So me and this girl have been talking and going out for more than a month.   We both work together and everything has been great.   But im stressed,   because lately she hasn't been talking to me much.   I dont know if i did anything but she's been acting distant with me.    She been taking sooo long to reply to me or she doesn't bother replying.   She told me everything is fine but i know its not.   She replies with happy faces but she hasnt replied to my text in 5hrs. She replied to my besfriend Kevin,   she told him the she hasn't been feeling the greatest and wants to talk about it with him.   Deep down i feel like that has to dooo with me,   i dont know what i did but it makes me mad how she ignores me.     Can i please havw advice??????? Nooo she doesn't like my besfriend,  we all been close friends for years.

Hi, my name's Brent. If you have to own me, you can own me, no matter what, and you must own me, no matter what, and if you are the owner of me, you must tell me that you are the owner of me, no matter what, no matter what, and if you tell me that you are the owner of me, no matter what, you must always be the owner of me, no matter what, and I need to own you, no matter what, and if I am the owner of you, I need to tell you that I am the owner of you, no matter what, no matter what, and you must tell me that I can own you, no matter what, no matter what, and if I tell you that I am the owner of you, no matter what, I need to always be the owner of you, no matter what.

Because I'm a lonely boo, and yea I want people to give me gifts for my birthday 

A friend knows how to do it but they won't tell me how to do it.

So my best friend has another friend, her boyfriends sister, who I've only met twice for a couple of hours and my friend keeps telling me she doesn't like me.  Apparently she is bringing me up every time she sees her and is telling my friend she can't stand me and she shouldn't hang out with me.  I asked my friend what does she say when she's slagging me off and she said she doesn't say anything, it's annoyed me because if she was a true friend wouldn't she stand up for me? We were out having a meal a couple of days ago and again during eating she mentioned her and how much she hates me, it really upset me and ruined my evening, my friend just seems to find it funny. I told her it's bothering me and she just said she's being silly and to ignore her but she keeps talking about her to me! I want to confront the girl and ask her what her problem is but my friend begged me not to and said if I do she will know she told me. What should I do?

Friendship going on 7 years, We're both 21 & in totally different places in life. I have a car, license, money saved up, & have goals in life I would like to reach. This friend has a 1 year old. Has no car, no license, but she is moved out with her bf & has no money saved up except for $200-400 give or take. She asks to hang out admitting she has no money saved up but saying we should hang out (why do I have to be responsible for paying for **** I don't want to do to begin with & take you places that you want to go?) I want to hang out with her but I always have to take her ******* kid bc no one can watch the brat (I don't like kids if you couldn't tell) I see kids as a legal liability if I got in a wreck. She knew what the risks were of having a child this young in life, but then she complains how she has no money (she has 2 jobs) I have a full time job and am actively trying to put money towards my financial goals. I feel like she's just trying to use me to take her places? I don't feel like I need to pick her and her kid up in MY car that's in MY name that I pay for.  But at what point do I stop holding her hand & attempting to motivate her and just let her fail? I've tried for years and look at where she is. I just don't want to be used for my resources. Am I a bad person for wanting to not hang out with her because she doesn't have the resources I do & her life is different from mine?                                                                I'm her only friend so she's constantly being clingy & texting & calling when I'm at work &  when I'm trying to sleep for work. She also acts like a high schooler looking for drama on social media. I don't deal well with drama I have my own goals and stuff to do in life. She's always been the person that's all bark no bite.

i use to sneak out a lot and recently got suspended from school for smoking pot my mom doesnt like the boys i hang with and is trying to send me away but i love them and cant live without them or without my job car phone friends i even said ill go back to school here but i cant leave everything please help

Every time I mention friends that don't go to this school- mostly I bonded with online, at high school open houses, or they are friends of parents- whatever the case is, he insists that they aren't real. I've tried not to let it get to me, so don't tell me that. Every time I mention the name of someone who doesn't go to this school, he looks at me with a raised eyebrow and says "do you honestly expect me to believe someone would name their child that?" and laughs at me. Or I'll talk about something that happened and he'll say "Let me guess, this was with those friends who don't exist." It's getting boring but he won't stop, it's so annoying. I can't tell a teacher because then he'll bully me even harder- with even worse things than calling my best friends fake. I've had it with him and I don't know what to do. Help?

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like an asshole when you start your own business and you know that you are going to be successful...

