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I dont have Many friends And I am Really shy . I feel sad sometimes. Usually When I Study , I feel Better . I feel Alone . I lost Many friends. I am tired of getting hurt with friendships.my friend of the past betrayed me.

I have moved 11 times in my life, and I just moved once more two days ago. I was in my previous home 2 years. I seem to have forgotten what it's like to move. I feel different and almost dreamlike. What is this? Is it because it's new??

i joined stage crew for the drama club and I hate it. i don't have any friends there and i can't do anything useful. i feel like every meeting i go to is just 2 hours doing nothing. is it selfish to stop going?

I'm at this girls birthday party and her and all her popular friends are talking but I'm scared they will reject me. Help??

Is it worth reusing? What do y all do keep or sweep them to the trash?

He is a really good friend and we have have known each other for a couple years. I just dont know what to do.

I go to pretty "ghetto" middle school. I mean, there's fights here very often, the lunch food sucks, the restrooms aren't clean, kids get bullied, kids fight and argue about shoes, rumours are spread, this school sucks all in all. I have nothing in common with anyone in my school. It's been like 7 months and I still have 0 friends. While there's this new girl who's been here for literally 3 days and already have friends. I have to live through this h*llhole for 1 more freaking year! There are some friendly people at my school but most of them are like creepy and dirty minded. I sit by these 4 or 5 kids at lunch, since you can't pick where you sit, and they talk about b*llsh*t everyday. Like sex, porn, hentai, penises, vaginas, babies, murder, torture, gay people. Seriously, 85 percent of their convos are about penises and sex. They are some nasty *ss kids.

My friend was my teacher in high school. We meet up periodically and neither of us is a naturally talkative person. I value her company greatly, I just wish I knew how to be more comfortable in conversation with her. Any suggestions?

Im a 16 yr old girl 7 within the last 24 hours I lost all my friends &i really don't know why. I was at lunch yesterday (friday) at school and I asked my friend to reply to my snapchat so that we don't lose our streak (he always reply to everyone BUT me &i never know why) & he starts screaming at me to stop & then other people start screaming at me too for asking him to reply. It the whole table (all my friends)& i left crying.it was random.I was texting the guy i asked to reply later in the day &I was apologizing & telling him about how i've been going through so much in my family right now and he sent a paragraph saying that he is done and that i am super controlling bc I get annoyed when he doesnt reply to my snapchats or texts. I apologized and everything bc I didn't want more drama. He said that all my friends agree that I'm over controlling. I am not a mean person (i swear) I'm just very sensitive and i take things personally (if someone doesntreply I take it personally) but I've been working on it. Now all my friends r ignoring me & hanging out w/out me & not replying to txts, snapchats or liking my instagram. idk what to do i am absolutely distraught. ive never been mean, no one ever told me they thought i was controlling before this so i couldn't have fixed it. I feel so alone & depressed & like ill never b friends w anyone again. this was really sudden. there wasn't a huge fight or anything i was just suddenly dropped. how do i act @ school?PLZ help i feel hopeless i can be very introverted when i am upset (when i feel upset or attacked i just get silent and very sad). It'd feel weird to go to school &act really happy and try to be friends with everyone. Do i just be silent and not go to lunch or anything?I know everyone hates me sowhats the point of trying? but I know that if i don't nothingwill change. Idon't think they understand the pain that I am in. i feel so alone. i have no one. idk what to do. how do i rebuild?? it was so sudden. i was never mean I've only snap chatted them 2 times today and no one replied. I haven't texted anyone yet actually, I'm not sure if I should. I don't really even know why anyone is upset with me. I get that they can be annoyed if I am too controlling or whatever but there was no big event that prompted this. They just dropped me all of a sudden. I would expect them to tell me then I could work on it and not be like that but i was suddenly dropped

There is a girl that I'm in love with. She's married and has a kid so I know I have no chance with her  But she is soo nice. I'm really shy and she will go out of her way to talk to me, when no one else will. It really makes me day.  I love her so much I would do anything for her. I'm way too shy to tell her how much I like her. What are some appropriate things I can do to show her how much she means to me?

We have the kinda relationship where I care too much about her and she cares too little? I think. Or she just doesn't know how to express that she cares about me. Well, I've been scared after high school, she's gonna move and never talk to me again. I over heard her talk about going to Florida with her best friend. I've always wanted to stay in Oregon so I wouldn't have to leave my friends. But now realizing we prob never talk again, I want to go to Alaska. It's been my dream. But I'm still a little scared and worried cause she's been by my side all of the time.

