It has to do with my mother and her father having a fight but I like her father, my grandfather. I cannot see him on holidays because my mother won't go with me. When I asked if my aunt will take me my mother said I cannot go (she said if it is okay with your mother). I am 14 so too young to do what I want and my mother's brother who hosts the stuff is no longer very close to us. So I am missing out on seeing my grandfather and uncle-aunt and cousins though I still see one aunt and her daughter as well as my grandmother and her husband (grandparents divorced long ago). So long story short Christmas was miserable this year as it was like half my mother's family had died and Easter will be miserable since they get together at my uncle's and we won't be able to go. So what do I do? How can I get over this? They have fought since this time two years ago and two Christmas' back was hard also and last Easter. Thanksgiving is easier since we are with my Dad's side of the family out of town.

I have 3 brothers and I m the first to go away to college and there is a big age difference between us all. The boys are SO ungodly annoying and loud and terribly behaved. And my parents are overprotective, get mad when I spend too much time in my room or on my phone, and ask me a million questions whenever I get home from hanging out with someone or going somewhere. They have to know every little detail about everything and it s really making me want to get out of here but they get mad whenever I talk about leaving because they want me to commute. I don t want to spend all the extra money for living expenses but I m really not enjoying life right now

All he does is criticize me and my son all the time. Every time in comes in the room, my stomach hurts because I am scared of what he will say. He breaks stuff all the time (holes in the wall, broke baby gate, coffee cups) because he is mad. I want to leave and take my son. I can't live like this, I am constantly scared. He has never hit me but I feel abused anyways. I don't know how. I don't have a job, I can't get one while I am with him. I don't have any family because he moved us out to a different state. What do I do? I am scared of asking him to separate because he might kill himself or hurt us. I just want to be happy and I don't want to live in constant fear. What can a mom do? I really don't know anything. I am living in Taylor County in Texas. Please help with any insight. My biggest fear is I leave and he hurts me or my son -- or he gets full custody and I can't see my son anymore. :(

For some reason im always on edge and i act like everything is an attack on me and i always respond to people angrily. I'm 15 and you always hear people tell parents that when teens answer you rudely its just "teenager things" But i feel really bad about talking rudely to my parents cuz it always leads to a fight. I cant control it and its so bad that my parents expect me to yell now. The other day i yelled at my sister and when she told my parents they pretty much just said "i dont know why ur telling me we know he yells". I feel miserable cuz of how irritable i am and now i realized i pretty much ruined my relationship with my famiy and i want to change but how????

So can I just live with my aunt if she and my parents agree to it? Or do we need a good reason for that to happen in court? It's just that my dad verbally abuses me and always threatens to kill me and will throw things at me when he's mad. Is that a good reason?

So I want to move out of home but I'm 15 so they'll be all kinds of problems with renting etc. So I want to go to boarding school. Not right now. In September when the new school year starts. 3 of my friends are going in September. 2 are going to the school I want to go to. This mite seem weird but in my subculture(?) , (I don't know), this is normal. So my dad is being a idiot, saying no cuz he knows what happens at those schools cuz he went to one. What happens??? Oh no!!! Learning!!! He also insulted me by saying I'm not mature enough to live that far from home. It's in the same city I live in! Google maps says it's 9 miles from my house. I thought my parents would be relieved to get me out if their house. They are idiots. I said I will bully my sisters if he don't let me go and he threaten to strangle me if I don't shut up and stop yelling at him. I wasn't even yelling. Can I get him arrested he wouldn't even look at the leaflet. He knocked it out of my hand and said he knows what it is And now he just yelled at me for asking up the babies on porpoise. It wasn't! I felll cuz I was hoverboarding and hit a table leg

It has to do with my mother and her father having a fight but I like her father, my grandfather. I cannot see him on holidays because my mother won't go with me. When I asked if my aunt will take me my mother said I cannot go (she said if it is okay with your mother). I am 14 so too young to do what I want and my mother's brother who hosts the stuff is no longer very close to us. So I am missing out on seeing my grandfather and uncle-aunt and cousins though I still see one aunt and her daughter as well as my grandmother and her husband (grandparents divorced long ago). So long story short Christmas was miserable this year as it was like half my mother's family had died and Easter will be miserable since they get together at my uncle's and we won't be able to go. So what do I do? How can I get over this? They have fought since this time two years ago and two Christmas' back was hard also and last Easter. Thanksgiving is easier since we are with my Dad's side of the family out of town.

We've been talking briefly. When I say she's a terrible person, I mean it, my step mother, father, friend, friend's mom, psychiatrist, even two police officers once, back me up. She's awful. She disowned me because her boyfriend didn't like me and abused me and she saw me as the problem. I live with my friend now. I don't know if it's worth keeping a relationship with her because I don't want her to continue believing that nothing she did was wrong and reward her with my attention. But idk how long I can be angry at her because now, I don't care, I'm doing stuff with my life and going to school and saving up. I don't care to lash out at her anymore but I also can't let her think she can kick me out and still expect a decent relationship with me. What should I do?

