Family: Question: What should I do to make my sister understand that our brother needs help, and how can I help him? |
- Question: What should I do to make my sister understand that our brother needs help, and how can I help him?
- Question: Help me out?
- Question: What is family, to you? Easter.?
- Question: Why does my little sister always tries to be better than me!?
- Question: My mum says I will never get a boyfriend?
- Question: I have a moral dilemma?
- Question: Why doesn't my wife care?
- Question: Dad not taking me on trips READ BELOW?
- Question: My sister is abusing my mothers money and social services refuses to do anything about it.?
- Question: Can my mom call the cops and get my baby taken away from me?
- Question: Do you set aside personal differences when it comes to taking care of your family?
- Question: My dad is always disappointed in me?!?
- Question: Move with boyfriend across the country?
- Question: Would it be okay if i got my dad a pocket pussy for his birthdy?
- Question: My mother has been gambling for more than a decade. Help?
- Question: Home vs. school?
- Question: My mom makes me feel guilty for spending her money?
- Question: Is it okay for me to tell people?
- Question: Is Tionne "T-Boz" Watkins suffering from a stress disorder?
- Question: Help ?! My grandad?
- Question: I love my dad but I'm starting to think he might be unhealthy for me to be around?
- Question: Why Cant I be a normal teenager?
- Question: My bra fell on the floor!?
- Question: Stepmom problems?
- Question: Legal issues?
- Question: My sister hits me infront of my mother and my mother doesn't do anything?
- Question: My mom is being unreasonable?
- Question: How do I get my aunt to stop spreading hateful rumors that my SO is an incestuous pedophile?
- Question: My Dad wants to hire a neighbor to only dust his house once a week. How much should he pay her ?
- Question: How do I keep this from my husband?
- Question: Can't stand my bf's child.?
- Question: My mom won't take me to school?
- Question: Did my grandmother raise me?
- Question: My Family Is Lying To Me????? Or What..?
- Question: My cousin is really childish and girly....?
- Question: Legitimizing daughter.?
- Question: How do I find out if I was adopted?
- Question: QUESTION ABOUT GOING TO DOCTOR CLINICS?
- Question: I cant go to cons unless my mom comes...i need help?
- Question: QUESTION ABOUT DEPOSITING A CHEQUE TO MY BANK ACCOUNT?
- Question: I feel depressed, should I move back?
- Question: Why do some parents not want their kids to go to college?
- Question: Is it ok to have the non biological father on birth certificate?
- Question: When will my mom have to stop calling the cops on me?
- Question: I really hate my sister?
- Question: At what age should I teach my kids to fear the police?
- Question: My Mom is always so mean and nasty to me?
- Question: *Urgent* what do i do ?
- Question: Finding my family...?
- Question: I need advise about my issues with my mother?
- Question: If you were a Child who had parents who drunk and slept alot and was agressive when awoke, what would you do?
- Question: My mom found my weed Please HELP?
- Question: Why do fathers try to hide the truth from their wives about the daughter being on social media showing hentai pictures?
- Question: My dad hits me.. Am 20!?
- Question: My parents never give me any privacy.?
- Question: Do all moms expect their kids to do what they wont do themselves?
- Question: Is this a Good story for april 1st?
- Question: My ex wife comes to my house under the guise of my kid,tends,cleans cooks for me when its not her job anymore she should let me move on?
- Question: Ignored and left out. How to cope?
- Question: My twin sister has been having the worst year, how can I help cheer her up when nothing works?
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:26 PM PDT My brother is 20, and he used to be really confident and outgoing. He had lots of friends and even a girlfriend for about a year. He and I were/are really close brothers as well. Suddenly though, he started to get really violent and angry at us. The littlest things would set him off and either make him throw things or start crying but he wouldn't tell anyone why. He started spending less and less time with us. He got less and less sleep at night and yelled out in his sleep a lot. His girlfriend ended up leaving him too during that time. This went on for a couple months until he finally told me and my sister that some guy had raped him. I tried to tell him that I was there for him but my sister just laughed at him. I don't understand why she can't see that he's hurting very badly, and that she shouldn't laugh. He was so hurt that he ended up locking himself up in his room and I could hear him crying. He hasn't told our parents yet. I suggested to him that he should ignore our sister, but she takes every opportunity she can to make fun of him. Even though I try to tell her why that's ****** up she just laughs at me. He doesn't want to go to the police and I've tried to convince him to seek therapy but he doesn't seem to want to. For now I'm just trying to let him know that even though our sister's a *****, I'll be there for him, but I'm afraid that won't be enough, especially with her cackling like a banshee all the time. |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:23 PM PDT Im a 24 year old male, i am gay i have a boyfriend we both love each other. But my mom doesnt know im gay she doesnt approve of me being gay if i told her in im so tired of holding my sexuality in. I dont know what to do sometimes i feel suicidal i think ill never be free. |
| Question: What is family, to you? Easter.? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:21 PM PDT Maybe I'm feeling emotional on a whim of a moment. But basically, my boyfriend of 4 years said he wanted me over for Easter and when he asked his mom she said that Easter is a time for family and I should be with mine as they are with theirs. This triggered a very empty space in my heart. I have some family. My mother (I love the lady, but we dont get along well), my 3 great aunts (2 whom I live with and one that is out of state) and my 2nd cousin who also lives out of state. (theyre all wayyy older than me too) there are also various others who are more like 4rth or 5th cousins that I dont see often. (Im not kidding, thats it) then there are those who werent really there. (I just met some of my dads side including my dad less than a year ago, not knowing them long, many feel like aquaintences rather than family) My family is whoever the hell I consider family and I care about them just as much as if we had the same blood running through our veins. (Like it matters anyway, I dont care one bit for blood) My bf is the closest person in the world to me right now. I feel so much heart ache thinking about that idea of thought... family (blood) being so important... the most important thing... it makes me feel so empty to even think about that being my reality. I suppose unless someone has felt or been in my situation, they wont ever understand. |
