It was with someone in their office and it definitely wasn't flirtatious. I was upset about something so we talked about that and other life issues and we just sat across from each other looking at each other in silence after a lull in the conversation. I tried to break eye contact and then look back at him and he was looking back at me again. I didn't feel freaked out but it felt like time sort of stood still for that moment we were looking at each other without saying a word. I'm wondering if I might have found a mentor because it started with one question and then for whatever reason I just broke down and talked about what was troubling me.

They get a bad reputation from most people because of hearsay and a few bad encounters and generally will not enjoy being commanded to do something.

When I was a kid, around 10 maybe I'm not too sure, I took my younger childhood friend and kissed him. I took off his shirt and kissed his chest too. He was 5 years younger than me. I should have known better, right? I feel so guilty about it and every time I think about it every once in a while I get sick. I can't understand why I would do this, he was younger than me, couldn't I have done this with a kid my age? I was very sexually curious in my childhood btw. I am in my 20s now and wish I could erase it from my memory. Please help me understand.

Jats are very aggressive people. I once worked in a call center in gurgaon which was all run by Jat girls and guys. This one jat girl who was younger than all of us was a wrestler and she terrorized us! All her jat friends supported her. She would openly say that jats are to rule the world. She would force us to touch her feet every day and call her 'didi'-some were more than 10 yrs older than her but she has no regard. Infact older you were, more she enjoyed humiliating us. They made her our team leader and she would literally abuse us with galis and even beat some girls and boys with slaps and sometimes her slippers if we failed to make sales. Upper management were too scared to do anything against jats and in the end all non-jats who couldnt take abuse left the company. No one can fight jats, so better to do what they want!

Was just smoking a joint in my balconey. I heard some footsteps n instantly threw it away. However there was not any distinct smell. Then my sister opens the door n sees me wearing my tee shirt. Was smoking shirtless. Then asks what i was doing in a curious n frightened way.. i said i was sweating so i stayed in the balconey. She then left. Then i was putting my lighter in my pants and a minute later she came n asks what i put in my pants. She was probablu hiding behind the door. I said nothing n acted sad n pissed a bit. What should I tell her when i see her again about what i was hiding. Or what should i use as a decoy (planning to purposely hide an item n purposely get caught by her then showing her it) . So she will think i wasnt doimg anything bad. WHAT SHOULD THE ITEM BE PLS SUGGEST FAST P.s. just ideas no bs

before they got married. my sisters bf asked my parents to marry my sis. then he asked my sis of marriage. do ppl still practice that? what do you think about it.

I quit smoking weed a little over 3 weeks ago. But they still think I do because they find eye drops which I used before dawn I started smoking because I actually have eye issues. And if I come home from the store or the park or something, they assume I was smoking they ask why my eye look drowsy, what should I do?

I live in the same apartments as his grandma. He comes here everyday. I saw him with his friend in his car and when I got closer I saw him say something to his friend and as I got closer he looked down at his phone smiling/ grinning and his friend was staring at me? What does this mean? I've also seen him a out and he looked into my eyes about 6 seconds. We've had an argument and not talking now, because he'd make excuses to talk to me and helped me out with study materials when I didn't ask him. I told him if a guy is interested shouldn't beat around the bush and that he can't have a gf to be interested in me(he's with someone but Idk if it's serious) and he told me almost a year ago that he was happy with her and he's not interested in me. But he's always around and always trying to steal glances and I have a gut feeling he's interested?So why is he paying so much attention to me?

I'm 19 years & my younger sister is 15. She is one of the most self-centered,rude,and backstabbing sisters anyone could ask for. It really sucks because I have to live with it. I always look like the bad guy if I say something. Well,Iget angry fast but when I tend to get angry.No one listens to me & I look crazy AF. I have two others sisters as well who just never understand me either & never take sides with me. Everytime THEY GET ANGRY, it's normal. But when I do it,no it's a crime. My younger sister wasn't how I was when I was her age, I was always the nice girl. She's very stuck up & never listens to me even when I ask for a little favor. I'm just waiting until she grows out of acting that way, but she never seems to. I try to be nice too, but I get walked over. I try to have attitude to show I don't like being treated that way, I look crazy. Also, my family & I go to places together. For example: our trip to Disneyland. She was being a brat. She was totally okay with sitting next to my other sisters on rides, but with me she says, "ew, I have to sit next to her on the ride."I got on the ride with her and I tried telling her something, she said"shhhh!"And I was screaming on the ride. Once the ride was done she started talking crap to my face about how annoying I sounded when I was screaming. I was very pissed off so I talked to my mom about her In the Disneyland restroom. She basically ruined my mood. She even copies my talents & takes credit. I can't even be around her.

