Marriage & Divorce: Question: I feel bad when people have kids without Marriage? |
- Question: I feel bad when people have kids without Marriage?
- Question: Are waitresses sluts?
- Question: Does it matter of your spouse doesn't like any of your photos on social media?
- Question: My nephew and his wife locked their bedroom door the only way in is through is that breaking and entering?
- Question: Child Custody?
- Question: I just got married and I'm excited to work with our photos. But there are like a thousand of them. Any tips?
- Question: Is it normal for a father to strip his 7yr old son naked to give him a haircut?
- Question: How do i make my wife wanna have sex with me?
- Question: I just learned my son fathered a child with a married woman. her husband doesn't know that. That makes me the grandmother. Right?
- Question: What to look/qualities in a man for your daughter marriage. I am curious how parents guide their daughter in this matter.?
- Question: Can i marry my second cousin?
- Question: If my ex goes to jail will it slow the divorce?
- Question: How Can you love someone who always picks fights?
- Question: Does a bigamist need to pay alimony to his second wife?
- Question: Im asking about filing for divorce i was married in california and i live in alabama and i was wondering what steps do i need to take?
- Question: Guys do you act this way?
- Question: Ladies do you ever fantasize of a Big Black Penis to serve your sexual cravings?
- Question: My son got a girl pregnant.she has 2 kids and is separated from her husband but still legally married. will I be a grandmother?
- Question: In the Marine Corps and recently married. My husband doesn't want to move where I get stationed..?
- Question: Why do single people in their 30s think they have to hurry up and get married and have kids?
- Question: MY WIFE LEFT ME AND WE ARE SEEING SOMEONE TO HELP. SHE SAID SHE DOES NOT WANT A DIVORCE BUT I'M NOT TO SURE.?
- Question: How do I get custody of a dog?
- Question: My husband is a firefighter and comes home agitated and grumpy with me and my 3 year old daughter.?
- Question: What is a good support group for doctors wives?
- Question: Why would any man get married?
- Question: Nba or nhl?
- Question: How often is fair for husband to go hangout with friends on a weekly basis?
- Question: Would you forgive?
- Question: Need advice.?
- Question: Dad dislikes my husband? He's mad that I'm pregnant?
- Question: Did you KNOW you'd marry your husband/wife when you met them or even before you met them?
- Question: What comes next in the divorce?
- Question: I keep thinking about suicide? I just can't get over the physcological warfare inflicted on me.?
- Question: Divorcees: Did you believe 100% that your marriage would last forever?
- Question: I am looking for a good divorce lawyer that is not to expensive in the Chicago area, any advice.?
- Question: If I divorce my husband and I am drawing social security from him will I loose the social security?
- Question: I'm well into my thirties, is it morally wrong that my ex's baby pictures arouse me?
- Question: Is it normal for my exes mother to still call me? (Be Honest)?
- Question: My husband has been gone for 6 months and is seeing another girl this whole time..how do I get him to come back home.?
- Question: Should I go shopping with my boobs hanging out? Me and my bf made a bet. We agreed if we kept dating for a year ( which we did) I go around with my cloths on but my boobs out. Should I go in Walmart with my boobs out?
- Question: Why is it the more you believe in Real Love (The kind that can last 40+ years together and still stay strong) the more invisible you get?
- Question: I signed a PRE-NUP!!?
- Question: Marrying a friend who is a Marine?
- Question: Men, do you like rough sex?
- Question: I can't stop crying about my husband leaving me?
- Question: Am I being to hard on my husband?
- Question: Women how long have you been married to your husband?
- Question: My girlfriend is choking on a hot dog how to savely performed CPR on her? She is wearing a bra and a shirt and a jacket. Should I rip her cloths including her bra?
- Question: HELP!- Husband broke my nose and pushed me down the stairs.?
- Question: Should a spouse and marriage come before your career?
- Question: I'm attracted to men who look completely opposite of my husband..?
- Question: Should it be illegal for MARRIED people to have casual conversations with non family members of the opposite sex?
- Question: Is this a big deal or not a big deal ? Hubby drinking but it only effects me.?
- Question: My girlfriend is asleep. And her puppy grabbed her boob and now it's sucking her milk. How can I remove the dog?
