Family: Question: My family is sabotaging me?

Question: My family is sabotaging me?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 01:56 PM PDT

They've set me up to look crazy and hospitalized me several times, and now that i'm doing well in school. they took my glasses and claim they don't know where it is, and say like "why would we do something like that" i can't do anything without them... i want to cut them out of my life, but i still depend on them. I want to go out and buy food but i'm afraid of getting lost,

Question: I don’t know why this person is taking revenge from me?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 01:52 PM PDT

In my school there is this boy he used to sit next to me in maths but he decided to move but all of a sudden his is starting to take revenge I don't know why. He took my iPhone then he took my 20 dollars and then he came to speak to me laughing that your guess is right it is me doing everything he got me in trouble and got his gang of friends to beat up me and my friends and I asked him why you doing all of this he said revenge and i said what revenge he said wait I will tell you very soon but till then I will make your life hell. I don't know why he is taking revenge from me I did nothing to him How do I find out why he wants to take revenge from me

Question: My brother drives a big truck and has tattoos but drinks hard seltzer instead of beer. What should I do?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 01:46 PM PDT

Question: How do I stop my mom from drinking alcohol?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 01:19 PM PDT

I think my mom is an alcoholic. She drinks wine every single night and she always gets drunk so easily and it's so obvious to anyone around her, but my family members won't admit it, I tell them that she is drunk again but they just flip it off and say that I'm exaggerating (only my sister understands me sometimes). The problem is the way she is when she is drunk, she victimizes herself all the time, doesn't think clearly, speaks in a very odd way, and keeps threating me if I ever do something that bothers her (everything bothers her when she's drunk). She has always been like that since I was a little child, but now it has become worse. We get into fights all the time, and I tell her that she is drunk and she needs to stop drinking so much, but she says she is sober and awake and acts very superior towards me. Right now we just had a very bad fight because she wasn't thinking clearly of her actions, and we argued a lot. I told her that she is too drunk and that's why we are always fighting, I couldn't stand anymore because I always try to be calm when she gets drunk, but she is too annoying and pushy and does too many stupid things and it bothers me a lot, so I told her everything that bothers me so we got into a fight. Please help me do something about it, she needs help, if I tell this to a family member they would not take me seriously and probably tell the conversation to my mother.

Question: I want breast reduction surgery, but my parents are completely against it. how can i convince them otherwise?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 12:54 PM PDT

im a 17 year old female, i weigh 100lbs, but i have size 30JJ boobs. ive tried everything to get rid of them, but i guess its just genetics, since all the women on my fathers side of the family all are big boobed too. i really hate having massive boobs, they restrict me from doing so many things and wearing certain things. i cant go to the gym because i cant find a sports bra that fits me. even if they were well confined, all they do is move about. it hurts too, my back kills me every day trying to do things but its impossible with boulders sitting on my chest. its also super expensive for my bras, theyre like £40 for one. clothes wise- it makes me look fat. like it really does. because all the jumpers i wear sit out at the top, the rest sits out too. and the reason i wear jumpers is to try and hide them. ive asked my mother about getting a chest binder, and she just told me to wise up, but when i talked about getting breast reduction surgery, she just laughed at me and said no. i really feel uncomfortable with them but i swear nothing ive tried has or ever will change my mothers mind. id like them to be reduced to a C cup, or maybe a D. i realise the surgery will be expensive, but she wont even let me go for a consultation so well probably never find out how much it really will be. how can i convince my mother to let me get the surgery??

Question: How to not feel awkward around my dad's girlfriend?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 12:40 PM PDT

My dad's been with his partner for around three years now, though they're not serious or anything but any time I'm with them or around her I feel awkward. See my mum passed away four years ago and this is my dads first partner since. I like her and think she's lovely, but I always feel awkward when she's around because I can tell my dad's trying to make a less awkward atmosphere by starting conversations and joking around. Is there any way to not feel so awkward around her?

Question: My mom is really upsetting me, I feel like I'm not getting the same attention as my sisters?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 12:31 PM PDT

I'm an only son, no brothers, just two older sisters. I just turned 20, my sisters are in their late 20s. I believe it is because I'm the youngest, and if my mom continues this, our relationship will begin to tear apart. My mom never shares any plans with me until the day it happens. My sisters and my mom talk about plans and so on, thus, they all are aware of what's going on. Even my cousin who is younger than me by 3 years, his parents tell him what's going on at least week in advance. By the way, my family in general is like this, but my mom is specifically the one who plans. My mom tells my dad stories about who did what, and so on. My family all share stories within each other, and if I get involved, they tell me its not my business. Whenever I'm a part of a birthday planning, or did something with my family or whatever, my mom will talk about these things with family, and leave me out of the conversation. When I ask why she left me out, she'll say, "oh I wasn't paying attention", "oh I forgot" whatever the excuse may be. Recently, they held one of my sister birthday, and I helped a lot. My mom mentioned how my older sister prepped so much. My dad was at work, so he did nothing. I was never mentioned as a helper. When my oldest sister broke her legs, younger one had surgery, dad broke his arms, my mom was examined for cancer, everyone knew and came to visit whoever. When I broke my ribs, 2 weeks after we had guest, my mom didn't tell a single guest about it.

