Family: Question: Anyone Can Help Me With My Mom? Im getting to old for this!?

Question: Anyone Can Help Me With My Mom? Im getting to old for this!?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 01:22 PM PST

im 19yr old male. hispanic born in NC. Moms husband shes been with 13yrs. He is always been against me since i was small, aggresive and abusive man. He would beat me for his excitment. I moved out twice because of this. Mom made me keep peace with him since she wont ever let him go. But he was making my mom cry about to beat her cause he wanted to Force her to find the remote for the tv. My 20yr old brother did nothing so me 16yr old defends my mom and gets in his face. Now i have problems at home and my mom takes advantage that he is now scared to lay his hands on her because of me yet im always away from my mom cause he is always around. This happened twice and now i have to suffor for defending her when all she does is defend him. Im always excluded while he is living a happy life with my family. Everytime i mention something about anything involving him she gets raged and never lets me finish what i want to say, and when i do finish all she does is ignore all that i had said and screams at the top of her lungs like a crazy lady! Why is it that because i was defending her and my older brother was watching i have to be the one being punished? forgive me for not wanting to see my mom in the hospital. i want to move but these times are tough on me so give me ideas. Only thing that comes to mind is something crazy like stabbing myself or jumping infront of a car

Question: Why does my 3 year old want her grandma more than she wants me.?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 01:18 PM PST

So I recently moved in with my mother-in-law who is a complete ***** sometimes. She's passive aggressive and doesnt like the fact that I am 12 years younger than her son for some reason so she's always taking little jabs at me anyway recently I have noticed that my oldest daughter is leaving my bed to go to her bedroom, she doesn't want me to kiss or cuddle her , she wants grandma to. My daughter has pneumonia currently and i just want to cuddle and nurture her but instead she wants to be with her grandma all the time... It hurts me so bad, so so bad that my baby wants someone other than me. Has anyone been through anything like this, how can i win my daughter back, am i being unreasonable?.

Question: I want to get away from my family, but how do I do it?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 01:05 PM PST

My family emotionally hurts me to much for me to handle it anymore and I want to get away from them. I am not going to get into details, there are too much. What I can tell you is that I want to live with either my grandparents or one of my aunt's. The problem is they're either in California with no way of supporting me economically, or in Mexico. I would go to Mexico, but in the USA I can get a better education and my Spanish is not as great as it was. Can you please help me? I don't want to end up running away or hurting myself.

Question: Is their a place with matrialartists?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 01:04 PM PST

i wana say can i leave evrey thing and just go and live in a place with matrialartists and train and live their make friends i dont know how to describe it but i mean like go to thailand and train muaithai and live with fighters for example. btw i am 17 i am orange belt in kong fu right now the reason for me doing this becouse i am tired of school so after highschool i wana go and live as matrialartist i just hate imagning my self finishing highschool then collge then a job man a boring routine pls help and thx

Question: What do I do with my life, the stress, and my family. Am I a failure?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 01:03 PM PST

My dad owns a company, owns a huge house, nice cars, goes on a cruise about once of a month with my mom. He has the kind of money where if he wanted he can buy people (Not really, but you get the idea) Because of this he thinks i'm supposed to own a huge company and be rich like him. Fact is, I'm not smart, I get C's and B's. I have 3 siblings. an older brother who has lived up to my dad's expectations, an older sister who also have done the same, a younger brother (Currently a Straight A student). As this continues going on I tend to get super stressed and lose sleep. so my grades feel a bit. My dad never has said it (Because my mom yells at him before he finishes the sentence) but he thinks I'm a failure. He points out that I should get used to not having money and such as I won't be like the others in my family. This goes on until I storm off or cry. While this goes on, I also have problems at school. Other than my grades falling I have many social gears as - I am 5 feet 2 inches - My voice is very high pitched for a 17 year old (So high pitched that I still get bullied for it) - I don't have good looks - I have social anxiety since when I was a kid I didn't have any one to be around. Also my parents were always gone so I had a nanny/care taker but never actually went out as she tended not to care. I feel like I'm a failure in life and always think that people hate me and i'm not good enough. Is my dad right? Any advice at all would be helpful

Question: Am i just suppose to act like my dad loves me if i feel he hates me?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 01:01 PM PST

I'm an adult. Dad isn't concern about me and has threaten to kill me. He care about my sister and does things with her. I'm blamed for anything. What to do?

Question: My parents are seperating?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 12:59 PM PST

They re not divorcing, they re just going to be living seperately. My mom is flying out to the Philippines this summer, and she s not coming back. My dad has been applying to jobs within South Carolina, and he wants to move there if he gets accepted, which is likely. My dad has also offered for me to live with his aunt in New York. We currently live in Hawaii, and I don t know who to move with and what to do. I d rather just stay here in Hawaii since I m graduating this year and I d just like to finish it, but I think that s kind of unrealistic once my parents move. I don t want to move to the Philippines because I don t want to finish my year there, and then fly back to the mainland for college as an international student. I don t wanna go with my dad because honestly, I think we ll have a lot of problems living together, and you never know what his mood is and how he might react. If I live with my aunt in New York, senior year will be super expensive. Not to mention, my dad doesn t support me financially anymore. I have a part time job, so I get my money from my account. i don t know what to do, and I d appreciate some advice and input from other people. Thanks.

