Family: Question: How can I vent my frustrations so nobody is hurt or offended? |
- Question: How can I vent my frustrations so nobody is hurt or offended?
- Question: Should i keep going to my psychologist?
- Question: Parents and grades !?
- Question: I hate my father(supporting money),but i feel guilty and sorry for i can't help him,can't be with he,can't love him,can't help his lonely.?
- Question: Can my parents tell me where I am going to college?
- Question: My mom said I was jealous of my sister?
- Question: Should i go for the apprenticeship?
- Question: What to do if my childs father dont treat her right?
- Question: Why is it difficult NOT to hate my son-in-law (and am I wrong in this)?
- Question: What Should I Do About My Sister's Friend Stealing From Me?
- Question: My great aunt has something wrong with her?
- Question: My Sister's Friend Steals From Me?
- Question: Are we innately loyal to our family?
- Question: How do I tell a family member they are corrupting their family values with their children?
- Question: How can I tell my dad to stop asking me so many questions?
- Question: Advice about life? love? Happiness?
- Question: Why won't my parents let me have a cell phone?
- Question: How do i deal with my mom?
- Question: How can you put yourself in foster care?
- Question: Mom's 50th Birthday and I'm across the country...?
- Question: Is it bad that I told my dad to cut me out of his will?
- Question: My mom found an alcohol bottle in my room and hasn't talked to me since?
- Question: I'm almost 18 and wondering if its weird that me and my big sister(23) fell asleep on our mom's shoulders when we where watching a movie?
- Question: Is this messed up? (first question)?
- Question: My step dad tried to shove me today?
- Question: My firend have family problems.?
- Question: What are your htoughts on parents living with their children?
- Question: I have an American citizenship but I did not stay there for 5 years and I did not work there.Now I gave birth to my daughter abroad and I am applying for her an immegration visa . how long does it take to get her citizenship there?
- Question: Ideas to make this daddy daughter dance really special?:)?
- Question: What do you suggest me to do?
- Question: Vacation Ideas?!?
- Question: Would you forgive your brother if?
- Question: Am I being unreasonable? Please give me advice...?
- Question: Por que es importante la familia en el trabajo?
- Question: My mom was gangbanged!?
- Question: My parents is my biggest problem of my life?
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- Question: 1 week ago I tried weed & alcohol and today am in the clinic to take a physical am 18 years old will they tell my parents I took drugs?
- Question: Are kids supposed to like their mothers more than their fathers?
- Question: My step-father is dying. What can I do?
- Question: How to make my parents not mad at me? please help me!?
- Question: Do you think my mother is being ridiculous?
- Question: So our lifes went down th hill..?
- Question: Why do parents always prioritize their youngest child than their eldest child?
- Question: Should I call my sister to talk after not speaking for over half a year?
- Question: Is it normal for my big sister to drag me every were she goes when we go to the mall with my mom? I'm almost 18.?
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- Question: My mom adjusting to me being 18?
- Question: Any good reason why my parents would never contact me?
- Question: I have no privacy to masterbate in my house?
- Question: My dad thinks I'm the one in the wrong in this situation? Is he right?
- Question: Does my mom love my brother more?
- Question: Ladies mature question?
- Question: My grandmother does not want me to move out?
- Question: My sister got raped. What do I do?
- Question: General thoughts on a mother kicking their child out.?
- Question: Do you like the name Pia for a girl?
- Question: My parent are always fighting and swearing at each other what can i do?
