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| Question: Why does Vietnam have the lowest divorce rate ? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:07 PM PDT I think it is because Vietnamese people are so friendly and kind and many people are not stuck on materialism as much as Americans could this be so. I lived in a town where vitally 70% of the people have been divorced at least one time and are paying child support or alimony maybe it makes sense to date a Vietnamese women . What do you think ? |
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| Question: T or F - you've cheated at least once in your life? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:14 PM PDT |
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| Question: Why is it that husbands want sex but won't make it fun for wives? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 07:31 PM PDT |
| Question: I need some pointers plz.? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 07:12 PM PDT I am a new/first time stay at home mom and my husband works but with today's economy were living paycheck to paycheck and he wont let me go to work...(I've tried but it starts an argument) anyways does anyone know of jobs I can do to make a few extra dollars from home. I'm doing college online and taking care of new baby so watching other children is off the table till my daughter is walking and on solid foods. Any ideas and tips would be much appreciated. |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:35 PM PDT My mother went on to alienate us from our Dad out of malice though I later got close to him. The guilt has stayed with me for life. I remember every detail of that day when they had the fight and my mother told us Dad doesn't love us anymore (she kicked him out because of his personality flaws). |
| Question: I'm 49 never married? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:58 PM PDT I'm 49 never married not birth any children of my own I cared fort lateen and dad for 10 years till they passed and now I'm afraid ill be all alone now |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:28 PM PDT She has liked this guy for years and years and no matter what she and her husband do together she cannot quit thinking about him. She wanted me to say she thinks if she tells him she will be relieved and be able to lice happy with her husband stress free. She trusts herself but doesn't know how to tell him. Hes always around other people while at work should she give him a note and what should she say? She doesn't want a relationship however!? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:07 PM PDT I told him if we have sex, I would prefer if he didn't have sex with anyone else. He asked what will he get out of the deal?? If he is completely with me, what does he want, I don't understand, I've tried to get him to explain but he says nevermind. |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:03 PM PDT His reframe was offset. It has been exactly 6 months since he filed. I live in NY. Child support can not offer me any help as to when the money will be deposited into my account. Has anyone been in this same situation in the past and can tell me when they will release the money? |
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| Question: She tried to kill me?!? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 04:36 PM PDT My husband & I have a 12 year age difference. I met him when he was 30 & I was 18. He had been married previously w/ two children. When they got a divorce, they had shared custody but the children lived with his ex-wife (Call her Z) primarily. For the most part everything was fine for the 1 year he was single after the divorce. She would try to start fights with him on Facebook ( the only reason he didn't block her was so he could see what stuff she put up on their children) & he saw how she was always going out to a club or something but other than that they had a civil relationship & she was normal. Anyway when he started dating me, she began to act strange, and as the years went by of me & him dating, it escalated. Then after five years of us being together, we got married & this is when she lost it. She neglected the kids horribly, and was always showing up to our house to harass us. She harassed us on Facebook, instagram, etc. My husband then said that he was going to try & gain full custody of his children. I stood behind him, and told the children (when they told me they would rather have me be their mom then her) that I would take care of them the way they deserve. Anyhow, half way through the court proceedings, three men come to my house & try to kill me. I was injured pretty badly but I survived, and it was later found out that Z set it up. We did gain full custody, I adopted the children but now his MOL is saying that she deserves custody not us. WTF |
| Question: Want to bang my wife? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 04:02 PM PDT I'll let you come over and bang my wife while I do the dishes. Deal? |
