Family: Question: My brothers children wont be quiet!?

Question: My brothers children wont be quiet!?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:40 PM PST

My brother lives with my mom and I. He was supposed to move out months ago but he stayed way past his welcome. His kids get dropped off (joint custody) to our house like every other day. My mom has to work nights and all day my brother s kids are screaming and yelling and running around with no respect for my mother. They often go in her room and wake her up just to tell her something. My brother does nothing to stop it, he just feeds them more and more sugar because he thinks hes spoiling them and never teaches them lessons. I feel bad for my mom that she gets no sleep, its just ridiculous. My mom has tried to tell my brother to teach them a lesson but he never does, and when either my mom or I try to lecture at them they don t listen at all. It s ridiculous, I don t know how children can be so disrespectful.

Question: My sister is a bully how do I deal with a bully?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:30 PM PST

She is a really really really bad person my sister is.

Question: Why does my sister want to act like my mom after turning 18??

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:29 PM PST

OK this is literally the ONLY thing I d change about my older sister. Before, we were fine. Both teenagers trying to survive high school. She understood my problems and felt mutual difficulty with them. But then BAM she turns 18 and she starts acting like my mom, ESPECIALLY after she went off to college. She s A YEAR AND A HALF older than me. NOT EVEN TWO YEARS. Is this a thing that happens to a lot of people?? For example, she s suddenly acting like she knows everything. "Don t do this, don t do that, you shouldn t be acting like that" sometimes EVEN saying crap like that in front of my friends. YOU RE A YEAR OLDER THAN ME, QUIT TELLING I M EATING MY APPLE WRONG. And then omg, with school! Like "are you sure you re doing homework? Yeah right, I m going to watch you study." And stuff like "really?? Let me see if you really did your homework." CHICK, I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF THANKS. IM A SENIOR. I can t do it anymore. WHAT SHOJLD I DO

Question: I think that my mother is emotionally abusing me. What do I do?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:28 PM PST

She says things like "You ruin everything" "You are such a ******* *****" "Don t ******* talk to me" "You are disastrous" "You are ugly on the inside and out" I have tried to kill myself, and I cry myself to sleep almost every night. I stay away from her most times because I m afraid she will hurt me. She says all I m good for is picking fights and being a *****. I m only 13 and I wish I was never born.

Question: My father is cheating on my mom? Help?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:27 PM PST

My father lives in another city, due his job. I see him only once a month, but we share Apple ID. Once I was setting up my new macbook and I saw really, really NASTY pictures of him with a woman, who isn't my mother for sure. These photos are really inappropriate. Also he has photos of her in his phone. I am shocked. But, the worst thing is, He actually GIVES MY MOTHER'S MONEY TO HER. Few days ago my mother and father saw each other. When my mother came back, she was talking to my grandmother, when she said to her: "He said that he needed some money for his work, so i gave it to him." Meanwhile, he apparently screenshoted his conversation with that "side girl" where he says that he has EXACTLY THAT AMOUNT OF MONEY, which my mom gave to him. And that he is coming. P.S He is taking that woman everywhere. My mom pays my whole school tuition, because she thinks that he has not got money. I am really scared and i don't know what to do.

Question: My mother likes to hurt my dad's relationship with his family. How do I get her to see this?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:25 PM PST

She doesn't feel comfortable around his family because they were raised different than she was and so she hold him back from his family and holds all of us back. We can see them occasionally but not much where is she worships her family and sees them weekly. How do I get her to see the damage she is doing?

Question: My grampa died today and I don't know what to do?!?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:16 PM PST

My grampa died today of Parkinson's disease,well complications of the disease.He was at the hospital and I just can't stop crying. My uncle tried to comfort me and he's familiar with losing someone as he lost his son in 2009 in Iraq,and we talked about death and told me that he doesn't talk about his son but he opened up with me and talked to me about how was losing him and it was hell but it will get better and I want to believe him but I just miss my grampa so much and wish he was still here. Any adivce? I'm a wreck right now

