Family: Question: I told my bf I wanted him 2keep r son with him@his house until I said otherwise Can my parent try2 have the baby taken from me or the father?

Question: I told my bf I wanted him 2keep r son with him@his house until I said otherwise Can my parent try2 have the baby taken from me or the father?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:51 PM PST

I m 17.

Question: Having issues withe the father of my child?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:49 PM PST

things are really rocky between us & believe that he is mad because I don't love him even though we are having a baby together. i don't want to fake a relationship around our child when she is born. i do love someone else but we are not planning to be together at all and he made it clear that he wasn't trying to be a father to child that isn't his. that is the father of my child responsibility and i don't blame him. I'm not looking for him to do that. The fathers and I issues have gotten so bad to where i don't want him to contact me, be around me or anything but i want him to be around his daughter, he has every right. our baby isn't due until July. i have tried to work it out and i can't take it anymore. i want to change my number but is that too much? i would communicate through his grandmother or i would just give him my email and Imessage him. i don't know, all i know is that i can't deal with the constant phone calls from him, threatening me and etc.

Question: SISTER DIED FAMILY WILL NOT TELL ME WHAT FUNERAL HOME ECT.-HOW CAN I FIND OUT?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:49 PM PST

Question: My little girls grandma wiped her face with a dirty dish washing rag. How should I handle this?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:43 PM PST

The grandma continues to ignore me when I request that she cares for the children as I do. I have no support on this from the father because he's a true "mama's boy" and he's got aspergers and anger issues. So how do I handle these types of situations in the future?

Question: I want a father figure?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:43 PM PST

When I was born my father left my mum for another good looking women he met online. And as I ve grown older I ve always wanted a father figure to look up to. I appreciate and love my mum ofcourse. Seeing children with their fathers in the park. Watching films where the father is the protective one. Seeing father and daughter dances. All of this makes me wish I had a father. Overtime it s gotten worse. What do you think I should do? I m currently 16

Question: Why do parents always practice hypocracy?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:35 PM PST

you ever notice, to be a parent in a way you end up a hypocrite? why is that I mean as a parent you'll do things ( sometimes) like smoke or drink but when your kid does it you bite their heads off and the whole phrase of " do as I say not as I do" completes the hypocracy

Question: Why doesn't my mom just leave me alone!/?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:22 PM PST

I'm 14 and she's almost 50. She yells at me 24/7 for stupid stuff. I'm homeschooled. I also have no friends. My mom hates any person i bring over and i'm not even allowed to look at boys but yet she hates gay people. ugh she is so racist and homophobic it's stupid. Anyways, She always tells me how bad she feels because I have no friends. I'm alone most of the time. I like it. I've always been alone. I take care of myself because if i tell her my stomach hurts i get screamed at. I have my own little world i'm fine. But yet she always trys to be friends with me when she wants too. I just want her to leave me alone. She cares more for my 30 year old sister anyways. She lives at home, still in college, this is her 6th year, never home, she eats everything we have and drinks everything we have, he takes my stuff to her friends house, my mom pays for everything she does. She gives her gas money, running money, pays all her bills, even if my sister buys something for herself my mom pays her back for it. But my mom gives me a look if i ask to borrow a dollar and i pay her back every time. My sister tricks my mom into somehow where my mom owes her mom from my mom giving her money. Also, she crack jokes about my body, (I'm skinny with a big butt and 34 D boobs) I just wish I wasn't here. and my dad gets nothing. my mom absloutley dictates his life and all his money goes to his step daughter, my sister. I get to go clothes shopping like once a year. My sis goes every weekend. = I barely go to the dentist or the doctor. And Im not allowed to talk about boys cuz i'm "obsessive"

Question: Why doesn't my mom just leave me alone!/?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:15 PM PST

I'm 14 and she's almost 50. She yells at me 24/7 for stupid stuff. I'm homeschooled. I also have no friends. My mom hates any person i bring over and i'm not even allowed to look at boys but yet she hates gay people. ugh she is so racist and homophobic it's stupid. Anyways, She always tells me how bad she feels because I have no friends. I'm alone most of the time. I like it. I've always been alone. I take care of myself because if i tell her my stomach hurts i get screamed at. I have my own little world i'm fine. But yet she always trys to be friends with me when she wants too. I just want her to leave me alone. She cares more for my 30 year old sister anyways. She lives at home, still in college, this is her 6th year, never home, she eats everything we have and drinks everything we have, he takes my stuff to her friends house, my mom pays for everything she does. She gives her gas money, running money, pays all her bills, even if my sister buys something for herself my mom pays her back for it. But my mom gives me a look if i ask to borrow a dollar and i pay her back every time. My sister tricks my mom into somehow where my mom owes her mom from my mom giving her money. Also, she crack jokes about my body, (I'm skinny with a big butt and 34 D boobs) I just wish I wasn't here. and my dad gets nothing. my mom absloutley dictates his life and all his money goes to his step daughter, my sister. I get to go clothes shopping like once a year. My sis goes every weekend. I barely go to the dentist or the doctor. And Im not allowed to talk about boys cuz i'm "obsessive"

Question: Can i get taller than my relatives ?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:57 AM PST

So my dad is 5'8,my mom is 5'4 and my grandfather(fathers' side) is the same height as me,5'10. I'm almost 15(2 months away) by the way.Anyway my uncle(father side) is 6 feet tall and his son(my cousin) is the same height as my dad and he's 3 years older than me.Can i get over 6 feet ?

