she started acting funny when she found out i was pregnant with my second child. (she was still trying to have her first) so when she finally got pregnant her child father did not want anything to do with her or the child. she always saying crazy remarks about my relationship with my husband. saying we think we are the perfect couple. something we are far from. she just dont blast our problems on social media like she does for attention. now she has stop talking to me because i am a small business owner and she claim i dont have time for her. how can you have time for somebody who dont respond

I am afraid to read in class because of my ex being in there , how can i overcome this? I can read it just makes me nervous that he is in there and that I wouldn't be able to focus

I need phone number of Amil Khizar Abbas who does black magic who is from Multan ( Pakistan ) Its very urgent. Please if anyone knows about him. Reply !!!

So there were four of us standing there and a news interviewer came and was like can we interview you guys- so he did about 1 minute interviews one by one, and I was last- when he got to me he was like yeah that's enough on the interviews thanks. Was this rude? I thought it was a little unfair, I mean would a minute have killed him? It's not like he had to air it... Maybe he ran out of questions or something but idk do you think that's unfair or rude? I always seem to be the one to not get the cool opportunity.

Ok so I'm 30 my boyfriend is 37 my mom just passed away in December. He keeps on getting into my business on who should be the executor of the will not only that but he is telling someone else about my business. This is a friend of his who is a paralegal I'm not comfortable talking to this person I want to protect my family I don't want to get in any trouble. I just don't feel comfortable talking about this to someone i don't know at all. How should I tell him to stay out of it?

I was letting my friend borrow a paper and I m always goofy around her so I was like breathing in and out and making weird noises. The guy I like sits across from me and looked at me. I jokingly said I m ok and I m not sure he heard me but he looked me straight in the eyes and smiled. I don t know if he thought it was funny that I was being weird or if he thinks it was cute or if he was just being nice enough to not stare at me like I m an idiot. I m really shy so it was probably different for him to see me being weird.

really like this guy at a warehouse I work in mostly just on the weekends. But I mostly just see him one day of the weekend but I work in the area where he works and the guys that work there have started trying talking to me so I need to be friends with them so I get closer to him. Also sometimes I see him walking around alone and I can lie and make up a question or something I need help with. But it's been hard for me to gave time to speak with him I need to be smart next time i go. Any advice? I really want to be his friend he doesn't really talk to any girls how can I get his attention

How do I make them trust me and change their mind about me FAST.

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I went looking through some of his messages and I found out he had sex with my friend once 3 months into the relationship. I saw in the message that they both said they regretted doing it and would never do it again and they don't want me to find out. Should I confront him and her about it or let it slide? I'm 20 and he's 21 They don't know that I know

I want to have a good idea what a marriage is about. Thanks. Idk why this q keeps poping here. Do your best to answer. This is suppose to be in marriage category but this yahoo kept sending this to polls surveys. So now it's here. Do your best.

Why would he go to her neighborhood with his kids in the car? Does he still love or care for his wife if he would do that to the kids bring them around strange woman? Why won't a woman take responsibility for her husband creeping?

For an example: If I wanted my wife to dress more feminine, I was told by people on here to just buy her feminine clothes with my money, add it to her wardrobe, and when she goes to pick an outfit to leave the house in just encourage her to wear what I bought. While this worked in the past when I tried to move her from my t-shirts to women fitted t-shirts, now that we are in our 30's I want to move her from woman fitted t-shirts to clothes more in line with what other women her age wears. Would this work, or is this "controlling" and "manipulative" and I'm scum (even though this is EXACTLY what was advised to me by these very forums 4 years ago at the end of our 20's). I want to change her this way because she's trying to start a home business and she thinks she can do it all online without a face to face meeting. I told her she's crazy and that she needs to (a) look the part and (b) accept that businesses are almost entirely based on following the "mainstream" and being honest/trustworthy. She has had an "online business through Facebook" for 5 years now and only has family as her clients... She dreams of one day quitting her job and doing work from home exclusively... Never going to happen if she can't conform to what "society" believes is "professional attire" - which looks pretty much like church clothes since the majority of society are church going Christians.

