My childhood best friend is 15 is the childlike dreamy kind of girl. Her parents want to host for a while her 20 years old male cousin, drug dealer, tattoos, some say he was for a while with a girl he used to sell, I don't know if I should believe it. Their house has 2 bedroom and he is going to sleep in her bedroom, because her mom doesn't want to let him on the couch in the living room. Is this normal? What if he wakes up with his needs (cmon, he is 20 and she is 15, won't he look at his cousin?) and forces her? She is much younger than him, I am 19 and I stopped going to her house since we hit adolescence, as it's awkward you know, being in the bedroom with a girl. And they  let them sleep like that,together,different beds. I don't want it. 

I'm going to get married soon and I have my grandmothers gorgeous wedding ring to use for it, and I really want to use it as a toe ring. It does totally fit and everything, and I live in california so I am and will continue to wear sandals all the time. Wearing closed toed shoes would be about as usual for me as wearing gloves. I really like toe rings, and I think this one looks really beautiful as one, even more so than as a finger ring, which I don't like the look of at all, but my mother is very against it and says it's disrespectful to my grandmother, but it's not like she's here to be upset about it, and I don't think she'd mind anyway. My boyfriend is totally on board and I'd really love to both have my wedding ring as a toe ring and to have that little novelty of doing something special with it. Would it be bad to turn this wedding ring into a wedding toe ring?Honestly, I just don't like the way wedding rings look as finger rings, and I would be much happier wearing it on my toes, but since this is a really big decision, I thought it'd be worth asking for some advice.

I went to this wedding of my friend from graduate school.  Upon arrival to the reception, I noticed that there was no kid friendly food. I approached the groom, who is my friend, and said "____, you have Indian food and chinese food, harry stacey and cooper dont eat that." He said hes sorry but i was annoyed, because he couldve told the caterer to come speak with me. I told him the truth, that he and his wife were bad at planning this, his wife then walked over to us and said she overheard the convo, asked to speak with me away from my kids (who were standing there) and said "Please leave if you are going to be this negative and have this attitude, you have been harrassing my new husband for 15 minutes. It is our wedding day blah blah" I told her to go **** herself and then my friend the groom came back and was putting on a little show for his new wife and started screaming telling me to leave now and made security escort me out. My kids who were scoping the dessert station were approached by the wife. The wife grabbed the brownie out of my 16 year old sons hand and told them to follow me out, they complied as they were scared. I then took my gift off the gift table, a blender, and stepped on it and told my kids to smash it in the lobby. I left it on the grooms car, i know what car it is, the same one from when we dated a few years ago IN GRADUATE SCHOOL :) Plwase agree with me they over reacted!

So my cousins fiancé had her bridal shower yesterday and I was really disgusted.. it was a dry bridal shower with no alcohol. After spending 70 bucks on a gift, I was really disappointed. I thought it was so cheap. She drinks , not often, but she does and to not even have wine available was so tacky. Anyone else ever been to a dry shower? Horrible.