- Question: How do you tell your husband you want time apart?
- Question: How to handle my husband when he refuses to talk about finances when...?
- Question: Is this something to worry about or leave in marriage ?
- Question: My husband doesnt want me to go to school cause i owe my old beauty school $7,000.00 but i feel like i can do this ?
- Question: Will I be okay after I leave my verbally abusive husband?
- Question: If someone is laid off by their wife/husband, does that mean they broke up?
| Question: I feel bad when people have kids without Marriage? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:05 PM PDT |
| Question: Are waitresses sluts? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:02 PM PDT I have been a waitress almost my whole life. I love it. I'm really good with people and I make a lot of money in that field. I quit working for a while when I got married and now I wanna go back to wpro and my husband said he wouldn't wanna be married to awaitresamd they are all flirts and sluts. What advice does anybody have on that? |
| Question: Does it matter of your spouse doesn't like any of your photos on social media? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:59 PM PDT So my husband and only have instagram for social media. When he post stuff I like I "like" it. However when I post photos even if they are of myself or him he does nothing. But he will like other girls cute photos. Should I be worried? There has been infidelity in our marriage. He cheated on me two years ago. |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:52 PM PDT nrphew and his wife lock bedroom door only way n is through a window is that breaking and entering |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:41 PM PDT Summary My question is whether a unmarried father can have custody of his two kids (8 and 6) if the mother is unable to afford the rent for the current condo, considering the area gives the best educational opportunity for the kids. Details I and my fiance have been together for nearly 9 years. We have two children 8 girl and 6 boy . We stayed together because of the birth of our first child and soon the second followed. We are incompatible; we never bonded; we never enjoyed each other all these time. We finally decided to split. Currently our children go to a very good school (10/10 rating). But, now the mother is saying she can not afford the rent, so they will have to move with her wherever she goes. And I am saying if you can not afford it, I can, so let me stay with them MON-FRI so they can continue to attend the same school. Then you take them in the weekend. That does not seem to sit well in her mind. Am I giving her a reasonable offer? Any advice, I am new to this child custody battle....I don't want to get to a battle if we can resolve it amicably? Any advice is appreciated. We live in Virginia. |
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| Question: Is it normal for a father to strip his 7yr old son naked to give him a haircut? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:30 PM PDT Im the boys stepmother i have a daughter from a previous relationship and his son is from his first marriage. We are expecting another child in june. I dont want to overstep my boundries but im very uncomfortable with his method of going into the bathroom locking door and stripping 7 yr old son nude to give him a haircut. I think a pair of shorts on a chair does just fine.and his methods cold uncomfortable and maybe embaressing for child and not what im accustomed to. Im trying not to come out and call my new husband a creep it is his son but isnt he a little big for that.?im not sure how to approach subject any farther but im not comfortable with it and cant accept it because of my own past experience with nudity and humiliation. But maybr my experience is blurring my vision and im blowing this outta the water. Please help. I love my hubby and all my kidd |
| Question: How do i make my wife wanna have sex with me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:27 PM PDT My wife and I used to have sex all the time, we have a 2 year old daughter and anymore she tells me "not tonight." She's into dominance, but I hate dominating her when we have sex I just wanna be lovey to her. Shes a stay at home mom (she works part time but most of the time is at home.) please don't say you suspect she's cheating I trust her. What can I do to get her to have sex with me again? |
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| Question: Can i marry my second cousin? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:06 PM PDT im in love with my second cousin. can i marry him legally in india. im a keralite. |
| Question: If my ex goes to jail will it slow the divorce? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:05 PM PDT My ex is looking at jail time If he were to be incarcerated will I need to wait until he is released to continue with the divorce Or can we still move forward with him behind bars??? |
| Question: How Can you love someone who always picks fights? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 07:40 PM PDT I love her but I get so stressed out by her lately. she's nice one day and hateful the next. I'm very attracted to her but shouldn't the stress drive me away! I know I'v hurt her in the past and she still thinks of that. I thought I fell out of love once with her but there's something about her I cant let her go. You else has been throug this? |
