I was out with two of my friends a few days ago. One of them ('Friend A') was speaking about a spider that was in her room, and how they had to throw it out of the window to get rid of it. I didn't totally hear what my second friend ('Friend B') said in response, but 'Friend A' said in reply 'I don't like killing things'. Therefore 'Friend B' must have said something about having should have killed it instead of throwing it out of the window. Why would have 'Friend B' said this? Why would they suggest killing a spider rather than just throwing it out of a window?

They were talking about me behind my back, excluding me from things. Also, a few other friends from this group have now slowly been taking their side it seems, and ignoring me more.

This old friend of mine and I are in a theatre company and we have rehearsal together today. He ended the friendship by slowly hanging out with other people and putting the blame on me for not hanging out with him when I brought it up (I was always going up to him and he never came up to me that often). Eventually we just stopped talking. I was surprised to see that he indirectly posted about me on a private account of his calling me the b word. And idk why he did that tbh. I was nothing but nice to him. Invited him everywhere, drove him everywhere, paid for his meals, talked to him on the phone, complimented him 24/7, helped him with whatever he needed help on etc. And I've been told that I'm a really great friend by multiple people, and by people who regretted ending our friendship or mistreating me. Anyways, I have to see him today because of the rehearsal and I'm feeling really anxious about it! Idk why! I just really don't wanna see him. I know I'll be fine when I get there but I'm like shaking and having anxiety about it. Does anyone know why this happens?

Yes, I am sure that there are lots of men who behave like this, too - My ex-boyfriends in high school certainly did. I have just seen it more often in women. In fact, I've seen it in just about every women I've been friends with. Just about every woman I've experienced (as a close friend) behaves incredibly passive-aggressively and I can't understand what the F she wants.  If I don't automatically know what she's thinking, she will ignore me, repeatedly snub/shun me, and then b*tch about me to all of her other friends.  Basically, she would be honest and direct about her issues with me to literally everyone except for me. The only time I would ever know how she feels is if I heard from one of her friends: "wow, _____ is very mad at you. You should _____ to make her feel better."  I would normally give up on them after they started ignoring me, saying "I'm fine" when I ask what's up, but trash then me behind my back to everyone else. On that same note, she would do the same to other people then trash them to me. I would ask her if she told them how she felt, and she would say "there's no point". I have noticed that a lot of men complain about the same thing when they get romantically involved with a girl. I am 25 now. Why do people STILL do this? What is even their motive? Why can't they just tell you what their f**king problem is?  Do they even know what their problem is? Do they even know that they have a problem? Are they just feeling the effects of their emotional issues and blaming everyone else for them?

I am the only girl in my High School AP Physics class. My classmates are my friends and we like to gather at my home and jointly do on our homework. It is a very hard class with lots of homework. Some of the problems we have a hard time solving. One of my classmates said let's ask you mom Jill for help. He did and mom instantly came up with the answer. They did this several times and mom always came up with the answer. This was amazing to my classmates. One of them said to me "How is it possible that your mom is so beautiful and so smart? That does not compute". Is that a compliment for my mom or an insult to all women? YOUR OPINION PLEASE

So ive been going out with this girl Madelyn for over a month.    Last night i told her that today i would pick her up from work at 5 and we could go for dinner.    She agreed......but this morning i asked her how she was doing,   and she told me she might go to a doctor to get checked after work because her throat is killing her.    Should i still pick her up from work?????? She hasn't replied back to me.   She works in retail so she's not allowed to have her phone on her I know it sounds like a silly question but ive never been in a real relationship 

I was at a restaurant waiting to be seated for lunch with 3 of my female co workers. Walking out of the restaurant was this gorgeous woman. She had a figure to die for. 36G would be my guess. She was showing a lot of cleavage. She came over to me and gave me a hug and said "It is great to see you again George. How have you been"? We just talked for a few minutes and then we were seated in the restaurant. Just before we parted, she gave me her card and said "let's have lunch some time to catch up on old times". The last thing she said was "We sure had fun in the back seat of your car when we were in high school didn't we"? My co workers immediately said who was that beautiful woman. I told them it was an old high school girlfriend from 20 years ago. They wanted to know what I was doing in the back seat of my car with her. Can someone suggest a answer to their question that would not make me look bad to my friends? I think everyone reading this knows what I was doing in the back seat of my car but I can't tell them that. I thought I might tell them we were reading the bible. Do you think they would believe that?