Question: I'm in love with my brother's wife. What should I do?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 12:36 PM PST

Here's the history: My brothers and I are very close. I'm the oldest of 4, all boys. My brother in question is 3 years younger than me. We become even closer when our parents die in a car accident when I was 12 years old, we were raised by our grandmother. I always was terrified to get attached to somebody, was afraid of losing them. So, serious relationship never was me. My brothers call me "Casanova". My brother married the girl in question four years ago. We were close as we can be. But six months ago we became closer. My brothers had to go to another country and stay there for 3 months. And because his wife was pregnant at the time, a risk pregnancy, he ask me if I could stay with her. I didn't want to, but her family lives in another state and I'm the only one that is not married or have kids. So, I said yes and went to stay with her. She wasn't so happy about it, she didn't like that my brother had to stay away for 3 months. But with time we became closer, we had great talks, we went out, I even gave my opinion on baby names. In the beginning I wanted my brother come back as soon as possible, but then I didn't wanted it anymore. I usually go out every night for parties ,but I didn't wanted to anymore, I prefer stay with her. Any way, my brother returned, I move back to my place. My niece born, healthy. My brother and his wife are happy as can be. I'm happy for my brother, but for me is really difficult to see this. I am avoiding go to places where I may see them.

Question: Am I allowed to be mad at my mom?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 12:27 PM PST

(please read previous question I asked about my mom being mentally abused) ok so the previous question I asked already gives all the details. So a couple days ago my mom's boyfriend BLEACHED all of her clothes. She actually called the cops for the first time on him and they wouldn't do anything. They said because he uses our adress to receive mail and it on his ID they can't make him leave. He's legally allowed to come back. (Even though he's not on the lease) She talked about how much she hates him and how "she's done with his crap". I'm really annoyed though because now apparently they're getting along even though he freaking bleached her stuff and THREATENED HER. They're out here laughing, getting along talking about our pet's and stuff. I even told her I'm annoyed by her acting like nothing happened, then she told me shes annoyed by ME? I have been dragged through all of their sh*t for 15 years and I'M annoying? we've been homeless before because of him, lost mostly everything because of him. If I was older I would leave but I'm only 15 and I can't do anything to help. I'm just tired. I want this to be over. But my mom is like a broken record player that keeps playing the same song OVER AND OVER again. I'm sorry for sounding like a spoiled brat but I'm tired of my mom acting like I'm the selfish one. Thanks

Question: How to get out of running track?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 11:55 AM PST

So I ski during the winter and then I don't do any other sports and my parents are going to force me into doing track which I totally despise. I already told them my feelings and they said they don't care that it's there decision. I really need help on how to get out of it without having to like break my leg because I am really embarrassed to run track and I will do anything to get out of it.. PLEASE HELP.

Question: Why am i blamed because i feel my dad hates me?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 11:53 AM PST

I'm blamed no matter what i do. I feel my dad hates me but i;m the bad person. Dad doesn't seem concern and has threaten to kill me. He doesn't apologize. And if he try and act like he care about me it isn't the same. What to do? Don't answer with links. You don't have to answer if you can't be helpful.

Question: Dad says he hates me and wants to abandon me I'm only 12.?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 11:22 AM PST

So, i was playing outside and i came inside to find my dad and stepmom fighting about ME! Because she thinks i lied about her but i didn't and shes been ignoring me. So my dad told me i need to say sorry and i said i didn't lie about her and i told her i didn't le so i'm not going to say sorry and tell her to stop calling me a liar so he went to her in his room and asked her why she called me a liar and she said she didn't then she yelled at me saying that i'm a liar so her holding my 1 yr old lil sis, my dad got in her face and was screaming at her. then he started throwing things around and my sister started to cry. then he came charging at me and was cursing and punching the walls and it looked like he was about to hit me. so i moved. then he started dragging my arm to his room to say sorry and i forced my arm out his hand then he went to my stepmom and remember she is holding my sister he gets my step mom and makes her put her down and drags her to me and i yell at him to let her go because she is pregnant. Then he comes to me yelling then he says he never wants to see me again and he hates me then she comes telling him to stop saying that and saying she isn't mad at me anymore. cause i got tears in my eyes. then he tells both of us he doesn't want to see us ever again. so she and i calm him down and he sits down he starts to cry. He said i broke his family and he hates me and to go pack my stuff he is taking me to my mom and sending my stepmom to her mom but he never did

Question: Will BEST ANSWER quickly..family issues....they only come when they NEED you!?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 11:13 AM PST

My grandmother has never been a part of our lives...and now that she was "diagnosed" with cancer she is coming home to live with us. I say "diagnosed" because she has not gotten a confirmation from the doctors but my mom is sure that it is. Anyways my mom and my grandmother had a horrible relationship and my grandmother always said my mom was the worst daughter and even seperated her sisters from her. My grandmother also came last xmas to our home and stole our jewlerly to give to her good for nothing son that has 3 kids and does not work (she supports him)...so i feel really bad that i have no feelings for her right now...yesterday my mom told me the news and i felt indifferent..i mean i feel bad if she does have it but i dont want to talk to her if that makes sense..and my mom got mad because she says she expected me to support her but its hard because my whole life i have only seen this person as someone who hurts MY mom and talks trash about us and now that she needs us i have to hug her and tell her i love her ??? how do i deal with this, she is coming in one week!

