I'm a girl and sick of using my hands and put it on my Christmas list but my parents were shocked and refused. Like wtf?! Why was my grandma and mom so shocked? How do I get one for free without my family knowing?

My dad called me retarded and stupid for bringing a small cart when he asked me to bring a cart he didnt ask which size also hes not the smart one either my dad is so rude to me but he doesnt say anythig to my sister

My sisters are very mean, annoying, and immature. Almost everyday they laugh at me, call me names, and they tell me mean stuff. I really don't know what to do anymore its almost everyday and I'm getting tired of this crap. My parents don't even do anything. I also don't know what to do when they are teasing me. I've tried laughing with them and telling them mean stuff but nothing works. I just don't know what to do anymore. What can I do to make them stop?! Please help. How can I make them like me? I'm nice to them but they hate me so much. Sometimes I have to be mean to them but nothing works, they stil hate me. They always call me immature but clearly it's them, they laugh at everything that I do or say.

I am 10-16 years old and I have no idea if I'm being abused or just exaggerating. I live with my little brother, dad, and mom. My father and little brother are both very caring. My mom has told me and still tells me that I'm a dumbass, smartass, selfish, and ungrateful to her. She says these things whenever she gets angry, whether she's angry towards me or just angry in general. Yesterday I was washing dishes and forgot to wash one fork she said, "I'm so unfortunate to have kids that have fun all break and never help out. It's always onto the next fun activity and lets never help mom and dad! I'm so unlucky to have kids like this." Sometimes I feel like telling my dad and sometimes I feel like she's right. I did tell my dad when she called me and my brother selfish and ungrateful, my dad got mad at her and asked her why she would say this and my mom said we were exaggerating and she also said she never said we were selfish. I can't tell my dad or my brother because they will tell my mom who will tell them that I was lying. One time, she got mad at my little brother--rightfully so this time as he ignored my dad--but she grabbed him by the neck and held his head up. He immediately fell over, and my mom walked away. My brother told my dad what my mom did, as he was not watching, only I was. My mom said to my brother, "YOU THINK I'M ABUSING YOU? I'LL SHOW YOU ABUSE." She stormed out of the room... The worst part is, I never know when its coming...

Today my 2nd cousin who's 21 messaged me randomly about how he can't believe that i'm turning 15 in a few days. I didn't think it was weird at first until he starting talking about how I look older because of the way I looked and "other things". And i asked him what he meant by that, and he said he shouldn't say. So i just told him to tell me and he told me it was because of my butt. I wasn't even that shocked because of what he's done in the past. For example, a couple months ago he asked me if i wanted to be in a "hot girl contest" on twitter and i obviously said no. And 3 years ago when i was like 11, he kept tricking me to send him a picture of my butt in a jokingly way. I didn't but I was so naïve at the time, i thought it was all just a joke. He acts normal for the most part whenever i see him personally at family gatherings, but i rarely ever see him, thank god. I just feel like telling my mom or grandmother about it, but i don't want to cause any chaos. But it's really weird, and i'd hate having to live with the fact that my cousin is attracted to me and it's really gross. In a way, I feel guilty about not telling a trusted family member or my therapist about it.

My grandma has horrible anxiety, and takes a lot of things the wrong way. I was going to go to dinner with my boyfriend, and my 4 year old daughter, but my grandma had a fit (she lives with us) accoridng to her its to cold to go out. Its 20 out. With the wind chill its about 5. (feels warmer to me) We can get the flu, and I need to watch the new and stay inside according to her. She also said its dangerous to go anyplace. I can get shot. People are shooting each for no reasons. How's its at the malls and every place. She then goes on to saying how she won't interfere in my life good or bad that she won't help me. On to dfs can take my dauther away for taking her out in this cold

I'm 18, I lost 4 family members in the past year, not including my bestfriend who committed suicide on Christmas. I've been extremely shaken/jittery, hardly have slept, so sick to my stomach, I've thrown up a lot, my breathing is short, I feel weak and hopeless.. is this at all normal?