| Question: Why does my little sister always tries to be better than me!? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:21 PM PDT For example: she does two things: ask questions to me or my parents that she knows she is the best in. Like "Mom, dad, who is more flexible? Who goes outside more? who is bla bla bla..." She knows we have to say her. AND THIS MAKES ME SO MAD I WANT TO PUNCH HER! Or she just makes random comments in my room when I'm studying: E.g. " I think my room is better" or "My room is more organized." <-- even though that isn't true at all, and she knows it. I tell her, why you have to be such a jerk? Could you stop? And shes says I'm the jerk. I swear, 8 year old girls are so sassy these days. |
| Question: My mum says I will never get a boyfriend? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:20 PM PDT I'm overweight quite fat. I said to my mum today I want a boyfriend and she said "Less burgers then" and she's said similar things in the past that I need to lose weight for a boy to like me because all men are shallow.. She bought me some shoes and a coat today and we have a laugh. Is she delibretly trying to be nasty?? |
| Question: I have a moral dilemma? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:18 PM PDT Normally my family does not do easter stuff cause it is not a big deal but since my sister has a one year old she wants the family to get together for easter dinner. The problem is- my family. If it is my mom and me and my youngest sister it is usually pleasant but when all of them get together it is almost ALWAYS ruined by my other two sisters whether it be fighting, screaming, or their extreme mood swings we most of the time cannot have a pleasant get together. Not only that my other two sisters are LOUD as **** and constantly need stimulation they are screaming, playing the same songs over again, step dancing ( we are white) and talking over each other. I live in the apartment above my mom and I can hear it through my frontroom. I do not want to go because they will more then likely ruin it. They ruined my birthday with arguing, my one sister ruined it last year by making my mom cry.She has the ability to make things very uncomfortable real fast and the other sister and her have mood swings up the ***. I am contemplating lying to my mom by saying I am working but I live in the apartment above her and still have to hear that ****. But I do not want to go down there and deal with them and have it more then likely be ruined. What should I do? |
| Question: Why doesn't my wife care? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:18 PM PDT I don't think my wife cares at all. So my daughter, at 16, weighs around 230. Her diet is just junk food. Her exercise is none. Getting up off the sofa is difficult and climbing stairs is sweat inducing. We just never set limits. She's having to buy bigger and bigger clothes. We(wife and I) frequently get doughnuts on Sat. morning and 2 pizzas on Friday nights. She eats a large pizza solo. My wife is constantly brushing it off as " a growing girl needs food". Yeah, she's growing, bigger and bigger daily( feel awful saying it. I decided to confront my wife on it while my daughter was at school. Me: * expresses concern* Her: It's just a teenage thing, they're hungry all the time. Me: No, she's just eating to eat, it's all junk. Her: Her metabolism will burn most of it. Me: Obviously not if she's 230. Her: You're overreacting Me: And you're delusional, she's nearing obesity and she's out of shape period. Her: Well we'll let her decide if she wants to change her lifestyle. Me: No, we need to take control as parents Her: It's her life Me: Fine, let her keep guzzling down doughnuts and pizza until she's too big to fit through the front door. |
| Question: Dad not taking me on trips READ BELOW? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:15 PM PDT I recently learned that my dad is going Spain, cancun, and Las Vegas. He never takes me on these trips (I'm his son) but, he takes his wife (stepmom of mine). Should I have a right to be angry? Should I live go with my mom? Should I talk to him about it? Any advice? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:08 PM PDT My sister has been taking care of my mother for 9 years. She doesn't have POA or anything she just does it. In the last two years my siblings and i have noticed that bills has not been getting paid, no work or up keep to my mothers house has been done and it is constantly dwindling. She has my mother's debit card and my mother has her social security check that goes to my mothers bank direct deposit and my sister deposit her retirement check to my moms bank. A total of $1500 a month. My mother's house is paid for and all is needed to pay is the taxes. ($1,200 a year) My brother is paying that because my sister say she can't pay that. He is threatening to no longer pay which means the house would eventually be lost. My sister couldn't pay for a garbage disposal in a whole year because she said she didn't have the money. I found bank statements that showed my sister is spending the money on herself and not saving or using the money for things in the house such as repairs etc. She spends about $200 a month on my mother and the rest on herself. I contacted a social worker through the APS hotline. A worker came out but she went by what she saw physically. that my mother is clean and no marks. She said she see nothing wrong and that my sister claimed all is well. Who believes a thief? The social worker doesn't seem as if they want to do their job. I need any advice as to if I could contact other people other than the social worker that will intervene. Any help please. |
| Question: Can my mom call the cops and get my baby taken away from me? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:54 PM PDT Im 17 and my mom kicked me out because she doesnt like my daughters dad and she dont want me with him so she said by tonight i need to get out but she said i cant take my daughter .if i take my baby can she call the cops and get them to take her away from me ? I mean i know they will take them away if there getting abused or starved but he has his own apartment. And everything. And she definitely not getting. Abused so can she take my baby away ? |
| Question: Do you set aside personal differences when it comes to taking care of your family? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:53 PM PDT for example, if you didnt get along with half of the family and stopped showing up to family functions.....would you set aside your differences during weddings and funerals? or purposely NOT go or invite, because you hate the other side of your family? basically, what im asking is "are you weak enough to exclude out of hate"? or "are you strong enough to set aside your pride for the common good"? |