I am a college student. My buddies invited me over to watch a porn video. When I saw it I knew why they invited me over. The girl in the video looks a lot like my girlfriend. She isn't my girlfriend but they don't know that. They keep telling me how lucky I am to have this girl as a girlfriend. They all think I know some secret of how to get beautiful women in bed. I don't of course because the girl in the video is NOT my girlfriend. Should I just let them think she is or should I tell my buddies the truth?

I'm 17 years old right now, going to high school where many people not only love music but play interments. All my life I hear music everywhere and everyone talking about their favorite music. I'm always asked when I meet someone new,"what type of music do you listen too" or "what is your favorite song", I always respond with "I don't listen to music(meaning I don't listen to on my own time). literally everyone I have said that to had a shocked face and asked why? I don't think music is interesting, I've heard a lot of music in my life but i just don't care, its a waste of time, why would I want to hear other people saying words and speaking in a certain tone, it doesn't appeal to me. many of those people are like "okay listen to this and tell me what you think", I go along and listen to the music they listen to but i just didn't like it, it was a waste of time.

Me and this girl aren't friends anymore due to her own doings (very long story), we haven't spoken in months and one day me and my friends went out for my boyfriends birthday and I receive a random text on instagram from an unknown user calling me horrible names like ugly and a b*tch, I wasnt too hurt and I laughed it off as it was pathetic in my eyes but I was cautious that I didn't know who it was from , but the next day my other friends who still speak to her get a notification on there phone for example "___ has made a new Instagram account under the username jack1234" (she had her number connected to the fake account so people saw her real name) I get sent a screenshot of this notification from my friends and 2 seconds later I receive a follow request from the fake account, so I put two and two together realising it was my ex friend who made the other account to insult me the day previous , this is 2 accounts so far all with no followers nor pictures,I blocked the notification from jack1234 then receive another follow request from (for example) Shane001 and ignore that one too knowing it's her, then another one (for example Scott56) this girl is making all these accounts just to harass me but now she's trying to following my boyfriend and her own EX boyfriend online  (whom I already informed of the situation) but I don't know her intentions, is this illegal ? Can I do anything about it?  She has made me extremely paranoid of people online  *instagram will only let me report a fake account if I know the person being impersonated personally 

So I'm 66 years old and I have this friend from 1st grade that every time we talk she likes to tell me how she could never understand why nobody liked me from grade school through high school. I was not aware I was so not liked and if this is true what is the point of her bringing that up time and time again. She says things like I don't know why no one else like you . I always thought you was cool. I'm too old to lose sleep over this but is getting to be annoying. I asked her who all these people where but she does not have and answer. She just says , oh, just a lot of people I knew back then.  Your thoughts please.

So I have a friend who, some days is nice to me(rare), and the majority of the time she's telling me how ugly I am or saying something about the way I look. Today, my friend put on my glasses and she said my friend had looked better than I did when I wore them. She always has something negative to say and always tells me how ugly she thinks I am in some way. But after all that, she's nice-ish. Should I cut her off or just be nice to her?

I am in a time of crisis right now. I am 16 years old and I am all of the sudden having spells of needing to be alone and just crying all of the time. It just started recently as I had to start on the offensive line for our football team. My first games ever getting to play on offense or defense for that matter and it's the semi finals and now the championship. On top of that, I am having a hard time making friends. There was a girl that I really liked who is super unpopular so I thought she would for sure like me since I'm slightly more popular, but no. Total rejection. I'm in a tough spot right now and am in need of advice.

She's now an enemy, she is becoming the people who were bullying me in elementary (personality-wise) why's that?

I am really close with my best friend. We have known each other for about a year now, but he's helped me through some of the roughest times in my life, and I want to repay him, but I'm not great with expressing my feelings. I don't want it to be weird, or sappy either. Help?!?