Not that I think women should have to totally submit to a husband but just now a days it is the extreme opposite. For example my father does not have a voice, he must submit to my mother's demands. He even has had to end friendships at her demanding. I know others that refuse this control by the woman and so end up divorced. I have learned from others it is not just my parents but all. Why do men no longer have rights in a marriage? Is marriage worth it if I, a man, must submit to a wife like she has kidnapped me? Is there even a point of living anymore?

My father is mentally, verbally and emotionally abusive. In the state of New Jersey, divorce papers require both signatures. My mother wants a divorce, but my father won't go through with it. As someone who cares deeply for their mother and hates their father, I want to help, but I'm not sure what to do considering that New Jersey divorce law sucks. I'm just trying to help my mom and I'm a teen who doesn't know much about law. I'm sorry if my question seems dumb or something, but sometimes you just really don't know what to do.

I'm happily in a relationship and I'll be getting married next year. The side guy action was lurking my Instagram account from his fake page. He viewed my story from that obvious fake profile he created. I blocked him a long time ago. The sex was fun but he's very drama-filled. I couldn't deal anymore. He'll always find a way to watch my accounts if I block him or not. 

I divorced last January 2018. So I'm approaching two years. My ex husband and I had been separated since July 2017, so it's really like two and half years. It was a physical and emotional abusive marriage, hence why I left. I had no friends during my marriage and none now. I have four young children that I take care of with the help of family—I work full time and go to school part time. I get like one day/night a month to myself without my children, but I never can find ways to meet genuine people. And of course guys who show interest in me—are only trying to screw me or they are married and wasting my time or they lose interest once they see how busy I am as a single mom. Now that the holidays are here, I feel more depressed and angry about my life. I am very beautiful but lack confidence in putting myself out there because I've found that men either take advantage and just want sex and women—are leery of bringing me into their life and circle of friends. I'm 36, soon to be 37 and live in a very popular city. 

I'm 45 and have a 2 year old son. My husband is 40 and we have been married for 13 years. He's made numerous comments after I've had our child on how I should loose some weight. The thing is I'm not overweight at all and on the thinner side. He's especially makss comments on teenaged girls and how they have nice little bodies and I should go for that. His comments really hurt me. He himself is quite overweight. The worse comment he ever made to me was about this girl we know who's 15 she has an eating disorder and is very thin, he told me she has the most perfect body. I keep telling myself men are stupid like that but it's still hurtful to me.

And why don't they spend time with the wife?

I don't want to change my last name. I want to continue to live at home in a nuclear family setting. I want separate bank accounts. I'm pretty much the definition of a nontraditional woman. I've been told that I scare away all the guys who are even remotely interested in me because I'm "too independent" and "too strong." I'm 23 years old. Is there any hope for me to marry? Wow talk about cyberbullies! I'm already considering suicide. Maybe I should just end it... I'll never find happiness! Thank you for the conformation. I'm going to go kill myself now.

My husband and I are going through some hard times.   He is very disconnected emotionally and tends to work most of the time.  I am grateful for him being a provider,but it's caused this void between us.  It also seems like he bas stopped trying.  He has let himself go and doesn't make an effort for his appearance.   From this, I have sought the attention of other people (men).  But it all strictly been messages via text.  Frankly, I am 21 years old.  I regret marrying to young.  I wish I had gotten the experience of life and messing around with other people. I told my husband all of this and he became very upset.   He threatened to kick me out of our apartment. He threatened to tell my parents that I was talking to other men.  He has thrown me up against walls, put his hand over my mouth and squeezed when I haven't said something he likes, pulled my hair, choked me, etc. Last night, he wanted to take me out to dinner and make things right.   I had quite a bit to drink and began talking about everything that was going on between us.  He didnt like that.  He again threatened to tell my parents  what a "whore" I was.  He gave me 3 options - go to my parents, go home with him, or go be hospitalized in the psych ward.  I chose to go home with him where he forced me to take some of his sleeping medication.    I can vaguely remember last night.  I woke up to no clothes on my lower half, pain, and what seemed to be ejeculate..... I don't know what to do.  What should I do?

My husband and I are considering getting divorced. I'm considering keeping the house we bought together after we split, but I'm a little nervous that staying in our house might bring bad luck to potential future romantic relationships. Do you think it's bad luck to stay in the house you were once married in, or would you recommend selling the house and buying a new one?

We've been friends for 8 years. Dated for 3 years and got married a year ago. We are both 35. The entire duration of our relationship she's never shown any attraction towards me in a sexual way. She likes to kiss me but it ends there. She has never initiated sex not once and doesn't really act like she's into it whenever we have sex. She claims she doesn't have a high sex drive but it seem like she don't have a sex drive at all at least around me. She claims she love me but her actions tell otherwise. She acts weird when I touch her too. Most women like to be touched by their man. I feel like she really loved the man she got with before me but she's only with me because I'm " safe". She knows I'll never hurt her. All her other exes cheated on her. Dogged her out. She could never find a man willing to committ. She lost her virginity to me, but when she was with her ex who she dated before me she told me she initiated oral sex not just one but multiple times. I just feel like she views me as a really good friend. But she's staying with me because she knows no other man will treat her the way I do. I let her be a stay at wife give her lots of shopping money, she doesn't drive so I drive her everywhere. She knows no other man will do that. But what do I do 

Me and my wife are celebrating our 1 year anniversary tomorrow. What should we do for it ?