Question: My dad hates my boyfriend. What can I do?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:55 AM PST

I don't live with my dad and I am a legal adult but I still dont want my dad to hate him. I think my dad is just so protective because this is my first relationship. I'm overweight and this is the first guy to show that kind of interest in me. He has a flirtatious personality. My dad has seen him 'flirting' with women but I know he is just being friendly. Another thing is my bf will curse at me. For example I went to see Deadpool with friends and he said "You're such a b*tch" but of course he is just joking. Or he'll say f*ck you when I make fun of his driving skills. My dad has heard him once or twice and he finds it disrespectful. He has a habit of pinching me if I was saying something that shouldnt be said. Well my dad saw me jump one time because of it and the next day saw the bruise on my side. I hadnt even known it left a mark and that wasnt my bf's intention. I talked to my bf about it and he agreed to be more careful. My bf does have a temper and will quickly start yelling at me. My cousin saw this once and decided to tell my dad because he was afraid it was abuse. He's never hit me tried to or threatened it the yelling is just how he gets his emotions out. Now that we have seen the things he disprove of we have steered clear from doing that but I think the impression of my boyfriend has already been set in stone. I know my boyfriend isn't perfect but nobody is and he's going to make mistakes but my dad doesn't understand that. Does anyone have advice?

Question: How do I get over my fear that one of my parents will die suddenly?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:54 AM PST

I have feared this ever since my uncle (my mother's brother) died at 54 of a massive heart attack and it has been dysfunction for his kids ever since. I fear the same would happen to me if my father died. I worry more there as my mother would not be able to emotionally function though I would be sad also if my mother died.

Question: Why the hate when I am trying to help my friend out whose mom died from cancer - Its just really sad?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:40 AM PST

https://www.gofundme.com/73mcfdxg Up above is the link to the GoFundMe I set up for her check it out and maybe you can let me know why Im getting so much hate. I know I can't bring her mom back even though I wish I could trade places with her mother, so that she could still have her mom. Gotten alot of hate from people and I don't know why, but every time I look at the picture of her mom that's what keeps me going. I decided to rise above the hate. I figured there's enough hate in the world and I want to do some good in this world no matter how little or small.

Question: My causin is a douchebag?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:38 AM PST

It's so annoying how he talks to me like I work for him or something. He stays with me and my brother even though we're old enough to take care of ourselves ( I'm 14, my brother is 12 and my causin is 17) I just hate it when he bosses us around and he's always acting like a douche by getting new and cool stuff and shoving them down our throats. I'm just done with him ugh he's so annoying!!! He told me that he's a big brother to me but he never treated me with an ounce of respect. I wish I had an older brother :(

Question: My alcoholic brother is moving in?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:37 AM PST

I'm 14 and have a 26 year old brother. The last time he actually and fully lived with me was in 2014, He moved in with his girlfriend but they arent working out because he is drinking again. I love my brother to death, Bad, but, I use to really want him to move in again so me, him, and my boyfriend can smoke pot together (every so often), But last October he stayed the night and me and my boyfriend were standing and my brother, who was drunk, kept bugging me. He cant stand straight and he never shuts up. I know I will never get my privacy anymore, I have 4 brothers (thats including him.) but they're all moved out so I like the feeling of living here myself. My brother received so much "help" but it does him no good. Is there anyway I can prevent this? About the weed part - Very rarely do I smoke. I smoked more back then, But my boyfriend and I stopped 8 months ago. My dad and brother smoke but not my mom. I USE to want to smoke with my brother ^

Question: How should I go about asking my parents this?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:21 AM PST

So I have a boyfriend; he is 16, I am 17. My parents are very protective over me, and thus, when I ahve him over, we are not allwoed in my room at all. Its not so much I mind that as this; Our house is filled with my fathers junk, thus there is really only one room we are allowed in when he is over and that is my living room. The thing is, my mom and dad get mad that we hang out in there, wathcing movies nad cuddling,a dn say we can't hog the living room the whole day; I have brought up the fact that it is the only room we are allowed in; Now, when I went to his house, we were hanging in his room (door wide open, I might add) and his stepmom told us to shut the door so she couldn't hear our movie becasue she was in the other room. Now, I'm thrilled she trusted us enough that she let us be in the bedroom alone together with the door shut but a few things. 1) My mom keeps bothering us about what we did, and I can't exactly sya we cuddled on his bed while watching a movie without her flipping out.I even say i was in htere for 5 minutes, I'm in trouble 2) I want to be able to hang out with him in my bedroom thus to free up the living room for my parents (With the door open) My boyfriend and I have both sworn to eachother we wont ahve sex until marrige, and we even created a safe word, sot hat if one of us tries something out of the others comfort zone, we know to stop. I told my parents that but they still think i'm going to try to seduce him or something. What shoudl I do?