A few months ago I met this girl at a bar we had a date the next day it was pretty good we ended up dating for a month and she asked me out. We dated for a week and then she told me I kiss like her brother (even though she later told me she was wrong) This girl also has bi poler disorder (she told me) she said we should break up I said are you sure (it came out of the blue) she said no. Eventually we broke up. When I went to pick something up at her place she was depressed so I offered her to come out and hang out with my friends and I she said sure. She was calling me babe and when I dropped her off later she said I sound come in (to hook up) I said no due to everything. She always is telling me that she feels no spark when she kisses me which pisses me off. Then the next second she wants to hook up. She told me I'm drama and shes meeting other people and moving on. Then the next week she says she wants me in her life and wants to put the past in the past. She even messaged me on a dating web site calling me Hun. What's wrong with this girl and should I keep her in my life ?

How was the Super Bowl yesterday? You enjoy it? How was the party? Fun? Kids have a good time hanging out with their cousins/friends? Great, great, sounds great. Enjoy those hot babe and funny commercials? Sure you did. And that half-time show with glamorous/sexy stars, were they excellent? Sweet. Glad you had a good time. I'm not a sports watcher or follower though; so yesterday was all about "family" like any other day. Meanwhile, every guy around me identifies with their favorite teams/hobbies, and the women aren't allowed to have friends that are guys, so yeah, I'm kind of an outcast. I can't even relate to my wife (she's a loner by choice)... This just isn't functional, is it? My wife and I have been living off the beaten path for a while now. We watch anime, play video games, we aren't "oppressed" by norms or gender roles, and we don't do ANYTHING American (except fake it so we can get the benefits). I used to be proud of this, but the older I get, the harder it is to stay relevant. And my kids are suffering from this anti-social lifestyle too. My son isn't allowed to play M rated video games and his peers (he's 13) are all playing serial killer and army "kill Islam" simulators. My daughter isn't allowed to watch TV, so all that fashion stuff isn't in her life to make her dress and act like her peers. While I think we're better off without it, they are outcasts like us... How do I tell her this anti-social life just isn't working for anyone else but maybe her?

Was it wrong of me to take all those turds on a shovel and fling the $h!t into her yard? The worst part about it is that when my kids and I were playing in the snow fort, I seen her standing behind my car with this stupid mutt and then she yelled at it saying, "Come on! Let's go." and she turned around and kinda started running......I was like, "Wtf, lady?" One night I was out back smoking and she walks this dog by where we set out garbage cans and she says, "No not there again." This WHOLE time I thought is was the old guy across the way. When I saw it was her, I felt burned. Right or wrong, I helped her son after he almost ripped his arm off in a saw at work. Gave him a blend of castor oil and nerve repair, pain relief essential oils and help him heal double time. Whatever.....I just thought she'd have a bit more respect for my place. I probably shouldn't be like this, but I felt good about shoveling those turds back in her yard, in broad daylight. I'll say something to her next time.

