I found out that the guy I was seeing was married all this time. He lied not only to me but to the whole company as well because everyone thinks of him as a single father (we met at work). So yesterday I found out he has a second profile on facebook where all his happy real life pictures are posted...it's heartbreaking and shocking people can be so two faced. Do you think I should let his wife know what he is doing? I'm pretty sure now, it wasn't just me as he made up all this legend and made a separate profile for his cheating...

i was in a domestic violence marriage and i finally got out he would do stuff form pushing to htiting to putting a knife to my neck told me i was ugly and no guy would ever want me again because i got fat....he pushed my body into a wall and i went through it...it got bad there is alot more things that have been done to me by him but is way to much to put on here. I just want to know what i can do to be happy again its been almost a year since we havent been together and i still feel sad and depressed sometimes i feel like i shouldnt be here anymore but i would never to anything to harm myself..i just want to feel normal and happy again.. me wand him were together since we both were 16 it has been a long time i just feel happy i am out of that bad situation i just really want nothing more then to be happy again...please let me know what i could do and any ideas as to why i am still sad.. thank you so much for reading it means alotl...

I'm a married woman and when we got married my husband gave up porn, I get a guy wants to beat off from time to time even though we have a great sex life, I was thinking it would be good of me to make porn with him, as a form of replacement. I was thinking I could dress up how ever he likes and do some really kinky stuff on cam. The problem is I want it to look good! I'm in great shape and all that but anyone will look bad with crap lighting and angels. I'm looking for tips on angels and ideas, would it be best to have several cameras to get the best angles, then I could edit it together in a flattering manner? Are there any websites on fiming porn? Is there any way I can get a pro looking porno without having a third party walking around filming??? Lol thanks for any tips!

He recently told me he fantasizes about my family members and me. Also other men , and anything else you can imagine ....he has always been really sexually active...and he's willing to do ANYTHING to satisfy me. I'm just really confused by what he's told me. I comforted him on it but I am still confused, will this end my marriage ? Is he into men ?

I recently helped my friend find his birth mother. He has to contact her. Not sure if she will talk to him. He has tried to contact his grandparents before and they said they don't want contact with him. He just got his records and it doesn't have his birth fathers' name in it. If his birth mother doesn't talk to him we will have to find another way to find his father. We know he worked at his birth mothers' familys' farm decades ago. I was told to post ads in Craigslist and sites like that under looking for someone. Is there any other way I can track down his birth father? Can we get it through work records at the farm? Thing is if they don't cooperate with us we won't be able to see the records. Unfortunately we don't know his name. It's not on the birth certificate or adoption records.

It hurts to admit but it's true.I do love her but should not have married her because honestly I wasn't ready.I'm know where near as attracted to her as I once was and day dream about that feeling from my single days.the feeling of sex with someone different as opposed to the same person. I see myself asking for a divorce in the future and it's only been 5 months.

My relationship is going on five years. He makes me happy but does not fulfill me in the area of my passion and career. I am an artist, I like to go to shows, galleries and museums. He doesn t understand or "get" art. In order for me to be successful after college I feel like I need my significant other to understand my art and support me entirely. Does anyone have life experiences that relate. I m heartbroken because he is a great boyfriend but I feel like this will be a huge problem down the road. Any advice or opinions? He is a very practical minded stubborn law abiding guy. He is trying to be a state trooper and I am trying to be in the art world. I really need some kind of objective advice from people who don't know us. I just don't know what to do I'm lost

My husband moved out of the house 9 months ago, since then we were trying to work things out till I found out he reached out to a female "friend" who caused a lot of problems between my husband and I in our marriage. She now has a restraining order filed against me because of some hurtful text messages I sent to her and my husband will not support me or have my back in court. I feel like I'm holding on to something that isn't there anymore. I have been beyond stressed and feel very depressed. He hasn't filed for divorce but I think it's time for me to move on but I can't seem to do it. ive been a stay at home mom for nearly 9 years. I catered, nurtured and loved my husband since day one. I'm at a lost, I need some advice how to built up strength to move on. So far, it feels like my world has come crashing down on me.

