I live with parents in law for 2 years and during those two years I losted myself . I lost my welling being in life . Now moving out is helping me feel better . I'm gonna live with my Dad for a few months or Untill I find a home i can live in alone or with hubby . I don't know if he wants to even move in our new home together. Hubby can't afford a new home right now . Living with in laws is driving me insane! They have Rules and they care for me but then I lost myself . I cant find myself in that home . I tried . Hubby and I want to be together but we are stuck . I'm in my 20s. I need to find myself again but hubby won't move in my Dads with me .we are gonna live separately even thou we love spending time together and sleeping together. Am very confused . I'm gonna visit hubby and still see him . Or should I stay with in laws ? What do you think ? Btw. I'm sad we had no sex for over two years :(

I m in in love with a man Ive known for 5 years. We dated briefly but realized I needed someone with more structure, and he wanted to be the life of the party. We both have felt this longing for one another, hoping one day in the future we could make it work. The problem is, I m engaged. My fiance is a father to my daughter when he doesn t have to be, he treats me with respect and truly adores us. However, I feel more for my ex, and I don t want to hurt my Fiance. He has been engaged 2 times before, with both leaving him for another man. I don t want to hurt him, and his family is mine as well. I have noone else but his family in my life and I m afraid If we separate, I will lose my family. What do I do? My ex doesn t get along with his family and loves to be active and hang out with friends all the time but I love him dearly. I m questioning weather or not he will be the man I need him to be. If this isn t the case, than I fear I will have a loveless marriage in the near future...

I dated my ex-boyfriend for about a year. I broke up with him because he cheated on me with 3 other girls and verbally abused me. Anyway, I saw him at a party a while back and he confronted me in a hallway. We were alone and he said we "had to get back together." I said no so he grabbed my arm and twisted. I broke free and kicked him as hard as I could right in the balls! I was able to catch both of his babymakers and drive those suckers hard with my pointed boots. After I rocked his ballsack, he fell down and puked. The look on his face was priceless. Anyway, I guess I got him so good his nuts swelled up to the size of oranges and one ruptured and had to be removed (I play college soccer so I know how to blast a ballsack!). I feel a little bad but I've also heard he has been telling people he will never mess with a girl again and says he is glad I did not rupture his other nut. He now wears an athletic cup protector all the time to save his remaining jewel. My girlfriends on the soccer team now call me the "nut remover" and say I should hang up a fake pair of nuts like a hunting trophy on a tombstone background with the words "RIP Brian's Nuts-Destroyed By Girl Power" underneath them. Other people say I should hang up a guy's athletic cup as a symbol of female power of male weakness. Any other good nicknames? And what should I hang up? Most creative response gets best answer. Just wish more girls could experience blasting a jerk's balls! It is such a great feeling seeing a supposedly tough guy go down with one kick. Must suck to have nuts. They are just two targets dangling between a guy's legs! One shot and it is all over :)

I talk to them on fb sometimes bc they never talk back to me or my husband and todya my mother in law said to give them some space . I think that's funny bc she still talks to her sons ex girlfriend and doesn't want to talk to me at all . Was this rude ?

This question isn't insinuating that my wife is wrong so please don't jump to conclusions. I realize the problem is within me. I just don't understand why I feel this way. I feel like I need to be validated, supported, or at least granted permission to do anything. This is likely just a prison I constructed for myself and had nothing to do with my wife, but why might I be doing this to myself? This is not a riddle, I seriously don't understand why I feel this way and I was hoping someone could relate and help me understand these feelings. By the way, thank you for your time over the last 4 years. If you think I'm a nutcase, please don't let your children grow up bullied or taught hard lessons through "getting what they deserve". Instead, please support you kids and help them figure out their feelings, their talents, and their identity...