Hi! So yeah the question sounds like it should be the opposite way but hear me out! Ok so it started back in 2013 when I asked one of my distanced family member to let me borrow $3,000 and he said that I was going to pay interest right . I gave him 120g of gold and other jewelry that included diamonds as a pawn. Ok so there was a time I paid off the interest which was about or around 2,000. I then got myself into this situation where I couldn't pay him for like 5 months and I kept telling him that I couldn't pay and so he started me charging me a "late payment fee" and then a few months turned into a year but I seriously had no money to pay. He then starting sending me emails saying when I'm going to pay him back. And of course I told him a soon as I can come up with the money. But then he started offending me saying he should have never let me borrow the money and then started insulting me saying that I only waste money blah blah when he doesn't even know the situation I'm in. So as of right now he want me to pay him $5,500 asap. But i just do t have the money so I told him he can take the gold I gave him and sell it. But he says that he doesn't care for the gold and wants the money. So I told him then that if I can go sell the gold so I can repay him in cash and he still says no. So as of right now he want me to pay and I have the money but I just want to pay him in a revengeful way because he made my life a living hell and he's such an ahole....

Why is my mom such a jerk to me? She always expects me to be all nice or something but that s the exact opposite of what I am! She gets all mad at me and then gets me in trouble just for being upset. No matter now hard I try to control my anger she gets me in trouble, when she s the one who made me mad in the first place! Then she says rude things like that I m always mean or that I have no feelings. Nothing I try has helped. I don t even do anything wrong. I hate my life because of the way she treats me. If I said that, she d start ranting about how "spoiled" I am. I don t even want material stuff, though. All I want is to have understanding people in my life! Is that too much to ask?! Everyone I talk to just uses that stupid reverse talk like "yes you do," if I say I don t so-and-so or "no you don t" if I say I feel a certain way. This whole situation is my life and it s driving me insane! I don t even want to talk to her. I m afraid that she ll just continue being a big jerk

I'm in high school. My mom constantly checks my grades online, and warns me every time I'm "not doing too well." By this she means a high B or borderline between an A and a B, so anything below a 91. Right now I'm "not doing too well" in three classes. Two are honors and one is AP, and I still have at least an 88 in everything. She acts really concerned that I "never learned to study" and is always on my case about schoolwork. I don't want to know how to do better, since I think I'm doing fine. But I'd like to know if anyone can tell me how to get her to agree.

My sisters husband Joe works at the same place I do. He was getting behind on a project he was working on and he ask me to help him. I said sure and I worked with him during my lunch and sometimes after work. He was afraid he would loose his job if he did not get his project done on time. It was a struggle but we got the project completed on time. I got an email from my sister that said "I hope you remember all the help Joe gave you at work and all the time he spent with you so you could keep your job". My first reaction was that I should take that email to Joe and tell him to tell my sister the truth about who helped who. However on more thought I didn't do that. I thought why start a family fight when it can be avoided. If Joe wants to keep the truth from his wife, I will not interfere. However when Joe needs help again (which he will) I am going to be not available. Please tell me if you think I made the right decision. How should I handled this situation? THANKS

My parents are still married (far from perfect relationship), but my dad and I really don t get along. He cheated on my mom when I was in high school, which I guess I never really got over. He is diagnosed as being depressed, but my mom & I also think he s bipolar as we have seen numerous mood swings & know what will set him off sometimes. My dad is anti-social. I moved out when I started college and in the almost seven years that I ve been gone he has only called me once. Unless you ask him a question that he feels needs an answer, he won t answer or attempt to continue a conversation ever. My dad does give me money towards finishing my education and I am still on his insurance, so he supports me that way. I could go on so much more but I won t, as this was for background. The question I m asking is how do I get over this? It has greatly affected me as I haven t been in a relationship for years, and when I meet a nice guy I will push him away, because I would rather be alone than end up with someone like my dad. I will NOT confront him, because I know this will do no good whatsoever. My mom is always nagging me to find a guy to settle down with, and I think she understands why I don t, but it makes me feel unaccomplished because I can t do this one thing that everyone else in the world does, and what she really wants me to do. I ve considered going to some type of therapy, but being on my parents insurance still, I don t feel comfortable with them knowing that. My dad isn't physically violent ever, thankfully. I just know that the way he acts and has treated my mom emotionally makes me 1. not want to be around him and 2. not be with any guy because I fear they will turn out to be like him.

I got a part time job as an intern at a computer software company. I am very lucky that I am getting paid as most of my friends that got intern jobs are not getting paid. My boss is a 27 year old single guy that is the hottest and sexiest guy I have ever seen. His is also the greatest boss ever. He spends a lot of time training me. I brought a picture to work and put it on my desk. My boss ask me who it was. I told him it was my mother. He said "I see where you get your good looks". "Your mother is gorgeous". " She does not look old enough to have a daughter your age". Should I tell my mother what my boss said. Moms, would you be interested in what a great looking guy that was 10 years younger said about you? Also, was my boss hitting on me (oh how I wish)?

