Both are assets that lose value the day you buy them. The guys who buy these homes take the same risks as the guy who buys conventional home, but the difference is that conventional homes traditionally increase in value over time. 

I'm hard working myself but I'm doing this solely for the future of my future kids. I'm running my skin care biz so they don't have to work hard. People always say they want to raise kids that are hard workers but why is it necessary for them to work hard? I want to raise kids that have a moral conscious, that are respectful to me, their peers, and society as a whole, and that are just nice people. They don't necessarily have to be hard working. I'm giving my children a choice in whether or not they want to work. At the end of the day, I just want them to be happy and fulfilled while enjoying their life. Give them an opportunity to travel and what not. A lot of jobs are stressful and cause you to spiral downward mentally. I'm not going to force my kids to work if they don't want to. I'm going to make sure they are set financially. I'm going to make sure they are set financially so they can just relax, travel, enjoy life. I know it's hard on a relationship when you're grinding so hard all the time as well. I hardly ever have time to spend with my family or boyfriend and I don't want my kids to be in that same predicament. What do you all think 

Ok so Jim or others, if they are angry / defensive then it's MORE LIKELY they are guilty??

As more men lose their life in the Family Courts, for the poor unfortunate souls who are still married have to weigh the option of what to do when the wife attempts a no fault divorce.  The more disturbing is the idea not to let the wife make it another day on the rock. And this is a world-wide endeavor. As there was a guy who recently filled his home full of natural gas and lit a match with his future soon to be Ex.  All the guys will wait for the police to show up and happily do their time with 7-20 years of three hots and a cot as opposed to indentured servitude of 10-20 years of child support and spousal support, expenses, home and half their retirement and still face prison time if they lose their job. The value proposition is face the divorce or remove the wife from the equation.  Is this going to be the new norm?

I am married to king Henry VIII and he will chop my head off if I don't give him a healthy son.

Is it a little too soon to be putting on facebook pictures of our new blended family.  Saying from our family to yours. He just divorced 2 months ago and we got engaged last month.  I am going to be step mom soon but not sure if I should wait till the marriage actually happens to be including myself as part of their family

I'm wondering if this was meant as flirting with me indirectly or he (the doctor) is just trying to make a joke with the patient that was being seen. If you want more context, read on: A foreign patient came in bc his blood pressure was high. I'm an interpreter at the clinic so I had to be w/the patient. After asking questions, the doctor said "I think she's raising your high blood pressure today." So the patient smiled. Later, I offered to schedule his follow up appointment. I had to use the doctor's laptop causing me to be really closed to the doctor. Then he told me "You are raising men's (or man's) blood pressure today." I replied "Sorry I don't know what to say... I'm just shy." He is married  and I'm married too so I'm not sure what to make of this. This happened a few weeks ago. He hasn't said anything similar again. (FYI, I'm not taking this as sexual harassment.)

And how should the husband act in front of them(exes) specially when they try to joke with him just for some fun by commenting about his wife therby creating a visual imagination in his mind about what else they might know about his wife which even he as a virgin does'nt know yet?

It's almost as if every marriage will end in divorce these days. It's like being married 10 years is an accomplishment these days, when it's really not. Anyone else realise marriage is now treated as a joke and not taken as seriously today. Like one rough patch and it's divorce time. ( not talking about actual abusive relationships btw )

And how should the husband act in front of them when they try to joke with him just for some fun and teasing commenting about his wife?

And why do they do that?  

Their trouble do not concern me, but I would like some peace and quiet. So what to do? Calling the police seems like an overreaction.

They work 40 hours a week just like everyone else in the world, yet they are "focused on their career".

Happy Thanksgiving I should have added 'when you are married - and your Bitchez is annoyed that you are always horny' and says things like "you're 45, when are you going to stop?" That's why my 'Black Friday' shopping tonight includes unloading my package at my GF's.  First I'm going to have some pie.

My husband's parents are "baby boomers" and they say stuff like "Oh yeah my cousin's friend could use a chick" (they mean a girl), "This Black guy..." (they only say black only when it's a black person) and yes, they do not support LGBTQ community's civil rights.  These have become traumatic experiences for me, but I understand my husband and his parents are different individuals. One problem: I told him before I don't like it when guys call women "chicks" because it sounds disrespectful - women are not animals. He finds it controlling and manipulative. I never call guys animal names. All I wanna do is love & respect everyone on street across the globe... it is just so hard when you have married someone you thought was your best friend. I am from Japan and have lived in the U.S for 4 years. What do you think?

We are still dating and nothing is official yet. He says he wants to see how we are after holiday/December. However, he has brought up topics such as about marriage, money, parents, etc. I've asked if he would meet my parents if we get married and he immediately said of course because that is tradition.

Or do you chose to get to know men first non-romantically to see if your life goals and beliefs are the same? I keep hoping for this romantic guy to come as a stranger and just randomly ask me out and thrn we end up in a fairytale life. But really...when i was younger and had those romances, it started really consuming but soon i realized we have nothing in common and cannot keep dating him unless be changed (not in a condescending way). And thats about when the romance loses to real life.