| Question: Baby mama court drama!? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 03:44 PM PDT Basically, I met my husband when I was 18, and he was 30. Despite the age difference we ended up dating for five years before we married once another two years ago. At the time of our meeting, we both worked at a dollar store, and because he had moved to this state from NYC after exiting from a gang, he had nothing to his name. As of now he owns his own shop (hes a mechanic), and I am a teacher. We are pretty well off financially due to my inheritance (from a relative nobody in my family knew we had) so finances aren't an issue at all with us. Anyway last year a stripper got into contact with us, and told us that her son & daughter were my husband's kids. He knows how shady his past is, so he got a DNA test & the two kids are indeed his. She only got into contact with us for money, and after seeing the way she spent it (the way the children lived, etc) my husband & I decided to go for custody. Now so far it would seem that the odds are in our favor. They are 9 & 10 years old, and are both two grades behind because they missed SO much school. They weigh much less than they should because they hardly ever eat unless it's when we watch them, and we had to pay extensive amounts of money to get their teeth cleaned & fixed because of how bad they originally were. The mother doesn't take care of them at all. On top of all that, the kids confided in us that they would much rather live with us than their mother. My question is, are the issues she's saying we have valid? (MORE BELOW) 1. She is saying because my husband & I are of different races, the kids will be picked on. Plus I will be adopting them, so they will get picked on for being adopted. That might happen, but is that really enough to make a judge not grant custody. 2. The age difference is way big, and my husband is busy raising me. That is literally what she said. I am 27 now. I'm pretty sure I'm a grown woman. 3. I have a history of depression. 4. My husband was a gang member (SHES A STRIPPER!) Please explain how the hell her claims are valid, and when I say valid, I mean claims that a judge will hold against us when deciding whether or not we get custody. |
| Question: I don't love my husband? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 03:34 PM PDT We argue, went to marriage counseling but that did not work. He was told to take anger management classes but refuses to. We are like fighting friends. I want a divorce but how should I tell him without him being mad? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 03:13 PM PDT I didn't see this coming & late last night while I was at work he moved all of his clothes & other belongings out of the house. I have been texting & calling him & I have only received one reply, him telling me to leave him alone & that he's done with me, I ask why I get no reply. I am just shocked & heartbroken, he's not texting me back, not calling me or anything. What do I do? |
| Question: How can I get wife to understand her place is in the kitchen? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:44 PM PDT |
| Question: How to deal with being in love with a married woman? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:41 PM PDT I'm so sick of trying to do things what society think is right and proper and beingMISERABLE. I just want to break the RULES and maybe I will be HAPPY. It sucks to be in love to married chick. |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:36 PM PDT |
| Question: I don t love my husband but how can I tell him I want a divorce without getting mad.? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:33 PM PDT |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:32 PM PDT Nowadays, would you say that women who remain single, be it out of bad luck in not meeting a compatible partner or over occupation with their career or other reasons, are less than content with their lot? Do they usually envy those who settled down and have a child or two? I know that one can adopt nowadays, but it's not the same as doing so with a partner. There is the other argument, that many marriages are shams and those that come clean on the sham separate or divorce. I'd like your opinion. Thank you. |
| Question: PaySafeCad Paying error? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:31 PM PDT I bought a paysafecard pin, it was around 80$. I cant pay with it, i tried on several pages. It redirects me to a paysafecard "under maintance" page. I was trying for a month! On the first day, I wrote to the support, still, I have the "we will investigate the problem" email. Anyone? |
| Question: How can I trust my husband when he's away for a weekend? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:24 PM PDT My husband is away for the weekend to visit his uncle on a "guys" trip that I was asked not to even drive down with him. I talked to him after the first morning telling him about a dream that I had kind of laughing it off, saying "I had a dream you guys went to hooters and got really drunk"... He responded "we did go to hooters". I about busted up, not because it was funny, but I was shocked he actually went. He has gone before and I told him my feelings then, but he doesn't seem to care that it makes me uncomfortable. I have no idea what else he has done down there but I'm super worried there is more than just hooters. |
| Question: Help. I just discovered that my wife has been having sex with her father. What do I do? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:10 PM PDT |
| Question: Is he desperate or crazy? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:07 PM PDT I met a married man off okcupid who is in a open relationship with his wife (she is aware of it) and the first time we met, not a date, the first time we just met in person, he asked me to be his girlfriend. Before we met in person, he asked me to be his online girlfriend. He's a really sweet guy and he's actually attractive, which confuses me, because most attractive people do not come off as 'clingy' or 'desperate'.... He's been married for 11 years and has children. i'm just wondering what would cause a person to act like this, and should i be scared/worried? He also wanted to kiss me on the first meeting in public, but i denied and said sorry i don't kiss people right away. He's always offering to help me out (i'm in a crappy situation at the moment-financially) which is super sweet. Is this a red flag....? |
