My fiance is pregnant but doesnt want to have a wedding while she is big. I'm just wondering g what are the pros and cons of waiting and what are the pros and cons of getting married before the baby is here.

SO long story short.. my parents are divorced since i was 3. i've lived with my mom since. my dad has been pretty shitty (another long story). but i still love him cause he's my dad. he got married in the past few years and now his wife is pregnant and will be giving birth soon. i am 21. the baby will be my first sibling and the age gap is obviously huge. but i really want to be part of this baby's life. but my dad's wife has multiple times kept him from doing things with me in the course of 4 years. i haven't seen his wife in 2 years. but now there is a baby shower for her and i have been going back and forth on whether or not i should go?! i know she doesn't like me but i want to be there for this baby especially since my dad and his wife are 50 and 41 years old. awkwardness all around. SO GO OR NO GO?

My adoptive mom is very unstable at times. She says she is a Christian but loves to bring up things that others did in the past that she disagrees with. For instance, after I divorced my 1st hubby- my son and I moved in with her. I was in my 20s and began dating after my divorce was final. My (now) husband lived very far away and at least 1-2 X a week I have to hear about how it was her house and he would stay over all night (rarely, if ever) or stay and hang out late. She had the option to make him go back home to his parents, but she never once did. Instead, nearly a decade later she brings up how he was not a gentleman and stayed late or overnight. I explained to her that she taught me to "forgive and forget" and that perhaps she should seek counseling from her pastor or a licensed therapist (she herself is an RN) for her problems with un forgiveness and anger. She refuses and says she does not do that. Instead, when I make suggestions she projects and begins saying how I have wronged her or what she dislikes about my husband and I. She also begins crying, generally. I realize that she is in her 60s, but she does not have dementia. She was never very attractive, is obese, and was never married. I cannot understand why she is stuck on this issue about my husband. Every time I mention that his teen bros girlfriend stays late @ his parents, she brings this up. We were over 21, this little girl is 15 or 16! Problem is that we rely on her (too much probably) for child care. I work weekends, while my husband works all week as a trucker. She loves to have the upper hand- by refusing to watch our kids so we can go on a date. I told her tonight *(when she got on her soap box about this subject)* that life is too short to sit around wallowing in self pity and unforgiveness and that I refuse to accept a fight from her or her drama any longer. She then began projecting onto me.

Ok so my husband and I were ok he s always been controlling and he did physically hurt me once but I forgave him and we moved passed it but now he s so mean he tells me things like "fat lard" and "fat *****" I ve never been thin not even when we met he knows I don t like it when he tells me this but he does it anyways when he s mad.. Today he got angry he works far so he couldn t hurt me but he said "I wish I could slap you" when all I did was put our 2 kids in snapchat playing with there uncle.. This should not be a reason to fight about but he did and he called me all these names when he knows I m working out and trying to better my self this makes me feel like he always feels this way about me and I feel disgusting.. He told me I didn t run my life he did.. He told me I didn t have a say in anything that I was going to do what he said and that was that.. He is being crazy over something so dumb... I feel ugly and horrible about my self I told him I didn t want to be with a person like that... And all he said was "can t say that s what I want but oh well" I don t know what to do please give me some advice..

Okay, so my boyfriend and I decided together that we wanted to have a baby, so we got pregnant the first time and it miscarried, so we tried again and now I am 21 weeks pregnant. My ex left me to be with someone else and sent me text messages saying that he doesnt want the kid and never wanted it in the first place and all these other blatant lies. So I just stopped talking to him, which is what he wanted, and I haven't had contact with him or his family/friends in two months. He told me that I should just say I dont know who the dad is and that if I try to come after him for child support, he will get custody of my child and give it up for adoption, which I know he would never be able to do. But I am scared that if I do go after him for child support, he will do something and it will be bad. I just dont want my baby to be taken from me and put in his care or his mothers care. They are both very toxic. My ex doesnt even know how to take care of himself, so I dont think he'd be able to take care of a baby. And his mother is a raging alcoholic. I don't want my child around that at all, which is why I am so scared of going after my ex for child support. I really need to speak with someone that has gone through this. If you want, attach an email or something.