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| Question: How can I vent my frustrations so nobody is hurt or offended? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:23 PM PDT I moved in with my boyfriend 5 months ago and he is a single dad to an 8 & 10 year old. In the beginning I cleaned up after them and it didn't bother me at all. About a month ago I started getting really annoyed with one of them. This leaves blatened messes, like spilling Kool-Aid and just leaving it. this one will ask the sibling or the dad to do things for them like getting a glass of water or put something somewhere, simple things I feel they should do for them selves. I take that behavior as disrespectful, The leaving messes and expecting to be waited on. At this moment I don't want to be around this child because I am not the mother and I don't want to overstep my bounds by doing what I feel the father needs to be doing. I tell him how this bothers me and he says he tries and makes excuses for the child. I am not that easy especially where teaching children respect for others. I hate complaining to the man I love about his child and his parenting. It isn't really my business I know but I feel I have a right to say something considering I am alone with them from the time they get home until he gets home usually about 3-5 hours a weeknight. And this summer it will be all day. I feel venting to him about my frustration could eventually pull him away from me but if I just keep this to myself little as it may seem One day I'll explode on the child and I don't want that either. What can I do? |
| Question: Should i keep going to my psychologist? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:18 PM PDT i don't think she helps me but my mom forces me to go. i wanna change my psychologist but she doesnt let me. |
| Question: Parents and grades !? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:17 PM PDT I love how parents act like its so easy to get straight A's i would love to see them try and do math that has letters and numbers and symbols and little shapes inside the equation. Like doooooo ittttt |
| Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:16 PM PDT Me and my father never have same wishes. We are opposite in all cases. I hate him so much because he never try to understand or listen to us (me,my mother,my sister),and continuously blaming everyday (Blame even it is not a big deal).He just do what he thinks right. When we do something differ from his thoughts or his way,he angry and blame.And he's so aggressive. Yell at us,especially my mother and my sister. I also can't explain how i feel or how I'm so stress cause of him,because he never listen to someone including my mother(when i try to talk to him,after a few words,he doesn't listen to me anymore n he gets mad n start saying what he wants and especially how he is important to the family.He thinks he is always right because he is father of me.After a few minutes of conversation,he starts angry and never accept my thoughts.So try to talk to him to won't be good idea ) And he's so childish in most cases. He doesn't realize how we are so stress everyday.I hate staying at home and worrying every time when will he angry,when will he blame,when will he yell to me or my mother.He frequently says how stupid my mother is,although my mother doing everything happily to him. So i HATE him so much. But on the other hand,i feel so sad and guilty. I think he's pity because he is so lonely and even has no friend at all that's why he is so aggressive and has the habit of serious BLAME to other. He has nobody.I feel sorry that i can't stay with him,cant b with him.I cant talk to. |
| Question: Can my parents tell me where I am going to college? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:14 PM PDT I want to go to my public state school. It is close to home, a great education, and it is where all my friends and my sister go. My parents tell me I am not allowed to go there and that I have to live in a dorm my first year (aka not join a frat). The two things I want to do are join a frat and go to this school, so this has me very upset. My parents aren't even paying for it, so what gives them the right to tell me where I can and can't go when my sister goes there? Is there any way I can make them change their mind? |
| Question: My mom said I was jealous of my sister? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:12 PM PDT I have one older sister, she's 6 years older than me and we used to get along well but throughout the years that has changed and it's only because of her. I don't like the way she treats me as if I am not good enough and her attitude towards all. I feel as if she thinks I deserve to be insulted directly or indirectly always because my mom now agrees with everything she does or says even if it is stupid and I am the one always blamed, misbehaving, humilliating her and that's not it. My mom always gets into arguments to take her side. Once I was talking to the phone with my sister and I just asked something to her about why she is so prevented towards me, then my mom hears and claims why are talking to her like that -you are jealous of your sister, aren't you? And truth is I am not, I feel like I should be though since I am always the bad one for my mom. But I feel like both are so inmature for me to worry about it. why does my mom think I could be jealous of her when she is the one makings things that way? Do sisters never fight, especially when your parents neglect you over your sister? |
| Question: Should i go for the apprenticeship? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:01 PM PDT So i'm 17 and i live in france i am actually looking for a job and came apon an apprenticeship at superdrugs in the uk. My problem is is that a member of my family is happy to take me under thier wing but they can't drive and the shop is maybe an hour away and the buses don't regulary pass, so should i go for it? and also is it possible to get an apartment at 17 ? thank you for your help. |
| Question: What to do if my childs father dont treat her right? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:56 AM PDT |