SHE FLIPPED ON ME AFTER I SAID MY 10TH GRADE HISTORY PROJECT IN THE 1800's WAS JOHN WILKS BOOTH. THERE WAS ONLY A SHORT LIST TO PICK FROM AND I CHOOSE HIM, IS SHE RIGHT OR NOT BECAUSE I JUST CHOOSE THE PERSON. I DIDN'T EVEN START THE PROJECT AND SHE SAID IM A "F*CKING DIPSH!T".

When I got married I was just out of college and had a $51,000 dollar student loan debt. My husband Jack worked a lot of overtime hours to payoff that student loan debt. That was several years ago. Jack is now my ex husband. We remained on friendly terms after our divorce. I recently received an inheritance and I think I have a moral obligation to pay back Jack some or all of the money he used to pay off my student loan debt. My friends and family tell me I am crazy to do this. They say I don't owe him anything. It is a husband's duty to pay off his wife's debts. I am confused. Can someone tell me what is the right thing to do in this situation.

Hi, First of all I'm 17 years of age, 18 in April and I live in South Africa. There's been a lot of conflict between me and my sister's (she's 20) boyfriend ( he's 25). Well he bought a house and he asked if I could help him to finish of the house so I said yes Today after I went to the gym, I went to his house to help him and he got someone else to help there as well, and we get along quite well. Me and the other guy was busy cutting down branches with the machete then we started talking and my sister's boyfriend called him, so he went, and my sister's boyfriend gave him sh$t. So I turned around and my sister's boyfriend yelled at me and told me if I don't wanna work I should put down the machete, So I turned around and told him that I was working, and that he should look behind him at what work I have already done and he said that I didn't do what he told me to do... so I asked what should I do and he asked me " Why did you think I let you measure the fence??!" So I told him " I thought I had to measure it so that you can dig the holes for poles" And he just said again that if I don't want to work I should just f@$k off. So I turned around and he yelled " If you take one more hit at the branches I'm going to f@$k you up!!" So I just said " Oh is it going to be that way??" and shoved the machete into the ground and walked up past him and left. Now my dad is very angry at me because I talked back to my sisters boyfriend and my mom as well...

Recently my depression came back. I had it a couple months ago and almost killed myself. My life is pretty good. Except for a few things. Things like how hard my siblings slap me or how my friends seem to forget about me. I m antisocial and sit in my room writing fanfic. I m also emo but I haven t told my parents yet mainly because my brother hates emo people and my parents think all Emos cut. I tried it but didn t like it. Can you guys help me? Thanks for the support but I'm not saying it's my brothers fault I'm just saying that's one of the things that kind of upsets me but isn't a big deal.

? The charge is a forgery charge and it is a six month sentence main problem I have is she will see her mom in jail clothes and see guards and other inmates that could be intimidating I have a daughter who is 15 and she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. I told her mom did the wrong thing and is rightfully serving her punishment. Actually my daughter does not seem scared but instead seems excited and enthusiastic to visit. This is strange to me. Do you find this normal? They have a good relationship.

My mom and I are getting evicted from our home and my mom has done nothing to try and find us another place to live, and we have 27 days left.. I was talking to my friend and she said her family had an extra room I could stay in for as long as I needed, which is still in my school district so I don t have to move schools. I m only 17 so I don t know if my mom would let me leave, but I honestly think it would be better for me than not knowimg where I m going to live. Any advice?

I have a 14 year old step sister Nancy, my stepmother's daughter that is my best friend. I really like her. I am a 19 year old guy. We are very close. I try to be very protective of her. She has developed into a beautiful girl. She recently ask me to tell her about boys and sex. I think it is VERY IMPORTANT that she know the facts especially about sex. I don't want her pregnant. I told her I would prefer she talk to her mom about this. She said it would be to embarrassing to talk to her mom and she wants me to educate her about these subjects. Should I tell our mom about here asking about this and ask her to talk to Nancy or should I tell Nancy the facts about her body and how to prevent pregnancy. Nancy trust me completely and feels she can talk to me about anything without embarrassment. Mom and teenage girls, PLEASE give me some advice her. I only what is best for Nancy.