Question: What can I do if my mom abuses me?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:13 PM PST

one of my sisters suppose to had washed the dishes but she started to blame me after me and her stopped arguing she asked my mom who should wash the dishes my mom said I should but I have just did the dishes on New Years morning and she still made me go wash them so I did. As I was washing dishes I dropped a spoon it fell on the floor my mom came rushing into the kitchen naked I just ignored it and and started washing this glass cup and next thing I know is she fired a punch to my face I blanked out and she kept knocking me in and out of conscious as I was still holding the glass she took me by my hair and banged my head into the glass and it shattered and she said "now look what you did I m gonna beat your a** then I was saying no no no you did that and she wrapped her hands around my neck and choked me I couldn t breathe so I started scratching her arms so she could let go then I just blanked out I woke up on the floor with glass shattered everywhere and my scalp was busted open and a bleeding nose but I started cleaning up the mess this have happened multiple times once she blacked my eye and she told me she was gonna kill me idk why she doesn t do my other siblings like this she takes her anger out on me for all her problems but I give up I wanna be with a family that s gonna love me please tell me what I should do I just don t wanna live in this house!😪

Question: Is there a way to legally disassociate yourself with a family member?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:05 PM PST

Is there a legal way to completely remove certain people from your family history and family chain to make it seem as though they were, and never will be, part of your life? In the future these people, who were family, will not show up on record as family or being related to you?

Question: I enjoy my son being around while home from college?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 12:50 PM PST

my husband and I are constantly fighting, husband is a no good broke loser, meanwhile my son works out ,his body is amazing and his c.ock is huge. how could my sons be so nice yet my husbands like a snail?

Question: In the state of Florida is it legal to live with someone other then my parents and can I take my stuff even if my parents bought it for me?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 12:50 PM PST

I am 17 and I turn 18 in a few months. My boyfriend is 18. I need to leave my home because my mom has psychological break downs and takes her anger out on me. She blames me for her marital issues with my dad and as well as emotional/ psychological abuse she has hit me, pulled my hair, etc. I need to get out. She has told me I can leave and when I get my stuff packed she physically will stand in frount of the door and won t let me go, she says I can t take my stuff because she "bought it". I can t leave without my stuff because I need my wokr shirts and backpack for school and stuff. Now my boyfriends parents told me I can come stay with them but as far as leavening what can I take and what will happen to me if I do. I have a job and can pretty much provide for myself but as far as anything else what can I do? Please help!

Question: I want to live with my grandma on my dad's side of the family.?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 12:49 PM PST

16 years old, I have no credits in high school and I'm supposed to be a sophomore. This is because during my freshman year I did literally nothing. But when we moved I had new goals for myself. Me and my mom got into a fight about school while I was there and literally called the police on me, I was 15 at the time and They wouldn't even let me speak. They said I have no rights. I was getting honor rolls but these were only progress reports, not my actual grades. When my little brother had became a type 1 diabetic we had to move back to get the help from family and friends but this created a problem for me. If I moved Back then I wouldn't get any of my credits from the semester. My mom was making me go back to live with one of her friends that I hardly even knew until the semester ended until she gave me the option to stay later on. I choose to stay. All of my credits went down the drain. Now, even if I goto summer school I still won't make up all of my credits because the only let me take 2 classes, however the schools in my grandma's district let's you attend night classes along with summer school to get the credits that I need. But my mom isn't letting me She says that she's not letting me make my own decisions on school anymore and that she doesnt trust me and That I shouldn't have stayed and should've went to go get the credits. we are currently homeless living with her mom who is a very heavy smoker and I have asthma. I'd goto school smelling like smoke, What should I do

Question: Why did my mom marry and stay with an abusive man?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 12:33 PM PST

He lied to her, hit her, verbally abused her, never cared for her. Yet she chose to have me and my sister. She had college education, but why didn't she decide that she deserved better? Almost everyday my dad hurts her. She just cares that she is pretty and stays at home and complains.

Question: How can I move out of my house underage?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 12:19 PM PST

I m 15 and I can t live at home anymore. My dad is very controlling and abusive but I know if I leave he WILL call the cops and will not stop until I m found and under his control again. I would never call CPS because that would destroy the rest of my family but I honestly can t stay at home any longer. In my state I can t file for emancipation for another year and even the I don t know how I d support myself. I think if I find a way to move out I can stay with my friend and her family.

Question: Is 13 to young to do this?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 11:54 AM PST

I live around 45 minutes away on a train to London. I'm used to the area, I've been there many times. I was 13 on November 10th. I want to go in February. I would be going with my best friend, who lived in London for 5 years. We would take the train to London and take a tube a couple of spots. We would meet her auntie there. Would you let your child do this? My parents won't let me go. How can I persuade them?

