His wife left him. That he is me.

A friend of my husband's is going through a separation.  Hes got kids. I overheard his sister in law telling someone that his ex was waiting for him to not go by her terms with custody so she can keep the kids away from him. Her family is constantly talking about how good her boyfriend is to her and the kids.  And how he doesn't treat them different. And how shes going to take out child support on him. Even though he does everything he can for those kids.   Would you tell him?  Why or why not

I ask because I hate it so far. It feels like my accomplishments aren't mine. When I got a big promotion, my mom said I had to ask my husband first or discuss it with him. I've avoided changing my last name and it's getting suspicious. I dont want to be physical, I avoid having to say "I love you"  But hes never done anything wrong, hes working so hard to build a family, and i dont even know if i want kids, and if i do i dont think with him.  Hes kind, and always says how much he cares about me, and we keep our finances pretty separate because he knows how important independence is to me. Hes always doing the laundry and picking up and caring for me when I'm feeling depressed (which has been 7 fold since getting married).  Hes the perfect husband, why is it so hard to give him all of the same things? I care about him so much, and would never want to hurt him.  I've tried to find a therapist for the last 4 months to talk to about all of the crazy things that run through my brain, and of the (probably 15) I've called/emailed, none have had "availability".  WHY IS IT SO HARD TO GET HELP WHEN YOU LEGITIMATELY ARE HAVING A CRISIS?? its disappointing really.  Anyway, if you also felt this way during the first year of marriage, does it go away? Can I ignore this and have a happy life, or should I just stop it. Thanks.

Like it said above ive been with my husband for 10 years we have 3 kids and he just dropped this in me he tells me he's not attracted to me but he doesn't want a divorce I say ok so do you want to be just roommates he says yes so I ok thats fine but then he says he doesn't want me having sex with anyone and im like huh a you dont want me but you don't want me having sex with anyone else and he says yes i did ask him why he refused to give a anwser. So im lost what's going on with him?  Background on him he's in his late 30s and in recovery from drug alchohol and porn addiction for the last 4 months. Hes a capricorn im not sure if that matters. He's been on depression meds but our sex life has never been good We haven't had sex in almost 2 years and no he's not getting it from somewhere else because he never leaves the house he's always home he works from home never goes out with friends because he doesn't have any. Im lost and need help here

My ex-husband was 53 when he committed suicide. I'm 59. We were married for 18 years but have been divorced for 7 years. He never remarried and neither did I. We have no children together. When I'm of retirement age do I qualify for any of his benefits?

My husband and a old flame if many yrs hs e been chatting for yrs via social media.i know for afact there's no sex even from what I found from her.They had sex back in 2014 .They were lovers from the early 90s. If he's not trying to have sex with her why do he converse with her on the regular .Even when he's in town he won't go see her.

also i dont have a job dont need one either

Is this normal after divorce? Normal for a holiday for sex? And leaves 5 year old son at home with me

whenever my husband goes to my sons room I see hi kiss him very passionately then I hear thumping on the bed when they close the door is this normal bonding or should I be concerned

My boyfriend and I are very traditional when it comes to how we view marriage. We want both pair of parents to give their blessings first, but his parents are in Kenya and mine are here. However, my parents are married and have been constantly cheating on one another lately. My boyfriend is close to my dad and he's seeing the infidelity between both of them. I'm ashamed actually especially since we're really wanting to push towards marriage and finalizing everything. We are in our late twenties and currently live together.

My wife and I have been married for 4 years. We have two small children and we are both in our late 30s. Last night she goes out to a club and doesn't come home until 5am. She says she was at a friend's house. Lately we have been arguing a lot about financial issues, me working, and the kids. We are seeing a marriage counselor but deep down inside I feel that she is cheating. We never go out anymore because she makes time to go out with her friends. Am I being paranoid?

Will she make fun of his inexperience and will she shareit withhermale and female friendsand make fun of her husband behind his back..as these typeof so called modern women thinks having fun with friends is not a big deal and its her personel right to say anything to her friends?  So will the innocent husband has the chance to face humiliation in front of his wife and her friends as his wife is of open nature who does'nt think sleeping around is abig deal n instead call the husband inferior for not getting to bedanyone till now? Is this a part of modernism?

My husband just got his contractor's license in heating and air and his brother who is a master plumber and self employed asked him to do a job where he needed my husbands experience. He worked from 10 til about 4 and he paid him sixty bucks cash. My husband felt he got paid less than he should have. I said you need to tell your brother that. He said nope. He'll find out when I never talk to him again. I think that is so childish of him.

Some times I love my my husband. Sometimes I dont. Sometimes I think I moved too fast other times I think I didn't. The marriage is ok. It could be better. Noone is perfect. I'm currently cheating. So other times  I want to be free. 

I have been in a relationship with my boss for over 18 months. He has two young children with a very interfering, dramatic ex who continues to interfere with our lives. She bad mouths me to anyone who will listen and contacts me on my personal social media and work number with very hateful aggressive messages. she has shown up at work on a couple of occasions and caused a big scene in front of everyone calling me names and all in front of her children who she seems to use as her way in to all these places. I have told my partner of my feelings about this but nothing is ever done. He seems to just continue to pander to her because it's the path of least resistance for him if he wants to keep seeing his children. I feel like an idiot and worry daily in case she shows up again. Is there any hope of a solution to this situation or is it best to move on as she will be in his life forever?  I understand she is hurt as he has moved on and she hasn't, but surely her issues should be with him? She only seems to blame me for this mess even though we got together after they had broken up and I dont involve myself with her or anything to do with their children. I'd appreciate any help esp if anyone has found themselves in a similar situation! 

call his job and expel me from my university for being involved with a criminal. he abandoned the woman with a three month old baby

 So... my now-husband & I have been together for 4 years, married 1. His sister & I do not get along. She clearly hates me & she has made every attempt to be as unwelcoming as possible towards me. I am left out of group texts between the family members, left out of plans & fam events (and then when I show up w/ my husband she won't even acknowledge me. Not even a hello!) For example: This year they took a fam vaca to the beach & got a beach house. Not only was I not told about it, but when I showed up with my husband she never spoke to me. 4 days in the same house with someone, & even when I'd try to speak I'd get blown off & ignored!!) I am completely ostracized. Completely. My husbands parents act like everything is okay. My husband refuses to say anything to his sister abt her behavior.  It's taking a toll on me bc I've never been ostracized by someone before & it's hurtful. I want to do family things w/ my husband bc it makes him happy, but it's hard being in a room with ppl & they act like you don't exist.I don't know what I've done wrong. I'm a mature, professional, 32 yr old female. I'm the breadwinner in our household. They can't say I'm using my husband. And he's visibly happy with me.  Do I keep putting myself around them or do I stop & say I'm not gonna be treated like that anymore?