I have been married for five years and have two beautiful children. I consider my wife to be intelligent, caring and beautiful. Unfortunately, she has made one bad decision after the next. At this point, it has been too many bad decisions, and I can no longer take it. 1. For example, she took my daughter at 3 months old abroad for four months. It was a decision made between her and her parents. 2. We had a wedding, and she kept all of the gifts. 3. She claims I have been with her because she paid me. 4. For our second child, I was in the hospital three nights and days. On the fourth day I came home to sleep. As I was dressing up my daughter to go pick her up, and the newborn, her parents took the car and drove to pick them up. I wasn't able to be there for the birth certificate. She has opened a separate bank account. 5. I have a good job that I will start soon, and she wants me to share my earnings while she keeps hers to herself. 6. She also totaled our car, and didn't bother to secure my son while driving. Despite all that she has done, and continues to do, I find it difficult to let go...

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Alright. Hi everyone. My boyfriend is 39, I'm 25. His wife is 35, and they have a 10 year old son. I didn't know he was married when I met him, but when I eventually found out, I was initially furious but got over it. We've been dating for 2 years. I'm not sneaking behind his wife's back. She's well aware of my existence, and is cheating on my boyfriend as well. The only reason they haven't divorced yet, is due to our professions. I won't give details, but we're definitely looked at closely by the public eye and there is absolutely no way the two of them could divorce comfortably right now. My boyfriend has given me a date. He said in May 2017, he was divorcing his wife. He always talks about how he wants to have babies with me, and he even built a ******* house. It was a surprise. I didn't know he was doing it. The house is beautiful. He said we'd move into it in May. I just don't know if I believe him or not, you know?

If yes then how?

It's really a question for men/husbands. Do you prefer roughsex, ordinarysex, or slowsex ? And if you like roughsex, what type of things are included ? Also, are there things you would want to do with your wife but don't because you are embarrassed to ask for them ? I'm wondering what men like in general. Thanks !

my ex had the choice between a college in Indy. (Where I am going) and a college in Florida. She always favored the one in Florida and ended up going there. She said she wouldn't do long distance unless it was near perfect from start. which ours wasn't. My question is do you think she used the same "had to be near perfect from start" criteria to see if she wanted to let me impact her college decision? I feel like it's my fault cause I did mess up some before we were dating etc.

He said he didn't want to have any regrets when he was 30. To me that means meeting other women. I guess I'm in shock . He was 21 when he got married, those were his words above. I feel like I have to give up my marriage because my husband wants to relive the last six years of his 20s ?

A very important document came in the mail last week. I said give it to me I ll put it in a safe place, he said "no I am putting it in my own safe place" Today we realize the paper document is gone - it turns out he left in (not even in the envelope) on the table in a pile of junk mail, I threw it away in cleaning up (without taking the time to look through the stack) We each think the other is to blame..? Just to be clear the stack of coupon mailers on the table is NOT what he considers his safe place - he never put it where he said he would. It was a social security number/card for our newborn so something you should kind of try to put up and protect.

I was wondering if I am doing to much or if I should be helping more. My husband pays rent and daycare for our two kids. I take care of everything else, food, formula, electricity, gas, cable, hospital bill (from when I gave birth), saving and help him pay for the car. should I be doing more or am I doing to much and he should fine a way to take care of more.

I have very sensitivities skin. Despite never being over 5 pounds overweight, and then I quickly lost that weight, I have small stretch marks on my hips and thighs. I have lots of dark scars on my legs from minor things like scratching mosquito bites. And I feel like they're not pretty and they're disgusting. I've lived with them for years and still wear shorts, bikinis, etc. but I am mindful of those things and view them as flaws. I talked to him about wanting to get them removed and he was very against it. He's against any cosmetic procedures except in the case of deformities like cleft palates for example. He works in the medical field. I have this short dress I'm wearing to the reception. I wanted to feel like the best version of myself. So I got laser skin resurfacing done on my hips and legs while he was on a business trip. My skin has healed a lot but it is still very red. He feels it's a waste of money. He said I can't believe you would put yourself through that for a few small marks. Why wouldn't you think I would find this offensive because I love you and I think you're beautiful and you think there is something so wrong with you that would do that. Maybe I liked your scars. I see where he's coming from. He's not crazy mad at me, he's just upset which is another reason I wanted to do this when he was out of town. He's an emotional guy and if he saw my skin bright red, crusting and peeling right after my procedure, he would be beside himself. The thing is I was going to do a chemical peel on my face closer to our wedding date. My face heals much faster. If I just take good care of my skin for a few months, actually wash it and apply cream everyday it will be clear. But the peel would be easier and possibly more effective. But since he reacted so strongly, should I not do that?

my wife and i have a 5 year old son together and she is currently 6 months pregnant. she is a stay at home mom and has no formal education or had a job before. we had a pre-nup before we married so she can't get alimony from me. anyways i caught her cheating on me with another woman. so when i divorce her of course they are going to give me custody of the kids because she will be homeless since she has no job, money or family to go to. anyways how much can i get her to pay in child support?