| Question: My dad is always disappointed in me?!? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:52 PM PDT I got a bad grade on my math final last year and my semester exam this year. So my dad sent me to tutoring. He's always telling me to work on extremely hard and challenging problems, like Einstein material. I do work on hard problems, a little ways above my grade level. I work so hard now to please him, sit at my desk all day and study my butt off, and my dad still says stuff like, "what is this?! this is so easy! this is equivalent to 2nd grd stuff back in Asia!" or "i don't know what your future is gonna be like. you're so stupid, you'll probably become a homeless person on the street picking up sh*t" and he hits me sometimes if he gets really mad. he'll look at me with disappointment on his face and whine about what a complete loser I am. this really makes me upset and it has my self esteem lowering. i get that he works hard to get money to provide for me and expects me to do good in school, but if I'm not perfect he'll swing at me?! can he not see how i'm trying my best and how i work my a*s off everyday to make him proud?! I dread going home from school everyday and i don't anticipate for breaks, weekends, or summer vacation because i'll have to hear him whine all the time about me. i've tried telling him to stop but he's like, "you don't get to tell me what to do! you're dumb and i'm your father so u must listen to me!" it's not my fault that i'm not a perfect daughter. or is it? maybe i'm not working hard enough. but please help. i'm really tired of all this. |
| Question: Move with boyfriend across the country? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:49 PM PDT Ok so I want to go 400 km away to my country's capital town to study medicine and I want to convince my boyfriend to go with me. He has everything here (where we live now) : JOB, family, friends, his own appartment, and a FREE university to go study at. Ok, I can do the med school here, I have my family, less expenses, and a very very good university ,but I don't wanna stay here anymore.... So things are simple . I know he'll make me choose between him or moving in another city... and he ll have to choose between having everything or lose all for me.. How and what should I tell him and how should I convince him? |
| Question: Would it be okay if i got my dad a pocket pussy for his birthdy? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:49 PM PDT |
| Question: My mother has been gambling for more than a decade. Help? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:40 PM PDT |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:37 PM PDT Hi, I am a sophomore in high school and I've having issues with my mom. The thing is that it is really difficult for me to have good grades, a social life and cleaning that house all at the same time. I mean specially because the homework that I receive is too much for me. I am taking 7 classes and when I get home I am exhausted and then I have to do homework. I dont even have time to watch television or do something else because then I will end my homework at 10pm and by that time I knock out and fall asleep. So whenever I get to my house, my mom keeps annoying me about cleaning the house or keeping it organized and sometimes I tell her that I'm exhausted and she begins to tell me how she always has to do it and I feel guilty because I wish I could be those type of persons that enjoys cleaning the house and have a perfect life but I am not like that. My hobbies are doing homework and having good grades so that later on my life I can be something and not end up working at a place where all I have to do is clean. How do I balance homework and helping in the house at the same time? Most people do it but I honestly don't even know how. Can anyone please give me advice? |
| Question: My mom makes me feel guilty for spending her money? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:29 PM PDT I'm 17 years old and have always had issues with spending (more like wasting) money. My family is very wealthy, more than upper middle class. Out of my siblings I spend the least (two sisters horse ride and brother is super spoilt) yet whenever I used money I always felt guilty. My mom is now making it so much worse ever since the divorce, as she only gets a certain sum instalments every year plus monthly maintenance for us kids. She doesn't know how to manage it and whenever I ask lunch money or train money she makes it weigh on me. She always complains yet spends thousands on alcohol cigarettes (those piss me off) and useless trips with her boyfriend plus everything for him as he doesn't work (also motorbike, apartment etc.). I feel so bad, I know if I take her money it's even worse for her since she can't even manage what she has. It's not just passing guilt either it's constant and gives me physical pain it's like I wish I could help and be in control so as to reassure myself and her but I can't. |
| Question: Is it okay for me to tell people? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:25 PM PDT I just became a member of the Order of the Eastern Star but I became member in a different state (not the state I live in) I'm very excited but technically I was supposed to become one in the state I reside in so I'm hesitant to tell people. Should I just wait until I become a member of a chapter in my state? What should I do? |
| Question: Is Tionne "T-Boz" Watkins suffering from a stress disorder? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:11 PM PDT I was wondering because ever since she left Destiny's Child, she hasnt been the same. Everything from going postal on your brother-in-law in the elevator, to burning your husbands house down, can take a toll on you. |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:11 PM PDT My grandad had a stroke so he is paralysed and his brain cells are dead. He acts like a baby sometimes and sees things that aren't there. He's gotten into a habit of calling my nan mae(mum) and whenever she isn't with him he keeps calling Mae please! All the time! He never stops for five minutes it's just nonstop and it's driving my nan crazy. How can we stop this? She's 70 years old and she only looks after him Thankyou no rude comments please |
| Question: I love my dad but I'm starting to think he might be unhealthy for me to be around? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:10 PM PDT I'm not quite sure what my question is, but maybe I can have some advice? I love my dad. Ever since I was little I was 'daddy's girl' kinda thing. And out of the both of my parents I always felt like he was the one who believed in me, but now things are changing. He's being pushy about my future and demanding me to do what he wants me to do! He tells me who to date and everything! And when I asked him if he believed in me and that I can publish books he had doubt in his face! Idk, he's just been pushy and controlling! I can't take it. Sorry for typos and bad grammar. I'm on my phone. |
| Question: Why Cant I be a normal teenager? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:08 PM PDT Whenever my parents and I have problems and we start a fight, I try to be a rebel and not do my homework or try to be a failure in school like any other teenager. But I can't! ( I am a sophomore in high school.) is like I want to be fail my classes but whenever I try I over think and I end up doing my homework and study. It breaks my heart to not doing my homework because I've worked so much on my grades and If I have a bad grade I know that it will take me a lot of work to get those grades back! I've seen how most of my friends have bad grades and they don't care but I can't be like them because it is something is hard for me to stop. Why cant I be like them? Like, not care? Why do I care so much? This is a gift and a curse at the same time! What should I do to stop this? Thank you. |