| Question: Why is it difficult NOT to hate my son-in-law (and am I wrong in this)? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:54 AM PDT Our son-in-law never likes us (me, in particular). He never forgave us for certain things we said/ did at the beginning of his relationship with our late daughter, who passed away in 2013 at only 30. It's true that we were rather cool towards him at the beginning, b/c he's younger than our daughter, and we tended to be careful since her first partner (the father of our eldest grandson) is a douche bag who's after her money. But we've apologized and been supportive ever since. Now he's punishing us by separating us from our grandsons. He plans to return to Germany (he's half German), saying that he has been offered a better position there, and that the German education system is better than in NYC (nothing wrong with schools here). He said he'll send the kids to spend summer hols with us, but I've never imagined that our relationship with our grandsons will be reduced to this level. And the twins, who are still toddlers, will now speak German as mother tongue, and this will make everything difficult for us. Already the eldest is lapsing into German every now and then (when our daughter was still alive, they spoke English in the house, b/c she didn't speak German, but now he's just speaking German to the boys, or even French (!); maybe this is done intentionally to snub us). The eldest (7), like I've said, is our daughter's son from previous relationship, whom he has adopted. I'm not trying to be selfish but this worries me a lot. Since my son-in-law is still a young man, maybe he'll re-marry, and I'm worried for our grandsons. Notably the eldest, who's not his biological son. How if one day he's just tired of taking care of another man's child and neglect him? After all, my son-in-law's estranged father was abusive (and his German mother fled back to Germany because of the abuse). Isn't abusive trait running in the family? Sadly, our grandson absolutely wants to go with him, so I really don't know what to do. What can one do in my position? |
| Question: What Should I Do About My Sister's Friend Stealing From Me? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:51 AM PDT So awhile back there had been several occasions where we've been suspicious of her stealing. She had to move so we didn't see her for awhile until she came back to visit about a month ago. I had a brand new pack of hair accessories that I hadn't used on my desk. (Her and my sister were on break so they're home all day and I'm not.) I go to school and there is one bow in my pen basket! And the other two were pink and white (which are her favorite colors) and they went missing. Then I had a pink and white lip balm on my desk that also went missing, and one of my makeup brushes. Later I went downstairs and I saw MY makeup brush sitting in her suitcase but I didn't want to 'claim' it in case she happened to have the same one. I blew it off because I had no proof that she took it and they were minor things and it's not a very big deal to me. She went back home planning to visit again in a couple weeks. She came back, and I was nervous of her stealing so I put everything away where she can't find it and I would lock my door everytime I left. Also she steals from stores ALOT. We went to the mall and she stole atleast $150 worth of clothes. Anyway, it was becoming a hassle so I put everything back. Nothing happened all week until this morning when she thought I was at school and she came barging into my room loudly heading straight for my desk until she saw me and got REALLY nervous and stuttered out that she was "coming to see if I was awake." which was obviously a lie. So basically I'm in a really crappy situation because I don't have proof so if I accuse her then she can just lie and say no and I would seem like an asshole. So I'm thinking about setting up a cheap camera or my old iPod while I'm away to record my room and see if she comes in for proof. I have no idea how long she's staying this time so I really don't want keep hiding my things. What should I do? also I suggested it to my sister and she said that it was strange but she probably didn't do anything which I strongly disagree with. |
| Question: My great aunt has something wrong with her? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:36 AM PDT Ok my great aunt is like 66 or something she has been retired for like 12 years. 2 weeks ago she caught our oven on fire when she was cooking garlic bread. Today she totaled her car by running into 2 cars. My little brother hurt his back (he's ok) but she's crazy this has gotta stop. Is there something wrong with her *she thinks nothing is wrong with her we cant get her to a doc she just wont* *she is very forgetful* |
| Question: My Sister's Friend Steals From Me? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:21 AM PDT So awhile back there had been several occasions where we've been suspicious of her stealing. She had to move so we didn't see her for awhile until she came back to visit about a month ago. I had a brand new pack of hair accessories that I hadn't used on my desk. (Her and my sister were on break so they're home all day and I'm not.) I go to school and there is one bow in my pen basket! And the other two were pink and white (which are her favorite colors) and they went missing. Then I had a pink and white lip balm on my desk that also went missing, and one of my makeup brushes. Later I went downstairs and I saw MY makeup brush sitting in her suitcase but I didn't want to 'claim' it in case she happened to have the same one. I blew it off because I had no proof that she took it and they were minor things and it's not a very big deal to me. She went back home planning to visit again in a couple weeks. She came back, and I was nervous of her stealing so I put everything away where she can't find it and I would lock my door everytime I left. Also she steals from stores ALOT. We went to the mall and she stole atleast $150 worth of clothes. Anyway, it was becoming a hassle so I put everything back. Nothing happened all week until this morning when she thought I was at school and she came barging into my room loudly heading straight for my desk until she saw me and got REALLY nervous and stuttered out that she was "coming to see if I was awake." which was obviously a lie. So basically I'm in a really crappy situation because I don't have proof so if I accuse her then she can just lie and say no and I would seem like an asshole. So I'm thinking about setting up a cheap camera or my old iPod while I'm away to record my room and see if she comes in for proof. I have no idea how long she's staying this time so I really don't want keep hiding my things. What should I do? also I suggested it to my sister and she said that it was strange but she probably didn't do anything which I strongly disagree with. |