Question: Should you make your two College kids pay rent?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 12:02 PM PDT

I have two kids one is entering college the other is one year in. My new husband feels i should have them help with bills. Like rent & lights. My kids pay there own cell phone bills, food, and if i cook they eat as well. My kids only work 24 hours a week so its not like they earn a lot. I feel this is making me resent my husband. I feel once my kids graduate then they will pay a portion of rent or they can find another place,but now isn't the time

Question: Categorize the following as ok, awkward, pedophilia and/or incest: dad kisses his daughter on the lips for a) 1 sec, b) 5 secs, c) 1 min and?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 11:53 AM PDT

d) much longer than a minute. Also, do the same for when the dad kisses his daughter but also slips his tongue, i.e., makes out with her. So a total of 8 different cases. Assume the daughter is almost a teen and that both of them were alone in all cases. Also, which of these cases would pass as molestation?

Question: My dad wants to come to my driving lessons?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 11:44 AM PDT

I have driving lessons with an instructor to get my license and my dad wants to come in the car too, to watch what happens. My dad thinks that he is going to do something is going to happen to me, he thinks that they are going to assault me or touch me inappropriately. It is really annoying because nothing is going to happen to me. When I try talking to him about it he just ignores me because he is so paranoid that something is going to happen to me. Has your parents ever came to your driving lessons with your instructors.

Question: Is it normal for my step dad to talk about my lack of breasts and butt?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 11:42 AM PDT

When I was younger my step dad would make comments about my lack of breasts and refer to them as mosquito bites. He would also make comment about my bony butt. No he's never touched me. I would always think it was no big deal and was normal. But he was my step dad who literally just stepped into my life. Now I'm so ridiculously uncomfortable around him. Some one tell me if I should just get over myself or if I should tell my mother. I know it's not that big of a deal. also my mother seems to have convinced herself that he is my biological father. How can I bring her back to reality?

Question: Teen did her own clothes shopping.. NOT HAPPY WITH WHAT CAME HOME?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 11:35 AM PDT

So my 15 year old daughter was given a card with money on it to buy clothes for the school year.. She comes home with crop tops, low cut vnecks, booty shorts, overly ripped jeans, a short skirt and fishnets. There's some more i'm sure but i don't know what to do. She just shows me all the clothes like it's okay!! I didn't think too much until she TRIED THEM ON and I was not happy with any. MAYBE ONE was OKAY but the other outfits were just not okay and I'm sure her school will dress code her. My daughter is beautiful and I want her to express her style but she looks 21 because she wears makeup too and her body is very grown for a 15 year old and those clothes are just making it 10x worse. Advice?

Question: My stupid dad won't buy me the car i want?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 11:28 AM PDT

I am 16 years old and i my father agreed to buy me a car, i want a 2016 Audi SQ5 which i found a good deal for it, it isn't even that much money. But his idea of getting me a car is a 2002 Honda Accord off of craigslist. I am pissed off because of this. 2002 is too old. What should i do? I am crying. Should i just bother him until he buys it? I am going crazy.

Question: Is it a good idea to have kids in your 20's if you already have a good job with a good income to be able to support a child?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 11:06 AM PDT

Question: Since my mom is Mexican and can't speak English should she work at a titie Bar?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 10:57 AM PDT

Question: Is it weird that we have such a close bond? Why is she doing all of this?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 10:24 AM PDT

I've been at a low place in my life and I'm just not doing too great.. I have a special friend, she and I have a special bond.. my friend has noticed and has checked up on me a lot lately because of how I've been, I cried to her on the phone the other day as I wasn't doing great at all. She's helped me through a lot of dark times.. on the phone she was there for me, helping me tak through stuff but she told me she's monitoring me and watching what I post and making sure I'm fine or not doing anything dumb. She even put me in check the other day (got after me) for considering something bad. She even told me if things got worse she'd call my family.. She's super caring to me but we have a close bond for such different ages but why is she all over me? I'm 19 and she's 60, we're very close friends.. like I had said, she's very concerned. She said I was like her own kid (she has no kids) and even threatens to drive all the way over here and whip my butt. Why is she so worried? She even gave me her address if I needed anything (when I am around her town) to go by whenever I needed to.. why would she trust me so much to give me her address? Not saying I would break her trust but why is she being so loving?