Question: What do I do about having a terrible last name?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 11:38 AM PST

My last name is really French and tough for people to understand/pronounce/remember (if you want to see how to pronounce it here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSZxf4Hb... ) and it's Tournier. I even can't pronounce it correctly, as I am not French nor can do a decent French imitation of saying it, so I just say "Tour-nieh" or something like that. I don't know phonetics. I plan on going into politics, maybe someday running for office, and a last name like this really sucks for that because I'm guessing nobody would feel like voting for someone who they don't even know how to pronounce their name. What can I do to fix this? I don't want to go to my mom's maiden name or anything, so can I do anything about it?

Question: My parents tell me everyday they wish they have not given birth to me. whatever I try to do to please them never seems works out.?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 11:37 AM PST

My parents tell me everyday that they wish to not have given birth to me. They hate me and I know it. I just want to know how to change this. What should I do?

Question: How do i move from USA to north korea? pls help, serious question?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 11:33 AM PST

hi im 14 and live in US ( michigan) n my dad is so mean he always tells me wat to do and not stay out late like ok dad im grown i want to stay out late, n im sick of teachers and ppl bein stupid to me. i heard north korea is nice and strong and i saw videos of kim jong un being happy n doin good things for the ppl, how do i move there im tired of being told wat to do!!

Question: My dad found out that my mom cheats on him? Should I involve in this or just stay put?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 11:29 AM PST

Question: My parents are annoying me telling me what job i should do in life?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 11:28 AM PST

Originally I plan on wanting to be a police officer or join the military. I still want to join the military. The telling me I should either go for barbering, electrical or plumbing. It's so annoying because they told me to go for medical and other stuff but then their opinion changes every 5 minutes. It's so annoying I'm 15 and I still don't know what I do with life and they're annoying you about it

Question: I'm sick of being forced to babysit?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 11:12 AM PST

I'm 18 and I live with my parents and my younger sister and both of my parents work so I am forced to babysit whenever my mother is working and I can't ever go out and I'm sick of being forced to look after my sister as she isn't my child or my responsibility and I don't know how to tell my parents that I don't want to babysit anymore I'm missing out on everything I can't go out to town with my friends and I only get to see my boyfriend once a week and its causing me to be very depressed and jealous of my friends who don't have any siblings I really need help but I'm unsure how to bring it up to my parents

Question: I feel horrible for crying to her, why was she mad at me?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 10:53 AM PST

I'm dealing with the loss of my 2 aunts and my older friend came to check on me. I was very sick and cry and she was comforting me, I was saying how upset I was and how unbearable things were becoming. She was hugging me. Then I started saying " My anxiety builds as I get older because I know more losses are coming." Then she said "sweetie stop" and then she added "do you think your loved ones would like you being so torn apart?.. imagine how happy they must be in Heaven-" Was she getting mad at me when she told me "sweetie stop"

Question: Concerned for the well-being of my niece.?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 10:25 AM PST

My niece is nine and currently the oldest of five children. She is mature for her age, I'd say. Her biological father is not in her life, but she sees my brother as her father and her sibling's. I just came into her life about 2 years ago, with my father and other brother and feel that we are good influences for her. Now to get to my concerns... Her mom, my sister-in-law was talking to my dad and I, explaining that when her bio-father was allowed visiting rights, he showed up twice, once late, then never again and this caused my niece to have a complete breakdown saying "He doesn't love me. Why doesn't he love me" she was only six at the time. Then, she was complaining to me that she doesn't have any friends and when she did, they turned from her (what sounded like bullying to me). While babysitting the kids a few weeks back, I heard her say she'd much rather be in heaven than on earth (religious family). And then while they were going to sleep, she asked my dad's gf if she regretted anything. I questioned why she was asking, in my head. My niece seems to take the big sister role very well, but at times it seems she gets bored/ stressed with it and states she hates being the oldest. I am only five years older than her, but also am mature for my age. I've gone through a variety of mental health related issues in my life, and I think that causes my concern. So, how could I deal with my concern? My sister-in-law and brother are great parents, but I feel can get "distracted." I want to get through to my niece that I'm here for her and she can talk to me, without scaring her or going off rambling to her parents what we talked about. She's nine, and I've never dealt with someone her age who was struggling. I know I could completely be overlooking this. Any opinions/suggestions/advice/stories would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance. Sorry for the length, I am a rambler.