| Question: Are we innately loyal to our family? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:18 AM PDT |
| Question: How do I tell a family member they are corrupting their family values with their children? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:11 AM PDT A Niece is living in a house with her 5 boys ranging in age of 8 to 2. She and her boys live with the boys father, the fathers ex-wife and her new boyfriend and their 2 adult children, the fathers new girlfriend, and my niece has a new boyfriend also coming and going from the house. My niece still shares the same bed with the father of her boys. The kind of values she is showing her children is so wrong. What can we do with out turning niece against whole family? |
| Question: How can I tell my dad to stop asking me so many questions? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:05 AM PDT I'm turning 27 tomorrow and I like being by myself and writing. I'm not a social person and neither is my father. But he still asks me why I keep to myself so much. I keep telling him it's because I prefer to read and write and I enjoy the quiet and listening to music. But that answer never seems to please him. He just keeps asking me more questions. I still live at home with my parents. Is that his way of nicely telling me to move out of his house? |
| Question: Advice about life? love? Happiness? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 11:04 AM PDT |
| Question: Why won't my parents let me have a cell phone? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 10:39 AM PDT I go to track at school, and I live about 2 miles away from my school. I want a cell phone so I can notify them if I need to be picked up early due to bad weather or something. I had to leave early once because of bad weather, and I had to wait for an HOUR for my dad to come pick me up because I didn't have a cell phone to tell them. When I got home, I told my parents about it, and how I want a cell phone, but then my parents just said for me to ask someone else so I can use THEIR cell phone. Well, I don't want to use someone else's cell phone because I'm gonna get tired of it soon, and to me I think it's just awkward. Also, I am a person who doesn't talk much, so I don't know the people at my school very well. I told them I want a cell phone so I can contact them when I need to, and so I have something to play games on and entertain while I wait for them. Even after that, they still won't let me have one. I get really good grades and do my homework, I get many 4s and little 3s (I live in a region where the grading system is different), they are meeting and excelling grades, and I don't know why they still won't let have one. When my sister was my age, she got worse grades than me, and SHE got a cell phone. I don't think it's fair. Also, I am the only person in my class without a cell phone and I feel TERRIBLY left out when I see my classmates taking selfies, snapchatting, checking their Tumblr, and other things. How should I convince them to let me have a pcell phone? |
| Question: How do i deal with my mom? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 10:01 AM PDT Me and my mum have always been rather close. However when my dad left us, she has always used me as her kind of punching bag (not physically, mentally). I feel like she doesn't care about me, it's always about her and my step dad. She never tells me that she lives me and she always shouts for no reason. She has had depression and she's been in an abusive relationship, and I've always been there for her. I would give my life to protect her but I feel like she wouldn't do the same with me. I love her to peices, but I can't talk to her about this as she wouldn't listen. I can't talk to her about anything, she's selfish and I don't know how much more I can take. When she was in the abusive relationship, he used to do cocaine and he neglected us. one time when we were on holiday he left me at the side of the road, I was only 6. and the experience with that has always stayed with me. I don't quite know why I'm saying this on here, I just need to let it out. right now my mom is out, she just got up and left. She won't answer the phone and I don't know what to Do. I always tell her that I love her but I feel like she doesn't love me. Sometimes all I need is a hug, I think this is emotional abuse. I need help. |
| Question: How can you put yourself in foster care? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:56 AM PDT Okay, well I'm 13 I suffer from depression and I don't have it easy. My parents are cruel, they are so strick, I've 0freedom , they shout at me every MINTUE of the day and threaten to hurt me and raise their Hand to me. I've a sister but they adore her , to the last... I hate it here I want to move out at 16 but that's way to long I want a foster family for the time being, any help ? Much appreciated thanks x |
| Question: Mom's 50th Birthday and I'm across the country...? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:47 AM PDT I am in college across the country. What are some great birthday ideas I can do from afar? I have sent flowers, edible arrangements, and random gifts in the past. |