Question: I disowned my sons because I wanted a daughter. What are your thoughts?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 10:16 AM PDT

I always wanted a little girl and yet ended with two boys. I'm angry years later and what's even more sickening is that my eldest son gets to have both a son and a daughter while I had NO daughter. I'm sick of nature. Nature or God obviously favored my children over me. Why did He not give me a daughter but then turn around and give my son BOTH a son and a daughter? Am I not good enough? Does He favor my son over me? I'm glad I disowned them. I don't ever want to see there faces again. And I want them to STOP contacting me and trying to rebuild a relationship. WHY do they want me in their lives anyway?! They get a son and a daughter! They're obviously better than me! They don't need me in their lives. Starting tomorrow, I'm permanently cutting off all ties and contacts with them. I don't want to see them anymore. They can live their lives by themselves and their perfect families. I'm done.

Question: My mom is never happy with what she has?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 10:10 AM PDT

My mom is always complaining about how she wants he relationship to be perfect. A bigger house. She's always complaining how her boyfriend doesn't do enough. It's unreasonable. When she fights with her boyfriend about what she wants it puts her in a bad mood. She's never happy with what she has. It's hard on me when I want to hang out with my mom but she's either complaining or upset. What do I say/do that's not too harsh to snap her out of it and appreciate life. I'm 16 btw.

Question: Why is it a bad idea to buy my sister's half of my mom's place? I'll never have the opportunity to buy a place for half price again?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 09:57 AM PDT

I'm on a limited income. Born with spina bifida.

Question: Why do my mom and grandma hate me?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 09:57 AM PDT

I know they hate me i just feel it. My grandma is always giving me dirty looks and says really hurtful stuff and my mom just laughs at everything she says. Im only 17 years old, I havent done anything wrong, But i know they dont like me, i know they dont like my presence. I feel the vibe. My mom only worries about her stupid *** boyfriend, idk what to do anymore.. I want to leave this house.

Question: I have a brother who is a druggy. My parents by him food but don't give him money. Is this enabling still?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 09:24 AM PDT

Question: Do you want a spanking?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 09:23 AM PDT

Why do parents always ask this? The answer is no!

Question: Why do I feel like my family is against me?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 09:13 AM PDT

I live with my mom,dad and grandma. My grandma recently came from El Salvador and ever since she has arrived she has been criticizing me, she's always complaining about something. So today in the morning I got up to make some coffee, her and my mom were sitting down in the table while i was making my coffee I over heard my grandma telling my mom " do you think she'll help you with money when she grows older" and my mom said "no I doubt it " then my grandma said "the only one that helps and actully cares is gio(my older brother) " then she continued saying " you can tell when kids are growing up who actually cares and who doesnt " and I know she was referring to me. I was going to say something to her but I decided not to because if I say something Im going to say some s*** shes not going to like. And well I just feel like the only one that really cares about me is my dad :( because he has never said anything like that to me and it really hurts me to hear these words coming from my own family members.. I haven't done anything wrong for them to talk down on me.

Question: Dorm room protocol?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 08:50 AM PDT

I am a freshman in college and really am at a loss for something that happened today. I share a room with three other girls, and today two of them complained that they've "had to see me naked." I wasn't sure what that meant but they were really on me and acting like I'm all inapropriate. It suddenly dawned on me that they had been going down the hall to change clothes in the restroom stall all semester. I never realized it cause I wasn't paying attention/keeping track. They didn't really tell me I was causing a problem, but they certainly teased me and made me feel very weird. But I think it is ridiculous to expect me to go to the bathroom to change in a dirty toilet stall twice (or three) times a day. I have never (and would never) hung out naked, done homework naked, or anything like that. I wear a robe to the shower and back, etc. Is it really against roommate protocol to simply change your clothes?!? I'm worried I maybe missed something and am one of the "naked people" and just don't realize it. My summer camp growing up had wide open group showers, and I had 3 sisters, so I'm relatively comfortable changing around women (well comfortable is a big word, but it doesn't freak me out). But while I'm not a modest mouse, I am FAR from well here I am!!! Woohoo!! I think I'm reasonably discreet, and actually reasonably modest. But is it really inapropriate to get changed in my own dorm room without going to extreme lengths of hiding myself? I have also (in fairness) been nude while drying off after a shower in the dorm room.....but ONLY when there was a line for my shower and I didn't want to keep the next girl waiting while I dried off (so I put my robe on and went back and dried off in my room). So like two or three times total. And, just as with changing, I didn't like do a polka or sit down and eat a salad. I just took care of business and got dressed

Question: My mom shes ***** to me I'm her son 19 old?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 08:27 AM PDT

she never buys me what I want,clothes,. and she only talks bad to me when my aunt are here. she talks bad/negative things about me

