i want to move to pa my wife is sick here in florida she cant go with me she is mentally ill i need to find work ,i have lots of job leads then i will settle down and come back and get her in about a month or so ,medicaid in pa is so much better , florida is the worst for doctors and health care she is disabled , her parents and her say they will try and stop me if i go ..i m trying to better my life ...if i cant do this i will seek divorce i gave up two careers for her

My mother backs up this logic by saying it's due to a lack of experience with other people both sexually and otherwise. Thoughts?

I'm 20 and I love beauty too much. I fear that maybe if I got married there would be chances that I start disliking my future wife and to get stuck in marriage. What do you think?

I know a childhood friend thats getting married soon to someone shes only gone out with a year and is only 21. Its crazy to me, shes only 21 and thinking back on it, people can completely change this young and neither one of them has a degree or high paying job, so can someone even in better conditions be "too young"?

i want to move to pa my wife is sick here in florida she cant go with me she is mentally ill i need to find work ,i have lots of job leads then i will settle down and come back and get her in about a month or so ,medicaid in pa is so much better , florida is the worst for doctors and health care she is disabled , her parents and her say they will try and stop me if i go ..i m trying to better my life ...if i cant do this i will seek divorce i gave up two careers for her

My husband has disconnected from the family voluntarily. When he gets home from work he goes into his cave and locks the door so that we cant get in. I know that everyone needs alone time but he will stay in there until everyone is in bed. Its been going on for over three years now. We have some serious issues going on within the family and he offers no ideas or anything. We have had this talk about his disconnect many times. He comes out of his cave and tries to be present but only for a couple of days, than its back to the same behavior. We dont go on dates anymore. He gets up every Saturday morning and leaves the house without telling me where hes going and hes gone for hours. He doesn't seem to care about being around. I think he wants a divorce but is waiting for me to ask first.

I'm not even a Christian and it makes perfect sense to me. A submissive wife and a dominant husband make sweet music together. It's just the way of nature. The way things -work.- I'm 40 and all my friends who are now married with children are miserable. Husbands are sex-starved and under the gun to make more money. When will this charade be over with?

I work out regularly, I dress nice for him, ive gone to strip clubs with him, other men and women tell me I'm attractive, but he doesn't seem to respond to my look, it's difficult to arouse him without porn or fantasies. He says he thinks I'm attractive but I'm feeling rejected.

Being married for several years my wife somehow grew some sort of a mustache and kissing her grosses me out because it feels like kissing a dude. How do I tell her ..nicely??

I have been married for 4 years. We are both middle 30s without kids. The problem is that my husband thinks it's acceptable to put his hands on me. He wasn't like this before we got married and were just dating...it only started after we moved in together and got married. My husband will hit me on my arm, or other places with his fist, pinch me, push me in my face with his hand, pull my hair, etc. The thing is, he always frames it in a way to say that he's just playing. When I complain about what he's doing, he will often say, "I didn't hurt you, or I didn't even hit you hard". He also makes joking threats about doing bodily harm like telling me he could just gut me when I do something to piss him off. Or we frequently watch crime shows together and if someone happens to live or something after being attacked he will say the attacker didn't do it right. I've told him before that he's trying to hurt me, and he will jokingly say he's not going to hurt me yet, because he doesn't have a policy (life insurance) on me yet. Again, he does this while laughing and framing it in a way that he's joking. He also has mood swings a lot and he can go from being happy and us joking and playing, to him getting angry about something and refusing to talk to me. The thing is, I don't let him get away with his behavior. When he gives me silent treatment, I confront him and call him on it for being immature. If he hits me, I hit him back. I don't let him get physically violent with me without me responding and retaliating and not letting him get away with it. I'm just wondering is this considered an abusive relationship if i'm fighting back? I've told him his behavior is abusive and he denies it, and will ask, "if i'm abusive then why are you with me?" He claims to be playing with me and if he does something that hurts or bothers me he will get pissed and say, "fine, I just won't touch you again." Does anyone have any advice? I don't fear him, i'm just tired of fighting. I've suggested he get counseling, but of course he doesn't think he needs it because he's just "joking". I'm unsure why my question keeps changing categories, but i'd really prefer that it remain here in Marriage and Divorce. I'm not joking or trolling, it's a legitimate question so please stop moving it.