| Question: Does a bigamist need to pay alimony to his second wife? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 07:38 PM PDT I'm curious: Let's say a man gets married to a woman without divorcing his first wife whom he had married outside the US. Then the second wife files for divorce. That's when he reveals that he and the second wife were never legally married in the first place. Does he still need to pay alimony to the second wife? |
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| Question: Guys do you act this way? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 07:32 PM PDT I broke up w my ex a while back. We are taking it real slow again and tring to be friends first . We don't agree w things ea other does at times. He lets me know he's mad by ignoring me & I let him know by fighting about it until it's solved. I know I care a lot for him and that's why when he's doing hurtful things I let him know . My question is could he still care for me back and ignore when problems he doesn't want to deal w are brought up? |
| Question: Ladies do you ever fantasize of a Big Black Penis to serve your sexual cravings? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 07:31 PM PDT My Wife mentioned that she would love to encounter a Big Black male penis to fulfill her sexual fantasies and craving. Is this a hint? |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 07:25 PM PDT Am I considered to be a "grandmother" if my son has fathered children with married women? |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 07:23 PM PDT My boyfriend and I recently married last December. We're both young, he's a freshman in college right now and I'm 20 and in the Marine Corps. I am currently stationed in Okinawa Japan until November of this year and then will be stationed at a Marine Corps base in the United States. Since I am married, my husband and I can live together but he is telling me he wants to stay in Georgia and finish out college and then we can live together. Before we got married we both agreed that we would move together where ever I was stationed and he could transfer to a local college and finish out school with me. I don't want to be selfish and make him move but living in two different states while being married just seems crazy to me. We agreed on living together once I was done with this Duty Station and I guess I'm just hurt he's changing his mind all of a sudden. Do you think he should transfer schools so we can live together as a married couple or stay in our home state at the college he's at now. Living in different states for another year after already being separated for 2 years already would put a major strain on our relationship if you ask me and just isn't right. |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 07:17 PM PDT As someone who is in his late 30s, I do not understand this mentality at all. Personally, I am concentrating on establishing my career, which is very difficult in these difficult economic times. After all, how can I provide for a family if I do not have a job that pays enough and is at least somewhat secure? Further, don't people realize that men can be fathers well into middle age, and that women can have babies well into their forties? However, I still encounter people who want to rush to get married even if children are not desired? So what is the rush all about? Oh, and don't say it's because people don't want to be lonely, because some of the loneliest people are married. |
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| Question: How do I get custody of a dog? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 07:03 PM PDT I'm recently divorced and my ex husband lives with his sister. It's her dog but it's so cute. She's a real cu*t and I want to get back at her. When we were married we lived with his sister and she originally had the dog. If I say it was his dog could I get full custody? |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 06:54 PM PDT He feels his job s more important then my job as a part time special ed aid and a full time mom. I know his job is stressful but I feel abused and Im not sure how to handle him anymore. I am not the easiest person to get along with because Im strong on my beliefs that both of our jobs are tough..but being a mom and a fire fighter spouse is even harder I think. Does anyone out there have any advice or positive support? Preferably a firefighter husband or a firefighter spouse. Thank you |
| Question: What is a good support group for doctors wives? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 06:48 PM PDT |
| Question: Why would any man get married? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 06:34 PM PDT U lose out on alot and you dont gain much. |
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| Question: How often is fair for husband to go hangout with friends on a weekly basis? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 06:04 PM PDT We're working on building our trust. We're doing good but how often should one spend with friends when they have a family and History or cheating. I do too but not nearly as much as him. Besides that like I said we've been doing great. But he has seen his friends 3 times this week. Prior to this week only every other week and sometimes twice in a week then not often after that. I see my friends too. But not often maybe once twice a week if that. I want to talk to him about this but don't want to be unfair so please other married people can you give me your best thought out advice. |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 05:57 PM PDT Husband and I have been married for 9 years, he moved out 6 months ago andja e thaught several times I can try to forget everything and start over for the kids