Me and my cousin have been close for 3 years. She is 2 years older, we have gotten into 3 fights in the past year but we are talking now, but she never cares to talk or hang out now. She has other friends now and is always hanging w/ them. I feel like when she does want to hang with me its only bc shes bored or has no one else to hang with. We only had each other and i feel like now she has friends her age that are more out going she doesn't care for me. What should i do? 

I am so tired. no one cares about me. I'm always posting about how i'm so miserable and tired but no one cares!!! ppl wanna say their my friends but not say anything when i'm STRUGGLING!!! I'll even post about how i'm bored and wanna go out, they don't even bother swiping up and saying anything. **** LIFE. **** EVERYTHING. 

I am 15 and never dated Jon who I grew up with  We are best friends   He tripped me out yesterday talking about how I turned him on when we were eight years old.    Why he remembers these details unless it is really effected him  It was a time when I got a spanking  I had my dress up past my waist which is typical I think.   So I would feel the spanks more clearly and having my panties fully showing added to the experience Jon seen the entire spanking over my Mom's lap and told me it was exciting to see my underpants cause they were thin nylon and most girls did not wear white     Is this totally creepy that he got turned on by my little granny panties?    He is a nice guy and my best friend but I feel strange

Personally, I press, but as it often turns out, not hard enough. See something, say something.

I was with a group of friends when a friend of mine said he had an announcement to make. He said he was getting married. We all congratulated him and ask him who his bride was. He told us and it brought back memories of the time I had dated his bride to be many years ago. I was happy to see she was getting married and would settle down. She is a VERY nice person. Then he said he was VERY LUCKY to find someone that was the same religion as he was and MOST IMPORTANT TO HIM she was a virgin like he was. That set off an alarm in my head. I know from personal experience she was NOT a virgin. She was not a virgin when I dated her and unless you can become a virgin again, she was not one now. My first thought that since it so important to him was to tell him I knew she was not a virgin but I had second thoughts and didn't say anything. If after he is married and he finds out I knew she was not a virgin which is unlikely, I know he will be mad at me. I don't want to cause him or his future bride any problems as I don't think a girl's sexual past should matter but it does to him. Should I tell him or just keep my mouth shut and hope he never finds out about her past

Let's say a person is intentionally or unintentionally being a jerk towards someone and the other person would apologize to the "jerk" for doing something that is upset them, how come the "jerk" doesn't want to hear them apologize to them? Also how come the "jerk" doesn't like it when the other person is trying to explain their true, well meaning intentions?

I am.

i dont like a lot of my friends, they are dependent ungrateful judgemental people. i am afraid i am no better and dont know how to be around them anymore

What are sings of a friendship that is fading? Because I have a friend that me and her used to be closer then we are now and I would say she is a best friend. We are both adults by the way and me and her have been friends for 3 years and when we first became friends we would talk quite a bit but since August of last year things have changed. She has gotten a lot busier or I guess that's all it is. She is just not here for me much now and she told me she is not going anywhere so is our friendship fading? Because she is not really talking to me much Should I be concerned? I was not going to talk to her about this because when I have in the past it has not helped and I have been also noticing when I see her now she just seems blah but then she starts to lighten up some when we start spending time with each other 

i havent had it yet but i kinda wanna try it

I work in an office with 12 other women. A employee from another department Mindy was transferred to our department. To say she was beautiful would be an understatement. She was gorgeous. If there ever was a trophy girlfriend/wife she would be it. At first we all did not like her as we thought our boss Bob, a 29 year old single guy would give her all the choice assignments. That didn't happen. He treated her just like the rest of us. No better and no worse. We also started to like her as she was such a nice person. One day we had a staff meeting and Mindy was not there. We asked Bob if he noticed that Mindy was beautiful. He said all my employees were beautiful. WOW, he is good. Someone ask him if he would like to date Mindy. He said he was not allowed to date anyone that worked for him. He said, can you imagine the gossip that would start if I dated someone that worked for me. Another one of us, Linda asked Bob if he would date her if she did not work for him. He said "We have a date the first day you don't work for me". All of us are wondering the same thing. Is it possible for a single guy can resist dating such a beautiful woman? Could they be dating in secret? What do you think about what our boss is saying. Is he a good boss or a bad boss?

A lot of my friends/family on social media who have kids constantly update details about them.  "Jr. finally learned how to use the potty!"  "Omg my kid just said this and it's so hilarious!"  "He said his first word!"  "She cut a tooth!"  It goes on.  And I get it!  I remember when we were kids my mom took pictures and video taped our every move.  I understand completely why people do it. That's their kid.  They're proud of them, they love them.   But why, if someone brags about the privileges of not having kids, is it so looked down on?  If you get to brag about Jr.'s potty, eating, and learning to talk adventures, then we should be allowed to brag about our 5th vacation this month, and having a clean, quiet, house all the time. Right?  No?   What brought me to this is, I have written statuses about how nice it is to be childfree. And a handful of people will say things like "God knows when it's time for you to have kids."  Or "Oh but kids are so great. You'll see when you have them." First, I'm approaching 40 years of age.  Second...I'm Agnostic... To Drip, people brag about stuff on social media all the time. Posting  about how happy you are to not have kids is no different than posting about how happy you are not to have them... Correction: no different than posting about how happy you are to have them. 