My parents are well overprotective especially my dad, and there are some rumors in my town thatt girls have randomly been disappearing places where it's surprisingly close to my house.Either way I get out of highschool everyday after 7pm and I have to use uniform. Its funny because I don't want to sound full of myself but I get a lot of stupid comments from guys everyday when i walk home with my friends. I always tell my mom when something was out of the ordinary and a couple of things have happened to me this month where I constantly get stalked by men and with everything going on I thought it'd be a perfect reason to buy something for self defense. I told my mom but she started laughing and saying how stupid it was It honestly made me feel super bad because sometimes they don't let me go out to places where i really wanna go, and you guys should know how that feels because thy want me to be "safe" but it really Pisses me off how stupid she thinks it is does she think I'm playing with everything I tell her happens to me? I guess I'm kind of ranting

Technically, we're not related by blood. I'll only tell what's important. Try to follow. Both my grandparents live in their second marriage. They both got divorced before. My father is the son of my Grandmother and her ex-husband. Now. The cousin I am talking about is, the Grandson of my fathers stepdad's half-brother.. On paper, it sounds very clear that we're not related by blood in any way. But, I'm still not sure if people would approve of it. So would you?

So my step mom and dad are divorcing. and I want to stay with my step mom. because I have issues with my dad. Is there anyway without her adopting me that I could stay with her ?

My daughters boyfriend was just told, by his mom, he can no longer date my daughter during this huge unnecessary blow up at the his mothers church. The next night she's making him give her a back and foot massage. He's sixteen. He's also currently upset with his mom for obvious reasons. But he says, " he has to." I can say that my son, who's 18, is close to me. Our personalities are very similar and we can pretty much discuss any topic, however, he has never given me a massage, and if I told him he had to while being punished, especially kept from his gf, he would laugh in my face. Also, her bf and his mother are not emotionally close. She basically she treats him as a nuisance. So I cant even say they have a close relationship. She basically spends any of her time with her daughters. I don't even see this necessarily as being something sexually perverted, but more of some sick Cinderella situation. But as far as the sexual part goes, I do believe by the age of 16, and observing the natural teenager behavior between him and my daughter, I do think he's not at an age where he should be giving her massages. It just worries me because.. not even 24 hours ago, there was a huge episode, and she took his phone and is refusing to let him see or talk to my daughter. My son would be pissed. So how is it that he is giving her a massage? That worries me. I sense a scary form of manipulation. Thoughts, please !

Okay, to start off my parents are divorced and remarried to other people. I have also been grounded for literally MONTHS. Since september or october of 2015. Its all because I havent had all A's and B's, and also have been lying about really dumb stuff. I'm 15 years old and wanting to change. As a result of the grades and lying,I have gotten my phone taken away. I snuck it back and got caught both times. And as a result of THAT, I no longer will have my phone for this semester. She (my mom) suspended it because I live with her. I'm also homeschooled. Okay, the point is, I really want my phone back. I dont even care if its turned on. I can use it as an iPod. but I'm still currently grounded. I want to write a long apology to both of them but have no idea how to help. Can you guys help me please? Im really desperate.

I've asked this question before, but haven't really went into detail so here is another go. I've been going to dance classes since I was 3. My mom says that I wanted to go but as I child I'm sure I wanted to try everything I seen. I am now 15 and have been going since. I have lost all interest in it for the past 6 months. Even after explaining that everyday for the past 6 months to my parents they still FORCE me to go. I have been refusing to go and it always ends in heavy arguing and sometimes hitting and things being thrown. Everyday that I refuse I am threatened with "if you ever want to see your phone again get up get dressed". So of course I give in because I would like to keep my phone and other belongings. I have a vitiman D deficiency so they believe that's the cause for complete lack of interest. I am taking prescribed medication "megadoses of vitiman D" and am on a reckoned we diet, but my parents insist that in order to get better I "need" to continue going to dance. They say I am unhappy because I sick, but it is really because I made being forced to do something I have no desire to do. Today I tried to make a stand and refused to go. My phone was took and my mom shattered the screen and blamed me for making her cut her hand on the broken screen. After hours of fighting and being told the same things over and over. My dad said if I don't get up and get dressed they are sending me to a mental hospital so I can "get better". Im not sure what to do? Recommended* I've tried talking to my mom about it and it only ends up with her yelling trying to talk over me. I've talked to my dad about it and he has agreed, but says I can't tell my mom what he's said. When they are both here my dad takes my moms side without thinking about the "points" she is trying to make.