| Question: My bra fell on the floor!? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT last week i went on vacation with my dad's family. i had to sleep in a hotel room with about seven people. so usually when i go to the bathroom to change clothes, i hide my bra and underwear that i plan on wearing inside my shirt and pants. well i left my clothes that i was going to wear on one of the hotel beds. but then my little sister decided to pick it up and give it to me. my bra fell out of the clothes and my step mom saw and told my sister to put the clothes back. i know my step mom's a woman but i feel embarrassed. am i just making a big deal out of this or does this happen to a lot of girls? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:55 AM PDT My dad is in Florida right now and my stepmom is watching my brother and I but, she won't let us go to our moms house. Is it legally allowed to travel to a birth parents home if they live in the same town and the other parent is out of the state? Please help I don't want to stay with my stepmom. |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:53 AM PDT I need some advice on something. My mom moved in with two people, one is her cousin. My mom just lost her car, so she couldn't work. The lease is in her cousin's name, so when she lost her car she couldn't work or help pay the rent. Shes moving in with my grandmother, and when we went to the apartment we noticed the locks had been changed, so she called her cousin, and tells him she need to get her stuff, but he says he won't let her get them unless she pays him 2000 dollars. She called the police, but they said because her name is not on the lease she can't get her stuff. She held most of my stuff like my ssn card, and my medicare papers, not to mention all the stuff she had worked so hard to get. I just want to know what is the best to go about this situation. |
| Question: My sister hits me infront of my mother and my mother doesn't do anything? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:45 AM PDT So i've always wanted to ask a question here on yahoo but i hesitated now finally i'm asking because i am so damn tired of all of this , so i am 15 and my sister is 8 and my parents always treat her like a 1 year old she always gets away with everything she always hits me infront of my mother and my mother doesn't do **** and also she alawys gets what she wants because she always says to all people if you don't do me this i will do this example if you don't buy me stickers i will not go to school or eat she's so immature and my parents are such a fools they do whatever she wants and she's a theif she steals money from them and they know and don't do anything and when it comes to me they always tell me your the big sister you should raise your little sister how can i raise her when you didn't plus she doesn't respect me she hits me with a shoe and an ipad infront of my mother and my mother doesn't do anything i tell her do something she just sits there and my dad is also spoiling my little sister and when i till him he says deal with it with your mother and he always hugs my little sister and **** and when i hit my sister back they shout at me they don't care about me what should i do to stop this behavior i cannot move out untill i'm maried because thats how our culture is and i don't wanna get married so should i just suck it up and wait for my sister to get married or should i convence my mom to have another child so that their attention for my little sister will lessens |
| Question: My mom is being unreasonable? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:43 AM PDT I'm a junior in highschool and within the past year my mother and I have grown increasingly more apart and more hostile towards eachother. I go out with friends and my boyfriend when i'm free and do my chores when i'm home, get good grades, etc. My mom thinks that ever since i started dating my boyfriend almost 2 years ago, i've become a ***** and that i'm cold and care about no one but myself (she just told me this). We initially started talking when i got home from school an hour ago and she started hitting me as a joke and i told her to stop. She called me a ***** and told me to do the dishes. While i was doing them I told her i was going out with my grandma and she asked what i was going out to do and i said "to spend a day with my grandmother" and she got pissed off at me and said I was "grounded until further notice" and that she was suspending my phone. I tried telling her that the reason i cant talk to her anymore is because she's always dismissive towards me and she went off. She also said "think carefully of what you say to your grandmother or ill make this a hell of a lot harder for you". What do i do? My boyfriend's birthday is this Saturday and i already ordered the cake. My mom has continuously belittled me and I'm at a point where I have lost all respect towards her. |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:42 AM PDT I'm 26, and I have been in a serious relationship with Edison for 5 years. Edison is 40 now. He was in the Armed Forces for almost 20 years and never got around to settling down. We met in fairly odd circumstances. He was in foster care for most of his teens, at 15 he was placed with this one family that he stayed with until he joined the Army. He then moved away from the city in which they live to be closer to his Army base. Not long after he left, I was placed in that same family's care when I was 5 and I was later adopted by them. After about 16 years Edison decided to reconnect with my family which is when we first met. We started a relationship soon after. We are NOT blood related nor did we grow up as "brother and sister" but two of my aunts have took it upon themselves to call Ed an incestuous pedophile and spread that hate throughout the neighborhood. My aunts won't speak to Ed or about him unless it's something horrible. This causes a lot of arguements as we see my aunts at least once a week and the rest of the family love Ed. Strangers have called Ed a "pedophile", "dirty old man" and other vulgar things to his face in the street and even infront of our child. I don't want my baby to hear that. Ed ignores it the best he can but I know it gets to him, he has suffered from mild PTSD after his time in the forces and with that comes depression so these jabs at our relationship are not good for his mental health. This needs to stop. What should I do? |
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| Question: How do I keep this from my husband? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:30 AM PDT I asked this question last week but I want to get more opinions on it: I just found out that my husbands brother (the one I can't stand) molested his two younger sisters when they were children (they are all adults now) His sister just told me yesterday. The thing is, my husband (their older brother) doesn't know it. I hate his brother; he always says I talk like a "white woman", he wrote an awful message about me on my husband facebook page for everyone to see,but my husband is very loyal to him and his whole family in general. My evil side of me wants to blow the lid off this thing and tell him because I know he will never speak to him again and I won't have to worry about his brother trying to ruin our relationship like he has done in the past but at the same time, I don't want my husband to go to jail for trying to kill his brother after he finds out what he did. When you really think about it, its none of my business, but I really want this man out of our lives for good. Should I tell him or find a way to make his sister tell him? |
