So 6 years ago my husband and I were just dating and going through issues. We had a baby. Anyway got this girl preggo. I found out about it and raised hell at both of them. Later I tried to work things out with the Bm knowing we d both have kids from him. No cigar. he took care of baby but when she found out he was trying to date me again she said he could only see him without me around. I moved away, he followed and when I was convinced he changed we got back together and eventually married. Last time he saw the kid he was 2. He stopped trying b/c of her not wanting me around. Well now that we re married I informed him of his rights and told him he needs to fight to be in his sons life. It s not fair to his son that b/c he was an idiot he can t have a father. Well now Bm is making it extremely difficult to see or get any info on his son. She refuses to allow him to pick him up saying it s been too many years and he s a stranger. She wants supervised visitations. However when I showed up with him she went ballistic and walked out taking his son. She informed him that as long as I m there she ll keep leaving. Why is she treating me like I m some random woman that took her man? We were together first and for way longer. Now we have two kids. We can t afford a lawyer yet so he s just been trying to contact her. She won t answer calls and responds when she feels like it. Never gives info about the son but put him on child support.

Is this normal of guys?

Months ago I was doing my internship in a company in which I met a really nice guy,I liked this guy but we never could make friends,we only acknowledged each other because I always got nervous when he was around. I got the feeling he tried to be friendly sometimes,but I sort of ignored him, even once when I arrived to my office, he was there talking to a friend of mine, and I only greeted my friend, except the guy I Iike, but I didn't greet him because of nervousness. in a while later,he went away and a week after I ran into him, but he did the same to me, he greeted every one except me. He seemed kind of indignant and didn't talk to me. Another day I was sitting on a seat and he came and sat next to me and it seems to me that he said something to me in order to start a conversation, not really sure, but I didn't say anything because of nervousness and a while after he went away again. However the last day I saw him, he was like asking himself what my problem was or like if he wanted to know whether I had a problem with him. Sometimes I smiled at him and he seemed to notice it. Doesn't he sound like he's somewhat arrogant or proud of himself? I haven't seen him in 4 months. so what do you think about this guy. now whenever I see his photos in his facebook,I don't feel as anxious as I did 4 months ago. was it just a temporary attraction? Please guys at least give me your opinion or advice because I'd already asked this question,but it was left blank and nobody answered it.

Ive been smoking since 15 and now im 19, im really addicted to this crap and i smoke sometimes 2 packs in a day.. i know how bad this is i tried to stop but i didnt work well, i get angry,anxious and panic.. What are some fancy tools that i can but to help stop ?

Were staying here for 4 weeks. I've told him no, if you have to question it, its probably wrong. Would you do it, or is it too disrespectful?

Sooo, I've lived in this small town in VA all my life, and I'm about to move out with my boyfriend once I turn 18. He wants to move near Richmond after he graduates from criminal justice classes to make more money being an investigator, and I wanna move, too.... but I honestly feel like no one around here likes me. Tyler(bf)'s family thinks I'm stuck up because I'm an only child and I have nice things, and ever since graduating high school last year I've lost all my friends except for 1. I love this town, but I wanna start fresh with new people. Is moving a good idea?

So I just got married last summer. Right after I got married my husband and I decided to move south. We both hate the cold and wanted a change. I didn't want to be stuck in the same state my entire life. Wanted to explore some. We got extremely lucky moving down here. I have a wonderful teaching job, I love my coworkers and it is an awesome school. The only issue is that we live about half an hour from my school which is not bad at all, but on the way home it takes me about 1 1/2 hours due to traffic. I am a country girl so this is so different to me and I hate traffic. We have also struggled meeting friends here. The other teachers I work with are awesome but quite a bit older than I am. My husband really enjoys it here, but I can't help missing my family and friends. Unsure if moving back would be the right thing to do or not. We are also thinking of moving closer to where I work it's just a ritzy place with expensive rent! Thanks for any help!

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, within that time frame I found a video of him enjoying some kisses from his 'best friend', moaning and stating they wanted to f*** their friend (which is a guy) in the back. Also, in the 9 month time frame, I found screenshots on his computer from when he was on omegle. These screenshots featured him on one side of the screen, and random men jacking off on the other. Also, I've learned he use to shower with his guy 'best friends'. To me, this doesn't seem like normal guy friend behavior. We've been getting in a lot of fights lately, because I've asked him to stop being friends with this male. But, he refuses. They had stopped being friends, and my boyfriend put it on our relationship he wouldn't become friends with him again. But he is, and I don't know what to think of it. HELP ME.