I've become concern with my wife talking to her Ex, I've tried to be understanding since they have a kid over the years but know thier daughter is 23yrs old and married and feel like he can talk directly to his daughter since she is an adult. But my main concern is my wife's actions, it seems that they only talk late at night now especially when she's at work and gets off late like at 12 midnight because when I go pick her up his name pops up wether it's text or call. Or at home he calls around night time again and I usually go in the next room and ignore it but can hear her laughing still. Maybe it's me but it just doesnt feel right because everytime I lean and try to kiss her or hug she turns her face or pushes away. She does it everytime I try to show her any affection. It seems that the way she talks and smiles with her Ex she doesn't do that with me. I've tried to take her out or on trips with just me and her but she still is on that phone with him. Even during one of our arguments she said to me that her Ex still wants her back. I just don't know what to think anymore, we've been married for 21 years already and still dealing with this.

Looking for advise from strangers. My husband is always working. He has no time for me emotionally, not just physically present at home (he is home at some point each day). I spend the summer at the beach with our three kids near my parents and he only comes every other weekend. He did supply us the house here so I can be grateful for that but he is not here ever it feels like and emotionally is not here for me. He will not go to marriage counseling. He says he is uncomfortable with it. Meanwhile I have a soulmate and he is not my husband. I am not having an affair but I do love this man I got to know last summer at the beach. We have spent much of this summer together. My siblings are worried I am having an affair but I am not, I do love the man though and he is my soulmate, not my husband. I have told the man he is my best friend and if I do leave my husband I want to immediately begin dating. Right now we are just best of friends. I don't feel any of that connection with my husband at all. So looking for advise from strangers, be honest.

My husband claims that I have pushed his parents away for years and started stuff and so has my mom. We got over that (I thought) and they live over an hour away. My husbands teen brother has been with the same girl for a year and she of course lives a little closer but is ALWAYS @ their house. I have been asking my mother in law to go shopping or otherwise try to have a relationship and she always has something to do *or so she says*. But, the little girlfriend Tiffany told me that my mother in law takes her shopping and they do stuff together. I realize people are going to do what they want and have free will, but it hurts my feelings that she took Tiffany and hung out with her but always gives me the cold shoulder and I am married to her eldest son and am the mom of her grandkids. My mom suggested I tell her that it hurt my feelings, what should I do and why is she doing this? My relative said she doesnt like me but it too polite to tell me to my face.

Marriage has been a bit rocky the past 3 years. My argument is families dont just run away when it gets hard. We have a 3 year old little girl who I love beyond words. This isn t the first time my wife has gone home with my daughter. I have missed out on ~ 1.5 years of her life already.

I found out recently my husband cheated on me before we got married 6 years ago. We have been married for 6 years. We are 25. I found out by looking in his messages he had sex with 2 girls one was 2 months before we got married and one was a week before we got married. He hasn't cheated since. should I ask him about it or let it go and don't bring it up? I don't want him to think I snooped because wasn't it wrong for me to snoop? They were one night stands

Yes here my question What do you think of a married for 50 yrs telling his wife ;; All my life i thought about having sex with another woman but i never did it because of my religious values This man had all the sex he had wanted with his wife so why he always thought about having sex with other woman and do not give a answer ;; mine your own business because its my husband Mature answer is expect thanks

I married at 21....I am 30 now.... she is not the same....and I am not the same... There are always kids involved....and I love them.. but I can't stand their mother....I don't HATE her.... but I def. don't like nor relate to her anymore...and she doesn't seem concerned at all until I mention leaving... -_- I'm tired....

Is there a waiting period after everything is finalized?

For years there has been a lot of signs of a severe problem within our marriage including severe irritation, lack of interest in things she normally enjoys, withdrawn from our children, and lack of intimacy. I thought it might be that my wife was cheating or something but the more I'm talking about it with people I'm realizing she might be depressed. I've asked to go to couples counseling and she wont. I've suggested going myself and she's fine with it, but she won't go for herself. Any ideas on how to get her help?