| Question: Can't stand my bf's child.? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:24 AM PDT This little 6 year old is so spoiled. Her father and I bought her board games and she had the nerve to tell her father that she wasn't going to waste her money on buying a game ( she wasn't happy with the two we bought her and wanted more). Then asked her daddy for candy for breakfast. I overheard him telling her that she can't have it. She came and asked me could she have some. I SAID NO. This child will whine when she can't have her way. She acted up in the store when we were buying her games her dad didn't let her have icecream. She acted a fool in the car because she couldn't have that too. I love them both but I'm tired of her. I was not raised to act that way. What to do |
| Question: My mom won't take me to school? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:19 AM PDT My kneecap shifted (not exactly sure what happened but I know it moved a way it's not supposed to) so I couldn't walk. This happened on Monday so I didn't go to school. On Tuesday I didn't go again bc it still hurt. Today is Wednesday and when I woke up this morning I couldn't move my leg without feeling pain. My mom got really mad bc she thought I could go to school today but bc of my knee I couldn't. I asked her if maybe she could drop me off later to school if I took some pain meds and just waited for them to work. I ended up falling asleep bc medicine makes me really drowsy. She told me to get ready and I did, but it took an hour bc I had to be careful showering, walking, and getting dressed with my knee. I came downstairs fully dressed and now she won't take me any more Anything I can do to convince her otherwise? At my school it's around lunchtime so there are still 4 more classes I can go to. |
| Question: Did my grandmother raise me? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:12 AM PDT Hello there, My grandmother recently passed, and ever so often people ask me : "Did your grandmother raise you?" I tend to say "you can say so, I was in her house everyday". My grandmother to me was my second mother. As I lived with my parents and they literally raised me. I spent every day with my grandmother from a newborn baby to 11yrs before I went to high school and didn't really have to be in here care after school anymore (especially since she was getting on up in age). Every day after both pre-school and primary school (elementary) I would stay at my grandmother's house until my parents arrived home. So this is my question: after all of that info I gave, did she really raise me? Or was she just my second mother? I tend to often look at it like this: My maternal grandmother was my second mother and my paternal grandmother was my grandmother in terms of her being the grandmother that literally spoiled me and I would have to visit her as she didn't live around me. And I was with my maternal grandmother all the time (so to speak)? What's your take on this? |
| Question: My Family Is Lying To Me????? Or What..? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:59 AM PDT My mom and dad separated when I was 2. They've been in and out of court, my dad said I can visit her anytime I wanted and I did sometimes, now I'm 17 and want to move in with my mom, and now they're saying if I go with her we both go to jail by law. That doesn't make sense..does it?? |
| Question: My cousin is really childish and girly....? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:52 AM PDT She looks pretty young for her age. She is 24 and looks 17 sometimes 16..... She has 3 kids.. And 8 year old, 3 year old, and a 5 month old... She has a pretty good shape after having kids and she pretty much weighs the same since before she had her first. I guess she's just that way... I live with her and her husband.... And my husband of course.. Well, she still dresses in skinny jeans and those pink or pastel colors and she still wears make up like when she was a teen.... Her kids never look bad.. they are always clean and fed well but thw thing i find weird is that she still dresses like a teen and i TOLD her not to because she isnow a mom. She was mad at me and told me to stay out of her business and if i didnt like it, to get out of her house. I have to constantly twll her not to dress like that or people will mistake her for a little girl. I have to tell her not to play around with her kids either because her kids want space. Her backyard is filled with swings and pretty much looks like a park. She is just so childish and being childish and girly means she isnt a good mom.. I told her that and received a slap... What do you think?? She wants me out of her house now.. |
| Question: Legitimizing daughter.? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:42 AM PDT I live in GA. Before any negative comments are made, here are the sequence of events and my question: My toddler is almost 2. At the time of conception I was on birth control but taking medication that interfered with its effectiveness. Oops. But what a happy surprise! Her father signed the birth certificate. At the time I did not want to get married because of how people are and the possible (and very probable) assumption being made we only married because I got pregnant. However we have since gotten married and so my question is how do I formally legitimize her? Or is she already due to our marrying? Thanks in advance. |
| Question: How do I find out if I was adopted? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:34 AM PDT I've always felt like I was different from my brothers and sisters. I don't look like any of them. I don't look like my Mom at all. I don't look like my Dad either. I've seen my birth certificate and it looks normal, my mom and dads name, age, my birth place etc. But I still feel different from my family. How do secretly find out if I was really adopted? |
| Question: QUESTION ABOUT GOING TO DOCTOR CLINICS? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:28 AM PDT I'm over 18 and live in canada, and I went to the doctor on my college campus. this is my first time going to a new doctor myself, so I had to give them information, like my health card info, my address (i'm living off campus but on my own, my family is in another country). and after I talked to the doctor, she gave me a form with her name, the college's address, the 'clinician practitioner number', the 'cpso registration number', my name, health card number, birth date, and address, and phone number.then at the bottom, it's signed and dated. well, my question is, do I have to keep this form or can I throw it out? also, does the doctor or clinic keep a copy of this form? the only title on top of the form is 'ministry of health and long term care'. I don't know if this is an important form or if I should bother to keep it? MY LAST QUESTION IS that when you go to any clinic anywhere, does it become part of your medical record/history that you went to that clinic? and do the notes that the doctor takes as you speak also become part of your medical history?? THANKS. I'm asking because i'm over 18 and I can do what I want, and I don't want my parents knowing I visited the clinic on my college campus. |
