Me and my hubby are 10 years apart, have been together for 3 years and are madly in love 💘 So I'm just curious how others see us.

It has absolutely nothing to do with them yet they act outraged that it exists,

My girlfriends ex husband has driven on the street that passes by my house several times within the past few months. It gets a clear and close view of my house. It is not a main road. It is a side (residential) street. He does not live anywhere near me and he works about 20 minutes away. Is it possible he is just driving by and eating lunch in his car and happens to be on the street next to mine by coincidence?

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Im 28yrs of age and she is 3 yrs younger. We got married 2 years back - no kids- and know each other for 5.5years. Last year i found out she texts my own brother who lives next door. I never thought this could even be possible since the whole family consider herself to be a very good girl. Fulfils her duties as a wife and daughter in law flawlessly. Long story short: The first time: She complained about my brother sending her vulgar msgs and saying he loves her. She deleted all the messages knowing i would be angry if i read.. I doubted she was only a "victim" and insisted that she was at fault as well (maybe incited him to get closer and dirtier) I forgave and warned her if she does not want all this to happen again, just stop texting him. Second time: Saw her texting late night when i woke up. questioned her but she hId her phone (i know its that bastard i call brother) She admitted its him. But then again i didnt see any of the msgs since she deleted them. I broke the phone warning her - if ever next time i come across the same bullshit again, i would end up the relationship and divorce. I sounded serious enough. The monster that i call brother gifted her a phone knowing that her phone is broken. Just to see where all this would lead and if she deserves to be my wife i paid for the phone and did not accept as gift. 1 month later using some spying techniques i found out they were txting again but this time i confirm its two sided. Now i hate both of them.

My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years and married for over 1 year. I have trust issues from my past relationships where guys left me for another girl and my last boyfriend was verbally abusive to me. I'm afraid of letting go and just trusting in my relationship with my husband. I'm afraid of him leaving me or hurting me, although he knows my past hurts and has promised he wouldn't hurt me. He hasn't done anything that shows I can't trust him, and I don't know why I'm having trouble with this, but when we're apart I worry about him doing something. Any advice? I love him more than anything and told him this would get better and I'm trying hard. Serious answers only please.

Raymond died so I sent this to his parents.

I think women will have the the best perspective on this: My wife & I had had a nanny who lived in an apartment that is attached but separated from our home. We recently let her go, for various reasons. The nanny is 28, but grew up in a pretty sheltered community. The situation: she knows we had a nanny cam. She knows that I (father/husband) reviews the video. Yet she did things I think most people wouldn't do if they knew they were on camera. She'd do yoga in tight pants & a sports bra. While we'd prefer she paid better attention to the children, we didn't feel like she was being indecent. She'd wax her legs 1-2x a week in our dining area (in view of the cam in the living rm) wearing short shorts. She sat on a chair near a sliding glass door (sunshine & nice view) with her back to the camera, & she obviously shifted her shorts to wax her bikini line. The last day she worked, she was doing yoga while standing on a chair facing the glass door--back to the camera. She rubbed lotion on her arms, around her sports bra, mid-section, & then she totally dropped her tight yoga pants (no panties) & rubbed lotion on her legs & bare buttocks. Again, she knows there's a camera & should have known she was in view. She knows that I (husband/father) am the one who reviews the footage. Questions: Was she just being clueless? Or was she deliberately showing off her body? (I should add: our children were napping & didn't see her bare butt, & are really too young to care if they did. While we have already let her go and don't expect to see her again, it makes a difference if anyone calls for a reference.)

I met Johnny sophomore year after I won homecoming, he was a freshman.I lost and gained my vision back before sophomore year due to injury, I have vision but still need help getting around.. Johnny had offered to walk me every day to my next class, we got really close, he told me he liked me a lot & my visual impairment didn't faze him, he thought I was beautiful.. We talked more, Hung out, even had a movie night together! We held hands, laughed so much, we both admited to never having a BF/GF nor have we ever held hands or had a movie night with anyone. We liked each other so much, then 1 week he suddenly just became distant. I figured maybe it was because it was the week of his sisters anniversary, when she passed 4 years ago. he never told me why he stopped, his Bestfriend didn't know either, Johnny stopped walking me but his Bestfriend Ed continued to help. I'm a junior now, he's a sophomore. We see each other in he halls, we smile big & give big hugs. He's still very sweet, but I never knew why he stopped talking with me. I gave him a letter/candy cane for Christmas saying "thanks" for all the fun we had & hoped to have another movie night someday. That's my grandma had died recently and I wanted to let my loved ones know that I care for them (including him) He said he loved it & gave me the biggest hug ever. But now he gets all nervous when he sees me, even his Bestfriend notices. What do you think of all this? Is their hope in ever getting close again? I'm 17 he's 16

