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- Question: Does this mean it was a test?
- Question: Pregnant with married man's baby, should I pretend it's my boyfriend's?
- Question: Grounded 6 months (2 1/2 months in) very depressed not sure what to do?
- Question: Did I deserve to get exposed about my past?
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- Question: What should I do when my mom is saying this?
- Question: How does an income and expense declaration help out in a child support case?
- Question: I am as the non custodial parent in a child support case.?
- Question: Why was I so rough and out of control when I did it with my girlfriend (for her it was the first time)?
- Question: I slapped (18M) my sister (14F)? Was I in the wrong? And how could I have handled it better?
Question: Does this mean it was a test? Posted: 18 Nov 2019 03:22 PM PST On second date, guy said we can relax at his place for the third date. We didn't meet anyways since he had urgent work. I've also told him I don't want to do anything sexual until we are a couple. When we rescheduled the third date, we just met at the mall. Was it a test to see if I'm easy? We haven't done anything sexual and he still wants us to date more. |
Question: Pregnant with married man's baby, should I pretend it's my boyfriend's? Posted: 18 Nov 2019 02:20 PM PST I've been seeing this wealthy guy (let's call him Don) who I've had intense feelings for for a long time. However he is a womanizer and never settles down with anyone. We have been on and off for a while. He has an old school friend (let's call him Andrew) who is also wealthy and has been married for more than a decade now and has five children with his wife. Andrew's wife does not like Don because she feels his hedonistic lifestyle is a bad influence on Andrew so she's told Andrew to cut off ties with Don. Don hates her for this and has been wanting to get back at her. Andrew has always been faithful and has pretty much only been in a relationship with his wife his whole life. Don has always taunted him about this and encouraged him to explore sexually with other women outside his marriage. Lately Andrew confided in Don that he and his wife haven't been having sex because she is always so tired with the kids. Andrew was getting restless so Don decided he wanted me to seduce Andrew, both to help his friend and get back at his wife. Because I'm in love with Don, I thought this would help him see that I would do anything for him so I agreed.He introduced us at a party at Don's house where Andrew was without his wife. We hit it off and I felt sparks fly between us. Don told Andrew that I was interested in him and suggested that I was a good choice for him. For the next few days, Don would find out where Andrew and send me to pretend I'd run into him coincidentally. The second time this happened, Andrew said we should get lunch together and took me to a restaurant where admitted he had feelings for me. He also said he picked the restaurant because it was far away from his wife's circle of friends so no one would recognize him. I asked him if he wanted to come home with me afterwards and he agreed and we had sex. Since then Don has been secretly arranged more meetings between me and Andrew like letting us stay over at his house for the night while Andrew claims he is on a business trip or sometimes after he is done with work and before he goes home. Andrew's wife would check his texts so Don would act as the go-between and communicate for us so Andrew's wife wouldn't know what's going on. After a few sexual encounters, Andrew sent me flowers with a note that although he enjoyed our time together, it was time to end things. He said his wife was a very jealous woman who was getting suspicious and if she found out, she'd divorce him and he loved her too much for that. Don was very happy that his plan succeeded and that Andrew had finally cheated on his wife. However, I've since realized that I am pregnant and I am 100% sure the baby is Andrew's. I haven't been with any other guy while I was with Andrew including Don. However after learning I was pregnant, I did sleep with Don to celebrate the success of his plan. Now I am wondering if I should tell Don the baby is his so he might stay with me. I am afraid he will tell me to abort the baby if he finds out it is Andrew's or he might tell me that he is not interested in raising another man's baby. I thought about telling Andrew but I know he is a good man and I don't want to break up his family and spoil his life. I know if I asked him for help, he would give it to me and might even leave his family for my baby and I really don't have enough feelings for him to want to be with him. What should I do in this case? I don't want to abort the baby and I really want to end up with Don. |
Question: Grounded 6 months (2 1/2 months in) very depressed not sure what to do? Posted: 18 Nov 2019 11:40 AM PST 2 1/2 months ago I spent the night at a guys house and my parents found my dab pen (weed) since then I have accepted my punishment and been trying very hard to gain trust. I am homeschooling this year so since Im grounded from everything phone, friend Im very lonely. I also have alot of new chores I have to do every day before I can read or be on the computer,but they have to see my screen at all times and I can't watch anything above tv-14 Im grounded till feb 25 I got grounded during my 16 birthday, A few weeks ago I was allowed to travel by myself to visit family ( I had no phone though) I still have no car or phone at all, A month ago me and my family went to a local highschool football game my parents told me " you can go find your friends and hang out but be back at half time" also they have let me get a job, and recently they asked "IF you could have any social media what would you want" what I am saying is 2 months ago my parents said I couldn't have a job or see friends or a car and all these things now I have been able to see my friends once, my mom brought up looking for cars and I have a job. But she says she doesn't trust me with a phone and the other night when I was crying she said she was gonna suprise me and invite my friend over in a few weeks. I tell her how I am confused and how them going back on their words makes me have hope of getting ungrounded sooner and she said " you are not getting anything back till 25 of feb." I am confused and lost help. |