I'm 40, my husband is 42. Weve been together for 18 years. I found out 6 months ago that he was having an affair. The woman is 27, but it had been going on for 5 years. So he decided to throw away our marriage for a at the time, 22 year old. You could say that I'm stupid, but I didn't except anything. We were still having sex etc. I was stupid enough to say i would take him back, but then he said that he wanted a divorce. Anyway, I now feel pathetic. I can't get out of this slump, I have spoken to people but nothing helps.has anyone been through this? What did you do?

My sister is getting married in a year and I want to dance on her wedding, I need to take dance classes and a choreographer that can help me get all this done in time for the wedding. So if you guys have any suggestions of places I could go, and like can I make my own mashup of songs and hand it to the choreographer? Idk this is my first time doing this alone, I usually do everything with my sister but it's a surprise for so if you guys could help that would be great, Thanks :)

Last night our families had a dinner together. Afterwards I started washing dishes and my husband came behind me and started grabbing my *** and kissing on my neck. I told him to stop because we were in public and his response was "no one is looking come on" I told him his family was looking and he told me let's go to the bathroom(his mom's bathroom ). On the ride back home we had a long talk and he got extremely sensitive and took everything out of context. He started yelling telling me if I don't want him to touch me anymore he wont. This is also not the first time he did this either. Do you guys feel like sex gestures in front of family members are inappropriate or am I stuck in the 19th century?

I passed the driving and written for those who choose to be smart. Now I gotta go to the dmv need to know what to bring. Due to snow the test was pushed to a day the DMV was closed. So I was given 2 papers.

Weve been together for 16 years, married 10. (since I was 17, and he was 19. I moved to his country, He's the only man I've slept with, and gave me the best gift ~ my two children. One is now 8, the other 5. Our marriage has been down hill since he cheated on me 5 years ago with different women, but I had just given birth, and with him working part time, I needed to go back to work for the money, so with all the stress at that point it was easier to just forget and carry on. It's gone to the point where I can never get angry at him anymore, I just get tired. Weve tried a lot, with our sex life, and counseling etc. I believe that we have just grown apart, we still have sex 4 times a week, more if we can but there is just no love there. He claims there is for him, but theres not for me. He doesn't want a divorce, I'm putting it off because of my children. When he cheated on me, one time was with a local woman, so everybody in the village knew about it, and still interfere speaking about my marriage in front of their kids, who later on tell my oldest daughter. She came home from school two days ago crying, because the other kids repeated what their parents said, telling her that she won't see me anymore if we divorce. Weve been trying for years and nothing..am I able to give up now? Or is it just selfish?Sorry for this long post. I have no friends around here, or family so I don't get to talk about it much with others. I'm not sure why someone keeps moving this to the wrong category: /

If he was a great man with good looks, funny and smart but he has a small baby penis. Muslim woman only I will not have sex b4 mariage. I will not know his size until then

Hubby and I got married in our 20s and we are stil in our 20s. I'm not settled where I want to be in life and hubby isn't ether but I don't know what's his plan . My dream is moving to another state and Finsh college degree but hubby wants to stay in the state we live in now because he about to start a medical career at a pharmacy abd he has no other family but his parent . The rest of his family in London . What do we do if we are different paths ? I need to move for personal reasons and for my happiness.

My wife and I just had our 2 year anniversary yesterday and we both got a little drunk we have some family time then I leave to get some food I come back in then I see my dog's d*ck inside my wifes ***! should i be mad? does that count as cheating?

My wife wants to homeschool our children. I m not opposed to the idea of homeschooling in general, but after all these years of marriage I ve had to admit to myself that my wife is not the most clever, astute, or reliable person. I don t trust her to be an effective teacher to our children. I want to address it with her but I don t want to come off as attacking or negative--I ve accepted that she s not too bright and I m fine with it, but that does mean there are some limitations we need to consider. Any advice?

smelling like lady privates? he comes home leaving wife and 2 small girls at home alone while he sees his hookers, he doesn't wash men parts but crawls into bed with wife. she cries silently

Or should I ask would you do this roleplay if this were his fantasy?