I just recently discovered I maybe the father of a 5 yr old girl. I never knew about her until I added the mom on my Facebook and saw pictures. Didn t put it together right away but everything adds up. The resemblance is like no other. Alot of facial features the same and even outside sources say the resemblance is unbelievable. The mom is a deadbeat. Always was. The deadbeats mom has custody of the girl. If a DNS proves I am her father, would custody transfer over to me or would I have to go through court? If I would have known I had a daughter, I would have been there for her. I am not want to run. I am also trying to keep this out of court and as drama free as I can. I am not on a witch hunt. Just trying to do the right thing.

I've been babysitting for this married couple 5 days a week for 5 months now. I rarely seen James, as Sarah would be the one to greet me in the mornings, and pay me etc. She asked me if I could stay over for a full week while they both went away for a week. James came back a day early, and I'm not sure if he's normally like this, but it was very uncomfortable, and awkward. He complimented me a lot, and would put his hand on my leg when he sat next to me. I went home as he was there for the children. I received a text from him today saying "Hi, Sarah won't be back for a couple more days. I'm here tonight, and I'd like you to stay over. I will be home, but I have work to do, so I'll need you to watch the kids x", I text him back saying thatd I'd come over and watch them, then once they're asleep I'll go home. He said " no don't be silly, you can sleep here. It'll only be me here no Sarah so I'll get you a bottle of wine and once I've finished with my work I'll keep you occupied x" ..? I asked my sister she said there's nothing weird about this at all? Am I overreacting?

I am a sexy girl, I am 18 and I slept with the boyfriend's father, recently, he is married, my boyfriend does not know this, but I do not care, and I slept with my teacher sport and with other men since I was 13, my parents have enough money, so I like to have fun ... all are so stupid and easy to handle?

I'm just curious to see if anyone else has the same fetishes as me and what some others may be.

Kinkshaming and abuse will end in getting reported. Thanks. So this is sort of a repost, but none of the answers on the other question were really what I was looking for. I am a 15 year old boy. I have a huge tickling fetish, and fantasize about being tickle-tortured a lot, even too often, because I get them ALL THE TIME. I know I shouldn't have sex, but I would like to do something to satisfy this fantasy. Please help???

Sooo... I broke my nose when I was a child, I ran into a radiator apparently. Long story short my parents never took me casualty, so my nose never got fixed. (Thanks Mum & Dad) Also when I was born I think the Doctor must have pulled me out by my ears, Because as you can see I look like I'm related too Dumbo. I basically thought I would try and ask you beautiful people (You lucky ducks) what you think I can do so I don't look so deformed. Thank's in advance, Ash ^^

I got married to my boyfriend about a month ago and now i wonder if my decision was entirely wrong because my inlaws are giving me the time of my life. I'm from an upper middle class family and when I got to know him and liked his qualities (which later turned out to be a part of his acting) and spent all my savings and earnings on him to put up a business for him so that i can introduce him to my family. Since he had no education at all he would have only given disappointment for my family as I'm their only daughter. My in laws showed a lot of kindness as they knew i supported their entire family and they made things work out to a level when i finally got permission to marry him. Legal work was all done and the ceramony will be held very soon which I dread right at the moment. Everything changed once he legally got married to me. Parents in law and sis in law completely started ill treating me. We don't live together until our wedding and they keep making him hate me as well. They say that it is my fault that I got married to a poor man and that i deserve to get hurt and that they don't have any sensitivity for me. I asked them if I have done anything wrong to them but they have nothing to tell as well. I provide most of the things including dry rations for their entire family and they have done everything to ruin my life. Even my husband does not understand what I got through because he also believes his people more than me. What can I do? Please help me

All of my friends have tons of other friends, and boyfriends and hobbies and I just have them, no boyfriend and couldn't think of any kind of hobby to take up, even though I'm pretty good at lots of stuff because I think I'm too old to start (I'm 17) I don't want a boyfriend, I love hanging out with lots of people but only few I get to call my friends and also that hobby thing. What to do?