. Every year I catch him going onto either dating sites,craigslist and now facebook. Last time I caught him he had said he was too busy to text me at work(understandable) but went looking for a page and came across all these dirty craisglist ads. It took a good year of me with trust issues before we got back to where I was comfortable again and didnt question him. Well Once he was putting dirty ads up when I went to see my dying grandma,when I came home his computer was open and he got defense,which led to a fight and me snooping finding all that. He got so mad he kicked me out in the streets. Then we worked it out he swore he didnt sleep with them. I kinda rationalized it cuz I am with him almost always and he said he just talked to them. I think he wanted to and they didnt want to more like it. Yeah if someone goes through the motions and effort of placing the ad I seriously doubt when its time to hook up the man suddenly has a hit of consciousness. He left his email open the other day and he has been acting odd lately . Not wanting to be intimate and just being short and seems aloof. Well low and behold sexual emails a few months back. I confront him and he has the gull to say I planted them.What is going on? I told him he can leave if he wants,he swears he didnt cheat. I think he did. He says he was confused if he still loved me and found out he did, It just breaks my heart. 2 years into in maybe but 10 yrs and you dont know if yo love me. EXCUSES. I find out btw that he was starting this and doing this while I was away visiting my dying father this time and then he broke up in oct. and I found a pic of a woman in his phone he swears they just took pics and she was there to watch him work or something. I told him today I think we need to just remain friends before I end up with an std and he blames a toilet seat. He said he would move out but if he didnt cheat.???

I'm still young not that age matters. I always try to better myself and I did go from a size 8 jeans to a size 13 but I love my new curves after having 1 child. I kinda feel like my husband treats me different after the weight gain. Hes not mean until I say or do something he doesn't like aND he uses that as an excuse to amplify situations yell or not care if I'm crying. I do feel like some women that looks change during marriage go through these things. The weird thing is through out our marriage and dating I have seen my husband check out different shapes of women and colors. He won't admit to it but it's funny and I've seen it. Alot of my friends think I'm so beautiful and they wish to be my size because they feel I have the body that most women are trying to imitate. I went to the beach with my husband and he asked if he could come sit by me and I said we are sitting by each other. Then the rest of the beach trip he didn't touch me. Also were not having sex right now until my doctors appointment on Wednesday because he just came home from overseas and after have sex with him 2 times I started to feel pain and funny in my lady parts. So I'm not treating him bad but I'm abstaining from s. Ex until I find out if he gave me something or not. Tmi but I do feel like his love is weird with me.

My husband and I finalized our divorce the other day. We were married 15 years. I was the one to pull the plug on our marriage. I should be happy right now but I'm depressed. I took the day off just to rest. Is this normal? We loved eachother but it was constant fighting and we did not want that for our kids.

Both me and my husband of 4 years, opened up about MMF,FFF,FFM sex. Both of us will supporting each other. BUT, he in great detail, he wants give & receive; blowj*bs, kissing, and have sex with another straight man. I will be there watching and supporting. I have to admit my jaws drop because my husband is such a man, so I never thought he felt this way but at the same time, kinda turned on at the same time. I asked him was he bi-sexually and he said he is not. Are we normal? Bi? Gay? Advice?

I have to admit my jaws drop because my husband is such a man, so I never thought he felt this way but at the same time, kinda turned on at the same time. I asked him was he bi-sexually and he said he is not. (We haven't started yet, but the first thing we're going to do is let him give a blowj*b to another man, he really want to do that really bad). Looking for advice on how to deal with our new sexually level. So is this normal? or am I missing something here?

I left my husband for another woman, but this relationship isn't what I thought. I feel guilty for ruining my kids lives because they are so bitter with me. I'm not attracted physically to my ex-husband but I absolutely miss him. I never thought I would because he used to annoy me so much. I'm depressed at what I've done and I feel like I want to end this current relationship and go back but I'm afraid of what others will think. And physcially, I am just not attracted to my ex.

My husband and I have been married for 6 months. We had issues for marriage but my husband insisted we marry before our son was born. We were in love crazy in love just a few months ago but my husband began to be unfaithful. Nothing physical but had a relationship with another women through text and would constantly be entertaining other females (sexually) and nonsexual. He would beg me to stay every time I caught him and so I did now I have zero trust in him and it cause us to argue every single day he says he is so stressed because he is the only one working and he is stressed because I get "crazy" in terms of me expressing how I feel. It was he that said he no longer wants to work this out now if I can t trust him. I begged him this time around because I have done so much to change to be the perfect wife for him. He says he wants to be with me one day but just not now. He says we need time apart and that he will come back but he s always putting me down and blaming me in-between I love him so much I want this marriage to work but now I am leaving he is still currently talking to other women anwomenare still intimate. My heart tells me it wants him he says he is in love with me but he acts so cold will our marriage be saved from this separation? Will he realise what he lost??