My son and his coach are pretty close...his coach respects his work ethnic and has even picked my son up for practice when I had class and my husband was at work. I noticed a woman staring at e at the ball game and didnt think much of it. Then, I dont know if it was the way she was ripping herself around me, making faces or what...but it was clear after the game she was agitated at me. I found out later it was his wife. She never introduced herself or anything. This started after Christmas when I made cocoa as Christmas gifts for all my sons teachers and coaches, he has two coaches. I didnt think she was jealous at first, but her behavior was off putting. I saw him on facebook and he is friends with all of the other kids parents...so I sent him a request. He added me...I congratulated him in a message for getting spot next year for high school basketball...that means he will be coaching the kids next year, too. I thought a thanks would be a normal reply, but nothing. That is fine...but soon after he deleted me. My husband and I go to every single game to support our son...I dont ever talk to his coach much because he ignores me if I try to ask him anything. Ive have never had this problem with any coach. I heard through the grapevine later on...which I guess is true...his wife and him had an affair while they were married to other people, they met through the school. Then it made sense why she acted jealous, silly, if i want to know about my son, i expect an answer Should I let it go...or how should I handle this...it is awkward. It is a problem because my son is 13 years old...I need updates and information from time to time and I dont feel comfortable asking anything. I have no interest in her husband...I think she knows I am attractive so she thinks I might try to steal her husband based on her own poor morals. Ryde On, I keep a low enough profile and never talk to him...my husband is at all the game with me. The guy is not good looking at all. So dont point fingers at me...my son is what matters, he has a lot of goals for my son and as a parent I should be aware of some of the things he has planned for him because I am the one who is responsible for getting him everywhere. It is a problem because he has my son starting for a higher classman team and he has chosen my son to go to camp out of state...yet I, nor my husband are not being informed of details. because apparently him and his wife are minuscular people who are insecure and childish. nobody wants her nasty *** old man. @another crone. absolutely not. I dont go out, i dont go to bars, i have never been in trouble, never had an affair. I have been married to the same guy since I was 20 years old. I am almost 38 now. We just moved her a few years ago. I dont know what her problem is....it looks like jealousy...my son said the same thing. I stayed home with my kids, i was a stay at home mom for many years...so she has never seen me in another light.

We dated for about 6 months before we got married. I know it's not enough time but we did. Everything was so good. The sex is amazing, we got along so well and I was ready to get married. No thar I am married I'm starting to see sides I didn't see before he's getting more and more controlling by the day. He wants sex 2 to 3 times a day if I don't have sex with him he throws a fit. He tells me who I can and can't befriend. And he is more sexual than ever. I feel if I divorce I giving up I do really love him a lot but I just don't think I was ready for all of this. Help. Any advice will do

Me and my friend have known each other for seven years (since highschool) My husband HATES her. She is single so she always wants to do single things but she doesn't stand that now that I am married I can't just go to the club at midnight. She text my phone saying "hey babe" and my husband hates that. A few night ago my friend and I went to eat around 7 pm. My husband knew this because I told him in person. Later we did some shopping in the mist of it all my phone died. I got home around 10:30 and my husband went ballistic. When my friend dropped me off he told her "don't come to this house anymore or I'll f*** you up, leave my wife alone and get your own" I was so mad at my husband I pushed him in the house and asked him what tell his problem was. He got mad and accused me of having all types of sexual relations with her and told me if he found out he would bear her a**. The next morning I wanted to talk things out with my husband. I was trying to kiss my husband and make love to him and he told me "is this war you do with becca" Am I the one to blame in this situation? I don't see anything I've done wrong. I'm asking for advice because some times people are wrong and can't see it. Please comment.

When I bring up a disagreement. He rarely if ever brings up serious issues or needs, but nitpicks about small stuff all day. I'm so turned off. Is this a sign of a narcissist?

My husband and I had a baby together a month ago, and he grabs the side of my belly and says "you need to work on getting rid of that" He sits infront of his TV all day, has never changed his sons diaper or fed him a bottle, and I'm sick of this laziness. I work 25 hours a week right now with the baby, his excuse is he works full time! I asked him one morning when I was going to take the dog on a walk one morning so I sat and waited for about three minutes to see if he'd get up and feed the baby a bottle, he didn't he just stayed in bed with his eyes clothes like he wasn't even crying. I'll go to bed at night with the baby when he's off work, and he sits on his computer game tell atleast 3 in the morning everynight or he'll sit and watch Netflix (he gets off at 8) I have talked to him about this, and he just won't budge. Please help?