Hey,I'm 15yrs old,I don't even have frends(and my class mates keep laughing at me),and I rlly study hard but I'm going to repeat my year bcz of bad grades...i rlly hate my life and I want to end it?

I'm always sad and I always feel alone. I'm never doing anything and only have a few friends I rarely get to see or talk to. This has been tearing me apart lately and I constantly feel sad and alone.

My family stresses me and friends relax me. But is this bad?

There's these people who wave at me and then go away. they wave at me in the window and when I wave back they duck hide and go away

Had a friend just kill herself and I literally am not sad about it at all. We were close and we had a lot of fun times but oh well it just doesn't bother me. Is there something wrong with me?

My friend who I just met this year of school has been obnoxious since the beginning of the school year. She if cocky and conceited. I try to look past that because I try to bring out the best in people and give everyone a chance. The thing is, she likes to do things to try and hurt me. A real example that's actually happened recently is I had a crush on a boy, I left for about a week of vacation and when I came back she decided to become really close to this boy. I see her ask him for hugs flirtatiously in front of me and I still don't know why I just stand there and let her do it. I let that guy go, not completely by I know I've lost so I found another guy as though was cute. I told her, then one day I was absent from school and she texts me letting me know all the guys that called her pretty and saying that they should cuff. She also said the boy that I thought was cute said she was pretty. It's not even the fact that he called her pretty which annoys me it's the fact she decides to text me and let me know how perfect her day with guys went specifically with one guy I like. A guy she knows I like. What do I do in this situation? I don't just want to stand there like an idiot and watch her take away yet another guy I may or may not have had a chance with.

We aren't really friends anymore. But she told me she will end me, and not to test her etc. I have screenshots of the texts. I went to my guidence counselor and asked what I should do, and he told me it's just "two friends in a conflict" so then he called her down. So during lunch I went to my locker and she kicked me and said "you blamed me for everything, you can't win. And if you start drama with me one more time you'll be sorry." So then I went home and appearently she made a fake screenshot to look like I told her to kill herself. She showed everyone! Idk how to prove I'm innocent. My guidence counselor won't do anything and my dad won't take it to more serious matters. Here's the fake text she made

So an old friend of mine and I recent became reacquainted after about a year of not talking. However, now, he texts me ALL the time, and sometimes Ill go as far as not answering for a while just because it gets to be too much. He wants to hang out often, and invites me out a lot with other mutual friends and alone. He knows I'm married and it has always been just a friendly casual acquaintanceship between us but last week when we saw each other he kept telling me how great I look and complimenting me (too much).. How do I tell this guy that I don't think we should talk so often without hurting his feelings or pushing him away? I don't want to stop talking to him either but just not all day every day like he does now.

My friend told me she use to cheat on her boyfriends but would always keep them as her mains and I have cheated on before, for I felt a little sick about it. She said she won t cheat on the boyfriend she has now because he really likes him. She is a really cool person, a great friend and I love spending time with her but now I feel weird now and angry now. Should I really care about this? What do you guys think? Thank you.

Today at school, some of the guys on the football team grabbed me and stretched my underwear over the shower head in the locker room. I hung there by my undies until they ripped about ~45 minutes later. When I came out, my face was really red and I wasn't thinking so everyone could see my ripped, stretched underwear coming out of my pants. They wouldn't stop laughing and a bunch of them took pictures and posted them on Snapchat. Apparently I'll even have to put lotion on my butt later. What's so funny about this?

Everyone knows at this point social media is becoming a huge platform to making loads of money from endoremsents etc. My question is that I think I have the creativity, face, and skills to rack up a lot of traffic on social media but I don't have any friends and I'm kind of a homebody/introvert. Do people pay attention to the fact that you don't post pictures of friends and family, do they care, does it affect whether or not they follow you? I'm not a boring person, I just haven't had much luck in friendships and sometimes I don't know what to post about.