I'm 14 and a boy and well yes I am bad in 8th grade I smoked got caught but I stop after that in 7th grade brought a knife to school got caught kicked out for a while so yes I did a lot of bad stuff let me get back to my mom so I'm homeschooled now got kept back first year so I know my mom is stress so this is all this year ok one day my brother had a video of him and his gf on the family with them you know having sex so I didn't know it was on there it was a family tablet so my mom saw it one day ask me did you know this was here I said no and I said let me see to act like I didn't know and she backed up and said no you nasty dog I bet you was watching it so I'm getting a lil mad here but I'm quiet she keeps talking crap saying you gay you like your brother penis I'm not by the way and so I get mad and I don't remember what I said smart comment though so she grabs my math book hard back and front anddd she throws it at my face had a big welp on it but I took it ok this is still the same day later on I honestly don't remember what I did but she got mad grab the broom starts banging it in the chess while my sisters are watching then she told me to go up stairs in her room soi go and she follow me then she closed her door nd tells me to take off my clothes she hits me on my legs my back with a belt then this never happened to me but the belt hit me in the face she keeps wooping me not knowing she hit me in the face so i have a welp under my eye bye the book and a mark by the beltI know this sounds crazy but just let finish another day this year by the way I watched porn I know it's bad so she was mad she asked me she say where is your ipod and I hid it under my bed cause it had porn on it so she never finds it she mad as crap so she brings me in her room I took allllllll my clothes off my first part was put your hands on the bed so she can use a belt hit my legs and my butt but after that she say I'm going to beat you like a slave and she starts beating me in the back with a belt always a belt so she is hitting me in the back with a belt saying I hate you over and over and over yes I am crying I mean who would not she is using all her strength with the belt I have welps every time I get whooped she curses me out once and a while calling me a punk saying the f word to me telling me so stfu almost done guys keep reading please so another day this year i told my grandma what my mom did and she said next time your mom does this tell her i said grandma said your in trouble so i forgot to do my homework and i was reminded over and over i took blame for it but the wooping i got wasn't called for first she wooped me on my arms not hands then when i was walking out i said I'm telling grandma and she said come her and well she punch me in the face and said tell her that my mom have no respect for my grandma she told her to got to hell one time and tried to put my granddad on fire i mean true story grandma told me back to the point she punch me in the face and said tell that sooooooooooo TODAY i ate upstairs in my room my mom came home off work on break for lunch she came and saw food in my room she start slapping me in my head

When she found out I was pregnant last year, she scheduled her wedding on my due date. She later tried to convince my husband to go to the wedding and not his child's birth. She also lied to our in-laws saying that he didn't want tickets to football game when he did. She gave the tickets to her bestfriend. We have tried inviting her over to be inclusive and I though it went well. I found it odd she came over to see the baby and had no interaction with her. She talked happily about buying a house, new furniture and a new car. When I asked her about this at our In-Laws over the weekend, she said she never said any of that. How do I handle this? I will not tolerate being called a liar once more- esp in front of my in laws. She has crossed the line. After I announced I was pregnant, she said she thought she was pregnant. She said she could feel the pregnancy in my body. What the heck????

I'm 17. My dad moved us to Texas last year. So he is physically and verbally abusive, and last night we had the biggest fight and he told me he wants me to move back with my aunt. My uncle and aunt are both okay with it bc they know how my dad is. The thing is, will my school let me move and will my old school in OK take me back since its in the middle of second semester? Do we have to go to court or what?

Ok so my sisters husbands brothers wifes kid is annoying everyone in my family. Especially my brother which he makes feel like **** everyday at school. He also mocked one of my close friends at a park one day, but when my mom told his mom she made a big problem about it, and called my mom a liar. And he said that what he did was nothing like I said. And instead blamed it all on my brother. Anyways he continues to bother my brother, and I can't put up with this piece of garbage anymore. Please help?

My dad was laid off his job as a welder last week, and he began making his resume. Now my mom just got fired because someone new and better came in to take her spot as an insurance person. Neither of them have jobs anymore. What do I do? We don't have any money, and we're running low on everything (food, clothes, toiletries).

I'm 17 and will be turning 18 in seven months. My dad moved us to Texas last year. So he is physically and verbally abusive and we had the biggest fight last night, and he told me he wants me to move back to OK with my aunt. Is that be possible? What do I have to do?

She used to be warm and friendly but she scheduled her wedding on my due date. She has lied to our in-laws saying my husband didn't want tickets to a game when he did. She comes over and shares how she's buying a house, brand new furniture and a new car. When I asked her about this at our in-laws, she said she never said that. I don't know what to do. When I was pregnant she told me she thought she was pregnant at the time and could feel the pregnancy in her body. What the heck???!!