| Question: I dont find anniversarys important? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:50 PM PDT is this a weird thing to think? I do not believe that it is important and should do anything on an anniversary. But he thinks the complete opposite. Are anniversarys really all that significant? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:40 PM PDT And after giving birth ,e.g she doesn t remember anything ,about him..and also other two boys she was attracted to..at university,but not the idea of attraction? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:13 PM PDT My husband of 10 years hasn't been able to hold a steady job the entire time we've been together. He keeps a job temporarily for 3 to 12 months and then he gets fired or laid off. Then he'll be unemployed for 1 to 2 years and it's difficult for him to find a job. We're in a large city so I'm not sure how this is possible. I don't know anyone else who has been unemployed this long. I always put up with it though, and I always felt bad, just thinking he has bad luck. But now that it's happened again, I'm starting to doubt it's just bad luck. He's now been unemployed for 4 months. He insists he's job hunting but he hasn't been on a single job interview yet. I also feel bad because he moved real far, 10 years ago, to be with me. He has nobody in our city. Every time he loses his job he tosses around the idea of just going back home. I can't leave here because I have children and I can't take them away from their father. So I have no choice. If he leaves, our relationship is over. I'm just fed up but I feel guilty. I don't know what to do or how many more chances he needs. I get child support for my kids, and then my parents also give me some money because I can't support him and I on one income anymore. If he leaves then I can move into a smaller place and I won't need my parent's support anymore. I also tried talking to him about all this to no avail. He's become lazy and self righteous and thinks he's not doing anything wrong. |
| Question: I think I want a divorce from my wife of 8 years but don't know how to do it.? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:19 PM PDT We don't have children nor assets we share, which is probably because we try to live independently avoid any co-dependency. She's been a good companion but I'm no longer sexually attracted to her. I think it's unfair to me and to her for us to remain together as we no longer have a physical relationship. This is not a decision I take lightly. I think about it every day, and I've felt like this for years. I don't know how to do this...I don't have the heart to tell her that I want out. I thought about moving out and calling the following day to discuss.... What would you do? |
| Question: What would you name triplets starting with E? (all girls)? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:09 PM PDT My best friend's Name Is Emily Grace Remington and She recently found out she is pregnant with All girl Triplets! Her hubby's name is Drimmix Blaise (yes I know what you are thinking).and her oldest is 7 years old and his name is Duke Blaise Remington ,So in honor of Emily her oldest is Ella Grace Remington.She needs 2 other names /Suggestions!Thank you! |
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| Question: Is it possible for a playboy like me to marry one day? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:06 AM PDT I spend my time with a lot of different girls and honestly sometimes i dont even remember their name, idea of settling down fo good scares me because im afraid i might cheat on my future wife due to my fanciness over different women... Am i mentally sick? |
| Question: How do you calm yourself when your husband wants a weekend to see other women naked? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:04 AM PDT Husband wanted a 3 day weekend to visit his "perverted" uncle who hangs out at hooters, strip clubs, and god knows what else. He said he wanted "guy time". I offered to drive down with him, and give him a day or few with his uncle while I was with our children to try and compromise, but with the intent he would come stay with us in a hotel for the sleeping portion. He flat out refused, and said he wanted to go by himself. How can I calm myself down when I suspect what he is doing? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:55 AM PDT The doll is just an object so having sex with it isnt technically sex, its just masturbation. So would you allow your boyfriend or girlfriend to buy one? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:51 AM PDT Society tells us that you have to look a certain way, wear designer cloths, have to be "confident" aka act in a fake PC way (this is the biggest bunch of BS IMHO), and most important you have to get some utility out of the person. So if I do all that and I get a girlfriend then what that is not who I am. That sounds horrible I would honestly rather just pay for sex when I start to feel really crazy. Why do I even play this game what is the point? |