Well, it all started few days ago when I took about 20 pics of my body and uploaded them on fiverr. But it seems like nobody wants to see them ;( I'm very depressed ;((( What should I do? PS: link to my photos https://goo.gl/OBRxTa ;)

I was with this girl for 2 years, she was very rude to me I think. She didn't have a license so I would get her from work and drive her places. I would ask her if she could help me with gas money since I take her places and she would fight with me about it, also when we'd do expensive things like go to shows and concerts and stuff I always had to pay she never would help, well if she helped pay she would get pissy with me because I asked her for help. Now she always gets pissy when I ask her to help me with money but she spends money on her friends. I think It's messed up. Also, when we had fights, she said I was always to blame, like she always pointed the finger at me, sometimes I would ask her a question and she'd get snippy with me and then I'd get mad and she'd say I was starting with her even though she got an attitude with me. Idk I know I caused some issues and I took tesponsibility. She wouldn't take any responsibility for her actions tho. She also rarely wanted to have sex with me, and when we did it seemed like it was a chore for her, she insulted my penis size and my bed skills in front of my friends and hers. Like she told them I was small and I sucked in bed. She also had no interest in sleeping over with me or moving in with me. And she called me fat, I got tired of all this and I feel like I tried to make it work but did I make the right decision, oh btw we had a week break up and I found out that she had sex with her ex boyfriend the same day we broke up.

It s over for good, and it needs to be and I m not like trying to get back with him. But we ve been together for 10 years and it s went from not being able to get used to sleeping with him in the beginning to not being able to sleep without him. It s the smell of him, the weight beside me in this bigass bed. I need it. Pillows + dog dont help; they re just not the same. Every time I start to doze off I look over at the big, empty, cold, space and I either start crying or just ...thinking. It s enough to make me want to wake him up and get back together, just so I can sleep again! Help me save my dignity.

I am a 23 year old female. Lately, I have been feeling really bad because practically everyone around me is getting married. Even my best friend who was so unlucky in love before went on a date site and met a guy and they are getting married very soon. I can't help how bad I feel. I used to have a lot of confidence in high school but it's dwindled. I can't get it back though. I feel like I will never get married. I guess I don't feel worthy enough to be sought after by anyone. I feel like my whole life is going downhill and sometimes I can't even get out of bed because of sadness. I want to find a guy; he doesn't have to be perfect either. The boyfriends I have had turned out to be the wrong guys. Now, I'm not meeting anyone which makes things worse. What can I do?

Does that make you a manipulator or not? Because he was clear he wanted this to be only fwb. When I find out about his wife he says 'I didn't manipulate you in any way at all' I did ask him numerous times if he had a wife but he lied to Me to my face. Did he manipulate me???

At work I like this guy and my mom and her friend work there too and once he told me something work related then smiled sweetly. When my mom asked him something he looked bit nervous and was smiling the whole time. Then her friend had noticed he was staring at me when he passed by then a few times that day they Noticed him staring at me n like glancing when I would walk away or not notice. And I had no idea. But it's only once a week I work there so I have to say something to him next time and try to be his friend.but it's like we look at each other and never say anything it makes me nervous to approach him it's so hard..I think he could be shy cuz I see him always looking away when I'm near him or at the floor so it's hard to smile at him

i texted him last night but no response.... idk what to do... go for it or wait?

