so there's this girl i kinda like so today I was walking with my friend at the hallway she was there & I saw her looking at me. then when we pass each other again at the hallway I look at her but she hide behind her friend. then in class she went over to talk to her friend but then later she had went somewhere but when she came back to class I was looking at her & she saw me looking but I just looked away. then later she hide moved to the back of the class & when I turn around I saw her looking. but then she had left class early.

I'm feeling really stupid at this moment simply because i've been rubbing me and my boyfriend's relationship in his child's mother's face. As the story goes, a couple of days ago it got back to me through a mutual friend of ours that my boyfriend was on the mother of his child's Facebook page asking if he could spend the night. I also found out that he was on his son's page questioning the mother of his child about her whereabouts and asking why was she up so late. Ok, so now here goes the devastating blow( I know this was stupid of me) I put a pic up of myself revealing a bit too much and he was absolutely fine with it but last night i found out that he told the mother of his child that she better not put any provocative pictures up on facebook and that she better not ever cross that line. My friend said that right there makes me look totally worthless. To be honest I was rubbing things in her face lately - just to let her know her place but now it appears to be back-firing on me. The woman does mind her own business and hasn't tried to cause any drama between us as of yet but i still don't trust her. Also i'm the one always promoting our relationship while he says nothing. The mother of his child doesn't even comment on his page or like any of his pics yet he's all over hers. Honestly i don't think he really wants her back i think he loves me but just wants to control her life because of their child. What do you guys think?

Yes, my daughter is adopted and isn"t related to my son (biologically) at all But I still feel weird. They admitted to being attracted to each other at 17, and they had sex at 22, when it's college vacation time I think it's unacceptable? It just feels so weird?

Well my ex was also ther ..my ex decided to act childess ..my boyfriend introduced himself n my ex started cursing and wiping his hand as if my boyfriend gave him cuddies... n even had security called... my boyfriend paid him no mind after that.. as my ex paced back and forth. .he was looking for a fight. ..security asked my boyfriend if he had a problem ..he said no but my ex said I do got a problem. .im gona whoop his *** for shaking my hand.... all this happened in the waiting room as i was watching my grandson being born.. my oldest daughter witnessed it all... said her dad acted soo childess.. she apologized to my boyfriend for her dads behavior. .

I've had to work with this guy for the past few months. The work has been going very well and the feedback is always excellent. He's a client of the company I work with. Thing is, I'm leaving this place next month and when I told this client, he blurted out immediately 'I'm going with you!' (meaning, he wants me to act for him instead of my current employer). That's normal I suppose when you build up a good rapport, plus, I've never had to sign a contract with this agency I'm with..it's very informal. I said to him, that for the moment I can't agree anything (as I don't want to be unethical). Well, he called the agency and told them he's continuing with me. Later on I started thinking mmm, I wonder does he like me? See... He often talks about his friends, his daughter but... he only mentioned his wife once. The strange thing is, he mentioned that he has just come back from a few weeks holidays and said 'I went with my friends'. Well, I am a very upright person...would never encourage a married guy..but, do you think he likes me? I'm actually now considering cutting all ties with him, just in case. Am I imagining things?

This guy at work keeps stalking me and try to talk to me, follow me to the car, got in my car and always try to ask me to hug him. He sometimes complaint about how he's tired of her and stuffs to me so I just try to say things like: "oh she's bored, she needs a job, get her mind occupied so she won't think negative". He added me on snapchat. I recently change my hair color and was excited, so when he asked me to let him see other hair colors I had before, I send him some pics with my other colors (absolutely appropriate pictures) He's bothering me so much and everyone at work know that. Now his wife (not really, he just got her pregnant) found my Facebook and start accusing me of having sex with him. I told her the truth and say I didn't want to report him because I didn't want him to lose his job. but she's in denial and start disrespecting me and say I should have respect for myself. The thing is not only him that like me, there's someone else like me too so that's why she said that but I love my man so much and would never do such thing or even think about anyone. she's insecure and in denial so no amount of words from me would mean anything. I do feel threaten by her. I'm thinking about talking to my supervisor other than that I don't know what to do. Sorry for the long explanation but I'm looking for advice. Thanks!

