A case for support has been opened on my ex behalf she submitted older stubs showing she made less and that was used to calculate an amount compared to mine, I have received forms to fill out for expense and declaration form asking for certain expenses, I an the non custodial parent and I provide a room for my child and we have 50/50 but since I make more I am paying based on her income wich is lower than she is currently making now what can I do? And does my rent being higher due to providing a room for our 11 year old help in lowering my support?  

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 4 years. We never broke up before. We are considering on moving in together to an apartment next year.  Everything has been great and I truly believe he is the one for me.  I can't marry someone who I believe his family is not 100% approving of me.  1. It took over 3 years for me to meet my boyfriends extended family. While it took his sisters boyfriend 2 months of dating to meet them. His parents met me a year before we started dating and his parents boyfriend never met his sisters boyfriend until they started dating. My boyfriend had to advocate for me to his extended family but his mother did not want me to meet them. It wasn't until for his birthday, he asked for his present to me for me to meet his extended family. In which that point of time, we were dating for a little longer than 3 years. My boyfriend said the reason why his sisters boyfriend met the family so early was because his mom said of his sisters eating disorder. My boyfriend never understood why that was the reason.  2. Group chat. I remember his older sister came over the house with her boyfriend. We were going to go out to dinner and they kept referencing this group chat and the jokes made in it.  I'm Hispanic and he is white. I work at a Fortune 500 company, graduated valedictorian of my college class, I am finishing up my Masters and founded my own start up.  Not sure what to do. I want to talk to him about it but not sure how to approach the situation. 

I am 18, she's 14. Both of us have been through a lot since childhood. We both come from the same country and we have lots in common. She is a nice, innocent girl who has never had a boyfriend. We went only fishing once and to a secret trip by the lake in the mountains. Nothing happened 'except we hanged out and talked. After that, her dad found out, slapped her and told her not to talk to me anymore, even if it's just a single word. She's scared now and I stopped writing to her as to avoid her father  possibly finding out. I am an orphan, my sister takes care of me. She is hit by her husband and when I try to defend to her with my body, it ends up bad because he's stronger than me (he is 35 and I am 18). I am tired of my life, my sister doesn't let me report her husband, I only have two nieces and a friend. I don't even know where to go if something bad happens. She is the only friend I have, she cares about me and I care about her. If they took her away from me, I won't feel anything. Neither love nor friendship. Should I suck it up and leave her, for her sake, or should I be selfish and fight for the love (her) I want and miss in my life?

 I somehow developed weird feelings for him, like, I hate you for what you're making me feel. He is so handsome but doesn't have many friends, just his friends from work. He is not popular and he just, works. Doesn't go to gym but he is hot, he is also smart but never shows it off. He doesn't even talk much. One day he told me 'do I tell you hiw to braid your hair?' While I wanted to help him with the repairs, so I got mad at him and hate him now. Later on he helped my grandma to put on a satellite. He was on the 9th floor, on between the window and the open air, just balacing while sitting on the window. I was like 'you're going to kill yourself, get in thr house'. He was like'go away leave me alone'. Then I grabbed him by the waist to hold him. He started to laugh and said 'little girl, I have done this a thousand times'. I started crying because I felt his boddly going too outside and grabbed him tighter. He kept on working. At the end he got inside the room and  my arms were so tense and I was shaking, he said it was not necessary and took off his shirt cause he was all sweaty and asked for napkins. I was at loss for words seeing his body, he was not so gym-like but he was hot in a way a normal guy is, with a bit of muscles and abs. I blushed and gave him napkins. I saw his scars and was like, damn he's hot. Short buzzcut hair and good looking face. He didnt seem happy at me staring  and blushing, sighed a bit and looked away in a really serious way.

All the women where I live apparently hangs with them. You know those guys that are athletic gold or silver chain necklace, full of body and facial hair, smart aleck, petty, rude and incendiary. They have a baseball cap pointed backwards or to an angle. They usually have a white baseball cap and pink shirt and white cut off shorts. They have a popped collar. They usually drive used cars with offensive images and words stickered all over it or trucks with tires as big as the truck. They usually go out to beer parties together and they are all the same. They act stupid. If you are around them they would either think that your gay and start harrassing you or try to jump you or try to fight you. They use the word 'gay' in their sentences. They bully autistic people. They get mad and punch a wall.

My girlfriend has started giving me massages from shoulder to feet as I am really tired after like, 8/9 hours walking because of work. When I come home, she looks at me worried, wants  to take my things and makes me lay on the bed ans insists on giving me massages. I feel good because she's really good at giving them, but after a while she  gets tired touching my super  contracted calves but she insists because she wants to make me feel better. At the end it feels like I am reborn again, but I feel somehow at fault because I feel like I am taking advantage of her (although I am not the one who first asks it). Then she makes me my favorite dishes and cuddles me, letting me fall asleep in her embrace because of tiredness. She's extremely caring and affectionate, but I feel like I am taking advantage. What do you think?

But she hugs me and kisses me a lot, and the serious worried look she gives me, it's just... I don't know, but it's like there's just me and her and nothing else. She is shy and doesn't want to touch me there but just laying there close to her, feeling her softness and her skin makes me so happy. And when she covers me with kisses and says that I am handsome. It's like the meaning of life ... how can it be that a girl who is a bit of goofy and shy in bed can make you so happy?