Hi, I have lost a bet with a friend of mine. She's a girl I know since high school. I am a boy instead. We are 25. As a punishment, I should dance dressed as a cheerleader that and publish it on Facebook for 3 days. Then I should go from my home to her home in the streets dressed as a cheerleader in front of her. I admit I exaggerated a little bit by making fun of her, but I think my punishment is too much :D She would have done the same thing if she lost. Should I seriously do it? Should her be more nice with me because we are good friends? She should have lost, not me, so now I am in trouble -.-" LOL Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Donec lorem felis, consectetur ac cursus eget, blandit sodales lacus. In hac habitasse platea dictumst. Ut vehicula nibh massa, et lacinia elit vulputate id. Aenean rhoncus, sapien at laoreet tempor, urna velit ullamcorper metus, vel cursus Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Donec lorem felis, consectetur ac cursus eget, blandit sodales lacus. In hac habitasse platea dictumst. Ut vehicula nibh massa, et lacinia elit vulputate id. Aenean rhoncus, sapien at laoreet tempor, urna velit ullamcorper metus, vel cursus Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Donec lorem felis, consectetur ac cursus eget, blandit sodales lacus. In hac habitasse platea dictumst. Ut vehicula nibh massa, et lacinia elit vulputate id. Aenean rhoncus, sapien at laoreet tempor, urna velit ullamcorper metus, vel cursus Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Donec lorem felis, consectetur ac cursus eget, blandit sodales lacus. In hac habitasse platea dictumst. Ut vehicula nibh massa, et lacinia elit vulputate id. Aenean rhoncus, sapien at laoreet tempor, urna velit ullamcorper metus, vel cursus Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Donec lorem felis, consectetur ac cursus eget, blandit sodales lacus. In hac habitasse platea dictumst. Ut vehicula nibh massa, et lacinia elit vulputate id. Aenean rhoncus, sapien at laoreet tempor, urna velit ullamcorper metus, vel cursus

As we know love and hate foster strong emotions. But personally I feel like the world would be much better off if we used the word love more often. Why does it seem likes its reserved for only marriage and serious relationships/situations? I feel that it s seldom we love friends or people in general.

Sometimes I feel like I am just going through the motions with life. I have a good job I guess and I make a good living. I'm not a millionaire by any means and neither do I want to be. I have a beuatiful, caring girlfriend. On my free time I help at the animal shelter and I train some wrestling. I have a few friends around the area that I see from time to time and go out to have a few drinks with. That's it. That's usually how it goes. Just round and round I guess. I know how it sounds. A white, middle class man that has a beautiful gf and friends to drink with. Boo hoo....life must be so hard. But you know what I have noticed with myself. I get no form of fulfullment from job, cars, apartments, clothes or any of that. I have nothing in life to give me a sense of pride. Most people that I see have a car that they are proud off or an apartment. I have an apartment. For me it's 4 walls. Just like any other 4 walls. I once had an expensive BMW. Found it completely useless. I traded for a -95 Mini Cooper. Thought I would help a family in the process as well. Sometimes I like to play around with it and fix it up. I could easily afford a 1000 square foot home close to the city center. I tried that as well. I sold it and bought a one bed room half the size and a fifth of the price. There has to be something more to life than just gathering money and buying things? Some people are content with that and that's great. But I'm not. What am I suppose to do?

My friend and I (I'm 13 he's 14) and we made a bet on who will win the Superbowl and whoever loses the bet has to kiss the winner. So I was asking him "what kind of kiss" we were doing. And he said "um idk, an actual kiss? lol" what is an actual kiss? is it like a kiss on the cheek? A "making out" kiss? PLEASE HELP!!!! Also, please describe it. not like "oh just put your lips together" like, do I lock lips? just with our lips touching for a few seconds? I know... I sound overdramatic about this. I have really high anxiety and this makes it skyrocket. I'm extremely nervous about this, I really love this guy and I do not want to screw it up. Oh I also lost the bet btw

I was wondering how does it work. For example if she lives in X town and he lives in Y town and they wanna establish in Z town do they just go and buy a house and then pack everything and move there? I never understood this, how does it work and especially how does it work if u want to move in another country

To make a long story short, after having a massive stroke at 28 me and my family have gone through Hell on Earth for years now. As if that wasn't enough, my Father decided to illegally shoot a deer on work property, because He thought He could get away with it. Not only did He lose a 30 year career and much needed job, but now We get to accompany him to court "for support." Before I had the stroke I lived in another state(not at home) and I sincerely wish I still did because I think He deserves punishment and should suffer the consequences on his own. I certainly don't want to be taken down with him! Not only that, this shows that He has a lack of integrity, which I am disgusted by. Some sincere opinion/advice would be appreciated! Thanks🙂