Question: Should I use was or is?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 09:47 AM PST

My mom passed 2 years ago and I'm struggling to decide whether I should say is or was when saying her name. Either "My mom is Nancy" or "My mom was Nancy." Seriously, what do you think? It's really bothering me, but I don't want to be a bother to my family members anymore... Which is a whole other story. Thanks in advance!

Question: Will there be any consequences if I leave home before I turn 18?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 09:40 AM PST

I was adopted by my uncle. I am currently 17 years old with 3 months left until I turn 18. I ve been patiently waiting to move out of his house for the longest and literally cannot wait anymore. I have been planning to move out as soon as I turned 18 for years. I stay locked in the house and also feel very unappreciated throughout it. I feel like he adopted me to get a check every month. Anyways, I want to go live with my biological father who has done more for me than my uncle ever has. I go to school, I am currently a senior and am on track to graduate. I have a job that pays pretty well for someone my age. I m just wondering if I left, could my uncle do anything?

Question: How do I explain to my parents that I am comfortable in my room and I just don t enjoy socializing?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 09:29 AM PST

I am 13 years old and I am at a stage in my life where I just want to stay in my room all day and every time I come out my parents yell at me about how I never do come out. They always nag me and if I did go downstairs there is nothing to do but I m my room I do lots of things I enjoy , mostly reading too. They don t listen when I tell them. What do I do

Question: My sister is really mean she's a beast. How do we get her not to bug us anymore?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 09:05 AM PST

Question: My mother hates having kids but she had five kids. Why does she hate having us? What could be the reasons?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 08:47 AM PST

Question: Is there a necklace thing like Life Alert that instead of calling the paramedics, call a friend or family member?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 08:32 AM PST

VERY long story short, my grandmother is sick and falls down a lot and can t get up. My cousin stays with her most of the day to stop her from falling and from doing things that might make her fall, but because my cousin has a year old baby and is a single mom, she gets distracted with her kid and leave my grandmother alone on occasion. My grandmother can t really yell, and can t get up when she falls and she is sooo old and sick that one fall and she is forever in the nursing home. I am in search of a necklace, bracelet, or something of that sort, so when my grandmother falls, if she presses the button on her necklace, it will call my cousin or another family member instead of the paramedics. ( my grandmother has Life Alert but she lives in the middle of the woods, in Northern Wisconsin. It takes too long for even one police officer to show up if she uses life alert)

Question: If I wear leggings or high heels my dad looks at my butt and legs.He gets angry if I tell mom.I wish I would have a father?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 08:24 AM PST

Question: Help me please.?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 08:19 AM PST

Good Afternoon, so recently my dad started to get mad for unique things, therefore my life is changing (bad to worst) One day I was in my auncle's house celebrating the New Year. And when we were eating, my dad starts to shot is voice out to my sister, because my sister started to criticize his wrong opinion, so he started to shut her mouth up so loudly and he starts to get up and get my auncle's house out. Since then he changed totally and I'm worried about my mum. We can't talk to him, If we do, he starts to do the same thing. He thinks he's always right. He's egocentric. I study always with him about maths, But my grades are coming down. I'm getting depressed 'cause of that. And he says that is my fault, I know, It's a bit my fault. BTW, my auncle and my aunt think he is horrible person. I'm from Portugal, sorry for my bad English, So I've written this mensage just to help me, to motivate me, to see in a different way the life.

Question: My brother's wife is hated by my Mom and step-Dad. Should I join the bandwagon and hate her?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 07:20 AM PST

She is very quiet so we have to initiate conversations when she is visiting. She and her husband (they don't have kids) seem like they have to be entertained when visiting. She also is superstitious so like if they try to have a baby she doesn't want anyone to know they are trying or it will bring bad luck. Lastly, she makes weird sounds with her throat (like a tic syndrome thing). All these things my mother complains about when they visit. The wife was raised in a dysfunctional family (her mother is an alcoholic and her father is on his 4th marriage) so I kind of feel sorry for her. She is much sweeter then her mother and her father I only met at the wedding. Her sister is a drug addict real bad though her brother is nice. So my question is do I join the bandwagon with my Mom and step-Dad as well as my half-sister and step-brother and just hate her? Now that they have gone back home after the holidays should I make wisecracks about how good it is she is gone when I see my Mom and step-Dad next weekend? My mother's hate for her is what I can do to fit in but I don't really hate her and I think her being quiet and maybe hard to entertain is not grounds to hate someone. I mark anonymous due to mentioning a family secret, normally I dont