Question: How to move in another state as a single mother with two little girls?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 11:08 AM PST

I feel like I need a fresh start and there's nothing here for me but drama and trouble at my current location. I have family here where Iam but they don't care for me or my girls and has never been there for me. I wanna start somewhere fresh and be happy with my kid. Is it possible with not much funds?

Question: Does She Like Me?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 11:06 AM PST

This girl texted me this - "Hi 😋😋😋😋". What does this emoji mean? I think it means yummy, but I don't understand the context. Thanks. -Johnny

Question: Am I worried for nothing about my kids?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 11:04 AM PST

I have 3 daughters and 1 son. They are all teenagers. We have a small house and only 1 bathroom up stairs where their bedrooms are. On school days it is hectic with them all trying to get ready for school. As much as I try to prevent it, they sometimes see their siblings of the opposite sex with out any clothes. To them, this is normal. They don't think anything about. When I talk to them about it they all tell me the same thing. It does not excite them IN ANY WAY. They have NO SEXUAL THOUGHTS about their brother or sister EVER. Is this normal for a family of boy and girls? Please give me your thought on this. Am I worried for nothing? They do not give me any problems. They appear to be normal teenagers.

Question: My father makes my life hard for me to even relax in my own home, what can I do?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 10:59 AM PST

I can't even relax in my own home. I can't even be alone by myself because he comes where I am and tries to get attached to me. He is a very depressing angry, narcassistic person. And I use to have a lot of confidence and he shattered it. I do everything I can everyday to protect myself from him. He purposely talks laughs and makes a lot of racket with things on purpose, very VERY loudly. It causes me a lot of anxiety. I just want to be happy and relax. But I can't relax in my own home, because he will be there to intimidate me and make me feel useless and worthless. On top of that he gets into my business, and watching every thing I do. He even treats me like there is something wrong with me. And like I'm five. I'm 18 years old and a senior in high school. He talks to my mom like, "Morgan did this today." "Morgan cleaned the bathroom today" "Morgan folded her blanket today" I wish he would stop. He's purposely trying to screw up my life. I have to be on my guard for him to even walk in the room I'm in. On top of that he does everything for me, and doesn't want me to make any friends, he wants me all to himself. I am not his wife. And he treats me like I am. And I'm so tired of it. He touches me very inappropriately, and he invades my personal space. Even when I'm taking a shower he comes in. I can't even be left alone when I'm just in my room, because I'm afraid he'll come in there. What can I do to get him to stop torturing me? I'm planning going far for college

Question: Help with dad? Please help?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 10:53 AM PST

. I have a dad who lives with his girlfriend and I visit him once a week but he clearly doesn't care about his children, he only seems to care about his girlfriend. No joke, she's some woman from Colombia with breast and butt implants and she's only with him because he has a lot of money as a doctor, no way some guy like him will win over a woman like that lmao. Anyways he's always doing what she wants to do, it's like she's making all the decisions in the brand new big house they live in now. Her kid gets everything he can ask for, but when my siblings need help paying for their cars, etc... he says no! Once I told him I love him and he started making jokes, like my love is a joke to him? Then when his girlfriend walked by I said I love you again and then he replied just so he can look good in front of his girlfriend! The same day my sister and I were stuck in the back of the car on a 15 hour road trip and we couldn't sleep because it was too hot and stuffy in the back...we asked him to turn on the a.c and his girlfriend says no because her son gets a stuffy nose from the a.c meanwhile his own children are suffering and he doesn't say a word. On my BIRTHDAY I was supposed to eat with him and I was running 15 minutes late and he ate with his girlfriend without me, then blamed it on me for being 15 minutes late! His girlfriend kicked MY brother out of the house and my dad didn't say anything. He never goes out of his way for his own family, how would you handle this situation?

Question: Was my mom flirting with my husband?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 10:44 AM PST

My plan was for me and my husband to take my single mother to dinner for her birthday. I had to work late so I called my husband to pick up my mother and bring her to the restaurant and I would meet them later and that is what he did. My mother ALWAYS has a great sense of humor. At dinner she said "I am disappointed". When I asked her why she said "My first date in 10 years and he did not try to get into my pants". I told her that if he did try, he could say goodbye to his balls and I don't mean his golf balls. We all had a good laugh. My husband said "Ouch, that even hurts to think about it. He told my mom "Just like your daughter, you are beautiful and you will not have any trouble finding guys that would want to date you". "Even guys my age will want to". Mom said "None of them will be as good looking as my daughter's husband". OH MY GOD. Is my mother flirting with my husband OR are we just having a fun conversation?