I don't really know what to do. I've been talking to this guy for a while and we often hang out in my room and just listen to music and chat, he'd tried hitting on me a few time but I told him no, that we're friends and I don't want anything more because I'm genuinely not interested and I'm also a lesbian. Ok so last night he put his hand down my shorts when he was sitting next to me (I was a little bit drunk) and I shoved him off me and said stop it. He then asked me "what's seriously the issue???" and I said "I don't want it!?" and then he continued asking why not so I got up and went downstairs. I don't know if this is sexual assult and if i should do anything about it but I feel really ashamed to have let this happen because he did put me on edge for quite some time idk I just want to know if this is sexual assault or not and what i can do

So I know it's evil but people including FAMILY has done it to me for stupid reasons...and I still have my kid! Anyways, so this lady who lives in another section of the house has 4 kids and 1 was just born in a van! So all kids from different dads and she's still a single mom! Ok so I love kids but when it comes to this, her kids has been stealing my food amongst others after numerous amounts of time being told not to. Kids get severely abused for things like spilling her makeup on the ground but when other peoples food gets stolen over and over...no problem! I recently found out my $9 body wash has been stolen, milk has went down more than half, eggs missing, etc. should I make the call? I mean kids are literally starving and they don't take a bath more than once a month. She always on her phone yelling at all the dads. Kids never leave the house more than once a month. Also home schooled but leaves a big mess like looks like bums house. And another thing, I don't know her last name.

I think I m boring!!! Because I never know what to talk about with my boyfriend Like something fun that would not keep the convo stopping. But he said he s slowly starting to stop liking me because he s always the one putting effort in to talk about something That s true but I don t wanna lose him because of that!! Is there anything interesting that i can talk about with him !! Please Help!!! I m in highschool btw !!

My boyfriend is a pretty upfront honest person with me but always tells me this stories from my past which I know arnt true. When he was 18 he moved away from home (he's now 21) and basicly traveled the country with vagrants and rented condos in different states. He is a small gay guy and weighs 110lbs and is slightly feminine and comes from a rich family yet he is always telling me stories saying how he once beat up a guy who tried to stab him or how he broke a guys jaw that tried to touch him or how he got stabbed and was stitched up in the back of a van or who his friend was shot and died in his arms etc. I know that he was somewhat on the streets for a while but there is no way these things are true so why does he always bring them up and tell me these stories? Is he a pathological lier?

I have abandonment issues and it seems like every person i have ever cared about leaves. i feel like i would be better if i did not try to make friends or date.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We're great together, he makes me happy, and we love each other. Of course we're not perfect, and we have a pretty big flaw in our relationship: he's emotionally clueless and distant, and I suffer from depression and anxiety. I try not to depend on him for support exclusively because it's not fair to him. I still give him my time and emotional support and make plans with him even when I feel like crap. And he tries his best to come over my place when he can. I no longer go to therapy, though I realize I should make the time, because my depression and anxiety has become severe. He doesn't understand me when I say my depression has gotten worse. He thinks that because I smile and laugh when I'm with him that I'm fine. I'm really not fine. I try so hard to overcome it when I'm with him, and can't find that energy when we're apart. I've had a few anxiety attacks this past week alone, and when I ask for attention I come off as excessively needy. He works all the time, I know he's exhausted and in a job he hates, but I'm struggling and he just doesn't want to give me that amount of attention, and it kills me. I talked to him about it but he hasn't gotten better. I'll be hysterical, and he'll take 10 minutes to respond to each text because he's playing video games. I need his full attention in small bits daily but how can I ask that of him when I know he's miserable and exhausted himself. I just don't know what to do.

