I am a 27 year old woman whose a med student from India, who is studying in the US. I am 6'5 250 pounds, There is this handsome guy blonde personal trainer at the university gym. He is 22 blond 6'1 200 pounds all muscle. I know that he's into casual sex and has hooked up with many women at the university. I signed up for personal training sessions with him so I could spend time with him and get physical. I came to the first personal training session in long dress and make up, to impress him. During the personal training session i felt his body, and make physical contact with him. He wasn't receptive so I decided to be more direct. After the session I went to the cafe, and sat right next to him. I started chatting with him and put my arm around his shoulder and my hand near his crotch and said. "You are a very handsome man I would love to have sex with you." He told me "it's not going to happen." I called him out for sleeping with other women at the gym, who were petite and white. He said that I am not his type. I said he was racist for not having sex with brown women. I also told him that hes a misogynist for not wanting to have sex with a taller woman. He refuses to admit that he is a bigot and says that im not his type. What I see as a preference is fragile masculinity for not having sex with a woman taller than him

After getting fired he  Took his time job hunting just chilling with his child all summer. I couldn't stand that this was okay - she's his kid not mine he's barely ever paid anything towards her he does not pay child support, but we also had four other pets that need caring for, rent, food now for his daughter too NONE of which was being contributed to. His anger issues came up he strangled me in front of his kid. I told him to get out. He begged to come back after living on couches. I told him he had to get a job and make it work because I can't keep giving chances and living like this. He had to #1 be self sufficient and #2 kick the violence. He finally found a sales job that seemed to have potential. He started off ambitious but I think something bad happened when his boss started offering him $400 the weeks he made nothing. Now when he gets a deal it has to be split up to compensate for the several weeks he gets none. Even when he gets a deal it still breaks down to the $400 pay. It's probably been at least six weeks.  Still sending nothing to his kid, contributing minimally. But he now seems very comfortable living like his. He talks about getting another job sometimes, but I feel like I am setting myself up for terminal disappoint if I allow him to continue job hunting. I gave him a last chance 6 months ago and I am really considering saying that I can't continue to be with him while he figures this out all over again. But I'm also afraid of his violence.

My friend since middle school (I'm in my second year of college now) had a halloween party the other week at her house. She still lives with her parents, so her parents were bound to be there. They seems to like my boyfriend more than me for some reason though, which i don't understand. I've been dating my boyfriend since high school, so my friend and her parents havent known him for very long.  I've done so much for my friend in the past. As we were walking out to leave the party my friend's mom repeatedly told my boyfriend he should come over some more. I never get that sort of attention from her parents. What should I do next time this issue happens? This is maybe the third time I've watched her ask him to come over and I'm sick of just ignoring it.

To explain; I bought a few furniture items for our new home. We downsized, so some of our old furniture wouldn't work. I bought a coffee table, rug, and corner desk. All inexpensive, under $500 for all. My husband thinks that he should be able to buy himself some things since I made these purchases. Excuse me? Does this not sound childish? These are household items for us both to use. He says he doesnt care about the house looking nice so I shouldn't have bought anything🙄 he also compares my car payment to his equal amount tool account payment. A car is  a nesscessity, thousands of dollars in tools is not, they are not used for his job.  Since when is furniture and decor for your home that you share, personal items? What is your opinion?  Answer I didn't buy these things without his knowing and he made it clear that he didn't want to pick anything out. He said he didn't care if the house looks nice. When you down size, for example, your large desk won't fit so you may need a smaller corner style.  The previous furniture was sold to purchase many of our current, smaller scale furniture. 

Lol! Please don't get into pointless disputes or fights but are you really a man if you don't bleed?