but things keep coming up that he has lied to me about for our whole marriage. Everything financially, even has forged my name on taxes for many years, owing a lot of taxes I didnt know, extra loans, found other bank accounts, other private emails, gambeling winnings and never knew about (a lot of money)and so much more. I feel like I don't even know if I know who he is anymore. He also has a bad temper and has punched doors, thrown stuff and broke things, in front of kids and scaring them several times. To a point where my 8 year old was ready to call police. He calls me dumb for not knowing all this and sayes its all my fault and that I deserved it all. And then will say later but I love you~ what!!He will do all this and then email me later saying he wants to go to counseling, then the next he is threatening me with divorce and saying he will take the kids and everything. I just feel like I am on a roller coaster, but I am so scared of what he will do if I say it's over. What would you do? Am I wrong a bad mother to end it and want a divorce. |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 05:49 PM PDT My fiancé is furious with me because I take my Yorkie to my parents when I work, along with my 2 year old daughter. He just started screaming at me about how I need to stop doing it or I need to give my parents the dog because he thinks the dog would rather be with them than us. So he went off on me how I'm insanely disrespectful. I'm sorry, but screaming at your pregnant fiancé about a dog liking your parents more than you is bizarre to me. Opinions? |
| Question: Dad dislikes my husband? He's mad that I'm pregnant? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 05:38 PM PDT My husband and I have been together for 11 years. We've been married for 4 of those 11 years. Ever since my dad met him, he's disliked him. I don't know what it is about him that he hates so much. He's a good Catholic guy, he was a Marine, he is now in the police force (as am I), and he's very affectionate towards me and polite to my family, especially my dad. (Which can be hard sometimes, believe me). My mother didn't like him too much at first because he can be quite intimidating, but eventually she warmed up to him. We are staying at my parents' house for the week in order to celebrate both of their birthdays and tonight at dinner, we announced that I was pregnant. I thought he'd be elated to have a grandchild on the way like my mother was, but no. He just kind of nodded and was like, "Well, that's wonderful." But it was really cold and sarcastically said. Now he is acting really weird towards the two of us. My husband and I were watching TV on the couch after dinner and he had his hands under my shirt and was touching my belly and my dad started clearing his throat really loudly and glaring at him! I don't understand what his deal is. I don't want to ask him about it because every time I confront him about his attitude towards my husband, he acts like he doesn't have an attitude and that I'm making things up. Why do you think he acts this way, and what can I do to get him to finally warm up to my husband and the baby? I kind of feel guilty for being pregnant now... |
| Question: Did you KNOW you'd marry your husband/wife when you met them or even before you met them? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 05:31 PM PDT It is surprising to me how often I hear "I knew he/she was the one when I met him/her" or even "when I saw him I knew he was the one" and these people really do marry and frequently stay together for a LONG time! I also hear a lot of refuting that these same people are infatuated, they end up breaking up, etc. But I don't know about that! May do stay together! Reason I ask is because this one guy contacted me a while back and I barely noticed him since I was with someone. Fast forward a year and maybe 2 conversations later I just cannot stop thinking about him to the point where it's like my heart is connected to him and I am in pain because we are not together. I have tried to get this stupid idea out of my head that he is my future husband but I cannot do it! Did you know you'd marry your husband./wife when you met them or even before you met them? |
| Question: What comes next in the divorce? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 05:29 PM PDT I've been going through a divorce for almost 2 years We recently completed the division of assets I need to know what comes next and how much longer it's going to take I intend to marry my partner as soon as my divorce is complete Any help is appreciated |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 05:26 PM PDT I was reading about Muhammad Ali and how he used physcological warfare on his opponents to trick, confuse, intimadate them before beating them in the ring. This caused a major flashback from my Ex who used the same tricks on me. I put him in jail but he still came out and moved on easily and knows he hurt me deeply and likes the effect he has on me. I cant shake it off I try but its too powerful inside me. I want to kill myself because I feel already defeated and hurt that he has an inflated eg His taunting, tricks, manipualtion to overpowere me worked and im naturally a very strong, assertive person. Nobody has had this affect on me and years have passed and I stilll have flashbacks like it were yesterday. I still feel like a helpless victim and, just knowing hes happy about everything and the power he has over me he just laughs and loves it....I just want to die I feel so defeated and useless and pathetic and petty and dumb. I feel like he outsmarted me. His