| Question: I cant go to cons unless my mom comes...i need help? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:26 AM PDT Well i cant go to any cons by myself or with friends anymore because my mom thinks someone will steal me and rape me, she mentioned a few days ago that i will not be going to any cons untill im 18 or if shes with me and with my mom being there, chating with other fans "as weird as we are" will be pretty hard with my mom, plus she hates that im into anime anyway, plus shes homophobic...so should i take the risk of going with her and cause myself and everyone haveing fun at the con to be looked down appon? Or should i just wait till im 18? I cant go to the rave at my age anyway, and i dont want to rave with my mom... |
| Question: QUESTION ABOUT DEPOSITING A CHEQUE TO MY BANK ACCOUNT? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:19 AM PDT I'm a college student, and I dropped a course and got a small refund for it. It was mailed to me in the form of a cheque, and by the way, just to let you know, i'm living on my own and my family lives somewhere else. I'm over 18. I'm asking this because my parents give me no sense of privacy despite me being over 18, and forced me to give them my debit pin number and everything (even though they can't even use it without me). My question is, when I deposit this cheque into my bank account, and my parents decide to use the phone or internet to view my bank account activity, will it explicitly say that this deposit was for 'course withdrawal'? or will it mention the name of my college? reason is that I don't want them knowing I dropped this course..and it's not their business either, it's mine. so can I deposit this cheque without them knowing WHAT the deposit was from? I hope you understand what i'm trying to say. thanks. @Karen - thanks for your answer and no they didn't physically attack me, they blackmailed me. I am over18 but I don't have a full time job I can use to pay for my living, so i'm actually financially dependent on them, entirely. I've only done min wage work for a while. they're not allowed to know my pin number but they forced me to give it to them. |
| Question: I feel depressed, should I move back? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:16 AM PDT Hey guys I need some advice, I moved out of my family's house at 19 and am now living here with my aunt in sf for school but now I just feel depressed each day going to work and coming home feeling like ****. I haven't started school yet, not until fall semester. I just miss how close we were back when I lived with them and I need to spend more time with them. Should I move back and go to school there? I just feel like I need someone to talk to, I'm not close to my relatives and feel like I'm always being judged by my actions... |
| Question: Why do some parents not want their kids to go to college? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:16 AM PDT My parents do not want me to go to college. At all. They refuse to pay for it, say that I won't make it on my own, I have no talent, it will be a waste of time, and that I am better off just working at a restaurant. It makes me feel like a joke. My parents never went to college, my dad and my brothers went into the military but I am unable to due to medical reasons. I know there's ways to pay for it with loans and all that, I have three jobs right now trying to save up, but why would parents not want their kids to get a higher educaion? |
| Question: Is it ok to have the non biological father on birth certificate? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:15 AM PDT The real father ditched out ehen i was 3 months pregnant my fiance wanted to take my son as his own so we put his name even though hes not the biological father is this ok? Or can i get in trouble for this. |
| Question: When will my mom have to stop calling the cops on me? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 10:11 AM PDT I m a 16 year old girl and my mom keeps calling the cops on me because I stay out and whenever I go hang out with my boyfriend (17) she gets mad and reports me as a runaway because she doesn t like him. I don t understand and I want her to stop calling the cops!!! When can they not do anything about it anymore...? I heard that if you are a 17 year old girl, the cops can t do anything. |
| Question: I really hate my sister? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:57 AM PDT Please no one say I love her deep down. She is annoying and a back stabber and I don't like her. It started out when we were young I was 5 years older than my sister and it was like jealousy at the start. Now we hate each other. She hurts my feelings, and messes our room And she eats like a pig with her mouth open. I'm 18 but have no money to leave and she is 13 but just now I went into my room feeling tiered and hoping for a sleep. She is eating while listening to music and making so much noise. I tell her to stop and then she said no and I said well how much do u need to eat and she said only a little bit left. So I said hurry up and the was like no stop rushing me and continues eating loud. So I warn her saying If u don't stop I'm going to threw them in the bin and she is like no no ur not. So I went over there trying to grab then and she is lifting them above her head shouting at me calling me a *****. Then they drop and she is blaming me, and is throwing the packet to me. Then she is saying one day I will punch u. She got me so angry that I hit her on the arm since I was so mad at her. Now I fell awful but still see it as her Fault. I don't know what to do with her. And I was messing with her phone since she did it to mine and was on Google and seen on her search bar how do I kill myself a few weeks ago. I don't know what to do ? Help ! |
| Question: At what age should I teach my kids to fear the police? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:57 AM PDT |
| Question: My Mom is always so mean and nasty to me? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:51 AM PDT My Mom tells me things like I'm fat and useless. She throws big temper trantums and I feel like I have to be the one to always be the "bigger person". She used to be so cool I dont kknow what happend but now she is always so mean and uptight. She spills whatever comes out of her mouth and then she is proud of being that way and thinks people actually love her for that. She thinks her **** dont stick well it does. Ive tried telling her the way she speaks to me hurts my feelings and she excuses it I hate how she has no filter in her mouth and actually is proud of it. I wish I had a Mom who was more classier and calm and nice. I feel like her lap dog evertytime Im with her and I have to do everything she says or feel her wrath I literally fear her. Yes when I help around the house she becomes nicer but it only lasts for a couple of days then she reverts back to her old ways throws these wild tantrums that scares the heck out of me. Also when shes mad about something in her life, she takes it out on us. I feel like Im the grown up and she acts like a teenager sometimes always wants things her way and always wants to be the center of attention. I feel like I come second to her. I resent her because I feel like I cant act my age because its like she wants me to act older to be her lap dog. Always being bossy and judgemental doesnt care what comes out of her mouth I hate that about her then she thinks its ok to be that way which is not so I hate her for her arrogance too. I wish she would let me be the daughter and her the Mother but it seems like the other way around like I respect her more than she does me My dad is the cool one. Hes more laidback. If he doesnt like something you did, hell tell you one time and then drop it. He knows how to let things go and when I ask him for something he gives it to me without hesistation. He doesnt scream or yell at me and doesnt boss me around. And doesnt call me names. |