Question: Did I deserve to get exposed about my past? Posted: 18 Nov 2019 06:56 AM PST I've been dating my bf for 3 months now. We were walking his Husky in the park when all of the sudden my former neighbor confronted us. He called me a little Satan b**** and told him what I did to his two dogs (poisoned them to death). He considered them his children. He's still hurt over the events from nearly a decade ago. I was then 10. My bf is finding this very hard to deal with. It's understandable if the relationship won't last. Did that guy have any rights to meddle like that? Did I deserve that? Getting exposed like that? All I wanted was a 2nd chance in life and a relationship. |
Posted: 18 Nov 2019 01:10 AM PST She hasn't seen any mental health care professionals but I've always felt like something was off about her mentally. She has been fired from every job she has ever worked because of her obsession with germs. Apparently she got caught spraying Lysol everywhere and wiping down enrything she sees. Not sure where this obsession with germs came from but she's getting worse and worse every year. Now it's getting to the point where she's using paper towels to open every door( including our house door) with and she won't even touch the microwave without a paper towel. If she's not using paper towels she's wearing gloves when out to avoid using her bare hands. She also washes her Sunday excessively to the point where they are winked up dried out cracked and bleeding. She's 28. I saw her hands and they looked so terrible. She looked like she had 80 year old woman hands. I asked her " me and your father are worried about you. This hand washing is out of control. Are you even going to be able to live on your own. " Her hands were bleeding while she was talking to me. She said " I'm fine. It's just cold" her hands were bleeding as she spoke. Any advice?? I've never seen somebody this obsessed with germs. No employer is going to wanna shake someone's hands with a million cuts in it. |
Question: What should I do when my mom is saying this? Posted: 17 Nov 2019 11:51 PM PST My brother and I are in our 20's. We currently both live at home and we work, I work full time. My mom, brother, and I all live in my dad's apartment. My mom and dad are exes and they have been divorced for a long time but my mom moved in for financial reasons. She is on a date site looking to date now and she is really paranoid about a guy leaving if her kids (us) live at home. She says that right when she says we live at home, that guys end up disinterested or end up leaving. Yet she said that if we had our own apartment and she lives with us, then she could say she lives with her kids. What should I do about this? |
Question: How does an income and expense declaration help out in a child support case? Posted: 17 Nov 2019 10:58 PM PST Do both parents fill one out and also does the judge take into account all expenses on the form to figure out an amount for child support? |
Question: I am as the non custodial parent in a child support case.? Posted: 17 Nov 2019 05:48 PM PST My ex opened a child support case and I am down as the non custodial parent we were never married but I don't know why I was put as that if it's not under court order, also she spends about 55/45 time with me. My daughter spends more time with me but I would say 55/45 |
Posted: 17 Nov 2019 01:34 PM PST I basically was not myself, I bit her on the breasts and was too rough, I even held her too tight, she was a bit shocked and creeped out. I felt hungry, and out of control, like I wanted to eat her. I saw her so scared and vulnerable and started to reason again. Why the hell did this happen? I didn't mean to be like this, but I have waited almost two years waiting for her, and went without any other girl. |
Posted: 14 Nov 2019 11:26 AM PST I'm 18 (male) and currently living with my parents (I graduated last June and have trouble finding a job). In that house also lives my older brother (21), my younger sister (16), and the sister in question (14). So my sister is 14 and got kicked out of school for poor performance (35%! She skipped almost every day). The only thing she does is staying at home playing video games. As both my mother and brother have to work late, I offered to take care of the house. Well, my duties is keeping the house clean and cook for my sisters. Since I don't see why I should be the only one cleaning, I give menial tasks to my sisters (empty the dish washer, take out the trash etc.). Yesterday I asked my 14-year-old sister to clean a dirty window. She was busy playing GTA and told me "later". 2 hours later after I was done with everything else I asked her if she would EVER do the window. "Goddamnit, later" was all I got back. I cleaned it myself and it took me 2 minutes. After I was done I told her that doing nothing is what a useless brat like her does best. She got angry and said "I f*ucking hate you, go f*uck yourself" while she ran to her room. I followed her and told her that she just can't talk to me like that. She then showed her middle finger to me and said "f*uck you". That's when I exploded in rage and slapped her in the face. It was probably very hard, as she was crying and holding her left eye and cheek. Was I wrong to slap her? And how could I have handled it better? Forgot to mention that she has been caught shoplifting multiple times and my mother ends up paying the fine. She also likes to kick guys in the balls and she often does it as hard as she can. When the boy falls grabbing his junk crying, she just stands there laughing. |
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