My husband has a friend that he knew prior to us getting married and then after we got married I got to know his wife and we became friends too, I really liked his friend because he seemed like such a nice guy and then I started seeing things that let me know that he wasn t so genuine, he came over to our house while I was at work and he and my husband were upstairs, I had come home about an hour early and he was at my home taking an at home HIV test because he had cheated on his wife and he couldn t do it at home because she s a stay at home mom. He s gotten a lawyer behind her back and for the past two years had been transferring money to a bank account he set up in his brothers name and he s actually taking glee in blindsiding her with divorce papers, I feel really bad for her and was wondering if it would be wrong to send her an anonymous email letting her know about the hidden money once he serves her with papers because the way he s planned this she won t get much of anything out of this divorce, they bought a house last year and he told her they should put the house solely in his name because of her bad credit and so even that s in his name. She s a stay at home mom now since she had a twins 8 months ago but she still contributes to their household since she s a veteran and had work related disabilities so she gets some money monthly and he convinced her to stay at home instead of working and putting the kids in daycare

me. He didn't want to go to counseling and thought that sorry should be enough and he didn't understand why I can't accept "sorry". His mother got involved and I told him that i hated his mother because she helped to destroy our marriage. My husband is weak and she told him to run and to "protect himself", because I must want something else since i can't accept his apology and she is trying to portray me as a gold digger to everyone even though I never ever asked him for anything in my life. He was never rich. We were high school sweethearts. I was never with him for that. I supported myself. Was I wrong for saying I hated her? Apparently he was mad i said that. No he just threatened to kill me but I couldn't accept "sorry" as an apology. I needed more than sorry which was why i suggested he get counseling.

I met my husband Jan 2016, we married February 2016. We ve been arguing at least once everyday since March. He stopped buying me things after we got married too. I m always the one paying for everything; food, gas, rent, electric/gas bill. We don t go on dates and when we did we would take turns now I have to pay so I just don t mention them anymore. He has hit me once in the nose about 2-3 weeks ago. Whenever we get into an argument he ll say things like he s glad he did it and I deserved it and how next time it ll be harder. I m 20 and he s 24 about to be 25. He s used to living with other family memebers and not spending money on bills. He tells me that I nag him too Much and I m like his mom but he acts like a child. I m always supporting/taking care of him and he never helps me out. I ve helped him pay bills or given him money because he didn t have it but when I need help he never does help me out. He drives my car instead of his and drives all the gas away and can t afford to fill it again. I can t see myself having children with him. I do love him and I m super attached to him, I m scared to leave.

How do you know if it's time to stop trying and putting in effort in your marriage? what tell signs do most people look for? I always here that oh that divorce was a surprise i don't want to be that person. my feelings and thoughts are not hidden. i have thought about taken my own life. seeking professional help for that now. my situation is so unique i can't speak of it here. so i would rather hear from you. what do you feel are the tell signs of one wanting a divorce or feeling the need to ask for a divorce. Thank you in advance.

I have been with my wife 6 years, married 3. Overall, a good relationship, but I ve had jealousy and insecurity issues that have been present off and on, not due to her behavior, but from issues I never handled after my 1st marriage ended. I ve been in counseling for 4 months, getting help with my issues. Now my wife, who has just started her first "career" job, and is really coming into her own (which I m very proud of her for), is realizing the issues that my problems have caused over the years. She sacrificed so many things for me and my issues along the way to keep me happy, and has put a lot of time and energy to being a wonderful stepmom to my daughter. She is (rightfully it seems) having a lot of resentment toward me, even though my behavior has been great for the past little while. She is blaming herself for the issues she let continue over time. I m taking full responsibility for not realizing the root of my issues earlier, and for the issues we re going through now. She s scheduled counseling for herself, but it s 6 weeks out. I know she doesn t want to talk to me about the problems because of the resentment and the fact I created them. Can this work, and get better? Is there anything I can do to help her until counseling starts for her? I know I need to give her space, but how much should I give? Thank you