Okay so Im having inner conflict with my ex girlfriend. I really want to go out with her again and she feels the same way, but....Im not sure if I really want top do it again. The reason why is she smokes and does other drugs. Usually I dont care if people smoke, but she is (was) my gf. And I cared even more caused ive grown to love her. But Ive done almost everything to make her stop. No matter what i said or did she still decided to smoke. I honestly don't know what to do. Should I go with my heart which wants to be with her because ik I wont find a girl better than her in all aspects or Should I go with my mind which doesn't want to go for another round which will have the same problems as the first round

So I'm a freshman and I always wonder what you all think about us; so for me what I think about my generation is "we try to be ideal and love ourselves at the same time but overall we're fun to be around until we're split into parts that make us have battle wounds "

We were gonna ask each other to change but that didn't work . We can't live with those things we dislike about each other . I'm afraid if I accept who he is , he won't accept my messiness . He can't stand it !

I m 16 and have two brothers my oldest is in the army and the other one is going to bootcamp this summer and my grandpa was in the airforce well anyways I want to be a cop but it feels like I m gonna be looked down on because I m the only brother not joining the military just the other day I heard my brother say that every man should have to join the military and a few months ago my grandpa said he s proud of all of us grandchildren but my oldest brother the most because he s in the army who the hell says that it s like I can t earn their respect unless I do what they want I honestly wish I could just cut ties with all of them I guess what I m asking is if you were in my shoes what would you do

7 yrs together. have a 8 yr old girl Ann from a different ex. 9 monthsago Ben was taking a nap with Ann and woke up to her playing with him, she had taken his dick out of his boxers and was sticking it between her legs. Turns out after he woke up he stuck his junk between her back knee to ask her if that's what she did and said to never do it again. My daughter just informed me that when Ben was laying by her so she'd sleep he fell asleep and he tried to have sex with her. I freaked out asking her to explain and she said she's 100 pec sure he was asleep but he was poking her in her sleep and touched her and tried to get her underwear off and tried to get her to touch him. He is disgusted and has no memory of it happening. He would lay by her until she fell alsp. According to my DD this has happened anytime he fell asleep next to her which would be about 5 times. She didn't tell me for some reason nor try to wake him up. I also found out that Ben took a shower with her a few times, but he was wearing his boxers she said his dick fell out and he made her not look at it but according to him the wet material causes boners. I never agreed to them ever showering together but I guess it happened 3 times and he'd get a ***** half time. I also got lied to when I asked him about it and he said he was scared and embarrassed and handled things wrong. Said he didn't think shower was a big deal because sometimes boners just happen and he didn't want to scare her. Please what do I do? there is something called sexsomnia where they don't know what is going on and dont realize they are doing it in their sleep. I found a few cases on it.

what potential problems can be caused by a person who still spends time with and is on very friendly terms with their ex husband because thy share children together? Could this potentially prevent the person from meeting a new romantic partner or if they do will it turn that person off?

I've been working with my company for almost a year now. I've spoken to my boss about moving me up/a promotion. I have a ton of experience in the department/job I'm trying to move to within the company. My boss told me I need to start taking more innative & sound more in my current position. For the past 6 months I've been working tons of overtime, finishing projects others did not do correctly, offered to come in on my days off to help the company, offered to train new employees etc. I'm working like a slave!!! I've spoken two him two more times & he continues to tell me I need to do more!!! I'm not sure what this guy wants from me!!! I'm starting to think I'm being "strung along" with no intention of ever moving me up. Any advice? Should I start looking for a new job?

Im young and still live with my parents so on the financial side of things I am fine. The whole place is just wrong how they do things. They never listen to anybody so mistakes are then made. So then my boss who is an absolute idiot he cant even spell weigh right has a go at me. Even if somebody else is at fault its still my fault automatically. I am the only person he is the boss of out of 50 people so hes a constant pain he puts pressure on me that causes mistakes if he just left me alone I would be fine. Ive been pretty ill recently just come back to work after 3 months off and they throw me straight into the deep end while they sit on there arses and do next to nothing. Im on minimum wage and going absolutely nowhere in the job. Im thinking of going back on the sick since I need another operation then near the end handing my notice in and looking for something better?

I've read sowewhere that in the 2014, 60% of the newborn babies in the US were circumcised. Why?

You either choose this or that, you can't choose both.

