My sisters boyfriend recently moved in with my family and I like a month and a half ago and I'm still not comfortable with him. It's weird like when theres no one home or we are alone in the same room it's awkward he doesn't talk he's shy, that's what my sister said. Every time I walk in the living room he looks up and stares at me walk by. One time I was going to go to the kitchen when something interesting was happening on tv I stopped midway and was standing watching the tv and when I glanced at the mirror to look at myself (because we have a big mirror in our living room) I saw him staring at me through the mirror, my sister was right next to him sleeping. It creeped me out. Also we were at a family party and I was dancing with my dad when I glanced at where my family was sitting and saw my brother and him were the only ones at the table but my brother was on his phone and he was just staring at me. Same when we had some guest everyone was watching a movie and I went to the bathroom I came back and when I walked into the living room where everyone was I saw everyone watching the movie except for him, he was staring at me. Every time I'm eating I feel uncomfortable because he has long hair and when he bends his head down to "look" at his food, he not actually looking at his food hes staring at me but you can't really tell bc of his hair. And on Christmas he invited his friends and they were all staring at me and he told me to come say hi but idk I felt weird about it.

I've been trying to find people who can help me with this birthday wish for my boyfriend. I just need one picture from them and nobody is really willing to help. All i get is some mean people with some harsh comments. Is it really that hard being nice to someone?

who has behavior issues he has a one-on-one at school for just for his behavior and goes to a special behavior intervention School. She has gotten a million times better at school recently and also has gotten better at home..... Butts he has learned a lot of new words that he never used before so it s going to the school such as b**** s*** hoe f*** you and many others. So when he comes home he constantly insults me for no reason I could just be talking and having a normal conversation and he will call me names. What can I do for discipline for this Behavior because it really tears me down and puts me in a crappy State of Mind. Nothing seems to faze him as far as discipline goes so I need some extreme intervention advice Spell check kept putting she instead of HE but I have a 12 year old son who is doing this stuff

so im thinking of telling my family about me wanting to become a girl but i dont know how most of them will react but the biggest person im worried about is my older sister and im terrified that she wont accept me if i tell her

I'm a sophomore in highschool and my mom seems to have already mapped out my future :/ she wants me to be either a doctor or a lawyer or a marine biologist.. but I just want to be an actress or an artist.. I love acting. I know it's hard to get big in acting but that's what I wanna do.. or even an artist. I love anything in the arts. I don't wanna be a doctor or whatever I just wanna do what I love but every time I tell her she gets upset and doesn't listen.. how can I try to just talk to her?

When do letters usually arrive? Do the post office delivered mail on the 31st & 1st or not since it s the new year. Is that why it s taking so long for my letter to get here?

btw my son weighs 80 pounds and he's 11

My good friend called today and he is at his mom's bedside. She is dying from Parkinsons and other medical problems she has had long term. He thought he was ready for this but no way. What more can I say to help him except I am so sorry?

I graduated in 2013 and it seems that most of them are now either engaged, pregnant, or married. Does that mean that I am a loser since they have found the right one? I have never even had a first kiss but yet people tell me that I don't need make up.

She is 26 and I am 19 we live next to each other because our husbands are brothers and they work with the same company. Well, my cousin has babysat for me the past few months and taken me to my appointments and my son's. She stopped babysitting due to her giving birth to her third child the 22nd of last month. I have had to struggle with getting a babysitter and now every week in a particular day, she asks me to stay a few minutes with her kids while they're sleeping while she has to run across the street to get milk for the baby or some diapers or just some random **** that she needs. She says she will pay me but I tell her no. I am not going to go out in this cold and get sick or just because she feels like going out. I have told her no and made up excuses and now she won't talk to me or won't take care of my kid. Not even for a few minutes while his dad gets home. I am tired of her asking me so I don't know what to do.

Prove it.Crazy.What about her reaction?