Question: I have an inheritance from my grandparents that my dad has control over and wont give me, i am 18 now?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:18 AM PST

I have an inheritane from my grandparents that was split between me and my sister, my dad has control of it. I am now 18 and asked my father for the moneyand sense we dont get along he is being spiteful. I really need my inheritance for school and acar, i would like to know how to get it through court i guess, please let me know thank you.

Question: What to do with manipulative stepson?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:14 AM PST

I have two kids and so does my husband. My kids likes him, the problem is that my 4 year old stepson hates me and is causing troubles beetween me and my husband. His mother, even though she wanted divorce because of a new guy, manipulates him and then he manipulates my husband. Whatever I do is wrong, like he says he is hungry, I make lunch, he looks at it, then looks at me and say he is not hungry anymore. Or I find he draw on freshly painted wall, so I tell him not to do it because it is a lot of work to paint it again, and few minutes later he takes a crayon and do it again, while looking at me. Or tells his brother not to talk to me because I am evil. Every time I look at him he frowns. When I tell him to mute the sound on this ipad, because his brother is sleeping, he makes it even louder and tells me that if his dad didnt say it, he wont listen. And so on. I really really tried to make him like me, for a year, now I am trying not to be around when he is over. His brother is ok with me. My husband doesnt see what I see, he keeps telling me that he is only a child and doesn´t know what he is doing, and he thinks I don´t like his son because I complain about him all the time. I really dont know what to do.

Question: What should I do about my parents?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:11 AM PST

Before I say anything, I do want to state that I love my parents very much. With that being said, my mom is a bit much sometimes. She constantly snoops around my things when I am not home. She has been doing this since I was a freshman in college, and now I'm a junior in college. Since then, I have taken away her key to my room and have kept my saved money in a safe box. Recently, I asked her to for some pocket change and she said why I need it if I have $300 in my bank account. She then showed me the receipt of a recent deposit that she must've taken out the trash. I don't know what to do. How much more cautious can I be?? Thanks to most of the answers! I should've specified that I wanted answers that were serious and non-judgmental. I am in no way ungrateful toward my parents. I don't need to explain myself in regards to how I have helped them out, because as their child I think it's my duty to help them. My only concern is the lack of privacy I more than often get.

Question: Crazy mother in law or am i tripping?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 11:04 AM PST

When my fiance was planning on proposing to me i heard him on the phone with his mom & said "quit sending me pictures of rings, i want it to be special and be the one to pick out the ring" and then i found out after he proposed to me a few weeks later that he told his mom he was gonna ask me to marry him and was gonna go get a ring she said "well good cause i already ordered a ring & its on it way" it was a $3 ring from wish.com that was 3 sizes too big and turned bronze after a month... well now that im pregnant she wants to go to EVERY appointment with me, my mom and my fiance.. am i just tripping or is it not her place to be there, shouldn't it be MY mom that's there for me? I don't wanna haul around my mom, finance, mother in law AND step mother in law EVERY time i go to a doctor's appointment.. my mother in law wanted to go to my PAP smear.. WTF! She's already had a grandchild with her daughter, this is my moms first grandchild and when i say something about being at my moms instead of hers she acts offended.. but yet when i spend the day with her she makes fun of my "trashy chipped nail polish", or that i ate mashed potatoes with a chicken salad sandwich multiple times! Am i the one being crazy or is she crazy?! It seems like she ALWAYS has to talk bad about someone behind their back too, or to their face & act like she's "just joking with you".. She took pictures of her son in laws butt crack & showed it to everyone once he left..

Question: Being family does not give you certain special privileges, does it?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 10:55 AM PST

My husband's sister seems to think she should get special treatment because she's related to him. Examples: (1) Thinking that she could just show up at our house unexpectedly and expected us to drop everything we're doing just because she showed up. (2) Calling our house back to back(which is extremely rude and inconsiderate) and demanding to know why we didn't answer the phone. Or calling during a time where he's asleep and expect me to wake him just because she's on the phone for him. During a mild argument, she even had the nerve to say to me "I don't care if he's sleep! Wake him the f*** up(which was totally UNCALLED FOR)!" She acts as though we're supposed to just jump when she says so! Being related to him does not give her any kind of entitlement(such as the ones mentioned), right?

Question: Why didn't my mom tell me about this?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 10:47 AM PST

My boyfriend Bill came to my house and I introduced him to my mom. He immediately said "You are so lucky to have a gorgeous mom". Then he said to mom "You look very familiar. Have we met before"? Mom said "no, I don't think so". Bill went home and searched for mom's name on the internet trying to find out if there was some event he was at that mom was at also. He didn't find any but he found several of mom's pictures on the Internet. He found out she was a model and had her picture in several magazines when she was younger. Bill printed out these pictures and gave them to me. I had no idea mom was ever a model or that she had appeared in national magazines. She had never told me anything about this. Was I ever surprised. I want to put these pictures on the wall in my room with a banner that says "My wonderful and beautiful mom". Bill told me to please check with mom before I do that. He said there is some reason she did not tell you she was a model. Can anyone think of a reason mom did not tell her daughter she was a model? I think the pictures of her when she was young are of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life.