My (now) sister in law used to be friendly. I found her to be a bit odd at the time because her now husband had cheated on her numerous times & she still stayed. She was also very desperate to have kids. She would clip out pictures of haircuts for her future children and buy them clothes. 2 years ago I announced I was pregnant. She was engaged to be married. She seemed happy and said she didn't want children. Ever since then things have changed drastically. She scheduled her wedding on my due date. She tried to convince my husband that he should be there for the wedding and miss the birth. She has spread lies in the family saying my husband wanted to commit to staying home and gave away his football tickets to her friend. We have invited her over to be nice and to spend time with the baby. She keeps her distance from the baby and doesn't interact. She is very friendly which catches us a bit off guard because at our in-laws, she is a prude. She shared that she is buying a house, new furniture and a new car. She is also trying to become pregnant. She is a body-builder and I think they might be having some issues? Anyhow, I ask her about her plans at our in-laws last weekend and she DENIED it. I don't know how to interact with her. She is very odd and is now calling us liars.I suspect she is jealous and is trying to create trouble. She is very narcissistic and deceitful. What do I do? She also said when I announced my pregnancy that she thought she was pregnant. She later said she could feel the pregnancy in my body!!!!!!!!! What the heck

Strange things have been happening these last few days. My mom died about four months ago. My family and I went to a water park last weekend. I was in line for one of the water slides when, I swear, I heard "hey (my name)" nobody else heard it. The next morning my dad said that he swore he thought he heard, "hey (his name)" he told me that he thought my mom was trying to communicate with us. We got home yesterday evening. My mom always had a thing for pennies, so I told her that if she was here, then to give me a penny sometime the next day. I reminded her again the next morning. I went up to my room to get my backpack for school, and there was a penny on my bedroom floor! Not only that, but a necklace that sits on a shelf was moved the edge of my bed. Now I've never believed in ghosts but I think it's her. After she died four months ago, I would self harm (I don't anymore) but I think I went through like 4 razors in that time because I kept losing them. Maybe she was moving them to get me to stop. What do you think?

I really dunno why is she doing this. Im 15 and she is 17 and she is like really sexy but dont think i want to like have something with her i know its wrong. But she like does this tease i dont know why. For example im sitting on the couch and watching a movie, she comes and sits on my lap and like rubbs her butt until i get an erection, and then she got up and laughed and said "in your dream looser". or she wears like a little miniskirt with no underwear and is "Accidentaly" drops something so i look that way to see what happened and i just see her.... well you know, and she just wiggles a bit and then sayys like you wish weirdo and leaves... what can i do to stop her??

Hi Yahoo, I am a male who is 21 years old. My mother who is 47 has been drinking hard alcohol for about 11 years now. She works hard and in the morning is a nice, calm, functioning person. BUT in the night when she has had a few drinks she becomes a belligerent, cursing, angry person. It's like the complete opposite of how she is in the morning. Everynight my mom and my dad argue and they curse at each other. I usually just stay in my room and listen to music. My mom complains that she is the only one who works and she has to take care of us. She says the only time she will be happy is when she is dead. I want to make my parents happy. I get angry at the situation I am in. I tried to get my mom to go to a psychologist, psychiatrist but she just wouldn't admit she has a problem. I guess I have just come to terms that she is going to be like this until her life is over which makes me sad. How can I cope with this. I am trying to get my life together I recently got a job and I want to get back into school and get things going. Thanks for reading my novel.

I'm a recent high school graduate, so I'm a little "new" to the adult life. My family basically dumped me away as soon as I graduated, and they are looking at me to do everything on my own as of now without any assistance from them. I've finally figured out that I want to start my life with college out of state, but I'm not even sure where to begin. I will probably be dependent on student loans, I don't drive, and I don't have a job. As of now, I seem like a worthless loser, but I'm pretty hopeful that this will all play through. My question is what do I do now? Should I start a bank account or learn to drive or maybe just go straight for it and learn this stuff as I go? I'm just extremely new to being on my own, and I just feel so alone and helpless. Can you guys please help me? Did anyone feel like this or go through a similar situation?

I'm going to try and explain this as thoroughly as possible. My blood related uncle met a woman that previously had a child (Joseph) with another man. She had custody so he lived with her at the time. My uncle and her got married and had two children (my blood cousins) together before they got divorced. She got into drugs and Joseph was in foster care most of his childhood and teenage years. I didn't meet him until about two years ago when he moved in with his half siblings and my blood uncle. I've never thought of him as a cousin and he hasn't ever been part of "the family" we've grown really close into best friends and have a really deep friendship. Things didn't work out with my uncle so now he lives in a good home with his male best friend and great parents. I feel like I might be attracted to him in a relationship way but I also feel guilty because I'm not sure if we are related or not. In my heart, I don't feel like we are. His mom and my uncle are divorced and I am not related to his biological mom or dad in anyway. Thank you for reading!

There was this one time years ago, I was probably either 10/11 years old and my older sister Jasmine and I were arguing about something with the computer in our computer room. We were at each other's throats and arguing. Then Jasmine went into the guest room and I followed her there. While she was sitting listening to get iPod, I kept talking sh*t to get face. Then when I got everything off my chest, I got up and walked away and then out if nowhere, Jasmine punched me on the back of my head. Then we started scrapping like crazy in the kitchen. I forgot what happened after that, but I do remember she wanted to permanently make us enemies, but I wanted to make up. We eventually did and I started crying. We both got cut on our finger. So was this counted as a sister fight/sister brawl between me and my older sister??