My GF gets me to me work out in the public park dressed like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0T8UTXVG5M She brings along a picnic and usually invites one or two friends. While I work out, they eat, laugh and make comments about me. Passers by also sometimes make cat calls or take photos. This happens about once a week, and I'm worried I'm becoming a laughing stock. My GF agrees it's a bit kinky but says she gets such a kick out of it that she insists I carry on. Should I go along with it? And BTW it's a long workout - over an hour's push-ups, jogging, stretches, sit-up, back-lifts, pull-ups on bars, dips, touching toes and plies - so I get tired, sweaty and embarrassed while GF and friends enjoy the show and eat their lunch. Sometimes they deem that I've done an exercise badly/lazily so I have to start it again. I only go along with this for fear of being dumped.

I know it sounds obvious. He wants sex and hasn't met someone else etc. But we've been broken up for 9 months and I've seen him 4 or 5 times. He wants to cuddle me and hold my hand and talk about his day and bring up memories, but he s not a good boyfriend and he knows. he s 33 and used to being alone (no family, & no proper friends). Why doesn't he look for someone else? In a way, maybe he feels secure because I understand him but why does he want to be all affectionate. He won't talk about it when I try to message him about it. He wanted to go for a drink over xmas. I've told him I can't do this. This time I told him again in a long message & that he doesn't care really, because if I meet up with him, the next day we won't talk again & I just want to move forward. all he replied was "have a great new year R__ x" He hasn't been online since.

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Let's say your married to a 29 year old man. He cooks, cleans and is kind. One day while he's sleeping he tosses and turns, he eventually starts to cry In his sleep then says I'm so sorry I couldn't protect you and cries more, his body shakes a little. What would you do?

I know it sounds obvious. He wants sex and hasn't met someone else etc. But we've been broken up for 9 months and I've seen him 4 or 5 times. He wants to cuddle me and hold my hand and talk about his day and bring up memories, but he s not a good boyfriend and he knows. he s 33 and used to being alone (no family, & no proper friends). Why doesn't he look for someone else? In a way, maybe he feels secure because I understand him but why does he want to be all affectionate. He won't talk about it when I try to message him about it. He wanted to go for a drink over xmas. I've told him I can't do this. This time I told him again in a long message & that he doesn't care really, because if I meet up with him, the next day we won't talk again & I just want to move forward. all he replied was "have a great new year R__ x" He hasn't been online since.

In my senior year of high school, my best friends took me into a room after an iffy game of truth-or-dare, stuck his hands in my pants, and held onto my legs so strongly that I woke up with bruises. I tried to get him off by laughing and saying "stop" quite forcefully, but he kept laughing right back and saying, "but I don't want to." I cried through the whole thing. Eventually he asked if we should "finish up," and I said no, at which point he finally stopped and moved to the floor to sleep. I was shaking so hard from fear that he kept saying "if you're still shaking in a few minutes I'm coming over there to keep you warm." I kept saying not to, but finally he crawled over, grabbed my leg, and spooned me without letting me move. It was one of the scariest experiences of my entire life, especially since this was my best friend. The last thing he said before falling asleep was, "Thank you for making me feel so good, bestie." About a year later I told another one of my best male friends of that friend group what had happened, and of course he launched into the "I don't want to victim blame, BUT..." and listed all the ways I could have prevented it from happening. Even though he said he wouldn't tell anybody else, suddenly nobody wanted to talk to me anymore. I still see both of them in photos together all the time, along with everybody else who I used to be so close to. Should I confront the second friend? Give up on the "friendships"? Try to explain myself to others? I'd also like to mention that I am not looking to take legal action. I do not believe that he thinks what he did was assault, even though he wouldn't stop when I asked him to, and even though I had bruises, etc. He did know I was in another relationship at the time, which was ruined by that night. I'm afraid nobody will believe me either. He's considered to be Mr. Perfect by everyone around him- Extremely popular, academically brilliant, charming, handsome...

