I'm tired of it! It's sooo boring and no one wants to be around me! It's time for me to change and become the bada*** ride or die chick that everyone wants to hang with... but how?

My sister is 4 years older than me. I remember when I was a kid my mom told her to take me to the bathroom. I was 6 at that time and she was 10. She took me to the shower so we could bath together then she kissed me and I licked her vagina and breast. This is no troll. I am totally serious and It hurts as I I'm typing.few years later she also grabbed my penis when I was sleep and I grabbed her ****. This is really sad for me and I guess I was kinda used. When I was a kid my cousins used to kiss me on the lips and play with me. I don't know if these are considered sexual abuse. I am 27 years old now and sometimes I have flash backs of those moments and hate my life forever. The interesting thing here is that I am still a virgin and only had 1 girlfriend so far. I think these things kinda affected me. My sis is married now and she has a kid... But I will never forgive he for the things she did to me. I feel terrible

My girlfriend's sister has been having an affair since September and even visited the guy while she was married on some weekends under the guise that she going to business conferences. She filed for divorce last weekend and on the day the papers were going to be signed, her lover called my girlfriend in the morning and started to let her know on how good of a guy he is and how he's trustworthy. My girlfriend told me she wasn't comfortable with the phone call and was mad that the guy asked her to help him move from SoCal to NorCal. The lover got mad when asked to prove his own divorce. In the afternoon of the same day, my gf and paid her sister a visit to act as third parties to serve divorce papers to each party. Even as we were signing the papers, my gf kept saying she's getting tired of her sister and doesn't really want to be part of her life anymore. I can tell this whole situation really bothered her. When we were driving home my gf almost crashed the car because she said her mind was still on the situation and when we got home she dropped several utensils and ingredients as she was cooking. Her sister's lover called while she was cooking and informed her that he can't find his divorce certificate. It was at this point, I became irate on what my gf is going through and texted her sister saying please leave her alone. Her sister said don't worry I won't bother you guys again. My gf is a bit upset and also thankful that I had send the message. Did I do the wrong thing?

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I am 25 and like guys in their 50s-70s.. I don't like guys in their 20s or 30s at all.. They lack this quality of kindness that our father and grandfathers in the 60s and 80s used to have

I'm 18, I lost 4 family members in the past year, not including my bestfriend who committed suicide on Christmas. I've been extremely shaken/jittery, hardly have slept, so sick to my stomach, I've thrown up a lot, my breathing is short, I feel weak and hopeless.. is this at all normal?

What if the guy looks much younger than his age, is pretty tall, relatively fit and incredibly kind? Why such boundaries like age have to exist in 2017? Happy new year everyone btw

My in-laws think it's 'normal' to walk in on each other in the bathroom. They don't have boundaries so when my 18 year old boyfriend is in the shower they will happily go in there and get what they want without waiting. What do I do? They've never done it to me, it just creeps me out.

So I'm going to make this as short and straight forward as possible. I met this guy while I was at work about twobweeks ago. I work at the airport. The guy that I'm referring to is in the military and he was traveling to his go visit his family for the holidays. Anyway, he noticed me, I noticed him. So he stopped to talk to me until his flight took off (he claim he missed his flight to talk to me). So before he got on his flight, he and I exchanged numbers. He texted me as soon as he landed lol. Anyway, as we talked, I did (do) find myself attracted to him. He seems to be really into me. He showed his family and friends pictures that I sent him and everything. Though, he is very jealous, I make it very clear that he's the only guy that has my interest. Two days ago, he was flying back to the base for training and he stopped by my workplace to see me. He was kind of quiet for a moment after we mentioned how happy he was to see me (but did not show any emotions at all). He then goes on to say "You don't look the same as you do in your pictures. You look a little taller and thicker. Like your hips look wider.." So I am instantly offended because I basically felt as if I was no good enough for him. AT ALL. and I still feel that way. Which is why I told him that that we should stop talking earlier yesterday. But anyway, after he was done insulting me, he then goes on to say "You're my dream girl" I'm just thinking to myself like b.s dude. Should I give this guy another chance? I ended up asking him if about his insults and he claimed to be "joking" but I do think that he was looking out for my feelings. I cut him off yesterday just because I feel like I am not good enough for him. I told myself that I will never allow another man to make me feel that way the way my ex did five years ago and when the Army guy began to tell me things that he "noticed" about me, I was disappointed and sad inside because I remember that feeling. We're both 18 by the way. Update 2: Update 2: Should I just talk to him about th way he made me feel or just leave the situation and him alone? I really like him and it seems that he really likes me. He apologized continuously and he kept telling me that he ******* up and it won't happen again. I feel bad because he a pretty sweet guy and on the other hand, I feel nothing because I'm standing for what I believe in.

