So I been struggling with some health problems like I'm tired and in bed all the time and now that I feel sick everyone left me(they don't even know I'm.suck) they simply don't me or call me anymore  But when I was healthy I'd get alot of texts,calls and more attention,ppl would treat me better but now nobody cares about me not even my family... Why does that happen?

If a guy accidentally "waved" at you on messenger, causing you to "wave" back, would he admit it was an accident or just ignore it altogether? I was really surprised last night when I got a message from my crush and it was him "waving" to me on messenger, but when I waved back, he opened it and didn't reply.  By the way, I'm 100% sure he's not interested in me and he's also the flirty type, not shy at all.  Choko- Neither. Use your brain. I'm obviously talking about my crush, which I mentioned a few times in the question.  Why would he wave hello to me? He's never done that before and we've been Facebook friends for over a month now.  Definitely not a troll and how are you level 7 when your answers have always been crap? Get over yourself. 

so i was last year in high school friends with this one girl in my job training program but then she became too creepy around me and it made me uncomfortable so i told her towards the end of the year that i didnt want to be her friend anymore which is true i didnt and i still dont and thats never changing and we arent friends anymore to this day and i left and got a job at bobs store but because at this job training program the students intern at bobs store and other stores i am worried that she might be interning at bobs store and when she sees me ask me while there if i want to be her friend again and i dont know what i should say because i dont want to say yes just because i am at work and would have to say something like that. Even though i really dont want to be her friend ever again since i hate her so what should i say cause i am really worried that she is gonna ask me that and i dont want to say yes and then end up being stuck again being her friend when i really dont want to be her friend ever again

It is their choice to get pregnant, so why should they be entitled to take time off yet keep their job? What if they decide to have lots of kids? Employers should be free to fire women who get pregnant if they choose so Meant to say "employees" 

I feel like my friends are distancing themselves away from me because it looks like I never tell them anything. They share their secrets with me but I have no secrets to share in return. So it feels like it's one sided friendship when it's really not, it's simply that I have no secrets and I don't have stories to tell almost all the time. I do trust them, however and if there is anything that's going on I would tell them but it's just that every day is like the other and nothing is interesting enough in my life. Maybe I'm just a boring routinely person, I don't know. What do you think? 

i would like to compare but would it be gay? it's just to compare sizes to see whose is bigger not actually do anything

My good friend Carol is a single mother with a teenage son John and a teenage daughter Nancy. Carol thought it would be good for her son to have a male influence in his life so she ask me to take John to sporting events as he really likes sports. I gladly did what she wanted. I took John to several games. We both enjoyed the games and John and I became good friends. Then something unexpected happen. Nancy ask me if she could go with us to the sporting events. I told her that would be OK if it was OK with her mother. Carol was OK with it so the 3 of us went to several games together. All 3 of us enjoyed the games. I also became good friends with Nancy. At the last game both John and Nancy told me "You would make a great dad". "Would you marry our mom". I told them thanks for the complement but your mom would probably want to marry someone her age. She is a VERY BEAUTIFUL woman and could find many guys her age that would want to marry her. She is 12 years older than I am. John and Nancy said "They would not be as good a dad as you would be". Should I tell Carol about this conversation? Please help me do the right thing so nobody get hurt? THANKS

Hi, I'm in a bit of a tricky situation and just wanted a little advice. I have a colleague that suffers from mental health problems. When she meets people she's so happy and bubbly but as I've worked with her the last two years she's quite a sad person. Although she's 30 she acts about 20. Constantly seeking attention and always being over-bearing in group convos which can be quite annoying. I support her at work and give her advice. She always says that I am her best friend but I just try to keep peace at work and support her during these times. She always asks to meet up outside of work and gets upset when I don't want to. She always wants to meet my friends that she doesn't know and I don't want to introduce her because I know how manipulative she can be if things go wrong and she will latch onto my friends. I've said I like to keep work separate from my outside of work friends and she is now upset that 'she's a person and not just someone from work'. We get on really well at work, it's just myself and her that work together really, our colleagues are over an hour away. I am a lot younger than her but feel she relies on me for everything. She is a lot to deal with at work and I don't want to see her outside of work as it would be too much for me. I'll respond to messages when I can. She will ask loads of different things, do I want to go on a night out with her? Do I want to go round hers to eat? Is there a nice way to stop her asking?

I don't have friends who stands for me. I am nice guy, takes care of my friend's problems, but when I am down, no one comes up to help. There is a lot to explain but this is in short. Thank you in advance.

My friend has been really mean to me, she has made close friends with another girl she works with and for her birthday a couple of weeks ago the new friend surprised her with tickets to Harry Potter World. She has bragged about it to me a lot since she opened the gift and her cousin who doesn't like me posted on Facebook "see it goes to show, your best friends really do buy you the best presents"  I feel it was a dig at me and they know I will of seen it. I feel like the cousin wants me off the scene and it's making me want to end the friendship tbh.  I got her a pandora ring and it was as much as I could afford and I thought it was beautiful but she didn't even say thank you to me. She said it was boring.  It's made me feel really rubbish and like I should of got her more and been a better friend.  Should I get her an extra gift or walk away from her?