taunting, tricks, manipualtion to overpowere me worked and im naturally a very strong, assertive person. Nobody has had this affect on me and years have passed and I stilll have flashbacks like it were yesterday. I still feel like a helpless victim and, just knowing hes happy about everything and the power he has over me he just laughs and loves it....I just want to die I feel so defeated and useless and pathetic and petty and dumb. I feel like he outsmarted me. Then the fact that Muhammad Ali's opponents forever held a grudge and never recovered from feeling like sore losers and even some fell into depression and hid from the boxing just concludes to me that I will feel defeated for the rest of my life and always envy my ex's power and talent over mines how he tricked and fooled me like Ali's opponents felt for the rest of their lives. Update: He knows Im the one who is hurting more than he and basically he looks down on me for being pathetic. |
| Question: Divorcees: Did you believe 100% that your marriage would last forever? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 05:17 PM PDT When you walked down the aisle did you think there is no waay on earth this marriage will end? Did you think "we're not like other couples?" Or did you go through with the wedding process with doubts? |
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| Question: I'm well into my thirties, is it morally wrong that my ex's baby pictures arouse me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 04:58 PM PDT Recently my wife and I broke up and she left behind a photo album. Well I opened it and I guess you can say all the blood went south of the equator haha. Is this normal? It seems to come naturally maybe she was just a really hot child? |
| Question: Is it normal for my exes mother to still call me? (Be Honest)? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 04:43 PM PDT My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. I was devastated by the break up for about the first month and it was very difficult for me to function. However now I feel okay. I am able to move on. The thing is that my exes mom still calls to "check on me." I have also noticed that one time when she took me out to lunch she is constantly mentioning her son's name which my ex. It's like every conversation we have she inserts his name into. Yesterday she called and i am just wondering if this is normal? Thanks for the answers. |
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| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 04:37 PM PDT I was raised with strong values that have to do with family and Respect towards women, Standing your ground and not giving up and that what goes into your mind is what comes out... my question is did my mother Fail when she raised me this way in a world where women no longer need these kind of men or am I just wishing for something that I probably wont ever find in a woman. (sorry if this seems emo, but after 4 years of hearing women say "all men think of one thing" and "Good men don't exist anymore" Its draining the hell out of my heart that has always believed a woman wanted a man that she could trust and be happy with and now all I hear from people is if I gave up on my values and gave into open marriage and Open relationships that I would find a woman a lot faster....and with the kind of heart I have that would kill me. |
| Question: I signed a PRE-NUP!!? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 04:27 PM PDT I signed a pretty nup before I got married so if me and my husband get divorced I get no money. My friends call me a gold digger all the time and they're serious! My man ain't rich he just randomly buys me stuff I don't expect it he just does help! |
| Question: Marrying a friend who is a Marine? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 04:18 PM PDT Ok so I know I have posted about how much I liked this one guy who is in the Marines and I do but the only issue is that he isn't here and that annoys me and I don't feel like I trust him but idk. I have a friend from HS who is also in the Marines and he is coming back home for 3 years very soon. We have said we are going to hang out (we always say that and never do) but I am determined to hangout. He said he wants to get married and start a family and I remember right before he joined we were talking about having a baby but I was new in college and I chickened out. But I am so so so ready to be married and have babies and I feel like he would do it he said he would do it. What can I do to make him move more quickly into this like how can I convince him that I am good and would be a good wife and mother and we should do it soon while we are young and stuff? What can I say to make him want me more. I am not a tag chaser... I would marry anyone who would marry me quickly no matter what their job is. I do like that with a military guy I am more likely to not have to work and I can be a SAHM which is important to me but I don't have the kind of time to just wait on that whole long meet, date be engaged, then married process. I will be 25 in a few months and I need marriage soon |
| Question: Men, do you like rough sex? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 04:17 PM PDT What position, things you might say, role playing, etc? |
