend to leave and she broke up with him. A few days later they got back together and I've expressed that I don't want to ever see him again. She stopped bringing him over but is now about to move out with him. I have told her how much it has hurt me that she chose to stay with him especially since they haven't been dating long and that I am in a lot of distress because the incident revived past emotions from being raped and violated. Everyone seems to keep focusing on the idea that he was drunk and assaulted me by accident, but accident or not, I am having a hard time getting past the pain and betrayal. Am I overreacting?

I work with this guy named James who talks to me some times not all of the time ..today we worked together just me and him ... and he asked me when was my 21st birthday and I told him it's coming up in August and he said "if you ever want someone to smoke or drink with them I'm your guy" he said I like to turn up and I laughed and said I'll keep that in mind... a few hours later James went to the bathroom and my team leader moved me to the other side of the warehouse so once we went to break James walked up beside me and said "so you just left me at this side of the warehouse by myself "? I said "our team leader moved me to help out with the other side And he said "how are we gonna make this relationship work if you leave and don't tell me when or where you going" and he said we"re supposed to be like this (he pushed his hands together ) and I said we are like that And then he said how are we going to have a glass and you don't tell me when to put the water and ice in I laughed because I was confused and walked to break Once I came back from break I walked past him and he asked me "where are you going now?" I said @back to the side of the warehouse I was moved to " and he said "I was about to talk to you and I said I gotta go" then he smiled rolled his eyes and said bye

Like you know in general, how do you tell if someone likes you?

One minute he's telling me how much he loves me then he just disappears. Also he broke up with me once but he's the one that came back to me. I'm not the type to force anything or force anyone to stay with me.. But my question is what should i do?

Forty year old never married and no kids. Works part time and goes to school part time but owns his own home etc. He's a recovering drug addiction but done a TON to turn his life around. Gets a job at a law office and starts dating a single mom w three kids. GREAT w the kids and always kind and thoughtful. However he struggles w money so new gf loans him quite a bit. To help w school,his mortgage etc. Then she finds out he met a woman in his AA group who he regularly spends alone time w (either his house or hers). Red flag?

I've been told I'm not too bad looking, just very shy and not social. I'm asian and it's hard to talk to girls for me, other guys seem to have no trouble, is it just asian guys mostly?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month. (It's long distance) I like to text him in the morning so he has something to look at when he wakes up and say"Good morning Honey! I hope you have a wonderful day today xx" or something very similar to it. Do you think this could annoy him or get old?

Well I met this girl like 2 weeks ago and I notice that she was shy every time we talked so the first time, the conversation was alright I though she wasn't interested, the second time she showed more interest as shy try to make eye contacts a lot with me when I told her I liked her eyes color, the third time it got awkward since I gave her a kitkat white chocolate bar. She wanted to give back but I told her I got 6 more bars on my backpack.. Next time she avoided me on the place I usually find her and today's he did that too, but I found her but pretended I didn't saw her since I was seating and pretended that I was talking on the phone lol. But since that chocolate bar she been avoiding me.. I can't tell she is shy from the way she talks and the way she lower her voice that I can barely get to hear what she say... Any advice on what I should do?

Hey guys as u can see by the title, i am wondering if i should change to a girl, i have really been thinking about it lately. I feel like its too late tho. I am a 16 year old guy,i already went through puberty, even my voice is really deep. But ever since I was a little kid I was interested in girl stuff. allof my friends were girls and we played "barbie" and dolls. one of my favorite things to do, was wait for my siblings and parents to leave the house so i could try on my moms shoes and stuff sothey wouldnt know, i even tried on her dress xD. my family is worried because i dont have a girlfriend yet. I have never actually been in a relationship. My parents sometimes ask me why I act like a girl, I tell them iits who i am, and they get mad. I never actually told anyone about this, except you guys. it saddens me that i never did anything about it sooner, what do u guys think? should i change?

I've been talking to this guy for a little.... We met online. We have great conversation. He told me that he has never dated out of his race before or even looked. He figured that I wouldn't like him because we aren't of the same race. We have very very similar minds and get along great. He still hasn't asked me to go out yet. He literally stays 6 miles away and even told me exactly where he works as if he's throwing a hint that he wants me to stop by. His work about 5-10 minutes away. Is he afraid of asking me out? It's very hard to tell. How do I make him comfortable.

Must I even ask lol He says I'm really nice and his actions and words seem to say that he cares... But don't go off being naive sarbear, what he really cares about is netflix and chill. Don't even question it.

Curious...

