I had a very difficult date with a girl last night. Basically I got laughed out of the bedroom by this girl, before even having sex. I know I'm small 'down there's (3 inches and not thick, when at full mast. Plus I'm old enough now that it's not getting bigger). This isn't the first time I've had problems either. Even nice girls who say "size doesn't matter" have ended up laughing or at least not coming back for seconds. So please girls tell me, honestly: 1. Do girls lie when they say "size doesn't matter"? 2. Why do so many girls like big ones anyway? I mean what difference does it make, if it's huge instead of small? How is sex any differrent? 3. Why do so many girls laugh if it's 3 inches? What's so funny? 4. Honestly how all do you think sex would feel for girls, if a guy was 3 inches and thin? Please, be honest? I just wanna know, and don't wanna be lied to

Basically it all started when we were put in the same group for an assignment and we were all getting to know one another I just so happened to sit next to him in class in our group and I was being friendly and witty my humour is full of sarcasm and jokes, we'd laugh and he'd take it well sometimes saying "go awaay" or "shut up" in a joking way.  But I soon realised he was a bit touchy I'd laugh at something I saw in my phone and he'd instantly think I was laughing at him instead. Now it's too the point where I'll be talking normally and he will pick out small things to bring me down or make me uncomfortable, one second he's being passive aggressive the next he's saying he likes what I'm wearing but I take it like he's judging me and not a compliment, (this guy has a gf by the way in case you say he likes me which I don't think at all). Today for example he asked where we found a certain photo for our PowerPoint and I just said "oh google" and he said "don't be a c*nt" when I wasn't being sarcastic.  After that, he was asking me about my birthday and what car I drove etc so many questions but I'm afraid to speak to the point I stutter when he talks to me because he makes me uncomfortable then he mocks the stutter when it happens. He's in my class for the next few years and two of my assignment groups I don't know how to handle it, thanks for reading sorry it's so long .

At the beginninf by the way). Anyway, long story short. I am 22, he's 28. After many stares, glances and blushing, we hang out. My first date with a guy... better late than never. He's perfect, good looking, shy, always correct and good hearted. Til this happens. He tells me he has a child. (An almost 2 years old son). I'm like... wow. A child. I love babies and kids! I thought I reacted this way cause I saw him more than a friend than a partner (after he confessed having a son). I tell him look, I might not be ready for this. I'm coming our from years of mistreatment and now I'm finally breathing. He's like, meet my son. I fell in love with his child. He's so sweet and cute. We played, had fun together, and he fell asleep in my arms after I was reading a fairytale. When his mom came, she got mad because I was at his place with their child, and that I ruin 'his idea of motherly figure'. I was like ok, I'm going home. He stopped me and let me stay when they went away he explained everything, that his ex is about to move a thousand miles away from here to start a new life with her new boyfriend, and that there's nothing he can do to stop it, the judge didn't give him custody and he is depressed cause he won't raise his child - another man will. He broke down crying and it was the first time I saw him so weak. I tried to console him but I wasn't much in the thing. After years of mistreatment I wonder why should I console someone when I went through much worse than this and no One helped me or consoled me.  But When he took my hand, I melted. He said 'why have you come in my life only now? Why after all this?' I didn't know what to say. My heart says stay, you like him, you're probably gonna love him if you just listen to your sentimental side, the other part of me says 'let go all this. You don't want to fighr with his ex, families like this never work, and why should you take a man who already has a family.  Why should you even console him, if no one did that for you'. If I listen to the innocent, good hearted me I would jump on him and say yes. If I listen to myself after all the s*** I have been through, I'll go away immediately.