I'm tired of people disrespecting me and treating me like crap and not feeling a bit of remorse about it, and getting away with it. I've wanted to get revenge, but I don't let myself because it's not worth it, but I feel like karma will not pay them a visit. Everyone I know who has severely mistreated me is living a very good life and is doing very well. It's not that I don't want people to do well, people deserve should do well, but it feels like no one is at all paying for what they've done. Nothing has come back around to them. What's gone around hasn't come back around. Will it ever?

Freshman and sophomore year I didn't fully enjoy but there was a certain charm to it and I liked making new friends. Everything was new to me and there was always something going on. Now it's junior year and i'm the loneliest i've ever been. My closest friends were seniors last year but they left and so have a bunch of others friends from freshman and sophomore year. School feels so dull now and I barely have any close friends at all now. I even sorta miss my bully from the past 2 years who left aswell. It's just the fact that it at least made school interesting and different everyday. All I do now is work and exercise a few times a week. How do I get through this? I'm tired of feeling lonely and sad, especially since i'm a cute guy and have a good personality and compared to my peers, i'm having the worst time of my life..

She never likes to sleep at friends houses and always asks me to text her friends mums telling them she can't go for whatever reason. She says that she feels butterfly's and just hates the thought of sleeping in somebody else's house. It is not just sleepovers, she just doesn't like going to other people's houses and feels really nervous and she doesn't know why. This is making her feel really down lately as all her friends are having sleepovers for their birthdays and she feels very left and a guilty for lying, is there any reason for this? Is it a type of social anxiety? What caused it? I am just feeling sorry for her and want to know how I can help This is not an update but she is 12 years old and everyone her age has sleepovers so for her they are not stupid and are very 'cool'

So last night I was at her place. I'm a guy btw. and even though I had another bed to sleep in(she has another room with a bed) I asked her if I could sleep with her in her own bed. (which is a twin bed btw so you're not very comfortable if two people are sleeping into it).. she said ok and we slept. Her mom and dad were in their room so I didn't really do anything besides actually sleeping. I couldn't even try to have sex with her because her parents were in the other room plus she was really tired so I let her sleep. But the thing is: we'll be going to vacation to Florida next week and there will be the moment where I have to book the type of bed at the hotel. Considering she let me sleep in her own twin bed with her do you think she'll be mad if I book a room with just one bed? (a double bed)...

Hey guys! This is so cwazy of me and I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but I can't help it. My best friend keeps telling me I am the ugliest person she has ever seen. She will say things like "just read my syllabus and it says I won't pass the class because you are so ******* ugly," "I found a mindfulness technique online that is supposed to help people like you , the clinically hideous," "I'm SORing you for being this ugly," or "astrology twitter explain why she is so ******* ugly." And yes, these are direct quotes. I don't know! maybe I am just being cwazy! I just laugh it off and vibe it out. People tell me to stop talking to her, but it kind of feels good to be humbled. Help? 

I notice in school and college I was liked by many people or ignored, but then I notice a few people they target me specifically and mock me in class. The group include couple of boys and girls and I am puzzled why they are mean to me. 

My friend sleeps around with multiple partners that she has met online. She does not always use protection and this bothers me. I have not said anything to her because it would cause problems in our friendship. I have noticed that she has health problems but refuses to see a doctor.

I have a super close female friend, and we do all the typical best friend stuff. We're long distance so when we are together, we are very physically affectionate. We like to walk hand in hand, hug a lot, and just appreciate being together on the few occasions that is possible.  Anyway I recently discovered that she's asking my brother and other family members about when I'm going to "come out". I find this very hurtful as it is not the truth, she knows that I am a Christian and we have discussed this before. I want to confront her (gently) so this doesn't go any further. We don't intend to change our behaviors, but I don't want to encourage these types of rumors. Thoughts?

I went to my class reunion and a classmate Judy was there. Judy was the person that tutored me in high school. Without her help I would have NEVER passed math and if I didn't pass math, I didn't graduate. I went on to a successful career after college. I told Judy I was VERY grateful for her tutoring help in high school and I wanted to show her how much I appreciated it. I invited her and her husband to join me for dinner at Ruth Chris. She told me her husband would not let her go on a date with a guy. I though how could it be a date if he was with her. I thought her husband must be a nut job so I forgot about it. A few months later Judy called and asked it the dinner invitation was still good? I said sure. She told me she had divorced her control freak jerk of a husband and wanted to do something that was fun for her for a change. After dinner she told me that was the most fun she had had in years and asked if we could do it again. I am sorry she has been treated so badly by her ex husband but I am not interested in a serious relation with her. Should I tell her up front that I am not interested in a serious relationship but I would be happy to take her on a FEW just for fun dates? Gals, please give me your advice. I don't want to hurt her or make her feel bad in any way. She has had enough problems in her past life and I don't want to add to her problems.