I gave out valentines to all my teachers at school including my guy teacher, Coach Trey, I gave him a mini box of heart chocolates just to be nice. At first I thought he wouldn't like it because he's a high school coach and is all into sports, but he's been an awesome coach to me, he always grewts me when I go to class and hold the door open for me. so I thought I'd give it. He looked up to me and had a huge smile on his face, he looked shock and speechless. He said "thank you so much Abby! How sweet of you!" Do you think he liked it? (I'm asking because I was afraid he didn't like it or thought it was weird)

He would always wants to come over just to have sex with me! But he doesn't like me or have the same feelings for me! So does this means he's only using me for just sex? What should I do should I continue with this with him? Help!!!

I saw a girl at a party on Saturday that I hadn't seen in about a year. I didn't recognize her because she was wearing high heels that made her as tall as me (I am 5'11", I think this girl is 5'5" barefoot). When I saw her, I had to do a triple take before I could figure out who she was because she looked like a different, taller person than normal. Has this ever happened to anyone else?

I mentioned to a guy at the gym "friend", known him about 6 months... that I don t like looking at myself in the mirror. He replied that he liked looking at me, that I am sexy and he would "do me", twice. I am married, he has a girlfriend, that we both are aware of. What s going on with this? Just a compliment, or? ? Just to clarify... I wasn't fishing for compliments. I guess, I am trying to understand the purpose of what he said, when he knows neither of us is available. I guess he's fishing for something . Lol.

What reason does she have to dislike me ? Was I wrong ? I told my boyfriends brother girlfriend that I didn't feel comfortable with her texting my boyfriend anymore and that I would like her to respect my relationship and eventually stopped her from even talking to him in person and stopped him as well because she would be sort of disrespectful. She would be more worried about my man than her own. Turns out she doesn't like me and I don't like her but her reasoning was because I always have something to say mind you I never talk to her shoot I barely ever even talk. I'm always nice even when I told her I don't want them speaking because I felt disrespected . She says she doesn't want him but always seems to be around or try to be in his face worried about him . She even has gone as far as to put his 15 year old sister into I guess to get in our business and to gossip which I stoped talking to her to because it's obvious she has changed and has been manipulated. Mind you I'm 18 and this lady is 24 with two kids . She refuse to stop talking to my man which he has shut her out and wants nothing to do with her but we haven't seen her for a while so let's see if she tries . Was I wrong ? What's her problem ? Why does she feel the need to talk about me and worry bout my man and I'm not worried about her? What do you guys think ? How should I handle her ? What is she getting out of talking about me when all I said was to respect my relationship

I know he's bad for me, he's brought me lots of anxiety and upset but there have been some lovely times as well. Deep down inside I know even if I went back with him it would eventually result in him doing something i can't forgive bcus he's volatile and immature by nature.,, even his family says so!! Yet I'm so sad that it's ended. And I don't know how I can be happy with my decision to be alone in life. One phone call and I know he would return but yet something is stopping me... Some kinda fear! What is going on with me??

i current live in la but the thing is i have to get away from here...this place isnt helping me...this place is ruining me little by little...i want to start fresh where is kinda natury.. somewhere no one ik knows me... i am 18 years old.. i just graduated high school..pls help!! i dont have that much money i about $100 but idk where to go to and what should i do? pls help me look i already know many of you are going to tell me runnin away is a bad idea and isnt solving anything but it wont change my mind..so pls just help me out

I'm a 20 year old college student. I have always wanted to create. I love to make things, mostly music as I have been a musician since I was 8 years old, but I also love to design. In 8th grade I decided that I wanted to be a "rockstar" but I knew that's a hard thing to become successful in so I figured I should have something to fall back on in case things didn't work out. So I decided, in 9th grade, that I would go to college for architecture. Well thats exactly what I'm doing now. I love design and I love to create, but something is just wrong. I'm upset because my music (which is STILL VERY NEAR AND DEAR to my heart) has taken a back seat. I don't want that to happen. I've told my dad that I can't let that happen and that I need to take a semester off from school and he says, "I'm sorry but if you're not in college I can't support you financially. The moment you're not a full time student you will be cut off." And I guess I understand that. But he won't even compromise with me. He'll claim to when really he just manipulates me into doing what he wants me to do. But that only holds me back. I do know that he only wants what is best for me and that he has a lot more life experience as well. He also dropped out of college himself and he does very well for himself. But he claims that "He just got lucky" when in actuality he was just doing what he loved and someone noticed. Anyways, I can't be happy unless I make music. Please help me. I'm not asking what I should do, Im asking what the best way to tell him will be. I do know he only wants whats best for me but I feel he is afraid of me failing. But that's the best way we learn right? Through failure? Anyways, failure isn't an option. I'm too determined. I just need to know how to speak with him about this without losing his support. (Not financial support but the, "I know you can do it son" support.)