My best friend was suppose to take me to a show tonight but I became sick. I told her to find a backup because I m too sick to go. She told me she didn t want to go really and it was fine and she would sell the tickets. She didn t want to go because she would have to drive an hour to the venue then back home so she can work the next day. Last night I found out she went to a party in the same area as the concert and had to drive home after the party to make it for work. It really hurts that she told me it was inconvenient to drive that night to treat me for bday show but goes ahead and drives to a party that night. She has always done this and gets mad when I confront her. How do I talk to her about it?what do I say? Her response would be well I would have gone if you went because it s for you. She didn t seem very excited about going though :/

I was at the mall and third kid says what are those so I say wtf. He just walks away and looks all scared. But then a few weekslater, I m with a couple of my friends and he brings his whole ghetto squad up and tries to fight. My friends and I were able to talk our way out of it and get out of the mall. I go to the mall every week and I don t want to fight cause I don t know how to. Any tips cause this is any just "Just avoid it" cause he knows a lot of people and he is at the mall like eveyday.HELP

will i have big problem with me girlfriend and its kind of about to end .. but theres somthing that she tell me that she have feelings for my best friend ..but its not love.. but in the time we was having fight he was there for her so am really ****** up beacuse my friend thats not the first time he do this and he can play be emotions so good ..but she told me that she love me and sorry about all evrything and what she did was wrong but i cant stop thinking about this its so much painful ... in the time we was not text she was texting with him all the time .. and know we dont texting like the old time .. and i want to merry her we are engaged !!! i dont know how i can act in this sitoution she is the love of my life and i really cant live without her .. and she broke my heart but i dont care i want the magic back and i dont want to lose the light i see through .. how can i fix this ??? any help ????

So basically my ex friend and I are no longer friends she decided to call out friendship quits and I was okWith it because we didn t really talk much at the time and we don t have any classes together.but I didn t really find out the real reason she wanted to break the friendship apart till a while ago. She claims I m fake,a whore,annoying,fat and she thinks I try to act cute. Idk how I can be fat when I m only 101 pounds.she tells all her friends that I m causing all of this and that I stare at her to much when the only thing I m doing is ignoring her and I blocked her on all social media and deleted her number so I don t have to be in contact with her.he records don t hurt me but I need some advice on what else I should do to make her stop she also does this to mostly everyone in out grade (I m in 7th grade btw) and she always thinks negative things about people I ve never heard her say 1 nice thing to someone and last year when I was in 6th grade she kinda forced me to call my own friend fat or she would break our friendship apart because she didn t get what she wanted.i cried because my friend didn t deserve it at all and I had to face consequences of almost getting kicked of of my cheer team.so if anyone can please help me out that would be so great!

Hi, Can someone help me out and suggest some cool things to do today? I don't have a backyard or pool to play in, my dad won't play anything with me because he's with my baby sister, and my friend never texts me back so hey here's the friend of the year award! Ugh and I recently just got in an argument with my dad and everything's crap right now can someone just like please help me what cool games do you play or something :/

I found myself in this scenario the other day, in a meeting with two colleagues. Man X (who is always very helpful and kind) and Man Y (who is always uninterested in everything and never responds to emails). All of a sudden they seem to change position - X starts behaving like a child and refuses to take part and is against anything I say and Y on the other hand starts liking everything I say and helps out with the technology stuff. What happened? And what is this childish behaviour about?

i texted her today saying 'hey how are you?' And she read it but didn't reply! I don't know what to do! She is my best friend and I don't want us to just not be friends anymore but I've made an effort and she hasn't! What should I do?

Okay so I have social anxiety. I live in an apartment and a bunch of kids who go to my school live near by and stuff and so basically they're almost always outside. I need to walk my dogs but I know they'll ask me to hang out with them for a bit and I don't rally want to. But since I live literally only a couple seconds away from where they're at, I can't come up with a good excuse. Please help :/

It gets really frustrating because the thing is that she is always complaining and throws a fit when nothing goes her way and then begins pitying herself and usually ends it with a "not that anyone would care though.." It just gets really frustrating because she is a very, very fortunate young lady. She is spoilt, has 2 alive and working parents, and pretty much gets everything she asks for. Another problem is that I've tried to talk about my own problems with her and halfway through what I say, she begins saying things like how she has it worse and stuff, when she really doesn't. It's just getting annoying now & I think she's just searching for attention. Should I just end the friendship? Because I just don't even know what to do anymore. Thanks for any feedback.

1. He blocked me 133 times. 2. Once he got new friend, more popular than me...he dumped me citing that I was a snake. 3. When I defended myself, he took the side of the bully. 4. After he apologized to me, he blocked me again when the friend didnt talk to him. Would you have dumped this friend, normal ppl describe why Thanks!