Question: Now she wants more child support from my dad out of spite. Wrong? Can he fight this or is he screwed?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 08:20 AM PDT

Back in 2014 my dad who was 51 at the time began dating a 23 yr old girl named Brittany. She had a 4 yr old son and lived with her parents. I think she wanted my dad to basically take care of her and pay for everything. She was apparently still messing around with her son's dad off & on who was a real nut. He went over to my dad's house one night while Brittany was sleeping over, beat my dad up, kicked him in nuts, broke ribs and dislocated his shoulder. Her ex did amateur MMA. So he went back to jail. She told him where my dad lived! Why idk! It's like she sets him up out of spite when she doesn't get what she wants. He ended things and then took her back after she gave him a sob story. A week later when he had a kidney stone he had to get rushed to the ER and Brittany wasn't worried about him at all. A few months later, Brittany found out she was pregnant. Obviously everyone was skeptical that it was my dad's since she had been with her ex multiple times. When she had the baby in 2015, it was obvious it was my dad's! He ended up finally ending things with her and they agreed on $600/month for child support. Now that my dad is with someone else, Brittany had gotten engaged to some loser and the engagement fell apart so she approached my dad and told him she wanted to have another baby with him. He said no, so now she's taking him to court for more money and is demanding $1200/month obviously for spite!

Question: How can I calm my sister down ?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 08:16 AM PDT

My sister loves to watch PBS her favorite show is Daniel Tigers Neighborhood there showing new episodes all week she recorded it this morning but when she went to play it the channel says " no need to call us service will be restored " she got mad and started screaming. I told her tv channels do this all the time I told her PBS will be back on soon she's still mad yelling it's not fair. She has to go back to school tomorrow this is the only day she'll get to watch Daniel because he's on at 9 in the morning after she's at school. She's really mad even though there's no need to call she wants me to call them. We were without tv last week she knew something else would happen this week she hopes it's back on before her other favorite show Arthur is on tonight. She's not happy she hates PBS right now she wants to know why they did this to her. She said it also better not do this again the rest of the week. She can't stop screaming and crying. She said it's not fair none of the other channels are doing this. How can I calm her down ?

Question: My son is twelve and saw a pornographic video with his dad in it.?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 08:01 AM PDT

His dad has been having sex with men for money.When he asked his dad why he was doing those things he saw on his phone his dad replied "for money". I have court soon and have a video of our son describing what he saw,I don't want to take his time with his dad but have it supervised.Is my video evidence a good idea for court?

Question: What can I do for my 4 year olds birthday?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 07:47 AM PDT

I have two kids and I usually give them a party with around 30 family and friends . This year I gave my oldest one in the spring and now it's y youngest ones coming up in a week. Usually I have these planned a month in advanced but I've been going through a lot and am not up to doing it right now. I told both my kids that starting next year we will go a day trip and they can pick something fun to do. I would like to do that now it but I feel I should wait and start fresh with the first one. What can I do to make her feel like it's a special day. What kind of party could I do in a week ?

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 07:31 AM PDT

I am 14 and I have been watching the Walking Dead ever since it came out, 7 years ago in 2010. I know I was 7 and back then I shouldn't have been watching it, but that's irrelevant now. Lately I have been catching my mom up before Season 8 on October 22nd and she wanted to watch it. She likes it but the problem is my dad. Every time he sees us watching it he will say something like "this stupid sh*t" or "Hurry up and turn this demonic sh*t off" Now I'm not going to lie he has a point because it is a gorey show, but I feel like he doesn't have to do that every time we watch it. Yesterday he made my mom upset and she brought up how we can't watch a TV Show without complaining. We all like the show except for him so me and my sister intervened and I told him that I was the one that introduced the show. It eventually ended but I feel angry and sad. I didn't like the fact that I talked back to my dad and disrespected him, but I had to defend my mother, and one of the most important things of my childhood and teenage years the Walking Dead. Now I probably can't go to Walker Stalker Con because of this and I am just sad.

Question: I had a dream today that was identical to the one i had a few years ago. Does this mean anything?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 07:21 AM PDT

The dream starts off with me, my mom, and my brother. We are driving through the woods, when all of a sudden, we see a family's playing baseball in the forest. My brother makes my mom stop and we get out. My brother wants to throw the ball too. He does and then the mother invites us to her house for dinner. So we go. We get to the house and there is a lot of creepy stuff. Next thing you know the parents are in clown costumes, and then they show us what happens when their kids misbehave. They hit them. We all want to go so we politely leave. My brother took the baseball without know one knowing. The mother came over an intercom and said she knew my bother took the ball. He wouldn't let go so we made a run for it. My brother finally let go and threw the baseball. As we were leaving I stuck my middle fingers up to them watching through the window. The father then came out of the house in his costume with a knife. My brother thought it would be funny to not get into the car, and run around like s crazy person while the dad was getting closer. We were so scared we keep telling my brother to get in. He didn't but he hopped in another car, and we drove off. The father was still following us so we turned onto our street and parked in a random spot. The father came and started attacking me. I remember he spit in my face, and I spit in his. The mother came out and started stabbing the father. Then the family left their house and drove away. I woke up screaming.