I just found out that 10 years ago, while my boyfriend was in the marine corp, he got legally married to a woman that he was not in a relationship with for the sole purpose of being able to move out of the barracks and get more money. We have been together for a year and a half now, and hejust told me last night because he wants to marry me but obviously he can tdue to the fact he legally is. I m freaking out. He says he was 18, dumb, and it was stupidest decision he has ever made in his life. He has been working on getting divorced and it gone for the past couple months but it s been a slow process since it happened in a different state. I just dont know how to think ight now. I love him, and he loves me, I know that. But this is just so crazy. He says that the marriage had no relario ship connected to it at all, and at the time his stupid young mind only cared about the money and moving

He wants bl*wjobs.. That's it. I've tried surprising him, (new lingerie etc) but after weve got in the mood, he pushes my head down to give him a *******. Last week was my 27th birthday, he forgot but then still wanted a *******, and wouldn't have sex with me. Weve been married for 4 years, together for 8. It's been the last three years he won't have sex with me, but I've given him a ******* each night. He says I'm being immature, and its not a big deal. He won't have a serious conversation with me, and instead his reply is "I like head more than sex". I know it pleases him more than sex, so should I just be happy with that? Our sexual relationship consists of blowjobs, and kisses. That's it. Im not sure what I've done wrong, we had sex a 4/5 times a week, until three years ago when we haven't had sex once. Sorry for the rant, I dont speak about if so I've just blabbed on. I'm not a 'wh*re', and he is the only man ive slept with. Believe it or not we have a good relationship outside of the bedroom.. No he doesn't @mr .mo.

I posted a previous question about my mom passing away. Anyway, I lost my mom a year ago. She was 99 years old & while she was old it was still very sudden. After my mother died before she was even buried my husband told me "stop feeling sorry for yourself your mother was old anyway." He then went on to complain to me that I had not cooked him dinner in 3 days & how he was starving & how I never want to cook. I'm still very much hurt by this & seem to be holding a lot of resentment towards my husband about it. My oldest brother told me if his wife ever behaved how my husband did they'd be divorced. I can't help but often now think about a divorce even after the fact. We've been married 34 years & he's never acted like this. Should I consider counseling? Be honest if your spouse acted like this would it have been a deal breaker for you?

My wife has this thing where she feels that any and everything that comes out of her mouth is important to her and so it should be important to me. I get into work this morning and when I log into my email this is the first thing I saw. An email from her that said, "Remember I told you that my boss is coming down from NY? She was supposed to come on Monday and she was taking the team out to dinner but the flight got cancelled and she is coming on today and taking the team out to dinner on tomorrow evening. Just wanted to let you know." Honestly I don't remember cause what she was saying had NO bearing on me. The boss wasn't taking the team and their spouses out to dinner so in one ear and out the other it went. I just get fed up with her wanting to tell me ever single detail of her day. "That's what couples do." No, couples don't tell their spouses every single detail of their day. It's not like I can't cook for myself because I'm the primary cook in the house but I can live with a bologna sandwich for dinner. How do I reply to this email without coming across as harsh or uncaring? If I just say "ok" then she's going to think that's just a basic reply. Thinking from the mind of a woman, I'm suppose to want to have an in depth conversation about her boss, why she's coming here, and what they plan to do or talk about while in town. Honestly, I do not care. Should I? If she comes in the house and asks how my day was if I say, "it was just another day", then she gets upset saying I don't want to talk to her. I'm suppose to say, "Joe came in this morning and by noon he had a flat tire so we went and changed it then went to lunch where I had the grilled chicken sandwich with extra mayo. The waitress forgot my onion rings and brought me fries instead. I had a 3 PM meeting where we discussed who was cleaning out the fridge on Friday because the girl who was suppose to do it got sick and didn't come in. On my way home there was an accident and that help me up for about 2 minutes that's why I didn't walk into the house until 5:32 instead of 5:30." I'm sure tomorrow night my wife is going to want to come in after dinner then expect me to ask how it went, what they talked about, where they ate, what she had, etc. Again, things I really don't care about. As long as you're home I'm cool. I don't need every detail.