OK this is long my day was suppose to go to my brothers doctor for some aches he has been having after that we were going to go to the mall then after the mall.I was going to go hang out with my friends and then i was being picked up with my friend to go bowling after that we were going to have a sleepover but instead of that fun day it was the worst day my brother was diaganosed with cancer my mom was crying while driving we crashed.Then my friend texted me saying she was hanging out with my enemy then she had to pay for crashing in to the car ughh im crying so hard right now how can i feel better i want to die

i'm bored, and I wanna talk to someone. can't seem to find a fitting chat room for me.. or a forum I don't know I'm just very bored..

I like your answer. Even though, you really didnt answer my question correctly. You have a forgiving heart.

My best friend's birthday is coming up and I need to come up with a great plan to surprise her and to make her day unforgettable. She's been through thick and thin with me and she deserves the best of everything. The problem is that I suck at surprises and coming up with creative ideas, so itd be very grateful if you give me some ideas. Thanks in advance

I stand by what I said, but he is Pagan and it seems I may have insulted his religious beliefs

There is a friend of mine that has apergers. I have been avoiding him all month, I feel like a dick but I honestly can't tolerate being around him. He tends to act really rude and a hypocrite. For example he tends to interrupt people in the middle of a sentence to blab about pointless uninteresting **** and roll his eyes if you try to stop him. He lies about everything, even stuff that he doesn't need to, he tends to say offensive things followed by " no offence", he mooches whenever he gets the chance, and he thinks it's fun to bust on other people with "jokes". The thing is he does it in a real offensive way and if you get irritated he's like " you just can't take a joke" but if you make a joke about him he gets all defensive and acts like you are picking on him. He tends to always have a black eye every other month from someone and it's like he has no idea why. I don't even invite him to parties or anything anymore because he always ends up pissing someone off. The thing is I have actually sat the dude down and explained to him that the stuff he does is rude but it went through one ear and out the other. So I gave up and just started avoiding him. The thing is I feel bad because of his aspergers but I can't take it. Am I an asshole ? @colly . I don't ignore him I just make excuses to not hang with him.

So I have been close friends with these girls for about a year and a half. I have a lot of fun with them, but they are starting to creep me out. They use to be innocent but are not anymore. They stalk boys and take pictures of them. They made fake Instagram accounts and post pictures of these boys. Today they posted a picture of a boy they know I have a thing with and that was when it hit me. THEY ARE CREEPY AS F**K! They took a picture of him eating cause they randomly saw him in person and posted it on the fake account and made a caption about him. At first I thought it was funny but not anymore. The problem is they know a lot of my secrets and they know secrets about the boy I have a thing with and it could ruin the relationship between the boy and I if anything got out. I do not trust them anymore. They have edited videos of boys they stalk. They also blow boys they are obsessed with send nudes and f**k them. They drink and I am the complete opposite. I am the innocent virgin. I am just scared of them spilling secrets. I also sent my friend a picture of my foot in my mouth and then she sent it to a boy. They also sent pictures of me in a bikini to the boy and I told them to not show anyone. My friend then lied to my face and said the boy sent it to himself cause he took her phone. Which is false cause my closer friend told me that she(my other friend) actually sent him all these pics of me in bikinis and my foot in my mouth. I am also way prettier than these girls.

Alright I m 15, I m a freshman. in middle school I had a lot of friends and could usually fit in whichever group I wanted too, now high school ht and its all just odd. I m not as close to anyone as I use too, I have a lot a aquatintes and would say I have 1 really good friend who s stuck with me so far. But everyone I know can never hang out, I like being out there having fun and here I am on a Saturday alone not doing anything. I understand just complaining about it won t do anything so one, is this normal to lose so many friends? And two how do I make some more friends? I m ok ag school, I have.a 3.0, I m a hunter and fisher, I race snocross too. And I also wrestle so I m not a boring person. Thanks

I have a lot of friends. Let's just start with that. But lately, I've been wanting to become friends with two other people. They're really good friends with each other, and they seem really cool, and I want to be their friends as well. They're both girls; I'm a boy, and we're in 9th grade. The thing is that I'm already "acquainted" with them; it's not like they have no idea that I exist. We just don't talk to each other as much as I'd want. The problem is that for some stupid reason, I just can't bring myself to ever talk to them. I know that they wouldn't mind me talking to them; they'd probably be happy if I did. But it's as if my body and mind just refuse to walk over to them and start a conversation. They seem like really cool people and I just want to be a little closer to them. That sounds weird, but you get my point. Can anyone please give me tips and help on how I can slowly but surely become their friends? And like I said, I always have a lot of chances to talk to them outside of class, but I just can't do it for some reason. Then I always feel sorry for myself that I didn't just go ahead and do it. This happens a lot. I have one class with one of them and none with the other. Please help!