ship, and I'm just a hot mess. I am 22 years old. My first and true love happened when I was only 17 years old, and we were together on and off until I hit 21. Then distance, lack of communication & trust ruined everything. I was devastated and maybe even depressed, and still am 'till this day. I pity myself for having given my all and wasted my precious youth with someone that couldn't even hold on a little longer. So after sobbing like a weak wimp while he continues to hit and run various women, I've finally retrieved the will and desire to walk with someone else. I can actually picture myself with someone else now, something that I could not do before. However after the fourth date with this new guy, and to be honest I feel like I've known him in another life; he feels like a best friend and we totally click when we communicate, he starts requesting hugs and I was in desperate need of some affection so I was more than willing. And the first hug wasn't on the fourth date, it was during the end of the 1st, when we said goodbye to eachother after he walked me home. But yesterday, there was a lot more going on. Both physically and emotionally. We were walking alongside a lake for a whole hour and then we sat down and hugged for longer periods of time, and to my surprise I just burst out into tears. That's when he hugged tighter, was provoked more crying. I don't know what happened inside of me, and he doesn't either. He was aware that I was broken and told me not to worry, that it won't happen with him. but he has never been broken, and i doubt he can handle all my baggage. so i stand up and tell him we should go, and next thing i know i'm standing between his legs as he continues to hug me tight. fine with me, but to my surprise this guy eventually starts kissing me neck. i just stood there and went with it, 'cause it's been a while and i missed the feeling. i did not return the favor, however. eventually we get up and leave because i had somewhere to be.. so now i'm confused about what his intentions are, whether i will ever be able to get over my ex, & if i should proceed with this guy in the direction he's signaling. is what he did normal?is he just taking advantage of the fact that i'm broken, knowing i'm vulnerable and in desperate need of some kind of affection/approval to regain things i once had before being broken? should we have remained friends for longer? why/why not? i think i have feelings for him, but i'm terrified. i'm having serious trouble believing he actually has the intention of marrying me. i know that i am super young for marriage, and i do not intend on settling down just yet, i'd just prefer not to waist any more time and know who my future mate is going to be, and build something great and strong.

Background: My husband is an only child whose parents divorced 20 years ago. His Dad (FIL) remarried nearly 15 years ago to a younger woman with 3 kids from 2 previous marriages. FIL is SMIL's 3rd marriage. My husband has always been pretty close to his Dad. My husband is from England, and I am American. We live in the states now, and his parents are still in England. However, we have managed to stay in touch through Skype, and many trans-atlantic flights over the years. FIL used to visit us at least once a year, and SMIL would of course accompany him. We used to love SMIL very much. She seemed like the most reasonable of all the parents. (ugly divorces between our parents has led to much drama and walking on eggshells over the years) In the midst of this we counted SMIL as our closest family. We now have a 3 1/2 year old daughter. When I had her she was 2 months early due to me having pre-eclampsia and becoming very ill with Hughes syndrome and Lupus. When she was born I could hardly take care of her because I was so sick. She was in the hospital for weeks as a 2 1/2 lb preemie. Hospital social workers actually recommended we "call in the cavalry". My husband asked FIL and SMIL to come, and they were here within the week. They stayed for 2 weeks. I was admitted to the hospital again while they were here. So, they helped us vitally when we were desperate. see rest of dilemma below in answers

I was wondering, would it be a good idea to move in with my boyfriend and finish my college degree with him? My mom has been helping me with college now for the last 3 years but i want to leave and do it on my own. We don't have a very good mother daughter relationship and i've been living with this pain for 22 years. I told her my plan of leaving in May, and she refuses to let me leave, but i didn't tell her i'm living with my boyfriend because she pretty much hates him. Would it be a good idea to just leave on the day i have decided and leave her a note telling her why i left and etc.? This has weighed heavily on me for some time now, but i just cant take her pain and my own growing depression while living in this house.

Me my wife how met when I was 22 she was 31 we were only together for 5 years then we divorced separated cuz I believe she has helped pregnant with a married man now she been sleeping with other married men as well as well as promising them children now she has targeted my friends I was staying with having sex with him. To get me booted out. I went back to live with my dad now she is now involved with my dad having sex with him and trying to get pregnant by him to have his baby as baby number two she will not say who was the first baby or admit to who the father is.