| Question: *Urgent* what do i do ? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:48 AM PDT My mom usually is the one with the worst temper she would hit her bfs first and he would hit back.They would also insult each othe and fight physically. My mom just gets bruised and it leaves. But what im trying to say is i had a rough life. And i cant take it anymore. I think the best for me is to go with my grandma. She has the money, love, patience, responsibilty, careness, and etc. My mom doesnt cook for us. Once in a blue moon. If were hungry she says to cook cause im old enough. I used to live with my grandma and when i would come back from school the food was already on the stove. All i had to do was serve me some. My mom hit me before and i called the police on her and she got arrested. I was able to go back w my grandma (after she took me away from her) for a couple of weeks. She said she was going to change and not hit us. My mom is really agressive and i cant deal with her. Im 2 hours away from my grandma cause we moved and im planning to run away. But i really dont know. My grandma will take me back she never denied me anything. My mom has no type of responsibilty with us 3 kids. Ive already missed a month of school and im in 9th. My brothers in school and my sister is just 5 months so. But i really want to go with my grandma. Like for her to have custody of me. My mom will never be a good mother. She wasn't ment to be one. Please help me. |
| Question: Finding my family...? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:44 AM PDT Is there some way for me to find my real family. Im adopted and really want to meet them, when i was younger, like 3 days old, my mom ran away after leaving me by this police station i was told, but i still want to find someone i'm related to. I love my family now, tho there are so many questions for the fact that no one is able to tell me a thing about my real family |
| Question: I need advise about my issues with my mother? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:44 AM PDT im 22 and Ive been fighting with her for years now as if everything i do is not good enough for her. i have a good job and i go to school. i also have another job set up for the summer and i help her out all the time. i barley have time to do my homework because im doing errands for her or have class or work. she is very controlling and demanding. she works 16 hours a day and it doesn't really make it and i know shes stressed but sometimes i feel that she would be happy me working like her and forgetting school completely. when she doesn't get it her way she threats to kick me out and if i don't do one thing she belittles me for days at a time. its not just me its also my sister shes about to be 21 and she doesn't drink or smoke but goes to a coffee shop or dinner with friends all night to does homework with them but my mom gets angry when she gets home late and screams at her like she was a drinking all night. my mom is slowly becoming an alcoholic and calls me in the middle of the night to pick her up. she calls me lazy and basically an asshole when i don't do things for her. i give her some money about 200 a month yet she treats me like an asshole. she blames me and my sisters for my father leaving us and financial burdens she has. she bad mouths us to her friends and all we do is what she wants their grown and im not their father. all i know is when i leave i wont see her again and i tell her that but she says i don't need bastard kids like you to be around me. she blames us for our father leaving too i was just 10 when he left |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:27 AM PDT As you got older, you know your parents as drug addicted, abusive, agressive, and having a unhealthy life and weight problems. You notice they were just a pile of trash. You turn into your aldult age and they made you miserable, because of drugs and tobacco they made you feel like you needed sucide. What would you do if everyone around you would catch you and report you and bring you back home, and people were more violent and were like aliens. How would you get out of this. What type of character would you be? How would you escape from evil? What if you cannot thy trust anyone around you, Where would you Go? What if the road was too far to walk and they had alot of camera all over, and yike they even watch you while in shower? How would you feel being beaten and tortured for trying to make an escape? You say you can do what you like or? What are your weaknesses, How fast could you run until being shot? If there was a unit of Aliens, or demons what could you do today? |
| Question: My mom found my weed Please HELP? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:24 AM PDT My mom raided my room one day when I was at school. She found bits of weed that i had smoked (basically ashes). It was confirmed by someone else that it was marijuana. She also found a lighter in my room, and I told her I used it for lighting my candles. What explanation can I provide for having bits of weed in my room? any and all are accepted I'm trying to get her off my back btw i'm 14, if that helpts *helps |
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| Question: My dad hits me.. Am 20!? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:12 AM PDT So am 20 years old and live with my dad, I can't move out because an only in a minimum wage job. Every time he drinks and gets drunk (which is nearly every night) he gets really angry and violent. He shouts at me for nothing at all and calls my mom names and me! And he always threatens to hit me.. And he does! Just the other day he hit me 3 times really hard on my face and it was so sore and red! He use to beat my mom up when I was younger when he was drunk.. Maybe that's related! But am really scared when he drinks, I tell him not to drink so much but he just tells me to shut up or f*ck off! What do I do? |