I've been married for 7 years I have a 4 year old son, and I'm 7 months pregnant with my second son. I'm beyond depressed, and sad with this situation that I been dealing with for the past years. I have very difficult in laws (specially my mother in law) and I don't know what to do anymore. We went out for dinner last night, and they had a few too many drinks me & husband drove them back home, and during the drive back they got into a physical fight over dumb rumor about FIL cheating on my MIL. Luckily I was in the passenger side my husband was driving, and I just stayed quiet I didn't say anything my husband stopped the car to calm them down. Anyways I'm tired of their drinking problem because every time they drink they start fights, and all they do is talk bad about people and criticize you for anything.I've put up with their behavior for so many years and I feel that I can't deal with them anymore. Another thing that bothers me so much is that my MIL has so much favoritism for his 2 other grand daughters and always leaves my son out. If my son doesn't want to share his toys she literally yells at him but, when her other 2 grandaughters hit my son or take toys away from him it's funny to her. But of course my son is not allow to hit them back because she rapidly becomes mad and bad mouth my son. Theirs days that she'll talk to me but, theirs says that she hates me and completely ignores me when I'm there. I'm so hurt by all this and I don't know what to do I have talked to my husband about all this issues, and all he does is avoid the conversation, and does nothing to fix the problem. I've thought so many times of just leaving because his not doing anything to fix this. The worst part is that he's very close with his brothers, and they still live with his parents so he has the habit of visiting them every weekend, and of course his parents are there, and we always find our selves involve with them even if we don't want to. I feel that I supported my husband for so many years, and that I have put up with so much crap from his parents but, I just can't anymore. The stress is killing me, and the fact that I feel so unappreciated by my husband makes it worst.

So me and my friends are planing on smoking some high quality weed because mom is not at home (yes i am under 18) she is not at home for 3 days and i am alone and ive been wanting to try it for super long time and the moment finaly came to me. But i am really scared that my mom will get suspicios she has a drug test and i dont know if she will suspect something or not but i am really scared because it detects the weed for 10 days when smoked and i dont know what to do really someone help me i am really afraid of that to happend also she knows that one day i have to try it but i dont know how she will react if she knows i smoked

when I was a kid around the age of maybe 6 till 9. sometimes when mom used to get upset with me, she used to pretend that she's leaving us, she would pack somethings up put on her clothes with me crying and pleading for her not leave. sometimes when I remember it now, that i'm 23, it still makes me sad. is it normal for me to feel this way, or am I exaggerating?

I've been talking to my dad about moving out for a month and 2 days ago he finally said yes. I was excited but yesterday I found the house I'm moving to and it really hit me. I'm been crying and shaking off and on for the last hour or so cuz I'm worried about my dad. My aunt and uncle live with us so its not like he'll be all alone but its like, he might as well be, you know? My sister moved out 2 years ago and has a family now, my little brother lives with my mom, and my older brother's leaving in the fall. My dad has friends but not ones he hangs out with. I'm moving 3 hours away so after my brother leaves my sister's gonna be the only child close to him. I've noticed him drinking more lately. I'm worried he's gonna get depressed after I leave cuz his kids are the closest people to him and we're gonna be gone :( Idk what to do

I am currently a junior in college and my mom has always hated me. I'm still living at home for reasons. I lost my job about 3 years ago and found one about a year later and it just didn't work with my school schedule. I'm currently studying to become a physician assistant so school takes a lot of my time. I'm not working right now to focus on school. Everyday I hear you are just lazy that's why you don't want to work, she always tells me that she can't stand me, and she always tells me I'm a failure at school. I cried so much last night because maybe she's right. I plan to move to Georgia after I finish school and she told me I will never make it to Georgia. My dad was always the one that cared about me and he passed away 4 years ago. My sister is a huge supporter but she is definitely the favorite. Why does she hate me so much. What can I do to try and ignore what she says. This morning I woke up in such a great mood after seeing my math grade and she told me that I needed a job and I have always been spoiled my whole life and that's why I won't work. I was sick really bad over Christmas and she told me I was faking for attention. I ended up with severe Bronchitis and a sinus infection. I was down for almost two weeks. She just didn't care. When she's sick the world stops though

max took his own life 7 years ago. I'm finally coping with it, I Saw one of the girls at a barnes and nobles yesterday, who humiliated him in public after he tried to ask her out seven years prior to Max taking his own life. We talked about the good old days (air quotations) of high school. She was friendly and all, but I couldn't shake The painfully thought of her cruelty in the back of my mind towards my belated younger brother. It still stings like an open wound. My brother Max was a good kid not like me. I won't go into detail about myself. But I can vouch for him that he was a better man than most of the people we knew in high school myself included. Should I confronted this person (not in a threatening way or anything like that) about this particular incident from a scarred past. The only thing my brother wanted in life was to experience love first hand from kissing to the concept of intimacy in love. Good ol' max was a dreamer that's for sure. I guess he just didn't know how to go about obtaining whatever skill set needed on how to make that happen. Maybe I should've taught him. truth be told I was to busy doing my best to watching over him and I wasn't born casanova either. I'm fighter like our father. I'm sorry I just need to get this out I'm tearing up in the eyes like crazy while I'm writing this, so bare with me. Thank you so much for your time