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My mom, my little sister and are going on our first girls day out need some ideas.my mom has cancer and we want to go on a girls day out but we ant be walking around to much but we also need it to be chaep. we live in tulsa, ok

This morning I was bathing my 4-month old baby girl, Christie Lou, in the kitchen sink. After I dried her off, I put some baby oil on her skin. Her skin looked really moist and delicious, kind of like melted butter on raw poultry, so I couldn t help but sprinkle some parm all over her. That wasn t enough though. I reached for my spice rack and dumped a whole bottle of garlic salt on her, being sure to avoid her eyes. Then a teaspoon of dried basil and a dash of cayenne. I picked her up and licked the back of her neck. An intense feeling of pleasure bestowed upon me. She tasted just like my great aunt Barb s lasagna, my meal of preference which I so often desire. So I took another lick. As I put her down, I violently vomited all over myself because the release of endorphins was so intense, My body just couldn t handle it. I blacked out for several minutes until the sound of my daughter s cries caused me to awaken. I hastily rinsed her off again and put her to bed. I have a strange feeling I might be a pedophile after taking so much joy in licking my daughter. Am I? I ve been fantasizing about licking her again. Such tender skin blessed with delicious spices...oh mother...

My wife and her brother were laughing at a text and I asked to see it. When I read it I got upset. I was offended because her mom was making fun of me by comparing me with a murderer! This started a huge fight with her and ended with her not accepting the fact that my feelings were hurt stating that the only reason I was upset is because I hate her family. (Backstory our neighbors recently were burglarized so I did install extra security with cameras. Yes we did just buy a German shepherd which I have been talking about fior years. I ve owned guns for years) "So they interviewed a guy who is friends with the man that went on a shooting rampage. He said that is was a really nice guy but had recently become obsessed with keeping his family safe. So he bought some guns, a German Shephard and put security cameras around his house. Hmmmmm 😜" Am I justified in feeling insulted?

When I was 10 I got caught by a girl picking my nose and she told her friend on me and another person knew and they made fun of me. This was embarrassing for me and I felt really horrible. She saw me in high school and said hi to me and I was attracted to her, 10 years later I cursed her on Twitter saying **** you for making fun of me in 5th grade. I also got her friends number and made up a lie that I knew her and asked for her number and she told me she doesn't have it and then I told her I'm not stupid I know you have it. At least have the balls to tell me you don't have it but don't lie to me. I told her anyways when you see her tell her she's not a real woman since she won't apologize for what she did. Then her friend called me from a restricted number first time I didn't pick up and then 5 minutes later she called and I picked up and I was really nervous to speak and then she was like if you don't stop and then she sensed that I was nervous she screamed listen at me and I couldn't talk back and then she was being obnoxious to me and it sounded like she was laughing with her friends and then she said if you don't stop I'll send someone after you. So I then apologized on text but she didn't answer back. I then sent her friend text messages in August getting really angry daring her friend to send someone after me and I threatened revenge. She responded stay away from her she's done nothing to you.  I wish I can see her now to apologize. How can I apologize when I see her?

If you don't directly see a person at a venue, but you know they are there (because they almost always sit in the same place), and you don't say hi?

There is this guy who just became a marine in san diego and he hates me because i didn t have feelings for him and didn t want to be his girlfriend. Well he s giving my phone out on omega saying I m a horny 18y/o girl that wants nudes, and a bunch of guys text me and its starting to get annoying. I m scared because he has also sent me rage texts and I feel like if I say something, he won t get in trouble because he s in the marines. I m scared please help. What do I do, I don t have the rage texts anymore.