I can't believe I even have to write this😑 I feel so dumbfounded.  I run a spiritual account on IG.  Trying to grow it so I can share my healing messages to others who need it. One account is huge: over 200k followers.  She is a horoscope account. She's been copying everything I post since she discovered my account and she's become very successful but using my content as she does it.  I asked her to stop but when I frustratingly ask her to she does it harder.  She's been doing it so subtly lately that makes me feel she does it just to bother me so that if I react I look ridiculous.  For example I used the word "shenanigans" in a post and the next day she used it.  It sounds so petty it's embarrassing to even type it.   How does one handle this situation? You try to stand out from the norm and be true to yourself but a more popular someone comes along and steals your vibe?? I commented on one of her posts and her followers called me attention seeking...I just deactivated my account because It's making me miserable.  :(  What do I do to get over this or combat this? She's relentless and creepy at this point that deactivating gives me relief. Reporting won't work i don't think . I've tried accepting it but i don't understand how someone could be so pathetic and petty and actually get away with it. The more upset I am the happier her posts get.   Any other suggestions? Thanks for reading  I'm at 8k followers if that helps.  I have tried blocking her on all her known accounts and it didn't work.  It feels like she's obsessed with my accounts and even posted about "obsession" recently as if it's okay to be obsessed over someone.  I think she may be a narcissist but that doesn't excuse anything. 

What do I do because I don't want to loose her as a friend. 

I don't know I feel kinda lost. where ever I go. people always say good about me and behind my back.. everyone that i meet my teachers my friends, my family members, basically everyone that i know and I live a disciplined life sleep early wake up early workout and all. I study I work hard, I am what many guys dream about becoming, I can flirty at time, I care about people, I look after them, I am always there for them and when it comes to being with a girl they just don't wanna be with me, They wanna be friends with me but nothing more that. I don't know, does this have to do something with me cuz they always run off to some washed up **** boy who everyone dislikes. I just don't know what wrong, is it me or is it them?

I don't know i feel kinda lost. where ever i go. people always say good about me and behind my back.. everyone that i meet my teachers my friends, my family members, basically everyone that i know and i live a disciplined life sleep early wake up early workout and all. i study I work hard, I am what many guys dream about and yet when it comes to being with a girl they just don't wanna be with me, They wanna be friends with me but nothing more that. i don't does it have to do something with me cuz they always run off to some washed up **** boy who everyone dislikes. I just don't know what wrong, is it me or is it them?

She is 23 years old. She is so lazy and like giving order. Yesterday, she borrow 6 dollar from me. I told her I do not have any money since I just graduated. She persist want, and she is gonna leaving this company next week. I knew I will never get my money back. Then she accidentally pour her shampoo on her bedsheet. She order me to use wet tissue to wipe her bedsheets. I refuse instead giving her a packet of wet tissue. So, she wipe by herself. Then she still not satisfy, she call me her her to pull her bedsheets out. And she throw a bag of her dirty clothes ordering to take to the laundry and wah for her. After washing, put in the dryer and bring back on her bed. She told me her washing detergent almost finish, so use mine for her clothes. After that, help her to put on her bedsheets. I ask her why you can't wash by yourself, she say I don't want waste my time since I am going to shower. She don't like waiting to queue at the laundry. Then she feel unhappy and take her bedsheets to the laundry while I carry her dirty clothes for her. I really dislike her attitude. Treating me like her maid. How should I defence myself?

I attend a club after school and recently a girl joined and she's really annoying. She figured out that I really don't like people getting in my personal space (especially people I don't know that well) so she basically does it the entire time. She basically treats it like a game where the main objective is to make me as uncomfortable as possible. I know she's probably doing it for attention so I try to ignore it but it's kind of hard for me to chill and talk to my friends when she's constantly annoying me. I've asked her to stop many times and she still persists. No she's not doing it because she has a crush on me, she is a lesbian. How can I get her to stop without making it awkward?

from what u can see of her, how would u rate her looks from 1-10? please be honest for best answer

I grew up not having any friends at all I still dont to this day is pretty boring being alone but Im pretty sure I know why people dont like me is because they see I cant stand up for my self or dont stand up for myself. Like why do people want to see you stand up for yourself so bad im 23 & I still have this bully that I meant when I was in  school Idk who that person is but who ever that person I meet before Is still talking so much trash about me doing everything he can to make people hate me I have so many haters that Idk who is the one talking trash. I use to talk to this one person he hates me and was never my friend he straight up said I dont like you Im not your friend because you cant communicate thats so F up just because I cant communicate how you want you dont want to talk to me ? One of my friend would even pick a fight with me & I knew him for a long time then we just never talk after that I got bullied alot too In all my school years from kid to high school as I think of it people really do pick on the weak person but why you want to make a monster out of that person? I really really dont know why people are so mean. 

after she had a little too much to drink at the bar, he brought her in and didn't say much just "hey, she should stay, had a little too much to drink" no expression and left. She told me he was acting really really weird. What was that about?

I just don't know. Sometimes I'm an expert and sometimes I'm not and every time I'm still talking about something. I just don't know when I'm bullshting or not.