Question: I want to get a knife?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 06:51 AM PDT

I want to get a knife collection but my mom says no haven't asked my dad but he'll probably say ask mom. Any tips to convince my parents to let me. I know no means no but please don't give me answers like that. I said I would start off with somethin small and also stated that some friends have them as a collection also and she still said no. Please give me some tips! EDIT: I missed a few details and understand why all you're answers really freaked me out! I wanted to not start a knife collection but get 1-2 knives for boy scouts! Possibly a leatherman swiss army knife and a pocket knife!

Question: Were you scared of your parents when you were a child?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 06:21 AM PDT

Question: Ladies, Would You Date This Kind Of Man?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 06:17 AM PDT

31 years old living at home getting controlled by parents doesn't drink or smoke, decent person trying to get a better paid job to move out but in the mean time gets these examples of treatment: Questions him about where he's going and what time he will be back Gets told to "keep the noise down" No privacy (Parents always want to know what he's up to) Questions him about his money, what he's spending it on Has to creep down the stairs/toilet at night risking waking mum and dad up Parents unplug the electric in his room if they hear him making noise waking them up Sometimes gets locked out if not back by like 2am Cant have friends round the house. Or does this sound like a looser?

Question: I hate my stupid parents soo much?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 06:17 AM PDT

Like im 15 and they wont let me drink alcohol meanwhile all my friends can drink wtf cant wait to move out such dumbasses they are

Question: Would these be appropriate gifts for a Chinese family?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 05:26 AM PDT

So I'm going to China soon and will be staying with a host family. I have bought present for them, I just wanna check that there is nothing wrong with giving these. :) For the teenage girl (who has also been staying for one week in my house) - Little danish designer figurine (Hoptimist), tiny erasers in glass bottles, Cat plush and a danish flag. For the mom: Tea Towels For the dad: Grill tool set, with a metal BBQ fork and a metal BBQ spatula tong. Family gift: Danish candy ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.03

Question: Help. Family issues!?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 05:24 AM PDT

I'm 21 I've had and exceptionally hard life. I never really had a childhood, I was forced to grow up! All I did was take care of babies when I was young. I am the oldest. I've been on my own since I was 17 years old. And I've been doing great alone. I have my own car house and job and I'm in school. My mom recently became homeless and my grandma called me abruptly asking if I can bring my mother and my brother to her. I told her I would. As I'm on my way to her she changes her number. Tells me she can't handle my mom which is her daughter and that she's sick" so I'm left with no options but to take them in. My mom has really bad habits of smoking and her cleanliness barely exist. I'm sooo stressed I can't sleep because all my brother does is run around and be loud. I'm just annoyed I feel like my grandma could have handled this situation better. My mom is pregnant btw. The baby is due ANYDAY! I just need some advice to deal with this situation.

Question: Why is she like this or doing all of this?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 05:04 AM PDT

I've been at a low place in my life and I'm just not doing too great.. I have a special friend, she and I have a special bond.. my friend has noticed and has checked up on me a lot lately because of how I've been, I cried to her on the phone the other day as I wasn't doing great at all. She's helped me through a lot of dark times.. on the phone she was there for me, helping me tak through stuff but she told me she's monitoring me and watching what I post and making sure I'm fine or not doing anything dumb. She even put me in check the other day (got after me) for considering something bad. She even told me if things got worse she'd call my family.. She's super caring to me but we have a close bond for such different ages but why is she all over me? I'm 19 and she's 60, we're very close friends.. like I had said, she's very concerned. She said I was like her own kid (she has no kids) and even threatens to drive all the way over here and whip my butt. Why is she so worried? She even gave me her address if I needed anything (when I am around her town) to go by whenever I needed to.. why would she trust me so much to give me her address?

Question: I hate hiding that I am a furry to my family?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 03:04 AM PDT

I hide it because I do not know there opinions on them are. But I am a furry. Like I do digital drawing but I put them in a hidden folder I made is steams common folder so if I forget to lock my pc, not easy to find. Like I hate hiding but because if one of them walks by and I have let's say fur affinity open and I close chrome, they will think I was watching porn. And er, I am 13. (Trust me, it happens to me before) I know my brother somewhat knows. If I tell them and explanation what it really is, they will not think I am telling the real diffinition because they think I lie 24/7. The last lie I told was when I was 8 or so. So should I come out to remove the steps to hide it? If so any tips?