Im a 24 year old guy, and Ive been seeing this girl named Diana for over 2 months but we've known eachother longer. Everything has been great between us, she's always happy with me, she's always hugging and kissing me. We both Hungout on Tuesday and everything was perfect. The only problem is that lately she hasn't been texting me much, or she takes a day to reply. Yesterday she apologized to me for being distant.   She said she's dealing with personal things in her life, but she told me ive done nothing to her because ive always been great to her, apperantly she's just in a rough spot she said.   Later at night i sent her a text and she never replied. My bestfriend Kyle called her yesterday because he noticed she hasn't been herself. Apparantly she sounded very different on the phone, and she just said " im just doing me.".......    Kyle told me she might be depressed because she always goes out on saturday nights, and last night she was in bed by 9....    But why does she take forever to reply to me????? Is she over me??? What do i doo in this situation? I like and care for this girl

I have this friend, I am not romantically intrested in his gender. But whatever I do, I can't stop thinking about him. We are close too. And are "touchy" but I've been thinking about him all the time and always try to do something with him or even try to get the same classes in our schedule. My friends think he likes me when I think he doesn't too. We are opposite genders. He likes girls, along with me, (I like girls) whenever he's not with me, I always feel "lonely". I also think about what we can do for when we will eventually hangout. And whenever I go somewhere I wish he was with me. Maybe I'm just making a big dealio about this? Please help me. 😕

I have a "friend" who I see on occasion. I invited her to dinner for my birthday a bunch of us were going. 15 min before we were supposed to be there she claimed her and her 3 friends were going to the ER because another friend was having heart problems and she couldn't make it. She apologized profusely and said she'd make it up to me today and take me out.  Here's the THING she has used this EXACT same excuse on another occasion. Also, another time we were supposed to hang out she claimed she had to work even though I know for a fact she had the day off because she went to lunch with her coworker who told us the office was closed.  When we do hang out she's a good friend and we have a good time but im starting to feel like I'm only good to hang out with when she has "nothing better to do" How would you handle this?

So when we drink together (not just us two), usually he and I drink the most and we got drunk the fastest out of everyone else due to our drinking shots after shots. Then, our friends usually put us two on the bed to sleep and not disturb them any further lol. We've never had any physical contact but when drunk, he just suddenly used his thumb to caress my hair, or used his hand to hold mine down all while whispering things like "sleep".  Once, I also rested my head on his shoulder and he doesn't seem to mind (Idk if it's bc he doesn't remember or not). It made me confused as we never talk about it the next day since I'm the only one who seem to remember. I'm just confused whether this was his drinking habit or not.

Me and my friends have a band I'm the bass player we sing everything from 90's country to 80's rock we have some songs out too. Were doing a concert on Monday or Tuesday we haven't got it scheduled yet. There are some songs I do get to sing mostly its the sad ones they're some of my favorite songs from my childhood so I like to sing them. Some songs we sing are The Little Girl by Montgomery Gentry and Concrete Angel by Martina McBride those two songs made me tear up as a kid even though I loved them. We wrote a new song called Rise Up we wrote it for the people of our hometown of Dayton Ohio who were going through the shooting and the tornado this summer. Its not really our hometown but we got friends and family there and we been going there since we were kids so we call it home. We played that song for the first time in July up there when we opened up for our favorite band they said they were really touched by it especially since the drummer who we know is from there. I was trying not to cry my eyes out one it was a dream come true to open for them and two we dedecate to those throughout the Miami valley who lost everything in that tornado. It was a very emotional night for us but I try hard not to cry when I'm singing on stage sometimes its kinda hard. Is it OK to cry ?

Hi, ok so basically last night we were talking and I was talking about this chat we are all in. It's a chat for a show and they were talking about another show and we were all annoyed. So she said tell them to stop so we all did. But suddenly when I just stated something one of the people say they both get mad at me. Saying that I am complaining about it for 20 minutes and that if I don't like it leave. Even though 5 minutes ago she said that if it's a specific chat they shouldnt' be talking about another thing that isnt' a thing yet, and that some people dont' want to hear about it. It just it was my fault apparently. She got mad at me for something that she also complained about, but now I did all the harm. I dont' know what to do, how is it my fault?!

Okay so there's this group of girls at my school who are considered those really fake girls who people should avoid yet everyone loves them for some reason and they're kinda rude but they're nice to me because I talk to them sometimes we just aren't really considered "friends." Anyway, most of the time when I am walking by them, they always turn to look at me. And it makes me feel self conscious. For example, one time I was sitting on the swings and they were all talking and they kept looking back at me and then I found out that they were talking about their experiences with me last year which I found really weird. But they're nice to me and they talk to me and stuff I just don't get what they find so interesting about me. Like most of the time when I walk by them, at least some of them will just turn and look right at me. Why is this happening? Are they judging me or are they saying good things about me?

Im going to my friends mom's funeral, and I'm not sure if I should cry. On one hand, it's a funeral, and i don't want to seem like a heartless monster by not crying. But on the other hand, I didn't know this woman, so would it be disrespectful to cry ???? Thanks! :D