I am divorced but I am still on friendly terms with my ex husband Bill. We did not have any children. Bill was good friends with my parents when we were married and he remained good friends with them after the divorce. Mom and dad love to go to the movies and even more love to go out to a restaurant for a meal. They don't have a lot of money so they don't get to do that often. Bill knows this and sometimes takes them out to a high end restaurant and then to the movies all on his dime. Mom and dad REALLY enjoy these outings. They tell me how much fun they had doing it and look forward to the next time Bill takes them out. My gal friends tell me to tell Bill to stop dong that. They say that I need to get on with my life and I can't do that if Bill is still in the picture. I talk to Bill occasionally to get his advice on financial matters as he gives very good advice. I see him rarely, usually at my parents house when he picks them up to take them out for the night. These meetings are friendly and he never asked me about my personal life. My parents tell me Bill is a great guy for giving them some fun in life. Should I ask my parents to stop seeing Bill? Please give me your advice.

I need some inspiration in my life.

I've had to work with this guy for the past few months. The work has been going very well and the feedback is always excellent. He's a client of the company I work with. Thing is, I'm leaving this place next month and when I told this client, he blurted out immediately 'I'm going with you!' (meaning, he wants me to act for him instead of my current employer). That's normal I suppose when you build up a good rapport, plus, I've never had to sign a contract with this agency I'm with..it's very informal. I said to him, that for the moment I can't agree anything (as I don't want to be unethical). Well, he called the agency and told them he's continuing with me. Later on I started thinking mmm, I wonder does he like me? See... He often talks about his friends, his daughter but... he only mentioned his wife once. The strange thing is, he mentioned that he has just come back from a few weeks holidays and said 'I went with my friends'. Well, I am a very upright person...would never encourage a married guy..but, do you think he likes me? I'm actually now considering cutting all ties with him, just in case. Am I imagining things?

Sooo... I broke my nose when I was a child, I ran into a radiator apparently. Long story short my parents never took me casualty, so my nose never got fixed. (Thanks Mum & Dad) Also when I was born I think the Doctor must have pulled me out by my ears, Because as you can see I look like I'm related too Dumbo. I basically thought I would try and ask you beautiful people (You lucky ducks) what you think I can do so I don't look so deformed. Thank's in advance, Ash ^^

I'm good with the internet like coding and making programs and things i can do alot and i'm still learning but recently my father asked my what am i passionate about and i told and at first he didn't believe me .so he said since i'm so good with the internet coding he wanted me to prove to him what i can do so i did the first thing that came to mind and i should him how i could shut down peoples internet and i'm not an *** whole so i did our internet instead of the neighbors so after i show how i did it he got upset and said thats not no job, you cant make any money off of doing that kind of stuff...it kinda of hurt me a bit because this is what i like to do ...and i said alright watch this and i took control over his phone using my computer and i made a message pop up on screen saying hello then he got even more mad and started taking stuff away from me and put me on punishment he told me i can get off punishment when i find out what im really passionate about ..like i'm confuse i don't know what to tell .. i dont want to lie to him about something i really don't care about because im pretty sure he will make sure i go with that until i move out

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So my fiance has been living with me for about 4-5 months now. He has no problems letting me go through his phone. And there have been way too many times that i see he was on youtube during work watching videos of all these latina/salvadorean/mexican girls dancing around in little g strings shaking their asses and rubbing their boobs and getting naked. And even searches up "trannys in gstrings" or "girl with huge *** and boobs" but in spanish (hardly speaks english). He has them all under a provate playlist and named it "Good😍" and adds like 20 extra videos every day. I feel unwanted i myself am thick with big boobs and butt but my body and face isnt as great as theirs ( i have some self esteem issues) He comes home and just lays down and watches tv and i want to (you know) and i try dancing for him probably better than those girls there being that im brazilian and mexican...and love to dance. He tells me to stop doing it. Its rare the time we have sex and when he do he finishes too fast and goes back to his tv. He wont even look me in the face like he used to or last the way he used to. He says its because he feels insecure with his body ( has put on a little weight). But the videos have ruined our sex life. The more videos he watches the less intimacy we have, i feel betrayed and unwanted 😞