Question: Do I have the coolest mom EVER?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 10:43 AM PST

I am a high school guy with a 27 year old stepmother. She is the greatest mom in the world that a guy can have and I love her dearly. She always wants me to do the best I can and is always there to help me when I need help. I didn't know how far that help extended until today. I was in my bedroom and I forgot to lock the door. My mom came in to clean my room and caught me spanking the monkey. It was the biggest embarrassment of my life. I started to apologize and say I would never do it again when she stopped me. She said what I was doing was perfectly normal. She said all guys do it (is that true). It will not hurt me or cause me any harm. It is far better to do that than get a girl pregnant. Do I have the coolest mom ever?

Question: Is what my brother is telling me true?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 10:36 AM PST

I accidentally caught my little brother j - - king off. He told me he read in the Weekly World News that each time he did that, it raised his IQ. Could that be possible or is he feeding me a line of bull? If it is true, he is going to be a genius. Could this be why he is so smart?

Question: I need to make money quick without getting a part time job...? Help?!?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 10:29 AM PST

I'm 17 and my home life isn't the best, but it certainly isn't the worst... My step dad honest to God is insane due to an alcoholic problem he has and the verbal abuse is too much for me. I have a boyfriend that lives an hour away and my mother has been trying to arrange to move out for the past 5 years.. so its probably not going to happen. But ive been thinking these past few months and I honestly cannot stand my step dad anymore, ive been trying sooo hard to do well in school, socially and academically in hopes to go to college and get out as soon as I can. I need to get money for a car, and a cell phone so that I can always be in contact with my boyfriend, mom, and others. I'm hoping to find a cheap service and praying for a car that will suit my needs. The problem is because I always have so much homework and so many chores I cannot afford to have a legitament job and there aren't many "under the table" jobs available around me.. What can I do? I need to make money somehow, that won't be tooo time consuming, most preferred would be a job online? My teacher suggested doing movie reviews for a specific company that he shared with me(?) anything else? Once again, im 17 and very dedicated and willing to do something to make this money!!! :) please help! thank-you

Question: Should I go out for a walk alone?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 10:16 AM PST

I'm a fifteen year old girl and I have recently been trying to lose weight. I really want to start walking around my apartment complex, to the local Walmart, or to the park during the day but my mother would be very unhappy with me doing this alone because she thinks I will get kidnapped. She won't walk with me because she is pregnant, and my brother won't walk with me because he is lazy and we don't get along. I have a pocket knife and a phone with me at all times. Should I go through with this?

Question: Why doesn't my mom understand style and coolness?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 09:54 AM PST

So I'm a teen, sort of Emo, and I like to keep my shoes untied to show off my rebel side. It's kind of my way to say F U to society. You know? Well my mom just doesn't get it. (She's a dork) and she keeps forcing me to tie my shoes, and I look so lame in my high school. I mean damnit mom, I'm going to graduate next year! I am an f ing adult!!!

Question: My dad cleaned my room and found a broken mirror and was very concerned about it?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 09:52 AM PST

So my dad for the past month, 3 diffrent times, has been telling me to clean my room and he would check it after. Each time I would kinda clean it but he would never check it. Yesterday he told me to clean it again, but this time he finally did searched it. When I came home from work I was surprised to find all of my bowls and bongs, old vodka bottles and adderal(unprescribed, but i use it safely for college study) all on my shelf, as well as mirror. Oddly enough he didn't even seem mad about all the drug stuff he found. But he found an old broken car mirror that I kept in a dresser for memorie sakes (was from a friend and wasn't from anything bad), and he asked me what it was for and seamed very concerned. I told him I kept it as a suvineir, but he didn't seam to believe it. I think he thought I would cut my wrists or something with it( from the way he was acting, again very concerned) but that wouldn't make sense because I have a rifle and ammo under my bed and he knows that and has never asked me to get rid of it. So if I'm not cutting my self( you can just look at my body and tell that I don't) I don't understand what else he thought I was doing with a broken mirror. What do you guys think?

Question: Should i tell my mom what my brother said?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 09:51 AM PST

I'm 13, he's 21. I woke up early this morning and did dishes, laundry, gave the dog his daily shot and cleaned up. My brother yelled at me for being too loud when i wasnt he clearly was trying to irritate and boss me around so i ignored him. He then got mad and started calling me a slut and saying i'm the reason our dad left. I feel horrible because maybe he's right. I was feeding the dog in front of the fridge and he asked me to move. I did. Then he left so i went back in front of the fridge. He then came back and i moved. This went on for about 10 minutes. Finally i told him "no". This angered him so he swung upon the door to hurt my back, thus, causing a lart of the fridge to break. He woke my mom telling her im being a *****. Then 10 minutes later saying i broke the fridge. Then again saying im back talking him. Finally she called to talk to me. My brother started arguing and she yelled at us to go away. My mom seemed more mad at me though. She didnt even hear my side of the story. Everything he said to me is hurting me. It's the first time i've cried in almost a year. I cut for the first time. I have anorexia. No one seems to care. My brother is a recovering meth addict what if he's back on it? Do i tell her anything or will that make her more mad at me?