Si parla di vivere insieme. E sono in crisi nera. nel primo periodo aveva dato una festa in cui c era anche una tizia che con me faceva la grande amicona. Due anni fa mi ha confessato che quella sera dopo che sono andata via si é ritrovato sdraiato e abbracciato a lei ma poi non è successo niente perché ha pensato a me. Ho così deciso di allontanare da noi questa ragazza perché non mi andava più di vederla. Dopo di che lei ha iniziato a infastidirmi in ogni modo possibile, compreso cercarlo il giorno del mio compleanno solo per cercare di rovinarmelo. È chiaramente una persona che vuole crearci problemi e non ci fa bene, ma che continua a essere presente perché "amica" del migliore amico del mio ragazzo. Pochi giorni fa insieme al mio ragazzo ho scoperto che lei ha condiviso come ricordo di quella sera una foto su facebook fatta a casa del mio ragazzo dove lei e il suo amico mi sfottevano perché "non sono all'altezza". Ho chiesto al mio ragazzo cosa avesse intenzione di fare con il suo amico perché di certo non volevo obbligarlo a chiudere i rapporti ma sinceramente speravo gli venisse l istinto di chiudere tutto visto che dopo anni mi aveva umiliato pubblicamente e con tutta quella cattiveria. Io lo difenderei contro tutto e tutti, mi verrebbe naturale allontanare una persona dopo che parla così di lui ma lui no, se ne esce con "vorrei che fossimo amici normali" ma io nella mia vita non voglio un uomo che mi fa umiliare, voglio un uomo che mi difenda. Ma dove sbaglio?

Hola, solo quiero pedirles consejos para no sentirme así, y a la vez escribo esto para desahogarme. Lo qué pasa es que siempre me siento triste, sola, inútil, derrumbada y con el autoestima por el suelo, cuando estaba más chica mis papás nunca me dejaban salir que porque era peligroso y siempre me acostumbré a estar sola encerrada en mi cuarto jugando videojuegos, ahora tengo 16 años y voy en la prepa en segundo semestre y ya me dan más permisos para salir, pero no tengo con quien, nunca me gustó juntarme con mujeres porque sentía que no encajaba entre ellas y sus conversaciones, así que siempre me he juntado con hombres, cuando estaba en secundaria unas compañeras de clase siempre decían que era una p*ta porque siempre estaba con hombres y en realidad no soy fea, así que le gustaba literalmente a todos los chicos del salón, y yo siempre llegaba a mi casa a llorar por los rumores que había de mí entre las chicas de mi salón. Ahora que voy a la prepa me siento súper mal por las calificaciones que he sacado, yo siempre trato de echarle ganas a los estudios pero a veces simplemente no puedo sacar buenas calificaciones. Una vez la maestra de artes me rompió el examen por entregarlo 5 segundos después de que se salió del salón y todos mis compañeros vieron y yo me sentí humillada y me puse a llorar agachada en mi silla. Ya no puedo escribir más, así que en resumen... normalmente soy muy tranquila y me siento una inútil por no saber hacer nada, y siempre estoy sola

Ok so I'm 16 years old have a job and I am in 3 advanced courses. I vape. No big deal but my parents think it is. All of my friends smoke cigarettes and everyone at work does too. (I work at Wendy's lol) and I tried explaining that this is healthier than smoking cigs but they won't listen. My mom took my sigelie j80 and I bought a smok alien to replace it. They found fluid and took it but haven't found my mod.they are convinced I'm going to become a smoker for life when, in reality I don't smoke vey often and more than anything it's stress relief as well as a way to fit in without the effects of cigarettes. How can I convince them of this?

