I'm so frustrated tonight. We decided to celebrate Thanksgiving today, sunday, and for the first time, just our immediate family. It was great. My husband made the turkey, and I helped him. I made all the sides. We had dinner this evening with our kids and he wanted to watch a movie with them. As we were watching it, I got up and started cleanup in the kitchen, putting the food away, etc. I was exhausted at that point. As usual, my husband didn't lift a finger to help. I let him know I would need his help to put the turkey away, but he just stared at me and looked away. Our kids are under 5, so they couldn't help even if they wanted to. He started getting upset because the kids wanted to sit next to me and be with me. He got jealous as usual and didn't let them kiss him goodnight because he was "hurt." They're going through a phase. Two years ago they were all about him and I didn't throw a fit since I knew they loved me. I told him to not reject their love, that it wasn't healthy for them. Anyway, after his shower he just went straight to bed. I went to the room and he was laying down but not asleep. I asked him to please help me put the turkey away and he got upset. I went to the kitchen and started making space in the refrigerator and he just walked in and said, "it's a 12 lb turkey; I'm not going to help you," and walked away. I'm so upset and feel unloved and used again. He's so immature and selfish and I'm sick of it. Oh and I'm a few weeks pregnant at that. Since some answers included questions about how much work he put in besides household chores, the answer is nothing. I'm not exaggerating either. I wouldn't be frustrated if this were the case. I try my best to be as understanding as possible. He works full time, but I attend school full time (18 hours) and intern. The reason for posting this question is to vent (anonymous?) without spreading gossip among my family members. There's no narcissism involved here.😉

I always intimate the texting. He talks about meeting up all the time, but we are both extremely busy and will be able too in a few weeks. He carries the conversation, but why does he not text me first? I will wait 2-4 days in between sometimes just to see if he will text 

A)  Marrying someone from a strongly religious family B)  Believing in Love Because I, like 99% of guys, ended up in a marriage in which I am starved sexually, and have had to acquire action from other areas.  In the internationally accepted breakdown of the outcomes of husbands, I fall into a couple categories: A) 50% of guys get divorced B) 20-25% of guys are hooking with sideass C) 15-20% of guys develop a healthy porn habit D) 8-15% of guys give up on life and become obese E) 5-8% of guys drink themselves to death I am in categories B and C, and have ruled out serious issues with me, as far as the sexual frustration goes.  And I know, of course, some of you will answer some nonsense which requires me to respond with a 'GoFuckYourself', but I am asking a serious question here.  Which of the two fatal flaws factored most prominently into my situation.

...Because in this scenario, the alleged side person is more than heartily willing to do the lie detector thing and the accused cheater is poutily/sulkily refusing.

Jesus stated the only exception to divorce is because of adultery. Adultery occurs when you remarry. To end the adultery you are allowed to divorce and go back to your first marriage which is the exception Jesus talked about. If you do not go back to the original partner you must stay single or reconcile to make the original marriage work. Plus divorce does damage to the kids if you get remarried. Moses did say you were not allowed to go back to you second marriage partner when you have a certificate of divorce but you are allowed to go back to your original partner. You would be stoned to death during that time for a second marriage which causes adultery. Jesus did away with stoning because he explained to the people how to live a sinless life by ending the second marriage and going back to the first marriage.  There is so much mistakes people do with relationships that I have to treat everyone as single. Mistakes such as homosexuality and adultery. People need to stop having sex unless it is to make babies in a first marriage between a man and a woman.

My hubby comes into bed and kisses my neck and starts wanting to put his thingy in my kitty but I'm not fully aroused. He says he will tell my mother I'm not letting him get some but I don't feel turned on...is something wrong with me? Don't women take a while to get lubircated down there or should I let him ram it in every time he has tried to ram it in has been unsuccessful 

My husband criticizes everything. He will keep watching me if I'm in same room to find a fault or see me doing something wrong. He has a temper and he is always right everybody is wrong . If we sit together to eat or sit to watch tv he starts bringing up my flaws and ruins the mood. It never fails....i literally can't sit with him because he will criticize how I eat or what I say 

My husband has been taking care of me the past 2 days while I've been sick. Today, I am better and I want to express how much I appreciate him, but I am at work right now. Should I wait and tell him in person, or will a text message be just as good? Is it sweet to text someone how much you appreciate them? 

We been married 9 years, Lesbians 30's 7,the 2 years I've been seperated I've been cohabiting with my girlfriend who I am In love with. At the time we were dating I was leaving my wife and she was in a unhappy relationship se were just courting eachother no sex  , so after 4 months of living single life and dating her we became really close and decided to commit to each other we work hard for our relationship we are vulnerable and share alot with eachother. She does not know or approve of me talking to my Wife and my Wife would never tell her because shes says it would risk her not speaking to me anymore , my wife Is dating men here and there she had one kind if serious thing herself but he was abusive so she cut him , my Wife seems overall happy with her social life she getting her financial in order. I have a good income , she does not expect for me to help her . I Respect her I'm just not Romantically connected but I do still have that family connection protective I was recently diagnosed with MS she has really helped me ,while my girlfriend is now talking about we need a break to grow and work on ourselves but she is still hear for me she says , she says I need to be selfish and do some self care and self love she also is upset I'm still not divorced, so right now me and my girlfriend are separated as well but still talk everyday and have sex and me and my wife are separated and still talk and are affectionate but not sexual. What is going on with me , any advice ? 

Recently, I thought a met the perfect guy. He was everything I wanted in a person. Everything felt extremely genuine. Not only did say the right things, he put in effort. We even talked about getting married. Well, that all ended when his WIFE called me! I had no clue he was married. He blocked me off everything. His wife took him back after one week. It seems so unfair that he got away with it while I'm the one that's picking up the pieces with no answers, no explanation, and no apology. I'm trying to move on but I'm also so angry. I wonder does he even care or feel any remorse for leading me on and hurting me. I know his wife is his main concern at this point but do men ever sit back and think about the hurt they've caused or even feel remorse for it? If it makes a difference, I'm 21, He's 22 and his wife is 23... He's also in the military 

I'm asking this because my friends wife don't like me and I haven't seen or talked to my friend in years. If she really loved him she would accept his friends not keep him from them

If both parents have similar income and both spend equal time with parent how much is owed under this scenario? 

Hi everyone so my boss has this husband who doesn't work, is fat, and likes to watch pornographic videos on the computer all day. I told my boss that I will support us if we get married and I will make her martinis 🍸 every night when she feels like screaming into a pillow. I even told my boss Angela that she can massage my back until her arms feel like falling off and that she can scrub my bathroom toilet if she's tired. I will be the luckiest man in the world if I can erase her 500 pound husband from the picture. Her eldest daughter Karen who is 25   says she despises me for contemplating or ruining her parent's marriage.