I am a 27 year old woman whose a med student from India, who is studying in the US. I am 6'5 250 pounds, There is this handsome guy blonde personal trainer at the university gym. He is 22 blond 6'1 200 pounds all muscle. I know that he's into casual sex and has hooked up with many women at the university. I signed up for personal training sessions with him so I could spend time with him and get physical. I came to the first personal training session in long dress and make up, to impress him. During the personal training session i felt his body, and make physical contact with him. He wasn't receptive so I decided to be more direct. After the session I went to the cafe, and sat right next to him. I started chatting with him and put my arm around his shoulder and my hand near his crotch and said. "You are a very handsome man I would love to have sex with you." He told me "it's not going to happen." I called him out for sleeping with other women at the gym, who were petite and white. He said that I am not his type. I said he was racist for not having sex with brown women. I also told him that hes a misogynist for not wanting to have sex with a taller woman. He refuses to admit that he is a bigot and says that im not his type. What I see as a preference is fragile masculinity for not having sex with a woman taller than him, and blatant racism.

I think it definitely is. I am going back to school and currently room with my sister because she had trouble finding a roommate.  I am moving out of state and everyone is siding with my sister saying it is unfair of me to "displace" her despite the 7 month notice. I think it is unfair that they think her inability to find a roommate she likes should prevent me from getting higher education