I still have feelings for my ex, but he's married and he's been a total wanker and now he's in my tiny town. If I ever run into him and his troll-looking wife, how do I act? (I really tried to make this sound the least petty as possible lol)

I'm 18, I lost 4 family members in the past year, not including my bestfriend who committed suicide on Christmas. I've been extremely shaken/jittery, hardly have slept, so sick to my stomach, I've thrown up a lot, my breathing is short, I feel weak and hopeless.. is this at all normal?

Question: so we definetly didnt kiss at any point during the night? Answer: never

I'm so done with everything I'm stuck, sooo stuck like never before. My happiness or someone else's? That person has sacrificed so much for me that from the exterior the right thing to do is choose them. But what about me... I will be miserable for a long time. Eventually It might be for the best for both of us but it will suck so bad for me for a time that might end up being too long for me to handle. I'm going back and forth. Half of the things that have happened were just thrown at me... I didn't choose these things to happen so that this person would sacrifice for me. If they payed I did too and it wasn't my fault. I would give them the world if I could but The thing that I have to sacrifice is something that I have been looking forward to for too long. It means the world to me. But it comes down to my world or their world. So am I ungrateful, am I selfish, am I mistaken for choosing me? for hesitating when it comes to this? And is it my world or theirs? My happiness or theirs?

By mental illness I mean depression, anxiety, eating disorders, bipolar disorder, etc. While interviewing them for the job, would you ask them about mental illness history and treatment?

I have this teacher, and we are friends. Most of the time when he sees me, he'll call me by my full name, and its not like I am in trouble or anything. It could be as simple as him saying hi. For example, "Hi, (my first and last name.)" It doesn't bother me that he does this by the way, lol. Also, my first name is Abby, not Abigal. (and he knows this.) He will some times say "Hi Abigal (and my last name.) My friend told him "that's not her first name" and he said "i know." He doesn't do this with any other kids in his class. My name isn't fun to say, or unique.

I've noticed a pattern here.... My favorite D.C. Superhero is batman/Bruce Wayne My favorite marvel superhero is Iron Man/Tony Stark... or is it Robert Downey Jr.? That one I can't tell the difference lol (; That being said, my favorite actor is Robert Downey Jr. (That's another thing, I love reformed bad boys who are good men) And I tend to dislike anything and anybody who appears to have a good head on their shoulders and be all holier than thou like a captain America character or John Cena's super man persona in wrestling..... I guess because I can relate to characters like Tony Stark I guess... and I have a cousin in my family who's kinda like a goodie two shoes and who's success I'm always compared to. This is probably a psychological thing idk.

I'm 18, I lost 4 family members in the past year, not including my beatfriend who committed suicide on Christmas. I've been extremely shaken/jittery, hardly have slept, so sick to my stomach, I've thrown up a lot, my breathing is short, I feel weak and hopeless.. is this at all normal?

Well, as most of you know everyone my age is either in college making friends, partying, pregnant or already working in the industry..I just feel like there is nothing for me I m 19 I ll be 20 this year I m in beauty school..I ve had 5 jobs that sucked! But, unfortunately I have no car..I m living with my parents which isn t bad but, I really have no friends all of my friends moved I see my bestfriend here and there everyone has a story or drama like reality TV but, me I m pretty down I keep fighting it but, nothing is moving me I really want to get through school I hope someone can understand and give me their thoughts.

This is hypothetical, a book prompt I'm working on What would be your thoughts on a teenager (16) who got so depressed and unhappy, her parents stopped sending her to therapy and began letting her drink alcohol and smoke marijuana, and paid for her musical career? I'm still working out the details, comment more if you'd like :)

I used to be very shy. But now it's not as bad and it's mostly gone, however at work I'm still kinda shy even tho I do feel a lot more confident. I started a new job two months ago at a warehouse full of young adults. I'm 19 and a girl so everyone's mostly my age. At that job it's ok to talk, In fact everyone's talking all day,there are mostly guys and only a few girls. I get along better with guys. I only talk to two guys everyday,they are nice,we are always together all day,they offer me rides,there the only two that I'm close to that are genuine friends. There's one girl that is super outgoing and is friends with everyone there,it makes me feel wierd about myself sometimes how she talks with everyone nonstop n I just have two. I also talk everyday with a guy that I like that also likes me. We r close n go on dates n text. Only one girl there I met in the lunch room that I see only sometimes is the only one that is nice n shows interest talking to me,the other girls just gossip n are best friends with each other. I just feel bad seeing the other people talking a lot but when I think about it the few close people I mentioned r the only ones I get alone with n there always with me n I'm happy honestly. Also the people I'm with aren't super outgoing as the girl or hang out in big groups or cliques.