Question: Help me Help- My father and his family has been troubling me and my mom for a long time .My father has a negative influence?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 09:40 AM PST

I am 25 . My father has been a negative influence in our house -he has made my moms life miserable- I am living in my mothers sisters house . My father never did any work ,he was and always locked in room ,he abused my mom ,took money from her ,never guided me , we lived on rents,shiting houses . My mom wore the pants in the house ,working out,taking care of the home , My dad mentally trapped her and does not respect her at all. She has lot of humanity in her -She always gives him chances. My fathers -mother and sister has also expolited my mom .They come to our house use us ,make us work and go back. My father thinks its my moms right to serve him , he thinks she is her slave .They keep having fights but my mom is not able to kick him out of his own sisters house. We live for free -my aunt and her husband have saved our lives.- My dad abuses my moms sister who has give her house for free. My dad had some inhertiance from his father but my grandmother and his sister has taken everything. We have no legal rights, my grandmother is 81 and has all the property. My dad never pays bills on time , he is teaching guitar -he quit his job earlier ,he always keeps a check on my mothers finances , i hate him ,he has been very insulting to me - How to get rid of these people- now my dads sister is coming in 3-4 days again to stay with us.She wants to do shopping for daughter wedding. My mom is not strong and i feel my dad finds a way by shouting ,dominating and locking himself . My grandmother is a evil woman. My dads sister is super evil . They know my dad is not cabable of providing house and food to his own family. I am trying something for my self -but i want to get rid of him and his family-negative inluence-.My dad is weird man, he always fought with my mom when i was a kid ,abused her ,we had financial issues , he made my life hell and now i want him dead

Question: I don't look anything like my dad, but I look a lot like my neighbor, Patrick, is my mother hiding something?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 09:15 AM PST

I've struggled with this for years, my mom goes to Pat's house for dinner sometimes and I'm starting to get suspicious.

Question: Mothers answer anonymously: Do you sexual or romantic fantasies of your adult son?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 09:01 AM PST

Also, please refer to the following links: http://marriage-equality.blogspot.com/ https://consanguinamory.wordpress.com/ If this is put under the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered category, it's beyond my control.

Question: Is your family protective of you?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 08:50 AM PST

I am a guy and I am the youngest in my family and my family is super protective of me. For example my parents always make sure I am not doing something stupid and if I do I get into so much trouble. Then if my parents aren't bad enough my siblings are the worst. If I don't listen to my parents then I will hear hell from them and they are allowed to ground me. What's even worse is that my nephew who is my age is my older brother and he is in the Marines and twice he has threatened to step into my life and be my dad if I don't straighten out and luckily for me it has never gotten to that point so I do listen to them. Then one of my other brothers who I see more often is protective of me especially since he had his broken by his last girlfriend and now he makes sure I am dating the right girls.

Question: Why does my daughter not talk to me about her life / things?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 08:39 AM PST

My daughter is 14, She doesn't like tellling me about when she's hurt, fights with her friends, etc. One time I heard this little girl told my daughter how big her boobs are (which they are big) from another parent. She never told me this girl said something to her. I was so freaking angry.She will tell anyone else but not me! why!? It's like she is taking everything on her own. Also I may of told her to stop complaining about her pains so..yeah..now she never tells me if she has a pain. She is also homeschooled and has no friends..so.. Update: She doesn't have friends anymore. I hate any of the friends she brings and she is not aloud to be around boys or speak to boys. They all just want one thing and even thought she never gets in trouble I don't trust her. I even told her that. And I guess i do treat her 30 year old sister better. She's just the better kid even though she goes out 24/7 still lives at home and i pay for everything she does, She is still better than the 14 year old. Just sayin. I mean the 14 year old wouldn't hurt a fly and shes smart but..like idk...She helps me alot..Oh well help? It seems she rather be with her dad then me. and it seems her dad would rather be anywhere than with me. But whatever.

Question: How should I schedule everything ?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 08:33 AM PST

Question: I'm being kicked out at 17, advice?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 08:33 AM PST

My mom is threatening to kick me out if I miss anymore classes. I'm currently behind credits but I can still graduate on time. She thinks I don't care, all because I'm calm about. She has plans for me but its not what I want .there's more to it, but I don't want to write it all. Any advice?

Question: How to deal with someone you live with that won't leave you alone?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 07:44 AM PST

This person will not listen when I say no to something. He will keep asking until I get mad, then he accuses me of starting an arguement. Also, he will not stop talking to me if we are in the same room. we live together, what can I do to deal with him? It's a family memeber, so I can't tell him to hit the road.

Question: What to do?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 07:38 AM PST

Little brother keeps attacking me unexpectedly during fights. I'll be holding a coffee and we'll have an argument and he'll tackle off guard. He's a bit bigger than me down. I've calmed down hardcore. I'm 24 he's 3 years younger. How to take care of this and put him in his place? He's stronger than me now to. I'm not saying I want to beat the hell out my brother but, should I just clock him a good one? I hold back a lot. Yesterday, he pulled this **** in front of my girl and now she's all like "hahaha your little brother took you down"

Question: Boyfriend is a better parent than me?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 07:36 AM PST

Im 20 andI have a daughter from my last relationship. Her father left me while I was pregnant. My current boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years . Hes 21 and he's been with us since my daughter was almost 1. We just moved in together and he's become a much bigger part of our lives because he's just completely taken over as her dad. She calls him daddy and he loves her and is basically a father to her and a great provider for us both. The thing is that I feel like he is a better parent to her than I am. He handles her better and I'm always getting overwhelmed. He has never had kids or siblings but he always knows what to do with her. I get flustered and frustrated and he can somehow stay calm and do and say all the right things. He always finds time to clean the house and get groceries while watching her on his days off, and on mine I can barely control her let alone do anything else. We are talking very seriously about getting married and having another child but I don't want to feel like I'm putting the entire load on him as far as parenting goes. How can I fix this. I want to be more like him but I just don't know how.