| Question: I can't stop crying about my husband leaving me? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 03:50 PM PDT I can't stop crying about my husband leaving me a week ago for another woman, but we still live with eachother, I still do things for him but he keeps telling me about the other woman just to hurt me. He was going away many weekends saying that he was working or going away to see his mother. He would come home and never be in the mood for sex so I'd have to take care of myself. I've managed to maintain my size 4 figure but he still treats me like crap. The woman that he fell for is twice my size even bigger. He told me last week that he was seeing her and that he loved her, but he needs to stay married to me for his papers. He told me that I could stay in our home because I had no where to go. I'm too afraid to get my family involved because I know how they get. Somehow, I'm afraid of leaving because I still have slight hope. I work and make my own money, but not enough to rent an apartment. He told me that he still cares for me and I still cook, clean and do all of his laundry but he always wants to spend his weekends with her. We don't have any kids yet and I've been on the pill so that's one less thing to worry about. Idk what to do. I can't stop crying. I have to go into the bathroom at work just to cry. I sleep during the day, I stopped eating and I've been getting these debilitating headaches. The other day he stopped me from leaving for good yet he is in love with another woman. Why is he doing this? |
| Question: Am I being to hard on my husband? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 03:16 PM PDT First off let me say this. I don't really drink I don't like the taste of alcohol or how I feel when I drink. My whole family has drinking and substance abuse problems and I don't want to risk it. I'll occasionally have a drink but when I say occasionally it's like one drink every few months. Anyway my husband does drink and he makes me really mad when he gets drunk! He's a total embarrassment! He does things that are so stupid and childish it's like he's reverted back to an 18 year old boy. Yesterday we went to a concert with my friend we weren't there more then 3 hours before I turned around and noticed he could barely walk he had to go into the car and sleep on our way home we had to stop twice so he could vomit. I was so embarrassed and pissed off. Almost to the point I get verbally abusive. It hurts me and makes me angry when I see people destroy themselves and he is a reflection of me because we are married. Not to mention his drinking is making him super fat. Idk If I'm being to hard on him Maybe because I don't drink? I refuse to go out on the town with our friends with him because he embarrasses me so much. And to make matters worse he doesn't want to hear about anything he does when he drinks so I can't even talk about how I feel!! Ugh I'm so mad. Like what is wrong with him???? |
| Question: Women how long have you been married to your husband? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 03:04 PM PDT |
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| Question: HELP!- Husband broke my nose and pushed me down the stairs.? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 01:22 PM PDT I am 24 and my husband is 26. This is whats happened. About 3 years ago when we were partners he pushed me down the stairs- resulting in me losing my child. After that i went to a refuge and my doctor was horrified by the injuries and called the police. A week later he begged me to return to him and i did. He promised to change he said. He suddenly became so so nice. However one night he came home drunk (its usually after he drinks) and he broke my nose because i wouldnt sleep with him as i Knew the scumbag had been screwing some other women out that night. My daughter saw all this. He was arrested infront of the whole neighbourhood, his friends, neighbours during one sunny day in summer. Sometimes hes just so so nice and good to me and the kids. He workers as a road worker and construction and works for us long hours often in the cold and travels away to Scotland. On xmas i was so so happy to see him a again and gave a nice big cuddle. Hes quite a big guy 6'5 very stocky built and hard as nails. But at the same time hes got a lovable cute baby face with short blond hair and them sea blue eyes that make your heart melt. Hes looked out for me especially as we live in a very rough area with druggys and scumbags harassing young girls. He actually knocked out this guy that kept harrasing me once on our estate and he was arrested for it. Despite the abuse i still feel i love him as he protects and provides for us all. |
| Question: Should a spouse and marriage come before your career? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:47 PM PDT I think not always. A spouse can be here today but gone the next. A carer gives me emotional security and warmth. Why not put first whatever's right and the best thing to do? |
| Question: I'm attracted to men who look completely opposite of my husband..? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 12:11 PM PDT Is it wrong that I'm attracted to tall white men normally between 25-45. Usually with 5oclock shadow. More of the business type of man. And my husband is 30, 5'7-5'8 mexican can hardly grow a goat t. So that leaves me checking out white men i see around. |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 11:45 AM PDT To me I think it should be illegal.I just think a MARRIED woman or man have no business talking to non family members of the opposite gender unless it's strictly about school work or work on the job.It's immoral,it's inappropriate,it's not right for MARRIED people to have causal/friendly conversations with people of the opposite gender.To me it should apply even more so with MARRIED teachers and current/former students of the opposite gender.MARRIED teachers have no business whatsoever talking to students of the opposite gender about non school stuff.Also there's a such thing as emotional friendly cheating which means that a MARRIED person talks to the opposite sex people about anything that isn't about school work nor they are family members neither.It seem seem extreme but to me coveting another man's wife is talking to MARRIED people of the opposite gender about anything that isn't about school/work.Should it be illegal for MARRIED people to have casual/friendly conversations with people of the opposite gender?Why do man/woman talk to MARRIED people of the opposite gender tho it's not their husband/wife? |
