I am really needing some help for my mom. She has been married to my stepdad for 17 years. They have a 17 year old son together & a 10 year old daughter. During their entire marriage my step dad has done nothing but treat my mom like complete ****. Cheating on her, lying to her, hiding money from her, not giving her access to his bank account, etc. Early this week her car got repossessed. It was a complete shock to my mom because my step dad has been telling her that he has been "paying her car payments", but it turns out he purposely stopped paying them three months ago. He suspected that she wanted to get a divorce so out of spite he had her 2019 Kia Sportage repossessed. He still hasn't admitted to knowing, but we went though my brother's phone and found messages of them both talking about how her car is about to be gone. She asked him to try to get it back and he says he has been calling the people trying to work stuff out. I called the people today and they haven't heard from him at all. Because of this little stunt he has completely screwed up his and my moms credit. My mom wants to leave him but feels trapped. My step dad and my brother constantly treat my mom like trash, belittle her, call her names and the second she tries to defend herself it starts a HUGE fight. I am sick and tired of my mom getting treated like this and I HATE that my 10 year old sister has to witness her father and older brother treating her mom like complete ****. Even a $1 will be appreciated! Title should be "Help mother of three that's about to go through a nasty divorce" lol. Huge typo I've been up since 5ish haha. Sorry about that

How long would you wait for the man you love to reach back out to you after a falling out with him. You love each other but he is spooked and angry because he thinks you blocked him (you didn't). He has been hurt in the past.

The worst waiting experience I ever had was when my wife said one day whilst we were both in the city, that she was going to do her hair. No matter what errand I went to do, every time I came back...she was in some other form of salon treatment. I dunno if she thought this was supposed to entice me into sex...but the waiting honestly killed it for me...I should have followed my gut and gone home to sleep....instead of foolishly thinking she we would finish before I was done with my errands.

My boyfriend and I are in our late twenties and have openly discussed our relationship and future together. We're both aligned in terms of wanting to live together, get married, and eventually have children. It's important to both of us that we live together before getting engaged to ensure we're truly compatible all around, but we've agreed that since the ultimate goal is to get married, we'd like to get engaged within one year of living together. Neither of us have ever lived with a partner before so any advice would be greatly appreciated! We really want to work together and have a future together. Thanks in advance. :)

We've been together for 4 years  You don't have to be rude with the answers like "if you have to ask maybe you are too young". I'm scared of divorce statistics and want opinions, I don't see what's immature about that? I'm not asking for you to make a choice for me, I'm being smart and gathering advise and opinions before making such a huge commitment

So my fiancé told me that he is not sexually satisfied it's good, but it's not enough. He didn't want to cheat and doesn't plan on cheating but he has the hunger for something. He said he loves me to the death and I'm everything a wife should be & I do everything for him and he feels he can never find that with another female but he needs something. A threesome should I do it? Or leave him? He said he is willing to try anything to save us he never wants us to break up. But says what if the three some isn't enough. What do I do? 

For the past few days I've been working on on my 2020 benefits on my job.  I selected all my medical, dental, and vision options but when I got to the life insurance section I had to select a beneficiary.  I'm married with one biological daughter, not by my wife.  My wife has 2 sons from her first marriage.  All the kids are grown and out of the house but I plan to split my insurance 60/40 in favor of my daughter.  My wife will be a beneficiary but she'll be getting the 40%.  I haven't mentioned that to my wife but some have told me that it should split it 50/50 between the two.  How will my wife feel when or if she finds out I left my daughter a bigger portion of the money instead of her?  She's said that I have always favored my daughter and she's right.  I've had my daughter all her life.  My wife and I have only known each other for about 16 years.  No, I'm not leaving her sons anything.  I'm sure she's leaving her sons more on her job and probably isn't leaving my daughter anything.  Am I wrong to split it this way?  I just want to make sure my daughter has something to fall back on in the case something happens to me.

Ex wife/wife filed for a divorce using our old address. We both currently live out of state. When I heard that she filed (from current tenant) I notified the court that they don't have jurisdiction over the said matter. Court stated because I come to the county to visit my daughter once a month  that I am a resident. Ex wife/wife flew in town to appear in court for the divorce, I couldn't because of work. There was a judgement on the pleadings and the judge granted divorce. I was told that I could vacate the ruling for lack of jurisdiction. I was in town yesterday visiting my daughter. I stopped by the courthouse to get a blank motion to set aside and the clerk told me that she didn't have one. She said I'll have to print in online. I've been searching high and low for that form. Can someone please assist?

She don't seem like she's interested in me anymore. I was watching our sex videos and she used to be freaky af. Now it's just like eh let's get it over with. Is this how marriages die? I read that breastfeeding makes sex drive go away and she plans to do it for 2 years 😭😭😭 what do I do? How do you turn someone on who physiologically can't? Pls help SOS 😭😭😭😭

Many years after my parent's divorce, it turns out that I'm not the last child of my father. Is it something bothering? Never met in real with half sibling. This isn't discussed while I was growing up.