| Question: Is it bad that I told my dad to cut me out of his will? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:46 AM PDT Im 32... I finished my university course in 2010 in London. I had no luck finding work related to my politics.. I only manage to work in a warehouse in Essex as a supervisor then I decided last year to go back to Nigeria. I got a job at the ministry of foreign affairs. 3 months later I waited at home for sometime as I was waiting to be transfered to another department.. my aunt my dads twin sister kept telling that she had no interest with his properties she said it was for his children. I was like ok.. I dont care anyway. She then rang him saying I went there to sell his properties.. My dad decided that I should leave and go back to UK for sometime. He told my mother that I should not return to Africa cause he thinks I will sell his properties.. I send him a message informing him that he should remove my name from his will.. is that good or bad? |
| Question: My mom found an alcohol bottle in my room and hasn't talked to me since? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:43 AM PDT So I'm 17 years old and I turn 18 next year. I don't occasionally drink, maybe once a month or every two months. Last Thursday my mom was looking for a sweater in my room and she found my alcohol bottle behind my sweater. When I got home she talked to me and it was all fine and she said next time she w ants me to be honest and tell her when I drink. The next day she woke up mad and didn't talk to me. She said I'm acting like everything is okay and that I haven't even said sorry. I don't know what changed her mind and I don't know how to earn her trust again. Please help |
| Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:40 AM PDT me and my mom and my big sister where watching a movie last night and half way through it i looked over and saw my sister passed out on our mom's shoulder and about 5or6 mins after i fell asleep leaning on my moms shoulder after the movie was over our mom noticed us sleeping and very carefully got up a put a blanket around us and went to bed so when woke up in the morning my sister was laying beside me on the sofa. I'm a 17.5 year old boy and i'm wondering why my mom didn't wake us up to tell us to go to bed i asked her this morning but she never answered me. |
| Question: Is this messed up? (first question)? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:35 AM PDT OK, so I'm 19 yo still living with my parents. Last year I moved in with my father ( parents separated) to go to the police academy. So far I hate living with my father and I was planning on moving back with my mother. I cannot find any jobs as a police officer so I figured I might as well go back to my mother with whom I actually liked living with. now I am looking to buy a new car from one of my dad's friends but I need a little bit more money. He says he would help me out but I don't wanna just take his money and then practically tell him I'm leaving right after. I'm leaving in 2 months btw and he doesn't know as of right now. Should I take his help or do you think it is wrong for me to do that since I'm leaving? |
| Question: My step dad tried to shove me today? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:28 AM PDT My step-dad and I have NEVER gotten along, he's always been an asshole who never tried to even get to know me and my siblings, and just pretended we didn't exist unless we did something we don't like. I have an anxiety disorder, am severely clinically depressed, and have a social anxiety disorder. Today my mom has me cleaning my room big woop, I'm working on it. Anyways I go to talk to my mom for a little while, and I guess he got irritated or agitated by this, and yelled at me to go clean my room and put his hand on my arm to shove me away. I pushed his hand away and yelled at him not to touch me. He's done this before when I was younger(I'm 20 now), but this time I really did not want him touching me, and I feel entirely sick and on the cusp of an anxiety attack just from him trying to push me away. I don't understand why I feel this way now rather than before when I was younger, can anyone help me figure this out? |
| Question: My firend have family problems.? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:22 AM PDT My friend tamariah has been living with me off and on she is a relly messsy girl but she doesnt have nothing since she has been little she has been living with family,her mom is very unfit she said that her mom was raped while she was younger if she was raped i wouldnt try to be a hoe she is just disgusting to me she told my friend tamariah that she knows how to get wet by herself and that she was gone bring some random guy over to take her virginity so she know what it feels like to have sex and to top it all off her and the oldest son watches porn together Really i am really not use to that but she is a very unfit mother,she never wants to come get he child atleast on the weekend and but she be at her hotel room all cuddled up with her husband !Really dont know cuz my friend tamariah has stanky breath and nasty attitude and she just messy i was gone tell her to get out my mothers house cuz she hit my brother with a belt and i was about to beat her behind but i didnt i dont like anyone touching my brother and when i ran up on her she had got scared how are you gone be so messy but scared and the thng about it she doesnt have nothing she only gets money tax time during the rest of the year she is begging down her family members or have some sob story and also her mom doesnt provide her with food at my mothers house she doesnt do anything for her nothing period but get her drunk and thats not cute.What should i do? Should i tell her to get out ?How should i tell her to get out |
| Question: What are your htoughts on parents living with their children? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 09:11 AM PDT I'm 43yo. My mom quit her job and moved out of the room she was renting in a hourse. She moved in with me last year because she has never saved for retirement and always worked entry level customer service jobs. I said we could give it a year, she can get partial retirement and work part time. She finally got her retirment 6 months ago. But has made excuses why she isn't looking for a job. Now I am ready to move. We are coming up on a year and a half and she is putting up some very big obsticles for me. What are your thoughts? I know we should help are parents, but if they can't help themselves... |