Im a married man.

am gone Mon - Fri from 8:30am to 6pm for my job. My evenings consist of making dinner, doing dishes and tending to the family pets.. My weekends are spent catching up on laundry, errand running, not including grocery shopping. My husband works 6am to 6pm, sometimes 7 or 8pm.. His time off, however is spent lounging on the couch, playing with his smart phone or watching reruns on tv. I know he works more hours than I do, and I know he has chronic back pain, but I do not see where that gets him a free pass around here.. I also have a 19 yr old stepson, who REFUSES to work. Claims that his brain needs a break, in the meantime, he doesn't lift a finger to do a thing around the house.., stays locked up in his bedroom and only comes out to use the bathroom, or see what's for dinner. He hoards dishes in his room, so there are times, I come home to ten times the amount of dishes in the sink. I am lucky enough that he washes his own clothes..I am on my last nerve. I am by no means asking them to do everything, but something would be nice.. Don't even get me started on the yardwork.. And I can not just leave a mess where it sits, that's not me.. I hate that ...HOW CAN I TELL MY STEPSON TO HELP... I HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT CANCELING THE INTERNET, AND THE 200+ TV STATIONS THAT WE PAY FOR, THAT HE FREELY ENJOYS. BUT THATS NOT FAIR TO ME, AS I DO ENJOY THOSE MYSELF WHEN I GET THE CHANCE.

I caught my significant other lying about stupid things......simple things like where did you go get coffee from that morning and did your ex stop by your place to see their kids? I'm not the type to constantly investigate or question my spouse however their have been a lot of things that have come up by accident where I discovered lies by accident and discrepancies in their stories that don't make sense. When confronted this person says they forgot and they shouldn't have to remember everything and gets very angry and even cries but never air to any dishonesty. I end up letting it go but it builds up inside and deep down I don't trust them. They are wanting me to marry them and even though Iove this person very much I don't think I can ever fully trust them. I feel as ive backed down to them too much and feel like and idiot/doormat/crazy. What should I do?

Today, my husband and I were having dinner and he told me he wanted to join the Air Force. I all of the sudden lost my appetite and felt like I was punched in the gut😩😭😭😭😔. I talked to my husband and I'm trying to convince him not to join. The reason I don't want him to join is because I will never forgive myself if anything bad happens to him. I love him to death and he's the best husband I could ever ask for😊☺😘😚❤❤. I always want to be with him and by his side a lot. I hear about all of these military deaths and the bad things that happen. I watched military movies that show how violent and dangerous the military is. I want the best for my husband☺. I love my husband and he really loves me.💕💖💖 My husband is the really kind, caring, loving, handsome and intelligent. He also has his bachelors degree in engineering. Btw, he's 25 and I'm 26 and we have been married for 5 years. I don't want my husband making the biggest mistake of his life. What can I do to make my husband not join the military? I really love my husband more then any of you can imagine. ☺😊😇😇😙😙😘😘😚😚💕💕💖💖❤❤💗💗💝💝💞💞 Thank you for the help.☺

I am gone Mon - Fri from 8:30am to 6pm for my job. My evenings consist of making dinner, doing dishes and tending to the family pets.. My weekends are spent catching up on laundry, errand running, not including grocery shopping. My husband works 6am to 6pm, sometimes 7 or 8pm.. His time off, however is spent lounging on the couch, playing with his smart phone or watching reruns on tv. I know he works more hours than I do, and I know he has chronic back pain, but I do not see where that gets him a free pass around here.. I also have a 19 yr old stepson, who REFUSES to work. Claims that his brain needs a break, in the meantime, he doesn't lift a finger to do a thing around the house.., stays locked up in his bedroom and only comes out to use the bathroom, or see what's for dinner. He hoards dishes in his room, so there are times, I come home to ten times the amount of dishes in the sink. I am lucky enough that he washes his own clothes..I am on my last nerve. I am by no means asking them to do everything, but something would be nice.. Don't even get me started on the yardwork.. And I can not just leave a mess where it sits, that's not me.. I hate that ...HOW CAN I TELL MY STEPSON TO HELP... I HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT CANCELING THE INTERNET, AND THE 200+ TV STATIONS THAT WE PAY FOR, THAT HE FREELY ENJOYS. BUT THATS NOT FAIR TO ME, AS I DO ENJOY THOSE MYSELF WHEN I GET THE CHANCE.

My wife has been complimented numerous times for her gorgeous feet. And legs. There is opportunity for her to model for shoe companies . However she is too shy. How can I increase her confidence?

Sometimes after masturbating by vagina has small pains a couple hours later. I use my fingers but I know this pain is not normal and I've never been with a guy. There something wrong with me? No it's not soreness but pain. Like little sharp pains inside and I don't do it too long, maybe 5-10 minutes

So, I have been married now for 2 years and recently feel as though I have fallen in love with an old friend of mine. I haven t done anything with him (lives in a different state). It s against all my beliefs to feel this way. My husband isn t a bad guy although I was very hesitant to marry him. In the beginning of the marriage I feel like I had to pay for everything his ex wife did to him and in a way I kinda married my husband out of fear of how he might have reacted if I said no. I was in a bad situation and I let him rush me into getting married. I could basically have ended up homeless. I feel so dumb. When I met my husband he was supposed to be my landlord but he didn t want to accept money from me. I had gotten out of and abusive relationship when I married my husband and he basically took me in and took care of my kid and I. It would be a lie to say I felt no love for my husband but at the same time I feel like if I had not been in a bad situation I would not have really married him either.