| Question: Is this a big deal or not a big deal ? Hubby drinking but it only effects me.? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:54 AM PDT Hubby drinking is effect me and our relationship .. We haven't had sex for a year and he drink 3 cup the night before and he cancel having sex with me the next day :( Hubby's job is fine and everything else except his marriage with me . Is that a big deal or should I just let it go and continue living and waiting for sex and respect hubby drinking ? I'm 24 and he 25 . |
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| Question: How do you tell your husband you want time apart? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:32 AM PDT |
| Question: How to handle my husband when he refuses to talk about finances when...? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 09:13 AM PDT I am a stay at home housewife/ mother and i have taken it upon myself to organize and handle the bills. My only problem is that while my husband makes enough for us to pay bills with a little left over he still spends all of the money. Now if you call him out on it he will brush it off, say its his money or that its my fault for not leaving enough in checking. Now i need you all to understand that the only way it seems for me to keep our bill money unspent is to move it to savings. Which is where the problem lies because he wants me to leave all our money in checkings which i have done before but he cannot be trusted not to spend it. When i tell him politely that if we were to keep all money unsepartated there is no way it wouldnt go unspent to which he tells me to get off his back, dont start with him exc, exc. Also, when i go to look up our bank statement to see where the heck all of our money is going he yells at me like im invading his space. I dont know what to do because if i do as he says we would never have enough for bills. I want to just tell him to **** off and handle it himself but that would just make him upset evenmore and wouldnt solve anything because he doesnt understand or care about it so our bills would be in financial ruin. Also i dont know what to do because i mean i cant even bring up the topic of finances...not even to look at my planned out weekly deductions to show how much he would have left over when everything is broken down and separated. HELP |
| Question: Is this something to worry about or leave in marriage ? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:59 AM PDT Hubby drinks a lot . But hubby wants to control is drinking and drink enough not to get drunk .. One time he drinked 26oz 2 bottles and didn't get drunk because his body is use to it . He gonna try to stick to 2 cup 8oz over the weekends and that's it . Is there still a risk of me ending up in misery and hubby having problems ? Hubby will never give up alcoholic for me or anyone . I'm 24 and he 25 . I'm also scared to have kids with hubby or child will drink too :( If hubby stay with only two cups and drinks 2 on 3 or 4 days a week or even only two on Saturday and Sunday , is there still something to worry about ? |
| Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:52 AM PDT |
| Question: Will I be okay after I leave my verbally abusive husband? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:47 AM PDT My husband was verbally abusive, both overtly by way of name calling and covertly by way of manipulation. I always thought I was wrong cause he would tell me that I was stupid and had no common sense. I also am the type of person with dreams and goals for my life that I was never able to pursue cause they were 'crazy ideas that would never work' I brought this all to his attention 6 months ago and at that point I had already checked out of my relationship. I had tried for years to get him to stop and just be nice and relax. That was my last try. Since then I've been seeing a therapist and now know that he is without a doubt a verbal abuser. In addition, he's been real nice and helpful lately - Trying everything to get me to stay since I told him 2 weeks ago I want a separation. By way of my friends and my therapist; I decided there was nothing he could do to get me back. I could never love him again after the way he treated me, I could never trust him with my heart. Now, I'm on the brink of filing for divorce because he won't leave unless I take legal action. The kicker is we have a sweet 4 year old little girl and he keeps telling me it will destroy her. He's pulling on my emotional strings now. I guess I'm wondering if I'll be okay? I know deep down I will be and I'll be able to lead a happier life. But, I'm very worried about my daughter. I don't want to share her and being a single mom is scary. Is there anyone out there who has been here? |
| Question: If someone is laid off by their wife/husband, does that mean they broke up? Posted: 26 Apr 2015 08:31 AM PDT Does it mean they are getting divorced? |
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