My mom is constantly calling me dumb and stupid. My mom is hurting my feelings I tell her that and she just doesn't stop putting me down. I have a bachelor's degree and I don't have a stable job. I am 29 female. My mom told me nobody is going to hire you because you're so skinny and stupid. It just makes me feel bad about myself. My mom said how are you going to support yourself financially if you can't find a stable job. I feel annoyed by her. She's trying to set me up with random guys to date, but these guys don't like me because I don't have a stable job. My mom keeps calling me dumb and stupid and she won't stop putting me down. I also don't have the financial means of moving out so I feel stuck. Please help me?

i don't meet the requirements women want. they don't want me because I wasn't made good enough. i hate how I look so much, i told my mom that she shouldn't have had me. i told her i wish she at least chose a different dad. or that she should have aborted me. I'm extremely unhappy with life and I'm not even 20yrs old.

She don't drive and I do. I have money and she don't. Why does she get more freedom with her friends than me? I have friends to be with too. Her curfew is 10 pm and mine is 6pm. Wtf?!?!?!?!?!

Father is like mother for some people.Why wouzld he act this way?Checking her out and touching her?

We had a very terrible upbringing and really didn't come out of it okay. I am a reformed gold digger and I'm now married to a decent guy with two kids. Anyway before I changed I my ways I was a hell raiser and a total bad girl. She always got on me about it (she steals from her employers as a maid/babysitter and some how I was horrible for cozying up to old rich guys) I mean yes I was a symbiot (parasite implies that the men weren't getting anything out of it and really I think my intentions were pretty obvious) anyway my sister always had an excuse like she did what she had to but here's the thing I have done some illegal stuff (especially as a teen) but she always dragged me into it and bullied me into taking the fall for her once which got me in Juvi. The worst part was when she'd ditch me and promise to never do it again. Like in New York (wasn't in school much we moved around a lot) I was 14 (she was 17) and I woke to find she and her latest boyfriend were gone to freaking Mexico! Our parents by the way were too stoned (and in florida) to give a rats ***. I have conflicting feelings because she was also a protector at times. I just hate how I use to get labeled the bad sister(I was the worst of the two of us growing up) she even throws it in my face(I think I've matured more though) and we recently started to reconnect. then she asked me for money I got pissed and I stabbed her in the back and when she asked how I could do that to her I said that I asked myself the same thing when she made me take the fall for a crime she commited and left me to rot in Juvi (I was 16 she was 19) I did it because while I've kept tabs on her and have run into her from time to time we've never actually been tight since I went to Juvi(I'm 26 now) also I thought I was over it I really did but then I just kept thinking about how that ruined my life and how I had to meet my current husband (an aspiring police officer of all things) to really get over all the pain I've been through and I just wanted her to know what it's like to feel betrayed! Only now that I got my revenge I feel worse and I'm starting to wonder if I should apologize. I use to be very clingy with her and very dependent (she use to ditch me as a prank got worse as we got older) I use to spend all my time wanting to please her and now I run hot and cold between wanting to be her sister and wanting to hurt her. Why do I feel this way will it stop? It feels like I'm in hell.

I have just switched rooms with my younger brother. Now I share a room with my sister who is extremely bossy and criticizes literally everything I do. She was down stairs last night talking to my mom about me while I was asleep. Obviously the sound of her talking woke me up. They were all for her talking about me and were laughing. There is barely any room for my stuff in there. I don't have a closet and they expect me to get rid of most of my clothes. Even the ones that I still wear. I will fold them a keep them in been or baskets in my room but I am not going to get rid of anything that I don't want to rid rid of. I also find it interesting about how nobody else is ever allowed to talk about her. If that happens she gets ragging pissed off and if it's me then she bitches at me for two hours about how horrible I am and bla bla bla. She thinks that she's a perfect human being and that she never does anything wrong. She also thinks that I am a certain way and pretends to know me. She isn't me and she can't read minds either.

I am 55. I have 2 sisters and 1 brother. My second oldest sister Beth(54) has been physically, emotionally and abusive towards her 2 daughters(16, 17 and her son 20). I remember this started when the 2 daughters/son were 4, 5 and 8 years old. She would beat all of them(they all weigh less/ and neither of the 3 are physically strong enough) beat them with objects until they would cry/ scream. This went on for 12 years. The 2nd oldest(17) told me now it is just mostly emotional abuse but she also said they flinch around sudden movements and hate being around religious people as their mother Beth, was very religious and would also say God gave her the right to hurt them. All 3 of them were home schooled. The first oldest(20) a few years back(2012) showed me pictures and a few videos of their abuse, I didn't report it. I didn't feel obligated to. If I am being very honest, I don't feel bad for the 3 of them, some families just show their love by being physically violent, and calling you degrading names, it can be very normal. What do you think?