I ask a smimple question of what would happen if I tickle my gf too much cause I didn't want to do it too much and the awnsers I get are awful. To start I treat my girl like a queen she is her own person why be so rude to your girl. Cause when I ask that question some said "probably punxh you in the face and go to a NORMAL guy" what is normal. I only tickle my gf to make her day when she is having a bad one and it works she laughs and smiles and she says it lightened her day a bit why do people on her gotta be that way

I recently moved to a new school but my mom thinks I'm lying about already having friends because I don't have pictures of them and never hang out with them.I have to much anxiety to ask for pictures like I used to with my old friends.My mom is also trying to bully me into having a Christmas party but I'm scared to invite them and they say no cause they all work.I also have a major crush on a guy in the class I have with them that I want to invite but I don't want them to know or question why I'm inviting him. Please tell me how you would handle this and thanks in advance for responding.

My family line comes from Syria/Lebanon but I was actually born and raised in the US. I accepted a friend req from one middle eastern person even though I had no mutual friends..simply because I wanted to understand more about the middle eastern people. Unfortunately the person started sending me nudes and asking for mine...that on top of the fact that more random middle eastern people have started sending me friend reqs. I simply don't accept and removed the first one...but WHY? Do you think it is because they had been banned from the internet and so now that it's accessible to them they are going to have to take some time to develop internet social standards?

i'm a man in my early forties and i was well brought up and have mostly been a shy/gentle guy and being assertive hasn't come natural to me...i have been assertive and can do it, but there's times ive struggled and let others push me around or sway me.......i'm a very mentally strong man as ive been through a lot in life. but i want to start being effective at asserting myself and putting people in their place if the situation requires it...but having the trait of being shy and gentle, it makes it harder, plus ive often struggled with my self confidence. any tips or advice?  and please don't put '' go on an assertive training course''. i want real answers.

I am a 27 year old female fixing to be 28 and I have a friend that's 60 and me and her used to text quite a bit but since August of last year she has not been texting me much at all really. I know she is really busy with her job and her family but it is really bothering me again and it makes me cry. Is our friendship fading? She has told me that she's not going anywhere though so I believe her 

I don't mean romantically. Just generally liking a person. 

We text all the time. Usually he does text me first but when he does text me he seems uninterested sometimes. Like sometimes he stops replying and then lies with an excuse about where he went. I told him how I don't like when he does that and he apologizes but then keeps on doing it. But other times he does seem into the conversation and he tells me he cares about me. Do you think he's a fake friend or am I just being too sensitive?

Hi, So I have friends but they never really wanna hang out and they don't make any effort to, how do I find real ones?

Let's say there is a woman who is a fairly nice person but isn't very friendly towards people outside of her clique, she also appears to be a bit reserved when she's around people who she's not close to, many people outside of her clique think of her as a snob, she also appears to be a bit annoyed when people outside of her clique are wanting to have a conversation with her.

Hi, So my friend invited one other person and they live 5 minutes away. I live lit 20 and I coulda come.. I wasn't asked and it makes me feel really sad that they dont' seem to care enough :/

I'm quite a private person/ I enjoy my privacy. We hang out but whenever I say I'm busy he ALWAYS every time asks what I'm doing specifically, it's the same with if he asks me to get something for him he can't get and asks specifically where I get it from (even though it's not something he would be able to get from where i get it from anyway- like someone i know well but he doesn't). It feels really invasive and nosy, and if I tell him to dial it back a bit and give me space he persists relentlessly or calls me a "weirdo" and gets genuinely pissed. He's kinda my best friend though and he can be really supportive.

I have notice as of late with two of my friends one supposed to be best friend. I am friends with both of them, even before they knew each other. However as of late they seem to only want to spend time with our other mutual friends who are married. I hear one or both say "want to hang out with X couple?". However when it comes to their single friends "-blank-" or "yeah they can come to". Like us single friends are an after thought, not someone you would actively think about when wanting to hang out. This is just my current take on it. Also I am friends with all four people. I have noticed this trend before multiple times with other friends and people. Which is why I am curious.

My friend moved across the country to California. She posted on her Instagram story that she was doing an event in the area. She has a lot of friends, so I feel like if I text her she is going to say she is busy, which would leave me heartbroken, as I miss her a lot. Should I text her and see when she is going to be in town?

Someone I've known since childhood has become a she.  I want to be supportive of her; but given how long I've known her, it's jarring to see this new side. I don't feel that I should bottle up my discomfort but if I speak up, I could hurt her feelings. Can anyone help me come to terms with her decision?