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic. How do I cope with the constant criticism of him from my Mom who is bitter and divorced him but remains bitter?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 07:12 AM PST

I don't mind his drinking much as I am mature and understand it is an illness that only the addict can change. However, I do mind my mother's constant bitterness to him and her daily insults but I am 16 and can't move out yet. My Mom divorced him when I was 9 and has devoted her life to ruining mine by trying to keep me from having a Dad. She is addicted to her anger and thus the real addict (though I don't deny my Dad is an alcoholic). She also cuts him down to others whenever she can. Part of her family's Christmas was devoted to her and her Mom (my maternal grandmother) cutting him down. Asking her to stop doesn't work anymore then asking my Dad not to drink anymore.

Question: Is this wrong?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 07:10 AM PST

So my uncle from my dad's side of the family rings our door bell aggressively at 8 in the morning today. As he talks with my dad pretty loudly, they turn on the tv and put cartoons for my uncle's 3 year old son who he brought over. The house is pretty small so you can hear everything going on. Eventually they leave, and I go to see what I thought I was hearing, and I was hearing correctly. My uncle had opened a Christmas present under my tree for his son, and the Christmas present wasn't even for his son, it clearly said another kid's name and not his. The present was for my mom's 3 year old nephew. My mom's brother was going to drive from New Jersey all the way to Boston just to pick up this present sometime today. But apparently my dad "felt bad" for his nephew, and allowed him to steal the present my own mother choose for her own nephew. He "felt bad" only because he ripped open the present, saw that it was a toy, and wanted it. My dad sees nothing wrong in this situation. My uncle just sat there, allowing his son to take things that aren't his. My dad's nephew, the one who they allowed to steal the present, is not a poor child, he has many toys and his dad makes A LOT of money, meanwhile the other kid (the one who the present was actually intend for) is pretty poor and they just barely can afford diapers. My mother put a lot of thought into this present, since it took her a long time to choose that specific toy, and it was the last one in the store as well. Btw: the whole time my uncle knew the present wasn't for his son. Also if you made it this far hey

Question: My mum can made my life so horrible.?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 06:48 AM PST

i'm 16. basically my mum was seeing someone but he went homeless so he now lives here which is the first time i have lived with someone else apart from my mum. I have mild autism and find it really hard to cope with someone else living here but i have no choice or he will go homeless. It's caused so many issues for me and my life just feels horrible and i just find it extremely hard to cope with him living here. I have tried telling my mum how i feel but she just shouts. I really don't know what i should do. I feel anxious quite often since he has moved in. I went to the hospital for a yearly checkup recently, he chatted to me and my mum and said it takes time but i don't feel anything is getting better for me.

Question: My Ex is not taking me to court for child support--HELP.?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 06:48 AM PST

After going through hell with my son for the past 3 years. I was finally able to get up the strength to put him out back in October 2016 to go live with his father. His and father had been playing so many games and doing everything to make my life miserable. I was diagnosed with High Blood Pressure a few years ago do to all the stress I had gone through with the both of them. I've been in and out of court begging for assistance with dealing with dad and doing what I can to keep my son on the right path. I even moved to a very expensive town so that he could go to one of the best high schools in the state. I am currently stuck in my lease until September of this year paying extremely high rent. My son doesn't call...or visit me at all. Since he has been with his father his grades has dropped and he is in danger of not graduating from high school. His teacher told me he is always falling asleep in school and just doing any of his assignments. A few days ago I received a court notice stating that his father was taking me to court for child support and 50% of his college fees. Why should I be responsible for paying half of anything for a child who I no longer speak with? Dad wanted him...now he has him...so take care of him I still have primary custody...of the child. This was his plan all the long. What are my options? How should handle being taken to court?