I was talking to a guy whom I met for the first time about how a mutual co-worker's husband left her and was cheating on her. He brought up how he loved his wife following this conversation and made sure that I was looking at him and then looked me up and down in an obvious way, then made eye contact with me again and didn't look away and had a blank expression on his face. I looked away and I tried to contain my laugh but started laughing and walked away from him after he looked me up and down. I sort of insulted him by saying "thanks for doing my job" and left.i'm not sure if he caught the insult because I was laughing when I said it. Right after this happened he drove by work and stopped in front of my window and drove off. Since this has happened I noticed that he will drive by work or park in front of it quite often. Once I noticed that his car was in my vicinity 3 times in one day in places that I normally go during the day and if he drives by, he will drive by twice. I noticed that he stopped following me around when I talked to a mutual co-worker that we both work with and told him I was involved with someone told my follower. Why was he doing this? Do guys do this if they like a girl for attention? He's close to 30 and seems confident in himself. I avoided him since he looked me up and down in such a creepy way.

Hi I have 15 years and sometimes I feel ugly and horrible bc anyone (boys) noticed me, everyone say that I have a good personality but seriously guys, did you really focus on the personality of a girl? Most of the guys of these ages only look for hot and popular girls and I'm not like those girls, I'm not a nerd but I'm not popular or hot so guys what is your opinion?? What did you recommend me?

Now before we begin, let me make one thing clear. I didn't move out. I am still living with my parents. I had some old toys and childhood keepsakes that were stored in the basement. One day, I went downstairs to the basement to search for my stuff and found out that all of stuff from my childhood are all gone! When I ask my dad about it, He just simply said, 'welll I thought you don't wan't it anymore, so I donated it to the thrift store. He just assume that I didn't want the stuff anymore without even asking me. If he doesn't want my stuff to be in his basement, he could've just tell me about it, I'm more than willing to put my stuff back into my living room. He didn't even bother to ask me about it. I really don't understand why does he do that? I was quite shocked by this because he had never done such a thing like that before. In the past, he rarely even goes through my stuff and throw my things away without asking me. My dad is a short tempered man, I was afraid to ask him for an explanation. So I asked my mom to do it for me. When my mother confronted my dad about it, he get angry, defensive and ignores her. He doesn't even bother to give any explanation.

which would you do? Put off going to school for a year to try for our second baby and be able to stay home with it for about 5 months. Or put off having a baby for a year and do school now and put the baby right into daycare when i start work after the baby is born??

I know at least 2 people who do it...swear they'd never cheat, one has been cheated on actually....but they're enabling cheating by hooking up with a person who is married and their spouse doesn't know. Seems to be the norm...does that make sense to you? What is even more twisted is the guy who is sleeping with married women says he has trust issues in women because so many of them are cheating...AKA the POS he's sleeping with. No I'm not jealous because it seems kind of desperate ...just curious how that mindset works.

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She has to be an obese black chick. She started harassing me through thin walls, since I moved here and a few months ago, I figured she knows what I think. She reiterates it, while she harasses me to get what she wants. According to a interpersonal communication textbook, fat people make you hate them and they are stage hogs. By the way, she is housing a low ballin Mexican drug dealer that is stalking and threatening my family and me. They are at Bixby Hill Manor #8. This is psychologicall abusive and stressful as hell.