Question: Is it bad that i didn t want my sister to touch me or pull up my shirt?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 10:42 AM PST

Just a minute ago, I was in my older sister s room like usually just talking to her. She suggested that she was going to throw away a skirt, which I kind of liked, so I asked if I could try it on. She said sure, so I pull it up over my basketball shorts and zip it. As suspected, it didn t fit quite right since she s smaller than me so I said, "Ah, it doesn t fit." Then she said, "let me see." This when she started to pull up the my shirt to probably see the skirt s seem on my stomach. However, I don t really like when people do that, whether they be doctors or relatives, and I ve told her this. I said, "No, stop, it just doesn t fit." While quite roughly pulling it back down. However, she kept trying to pull it up while loudly saying, "Stop it! It s not like I m trying to see your boobs or anything!! Jeez! You re so annoying!" After I tug away, she quits, but is obviously still angry. To try and reason with her I say "It s not a big deal, I just don t you pull up my shirt." To which she yells, "Shut up!! It s over already!! I don t care!" This is where I decide I there s nothing I can say to make the situation better, and leave the room. I go into my own, and I can her leave the house to I think to her boyfriends. Was it wrong of me to be a little upset or defensive? Should I just have let her touch me despite how uncomfortable I was?

Question: WHEN I 8 YEARS OLD, I once stole $3000 from granny. She had bad memory and in her 70s. was I WRONG?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 10:37 AM PST

WHEN I WAS 8 YEARS OLD. my granny which is dead now had trouble with memory. IT WAS NOT LIKE ALZHEIMER PEOPLE. but she would forget where placed money or how much she had in had purse. it was easy to find. I WAS 8 YEARS OLD AND IMMATURE. I saw the purse and tons of cash. It was a little over $3000. I picked it up. BUT SHE HAD LIKE $30,000 in the house laid in different places. much of the funds WENT TOanti-depressant pills. I had this issue during childhood and bough the pills off the street. I WAS ONLY 8 YEARS OLD. i do wonder if I was wrong. She was granny and her memory. i knew something was wrong but just started picking up cash laying around without asking. Young child but smart enough to not show friends. I MEAN ITS THEFT BUT 8 YEARS OLD. what should I have done. KIDS CANT TAKE CARE OF PARENTS and honest like adults. i do regret such but she passed before I was 18. YES, 8 YEARS OLD IS YOUNG. She got a SSI check every month. I did ok in school and wore fashion and trendy clothes. her purse was on bed and cash in it. she had some issues cooking food and getting around too. She really did not keep track of her money. I was the NOT THE only child in the house. had one sister. she saw all the money, but really did not say,, HEY YOU STOLE IT. she wanted some nice clothes too. MOM HAD some mental issues and dad. never really even knew. her income $2200 a month

Question: My mom wishes I was dead?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 10:37 AM PST

For the past few years, I've literally gone crazy living under the same roof as my mom. I'm only 14 and can't wait till I can go off to college. She always looks for ways to start something. She not only wishes that I was dead but my siblings too. I know some people say that I will one day miss her and so on, but honestly, it will be the other way around. I hate her. We have never been close and I've never been able to tell her anything. Everything that happens at school I either tell my best friend or just keep to myself. She treats me like crap and compares me to everyone. She also fights with my dad a lot and then blames my siblings and I for their fighting. Even my dad is tired of it. I've met my friends' parents and they care about their children a lot but I have never let my friends meet her. Please don't tell me to talk to her about it, I won't. What should I do?

Question: Am I a lucky person?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 10:32 AM PST

I have a mom and a dad who are in their 30's, but I'm 17. They both had me at a very young age and therefore they aren't too old and they still act very young. My bedroom looks like one of those that could be on a magazine. It is very nicely done, and I have 2 huskies that I own but my parents pay for them, and I have 3 cats. I seem to have everything that one would consider "tumblr". For example, one time I looked up tumblr hair and my hair looked just as long, blonde, and straight as the girls in the pictures. My eyes are a bright blue but have lines of darker blue, and I'm super good at makeup and contour that everyone thinks I should make youtube videos. I have about 430 individual makeup items from different brands like M.A.C, Ultra HD, etc., and I live in a Boston apartment with my fam. I have all the new electronics along with my family because we can't deal with having even a 1 year old phone or computer. I got a 2015 Corvette for my 16th birthday from my dad but this year he got me a 2016 Porsche Cayman because I wanted one. I have 1 brother and 1 sister that are both extremely close to me. Everyone tells me that because of these things I'm super lucky and that because I can get and do whatever I want that I am lucky but idk. So what do you think?