Question: How to handle this very hard situation with in laws?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 07:23 AM PST

I've been married for 7 years I have a 4 year old son, and I'm 7 months pregnant with my second son. I'm beyond depressed, and sad with this situation that I been dealing with for the past years. I have very difficult in laws (specially my mother in law) and I don't know what to do anymore. We went out for dinner last night, and they had a few too many drinks me & husband drove them back home, and during the drive back they got into a physical fight over dumb rumor about FIL cheating on my MIL. Luckily I was in the passenger side my husband was driving, and I just stayed quiet I didn't say anything my husband stopped the car to calm them down. Anyways I'm tired of their drinking problem because every time they drink they start fights, and all they do is talk bad about people and criticize you for anything.I've put up with their behavior for so many years and I feel that I can't deal with them anymore. Another thing that bothers me so much is that my MIL has so much favoritism for his 2 other grand daughters and always leaves my son out. If my son doesn't want to share his toys she literally yells at him but, when her other 2 grandaughters hit my son or take toys away from him it's funny to her. But of course my son is not allow to hit them back because she rapidly becomes mad and bad mouth my son. Theirs days that she'll talk to me but, theirs says that she hates me and completely ignores me when I'm there. I'm so hurt by all this and I don't know what to do. I have talked to my husband about all this issues, and all he does is avoid the conversation, and does nothing to fix the problem. I've thought so many times of just leaving because his not doing anything to fix this. The worst part is that he's very close with his brothers, and they still live with his parents so he has the habit of visiting them every weekend, and of course his parents are there, and we always find our selves involve with them even if we don't want to. I feel that I supported my husband for so many years, and that I have put up with so much crap from his parents but, I just can't anymore. The stress is killing me, and the fact that I feel so unappreciated by my husband makes it worst.

Question: Do my inlaws not like me or are embarrased of me ?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 07:19 AM PST

They post my husbands picture but not mine on fb and in real life they dont have any pictures of me . They have more money than my family does and they have better clothes . I always thought i embarrased them bc of my clothes and my husband has an aunt and they dont have one picture of her because she doesnt wear good clothes . Do u think they are embarrased

Question: Crazy mother in law getting in my future marriage & business- pressuring to have babies. I don't want kids. She needs to shut up!?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 07:13 AM PST

Question: Blog is down so here?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 07:06 AM PST

Dearest John, What the hell is wrong with me sometimes? why was i removing people that have done nothing wrong from my FB? Sheesh Now I don't remember who to put back. Why was I also removing some that have done me wrong, they ought to be there too it's FB...Haha Also... Why am i suddenly angry at people whom hurt me years ago and i got over it and we attended the same school and saw each other in the toilette where we used to smoke and chatted with her casually even felt sorry for her when she has this really disgusting bf... and in general felt sorry to see what she has become...was compassionate I mean... Please come back and s ex the crazy out of me I would like to be saner now? :D I worship you! Gollum That's not funny :P Gollum sad *teary Gollum face* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wG8PF1HWO48

Question: Grandparents said that they are going to report my son missing the next time I take him somewhere with me?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 07:04 AM PST

All I'm doing is bringing my son over to his dad's house since the dad isn't allowed to come over here. I was gone yesterday for like 3-4 hours and then when I came home, my dad said that the next time I take my son somewhere, he's going to report him as missing to the police. What the **** do I do? He's my son. I can take him ANYWHERE I want.

Question: I'm home sick today, what should I do to make time fly-by?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 06:48 AM PST

I am home sick from school today. my parents said I can't use the PS3. but, I have backups: iPod Touch 5th Gen (I bought with my own money), iPhone 4S, Acer Chromebook C720, Kindle Fire HD (I barely use that), DVD's, TV in my room (I bought with my own money) and the TV in the living room. we a TV which is the room where TV is mainly used compared to my sisters and parents rooms. what should I do to kill time today? I would go to school but I have this bad cough and runny nose. what should I do to pass the time? I am 15, a boy.

Question: Should I contact CPS?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 06:35 AM PST

So I have a niece that is almost a year old. My sister had her with a loser from the hood. He smokes weed all day long is in and out of jail. He beats my sister and controls everything she does. My sister has a menatal disability she doesn't learn very well so she's manipulated very easily. When my niece was being born this man tried to fight my dad (which is my sisters step father) he tried to hit my mom and threw our grandpa and told us he was going to shoot our house up. He went to jail for 6 months. He's out now and is a horrible father. He is infected with all these diseases because he sleeps around and gave them to my sister and they both kiss the baby which is going to eventually catch herpes from them. He hits my sister but she is brainwashed to where she will never say anything. He brings drugs around the baby and guns and people want to shoot up her dad's house(where they stay at in the hood). We have offered her to stay with us and she won't she loves to be ghetto. He recently was putting a blunt in the baby's mouth and was blowing it in her face. He wants the baby to be wrapped up so nobody can see her. We are not allowed to take her anywhere because he doesn't want people to look at her. He is a horrible person. I just want him out of her life.