Question: How do I get over this situation? I still get Angry at random times in the day and I can't let go of this.?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 02:00 AM PDT

my parents told me this summer2017, not do summer school bc we were absolutely without a doubt going to Italy which has been my dream. I never ended up going because my mother doesn't want to and my dad kept saying he needs to go to AZ for business but he didn't go all summer and went at the end of August. This wasn't the first time they broke their promise, we were also suppose to go to LasVegas and DC, the Vegas trip I was supposed to go on I begged for 3 years, and that never happened either. I can't trust my parents anymore. I've been patient but I can't stand it anymore now I'm just always mad at them. And I know I'm stupid to keep fighting this fight for trying to go because they just don't want to go, they told me after school started, and I'm an optimistic person and it's really hard for me to accept that. Another thing that pisses me off the most is, yes I'm the youngest, but I do not Smoke weed or do any other drugs and I don't drink. I get decent grades and always come home before 11:30. My older siblings who my parents pride&spoil&let them vacation a lot, they smoke weed&drink and my parents don't know but I get the sh*t end of the stick. I'm my dad's only son out of 4 girls but he took my cousin Steven all over without an issue but has an issue taking me. I know this is EXTREMELY petty compared to many problems around the world but I can't let go of this. I've been rude to my mom and Dad lately because they disappointmented me badly I can't seem to forgive them.

Question: My daughter is being disrespectful?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 01:38 AM PDT

My daughter is 25. She just moved back home she is currently working 3 jobs. She pays for certain expenses such as car insurance and gas and student loans. She also helps out with chores. She told me where she was going to be but I still worry. She told me she was going to leave soon when I texted her at midnight asking when she was coming home and she said soon. She didn't get home till 1 am. I feel like that's disrespectful and as long as she is living under my roof she needs to follow my rules. She isn't being fair to me.

Question: How do I stop the unsolicited advice from family i do not consider part of my support network?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 01:20 AM PDT

Further explain: An ex-athlete family member who just moved to the area is temporarily staying with me. We never really talk much prior and they are still in the just getting started/graduated stage of life. My wife and I are expecting. I feel as if they are exerting themselves too much and need to focus on what they got going on. I've always been under the radar regarding relatives and have formed my support already, which includes some family members, and even they don't give advice as much. Also, what makes it worse is that I moved across the country to get away from all that and now a few years down the line one of them is moving nearby.

Question: Why are middle siblings so strong?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 01:04 AM PDT

I am the oldest of my five siblings, and I am very, very weak. My oldest younger sister is weaker than I am, and my two younger siblings aren t much better. However, my middle sister is stronger than all of us combined. She just turned 14, she s 5 10", and she s played tackle football in an otherwise all boy league for the past four years. She isn t one of those kicking girl football players like you see on tv; I m pretty sure she s on offensive, but either way, she s broken two boys arms so far, and she s been MVP for the past two years. She hasn t hit puberty yet, and she s only getting taller and stronger. I love her very much, and I m proud of everything she s done so far. When I talk to people with three or more siblings and we compare siblings, I ve noticed a running theme. The middle sibling is always the strongest. How is this possible? Shouldn t the oldest be the strongest?

Question: Anyone want a younger brother?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 12:56 AM PDT

I know this sounds desperate but, I've always wanted an older brother even with all the 'sibling horror stories' my friends tell me I still want one. Since I'm desperate I wanted to know if anyone on here would like to be my online older brother of sorts. I'm 14 if that matters at all.

Question: Do you think i should try a psychologist with my husband or leave him?

Posted: 04 Sep 2017 12:19 AM PDT

I have a husband who just i dont know confuse my emotions. He is possessive and thinks that all the guys are there to get me. He reads m messages and doesn't allow me to talk any guy or friends. I have lost contact with all of them bcz i wanted to be understanding of his emotions. Then he has rule for me to not to go out. He locks up the door and checks the lock whenever he comes home so he knows i haven't been out. He is always suspicious. He verbally abuse me and i know its bad because he yell and tell awful things and bad language. Sometimes he is an animal when he is angry. SO far he always stops himself from physical abuse but recently he just got angry and started pushing me back to the bed and then he hit me over and over. i was terrriefed. i left to my dad's house and my husband came and told him about my exes and what i did with them to my dad. It was awful bcz i didnt want my dad to know those things bcs he is my dad. Nevethless he agreed to see psychologist and i came back to our place. Then he started pushing me to have sex and i explained that im not ready. He let me be for week and again started pushing me so i finally did it and i felt awful. I have been sexually abuse in the past and doing it with him and pushing myself felt awful. Then recently we went on holiday and sadly i got my period. He was so upset and when we got to the hotel he insist that we do stuff. I didnt want to but finally after he kept requesting i told him i will help him to masturbate.