I dont want to offend anyone. There is a meme that talks about having several income (web design, internet business, real estate, my 9-5) and I was going to make a comment about "this is for us men, not you slaving your wife to 9-5" or will i come off as an arrogant jerk and offend ppl it's because i do have several businesses and most of my family have their wifes work 9-5

please tell me i'm not one of those weaklings who can't survive without it. love's fun but who needs it? i must be stronger. i must rise above these pointless emotions. i must become a machine!

Proven to have been a lie! The day of our anniversary she made a comment under a picture I shared with him on Facebook stating "Happy Anniversary!!!" Found that very odd knowing the type of affair they had was very intimate & she had fallen so in love with my husband and he had fallen in love with her as well! So yes I went through his things and saw they are still in communication with each other! When confronting him about it all he says is I'm not in the mood for this today & never answering any of my question! If I'm not what he wants or where he wants to be why doesn't he just leave? Why do men do things like this to the woman hr chose to spend the rest of his life with? I love my husband so much! I'm at my breaking point with this situation and I am so over her! She is a really nice lady not disrespectful in anyway when I confront her she never gives me any information as to why my husband is holding in to her! Her reply is always "you should talk with your husband not me" I'm so curious as to what does she have that I don't? Help me figure this out! I love & adore my family and really want to make this work!

So there is a woman who cheats on her husband. She has kids with him. Whenever a guy who she uses to cheat on her husband ends up leaving her, she refuses to talk to them anymore. Actually avoids them at all costs and is mad because she got dumped. Why would a woman who is rational even get mad over that when she cheats on her husband?

It's not any of my business, but I guess I'd like to be told if it was the other way around?

I see it all the time, not all are like this, but it seems that they can't prove a point without saying "btch shut the fck up." Like really, you're like an adult, and you're acting like you're 5. Grow up.

My husband recently told me two days ago that he does not love me anymore, and wants to move out. I cried obviously and tried to talked to him. I did not plead for him to stay only that we take some time to see if we can work things out. His words were that he was done with me, but will want to see the kids a lot. As shocked as I still am and hurting, I know for sure I would not want to ever make this work. He made his decision to leave and all I can do is respect that. I will never deny him to see his children. I just want to know what would I expect now that its over, ten years of building something just broke like glass. I am sure I will be alright I just don't know what kind of path to take. Should I seek a counselor to talk about what has happened, or should I pick myself up and spend as much time with friends and family?

Tengo casi 20 años y mi pareja 23, estoy estudiando un grado superior y mi objetivo es acabar una carrera universitaria, mi novio terminó la eso y un grado medio y ahora está trabajando, y intentando estudiar para hacer unas oposiciones que dudo que apruebe porque estudia muy poco, me gustaria que estudiara más y que tenga las mismas ambiciones que yo, sé que no es posible, y que el dinero no lo es todo, pero no sé si estoy exagerando, o no, que deberia hacer? nunca le dejaré por este motivo claramente, pero me tiene un poco rayada.

I'm in my twenties and I work with children and they all refer to me as cute. I find it weird and I'm not sure what they mean by that. I don't think I look like any of them or anything like that.

My parents are going through a hard time: keep leaving each other and coming back, my brother isn't around for it..he got engaged to his ex gf that the family doesn't like and they had an unhealthy relationship last year (domestic violence) and to top it all off, my boyfriend is a professional athlete and is leaving to play for another country. How do I cope?