Question: My 15 year old daughter is being bullied at school?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 06:35 AM PST

my 15 year old daughter is experiencing bullying at school, she shared this information with my husband and swore him to secrecy, but of course he had to tell me. I am afraid for her because bullying in this day and age can lead to so many things!!!! do you have any advice on how to help protect her without revealing that I found out, I don't want her to loose trust in my husband (her stepdad) and stop telling him things, but I also don't want anything to happen to her??

Question: How can I convict my parents to let me skip school on wednesday?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 04:37 AM PST

So I live in kuwait and Wednesday is the our school is celebrating national/liberation day. I reeeaaallllyyy don't want to go for a few reasons. 1) we don't do anything-we watch a performance, we have an extra long lunch, and the few classes we have that day just give us free time. 2) The performance-for 1-2 hours of our day we way h a show with traditional kuwaiti songs and dances as well as some short skits. The problem is, Im Canadian and have only loved here for 1 year, so I speak next to no arabic. For me this performance is boring and doesn't teach me anything about the culture because I can't understand any of it. 3) the lunch-for most people this is really fun since we all bring in food and get an hour long lunch break, but for me it's long, boring and award because I don't really have any friends here I told my parents that if they let me stay home I would do school work all day (the regular school day). Thus would mean I would have around 5 hours of schoolwork, as opposed to the 45 mins I would have at school. My mom doesn't work, so I do have to follow through with this. How can I convince them to let me stay home? Just clarifying that it's not that I never had friends here. I had a lot last year but they all moved away, and this year I've just had a hard time finding my group

Question: I'm really bad in my basketball games.?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 04:31 AM PST

I'm really amazing when i'm playing with family and friends. When I play in my basket games my dad said that i'm garbage and trash. He gets really mad he even said that if he was on the team he will beat me up. He even gets mad enough to tell my uncle and his son. My uncle asked me my record and I was thinking and my brother told him. My uncle said "Do you even care?" I got so mad because my dad asked me the same thing. How can I improve my game? He even said that my family shouldn't even waste their time to watch me play.

Question: Why Do controlling people accuse everyone else of being controling?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 04:19 AM PST

Mom tells her daughter how to eat, who to like, how to dress and nit picks and tries to control her every move her whole life. But then later in life also seems to feel that same daughter is the victim of everyone else. Daughter turns 18 and wants to move out w her boyfriend and mom says ' i think she's doing it to make him happy and he's controling her '. Or daughter WANTS to go see her sick father in the hospital and mom says ' why are you always trying to please him and make him happy? He dosent run your life. ' not saying she does or dosent listen to her mom but wondering if it's common for control freaks to accuse others of this same thing?

Question: Urgent help needed. My mother has been corrupted by bad father literally. Please!?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 04:09 AM PST

My father is not good. . My mother used see father for the bad things he did and used to be truthful and didn't support them and disapproved. My father finally manipulated my mother (after she retired, she stays with him all alone), in a way that she now white ashes my father and even justifies his things. she some times even tricks (to get something from me) me just because my father made her believe that the whatever the father tells is important. My mother used to disapprove the bad things he did and now it is like my father turned her dark too. what can do? helpppp! Explaining her won't work well either. It is like white became black.

Question: Why are my parents unnecessarily overprotective?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 03:36 AM PST

i know this is a weird question, but my mom and dad are both really overprotective. I am 16 years old and i get get any type of social media account. I also have to have my parents meet my friends before i go with them into town.

Question: How to deal with a loved one's death when you're not religious?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 03:33 AM PST

Question: I m so insecure about my past?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 03:28 AM PST

First of all I might be sound so childish but this thing is seriously bugging me okay so i m 15 right now,and in my entire life I would that I m pretty wealthy but when I turned 8/9 my parents and I moved from my grandparents house because they ( my grandparents) wanted to sell the house and move to another city. my parents also has their own house which I think is pretty nice, but its far away from my school and my dad s office, So we decided to rent a very very small house ( it doesn t even look like a house). So fews months after I moved, I got a friend ( he s 2 years younger than me) who is kinda arrogant but still pretty nice to me, after 2 years living there I finally moved to my parent s own house and never contacted with him again (except some time I see him on my school until I got to junior high school.) so yeah that s the problem I m so scared that my old friend will think I m poor for the rest of his life, I know this sounds very stupid..... but its always stuck in my mind P.S sorry if my English is very messed up, I m still learning.

Question: I can't stop worrying about my mother or siblings dying?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 02:56 AM PST

I don't want that time to come. I want to kill myself right now so whenever they do die, I won't be around. I can't imagine the feelings. I just can't stop thinking about it. Then I think too, that if they were gone, I can live my life without worrying about them anymore. I love my family so so much and I just can't stop thinking the way I do. I know everyone dies. My sister says she will kill herself when our mom dies. I have a big family(ten siblings. We are all from the same mom and dad but our dad is gone. Not dead, but gone because he's an a**hole) Anyways, it worries me. All this stuff. I tell my sister "did our grandma kill herself because her mom died?" "Did our dad kill himself when his parents died?" No. I just want to go so I can end these thoughts I have. I'm so scared of life.