| Question: My parents never give me any privacy.? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:44 AM PDT I have no privacy. My mom always knocks on the door then just walks in without consent from me. I have to keep the door open to my room so they can see the things I'm doing on my computer. Sometimes I end up wandering onto something suggestive at the same time one of my parents walks by, and then I have to explain when I don't want to. And I don't think they would let me get a privacy filter if their life depended on it. I can't even keep my downloads from them! I download a lot of furry art, but some of it is "suggestive," and I don't want my parents seeing it and judging me on it, so I have to keep it hidden. Last night I was caught encrypting my USB flash using BitLocker, which contained the furry artwork I downloaded, but then my mom caught me and yelled for my dad to come downstairs. When my dad came, she told him I was encrypting my USB, and then my dad lectured me about how at work, everything he does on his computer has to be available to his boss, and how they can be liable for me since I'm still a minor. And I'm like, WTF!!! Just because it's that way at work doesn't mean it has to be that way at home! And my dad said if I encrypt ANYTHING, he will sell my computer. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! Everything I do my parents have to see no matter what. The thing is my parents won't let me have any privacy? I CANNOT TAKE IT ANY LONGER!!! |
| Question: Do all moms expect their kids to do what they wont do themselves? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:41 AM PDT this is something that i still dont understand, and i am 30 years old. but my mom has this habit of telling me to do things she wont do herself. its like she expects me to be perfect, while she can be flawed. for example, i am organizing my home, and she tells me i will feel so much better with an organized house.... except she has her house all messy. and she hates when people throws things away and will accept anything just in case it might be needed in the future. when i remind her of this, she gets angry and says she an old lady and can be messy if she wants to. Also, i used to have a problem cursing, which wasnt good because i just started helping out my brother take care of his 4 year old daughter. my mom would criticize me, that i had to be careful. And i agreed, and have changed my language.... except that she curses around my niece. 0_0 Sometimes my mom will agree that she should follow her own advice, sometimes she goes crazy and says i shouldnt criticize her. i dont know if its her health issues (diabetes, high blood pressure). I do try to tell myself to just not say anything and let her say what she wants, but there are times that i just want to be able to speak my mind. dont get my wrong, my mom usually has a point and gives good advice, but she just wont follow her own advice. |
| Question: Is this a Good story for april 1st? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:35 AM PDT Hello Since today is April 1st I want to play a little prank on my friends Im kinda shy so ill leave my teachers out of this So... basically my story is: Im moving back to Korea at the end of the week. I didnt want to go back but... i guess everything changed ever since my dad died 3 years ago... (its not true; if anyone saw my dad ill just say it was my uncle). My aunt, uncle and their 3 children are living with us, because their business got bankrupt (still not true). And my parent's work place is about to go down because my mom cant do everything by herself... she needs my dad. my dad died 3 years ago, almost 4 in 2 months (death: July 6) (dont worry its not true). So yea thats my story Dont worry ill just apologize and if their my true friends... they'll forgive me... dont worry i got this xD |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:22 AM PDT My wife and I separated about a year ago after twenty year marriage, she initiated the divorce and in the end, due to her constant travelling job, I got the custody and guardianship of my kids as they stay with me. I work very little in my office and more in my home, have done my best to take care of my kids without help.My ex wife has currently been laid off from her job and has started working near my house in where she uses that opportunity to come by under the guise of seeing our children on weekdays. She will cook and clean in my house much to my annoyance and she always overstays her welcome, sometimes asking me if she can stay overnight, both my kids can't stand her since they hate how only after getting fired, she is paying attention to them . Aside from that, she still thinks its ok that she has a right to meddle with my financial and household bills like we are together. I have sounded her off more than once and now she has expressed wishes that we can reconcile which I can't because I am not going to have myself crushed again. I have a girlfriend now and when she found out, she tries to calling me take her back and let us be a family again. I have asked my kids on whether they wil be happy if I took back their mother and they said they want me to move on but I can't with my ex hovering around my life like as if we are still together, I know that she has regrets leaving me me but its too late for her. |
| Question: Ignored and left out. How to cope? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:07 AM PDT I am 15. My mother is 36, and biological dad has been out of the picture since I was younger (8). Then again, I only saw him every other weekend; so he was never really there anyways. My mom married a man whom I've always disapproved of when she was 30. He is an alcoholic, self-medicated, verbally abusive man. He has never fit in with our family. But, she became pregnant July of 2014, after a miscarriage in 2013. My reaction wasn't as extreme as the last one, but it still hurt. I felt she wasn't happy with just me. For crying out loud...it's a 15 year difference. She never asks me about myself unless I make a big deal about it- but then her curiosity is fake. It's always about the baby. The only time she talks to me is when she wants pictures of the baby, or when I have to go get something because she's too lazy to. I feel like a tenant in my own household. Being forced to watch a family bond and grow right before my very eyes while I cry in my room because they don't involve me. I hate my dad for not being there. I will never have the experience of a whole family while the baby has it all. My step father rejected me since their marriage. I'm the baggage of my mom's old life that didn't include him. He never tried to have a relationship with me. In the hospital, he kept saying "My one and only girl" to the baby after she was born- which honestly killed me. I just don't know what to do. I mostly live in my room. I've tried to include myself, but I'm rejected. |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:07 AM PDT My twin has been bullied by people who she thought was her friends for a few years now and it wont stop no matter who she tells. She got injured in track and can't run because our coaches refuse to let her sit out a meet when she told them she was in pain, and it's the only thing that kept her mind off things. She was diagnosed with depression, anxiety, gluten sensitivity, allergies to soy, she has stomach pains and is put on a strict diet. Andything that seems like it could go wrong...has! I have a gofundme for her because our birthday is on Easter so I wanted to get her something special and it explains it on there at * gofundme.com/qcceere4 * which I thought maybe could help, but I cant seem to get anyone to helpm Any ideas on ways to cheer her up? |
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