I feel like he sneakily tried to get out of taking her to the grocery store and put it on me. My girlfriend doesn't know how to drive. She's 29. I've been trying to teach her and she's getting a little better as far as learning her turn signals and the gas and break, but she has no clue about directions. She doesn't even know how to get back home. She couldn't tell me how to get to her house or back. That's how horrible she is at directions. She wants to drive but I don't know how she is going to drive or even take a taxi if she can't tell people any directions on how to get home. Anyways, I don't mind taking her where she has to go whenever I'm off but my grandmother is half blind so I also have to help drive her around most places also. I take my girlfriend to work and I take her to the mall every friday to get clothes, shoes, whatever she needs. Her dad takes her to the grocery store every saturday. This arrangement has been working for us for years. I normally have to take her about 5-6 different stores/places friday. But a couple of days ago, she told me her wanted me to take her to the grocery store. I did it, but in my head I'm thinking " Hold up now, I already took her to all of these stores in the mall. I thought he was going to take her to the store."  I told her that her dad has to try to help her AND me because it's already a lot on me. Her parents didn't even try to push her to learn how to drive when she was younger. They didn't start pushing her until now.

I'm putting myself in a white environment after a bad childhood under immigrants

I'm an Aspie trying to recover from a bad childhood under non white immigrants

First time sleeping together, never had sex. She is virgin. They sleep in differents beds in her bedroom. He parents aren't home. At about 3 am at night he hears her having a nightmare, tries to wake her up but he doesn't succeed, touches her forehead and notices she is hot and has high fever, and that her clothes are soaked and wet. He takes off all her clothes except for her knickers, lets her under the blanket and turns the light on looking for dry clothes. She wakes up because of the light and notices she doesn't have clothes on. She starts crying because she doesn't understand what happened, asks him 'why did you do it?' the guy tells her 'I had to, because you have really high fever'. She can't stand what happened and keeps on crying. He hands her dry clothes and helps her put them on but she slaps his hand so goes in the kitchen and bring her some medicines to lower the fever and for her sore throat (she cannot swallow). She falls asleep crying but the day after is a bit better but still upset at the guy. Do you think the guy was right doing that, and he was more concerned of her well being rather than looking at het? Did  he do the right thing?

Help. I'm a counselor and I just met my brother in law's new girlfriend and it's an old client of mine. I didn't say how she knew me, but she figured it out and told everyone. I feel very awkward and I know I can't say anything. Has anyone else been through this? Can you please give me some advice?