Whenever i'm talking to people I don't know very well yet I get really nervous and i'm not as open with people about who I am (I get kinda quiet and stiff and dont act as i would with family or my friends when usually i'm a really silly, fun-loving person) as I am with friends and family. Sometimes it gets so bad I can't even look them in the eye. (especially if it's a guy) Then when we're done talking I always worry over what I said, the impression i made on that person, and feel as if maybe the other person might be laughing at me for being so awkward. (doesn't matter if it's a guy or girl) :( This of course doesn't happen all the time. For instance, if im in class and put into a group of ppl i dont know, I dont have too many problems talking to them. I also dont have these problems with family.

my parents adopted a 13 year old girl a week ago and her room is across from mine and she's super hot. so one night when my parents were out i sneaked across to her room and she was in her bed doing her homework and she was so super hot so i had sex with her. she kept saying no the whole time but my gf always says that when she wants it harder so i f8ucked my sister harder. but when i c8mmed and stopped she was crying so i just left. she was a virgin which was aweomse but i forgot to put a condom on and now she might get pregnant. my parent don't come back for a few days and i really want to tie her up and have sex with her again like a bdsm thing. is this wrong? it seems fine to me but i don't know tell me what you think

They're still married and hold hands and all the married stuff people do but they sleep in separate rooms. Why might they do that? I'm not saying it's wrong or anything but I've just been curious for a while now

I am a childless man and my girlfriend has two children form her previous marriage. I was open to dating a woman with children and I like her kids, they are great kids however I work a very physical job and work a lot of hours and I find myself after being with her a year and only being with her and spending limited time with her kids three days a week I am completely exhausted. I cannot see myself living with her and her kids and being happy which is bad because I love her a lot and her kids are great but spending time with them exhausts me after working as much as I do and I don't sleep much because her kids always wake us up early or she is up constantly checking on them. I also feel a lot of pressure to work a lot of hours to make a lot of money to buy her groceries and supplies which is an added stressor Im just so tired at the end of the week. Am I being selfish? I feel I have aged 10 years just dating her one.

Whoops forgot to fill in the details in the last one! So i have a huuuge crush on Brendon Urie (the singer on Panic! At the disco) and i really need to get over him. I can t stop thinking about him and everytime someone talks about getting a boyfriend or getting married all i can think about is him. What makes me feel even worse about myself is that he is happily married and I shouldnt even think about marrying him, but i just do. Even if he was avaible he wouldnt choose me because 1. I m a foreigner 2. I m underaged. I just can t stop. I think this is affecting my life in a way that i wont be able to find myself anyone because of him. But when I saw their wedding photos i was both sad and happy. I saw how happy he was and how much he loved her. I was sad because thats where i wanted to be, i wanted that look he gave her wife. My problem is there! I cant stop thinking about him but im not a obsessive fan. I dont even actually call myself a fan which would be a lot easier because fandom is easier to leave than this. Pls dont think that im just another weirdo all i need is help!

Llevamos 2 meses vamos a cumplir 3 la cosa es que antes iva todo bien perfecto luego al tiempo le digo sabes mi padre se va de vacaciones y me fui ppr 14 dias luego de eso yo llege y le saque la contraseña al teléfono para que no desconfiara de mi la cosa es que el 2 dia que estubimos juntos le pedi el teléfono y se enojo porque se lo pedia al 3 dia lo tome y lo vi y estaba con contraseña pero le dihe ya po desbloquealo y no quiso ya lo deje pasar luego el 4 dia le digo sabes quiero ver tu cular y se enoja me lo tira y me dice revisalo por amor le dije sabes no revisare nada yo te amo y ahora pienso que estas conmigo porque me amas pero diganme que mierda pasa porque no quiere que vea el celular que me esconde yo no quiero hacerle daño y me dice que lo que menos le gustan don las mentiras y yo no le he mentido entonces que pasa porque no se pienso que es una prueva de confianza que es porque ayudenme los celos de pensar en que me engaña no me gusta eso no.me gusta desconfiar y en sima hoy estuvo conmigo y mañana sale con una amiga que me deja pensando y si alomejor salen con otro yo la amo demaciado y me duele pensar en eso