I honestly believe there is something wrong in my house. The other night I had a horrible toothache so I layed down and closed my eyes a few minutes later my boyfriend knocked on the bedroom door and when he did I opened my eyes, for a split second I swear there was someone standing in front of my bed but when I blinked they disappeared. That night the pain in my tooth was so bad that I stayed up all night crying and I continuously had random muscle spams (I know that part doesnt sound to ghost related but...) I also for some reason stopped breathing every few minutes it was like I actually forgot that I had to breathe to stay alive, when ever I remembered to breathe I had to take in 2 deep breaths and for some reason I kept telling myself that the first breath I took was for the 8yr old Timmy. The problem? I dont know an 8yr old named Timmy. This may all sound like maybe im just nuts but this morning drew the line with me, when my boyfriend went to pick up our daughter her entire back was red in a rash and i have no clue what it could have came from and there were finger nail marks on her face. I know I may be being a bit paranoid with the new house but please just give me some opinions?

We haven't been together very long, 4 months. She was with her ex for 6 years, they split up a year and a half ago. Last week he turned up at her house(I was there), in a state and told her his mother had died, he's been making him and his sister and father food and stuff every day since then, and he invited her to go to the funeral but I'm not allowed to the funeral? I know I didn't know the woman but I think he's doing it on purpose to get her alone. I've told her she's not allowed to go then because of him and she said "it has nothing to do with him, his mother was like family to me". But then if it is just for this woman why is she making food and stuff for them everyday?

I am going to Amsterdam for three days in March with my boyfriend. Can anyone give me some tips or recommended places to see or things to do? Any hidden gems, nice bars or restaurants, coffee shops (i am a green smoker) and any fun activities. I've also heard its beneficial to rent a bike? Anyone been to any escape room places? ~Thanks, Sarah

What would you do if you found porn videos on your boyfriends laptop and also on he's Internet history. I don't know what to do . I'm in shock and I don't know how to ask him about it. What should I say and do ?

I miss him a lot. He lives far away in another state, and I only see him once a year. He just went back home after a visit and I really miss him. What to do?

he asked me out before we even went on our date whatever and told him I'mDL,so we go and eat somewhere but I didn't know he had a Scary side.He is out to his family and to has no friends inpublic we act like we are friends I'm the bottom he's the top. But I'm bi and didn't plan to be with himforever andI've tried to leave him various times because he's abused me already when we barely had3monthstogether back in2014and I fight back ofcourse bc I'm not gonna lethim hit me but whenI try to leave him he starts to threaten me sayinthat if I leave him he will tell my mom and everyone everything about us andout of allthetimes I tried leaving him from his room at his house he locks the door grabs me and doesn't let me go and starts yelling and going crazy then we fight and then I tell myself there's nothing I can do bc Im DLand don't want anyone to know I'm with a guy so I start feeling suicidal and that I can't do anything because if I leave this person will stalk me he knows where I live and out of the times I tried breaking up with him thru phone he appears somewhere by my house and tells me he is sorry and gets me gifts which is sweet I do love him but the gifts I know there just a trap message but there's nothing I can do if I leave I know what he's gonna do already and that's where I feel trapped Our relationship isn't working all we do is argue over small things he stars to argue 1st then he try's hitme then I fight back i really wanna leave this person but he keeps trapping

She won't feel right taking it from me unless we have sex. We had sex before but I wouldn't feel right paying someone I love for sex. What should I do?

I mean where do these guys usually hang out and what type of women are they attracted to? I'd really wanna date one but i imagine they have very high standards

My boss is married. Only thing us at work he tends to like to get very flirty and hit on all the girls. With my he likes to always check out my body. Anytime I am showing my curves or the girls he starts panting it seems like. This one girl I work with as seen his wife and says that she's not exactly tiny and he tends to make fun of women in that same state. Not very nice I will say. He never hardly talks to me when people are around unless it's business and laughs a lot at things I say or do. Yesterday he mentioned the fact he was married only when I forced it out of him and then he avoided me. So my question is what do you think he is trying to do?