My biological mum had me when she was young (18) and she struggled to cope with the pressures of raising a baby. Her sister (Aunt) helped her but in the end she ended up raising me. It was only when I was 10-11 when my mum tried desperately to start being a real mum. Things began to pick up and she has spent the last 8 years trying to make it up to me. I've lived with my Aunt and her daughter for most of my life and it kind of feels like I have two homes. When I'm not with my actual mum she often comes and stays with us. I sometimes feel like I'm a burden.

I bought an ecig off a friend a week ago and I put it in a drawer under a lot of my stuff... I usually come home from school look for the case in the drawer and smoke a bit in the toilet. Today, I came home from school and my case was opened with all the things inside it taken out, because my mom and dad are divorced my dad is at work now and no one is home except me and my brother (Who already knows about this and was at school with me). What should I do? It was 0mg nic

Before everyone jumps up and says to suck it up let me explain. I'm 16 and my dad's girlfriend seems to think it's her right to tell me I need a job. I'm in all honors classes and getting all good grades. I'm usually busy with homework and cleaning. Meanwhile, my dad's girlfriend, is 50 years old and works at a family registrant as a waitress. She works 6 hour shifts and comes home and doesn't do anything. She often compares herself to me, often telling me how at my age she was working and brags more about how much she did. I honestly feel like I'm not ready. I did plan on getting a job in the summer and focus on school for now especially with testing coming up. However, she's becoming more persistent about me getting a job, now confronting me and pretty much cornering me into a position where I have no option but to accept. Keep in mind that during all this, my father works in the same restaurant as her and works the same hours, comes home and drinks. He has not said a single thing to me about getting a job. Is this correct?

I'm feeling sick! I'm 21 yrs old and I've been living this experience since I was 12 yrs old. My sister hates me! :( she says mean words to me like I that you ! Donkey! I wish you suffer from cancer! I hate you! I'm mentally and physically tired. I can't believe that my sister says these things to me! Every time I go out with a boy she tries to make him break up with me ! I'm dating a boy right now and today she told me you will break up soon Dw and she's happy that his sister is death. Wtf? I'm going to talk to a psychiatrist cause I can't handle her anymore :( is it normal?? :'(

I am 14 and I have reason to believe that my 17 year old brother and our 13 year old cousin are having sexual interactions. I have seen them kissing and I've seen him move his hand out of her pants really fast when ive walked in. I can hear them kissing 24/7 and sometimes I've heard her moaning. Although I have no proof, and only my word, what else can I do to have my brother arrested or is that enough?

I'm 22 years old, and a European (Albanian) Muslim. Lately my family arranged a marriage proposal for me to a religious man who has a business, works hard, and they also showed me his picture, and had a chance to meet him and talk privately. He said he loves me and wants to marry me, which I find strange because we had just met, he told me I'm his beautiful princess, he'd never let any other man have me, and lots of other kind things, but the thing is that I'm not attracted to him and I'm in love with someone else but I'm not sure if he feels the same way about me. but when this guy got marriage proposals before he had rejected them because he wanted a very beautiful wife. I feel like I'm denying my parents who love me, care for me and have been through every one of my troubles, raised me and everything else.. we aren't a very religious Muslim family, and most Albanians are like that. And my parents would also respect my decision, they are not oppressive or anything, although they liked this guy very much when they met him, so I'm confused about what to do...

She said that if I cleaned my room before dinner I could have a tub of Ben and Jerry ice cream. So I did, and that b*tch said I had to eat my sh*tty vegetables before and eat the soup she worked hard on. Enraged, I threw the whole bowl on the floor and started screaming at her for my Ben & Jerry. Guess what? Now I'm a "bad son" and not aloud to have ANY ice cream for a month!!! I heard my mom give my Ben & Jerry ice cream to my "well behaved" little sister while my mom cleaned up the mess on the floor while sobbing. What a b*tch. Ugh.