Question: I hate my mom?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 06:40 AM PST

My mom was marine to my dad for 15 years She was not working and my dad did all the work When we moved to the us my dad went to h vack school For a and my mom kicked him out saying he was a lazy bastard When I came over here she lied to me about my dad being a bad guy and abandoning her for another woman My mom always loved her sisters kid more than me proof is she took all my games and gave them and I had nothing to do She starved me so she could send them money I am 16 my dad has marine my step mom and she is way nicer than my own mom I love her more than my mom and wish my mom could disappear She always making fun of me or yelling at me for like stupid things then calls me retarded while she can't even solve a basic quadratic equation without my help I am a straight A student and I am a senior I really hate her like really and I'd about her at all

Question: Ever since I turned 18 my father has put so much expectations on me?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 06:30 AM PST

He expects me to act like a 21 year old minus the drinking. Whenever I have a complaint he says "Oh you're 18 now you're so selfish. I can kick you out if I want to" I can't take it anymore! I can't move out because if I leave i'll have to pay off college by myself.

Question: Kicking out family member, because they refuse to lose weight?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 06:29 AM PST

My son has a 28 inch waist he weighs 129 pounds he is 5 foot 6, my daughter has a 26 inch waist she weighs 124 poudns she is 5 foot 7. I don't let them choose what they want to eat. They call me a "jerk" but I am not one. For breakfast I allow them to eat 150 calories, for lunch I let them eat 300 calories, for dinner I let them eat 250 calories. Why are they so rude to me? I have been doing this off and on to them for 5 years!

Question: My mother and I spend hours each week gossiping about my Dad and his drinking. Is there anything wrong with this?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 06:07 AM PST

My Mom won't let us see him and since I have no friends it is how my Mom and I bond. I have seen someone else on Yahoo continuously complain their mother won't let them see their alcoholic Dad but for me it is different, for me it allows my Mom and I to bond. I know all the details of his messy sex life, those who enable him, drunken behavior, his out of wedlock child he only met once, his finances, and among other stuff his possible racism. Christmas Day my Mom and I spent two hours alone together and so we gossiped most the time about my Dad and about an affair my Mom's brother had (dirty details I never knew from his 2006 divorce). My brother gets mad as he still sees our Dad but since my Mom is my best friend I refuse to associate with anyone she dislikes or has hurt her. If my Dad died I'd celebrate with a firework show. So is this okay since it brings us together? Does my brother make any sense in objecting or is he just another dirty enabler? NOTE----I am 18 and my brother is 23.

Question: How do I handle a mother who hates daughter-in-law and is mean to all in-laws except one sister-in-law?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 06:01 AM PST

She has extreme cruelty to non-blood family. The daughter-in-law she hates is not my wife ( I am single). It is my brother's wife. She is nice to one in-law and that is my Dad's only sister who my mother knew as a kid and met my Dad through. She likes her.

Question: Is it weird to be really close to your brother?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 05:08 AM PST

I'm a 16-year old girl and my brother is 14. We've always been really close both physically and mentally, we're best friends. I have always been kind of a boyish girl/tomboy, so when we were younger we used to wrestle a lot (and we still sometimes do if we fight over the tv remote or something). We hug, hold hands and sit really close, sometimes I play with his hair. I never really realized this myself, until someone mistook us as a couple. Othe people have done it too, and my grandma says that she finds it weird how close we are even though we're opposite genders (like she was referring to incest). I find it gross, I'd never think of my brother that way (besides I'm lesbian). But it's starting to bother me how people point it out more and more as we get older. Do you think it's weird to be so close to my brother, and should I stop it??

Question: A relative didn't call me back for a Christmas visit. Are they still close family even if I didn't see them at Christmas?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 04:47 AM PST

This person gets overwhelmed easily so while she saw her sister's family and I suspect the brother and his family she did not call back when my Mom and I came to town the week after Christmas (28th until today). We saw the one sister and the brother and all the one sister's family. But this other sister didn't call back so I figure "oh well" as I don't want to call more then once. I saw the one sister at a party Thanksgiving Weekend though haven't seen her kids since a funeral back in July. So my question is since she is nice when she sees us can she and her kids still count as close family or is Christmas like a test for who is close and who is not since we are 15 minutes from where she and her 3 kids live (she is divorced). For some reason I worry about this as I want to be close to all family of aunts-uncles- and first cousins (all 4 grandparents have died).