Question: Mom problems?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 10:20 AM PST

Idk what I do wrong, I feel like my mom hates me so much. She makes me feel so low of a person, almost feel like a dog even worse. She treats my older siblings better, one of them is a lier, second is a theif, third left to the Marines, 4th has 2 dui all in the same month, last one is so close in going to jail because he owes a lot of money for bills.. I m the last one, I have a Job I go to high school and I have health problems. I had a crappy childhood and in and out of hospital and surgery. I really feel stuck.. when I m at work they tap me on the shoulder softly and I jump so hard. I get scared so quickly, I m very week. I can t talk to my mom so please don t tell me to talk to her and tell her how I feel because she doesn t care. The doc told me i might have cancer. So I have meany mixed feelings right now.

Question: Rape victim in the family. I'm not allowed to say this to anyone?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:55 AM PST

I have asked for advice here a long time ago, as I'm not supposed to talk with anyone on this subject. This is happening in my family, and I'm sworn to secrecy. The victim is my foster brother and a cousin, and the abuser is my full-blood brother. The thing came out in the open (i.e. in our family) because my cousin needed medical attention, and my dad is a doctor who could handle it himself. My brother said he was drunk and had mistaken his victim for a girl. My cousin has no parents anymore, that's why my parents took him in before I was even born at the first place. He didn't report it to the police. A fortnight ago, my cousin overdosed on sleeping pills. He's okay now, but - although no one said it - it was a suicide attempt. I'm 14 and a girl. What can I do to show him that I care and to make him feel better, without involving other people like counselors, because my parents don't want us to talk to anyone? I don't mean to either, because I'm afraid I'll be taken away from my family. I know this is selfish, but one hears so many stories about foster home. Most of you would say talk to him, but I feel uncomfortable to do so. My brother is now away at the college dorm, thank God. No nasty comments please. I know this sound implausible and some people would say I'm trolling. For those who believe me and care, please just give me an advice. Thanks. I don't care if my brother get troubles over this, but will my parents be in trouble too if I (hypothetically speaking) tell anyone?

Question: Did I handle this flaky friend correctly?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:44 AM PST

I am the best man in a friend's wedding. There were a total of 6 of us who came to the B-party. We decided to all fly down to Florida. Friday night was a dinner/drinks cruise in Miami, and the rest of the weekend we went to the Keys. All of us except Dan got to Miami early (he lives in Tampa, so his plan was to drive there, while the rest of us flew in from different locations). Dan got stuck at the office and will have to meet us Saturday. When he arrived on Saturday, he was surprised that we were going to the Keys. I said "the reservations were made months ago, and you agreed to this." He said he thought the Keys were "lame" and decided to head back to Tampa to finish up his work. I later told him that he needs to pay me back for the dinner cruise, and his portion of the hotel. He resisted, on the grounds that he didn't stay for the trip because he didn't know we were going to the keys, and thought we were just going to party in Miami He said "I just saw Miami in the email, so I assumed that's where we were staying. Why would we want to go to the Keys?" I said "Then that's your fault for failing to read the email. In any case, I booked a larger suite because there were 6 of us. If I'd known you weren't going, I wouldn't have booked such a large room. Your dinner cruise is also non-refundable and I ain't footing that bill." He paid me back in a timely manner, but was PISSED. Did I handle this correctly?

Question: Parents and younger brother... HELP!!?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:43 AM PST

Overall I'm being pretty much emotionally abused by them and I am suffering... I can't take it anymore. Had to take a screen shot because it was to long to fit in the details.

Question: My parents are worried that I'm "too impulsive"?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:43 AM PST

For as long as I can remember, everyone has always referred to me as impulsive. I tend to make quick decisions because I hate sitting around and pondering things for too long. I always rush into relationships and they usually end badly, but I just can't seem to help it. It's just the way my personality is. Recently, I've bleached my hair and gotten a nose piercing just because I felt like it. This kind of pissed my parents off, but it's my hair and my body and I just felt like doing it. My parents say they're worried about me because they don't want there decisions to lead into bad things, but since when are bleach in your hair and a nose ring so horrible? It's not like I'll go out and start prostituting myself or anything lol...I dunno why everyone is so worried for me.

Question: My ex wife is dating my stepson?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:37 AM PST

I know this is weird but I recently found out that my ex wife have been dating my 21 year old stepson they knew each other way before I married his mom now this is every little bit of awkward my wife doesn't have a problem with it but I do we share kids what should I do?