He treats me good in front of family and friends. Our sex life has sadly been declining to 1-2 a month. We're argue a lot. To make matter worse I'm a diabetic. My husband isn't all that great with money & likes to spend over what we agreed on. My husband this paycheck overspent. I was almost not able to get my medicine or supplies. I told him about this he called me selfish his birthday is coming up. He received a Visa card for his birthday. I told him I needed to borrow money. I used the card to get my medical supplies plus medicine. He didn't want me to use it. He got it for free c Visa. I tried asking him what he wants to do for his birthday all is get is Nothin. Also yesterday I just found out that he might be going out with his mom. When argued he goes to silent treatments, but this time he turned around & said he didn't care about my medicine. It really hurt my feelings. I've got eye problems related with diabetic. Also my foot has been hurting so I can't walk long without it bothering me. I still work sitting all day. Lately all he does is watch netflix we have a small puppy. He kick her outside our bedroom & ask me to let him relax after work. This has been happening everyday. He has anger problems the last time he got upset & we argued my puppy jump on him to play. He kept hitting and smacked her so hard she fell on the floor then I asked him why he did. He starts arguing and left, we have made up since then and are ok. I'm worried I want our trip vacation to well.

My husband put our 2 year old in his car seat and noticed our sons nose was running so he left the car door open to go inside and get a tissue. It was cold and our son was crying so I got out from the drivers seat to go shut the door. By the time I got to the other side my husband had rushed back and pushed me backwards with one hand to stop me from shutting the door. I yelled, "Don t push me!" His response was, "I didn t. What are you taking about?" He denies it s abuse but I think it was. He said he just stuck his hand out to stop me but the push made me take a couple steps back. Is it abuse?

So.. My wife died about 2 years ago. We have a little girl of 4 together, Although she was only 2 when my wife died. My wife died from Cancer.. It was very tough for me, but I pushed through the pain because I wanted to make sure our Treasure would grow up and have a good life. Even if it got tough i was able to go on because My Wife left our daughter to me to take care of. So anyways, Here is my question.. I started dating again about 2 weeks ago. Nothing serious yet just coffee, movies and dinner. Is it wrong that i still hold on to my Wife's wedding ring? Now that I'm dating another woman I mean. I have a regular chain necklace that has both mine and her wedding ring hanging on it. I didn't want to keep wearing the rings because that might make the Woman I'm dating now suspicious or something, But i didn't want to get rid of them either. Up to this point i had been wearing Both of the rings. Hope that doesn't sound to weird. But I'm guessing at some point when She see's the rings she will ask about them, At which point I could explain why and maybe say that I don't want to get rid of them, But I will stop carrying them around I guess. What do you think? Should I just put them in storage somewhere? Is it really that bad if i want to hang on to them? Sorry it's so long, And thank you.

Hi everyone I married my 19 years old husband last year I am 21 Year old and nurse at military hospital.we are from Pakistan.my younger sweet heart belongs to wealthy family his parents has recently move to UK but due to my job I husband stay with me at my house.His family send him monthly and weekly money he is studying LLB.Any way my husband and I got into a sharp dispute 2 weeks ago,because I don't like him about asking money from his parents I want him to stand on his own feet but he told me that after completeing my study I will stand at my feet but I told him that I will pay your fee because I earn alot but he refuses and in this way argument turn into violence in ranged attitude I demand him to leave my house quietly or I have other ways as well finally he leave the house at 10 :15.after one hour I cool off and getting worried about him as we all know now a day's Pakistan is not a safe place in Lahore their is an active gang who kidnap boys and rap them the victims are 15 to 20 years boys I well I pray for him but the he didn,t come home whole night and I didn't sleep as well I went out in morning I visit his friends but he didn't at any of them home. When I came home his old friend Joshua karnelius call at our land line number he told me that your husband is in hospitals my breath get stopped for a moment I run quickly to hospital. Doctor told me that some one beat your hubby worse ans after this they raped him there are evidence on his body.Police told me that Police told me that the rappers are 3 and when the people run after them they run away because they were on motor bike. Now two 2 weeks are passed he is still in the shock of state i know it is so scared he was rapped he always remain in his room now when i try to hold him he cry a lot and didn't let me come near to him, i talk with the doctor where i work they give me a contract number of a specialist who can help him but the problem is this that he is not coming out from his home As a wise wife i collect all the sharp tools and i locked them in my locker because i know and i saw many cases in hospital where victims committee suicide He is younger in his family and i and his family love him so much, I don't tell about this to his parents because i know if they came to know about this then they will took him to UK and then i will never get him back .Please advise me. please dont advice me to divorce him he is younger and i am christain i hate divorce. Relationships are not like toy when ever you want play with them when your heart fully satisfied with them throw them away no hell no, His parents will took him to UK this year, his family is having food shops at UK and two shops are on his name. He is a good guy he never cheated on me and remain loyal with me, I need Help he is so younger and he have along live a head of him i cannot saw him broken help we have so much strong future plans helppppppppppppppppp Police submitted the complain aganist unknow person but 2 weeks are past still they cannot get them and pakistani police is fking hell and worse i think now i have to use my resources in army to get those fking rappers Should we move to UK may be this will help us to get over from this accident Our Visa is still not expired and we can extend it can i took him their what you will say i am ready for to leave my job i need his safety and Now i myself feel insure and scared