Question: Is my brother the youngest known son of a World War I veteran?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 11:59 PM PDT

My dad served in the final fours months of WWI. Widowed in 1949, he married my mother in 1963, I was born in 1964, when my dad was 75. My younger brother was born in June 1965, when my dad was 76. I'm thinking we are probably two of the youngest children of a WWI vet.

Question: Why do my parents seem so mad about me moving out?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 10:51 PM PDT

I'm going to move out, and it seems like whenever I bring it up my parents get really mad. I'm 21 years old, so personally I think it's time for me to live on my own. Every time I bring it up though, my parents get mad. I was planning on moving this month (but switched it to Oct because I want to save up more), and about a month ago I asked my parents if they'd be willing to come look at the apartment my boyfriend and i found so we could get a better idea of if it was a good place or not. We got in a huge fight, and the next day my dad kept telling me I wouldn't be able to afford it, when I actually make a good amount of money for someone my age and my boyfriend and i are in our last year of college. I just tried bringing it up again, and my mom completely shut me off. It's frustrating for me because I don't want to move out on a bad note or have the last month at home to be tense. I'm the oldest so they'll still have my brother and sister at home. They're also being very rude to me and ignoring me, i hang out with them but they dont talk to me about anything and when they do its all negative stuff like how im going to ruin my life and if i get pregnant its going to be the worst mistake ever (im on the pill) i just dont get it, What's going on?

Question: How do I put my foot down with my father?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 10:10 PM PDT

He appointed me VP of the small business at 21 without telling me. I told him since I was 18 how I felt. I feel like taking it over just to shut him up. It's always 'take this course' or 'do this thing's. I really don't care about his business. I'll help with admin stuff but expecting me to be as going go about something I didn't start from the ground up is stupid. No one else seems to understand my disappointment. My brother shows more interest in sales and real estate but he wants me to inherit it. How do I politely resign? I still live with him while I'm in college. So should I wait till I move out to tell him I don't want any of this responsibility? I want to get crazy hair colors and piercings. I do not want to be near corporate America. I never got to express how upset I was that he made me VP without consulting me.

Question: How can i convince my mom to become a witch?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 09:44 PM PDT

hi and i want my mom to start practicing witchism. she doesn't seem to be that interested but i know she'd like it if she tried it. we have a psychic who lives near our street and also my friend is a witch please help?

Question: Should i give my number to the people who still owes my grandfather money?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 09:36 PM PDT

https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20170826043003AAjkBJw ok,so tomorrow is the last day of the pool,and the pool members are having a pool party,and 2 weeks ago, i gave the woman(the grandma of the daughter's little boy) my cell number,and she wants my mom to exchange numbers with her,but my mom said no. i put my number in the woman's cell phone. also,the little boy will be 3 in october and they're having a little birthday party for him,but my mom doesn't want me to go,but i want to go,but i may be in school or working,so i hope they don't get mad at me. what should i do? i told my mom that i follow the daughter on her instagram page and i have her number. my mom says,"why,do you want to hang out with them,because i don't,they still owe grandpa the $2,000. what should i do? when the little boy's birthday comes around,can i send the woman's daughter a birthday card for her son,or a text? what about when the daughter's birthday comes around? it's at the end of september,should i wish/text her happy birthday or mail a card or what? the daughter and her mom missed me like crazy and i miss the woman's little boy and her mother's dog,and the food and their company. i'm 20 years old by the way and a female. my mom has a friend of theirs on her fb and she told her about them and another relative of their's and i'm worried that word will spread around and i don't want animosity towards me and my mom. what to do?

Question: Get treated different from doing the same things someone else is doing?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 09:36 PM PDT

For example I make a mistake I get yelled at and attack but when someone else made the same EXACTTTT mistake they get an excuse by the same person who yelled at me each time. Another example, my older brothers broke something in the house and my father hit me instead of him which didn't make sense. Am I doing something wrong??

Question: Any tips for a 26 year old college graduate whose fallen upon hard times. No job, no money, no car, living back with parent's?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 08:54 PM PDT

Question: I'm 22, parents need me to pay $500 for rent, I don't want to.?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 08:41 PM PDT

They don't speak english. My mom works at a nail salon. My dad received SSI. We live in a 1 bedroom apartment. I've been paying $500 for rent for a year now. I also have to pay my car payment on a used car, insurance, and food. I spend a lot on food because I don't want to be cheap and eat instant noodles. My total monthly expenses is around $1250. You pretty much need to work a full time job to afford that. I don't like my life right now. I don't have time to go to college. There's no point of going to school part time because it would take forever for me to graduate that way. I guess my only option is to learn a trade but what? Air conditioning repair? Elevator repair? But I'm not interested in that. I want to become an educated person that knows about everything about this world. Not just someone who fixes stuff.