Question: How to convince my parents to take us on vacation?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:34 AM PST

To start off the question, we live in Albert's Canada and every 3-4 years we go to Ontario in the summer as vacation we haven't gone since 2013 and I would like to go this year, everytime we go we drive because we stop at places like beaches, amusement parks and other fun places on the way and we sleep in hotels (which I for some reason like) and we stay In Ontario for 3-4 weeks each time we go and we stay at my moms sisters house because they live their and they have a daughter my age that I hang out with How can I convince my parents to let us go this year I really wanna go

Question: Are my uncle's children behavior odd??? Is there abuse at home?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:24 AM PST

I was a happy 13 year old, even though I was a bit fat. I was dancing and laughing and my aunt saw me and she turned red in the face and gave me the evil eye. At first they seem happy, but then I start to notice signs in the children (there were 3 of them and they were under 13). I notice how other little children in my neighborhood seem to have their own personalities and they were happy. One boy said "No TV, is there Spongebob? Lets play Hide n seek. I like Pikachu". There were two sisters under 7 years old, they said things like "Youre fat, Im hungry, Lets play hide n seek". I recall another girl one time showed me her pic and said "I look sooooo cute". Those children had strong voices and opinions, they were more on SHARING their ideals and seen themselves and me as an equal. My uncle's children did not display any of those characteristics of those children in my neighborhood. They had no opinions, they were more bent on spying, imitating, and trying to seem impressive. When they sit they slump their backs. They talk about me behind my backs (unlike other children), they lie, they are not comfortable with their beliefs, In my face they are nice but they make fun of me behind my back and then they imitate me. My aunt (aged 45) taught them to call me fat. And she didnt do anything as her children called me fat for one week for a # of 20-30 times. once uncle found out embarrasing secret about me, he told his wife, kids, my 2 aunts & uncle in Lebanon, and my aunt in Canada

Question: How can I convince my mom to leave my dad? Please help.?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:14 AM PST

My so-called dad is verbally abusive to me, my mom, my sister, pretty much everyone. He cheats on my mom, and he is no good to our family but money. A lot of people that are close to my mom try and convince her to leave him, but for some reason she doesn't listen to anyone. I just don't understand why she won't leave him. If she does leave him, people will support her, and I don't know if she knows that. I tried talking to my councillor about my dad being mean, but she just got mad at me. I can'r stand living with my dad anymore. I need to get out of here, but I don't know how !!! Please help !!!

Question: Why is "blood thicker than water"?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:14 AM PST

I know what it means, but what makes it true? Why does being someone's mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin, aunt, uncle, etc. mean we have some kind of deep connection to each other? We're all our own person with our own thoughts, opinions, and free will. Why do I have to be obligated to attend holidays or family reunions or to even care about any of my family? I know this may sound ludicrous to most of you, but really think about it.

Question: Please help me?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 09:10 AM PST

im a mother with a job and 4 kids one of them is a new born the others go to school and come back at 2pm and i come at 5 pm i dont feel safe leaving my child alone at home with the baby sitter so i need good cameras that notify me if any movement or noise is being made in the room please help me

Question: WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?? ADVICE?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 08:55 AM PST

Is it normal to always do what makes your family happy because when you dont it eats you up inside and you feel so guilty about making them upset? I always end the end do what they want I'm 20 and I can't think of a time i have not ended up doing what my family wanted to do. I can't bring myself to go against what they want because it just eats me up inside and makes me feel so bad I get physically ill. Literally I can't even be friends with some people, i am in a major my family wants me to be in, I drive the car they wanted me to get instead of the one I loved, I cut my hair the way they like it best. I sometimes feel like a little doll my family controls by guilting me into doing things

Question: Why is my dad guido and not derek?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 08:53 AM PST

So derek is my cousins dad and he has lots of money and gold parents who are alive and does not have to work because his dad has a pharaceutical company. And my dad guido is a poor and works till 11 pm evernight and is hard for him to make money so im very upset that my dad is guido :(

Question: Where did my son learn to have sex?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 08:36 AM PST

Question: Any bit of help would greatly be appreciated from me and my family! gofundme.com/5vpqvxcc?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 08:23 AM PST

Question: How do I get my parents to forgive me?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 08:03 AM PST

Last night I told my mom I was staying at my best friend s house when I actually went to a birthday party at my boyfriend s house. I originally planned to Hang out for a little bit then return home but I made a bad decision by taking 3 shots and getting a little tipsy. I could not drive in my condition so I got permission from my boyfriend s father to sleep on the couch. At 6:30 in the morning, my stepdad just happened to "drive past his house and see my car" so he started banging on the door demanding that I get my a** home. Being only 17 he took my car away, my house keys, and my phone. My dad picked me up so I m staying the night at his house but I actually really need my car to drive to work and school and I need my phone to contact my parents (especially if they need to pick me up from work, how are they suppose to know when?) I spent hours trying to apologize and they won t hear me out. In fact they want to kick me out. I really need help. What do I do to earn back their trust?!? I ve learned my lesson for sure and regret my decisions.

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 07:35 AM PST

I am in a 4 yr relationship with the father of my 15month old, my partner also has a 10 yr old son from a previous relationship, every 2 sat my partner has his 10 yr old for an over night but his ex doesn't want the child to stay at mine due to a row my partner had with her, so my partner has to spend those nights he has his son at his moms house! (child's grandparents). Today I'm vomiting and have a tummy bug and feel weak, also have to take care of our 15 month old, my partner has left to go be with his son knowing I'm unwell, instead of maybe rearranging the weekend with his son! But I feel he has always put his son before our daughter. I'm beginning to feel I'm best being on my own and out of this relationship.