I ask this because i have a friend i like going to the movies with but sometimes she doesn't want to because she thinks i expect her to go to the movies with her. We make a list of movies to see together each year which consists of maybe 10 or more movies. Some she'll go see with her family or her other friend which will cause her not to want to go to see it a second or third time. Which disappoints me because i love going to the movies with her because we have a good time. You see i live a bit far so it's like a big trip when i go go to the store or to hang with her. So i just get out when i can. Which is why going to the movies with her is such a big deal. I don't see going to movies a thing someone does along because one it's something to share with a friend or what ever and plus it's not as fun but she doesn't see it that way. Another thing Me and my friend have a list of movies we are to go see together. We have the Triple 9 which s supposed to be next up on our list but I found out today just because I asked if she still wanted to go see it, she revealed like it was nothing that her and her other friend are gonna go see it this weekend. But we had it our list to go see it together. What does this sound like? and what do you thing? And now i just found out she's gonna go see Allegiant with her friend too and that was another one on our list we agreed to go see together but she's was like i'd more than likely want to go see it twice..

Once like a year or two ago, I got really sick and had diarrhea. I pooped my pants and my mom told my whole family, like she thought it was a joke or something! I was mad at her, so when I went back to school, I lied and told my friends that the night before, my mom peed her pants because she was laughing. I know it was an awful thing to do and I still feel bad about it even though it was almost 2 years ago. Should I feel guilty or should I just forget about it? The friends that I told probably don't even remember anyways.

My friend told me she use to cheat on her boyfriends but would always keep them as her mains and I have cheated on before, for I felt a little sick about it. She said she won t cheat on the boyfriend she has now because he really likes him. She is a really cool person, a great friend and I love spending time with her but now I feel weird now and angry now. Should I really care about this? What do you guys think? Thank you.

i want to be better persons , because all my friends lfte me alone , i have no friends and my best friend with them i feel like i want to die . no one love me . can t be a great man . the reasoner why the lift me because i came to them as sad person " give a bad energy " i Messed up there party . i hate being sad i don t know why i being sad . i make my friend nervous when he sees me or talk with me . because my life is sooo much depression my family is soo Missy my mum hate me my dad hates me too , they pet me one i do something they don t like a go with my friends i come late then the punch me i m 20 " i know i live with my parents different culture i live in saudi arabia it s ok to be with them " i hate my life so ******* much i stat to smoke it s make me less depression i just want to die now or one day ...... plz help me to be better or i will be bad as ****

I need friends that will light up my touches please! My code is 1260465FF

i'm emo, and my friends make a lot of jokes at my expense about it. i don't usually mind, and join in on the joking myself a lot, but sometimes it really hurts. i've finally found a style that makes me feel happy and confident, and being made fun of for it hurts a lot. i feel like my friends don't get how much the emo subculture means to me!

Im 18 years old, male, and i own a car, i drive it to college everyday, i have a friends birthday party tonight but my parents are being bitches and wont let me go, my parents know i dont drink alcohol but still wont let me go, should i just leave without permission and then just come back at midnight? Whats the worst that can happen? Btw ive always been anti-social, i would play videogames 24/7 but know that i want to be social they wont let me.

My roommate, ugh, apart from her being messy, she's easy to live with. Always on time with her half of the rent, monthly maintenance etc. We're fair about who gets the place to have people over, we have separate groups of friends so we make a schedule. But oh my, she just doesn't pick up after herself. Lewbob. Um because it's my name on the lease, I lived here first and I'm sick of the landlord getting pis sed off every time they come to check up on everything..

It's very depressive that I have less and less friends and the ones I have, I found really boring. I don't listen to their problems. I just hang out with them for the sake of socializing. I had one friend who I loved dearly but it ended because she just changed. I really envy people with close circle of friends that hang out all the time. Guess it's not in my destiny. Anyone in this situation?

So this guy and I communicate great in person and I see he always has his phone on him, but he never texts me. When I text him, he replies, but that ends fast. We have a a lot in common and he has told me things he claims he usually tells no one. I often catch him looking at me which usually leads to him looking away quickly. I have asked him to hangout and he say he is just "too busy". My question is if he is always on his phone and we communicate great in person with personal information shared, why does he not want to be friends outside of school?