Question: HELP---How do I figure out how my mother's mind works, read below?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 04:37 AM PST

All my mother did Christmas Week was complain that my sister and her husband wouldn't leave. She complained about her son-in-law's loud voice (he just happens to have a loud voice) and how even though she states she knows they can't help it, how loud their two kids with ADHD are. She also complained they needed to be entertained (I agree there). Now they have gone back to Texas and my mother's complaint is that her son never comes over and she never gets to see him or his wife. So which is it? She complains her daughter is around too much and complains her son and his wife don't come over (they live an hour away). Now I begin to wonder what she says about me. My other sister is an alcoholic so that brings a set of complaints as well. So how does her mind work in that she doesn't like how much she had to see her daughter's family but is annoyed she doesn't get to see her son. And how do I know which complaints she has about me the 27 year old son with anxiety and also talks a lot (I do). I am ADHD just like these two grandkids though an more mature now as an adult. ANY THOUGHTS? OF NOTE---The alcoholic sister is NOT the one with the two kids and loud husband (the alcoholic sister is the youngest and the other sister in a family of two boys and two girls).

Question: On new years, my son gave my girl friend and I ride home and we flashed random people?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 04:09 AM PST

On new years my girl friend and I were drunk and my son gave us a drive home he is 20, and on our way home as my friend and were in the backseat, we just had some fun and flashed random people coming home. I haven't done it in years and she hasn't either so we did it for fun. My son didn't see anything besides us saying we were doing it. When we got home, and relaxed on the couch my son asked if we would flash him for picking us up, so we did, just our bras, but he wanted to see us full boobs so we saved yes and we ended up flashing him and leaving our shirts off. Now my son says he feels awkward leaving here, how can I fix it ? I thought it was all in fun.

Question: Is it weird to be really close with your brother?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 04:04 AM PST

I'm a 16-year old girl and my brother is 14. We've always been really close both physically and mentally, we're best friends. I have always been kind of a boyish girl/tomboy, so when we were younger we used to wrestle a lot (and we still sometimes do if we fight over the tv remote or something). We hug, hold hands and sit really close, sometimes I play with his hair. I never really realized this myself, until someone mistook us as a couple. Othe people have done it too, and my grandma says that she finds it weird how close we are even though we're opposite genders (like she was referring to incest). I find it gross, I'd never think of my brother that way (besides I'm lesbian). But it's starting to bother me how people point it out more and more as we get older. Do you think it's weird to be so close to my brother, and should I stop it??

Question: How do you handle having your feelings hurt so bad you want to just die?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 03:55 AM PST

Especially by a family member

Question: Depressed miss my mom?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 03:06 AM PST

I lost my mom when i was six. She had cancer. I m male and 16 now. I get depressed when i think about her. Especially when i see other kids with their mom. Also because she is the only person who loved me. Nobody else really does. Nobody really started showing that maybe they cared about 2 years ago but its still pretty much the same. I know my mom would have cared for me. Nobody can take her place. I would do anything to have her back. I love and i miss her so much. I wish i could have made memories with her like every other mother and child. I know she would want me to be happy. i try, but it hurts so much knowing shes not here. I just miss and love her very very much.

Question: My panties n sons drawer, thought maybe I mixed up laundry, days later I caught him sniffing my panties in his room. Is this normal? Help?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 02:44 AM PST

Question: My father tries to make me feel guilty about living with him?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 02:25 AM PST

i just dont wanna be with my crazy mother anymore. he says that i have no idea the amount of things he does for me. he shouts at me. forces me to do things,tries to start any argument possible all the ******* time. it's like he wants me gone so that he can see his booty call or something. he hates me. he hates me. I WANT HIM TO DIE SO I CAN HAVE THE HOUSE TO MYSELF. I WANT HIM TO ******* DIE AND TAKE ALL OF HIS ******* MONEY.

Question: I m a 23 year old female.I ve never had sex .My father always told me not to speak to men.We syatyed at home al day.He called mum assfucked.?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 02:16 AM PST

Now I m 23 he touches me all the time.He finds dust on my thighs.He says youre a woman and you will find a man and have a relationship and you will sleep together.What is this?????