| Question: Rights of having abortion proven or not? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:51 AM PDT Long story short, my ex-girlfriend and I are expecting. In the middle of the pregnancy and currently she decided to go back to her ex-husband with whom they have 2 children. She now says that she is going to go the route of abortion and is saying that she is not going to let me know anything else because "it's her body and she doesn't owe anyone anything.". I believe she is not going to go through with it. Do I have the legal right to know if she does or not? If she does not go the route of an abortion I am going to try my hardest for primary custody as her ex-husband is a registered SO. Thank you. |
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| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:16 AM PDT Like we both want it but whenever we try doing it she pushes me back and fear the "penetration" because she thinks that a great deal of pain is associated with it. We tried lubricants, talks, foreplay, music...nothing is working...any advice?? |
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| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:07 AM PDT How can anorgasmia lead to the end of a marriage? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:05 AM PDT her sister is now getting more than us. (Been a year for us. We have 3 young kids) Now she is made at me for that comment. Was that wrong of me? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:59 AM PDT My husband is a marine lieutenant we are newly weds. We've recently moved to a small town where a Hooters has just opened up. I'm finishing off my doctorate and need a part time job. I waitressed a lot in undergrad and had a good time doing it! I was thinking of applying to the new Hooters but my husband says it's not a good idea because it's a small town and all of the young enlisted men are sure to be regulars. He doesn't mind he just thinks that they need to respect him and if his wife is a hooters waitress they may not. So is it a good idea for me to apply or is my husband right? Should I get a different job? He doesn't want me waitressing at any restaurant really |
| Question: My boyfriend and I want to get married? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:41 AM PDT My boyfriend and I want to get married in the state of Florida. He lives in Miami but I live in another country. I m staying in Miami till Monday. I want to know if there is any possible way to get the marriage license and get married all on the same day? Ive been told about premarital classes that are needed to avoid a 3 day wait period but supposedly it s for residents only and if I m not a resident I m guessing it doesn t apply to me? Please help!! |
| Question: My parent's are too paranoid? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:38 AM PDT I don't know what to do at this point. My "parents" (mom and grandmother- my dad isn't in the picture) has always been VERY protective of me. I'm getting married in 2 months. When me and my fiance leave the house they both ask where I'm going and exactly what time I'll be home. If I say something like "Oh I don't know maybe around 10" they would say "Can you tell us NOW what time you'll be home". Their obsessive. When they found out I'm walking to work (half a mile in a safe city) when I get married they went CRAZY. They told me they would keep checking up on me WHEN I'M MARRIED. I can't escape. It's been getting worse and worse the older I get. What can I even do? |
| Question: I found out something about my wife. What should I do? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:21 AM PDT Back in 2009 she broke up with me at a time there was an exchange student living at her cousins house, we were together for almost 2 years. He was leaving a month later. I had a feeling that my girlfriend liked him, so when she broke up with me she went to Vegas with him and her cousins family. She lost her virginity to him during the time he was here. I found out after he left and I was heart broken but I still got back with her after she begged me. Later in mid 2011 I asked her to marry me she said yes. I gave her the ring November 2011. We married July 2012. Now 2 weeks ago I found a sd card and wanted to see what was in it. I found out that she would log in to her hotmail and talk with the guy. At the same time she knew we were getting married. I don't know if I should tell her. This happened over 4 years ago and I feel like if I tell her she'll want a divorce. That's how she is. We have 2 toddlers and I don't want to lose them. What should I do? |
| Question: What is worse: Cheating on your partner or spitting in their face? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:16 AM PDT Does cheating on your partner justify being spit on in the face (in the eye) from 6 inches away? |
| Question: I found out something about my wife. What should I do? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:12 AM PDT |
| Question: Why did my ex rub his happy marriage in my face? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 08:48 AM PDT We broke up last year and he got married suspiciously fast to someone else. He contacted me again this year asking how I was doing. I found this pretty odd because based on details I wont go into here, I felt as though he wasnt just innocently asking how I was doing out of the blue. When I told him he shouldnt be texting his ex gf as he is married, he went on a rant about how he doesnt want anything from me and how his wife is so much better than me, more beautiful, kinder and smarter. He said hes very happy and then proceeded to insult me further. Now I understand that I provoked this reaction, but why on earth would he contact me at all if hes so happy? It seems weird to me, and then it also seems weird that he d go on such a rant about his marriage as if hes trying to prove something? I dont get it. Can someone help me understand his motives? |