Question: Mothers answer anonymously: Do you sexual or romantic fantasies of your adult son?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 07:25 AM PST

Please share. If the answer is "no," please don't brother to answer and elaborate. Thanks. Also, please refer to the following link: http://marriage-equality.blogspot.com/

Question: My Dad yelled at me about my wife?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 07:19 AM PST

I was at my Dad's last night with my wife, and it was 8:45 at night, they hadn't made anything for supper, so I said we were gonna go get something to eat. He said nobody was leaving his house it was 8:45 at night and there's no reason I'm wanting to go out to eat at that time. I work 5 in the morning tell around 6 at night (hour lunch break included) Monday-Friday and I said I wanted to get out for a while. He then started accusing my wife of being lazy and telling her she should go to work, when he knows she's on medical leave for a serious health condition. He then said my wife is going to make me worthless because she's lazy. He then told me he only thought I was with my wife for my son, when that's not the case at all so I started yelling at him and he started putting a fist to me like he wanted to punch me. My wife and I ended up leaving but do you see any reason my Dad behaved this way?

Question: How can i be happy, with my big brother being better than me?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 06:52 AM PST

Im a 17 year old male and im 5'7 and my big brother is 12 years older than me and is 6'4. Back when he was in elementary and high school, he got straight As and perfect test scores without any effort or studying. He was really good at basketball and got all the girls. Every girl wanted him and even wanted to have kids with him. He started having sex since he was 13. He was sexually active since then. In his junior year he was sent to an alternative school. Later he dropped out cuz he got a girl pregnant. But now hes happy with a wife and kids. I dont get any girls, im usually called ugly, im still a virgin, i cant play basketball. I get Cs and i score 17s on the ACTs. But yet my parents said i have a lot going for me in the future. My big brother said he wishes he was like me and concentrated on school and went to college. I wish i had everything he had. Hes also happier than me. How can i be happy in life?

Question: I want to runaway and die...?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 06:48 AM PST

No one loves/likes me, I'm sad and depressing everyday, and I wish I was never alive. There are so many things I need to talk about to someone, but they'll just misunderstand me and say it's phase. My parents, teachers, or counsulor won't help anything. So i'm planning to runaway. What are the things I need to run away? (Water, an abondoned house?, blanket (maybe), flashlight and batteries, warm clothes, and what else?) NO BULLSHIT ANSWERS

Question: When my Dad woke up I asked him "Who ate the dounuts" and after that he started getting angry at me.Why? My parents have been weird lately?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 06:34 AM PST

Question: Is my grandmother suffering from this dementia or is she just mean?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 06:29 AM PST

For some time now my grandmother has shown signs of truly disliking me.To the point of spiting in food and smile as I pick it up to eat it.as if one day after a week of baths,I find poop underneath the tub mat and know she had something to do with it,as NO ONE in my houseis that old or nasty. I belive she even peed in the shampoo that was under the sink at one point. Im sure she did it by her weird actions concening things and more,but whats the point? Everytime im happy she comes around to screw up my day with mean remarks over simple things.She does stuff to my sister also, lie cut up her new underwear and tried to make it look like an accident when it was blantly obvious. Lies to the family about us and even told my greataunt I was saying stuff i wasnt, and made her and the family despise me and treat me like crap to the point I avoid them ,even holidays. I dont trust anything she cook but eat my sisters food instead and she told me after i got done eating I was a bum like my ex, who I havent seen in 2 years.She calls me stupid infront of my family and share all my bad news while trying to hold in laughter.she calls this punishment,but I think its all insane.Its hard not to be disrespectful by giving her attitude,but im trying till I move out after being home from college a semester.She think she is always right so I try to avoid all communications.She is only 62 and still function okay, but her decsion making skills are affected.I relly want this to stop but im confused.

Question: I wish I was my big brother?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 06:26 AM PST

Im a 17 year old male who 5'7 and my big brother is 12 years older and he is 6'4. Back when he was elementary and high school he got straight As and got perfect scores on tests without even trying or studying. He was really good at basketball and got all the girls. All the girls came to him. He started having sex at the age 13. He got so much pussy but then he got kicked out of his high school junior year for ditxhing to much and got sent to an alternarive school. He then dropped out before graduation but now has a wife and kids and is happy. I dont get any girls and im always getting rejected and called ugly. My grades are Cs, and i get 17 s on the ACTs. I study a lot too. I cant play basketball. My big brother keeps saying he wishes he concentrated on school and went to college. I dont know why wants to be like him. My life wud be better if i was like him.

Question: How do I get my mother to let me postpone surgery? She is panicking that I am going to my father's March 5th and then doing surgery?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 06:00 AM PST

She won't get off my back with anger that I put a surgery off until Match 10th for a prostate problem due to plans with my Dad the weekend of March 5th. I am 31 but she is nagging me like I am 10. She hates my father (her ex) and is using me to get him back but I think may also be worried about my health since my cousin had testicular cancer a few years ago. I am a little obsessed with seeing my Dad since I only get to see him three times a year but she resents that.