Question: Thinking about my future makes me want to die.?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 08:31 PM PDT

I'm 16 and starting grade 11 in a couple days and I realized that I need to start getting my **** together. I need to seriously start thinking about my future after highschool and what I want to do with my life. I'm not very good at school. I compleatly hate it to be quite hounest. I failed math last year and have to reatake it this year. I still havent told my parents they think im a ******* geniouse and that im thr happiest mother ****** on the planet. had to make a fake report card just so they think that I passed math with an 85 when in fact I got a 46. im not good at anything and I hate my bloody life. I actually want to off myself cause of how much I hate school and hate thinking about my future. and its not that I hate school cause I have no friends or im being bullied...I just dont like it. as I said in the beggining I have come to realize that I really have to start getting my **** together, weather thats my school work and marks or thinking about what college or university I want to go to. my dad seems to think I wanna get into the trades even though thats the last thing I wanna do. both him and my brother do HV/AC and he assumes I want to do electricl so when I told him I dont wanna get into the trades he got really pissed and I guess just stuck to the mindset that I do and now he wants to **** with my timetable next year so that he makes sure I take all the courses to get into the electricl trade and I just dont know what to do. I just wanna die.

Question: I'm almost 14 and my Mum won't let me do normal teenage things. what should do?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 07:06 PM PDT

I'm almost 14 (next month) and my mum won't let me have a phone. she wont let me have makeup she won't let me get my ears pierced and the clothes she byes for me are meant for 10 year olds. she still thinks that i'm a little kid. i dont know how to approach her about it and i'm scared of what she will say. what should i do?

Question: I was with my Granny today and she resents her grandson (not me) but not her granddaughter. Could the parents' view of the kids impact this?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 06:19 PM PDT

So she resents her grandson whose Dad (Granny's son) has pretty much given up on him and whose mother is on very bad terms with the family (parents are divorced). This grandson (my cousin) is 23 and has some issues with trust. He was adopted at age 6 and so has trust issues and then his adopted parents divorced (divorce is actually very rare for adopted family). Yet he is unmotivated and his mother is a little too helpful I am told. He is otherwise perfectly nice though doesn't always call back when people try to reach him. Meanwhile her granddaughter (my sister) is a mess. She does have a job but she has irrational mood swings. She has temper tantrums like a 12 year old and is 23. She still lives with our mother and step-father and she has an attitude problem. Yet my Granny loves her and has no problem with her. At the same time she is mad at the grandson. So what my question is is this. Could she dislike her grandson because her son is mad at him (grandson's father) and resents how bad he has turned out? Could she love my sister and NOT resent her because her parents (mother and step-father) love her and don't speak ill of her? Does a parents' opinion of their child rub off on the grandparents as to whether the grandchildren are liked or not? I am sure my Granny loves her grandson also but she does not like him.

Question: What do I do when my Mom and her cousins bring up my Dad's alcoholism which I wish not to broadcast to everyone?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 06:09 PM PDT

Question: Hated for being youngest sibling?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 06:07 PM PDT

I am always bullied or treated different by my older siblings for being the youngest/something I can't control. My mother is protective over me and cares about me more. does this happen to anyone else???

Question: My aunt has turned on her daughter and hates her own child. When I see the aunt Tuesday how do I politely change the conversation?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 06:07 PM PDT

When my aunt brings up her strong animosity towards her daughter how do I divert the conversation? I want to be polite to auntie but not feel nervous hearing her speak of her strong resentment towards her daughter. She has several kids and two of them daughters. One daughter she loves more then all the oceans combined and the other she deeply resents (has never said hate). It is a classic narcissistic mother situation. Her sons are the "other children" where they are not bad but not good, just ordinary. jl----It;s an adult daughter

Question: Why do people look the other way? Why was I attacked for trying to help.?

Posted: 03 Sep 2017 06:06 PM PDT

Essentially I live in a horribly poor area full of crime and drugs. I know a man that is awful to his kids (beats them, tells his daughter he hates her because she's like her 'whore mother', verbally abuses them horrible, worst) I called cps thinking maybe I could help break two people out of this cycle in my area and nothing was done (nothing is ever done around here). I asked on here if there was another number to call to get these kids help and was pretty viously attacked. I'm beyond use to people looking the other way when it comes to horrible things but even this shocked me. It wasn't just people pretending not to see it was people expressing hatred that I had. Like calling me and whore and saying I should be charged with harrasment. Why would people get that angry at someone caring? I won't make the mistake of trying to help anyone again.