The funeral is Tomorow (Wednesday). His father suddenly passed away on Friday, he left the next day to NYC to be with his family. My father told me not to go because I had an interview on Monday and getting back into my career after the baby is very important right now. It's 5am on Tuesday and I feel obligated to go. It's just we only have one income, for the meantime, and $500-600 for a plane ticket is a lot. My fiancé says I can come if I want to. He's very stoic. I also know he is missing his baby but at the same time loves his time alone and he's not coming home until next Sunday. I'm torn between letting him have his time alone to grive his father's passing without a fussy baby and me vs. being there to support him and his family. They have not seen her yet. My mom says I should just send something like a card and flowers. Extra details which may or not be relevant: his family is in turmoil due to all the arrangements and everyone wanting things their way. My DF is staying out of it, especially since he's the baby of the family's and he says they treat him like a child still and he's 26. I'm lost, please help. We plan to visit later this year and he still has vacation time, but I will be starting work and will be unsure if I can go. (No pto after just starting) Thank you.

The funeral is Wednesday in NYC. His father passed away on Friday and it's now Monday. He left for NYC on Saturday. I didn't go with our baby because I had an interview on Monday. Now that Monday is over I feel obligated to go. It's 5am and I can't sleep thinking if I should attend. The only problem is the high plane ticket price. We have an infant and only one income. $500-600 is a big deal to us. His sister works for the airlines and got him a free ticket, but I can't ask her to do the same for me. We didn't get along when we lived together. He says his family has been fighting a lot and things are very stressful over there. It's 1000+ miles away. I'm torn, my fiancé says I don't need to attend. He's stoic and says he's fine just misses us. I do know he loves his time alone with his family. My sister says I should be there. His other sister asked if I was going with the baby. Our baby is not an easy one. I couldn't have sent her with her dad alone. He doesn't take care of the baby full time. When I do give him the baby for a few ours he's completely exhausted afterwards. He's not coming back home until next Sunday.

It was my brother's 15th birthday during the weekend. Before it was his birthday, he was complaining that he was the only kid in his year, and possibly his school, that didn't have an iPhone, or phone in general. He asked our parents a couple of times for an iPhone 6s for his birthday as he has always wanted one. On the day of his birthday, he opened a present from mum and dad thinking it was an iPhone. However, he got a Nokia 3310 instead. The Nokia 3310 is one of them phones released like 15 years ago that only has texts, calls and the Snake game on it. Since opening it, he has been acting like a little child. He asks them repeatedly, "Why didn't you get me an iPhone? Why didn't you get me an iPhone? Why didn't you get me an iPhone?" If he's not asking that, he either: -Refuses to eat until he gets an iPhone -Throws random tantrums at them -Pretends to ignore them until he gets an iPhone. Is my brother acting like a spoiled brat, even though the only technology he has is a 7 or 8 old computer and a 15/16 year old Nokia 3310?

My sister has a horribly annoying personality. She is like a child. She is always smiling and laughs at almost everything and gets scared or startled very easily and she hugs almost everyone. I dont let her hug me cuz its annoying as sheet but then she just starts crying... god thats so fkin annoying. She even has a bf and i asked him why is he even wasting his time with such an annoying prick and he said he thinks its "cute"....... wtf srsly... how can i stop my sister from being so insanely stupid and annoying?? maybe she is retarded?

I have children from a previous relationship and i am expecting a new baby this year. I always take family pictures at Christmas time to send to family. I'm kind of wondering what the eitiquette is on it, because it seems like it would make sense to have a pic of all the kids for my new partner's family because he and I are a family now, but I'm wondering if it's tacky or weird to include photos of my new baby with my previous children to my ex's parents.I dunno, i don't think they'd care but it's just something that pops in your head at midnight when youre thinking about everything lol

My baby boy just turned 3 months and he's the best thing that ever happened to me other than my husband. I am a work at home mom, i'm an account manager and half my time is working at home (2-3 days at home) and my other time is traveling on the road. I am so physically and mentally worn out it's effecting my work and everything else in my life, including my love life. I miss my husband so much!!! I am not going to put him in a daycare because it's too much money, plus I don't trust the teachers when they're watching 5 other babies. I try to work while he sleeps but that's usually no longer than 2-3 hours. I've been running on 3-5 hours of sleep a night...Mothers how to do you manage everything??????!?!?! I could use a pep talk!

I plan to date someone, but I just found out we have the same cousin. He is related to her by her mothers side of the family, but I'm not related to her mothers side of the family. Her father is my uncle though. What does this make us?

My auntie took over my school emails from my dad (I only live with him) and my dad told my school he did not like it yet they still email her. Today she rung up my dad about some maths homework I had and took a break because it got me frustrated. Is this any of her biz? This all started when I did something bad. Can't she just deal with her own children and her own work?

My auntie took control of my dads parenting emails from my school and she rings about my teachers complaining about me. Today, she rung up coz i had some internet homework to complete and it is really none of her business and at the time i was relaxed. What can I do to stop her without being annoying or mean?

My mom and I are in a studio apartment and I need to meet my cousin (mom doesn't like her and won't let me associate with her) and has to see my bed when she gets up to use the bathroom (which is ALOT in one night) please tell me how I can get out soon without getting caught