Example: I went to a teens birthday party. I walked in I spoke to everyone, no one spoke back. The kids were all excited to see me and said hi and gave hugs ( I was the only one that brought a gift for the kid out of 50 odd people). My sister then walks in the same room and a few people yell out over the room to say hello to her. I was a little offended so I did acknowledge to them "When I spoke to you guys, you all didn't say anything." They then proceed to say I didn't notice that was you. I do a lot for their kids so it is a bit of a slap in the face. It didn't really bother me I just wondered why no one spoke. Later on the birthday boys mom came in and hugs me and talks a while, now all of a sudden they want to talk to me. I do not know if its because I am so quiet or my huge viral fight with cancer or just how most kids and elders brag on me. I am very timid but I am never rude. What could it be, do I make people feel uncomfortable?

Hi, Im a 14-year-old emotional, stubborn teenager and I need help with something. Recently I've been fighting with my parents a lot because they're very strict and overprotective of me for everything. Every time I ask to have a sleepover or hang out with my friends my parents won't let me because they think that all other adults are rapists or kid touchers. I have ADHD so it's very hard for me school-wise since I'm still trying to get used to high school and so far I've failed quite a few classes. they keep going at me for my school and I completely understand why but they don't seem to understand that  It's hard for me to adjust and me to focus because of my ADHD.I've tried to explain it to them multiple times but they keep saying I'm using it as an excuse for not doing good in school. My mom and I, especially keep arguing. I use to be really close to her but then we started fighting and now it seems like we're both at each other's necks. I keep wanting to apologize to her but she always seems to be mad so I wimp out and I can't do it. Now I get yelled at regularly and they take things away from me and I feel like there's no one I can reach out to. I can't talk to my mom because she's mad at me, I can't talk to my friends because they just don't understand so I'm trying to ask what to do with everything? how do I fix my problems with my mom? At this point, all I want is a hug and for her to tell me everything alright. How do I do that? How can I fix my whole situation?

My mom's long time friend knows I'm not my mom's momma's boy or favourite child, but I'm also friends with her favourite son and that I had been making numerous  posts on Facebook about me being metrosexual by liking photography, certain music, fashion and posting pics of me with different hairstyle cuts that her favourite child (now adult) saw and showed to his  mom.  I also boasted on Facebook about going to a brainy school that got her favourite son angry and showed her. This is also the same lady who scolded me, cussed at me when I was talking to my mom like I'm dependent on her, punched me in the face! when I was a child. Me and my mom saw her at the shops and she simply refused to give me eye contact or gave very little eye contact without talking to me. Is it possible that she got offended by these posts on Facebook  Is it possible that this picture of me before I had a haircut to trim the sides and back part offended or insulted her?  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10218059083700152&set=a.1483159410477&type=3&sfns=mo If it did, why would it be any of her business to be offended that I'm not being "masculine" but more metrosexual? 

I don't want her to hate me, I just don't want her to come

I dunno. Think about your best friend, or your mom, or your brother or someone. Literally just consider something good in your life for a few seconds, buddy. Carry on.

I've known my bestie since about 2014 and he's a great guy and all but he doesn't seem to respect my religious beliefs and a lot of my opinions. I listen to him vent about a lot of his issues and I really don't mind that but when it's time for me to vent then he falls asleep on me and makes me feel like my issues or stressors are less important. I've had to tell him about his @$$ many times and I feel like we aren't as close as we use to be because he indirectly alienates me. My therapist said that one day I'll have to just let him go because he will never really respect my faith and my opinions; and I kinda feel like she's right about it... I guess, my problem is I don't really want to lose him but I really really don't want to be disrespected any more. 

This kinda hurt my feelings because we were friends in high school but we're in our late 20s now. She has a husband and a baby and Im still single. I always like her pictures and videos because I thought we had a good relationship. I just noticed she wasnt following me on instagram anymore. I cant think of a reason why she would unfollow me. We didnt have a fight or a falling out. Its pretty hurtful to be honest. I just dont get it. Shes following close to 1,000 people so its not like shes being super selective here. Why?

So, I was at an orientation for a college. At the beginning, everyone admitted that they knew no one. However, when the first break came around, I saw everyone socializing with each other as if they knew each other forever while I just sat at an empty table by myself. I was flabbergasted. How were they so sociable? How were they able to meet people so fast? How do I do it? Do I just go up to them an introduce myself? Any tips would be appreciated. Thank you.