"I have one person, I ain't giving up on us. No matter what we go through or how many times we stop talking your still gonna be my baby, and I'll always be your woman til the end of time, so feel free to use kisses as a method to shut me up anytime

Our current roommate ended up being bust, we sat down and had house rules drafted before we entered the lease together (3 of us) and over a span of 4 months hes failed to respect those rules which include not leaving personal belongings in common space unless its their home (ie toaster in the kitchen), not leaving messes (ie crumbs and spills) and in general being a curtious house mate. He's also failed to unpack/clean up his room (everything came out of the boxes and went straight onto the floor) and now has a roach problem. Hes been under way 3 times and all 3 times has left the house a mess when he left. several times we've had to enter his room for the electrical box and plumbing issues. We couldnt even walk through the room because of the amount of stuff (including food particles and candy stuck into the rug). Today he left opened mail on our tiny kitchen counter. we placed it in his room (where it belongs) so we could cook on the counter. While opening the door, we noticed the roach situation. Then we sent a message (because he was out partying and we were leaving) saying he had to clean up his room and get a professional carpet cleaner by the end of the week because there is now a roach problem. He then eventually comes back home hours later and walks into his room and slams the door. He not only prolly disturbed our neighbors, he also said opened mail was no reason to be in his room and to leave him alone he was pissed and hed clean tomorrow. He removed himself from the group chat and said "do not disturb" at this point we've told him we arent signing onto a lease again with him in 3 months and either he needs to leave or we will (in not so blunt of terms) to which he acted like a 16 year old who was being broken up with - disvowed the claims, claimed he was being called the "bad roommate" when we said he lives a different lifestyle, then trie to bargain claim he would change, then finally accepted the fact. Anyways, Im terribly worried he will continue this downhill trend and it could become a serious issue. I'd like to avoid this (though moving out at the moment is not an option for either me or the other roommate). I know people have gone to active personnel's commanders before for issues, at what point does it become something that his command will do something about? If he is removed or chooses to leave we have someone willing to take his place.

Entré a una carrera de salúd y a la semana nos llamaron las enfermeras para llenar nuestros datos personales, cuando me tocó a mi le dije a la enfermera que no era de ahí (Guadalajara) y una compañera escuchó y me dijo que me fuera con ella a la salida y me enseñaba a tomar camiónes y todo eso, entonces le hice caso y se subió al camión conmigo hasta mi casa, me explicaba todas las rutas pero no entendí un carajo xD y platicamos muy bien, me dijo que ella vivía un poco más lejos (se desvió sólo para acompañarme), intercambiamos números y salió una foto de ella con un chico, immediatamente me dijo que sólo era un amigo sin que yo preguntara nada y ya, me dijo que la acompañara el siguiente día para enseñarme a usar más camiónes y cuando ibamos en camino el siguiente día me apuntó a un puesto de helados y dijo que podríamos ir ahí algún día con sus amigos (esperaba a que dijera que ella y yo nada más pero ya qué). No sé, me salí de la carrera pero a veces hablámos, pero ya consiguió novio :/ Me confundí, no puse el mx hahhaa, ahorita la borro

I've terrible social skills due to autism so I don't know what to do in this situation. I'm a woman and I'm engaged, but I can't wear my engagement ring so not like people can know. There's a guy at my gym who I'm fairly certain is attracted to me, and I'm not sure how to react if he approaches me. If he was to ask for my number or ask me for a drink I know how to respond, that's clear-cut, but what if he's just talking...it's not like I can just blurt out 'I'm engaged!' as it's presumptuous, but I'm anxious about how he might respond if he finds out later and views us talking like normal social beings as being my leading him on. I prefer to have male friends, and it'd be nice to have another friend if he wants to be gym buddies, but it's just this awkward bit where a guy could just be talking to you to get a date/sex that makes me anxious.

I'm in college and I'm very shy. Like social anxiety shy. My freshman seminar class talked a lot about how it's important to make relationships with your teachers and network. Since I really don't care to talk to my teachers unless I have a question in class, would I be okay going through college without really being close with my teachers ? In my opinion, I don't think it should matter. I'm sure there are plenty of students that don't get close with their teachers. What do you think ?