I'm pretty sure I have lice and i cried because I was so embarrassed and didn't want to tell anyone and this is exactly why. Now my mom will not take me to the store and says I need to just deal with it and I feel like my whole skin is crawling and I just want them gone. What should I do? I'm so tempted to just take her car and leave and go to the store I'm 15 but know it is wrong

I'm 18, I lost 4 family members in the past year, not including my bestfriend who committed suicide on Christmas. I've been extremely shaken/jittery, hardly have slept, so sick to my stomach, I've thrown up a lot, my breathing is short, I feel weak and hopeless.. is this at all normal?

My dad committed suicide 7 months ago after dealing with severe acoholism through out my childhood. I have started drinking a little more than normal since. My mother has also been an alcoholic my whole childhood and won't go to rehab and keeps talking about suicide and even telling me if I give her permission she will do it.. She is now moving out of state to travel and thinks this will help with her depression. But she's still drinking like crazy and the only support I have is from my sister who refuses to talk to my mother. In just tired of it all.. The only two family members I have is my sister and mother and we all have so many issues that seem unfixable. I just want to know if someone has similar issues and how to deal with the emotions that come with it.. I can't even describe how I feel through all this

I sometimes don't understand why my sister has to non stop judge me when I'm very young. I tell her I'll loose weight when the time comes, but she keeps pressuring me all the time. She's into the whole fitness thing and is 5,5 weighs 110. I have a very curvy body and have a big but. Sometimes I feel as if she's jelous, however, I don't really know. I do really well in school straight A's with s 4.0 gpa so that's what I mainly focus my life on.

Will I still count as close family or is Christmas the test.

Let's just say, I'm the unfavorite one. I just got news yesterday that I got accepted into Brown. My brother (15) got a part-time job at McDonald's a couple days ago. I told my parents, but they didn't congratulate me. Instead, they kind of scwled. They told me, and o quote, "This fancy college will cost us a lot of money. Look at your brother! He already has a job. Why weren't you working wen you were 15?" Gee, I don't know, I was studying and having a life? Why do they care more about my brothers stupid job than me string into Brown?

Just woke up to a rude awakening my mom busted in my door yelling "wake up" at 7 in the morning. This is not the first time im 16, and of course she wants me to study the georgia dmv I've been doing this since last night tried to play my ps4 for downtime "you have an hour left to play". My mom also gets easily angered over little things sometimes gets physical and says messed up things so talking about my true feelings isnt an option. I cant wait to leave can someone relate?

This being people on the extended family.

Hey, so I have a roommate. Last week his niece came to visit but the same day she came I was leaving town for the week. I returned this past Sunday and his niece is very nice and he would sleep on the couch and she would sleep in his room. Last night I went to bed really early and they returned late, I heard them as they came in, this morning I woke up early and I heard him leave, I'm assuming he went to go get coffee, when he came back in I heard him go into his room in which his niece is supposed to be sleeping, this was about 2 hours ago and he's still in there. Is this not weird? His niece is 17. When I was 17 I never slept in the same bed as my uncle. What do you think?

We're British.

She is twenty two and bosses me like she is five. She bosses our mother around also.

I'm not in the wrong. My children refuse to get a job. We live in the south and public transportation is 15 miles away in the city, and the jobs are all in the city too. They refuse to walk 15 miles as they say it would take 6 hours. I refuse to buy them a bike. I refuse to teach them how to drive. I refuse to drive them. They have no money and I will not give them any or help them at all. They are 17 and 18. I am 53. Am I a good father? I am also not paying for them to go to college. I have had them in online school, but stopped letting them do it in 9th grade. They have not done any high school grades. That is not my problem. I've already cut them off health care, cut the electronics off, started buying bland weightloss foods so they don't eat much. How do I get them to leave?

Well I'm 15 i can't be organized all the time my mum wakes me up and tell me everything to do ( clean your room,wash your face ,go take a shower) I have a bad acne but when I'm in school I'm completely another person all the time my mum class me ( my friends daughters are not like you they're organized and beautiful) what the heck is my problem?