I ve been dating this amazing girl for two almost three months. She s the most accepting, loving girl ever. We have amazing sex, love spending time with each other but little things are missing. This was our second anniversary and first Valentine s Day together. Her family really accepts us and well.. With mine it s a little more difficult. Recently I ve been talking to this other girl who ve I ve always had a crush on. About a year ago I didn t even know her name I just kept bumping into her. Just a few months ago I found out she was friends with a friend of mine. We talk very little every day but I m really attracted to her. Either way I m moving in two weeks out of the country. My girlfriend wants to have a long distance relationship but I m not sure. I really don t know what to do. I really like this girl since the first day I saw her, and the day I was going to just give her a little piece of paper saying I thought she was very pretty she walked away before I could do it, but then again my girlfriend she s simply amazing. I don t want to hurt her, either way I wouldn t be able to have anything with either one because I m leaving. Also when we talk we don t flirt, she s clearly not interested in me in any way but I still enjoy sending her one or two messages a day.. What should I do? I feel like a looser begging for her attention, and I also feel like the worst girlfriend ever because she is an amazing girl so many people would kill to date her. Help? Opinions?

I am going to be a bridesmaid at my brother's wedding, and the dress the bride picked out is so ugly and informal. It seriously looks like a dress my grandmother would wear to church on Sunday. She only cares what her other bridesmaids like (her sisters and niece). I have sent her ideas of really nice dresses but never received a response. When I later asked her about it she just said they were nice but her sisters were picking a dress. If it wasn't for my brother (and not wanting to be a b**ch), I would tell her that I don't want to be a bridesmaid anymore so that I can wear what I like and actually look decent at my only sibling's wedding. I really want to dress formally to my only brother's wedding, so I was thinking a good compromise would be to just wear the dress and then change into something formal at the reception. If I do, I will just do it without telling her because if I ask her she will just cry and I'll be guilt-ed into staying in that horrid dress the whole evening. I don't know what else to do! I really hate this dress so much. Please do not leave rude remarks or say suck it up. As aforementioned he is my only sibling, and we are really close, so I really want to look formal during this wonderful celebration.

My friend met a guy on a date site. He is a good-looking guy and he claims to have a Spanish background. He looks Armenian and he lives in an area that has mostly Armenians living there. My friend is a little concerned because his username consists of a first and last name that are both German. She is about to meet him this weekend and she wants to make sure his picture is going to be the guy that is meeting her and that he is the correct age that he claims to be. He gave her his number and is only communicating through text messages because he says he never talks on the phone before a meeting. He wants to meet her in a crowded mall-like place though this weekend. Is this suspicious?

I love kids and love being around them. I used to have a desire when i was younger but now I don't.

Sunday, Feb. 14, 2016 Dear Oprah, My name is Cynthia Owens Miller, I am 56 years old and a week ago I had surgery for a stomach catheter so I will be prepared to do dialysis in a couple of weeks. I have also been diagnosed with RA and Lupus. My hair has become very dry and brittle and broken. I have always been very, very chunky. I was teased all through my adult life. there seemed to have been something for someone to find amusing about my looks. I never really had the money nor the opportunity to make myself look beautiful, so I simple settled with what I had to work with. I really don't know why I felt so compelled to write to you. I think I just wanted someone to listen to me. It seems that I've always had to struggle for everything I've ever got. I don't feel very good about myself, but I think I would if I felt that I looked better. I need my self esteem lifted. If you can find it in your heart to help me feel better about myself, please help me. I am almost to the point of being too embarrassed to be seen in public. On Feb. 27 our church association will be sponsoring the Annual Heart to Heart Luncheon, I am not vain, but being that I am the 1st VP I really would like to look nice. I Want to Feel Better About Me!!!! Thank You, Cynthia email: rodneycynthia@bellsouth.net

Met this person on an app and we lost touch I really need to find this person!!

I dated this girl for 3 months. Everything seemed to be going well. But she ended it out of no where. She couldn't give me a real reason why. We came home from taking a trip together, then 3 days later, she wanted to stay at my parents with me. A day after that, I went to her families place for a Christmas party. I met 20 of her family members. Two days after that we had New Years eve plans. New Year's Eve went well. We even slept together. But she ended it out of no where on Jan. 1st. The other couple I went out with was floored. They didn't see it coming. Fast forward two weeks, she deletes me off of Facebook and all social media. Then two weeks later, she sends me a happy Valentine's Day text with kissy faces (5 min into Valentine's Day. At like 12:05 am. Like she planned to say it on the dot). She also called me asking if I got them (I didn't respond to her texts). She was drunk. So why did she send me those texts? Why did she contact me? I haven't spoke to her since we broke up 30 plus days ago.

