Before I'm judged please read.I met my husband when I was 19& he was 26(im27 now)   He is the only person iv ever had sex with.We moved to the state his family lives in after only a year of dating.In the 1styear I felt his brother would make passes@me,@which I couldn't be sure butI always told my husband about.He would look down my dress@my boobs&smile @me&nod or caress myhand if I handed him something&stare @me.I always told my husband not to do anything bc I nvr knew if it was just in my head.Then we all got drunk &he tried feeling me up.tried sticking his hand down the back of my pants&touching my legs under the table.I didn't make a scene bc his kids were awake but I told my husband when we all were going to sleep &my husband told me he wUd tlk to him but he didnt.After 2years we finally started hanging out around him again.My husband &I recently separated for 8mnths &in that time his brother would keep trying to talk to me.He ended up sendingme a dick pic.I told him to stop& deleted him from my fb.I told my husband about everything but he never tlkd to him about it.We R 2gether now&we all act like nothing happened.My prblm is since getting back with my husband we havnt had sex.He says he wants to make sure we r good b4 we have sex again.Now I fantasize about having sex his bro while I masturbate.even though I think he's a horrible person I am still attracted to him&even though I deleted him from my accts he still goes on them &likes my pics.IcantStopThinkingAboutHim Btw my husband and I didn't separate bc of this. I ended up finding out after five years together that he never told me about a child he had with someone before he met me. I only ever knew he had one kid with someone but then found out he actually had 2 with 2 diff women. This caused me to not trust him and our relationship all of a sudden became toxic. We needed the time away to figure out if I could get over him lying and if I could trust him again.  I made a mistake. My husband was 27 when I met him. He is 35 now, and the brother in law is 47. On top of finding my brother in law attractive, I have a thing for older men. Not old old but Middle Aged definitely.

I got suspended/fired from my job after getting falsely accused of threatening/harassing my female supervisor when it was all untrue. She knows I have a history with her sister (her sister ended up leading me on/changing her mind about me and I like her sister for 8 months). Her and I have joked and flirted with each other at times and have had private conversations about things even though she's married and has 2 young daughters. Her and I have even given each other Christmas gifts. Nobody really seemed to believe her about me threatening/harassing her. One of my supervisors talked favorably about me to my union representative and like 20 people signed a petition to bring me back. I got rehired last week and have worked 7 days now and I'm still working my same shift so her and I see each other. She's still one of my supervisors in my shift. I probably should be angry/hating her BUT I oddly don't. I can't say I wanna talk to her about anything either even if it's work-related.

Met this guy online who would like to see if we get along well and then get married in 6 months because he needs citizenship. He says he is ready to settle down. I asked him what happens after marriage. He said to live like a married couple and that we will share expenses. Also, why is he trying to have sex with me asap? Is it so that I'll be emotionally attached to him?