I m 17... I recently became friends with this guy who has had mutual friends with me for a while, we hungout a few times as friends but a couple of days ago he asked me to go over his house for a get together he was having (only his bestfriend showed up) when I locked eyes with his bestfriend I could swear I fell in love, I feel like I picture my whole life with this kid in a matter of seconds (sounds crazy I know) I don t usually believe in love at first sight but idk how else to describe it. we kept making eye contact the whole night I feel like he felt it too.The point is I know the bestfriend thinks I m attractive because it slipped out that night but his friend who invited me to the house apparently has a crush on me and I know this because when he left the room his bestfriend told me.. now I feel like I have no chance with him because his friend likes me but I want to tell the bestfriend how I feel so badly because I can t get him off my mind. but I know that could stirr up trouble in their friendship so I need advice PLEASE!

Just wondering because I am a lesbian and have never been able to get off or fantasize about having sex with men at all...so do straight woman? It may be a silly question, but I wonder this a lot.

I have a Masters Degree in Education and have worked all my life (except when my wealthy husband and I were married) My bff is disabled and only has an associates, and has only done things like volunteer work, wrote some poems, that were published and stories and told about her abusive life and ill daughter that she raised on her own that is getting her second associates degree. Now I call that a two time loser. (But again I have a MASTERS degree)

So, starting off, please dont judge. I was drunk. So one night, we went to his friends party (Im 17 hes 21) It was a collage party so of course there was alcohol there. After about 5 drinks my brothers friend invited me upstairs for some "alone time". I was drunk so of course i went. After we made it upstairs and in a bedroom he started kissing me. I kissed back cause he was hot af. But then right after his hands started going up my dress, my brother ran in and kicked him out. I was really tired so he told me to lay down, so i did. after about 5 minutes he laid down beside me. The last thing i felt was him pull down my underwear. When i woke up the next day i didnt remember anything. All i noticed was that i was naked and so was my brother laying beside me. I need help. Im around 10 weeks. How do i tell him? My parents?

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Essentially his reasons for breaking up were because he was looking towards the future. We have a bit of an age gap (I'm 22 he's 28) and he's worried that I'll change over time and find someone I click with better. His other reasons were that he feels that I lack empathy which he had brought up in a fight we had in July. He was expecting a drastic change in that aspect and I did a little but he felt that it was insincere. He said he just can't handle being hurt again and doesn't want to try anymore. The thing is that after all of that was said and done he offered to let me drink a beer with him. We began talking as if nothing ever happened and we were back to our old selves. Like we got over a fight instead of breaking up. He made me pasta and we wrestled in the kitchen. I leave around 7 he said he wants to be friends- just not yet... but he also said to "stay in touch". That night he texted me saying "there's one thing that I dont think i made clear. Im extremely drunk and alone, so you'll have to forgive me. You showed me what it meant to love, in a very real sense. Regardless of my issues, times with you were better than with anyone ive ever been with, ever. our good times were like ecstasy, and i will forever miss them. Forever. So many songs will forever have your stamp on them. I've felt blues tonight that I have never felt before. Its times like this that thinking with your head as opposed to your heart feels so wrong" What do I make of this???

El 14 será la fiesta de una de mis mejores amigas. a las 3 pm. Y mi novio me acabá de proponer que el 14 la pasemos juntos. a las 12 pm, (Ya que el vine desde lejos). Encerio, qué hago? :( No le quiero cancerlar planes a ninguno de los dos.

Do many people tell their lover secrets that come back to later haunt them ? Its usually a few months within their relationship and everythings great and they feellike they can tell them anything. Is it usually a mistake? what if it can send them to jail for life? would you ever tell your lover something that can put you away for life in a moment of trust or whatever you wanna call it? Many many people do just that in a moment of weakness or trust or whatever.

Last week I found the courage to ask a woman out that I work with. We work in different departments, and I don't always get a chance to talk to her, so I asked her out for coffee. She said that this weekend was busy for her and she was going home to visit her family and going to a birthday for her grandmother that was turning 92. She is a nice person, so there is no reason for her to lie, and she seemed generally flattered when I asked. She also said "maybe another time" twice, so maybe there is a chance. I saw her briefly today, in the morning. She said hi and asked how I was in passing but nothing else. I was hoping to see her at lunch today, but I didn't. Usually that's how the week goes. I don't see her much, might say hi or bye. Maybe a 1 or 2 minute chit chat if there is time once a week. I'm at a loss what to do. I don't want to ask her out again and yet, I want to get to know her. Is she just being nice and hoping I don't ask her out again?