She likes the nanny but doesn't have little kids anymore to need a nanny for (we are teens). She and her brother's wife had a big fight last week when my aunt (her brother's wife) found out my Mom is being a sounding board for this nanny. The reason she was fired was she had an accident in their car (fender bender). My uncle and aunt are known to fire people at first mistake.

She uses me as a pawn and sounding board in all of her many family conflicts, this she is a bad mother.

Hi, my 60-year-old dad has been very inclined at forcing me to being something I'm not ever since I missed out on attending a program that aims to make males metrosexuals while my teen siblings and eldest sibling (the macho one) attended, and I was just wondering how much of a manly man am I ever since he manipulated me to being one. Here's how he manipulated me into a manly man while I just stand there and take his abuse. 1 - He bosses, blames and scolds me for EVERYTHING! around the home despite me being innocent. He also has a very annoying habit that is 2nd to nature where he will give me orders to do something while giving virtually no orders to my other siblings. He also gives me hard labour around the home and scolds me if not done right. 2 - He dictates what kind of medication I get from my doctor, ensuring it does not lower my testosterone levels while also trying to get me to eat foods very high in protein 3 - He whinges if something isn't done right the first time. His actions towards me was also one of the stress factors leading to self-defamation where I would tell lies about myself being a convicted paedophile, which has only gotten me blacklisted from a metro program by people around the globe. Needless to say, I feel very frustrated and conflicted with his manipulation towards me as my preference was always more to being a male - not a man! I am a non-violent, non-rebellious, self-conscious, introverted male. Being a male and being a man are 2 completely different things that are often used interchangeably.

Why?

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Ok so: I have two last names, my moms and my dads hyphenated. But I live with my dad and I don't want anything to do with my mom anymore (long story..). I was wondering if they could drop my moms last name off the papers and stuff and only keeping my dads? I talked to my dad and asked about legally changing my name but we don't have enough money to go through court at the moment.

Family right! I was having a very stressful situation around this time. I just found out my cousin was playing on my phone threatening me. I really thought it was enemy. I even quit my job because of this. I am beyond angry. What should I do to this cousin? I want press,charges. What man who is 35 and up plays on your phone like that?

I have. My older brother and me were always cool with each other one week, not the next. Then one day we got in a huge argument. I was 15, he was 19. We had a huge argument and he threatened to beat me up and we never got back on cool terms. My sisters had to get the boot out of my life, they falsely accused me of touching them, and I never look at them the same. I will never, they put me through hell for a month, and I never felt so betrayed. How about yourself? Have a great 2017, wishing you the best. 😃❤️😊

Im 14 and i have been depressed since 2010 and no one seems to care not even my mom my dad left me and my family he hit my mom while she was pregnant but luckily nothing happened to my little brother I used to cut and my trusted friends have made me stop by taking sharp objects away from me i try to be nice to my brothers and mom but they seem to act like they don't care about me :(

Hey guys. I'm feeling really down. I am a 20 year old Indian girl, and all my life, I've been the best daughter to my parents imaginable. I always listen to them, respect them and do whatever they want me to do. I'm a straight A student and do whatever is necessary to make them proud of me. I have a 13 year old sister who is the exact opposite. She's a rebel and always wants things done her way. I always had the secret feeling my parents liked me more, because of how disciplined and respectful I was. But today what my mom told me shocked me. She said she wished I was more like my sister, that I would be a bit more 'modern'. (wtf is that supposed to mean?) Just cause I don't swear and break my parents curfews, I'm not modern enough? Basically, I just feel like **** right now. 20 years of my life spent pleasing my parents and it was all of no use. I feel so angry and disappointed in myself.

Okay im not ungrateful but this isn't fair ... Me and my big sister have to share a car We both go to the same school she's 18 and im 15 ... And i don't like this arrangement its embarrassing we always fight and she never allows me to drive i don't have a drivers licence but as long as im in the car with someone 18 or older with a licence i can drive with my permit im just really sad because my friends kinda joke about it and the car is very old like 2004 old im really not ungrateful but my parents never get me what i want we also wake up at different times and leave school different times so this isn't working out how can i convince my parents to get me my own car i really want a 2014 jeep wrangler and they aren't that expensive so i think my folks can afford it also it there away i can get a loan if for some reason my parents can't pay for my car??