| Question: When you are in a serious relationship? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 08:42 AM PDT Does your life revolve around that one person? Or do you still go out with other friends and have a life outside of your relationship? Like for females do you go out with your girlfriends? etc. |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 08:41 AM PDT She was having an affair,being colegues at the same place of work....then he seemed to like smb else..and ..he had to marry the other woman..of course some external circumstances took place..but..anyway besides everything..a marriage is smth from god only and he was obliged to marry begire, in order to become priest.. |
| Question: Husband brings up first husband and blames me when we fight? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 07:35 AM PDT For the 3rd time last night, my husband got upset at me for something and all the sudden said "this is why your 1st husband divorced you, because you could not see how he was always right and you were stubborn and wrong." Actually, my first husband ran off with another woman and was physically and mentally abusive of me for the entire 3 years we were together. Without going into details, my ex should have been in trouble for some of the things he did to me. But, when my husband gets mad- he thinks it is cute to sit there and say 'I think you were to blame for this and I think he was to blame for that, but mostly you because there is no 50/50 fault in marriages" he has been told by therapists and others in the family that being a victim of domestic violence caused me to have emotional problems and not to bring it up, but he continues to and always sides with my ex. So, is this normal to do and why does he do it? Oh, and he also says he is the "head over me" and when he tells me to do something, I am to do it without griping. He says a woman has no say so over a man or household and he got this from the Bible. When he does it and goes on and on about me being to blame and deserving it, it triggers vivid flashbacks of the abuse and I have ptsd from it. But he says he still is entitled to do it because I need to "understand that the threat of abuse is no longer there and to get over it" |
| Question: Is it possible to obtain a faster divorce if one's spouse is infertile? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:46 AM PDT Considering that the woman in question hid her infertility issue from the husband all the time while they were dating.. |
| Question: What should I do about abusive husband? Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:40 AM PDT Been married 7 yrs. Have a 6 year old. He loves drinking whisky. Last night he left the house without telling me where he was going and came back hours later drunk. He started calling me names such as ***** and stupid. he even put his fist on my mouth but didn't hit me. He always yells at me and accuses me of cheating. I only make 40K a year and rent is too expensive in my state. I have no family and friends as they are overseas. I want to leave, but feel trapped. What should I do? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:28 AM PDT I got curious on day and saw a picture of her (not naked) on his phone that she sent him. We had a big fight and we decided we were gonna work on it. That same day he got several text messages from her. I don't know what was said but he packed his bags and left the house. Since then he told me he doesn't know what he wants but at the end he knows he wants his marriage to work. Unlike before everytime i call he answers/call back right away. We have been paying all the bills and if I ever need anything he will give it to me. He tells me he loves me,attracted to me, and misses me. We have only seen eachother a couple times and sometimes I just end in tears. I saw a charge for a tendent background check on his acct , I called him about it and he stated he feels like he can't live where he's at anymore and he's just checking his options. Tells me he doesn't think right now he will ever come home and thinks I will resent him and he doesn't want a divorce but thinks maybe it's best. As far as I'm aware he stopped talking to this girl atleast two weeks ago. And i have only talked to him 2xs in the last two weeks. He told me last week when he said that he thinks maybe a divorce is best that he just wants to be alone. I know that we can come back from it, and I really do love him. I'm fighting everyday not to call him. I tell him that he doesn't have to lie to be if he isn't attracted to me , loves me or misses me but he keeps telling me I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:41 AM PDT ... The details about what I did when I went down on her last night. This normal? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:06 AM PDT ... Kids go to sleep. Then will give her a nice massage. No sex in mind, just want to try intimacy other ways. Thoughts? |
| Posted: 07 Aug 2016 04:22 AM PDT She said she read that this is normal. I never bother her about it or try to make moves on her. However I miss the intimacy. We rarely get date nights and my daughter sleeps in our bed (she had medical issues so my wife wants to be by her side). I don't complain to her about it, b/c I heard it will get better when the kids are older. However I am going crazy and not sure what to do about it. Anyone been here it can provide me positive feedback? Thanks all |
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