served 10 years in prison for a gun case (saw proof) from age 20. Now he's 32.  Turning his life around, working the same job for years, just enrolled at a trade school.Doesn't go to his old neighborhood (now lives in the burbs), takes care of the son he had before he went to jail, has a car n an apartment. And only hangs around his family. I'm 25 and we're in love with each other. Everyone in my family thinks I'm a making mistake because African Americans have a track record of being crazy and lawless.how do I know if I'm truly making a mistake because I'm scared of making a decision I'll regret in the future. He wants to start a family with me and that's what I want to but we just started dating (4 months now ) but I just wanna know if I'm making the right decision. 

At my workplace there is this security guard, I started noticing that when I pass them its like their face lights up. Every time they walk pass my desk they glace over at me, they don't do it to anyone else. They hardly interact with my team but today they talked with my manager, that's alright but they kept glaceing at me. I shouldn't feel uncomfortable around a security guard, but the whole situation feels weird or am I feeding to much into to it?

When me and my sister was little we always though that 12 o' clock noon was a bad luck hours. Bad things happens in that hour 

 I think I've been scaring the crap out of him because when ever I'm mad or sad he stares at me.

I recently got married this January from a childhood friend of mine up until now I have made way more than him and have been paying for everything including extravagant gifts. I had to understand that he doesn't make very much and gets disability.. But just recently I have been cut back significantly on work and he has actually gotten a better job getting paid more than me.. Instead of paying me back for the money hes borrowed from me hes actually hiding money from me and lying about. I always thought that he would start paying for things and buying gifts and such if our situation had reversed but instead he has been buying stuff on himself in hiding money. So am starting to wonder if this marriage was a bad idea and this is just his personality.. I have 3 kids of my own and never receive child support while he doesn't have any children so I find this absolutely ridiculous on how things are going and hes treating me.

Our 27 year old daughter just got fired from her job so she can't afford to go. She currently lives with us.  We will have to go without her since she has no money. HOWEVER, I don't want to have her staying at our house for a week because I already know she's going to be sneaky and have her boyfriend staying the night since she knows we will be gone. I do NOT want him spending the night in MY house. We don't play that. I was thinking about having her stay with her grandmother for the week. What do you all think? This is a serious. We are christians and do not condone a boyfriend staying the night.

So I lost my job back in August , there was this guy that worked there who would flirt form time to time , but as of me leaving three months ago , I heard he asks about me ,view my Social media account , eg linked Ll, with me being gone for so long why would a guy still wonder about a girl he hasn't seen in a few months