Question: I've been acting out (bad behavior wise) and I'm not really sure why, can anyone help?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:34 AM PST

So basically around two or three months ago me and my friends drank. Bad idea, we are way underage and it wasn't smart. I knew it was wrong when I did it but I did it anyways. Then the next week me and my ex boyfriend (at the time current boyfriend) snuck off and skipped and got caught. Again I knew it was wrong but did it anyways. After that everything was good until my parents found out I said I wanted to commit suicide. Not sure why I said it, I think it was just how I felt at the time but I didn't mean I was going to do it. Then after that I snuck a guy into my house and got caught. Again with knowing it was wrong. Each time my parents talk to me and each time I get attention and each time I lose trust and each time I look dumb. Thanks to those who can help, I'm 13 years old. I shouldn't be acting like this. Would you tell me how to stop?plz

Question: I am jealous of my husband-daugther relationship or should I be worried?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:29 AM PST

My husband and I adopted our only daughter from fostercare since she was nearly 12. Having come from a mentally-ill and abusive single mother didn't stop her from being the compassionate, virtuous, pure heart, and honest person she is. (Like coming home 3 hours before curfew when as a highschooler.) Initially, she was silent, fearful, and distant from our family....having only communicated with my husband. Over the years, she has opened communication with the rest of us, but she makes it VERY clear that she loves daddy more (than me..her mom). She is currently in her late 20s, never had a boyfriend, and has lived with us since I fell ill a few years back. While she is a big help around the house, I feel she is abit "in the way". Father day and "Daddy's Bday" are her favorite days (well, ANY holiday that she can spoil him), and she proves it by buying my husband extravagant gifts: Bvlgari watch, croc loafers, Alaska fishing trip, cruises, liquors, vacations, exotic car rentals, etc. Ugh, just fattens and spoils him to death! But gives me lack-luster gifts: brunch at restaurant down the street, massage packages, fancy candy, perfume oils/salts, treadmill (like I'm the fat one??). Nowadays, all my husband talk about are her detailed cleaning, rich 6-7 course meals/ desserts, and accomplishments to everyone. Not that I'm ungrateful, but I feel left out and replaced as his wife. She'll make a great wife, but I wish she puts all of her efforts in finding her OWN husband.

Question: After I told my mum that my dad is always staring at my butt and legs she yelled at me ,told him about it and know he touches me .?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:26 AM PST

He says I have dust on my thighs and wipes the dust.I told my grandmother and she told him and he threatened to kill me.He hit me.What to do?

Question: What do I do about having a terrible last name?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:16 AM PST

My last name is really French and tough for people to understand/pronounce/remember (if you want to see how to pronounce it here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSZxf4Hbr9M ) and it's Tournier. I even can't pronounce it correctly, as I am not French nor can do a decent French imitation of saying it, so I just say "Tour-nieh" or something like that. I don't know phonetics. I plan on going into politics, maybe someday running for office, and a last name like this really sucks for that because I'm guessing nobody would feel like voting for someone who they don't even know how to pronounce their name. What can I do to fix this? I don't want to go to my mom's maiden name or anything, so can I do anything about it?

Question: How do I tell my mom I'm depressed so that she will listen to me? If she doesn't listen then who do I tell? She won't listen when I tell her?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 01:00 AM PST

Question: Is it beta to tell on my frat bro for raping a woman?

Posted: 02 Jan 2017 12:46 AM PST

I saw my frat brother have sex with a woman who was intoxicated. If I told on him would i be considered beta?

Question: Did you grow up in a very large family? Like, with 4 more siblings.?

Posted: 01 Jan 2017 11:46 PM PST

I'm just wondering what that was like. I'm around my two nieces all the time and they're such a handful and it's diffcult to not give one of them more attention than the other one which they hate. And these are actually good kids.

Question: How can I get my 17 year old daughter to understand that her father and I aren't trying to make her life miserable-we love her?

Posted: 01 Jan 2017 11:25 PM PST

She hates our rules, feels entitled to have a drivers license and car, and constantly disrespects us. We only ask that she talks with respect and follows our rules. She makes very bad decisions regarding boys which has made it tough to trust her. She has 4 siblings that she's setting a bad example for. She wants to move out when she turns 18. I know she'll regret it. Maybe family counseling?

Question: Whefe do old ladies usually hang out ?

Posted: 01 Jan 2017 10:51 PM PST

Like over 45.... this is for my grandamother to make friends