Hola de nuevo compañeros de Yahoo! esta vez queria pedirles su opinion ya que hace ya 3 meses que empece una relacion amorosa con una chica la cual me gustaba un poco nada mas pero conoci mucho a su exnovio( no piensen mal por que no tuve nada que ver en su separacion por el contrario intente juntarlos nuevamente pero no funcionaba) ahora bien estaba con ella conociendonos un poco mas para poder empezar bien la relacion pero ella me decia que cuando le diria algo mas serio. y se notaba que ella ya queria algo mas, asi que le dije si queria ser mi novia obvio dijo que si pero ahora que yo quiero que esto vaya mas alla como decirle a nuestra familia que estamos conociendonos como novios, ella me inventa cualquier excusa o me cambia de tema, he notado que le incomoda el tema, pero cuando estamos solos ella me dice lo mucho que me ama y que nunca habia pensado en amar asi como me ama aunque solo llevemos 3 meses. ahora creo que ella despues de haber iniciado algo en mi y decirme que la ame sin temores y con todo lo que tengo para dar, no podemos decir nada a nuestras familias y eso me incomoda un poco porque yo quiero decirlo a todos y que quede claro lo que yo siento por ella ahora la postura que he tomado es no ir tan de lleno con ella que despues que ella desperto ese amor que estaba muerto en mi ahora me quiero apagar con un extintor no se que pensar ya que es muy complicado para mi, es la primera vez que amo asi y no quiero salir lastimado les agradezco mucho su ayuda

She's a younger professor in her late twenties and is pretty. I sometimes notice the way she talks to some of the guys in class. There are a couple who she talks to in an almost teasing way - saying things like they never read the directions, just randomly bringing them up during the class instructions, but in a particular tone. She was trying to get them to listen to her by teasingly messing with them like this. A few times, I've gone up to the front to have her check off my work for the day or to ask a question and while I'm waiting, I'll suddenly notice one of her crossed bare legs (she sometimes wears a short skirt) has begun dancing around as though she wants it to be noticed. I ignore it because I'm not like turned on by it but when she first began wiggling it around, it was hard not to notice what she was doing. I wondered if she was trying to get attention. And the other day while talking to a guy in the class, her tone totally changed to that of some young valley girl with a laugh that drawled in a drunk white chick way.

Ok so i just witness my cousin leaving his wife when it was getting dark in some lonely place to take home a woman with 8 kids home and left his wife here some backstory: This woman with 9 kids total is known for being a liar deceitful and lazy one of her daughters who also happens to have a kid as a teen (ps dont know who the dad is) had sex with a guy and then told the guy is he dont give her $400 she would tell the police that he raped her now the story the kid that usually stay with my cousin was visiting and the mother sent back for the kid so usually all the mother said was they were going out ok my cousin left to go to his usually hangout on saturday then the mother showed up with all her kids all of a sudden my cousin wife was with him now as usual she had money but still inisit he buys food for them and not the wife and he did then he proceed to leave his wife at this place at night in order to drop home this woman who by the way talk alot of crap about him now there alot more to this story but all cant fit but what do you think

I've been divorced for 5 years. It was an extrmemly painful divorce for me, and my ex took me to court for joint custody. Although painful to only see my kids every other week it has been beneficial to my children. Their dad and I live about 5 minutes from each other. It's been 3 years sharing houses and each year gets a little easier. But yes I'm extrmemly hurt. I tell my mom the kids are better off this way. She is so angry now she won't even babysit my kids of their dad is to pick them up from my house. I have to either get alternate childcare or make sure I am home when he comes to get them. My son mentioned to my mom that he had a friend over when he was with his dad. She looked at me and said why would he invite friends over there? I said well because he's in junior high and having friends over is part of being a kid?!! She said oh. Well I don't like it. I told her that she's going to have to get over this for the kids' sake. I said believe me I'm a lot more hurt than you. He cheated on me and left me for another woman. That woman is now their step mom. But I'm trying very hard to be positive for my kids. Is there a way for both of us to forgive ourselves and my ex husband ?

I started talking to this guy and we were texting almost everyday. He told me that he likes me alot. He works 7days a week and said that he will make the time to meet me but he has not. He told me that he doesn't like games and he rather be honest but not saying anything is not being honest it is hiding. So i wanted to let him know that I think he is a great guy but that I will not be waiting for him. It seems that you have a crazy schedule right now. All I wanted was the chance to meet you because you sound like a great guy to know. I understand so take your time, do what you have to do and I will do the same. I just hope that I'm still available when you find the time because I deserve someone who will be there for me. Take care and hope you find your happiness. Please opinion on this statement if I should say this to the guy.