I started collecting Pop Funko and I basically tried showing my mom them because I thought they were cute. Anyways she didnt say much except that i shouldnt be spending all my money on them (mind you i used my christmas money, my dad gave me a $75 giftcard to anywhere and I got $40 cash. I have a job and have an interview for a second job that if i get it i would start working after next week is over because the store is opening up soon and thats what i was asked on the phone interview, if i can start work in januaruy) But besides that i kinda got hurt because i enjoy collecting. I see people who make videos on youtube with collections over 100 of them. I also collect Archie comics and basically i accidently saw a text on my moms phone saying she was worried about my future because i collect comics (she asked me to text my godfather while she was driving, handed me her phone and i saw it ) Is it stupid to collect things? I will be turning 24 years old next month but my mom kinda got mad when I kinda looked hurt because she was like "are you serious?" like i wasnt acting my age :/ (i know i can move out just my bf and i are waiting till he gets this new job that pays him a lot of money he finds out tomorrow)

And if I'm the one making the rythm/moving if the makes sense. Is there anything i can do to help me? I'm a female btw

I really don't like them they are not comfy to me and make me feel like im constantly having a panic attack.. is there any barely there ones or something you'd suggest ..

My boyfriend has been in town for a week. We had sex the first day he got hhere, and every day from there. I was on my period when he first got here. A couple days later, in the middle of my heavy period, it stopped completely. Which never happens with my period. I've been very nauseous, very light headed. I've had light cramping. My mom took me to the hospital and they gave me a urine test. They told me I'm not pregnant. I've heard that hospitals can't even detect a pregnancy when it's not even a week in. My boyfriend and I do not use protection . He pulls out, which I am still very aware I can still get pregnant from that, because occasionaly semen will come out without either person knowing it

He told me about how his father abandoned him and his mother before he was born and how she died when he was a only 6 years old. During the time she was in the hospital he stayed with some relatives for some years until she passed away. And when he went to high-school he left to live on his own. I m not sure what to think or say about it. It doesn t change how I feel about him one bit and I really appreciate that he had opened up to me. But now I m afraid of what he might think about me knowing. I feel now that I m walking on eggshells whenever we talk. I m so afraid that I might hurt him inadvertently by something that I would say that might remind him of his past. For someone that had to go through what he had makes me utterly speechless because I highly doubt I would be strong enough to handle the pain of loneliness. I love him so much and do not want to lose him. But I don t know how I can help him forget that past and focus instead on the present. Am I being selfish about all this? Because I couldn t stop crying after he told me about it. I don t want him to think that I pity him or feel sorry for him...but I really do...I want to be strong for him but my heart breaks everytime I remember the look in his eyes when he told me about it all. Can someone please help me figure out what I should do?

I just got home from taking my boyfriend home. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

I'm from Egypt , and had a few relationships with girls in my country but the problem is i feel attractive to foreigns ! i love the way they think and their open minds and that's a thing i didn't find it with Egyptians .. i only talk with tourists at pyramids but not more than that

my question is dumb. but I really want to know. I want to know why a man who many say is happily married would say to someone else all the terrible things about his wife. also she would post on fb funny little things they do together. This happened to me. he complained she always spent to much money, she gained to much weight, he didn't like mentioning her around me and if he did he seemed disgusted by it. Lately he comments on things she posts but to me its more like a friend post. People tell me that he will always be a cheating person. We haven't seen each other since Thanksgiving. he hasn't made any advances except when he told me he would see me around and where he liked to hang out. I haven't done anything. we did like each other but nothing happened so that's my question why would he

My mom and friends always buy me earrings. I do like earrings but they are not my favorite type of jewelry. One of the reasons they aren t is because one of my earrings is slightly lower on the earlobe when I wear earrings because I snagged my piercing one time. My mom knows this but says it s barely noticeable. My mom is always asking me do you like them when she gives me a new pair. I appreciate them but among all types of jewelry, why is that everyone buys me earrings specifically? Are they better or something?

I was talking with my coworker yesterday and we were talking about this girl that had a lot of drama with the guys (not in a bad way) she's older like in her 40's so everyone loves her and trusts her so they tell her everything. Anyways we were talking about a guy and he was literally a few feet away from us and she said that he likes this girl and then she said "oh and he also asked me if you have a boyfriend" what does that mean? We've never talked so I found it strange when she told me that he asked about me. He looks like a serious guy and I've been told that I always look mad lol but I'm just curious