I am hosting a wedding weekend at a hotel. My guest are showing up Friday for the rehearsal dinner and staying until Sunday. Wedding will be on Saturday. I am planning activities through out the weekend. I would like to leave for my honeymoon early morning Sunday. Would it be weird if I threw a stop by brunch on Sunday for my family and friends? That my partner and I not attend?

It feels weird because some family weddings were not welcome at because of my mom's bad deeds. As a result well this is not a Wedding it feels like I'm missing something like if I was being excluded like I was four years ago for my cousins wedding. The elopement is in Kentucky and I live right nearby in Ohio. 

First time sleeping together, never had sex. She is virgin. They sleep in differents beds in her bedroom. He parents aren't home. At about 3 am at night he hears her having a nightmare, tries to wake her up but he doesn't succeed, touches her forehead and notices she is hot and has high fever, and that her clothes are soaked and wet. He takes off all her clothes except for her knickers, lets her under the blanket and turns the light on looking for dry clothes. She wakes up because of the light and notices she doesn't have clothes on. She starts crying because she doesn't understand what happened, asks him 'why did you do it?' the guy tells her 'I had to, because you have really high fever'. She can't stand what happened and keeps on crying. He hands her dry clothes and helps her put them on but she slaps his hand so goes in the kitchen and bring her some medicines to lower the fever and for her sore throat (she cannot swallow). She falls asleep crying but the day after is a bit better but still upset at the guy. Do you think the guy was right doing that, and he was more concerned of her well being rather than looking at het? Did  he do the right thing?