He wants to do the ceremony one day and the party the next day, told me I wasn't humble because I said no let's try to do everything the same day. He said he's paying for everything and not me. I can't even chose my colors for the theme, and the centerpieces I can't see them till the day of the wedding because he wants it to be a surprise. He's the one whose been telling me what he will add to the wedding. But he's comparing his brothers wedding to ours and wants to do the same as he did. But his brother and gf were pregnant and they had no option than to do a quick wedding. He got mad and I did too cuz he's spending around 1,000 dollars on everything. And I'm spending 5,000 because I have to fly over there. We live in different countries. He got so mad that he said we won't do anything anymore just cuz of my opinion. I don't think this is ok at all, I am the bride. I'm not asking for a fancy wedding at all. We won't even have a photographer. He just keeps complaining it's too much money. Give me your advice... this just makes me sad

I'm buying a ring for my boyfriend for Christmas and want to get it engraved, is "I love you" or our names together too basic?