I am a 24 year old working in an I.T. related feild. I have begun to make good money, roughly 60k a year before taxes, and me and my partner live comfortable in the D.C./Baltimore area. I have been able to save 1200 a month for 12 months now and because we keep finances seperate, he has no idea I have around 14k in savings. Since I was 15 I have dreamed of living in Thailand. My father and mother took us there once in 2007, which is where my love of the place began. I had plans to back pack through south east asia in my late teens but backed out due to school and work. My career is just budding. I have hinted at traveling with my partner, my boyfriend being 20 and in college seems uninterested so therefore I am discouraged to bring the topic up with him. I feel like now is the chance and that if I get too involved in building my career and adoption there might not be a chance later. We have dated almost 3 years as well and I dont want to put a void in the relationship by pushing my dream of travel on him when his own life is just starting. I know he has thought of taking a year off school because he has been taking on a lot and passing with a B - A average as well as working full time. I figure with my savings plus our 2 year lease coming up and my S.O. wanting a year off school now would be the time. I dont want to give up on my dream but I also dont want to give up on a good, hard working guy whom I love very much. Suggestions?

My boyfriend and i have been together for four years all his family loves me very much just how i love them . Her husband has cheated kn her and recently the oldest sibling saw them kissing but didnt say anything . My boyfriend told me what happened and shes a very nice ldy and i feel bad with her not knowing that the only people that know are her own kids .. is it bad if i tell her as a warning to becareful?

So I have been with my gf for 3 yrs now (she s 27 im 31). We decided last year to move in together, but after a yr with her I fee miserable.I do love her.At 1st i wanted her so much but after living together i saw things i didnt like: She wants a ring and marriage now but i told her im not ready yet.so when we moved in we were supposed to split everything 50/50 but 5 months in she couldnt afford to pay her share.So i ended paying everything every month: rent, all biils and even all food and expenses for house!!! feel financially drained because i have a part time, hourly job $ ended up spending all my checks for bills.When i told her how i feel she got mad and told me i am supposed to pay everything bec thats what she expects from guys but told me she does feel bad.I even pay for her parking tickets..!i cant anymore!i had to take out a credit card just to afford the biils & even turned down for her a 100K job offer (which i never told her) bec she didnt want to move out of state w me! I feel depressed and financially destroyed.i have crazy anxiety and started taking prescription pills to calm me down. She always demands more w/out thinking about me.and now telling me about marriage? I told her i cant & she started crying telling me she wants to be w me bec she loves me so much..i want to end it but dont want to hurt bec i care and love her the same...how can i tell her?!???

I should emphasize the word some in this question. Statistically speaking, women initiate most of divorce, they destroy families, not men. Then it is men who have to take the attack from society. Why? . @ Thriver: No most marriage, men don't beat up women you idiot. . What, that doesn't even make sense. . Missy: No its not, women do initiate most of the divorces, thats not flawed at all.

My friends are making fun of me because I've never kissed anyone, unlike them how already had sex and have boyfriends for a while now, I'm 16 When I told my dad he said this:"I'm going to arm you with a weapon here, here's what you need to know you could be just like them in a second you could drop your boundaries, drop your morals ,drop your values, go out and party one night drop all of that, and give that away, you could be JUST LIKE THEM! But they can never be just like you! And they want to so bad, so there gonna make you feel stupid, there gonna cut you down because they weren't strong enough and they hate that about you, you will never regret making good decisions you're never gonna come back and say hey you know what I wish I would have has less boundaries, I wish I would have fooled around,slept around more often.your never gonna say that 10 years from now! And I know you are stubborn and you probably don't really trust me about this,you know what I want you to go chasing relationship after relationship boyfriend after boyfriend sexual encounter after sexual encounter after one night stand after one night stand I want you to drop those boundaries, go be young wild and free, go do that for the next 10 years and then come back and look ME in the eyes and tell me that I was a liar! It's never gonna happen!" I love my dad but that is easier said than done,my friends just keep making fun of me! It makes me cry! What can I do?! Should I kiss someone just so they stop?