We are both 15 and I literally can't even last 30 seconds from sex and I can see she is disappointed even though she tries not to show it. Even is she accidentally brushes against me I can bust in my pants. When she gives me head or hj, I have to close my ******* eyes because if I don't, I will see how ******* sexy she looks with my erection in her mouth and just bust immediately. I ******* hate myself and I'm stating to think I should tell her to find another guy who can please her in bed

Me and my girlfriend are 15. I'm turning 16 in a week. We have been together for 2 years and we have been close friends since forever. I love her and she loves me. She just makes me really horny nowadays. The other day we were cuddling and watching a movie at her house and she started rubbing her *** against my dick and I got really hard. She turned around, gave me the cutest smile ever, and said "one more year babe" (we agreed no sex until 16). And then started rubbing my hard one and making out. It was soooo hot and I just needed her so bad. when I got home, I was still hard and had to get rid of it by wanking. I went back to her house the next day and she stared rubbing her pussy(through her jeans) against it and it felt so good and I was almost begging her to skip the year and do something quick. She smiled at me, grabbed my hand and pulled me upstars to her room, layed me back, and I fealt a chemical reaction as she took off my pants and started sucking me off. After about 20 seconds, I came and she swallowed it all. Now I get hard whenever I think of her and wanking doesn't cover it! I NEED HER!!! I haven't felt this way about her, or anyone, ever and I don't think this is normal and it's driving me crazy. Help???

He is older than me by 16 years, he has no children, he has been divorced and now is single. It's been months ever since we started to talk to one another. When we usually talk he makes the first move. I've realized from all the woman around. He only does this too me. If I'm sitting down and he is standing up. He will usually squat down/kneel down to be on my eye level to talk. He walks by me and he nudges/riches my arm. And usually when. I wear a clip on my hair. He will walk by and will take off my hair clip. And he also puts his hand on top of Munoz head and massages/caresses it. Than he will laugh and smile when he does it. He also asks what plans I have for the weekend. If I say nothing. He replies with "I'm going to (place), you should go to". I don't know if that's asking me out or not.

She's in my L.A. class and I talk to her a lot, but mostly about how much we hate the teacher. The other day she shouted across the hall to me just to say hi (in a flirty voice.) She looks at me a lot in class, and we exchange glances every time the teacher says something cringy. I want to ask her to the end of the year dance. Also I'm 13 and in 8th grade. I know I already asked this but I want more answers so...

Danny is a sci-fi/fantasy nerd. At the college computer lab, he plays a Star Wars RTS wondering "I wonder if I'll ever find love." A voice from the future says "I can tell you that." A portal opens, and Danny learns the physical description of the woman he'll marry; BUT he fails to get her name or see her face. When Danny returns to the present, he runs into his older-taller best friend Winnie. Danny so happy describes all the details. Winnie smiles knowing every last detail matches Winnie perfectly. Then Danny says to Winnie "Ok, gotta run. Playing Pokemon Go, I have to see any are by the Sears Tower." Winnie watches as Danny walks away. On the way, Danny says to himself "I wonder how long it'd be until I finally meet the woman I'm destine to be with . . ." . . . Now you reading this have just be teleported to Danny's location. What would you say to him right now?

I sit in front of a girl and she sometimes flips her hair but like flip flip..She also turns around to pass me a paper aND I guess she looks at me...She also dresses really good but I don't know if she does it for fun or to impress someone. .

This guy I see in the break room every day, and we talk every time we see each other. He's married, and I have a crush on him. He probably knows this, but I always mention his wife, and neither he or me would cross the line. I've know him now for about 5 months. Today a friend of mine, this girl was in the break room with me. He met her once before about 3 months ago. When he came to talk to me, he said to hi how are you? Big smile on his face and then looked over at me once. But then continued to talk to her about her telling him she hurt herself at work. Then then brought him to tell her a story about hurting himself. I felt at this point like I wasn't even there. After about 10 minutes he said see you later guys, as he turned to look at me his mouth had a downturned look to it. Something I've never seen him do before. Did this mean anything at all. He did kind of hurt my feelings by not looking my way at all, during the conversation until he finally said goodbye!

I have been with my boyfriend almost a year and a half and he has cheated (multiple times and yes I stayed please don't comment rudely about it) and after being together so long I still love him and frankly I kinda don't care about it anymore. I really don't know if he has for been unfaithful for awhile but I have been told he was. But it's a weird feeling and idk what it means. Like I love him to death and lately I don't care so much if he's being faithful. I wish he was but in some weird way I don't care as long as it's me he comes back to at the end of the day. Is that bad? What does it mean? PLEASE NO MEAN COMMENTS!

This guy I've been talking to for almost 2 weeks now and I'm starting to like him except he lives in Dominican Republic and I live way in Florida . I'm 19 and he's 23 but my mom is really strict and barely lets me go anywhere I doubt she'll ever let me go out of the country should I stop talking to him before I get too involved or just wait until I'm a little older to visit him ?