Okay so I have deleted my account in ok cupid and made a new one many times, then I close it again cause I end up getting messages from the same kind of guys. I'm not a bad looking girl, I'm a bit above average (a 6.5/7 out of 10) as most people in real life say but in okcupid I was getting messages by unattractive guys who were overweight, Chinese, Pakistani etc. I thought maybe the problem was I'm a bit nerdy. So after I had asked permission from my cousin I made a 2nd account, using some of her photos as an experiment. My cousin is a beautiful girl, is an actress and is dating a competitive swimmer in real life. Yet even she got messages from the same unattractive guys. What are guys on dating sites looking for Victoria'as secrets supermodels? In real life I get compliments by people I just met so that's not true No Jay usually guys hit on me in real life I just haven't met the one @Kelly: Sorry I totally disagree with you. When we first meet a person our mind automatically uses a filter to determine if we are attracted to him or not. I can not date someone I don't like to. But to answer your question, I am witty, well educated, stylish and classy. But first goes physical attraction. Then we compare each other's hobbies and interests to see if our personalities matches or not @Kelly: My self-summary Originally from Switzerland, grew up everywhere, currently in NYC for grad school. I am the kind of girl that will be cheering loudly at the bar on Sundays while the Packers keep scoring touchdowns. Then I am the kind of girl that dresses up when I go out. What I'm doing with my life Taking full advantage of all the opportunities available to me. Working full time at a law firm. Taking a break from studying for my second Bachelors degree majoring in Civil Engineering. I want to get into sustainable building to reverse the changes done to the environment by creating energy efficient infrastructures.🌱 I enjoy going to the gym . It's an instant mood changer and stress reliever.

My friend met a guy on a date site. He is good-looking and nice. The problem is he told my friend that he never talks on the phone before any meeting. They text only. They are going to meet soon but she feels nervous about it. They are going to meet in a crowded mall-like location. Is this suspicious? What can happen in this scenario?

For how much?

They're the same age and wearing no makeup

I wanted to have adopted children with my lover, but he says he doesn't want any kids. I even considered having a cat and treating it like a child because I thought it would be cute, but he doesn't want that either. I'm not sure if I shouldnt have any kids or cats because he doesn't want to. How can I compromise?

He's older than me and he's not the first married guy but he's the most clingy! He thinks because he gives me money weekly he owns me, as if I don't have a life outside of him. He gets jealous about me dealing with other guys and I'm so repulsed by him. I see him as a weekly check and he actually cares about me, what an idiot. Anyway I've told him not to contact me for a week as I'm with my ex and so far so good .. Next week I can spend some of his money at the mall. I doubt I'll ever get married and I've developed trust issues dealing with so many married men who cheats cheats cheats. I feel bad for these women but I think they're so stupid to think a man will be faithful.

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So I started my new job two weeks ago and I was paired up with a girl the same age as me. She's so nice to me, maybe even a bit flirty. We've been texting all the time while we're not at work and when we are at work it's always great. I love being around her. I have problems with depression and she's really understanding. making sure I'm okay and stuff. I usually walk home with her as we live quite close and normally it's a quick "bye, see you tomorrow" kinda thing, but tonight she hugged me and sort of like kissed me gently on the neck, just below my jaw which made me so happy!! But I'm not sure if she's just being polite or if she likes me. What do you guys and girls think? I've never had a girlfriend before so I'm clueless to all this stuff.

I don't really talk to anyone in school and I only really have one close friend I talk to. Other than that I'm quiet and can probably count how many people I talk to in a day with one hand. I suck at real life socializing but I'm wondering if I should try friending people or liking tweets to maybe get a conversation started. I don't know if this would be considered weird or strange since I don't interact with many people in real life. How would you react? Thanks. I'm a male high school junior if you'd like context.

Not good singers personally