We have been married for four years. I'm 33 and she is 30. We both work very long hours. I have a full time job that involves a minimum 10 hrs a day 5 days a week and on my 2 days off work, I attend uni for a nursing degree and language classes. She works in real estate and also works very long hours. We are like ships in the night. It still hurts me to hear her say she has met with a young guy etc (all Chinese like her) one on one for dinner or tea outside to discuss property. Some of them don't want to come to her company so she has to meet them at a restaurant etc. Not always men but occasionally they are. When that happens it hurts me. I hate the feeling of knowing some guy is enjoying the evening talking with her. We never get that opportunity so it feels like she is out with other guys. I sometimes feel like asking some classmates to join me for dinner etc. But I am faithful and won't do that. I'm really uncomfortable with her doing what she is doing. I would love to have an evening where we connected like that but it doesn't ever happen. I sometimes feel like this is not a normal marriage at all. Even sex happens once every 4 weeks or so. Other couples apparently do it an average of 3 or 4 times a week...I am working on trying to get us to do it more often but I'm disappointed by her behaviour by meeting other men in the evenings. What can I do? And yes I'm seriously asking this. It is not a fake question. I feel like if I start saying she can't meet certain clients on certain conditions, that it would be controlling and wrong.

Married 12 years and since 2013 I've been sneaking out about once a week and having sex with a man, what should I do, I love my wife but also love ******* guys

I have bipolar disorder and I am unemployed and currently applying for disability. I get criticized and ridiculed by my friends for being 25 years old and not having a job or a drivers license. People blame me and say it is my fault that I am still single and never had a girlfriend and says that no woman wants me because I won't take responsibility for my life. All of my friends ditched me because I am applying for SSI. I don't understand why I am blamed for all of my problems. Why are people like this to me ?

Whether you married your life partner or think you could've done better, what's something for a young whipper-snapper to look for that will help with a long-lasting marriage? What helped or would help your marriage? Thanks!

Married and living with husbands brother, why should I help pay property taxes if they made it clear I have no part of this house? My husband and his brother inherited this house after their mom died, I got pregnant and his bro got upset and didn't want us getting married for fear of me taking their house later on which is not true since it's inherited before our marriage, and now that property taxes raised significantly they think I should be helping pay property taxes and I don't think that's fair. I'm fine with helping part in utilities, food, and our baby. I really want an opinion on this please.

My relationship with my husband outside of the bedroom is amazing! When it comes to sex he has no interest! We waited until we were engaged to have sex. He was a virgin I was not. He loves to cuddle & kiss etc but when it comes to anything further then kissing he's too tired, he doesn't feel well, he has to be up early tomorrow etc. I'm 26 & he's 30 years old. We've been married 3 years now. I'm lucky if we have sex once ever 3-6 months. I thought after we married it would change. I sometimes can't help but wonder if we will even end up having children or not. Any advice? I would have prob never married him had I known sexually it would be like this. That sounds terrible but I'm so frustrated at the moment! help

just to please his every desire

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I know my wife is cheating on me since day 1 of marriage and when her cousin. First I found a hidden photo of his cousin when was cleaning then she is hardly ever around with excuses that she needs to take a test to receive a higher level degree of some sort and she never passes its been like this for 3 yrs of 5yrs of marriage. Once she went to san diego for 21/2 for her supposedly test. Then she leaves anytime as she pleases with excuses to go grocery shop eventhough we went together the same day then she just leaves for random reasons. Those kids eventhough they might not be mine is not their fault of her ignorance she could ve easily talk to me and let me know that she doesn t love and we could ve gotten a divorce/ But she decided tp get pregnant again s its not mine we sleep in the same bedroom but I sleep in one of the kids bed so Im just waiting for the day that she can finally come forward and b truthful meanwhile I just wait but the trust is definitrly not there. What should I do?