Question: My dad is so lazy?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 05:37 AM PST

he does everything halfassed and when I tell him to do properly then he tells me to do it.Like everything he does is halfassed,he just doesnt care. He is all busy in his phone,everytime I see him he is always busy with his smartphone watching shows and news(I MEAN all the time). if I tell him to do properly,he tell me to do it but I cant do it all the ******* time,can I? when I try to give him explanation(like if he was doing it then he should complete it and I cant do it forever) then he says that I am disrespecting him. ITS LIKE HE KEEPS SHI´TTING AND I KEEP CLEANING IT.

Question: I'm wondering if my daughter would like to join us at my own place for lunch. He's really sweet man and it would be nice for my daughter.?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 05:24 AM PST

Question: How to i get my earphone that my little sister stole?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 05:19 AM PST

i said to her can i have my earphone back but she said no!

Question: Homesickness or coincidence?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 04:08 AM PST

This was about 3 months ago but I just felt like asking now. Ok, me and my family went on vacation to my hometown where I was born. We've been there for about 4 weeks. This one day, we all slept at different houses, except for my 2 sisters. They slept with my mom. I slept at my aunts house, my mom slept at my 2nd aunts house with 2 of my sisters, and my brother slept at my 3rd aunt's house. But that day that we all slept at different houses, I vomited. I was thinking it was because I didn't eat anything that day. BUT THEN, my brother vomited at my 3rd aunt's house. That was crazy, maybe a simple coincidence. Then my MOM vomited at my 2nd aunt's house. My 2 sisters did not vomit. So what's happening here? Is it homesickness?

Question: Daddy's home VS dirty grandpa?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 03:49 AM PST

I'm 16, a boy, alone so sex scenes don't matter. Daddy's home starts in an hour dirty grandpa in 3 hours but I can wait for that's if it's that better. Which one should I watch?

Question: Why do hate exist? What is hate for you? Why people hate?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 03:43 AM PST

Question: Help?: I hate my family so much?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 03:27 AM PST

I'm 15 and i really hate my family so much. I barely talk to them and I dread spending time with them. I feel so awful but I can't seem to help myself. They've never really done anything that bad except make fun of me every time I see them and make me feel bad about myself. Help! Is this normal? What can I do?

Question: Mom gave me a curfew?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 02:17 AM PST

I'm 20, I'll be 21 in a few months. my mom gives me a curfew, I couldn't even stay the night at my bestfriend house that she used to let me stay at all the time. is this acceptable?

Question: Why am I so unlucky (please read and tell me how unlucky I am)?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 02:07 AM PST

When I buy things, it's always defect. I'm not rich and usually saved for a long time to buy them. My notebook, smartphone, and laptop were defect and got troubles only a few months (less than 4) after I bought them. They are of famous brands like Samsung (that's why I saved a lot to buy them, b/c I don't want to buy cheap, breakable things, but with me it's always the same, although I use them carefully). People say some electronic gadgets are defect from the factory, but I'm always the one who get them. I always miss opportunities as well. My family is not rich, and on top of that, my mother and elder brother were bully when I was little. I was bullied mentally and physically every day during my childhood, and even contemplated suicide in elementary school. I'm not good in fields of study which can bring in money. After years being a poor student (in social sciences), I thought I could get out from my relative poverty, but I can't land on a good job. My cousins, who studied and worked much less, married rich men and just stopped working to sit on the lap of luxury for the rest of their lives. Many of my friends don't work and their parents support them. Mine can't. Even my husband said I'm indeed unlucky (his sister refuses to work, but got pocket money from her dad, and her husband is controlled by her and supported by his mom). Why are some people so lucky and some not? It's as if I have to work all my life and be poor, while others don't, but life treats them kindly.

Question: Whould this be wrong?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 02:04 AM PST

If ur 14/15 and ur parents adopts a sis for u if ur the only child and she is a year younger than u and she by chance happens to be always "trieing" when u n her are alone at the house... is it wrong if ur adopted sister makes out with u...?( even if she wanted to do it )

Question: What is the RIGHT thing to do for my daughter?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 01:39 AM PST

I am a single mother to a four month old baby girl. Her dad was not there for during my pregnancy, he started rumors that I had other possible fathers to our daughter and he's also asked me not to tell his current gf about our baby. To sum it up he's been a complete jerk and he's been incarcerated since I was six months pregnant. Now he's asking for pics and for me to write him. I don't know if it's worth it or not because he's really hurt my feelings no mater how big of a front I try to put up. I do want my daughter to have a positive father figure in her life though. I don't if I should correspond with him or not.. Help ??

Question: Is it unsafe to have a male friend who I know fairly well over for dinner when my parents are out? Has mum got a valid reason to worry?

Posted: 20 Feb 2016 01:25 AM PST

He appears to be a very good person. My parents like him and they doubt that he'd harm me.