So we ve got Man #1, which is Woman s husband, and then Man #2, which is the man that the woman cheated on her husband with. Man #2 is single, no kids, no wife, no girlfriend. Is it all the woman s fault? Should Man #2 be able to be part of the affair and have a free and clear conscious? Is Man #2 to blame as well? Should he feel guilty if he allows himself to partake in an affair with a woman whom he knows is married and has a child with her husband?

I can't control her, I get it. But when a fearful, scared, insecure woman tries to make solutions to her anxieties using real world changes instead of internal reconditioning..... Yeah.... She needs to change. Example: We had an Amber Alert near our area (within 25 miles). My wife would normally ignore these things because she's sensitive, but because of the easy use of the internet, she did research on this Amber Alert and found out that it (likely) had a tragic conclusion due to domestic violence with a poor POC man. This caused her to start to panic over HER safety and she couldn't sleep. Rather than ask for comfort, my wife just chose to lay there awake until I offered to comfort her when I got up to use the bathroom and noticed she was still awake. So how do I force her to just accept her human condition and lean into her vulnerabilities? Mind you ----- She perceives a problem in her approach to solving her anxieties BUT she refuses to get medicine for it. This leaves her to having to deal with it herself or with MY help and so far she hasn't asked for MY help and instead prefers to suffer. Or prefers to dominate everyone in the house to make sure things (like failure) don't occur.

Suppose you are 26 year old man and didn't had any relationship but you are going to marry a girl who had 10 years relations with someone. she is same age. some facts to be consider : 1. her mom is her dad's second wife. (but you are not) 2. very extrovert (opposite of your type) 3. like to enjoy late night party.. dj party, wedding party in every week. ( but you don't like these much fun) 4. She is too much rude to you sometimes . don't like to answer any of your question. 5. She wants you to give treat to her family always though your earning is limited. 6. she focused on nice boys beside her though you are there. 7. Talked very openly, about sexual matter every time. 8. and finally wants to leave you coz you asked her about her daily duties. will you try to get back her and though your family is not support you to marry her. but as she is your 1st love somehow. you can't forget. will you marry this girl? n.b: her strength is her beautiful skin and silky hair. that makes her different from others nothing else.

I don't wanna die! I don't know how to drive in a BIG city like Denver? yes HE was drving and turned against a RED light. I come from a 800 ppl town. I walked or rode my bike. Skagway ALaska did NOT have gridlock and stupid NON WHITE crack head pot head drivers! **** YOU ******* AND GOOKS SPICKS DYKES AND BULLDYKES AND FUDGE PACKERS AND ANUS LICKERS THIS IS AN M&D QUESTION. SHOVE YOUR GODAMN "SAFETY" ***** **** AND GET A LIFE

A couple of months ago I found out that my husband hasn t been submitting his part of our rent for months. Now in the search of finding a new place I want to tell him that I no longer want to live together. That I want to move out and live on my own with our 5 yr old. Thing is, I know he probably can t afford a place on his own....I don t know what to do or even how to tell him how I feel. We ve been so distant for so long, and I avoid confrontation at all cost. Please help

So my husband donates plasma to help people. Well he normally takes 4 hours when he takes him self. But it I bring him he is done in one hour. We just got a second car and he left at 9am. I went there at 10 and he wasn't there. I waited and he didn't pull up until 1145. He claimed he was at a hospital. Waiting 2 hours for them to serve lunch. Why he would go to a hospital beats me. The plasma center is it's own building. I don't know what to think. He has to be up to no good right

I am 53 year old female who has been married for 28 years. I am struggling whether I should stay in my marriage. My husband cheated on me once about 5 years ago with a woman living in a housing project that he was working, it hapoened only once during his lunch hour. He pleaded with me not to leave and that I was his solemate and that he loved me. Well a couple years after that he asked me if he could take an all male nude yoga class and I told him that I did not understand why he wnted to do that, he thought I was beinf unreasonable. I gave in and let him, well I foynd out that he had sex with one of the yoga participants becasuse I intercepted an email he sent to him. I told my husband it was over and he cried his heart out and begged me to forgive him and I did because I believe in trying to keep a marriage together, I also found out there were others before him. He has not been unfauthful since but he continues ti ask for impossible things. He now wants to do nude modeling fir art classes, I am uncomfortable with his disrobing in front of other men and women. He dies nit seem to care about how I feel. He teases me about it and has jouned a nude modeling meet up group and has been offered some jobs but has not acted on them yet. How can one oersonask so much of his solemate and claim to love them? I am si disheartened, He does have alot of good qualitys and I dolove him we have alot of fun together but I am breaking. Am I wrong for feeling this way