Question: How do I convince my codependent sibling to accept me moving out?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 02:24 AM PST

Hi, I'm having a bit of a dilemma here. I'm planning on moving out of my dad's house sometime in either May, June or July with two other friends. However I'm having trouble breaking the news to my sister, who relies on me to get her a soda every day and to get her medication when her prescription comes in. The reason why I don't just let her move in with me is because she has no job and she has two cats, I'll already be paying for my cat to stay with us I definitely can't afford to pay for another human being and two more cats. She's 24 years old and she's been diagnosed with chronic PTSD, depression and boarderline personality disorder. Currently her, my dad and myself are all living in the same house. Any ideas on how I should tell her I'm moving? I feel like any way I put it she's not going to take it well.

Question: If Sunstreaker and Sideswipe had a little sister what would a good name be for her?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 02:16 AM PST

Sunny and Sides are my favorite autobots ever!!! I was just thinking about them and wondered if they were to have had a little sister what would her name be. Honestly I can't think of any names that would do her justice. I mean if the twins had a little sister I can see her being a beautiful femme whose kind, gentle and loving, but also strong, determined, stubborn (she'd have to be with them for brothers lol) and not afraid to speak her mind and stand up for what she believes in. Knowing Sunny and Sides they would be over protective big brothers and try to shelter her from the true horrors of the war not that she would willing let them keep her from joining the fight. All I can say is decepticons beware cause if they had a sister and she was to come to harm then nothing would save them from the wraith of Sunny and Sides gladiator modes lol Anyway if anyone can think of any good names for a Sunny and Sides could be sister please list as many as you can, I look forward to see what you can come up with :)

Question: Do you think that maybe my parents expect a bit too much?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 01:54 AM PST

Alright so basically I only recently turned 15 and I got a job as soon as I could. At first my job didn't seem too bad for when I'm at school, a couple shifts a week and at reasonable times. However recently I've been given shifts during my school week that are from 5 until roughly 9pm and I'm honestly starting to find it annoying and difficult to deal with. In addition to those week day shifts, I've even been given shifts for Saturday and Sunday (I basically have no weekend) Usually this wouldn't be a problem, but as I'm getting ready to prepare for Year 11 & 12 it's slightly concerning me. Not to forget that I honestly don't really enjoy going to work, the people there are much older and I honestly feel intimidated when I'm around some of them. To be quite honest, it just frustrates me when my parents expect me to maintain my grades (I'm generally an A student in most my subject areas), have a social life and still work. Yes I understand that getting in the workforce at a young age is important and it has been a great experience for me so far. On the other hand I just feel like my parents don't understand how much pressure they put on me particularly when it comes to my education and the balance of everything.

Question: My dad is cheating on my mom?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 01:50 AM PST

So my dad is seeing another woman from the texts my older sister found on his phone, they're not sleeping because that is strictly forbidden in my religion but now my mom wants me to help her and give her my dad email and code but I don't want to because I always treat people the way I want to be treated and I wouldn't like if someone gave out my personal information. And idk but I am not mad at my dad. Maybe because they have been fighting a long time and he's been trying to get things better but she always disrespected him and maybe he had enough. Am I a bad person for not caring so much about the situation? Am I a bad daughter for not trying to be involved?

Question: CAN BABY COUSINS LOOK A LIKE????? HOW LIKELY WILL MY FUTURE BABIES LOOK LIKE MY HUSBAND'S SISTER'S BABY???? WILL THEY BE SIMILAR LOOKING???

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 01:26 AM PST

SO I HAVE A HUSBAND, NO KIDS YET. MY HUSBAND'S SISTER IS ALREADY MARRIED AND HAS A BABY BOY. BUT I'M JUST WONDERING.............. WHEN MY HUSBAND AND I DECIDE TO HAVE BABIES, HOW LIKELY WILL ONE OR MORE OF OUR KIDS LOOK LIKE THEIR COUSIN(THE BABY OF HUSBAND'S SISTER)?????? IS IT VERY HIGHLY UNLIKELY THEY WILL BE SIMILAR LOOKING OR LIKELY, OR NOT TOO LIKELY OR NOT AT ALL????? I AM BEGINNING TO THINK NOT VERY LIKELY, BECAUSE THE BABY IS ONLY 50 PERCENT OF MY SISTER IN LAW AND 50 PERCENT HER HUSBAND, WHILE MY HUSBAND ONLY SHARES 50???? OF HIS DNA WITH HIS SISTER AND OUR BABY WILL ALSO BE 50 PERCENT ME. WHAT ARE THE PROBABILITIES HERE PLEASE???????

Question: My sister is masturbating almost every night, how do i comfort her about it?

Posted: 22 Feb 2016 12:42 AM PST

We shere a room and we have a bunk bed she sleeps down i sleep on the upper one. I knew she masturbated before, i mean... all girls do sometimes right? but she used to make sure we dont know. But for the last month i can just hear her moaning and fingering herself on the bottom bunk bed almost every night when we go to sleep... how do i comfort her about this so it wont be weird? Sry BG i used the wrong term. I meant it like... how do i ask her to not do it so often without mmaking it weird between us