My grandmother left my grandfather is the worst way ever. He treated her like a princess and she stab him in the back......long story short is they are divorce and it's been over 10 years now and since my grandfather has a higher social security disability in come then my grandmothers other husband she will get my grandfathers will he dies. Is there any way to prevent her from getting it? If my grandfather makes a will and puts that he doesn't want her to get it will that work? She's a real evil cool hearted *****. So my answer is can he put it in his will?

My ex husband and I were married for 12 years and been divorced for 4 years and I still talk and get along with my ex's son and he knows I do, I am like his mom in his own life. We were talking and having a very adult conversation sense he is 18, and we go to talking about sex, and we were talking about secrets and I told him one of mine and he told me one of his but it wasn't all the extreme so it was fine. Well later on in the day he ended up telling me something way kinky and fun as sexual secret and I was shocked and secretly turned on. But I am not sure if I should talk to him more about it or tell his dad about it. Sense then I have been having some sexual fantasies about him.

How to avoid them without being flat out rude.

ok so yahoo is being rlly annoying, i ve tried to post something 3 times and it always just disappeared (they were all like super long rants) so now im just gonna give the short version - my family is extremely emotionally abusive, every day I face their hurtful words and i ve become very depressed. i don t know what to do because my situation isn t bad enough to get any professional help, it s just some words, but it is very hurtful and every day i lose a little bit more of my will to live. also, people will say that i have clothes, makeup, a phone etc. but that s not what it s about. i m grateful for that but i d honestly much rather have a family that treats me well and makes me happy and feel good about myself. they always make me feel guilty about all that anyway, calling me a spoiled brat, mindless consumer about my clothes and makeup, and making fun of me for "being on my phone all the time" when i pick it up to text a friend. long story short, i know that my situation may not seem horrible and its not bad at all if you think of it in different ways but i am seriously hurting inside from all their words. i need some kind of help even though i know that it will not be anything professional. i just need to know how to get through this until i can leave my house because i am only 13. also, they think that they are the perfect family. they tell me that its my fault and i should act better (when honestly im very kind to them and i dont know what i ever do to deserve their hatred) and that "everybody has 'strict' parents" but i say its more than just you being strict, its you being hurtful. i ask for a bit of kindness or try to make peace and they call me ungrateful for the great family that i have. i have 2 siblings and they are not treated like I am.

My brother slapped his stepson across the face on Christmas Day because the little boy wanted to look at one of my presents and he touched it without asking not that I thought it was an issue in the first place. My brother also was bubbling about how hard he hits his son with a belt as if he thought it is entertaining or funny. The last incident I remember is that my brother said to his wife that he "hit him really hard earlier" and was smiling and laughing again. the only thing she said was "yeah I heard."

expreience made me. Want to be a volunteer. .when i 1st arrived i walked threw a room and noticed none of the kids had a pair of jordans or the new iphone. Its not fair i feel bad these kids dont have their. Moms. And dads. My social worker took me to a room where they'd ask me. Alot of questions. Like. do i have an std or. Do i have any marks on my body. They asked about my family and where i. Come from. This took over and hour they told. Me to go sit on the couch as i sat on the couch. I saw alot of kids at desk quiet studying. And a lady. Making they stay quiet a boy came and sat next to me and said why are u here. And i told him he laughed. He said he'd been here all his life. He changed the subject by saying dam thoes are some nice lebrons ive never had a pair of j's or lebrons in my whole like. I felt. Bad for him. But. After that he tried to get wit me he said i was cute and that. If i stay i need. To be his girl. Dey made us hit da shower and they gave me a. Bag full of hygein stuff nd a pair of sleep clothes . I woke up later that night and. Looked around it was 20 beds full of girls nd 3 chapurons. It was 6 and we got up and there were people cooking us breakfast and. All the boys came out. And sat down. I tld him i wasnt gon be back when he got bck frm school. He said dam and looked. sad i told him. That i could text him. And he said he had no phone. Omg i really like him and the fact that i cant see or text him drives my crazy. Wht can i do ?