Pero un día yo le seguí la corriente en la platica y quedamos en que iría a su casa un día, pero se comenzó a comportar muy insistente y le dije que fuera más despacio (cabe mencionar que nunca tuvimos nada) y dijo que iba a retroceder,y yo no me enoje ni nada, pero ya me lo pensé mejor y no estoy enamorada pero me atrae mucho, debería aceptar lo que me ofrece? salir sin compromisos? no se como decirle que cambie de parecer, es que no dejo de pensar en el. :(

So I'm 19 and in a rough spot in my life trying to get started. Currently I'm living with my sister's bf who can be a bit too much at times and I don't have a car but I have a job walking distance. I'm hoping to get a car once taxes come in and get my own place later on down the road but that's too far off to predict and I have a friend who wants to be roommates but she isn't the most reliable person at times and I have a past light bill I need to pay off (don't ask why) but I wanted to know from someone whose been in this situation before how to start enjoying my life before its time to get serious. Tell about stuff like insurance,apartments, etc etc. If it's worth knowing please lay it on me.

Hay un a mujer a la que me gustaría conquistar pero no se como porque yo soy muy timido y ademas no tengo ninguna experiencia en relaciones ya que soy muy joven (1998) ademas es una chica que es muy inteligente e independiente tiene simpre muchos chicos buscandola y seria casi imposible conquistarla.

The father of my child has a seven year old kid with another woman. And woah! This woman is crazy! She is in denial about their relationship ending. She still comes to all of his family events. And then when she's there, all she talk about is how she miss being with him to the point where I feel uncomfortable. I too have a child with him but our child is a newborn baby. His crazy ex talks about me and my boyfriend ALL DAY on Facebook. She follow us places like to church then roll her window down asking him as we walk in church "HOW COME YOU NEVER WENT TO CHURCH WITH ME AND OUR DAUGHTER?" She roll her eyes at me. Vandalize my car. The woman is just crazy. Yet, when they was together she make him sleep on the couch, down talk him on Facebook and put him in jail. They have a long history of domestic violence. I don't understand... if they relationship was so bad, why do she keep bothering us? Why not let him move on in peace? We thinking about moving out of town to get a way from her. But we really don't wanna leave because our family live here. We don't know what to do. She will not leave us alone.

He noticed you when you walked in, took several more looks. Made eye contact with you through this time...for a almost an hour While he is sitting down eating dinner with his wife. no, I could feel his creepy eyes on me and I looked over.

I just found out one of my roommates is a brony. Should I keep her secret or tell the others

Hi, I am a black female who attends a catholic school. I'm in the 8th grade. The teachers in my grade are predominately racist, the only non racist one and my favorite was my Spanish teacher, but she left the school Friday, so now I barely have any teachers I like left. The teachers have a certain bias twards the white students and it drives me crazy. These 3 girls in my history class constanty talk and disrupt the class but they almost always get away with it. But when the teacher made a false statement that I found offensive and I corrected him, he started to develop an attitude twards me and he screamed at me In font of the class in an attempt to embarrass me. This same teacher had also attempted to embarrass me numerous times in the class, and had made racist comments about minority groups before, but I feel like people fail to recognize them because they think he's the "cool layed back teacher". Mean while, a lot of the white students get away with breaking the rules such standing on chairs, being disrespectful, using course language,screeming in the halls and more. One of them doesn't show up to class often but never gets spoken too. It seems as if the general school rules don't apply to the white students.But I know if I ever did those things I would be in immense trouble. Basically you have to be white to fit in, gain friends, and be a teacher favorite at my school. How can I survive the rest of the school year? It's driving me crazy!

I dated this girl for 3 months. Everything seemed to be going well. But she ended it out of no where. She couldn't give me a real reason why. We came home from taking a trip together, then 3 days later, she wanted to stay at my parents with me. A day after that, I went to her families place for a Christmas party. I met 20 of her family members. Two days after that we had New Years eve plans. New Year's Eve went well. We even slept together. But she ended it out of no where on Jan. 1st. The other couple I went out with was floored. They didn't see it coming. Fast forward two weeks, she deletes me off of Facebook and all social media. Then two weeks later, she sends me a happy Valentine's Day text with kissy faces. She also called me asking if I got them (I didn't respond to her texts). She was drunk. So why did she send me those texts? Why did she contact me? I haven't spoke to her since we broke up 30 plus days ago.