I thought she was really cool since I first met her and I try to walk with her to different classes and what not. She does it, but doesn't seem like she necessarily wants to walk and talk with me specifically. She recently started talking to someone else and seems to actually like walking with them. Am I wasting my time because I'm slowly losing interest as she isn't showing interest back

Me and my husband have been married for almost 8 years. I work on an automotive assembly line and got my neck injured.. I had to be out for surgery and we ended up couldn't continue to pay $1000 for rent every month without me out of work.. So we lost our house and moved in with my mother. My husband has a full time job, he works 7 days on 7 days off.. He works 10 hours a day.. So in a nutshell he's not working 2 weeks out of the month. My mom keeps telling me that my husband will never support me and that he needs to try to get a part time job to work around his schedule so he can bring home a little extra money to put back in savings.. The thing is he's been applying for jobs and he hasn't got a call yet.. She's really beginning to get in the middle of our marriage and I don't want us to get a divorced but we can't move out until the doctor releases me to go back to work.. She's telling me these things and not confronting him about it and it's causing him to get mad and causing problems between me and him and him and my mom.. Any suggestions??

I wanna buy this for my husband as it has the seatbelt cutter and glass break, thus he can carry it in his car everywhere he goes. http://www.amazon.com/Coleman-CM1010-Assisted-Opening-Folding/dp/B00XJDYVSW However, we haven't tried the glass breaker and seatbelt cutter, but it looks like it would do the job. Right?

So I'm 16 years old and a girl. Well my family and I are kinda struggling in the financial department. By family I mean ( my mom, brother and, grandmother- although we're not speaking anymore because we had a falling out. We've always struggled but right now we lost our house and car ( recently got a new one) were now living with my mothers boyfriend and his daughter but he is very abusive, he's terrible to all of us and a drunk his daughters only here on weekends. I'm also getting my GED that's pretty much my only way out of the house. I'm miserable we're so unhappy but it's so hard on me and no one seems to care. Idk if I should plan a move out or what to do we've been here for months nothing's changing and I'm at my breaking point. I also can't go with my father because he's out of the picture. I do have a boyfriend type guy I talk to but he lives about 25 hours away we've been talking for over a year now he's a little older than me but we get along so well. He'd let me stay with him but my mom would never allow that. Please help me I'm losing myself. Idk what to do about all of this.

This person is someone very close to me, they are actually the father of my child..they've been doing drugs since about the 8th grade with his parents supplying them for him and his friends. But he stopped when I met him then got dragged back in because of his friends and family. It seems everytime he is doing good and staying away from his friends and family then he stays away frow drugs but then he gets together with them and he's right back into them. We have been off and on for about four years now and I'm so tired of all of the lying and sneaking around. Is there anyone with any advice I could give him on why he needs to leave those people to get better or any advice for me in general on how to better the situation..our daughter is almost 3 and I just can't have her in the middle of this mess anymore! ...it's not fair.

Three days ago, my boss yelled at me and embarrassed me in first of the other workers, because I supposedly didn't finish my task on time. I respondedly calmly that I did and she just yelled at me. I told her she doesn't need to yell. She suspended me for the day and I lift. Later, she called me and said she found out I did finish it,,but she didn't receive it because her computer was running slow. I went back to work and kept quiet the whole day. She asked if I was okay and with a serious face, I said I was okay. I went to work and she asked if we could have coffee and talk about what happened and I made up the excuse that I had a date later. Two days ago, she asked if we could get coffee and talk and I told her I already drank a lot of caffeine, which I didn't. She asked if I wanted lunch instead and I said I was on a diet. She really upset me which is why I don't want to talk to her a lot.

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A....s.....s lol since it's censored. Also sorry for being explicit but I'm just trying to ask a question. So I lost my virginity to my bf and I guess I'm getting really kinky since I want to do everything with him so I alway sgive him blow jobs and I suck his balls and stuff so like I was wondering if guys like rim jobs and stuff or if thats just in porn? also I know a booty doesnt taste like peach cobbler but will I like puke if I put my mouth down there?

I've been friends with my ex for over 8 years but we only were a couple for a year. So he recently just got married, now he starts texting me saying he's still in love with me, misses me and wants to see me. I told him no because he is a married man now. I know he wants to have intercourse with me as well. I don't know if I should tell his wife about this? It's only been 2 months of their marriage and he wants to cheat.