Ok so warning in advance for some TMI!! Last night I was hanging with some friends and I went off with one of my older guy friends to hang out. I was already tipsy off about 7 shots of whiskey when he picked me up in his car. We split a bar of Xanax and then I drank most of a 4 Locos (alcoholic beverage). Most of that night after that was a blur. I sort of remember him taking me to his place and I think I remember us in bed and me telling him he was hurting me. I can't remember anything else really. But today I woke up with hickeys on my neck, a swollen lip that sort of looked like I'd been hit hard in the mouth, and (TMI WARNING) a very sore anus. I want to ask him if we had anal sex and if he hit me in the mouth...? I don't want To just accuse him or freak him out so how do I ask these awkward questions? It's obvious we did something sexual because I have hickeys and I sort of rememebr him being naked (I might've dreamed that). Obviously I'm not saying it's rape or something but I'm freaked out because i don't remember anything and I'd never done anal sex before. He's not a violent guy but being on Xanax makes him (and most anyone) a little irrational when mixed with alcohol. Also hes told me a while ago that his now ex girlfriend acted like she was scared he'd hit her so it makes me think maybe he's violent when really messed up on drugs. Idk. Sooo yeah... How do I confront him with this without trying to accuse him of hitting me or anal sex?

I an a teenage girl and I have been bicurious on and off for a while. When i was younger I kissed two different girls, but it was too long ago for me to remember how it felt. Although I wish to see how it feels to kiss a girl again, I can t, because my family is christian and i go to church, and none of them would approve. My parents would be so disappointed as well as people at my church. I want to see what it s like to be with a girl, but If i am ever caught everyone will hate me...and im not exaggerating. My family is disgusted by homosexuality and they constantly express their disapproval of it. So my question is: how could I experiment with a girl without getting into a serious relationship with her? How do I do it without playing with another girls emotions? I do want to go deeper than just kissing a girl, but how and where do I find someone to experiment with? I need someone s opinion without bashing me about how i would be playing with someone s emotions, because this is the best way I could come up with explaining myself. Thank you to whoever answers.

I am a 16 year old bisexual girl. I have been dating my current girlfriend for about three months. I've never told my family that I was into chicks. Not only is my partner a girl, but she's also white. People at school gives us a lot of slack for both. I doubt my family will, because my family isn't racist. But hey, you never know. Can someone give me some advice? How do I tell my family?

I'm wanting to legally change my last name, because I don't want my dad's last name anymore.... I have my reasons why I don't want his last name anymore, but I'm not mentioning it on here, no one needs to know my reasons. I just need to know how I go about it.

I called my girlfriend's mom controlling so her husband punched me. Was the punch justified?

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, I'm 20 and he's 21. I went looking through some of his messages and I found out he had sex with my friend once 5 months into the relationship. I saw in the message that they both said they regretted doing it and would never do it again and they don't want me to find out. Should I confront him and her about it or let it slide?

My ex BF (who is NOT the custodial parent FYI) get mad when he sees that is what I feed "our"(yeah right) kid everyday. The kid is fine (chunky if anything) And fruit is GOOD for you right? Why are men so stupid??

He is my stepson but his mom left him years ago. He is only 14 but he is really sweet and has a big heart. He has been really sad all weekend. Apparently on Friday his little "girlfriend" broke up with him at dismissal. He started crying when he tried to tell me about it. It was really sad because it was obvious that he didn't want to cry. I told him it was okay and that it happens to everyone. He said "my chest feels cracked" which melted my heart. He started crying really bad so I tried to cuddle him and he let me. I promised him that his chest was okay and that he would feel better in a few weeks. I think I may have upset him because then he said he wanted to go hang out in his room. When my husband got home he went and tried to talk to him but he said he was fine. He's been sleeping and mopey all weekend and his eyes are puffy so I know he cries alone in his room. I feel so bad, like he needed my help and I accidentally hurt him even more. I wasn't trying to be insensitive but I think I seemed that way. Should I continue to leave him alone or should I talk to him? My husband feels weird about emotional stuff so he thinks we should leave him alone.

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