My wife is very lazy and won't do any housework. I work all day, we dont have kids and we only have one dog but she won't walk him. I hired a maid but my wife complained that the maid was too attractive because she was a young Filipina woman. Now my wife wants me to hire a male maid but I don't want to because she is home all day doing nothing but being lazy and I don't want a guy in my house when I am not there. How can I keep my house clean? Edited to say my wife doesn't do nothing while I'm working. She is usually on the internet, shipping with my credit card. I don't think I should have to come home to a messy house when she does nothing.

So I rushed into a marriage with My husband of two weeks. We do not have any kids together and I need to get a divorce. I married him knowing I still feelings for my ex that I had my son with and I feel so guilty. I freaked out at the alter before marrying him and he convinced me to marry him still. He is in the military. I always feel guilty that I am not with the father of my child and I feel like I owe him the truth. We are both still young(26 years old). So how do I tell him I want a divorce?

been married 5 yrs.4 yrs ago i found my husband video chatting with a woman from NY.we decided to work it out.a yr later i found out he was still talking to her. he left for a week and was with her. a week later he said he wanted to work it out.during that year i tried everything to make sure he was happy and didnt cheat. sex, meals when he came home, tried not to argue, massages, etc.4 months later i saw he was still cheating. then in august of last year he went to another town to see his mom.found out they met there and had sex.thats the time i found out i was pregnant. he said he wanted to be a father .4 months later i found a hidden cell showing he was talking to her. then on his bday i got his fav meal and $200 gift and he "worked late". found out few weeks later he was with her that whole day and a week before that he flew to NY for one day to be with her.imagine the hurt ive felt which caused me to argue more. then baby was born and he hardly helped which caused more resentment and arguments. 2 weeks ago i went to his car and found another hidden cell. we called it quits. now hes saying that he started all this because i argued too much in the beginning of our marriage. i can agree thati didnt know how to settle arguments.i had never had a boyfriend before him and we went from long distace to married.some fights could have been avoided.but after,i tried to be better for nothing. could he be right?shouldnt he have told me i was causing resentment?is this my fault?

I'm 19 and I'm a girl and I absolutely HATE cheaters! I can't stand it when they say "that's in the past, forget about it." And no I wasn't cheated on but I know some people in my family that have had affairs and they say "it's in he past, it's forgotten." I think they need to be punished because what if they gave someone a disease then it's like they murderered them, plus it can really make someone people feel awful. I've sent other guys nudes when I had boyfriends and flirted with them but I've never cheated. Cheaters DO NOT deserve a second change. They're a waste of space. I hate people that cheat and have affairs! They're awful people and I don't want to hear them say it's a mistake because IT IS NOT! It's a choice not a mistake and cheaters don't change and even if they did they're still bad people. There's no excuse to ever cheat and don't make up excuses. Why do people make excuses for them?

Friday night I was really intoxicated and I made a crude sexual remark to my stepdaughter. Although she is of legal age, I made her uncomfortable and she said that she believed that I was going to sexually assault her. The truth is that I really don't remember much about what I did. My wife is a RN and I am alone a lot with her two college age daughters, and to be honest it is hard to not want them sexually. I usually can control myself but I have been depressed lately and using prescription medication and alcohol has not helped things. My wife put me out on Friday night however I returned home yesterday to silence. No one is speaking to me, even our dog won't come near me. I know I need to clean myself up from the drugs but I have apologized. It has been tense around here before but now it seems that I am an outcast in my own home. I Really need a sympathetic response.