I just think she's pretty and sweet and I admire her but i what else can i post to make it seem like the page is not just for her? I want to make the page also be about different heiress' from around the world. Like a pic of them or a pic ofthe land theit inheriting

Im gonna try to keep it short.. me and my dad fight a lot. he treated me like a 2year old even though im 18. I decided to try things on my own, i move out with my boyfriend to prove my dad i wasnt a kid. i was only there for 3 days. on the third day i went to eat with my bf's family and i locked my dog (i brought my dog, they all said it was ok) in the bathroom. (there are 2 bathrooms in the house). i left food, water, towelsfor her to lay on. my bf's mom took her out and left her outside at night in a fenced yard (i never leave her alone, i walk her) and my dog got out. she got hit by a car and nearly died (fractured skull, had an eye removed, deaf in one ear,brain swelling... it hit in her face). after the accident my dog couldnt walk for about a week..i am very thankful to god for my dog's life. she was in a coma state for 3 days, her eye about as big as a golf ball (shes a small dog). the whole time my dog was there his mother never tried to contact me, never asked about bills (im up to $5000 in bills)and later when my dad decided to sue (i didnt want to,he was only suing for half of the medical bills) she blackmailed me. she said if she got sued she would tell my father that i had been meeting my bf in secret.so i told him before she could. (now i cant see my bf anymore) its been almost 3 months since the accident and she hasnt done ****.i hate her so much.. but am i wrong to hate her? should i still be mad? its my fault too (for leaving my dog with them/leaving home).

This is a guy I dumped before and he messaged me on a dating site recently. I decided to give it a try since I realized long ago I prob shouldnt have ended things with him the way I did. We had sex since then. He doesnt call much. He was confronted and I told him to delete my number then he said "I like you, I just can't give the attention level you desire. " I emailed him saying how I feel hes not interested and why I had stopped talking to him before. I told him he could tell me if hes not interested. Why wont he? Since then he texted back saying hes been busy. What should I think/do?

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My EX and I haven't spoken in about 6 months. We dated for three years, but we just always fought when we were together which led to us breaking up. Also I moved about 4 hours away from home. He seems to be craving for attention from any girl he can get. ( from me looking at his twitter) He goes out and gets drunk off liquor, and never drank when we were together. He isn't trying to make me jealous, we haven't spoken in months. Im just curious as why would he change into someone he wasn't? Also, He tried following me on Instagram. I denied it. He kept sending request after request. After the 7th time, I just left it there. Why would he continue to try to follow me?

Most of all my friends are engaged or parents. I know 23 is young but I have yet to find someone who loves me for me. I want marriage and kids someday

I m sorry it s kinda long. So I recently began talking to a guy and I guess I caught feelings but he has a gf and she DM messaged me on insta to lay off her man and stop messaging him and stuff. But she also got her friends to sen me messages and it s annoying and a bit scary because they are the "populars" and it s not like I was flirting with him since I just talked to him as a friend and he probably grew tired of me so he told her I was harassing him. I stopped talking to him but I don t know what else to do to let this drama die down. I ve been thinking of changing school but I don t want to make harsh decisions yet. I m in 11th grade and need help?

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I'm 13 and I don't want to go to my Dad's house anymore. Not because there is nothing to do it's because he constantly lies to me and sometimes makes me feel left out. For example, my dad asked about my mom and how she was doing. I told him my mom got a new job because she asked. He takes my mom to court because she never told the people she got a new job. She was actually going to tell the people she got a new job.On top of that he never pays child support he owes my mom over 9,000 dollars in child support my mom could take him to court and he could go to jail. Also, his wife is very mean to me and my brother constantly yelling at us for minor things. She calls me stupid and makes me feel like I don't belong in her household. Finally, I have a stepbrother and he feels as if he can control my brother. My brother is autistic and my stepbrother who is 11 years old feels he can tell my brother what he can and can't do. He will yell and make my brother feel stupid and vulnerable. I don't want to go to my Dad's house during the summer or weekends any way I can stay with my mom?

Ok lately my step daughter who is 16 has been walking around the house in these black tights and a tight shirt (both are really tight on her) I cant help myself sometimes my eyes just follow her every move.. is this bad?