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| Question: Ideas to make this daddy daughter dance really special?:)? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 08:10 AM PDT I want to have my own daddy daughter dance and invite my dad to dance with me but I need some ideas. I already planned the music part but I don't know where it would be... my room is too small to dance in and it would be difficult to do it in the living room because my siblings would be in the living room. (And usually my dad and I aren't the only ones home) so what are some good ideas? I want this to be really special! |
| Question: What do you suggest me to do? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:56 AM PDT i am an albanian citizen. i am married to and australian citizen. but therefore she went in australia so we could apply for a partner visa. after we got declined once we re-applied but at the wait time she changed her mind for the reason not given. its been over 2 years of marriage and this has costed me a lot. i m in albania but what my question is -is there a way for me getting help from australia to get my rights as i have been abused emotionally from them. |
| Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:56 AM PDT Hey guys so I go to Virginia like every summer. Its usually me my mom and dad and my dogs who go to Virginia and we stay with my grandparents. My aunts house is walking distance they are literally in the same neighborhood and usually everyday we go over to my Aunts house she has an in ground pool and it's just gorgeous because her pool area is so big and it looks like a private beach! My parents stay for a week or two then come back home in VT while I stay for a month then fly back. But this year I'm only staying an extra 2 weeks or so and I want to know what kind of fun activities me and my family can do together. We usually go to the beach and the mall which is ginormous and we hang around my aunts pool. Oh and my dad me and my 2 cousins and I think my uncle are going to rent a charter boat and fish in the ocean which will be fun! But are there any other ideas me and my family could do together it would be really appreciated and any ideas help! Thank you!(: |
| Question: Would you forgive your brother if? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:56 AM PDT My brother is 16, and were very close despite our 4 year age difference. I come from a very close family, of six. He decided to run away for no reason what so ever and has dragged my mother through the dirt with all his lies and she just wants her son to come home. Anyway, his girlfriend is the one we contacted and told us he had went to a shelter, but she was very rude and disrespectful to us. Told me and my mother to SMD, and even threatened me. My brothr hasn't been in school and has been frequently posting pictures with the girl and how much he loves her though he has only known her for a month. He blocked me and when I write him and asked him on facebook why he done this, and why did he allow that girl to disrespect me and his mother, he said he can't control her.thjpough yet you choose her over us since the only reason he ran away because my mother found out he was using our elder brothers house as a cover up to spend the night with the girl. That pisses me off more then anything because I would never do any of this to my family or allow some outsider to talk to anyome in my family this way. I did not get rude with the little girl because she is a child and is as ignorant as my brother is. But woukd you forgive your brother if he lied on your mother, ran away and allowed a girl to disrespect the people who took care of him and knew and loved him his whole life? Thank you for all your answers. |
| Question: Am I being unreasonable? Please give me advice...? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:51 AM PDT Am I being unreasonable? My girlfriend and I (two females) are supposed to be moving into a new apartment together on May 1st. She hasn't always been reliable and I am usually the one who takes responsibility for tasks, chores, etc. so I asked her to promise me that she would commit to the move and not flake out for the entire weekend and she said of course. We are under a bit of a time crunch because we need to be in the new apartment and out of the old one by Sunday the latest on that Tuesday we are off to Jamaica on a trip I bought her as a 30th birthday present. Also, my mom suddenly passed away 3 weeks ago and my company got sold, so I have new owners are work and life has just been turned upside down for me the last couple of weeks. Anyway, last night she tells me that on our moving day she is going to visit her cousin who lives 5 hours away so she can be there for him for his Boy Scout ceremony because she needs to be there for him because his brother passed away 2 years ago. So, essentially she expects me to do most of the moving myself Friday and Saturday now, so she can go to a Boy Scout ceremony 5 hours away. She said I am being unreasonable and selfish for being upset that she would even consider going when we are supposed to be moving. Thoughts anyone? Please? Sorry for the grammatical errors. I am writing on a phone and I am so stressed out I am not thinking before I type my thoughts. |
| Question: Por que es importante la familia en el trabajo? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:40 AM PDT |
| Question: My mom was gangbanged!? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:40 AM PDT im from Bangkok and i'll try to write in eng.im 16 years old.my mom is 35 and i admit that she is young and sexy.last month at school,a guy who is very wealthy told me that "your mom is so slutty and i wish i could *** on her face".i freaked out and punched him.he finally told me that "i will **** your mom" i didn't give a ****.eventually he had sexed with my mom.that's my mom's fault.she had no shame! she wants money so bad.she always told me that "she will do anything if she gets a lot of money" That son of ***** gave my mom $5000 and gangbanged.3 ******* and my mom :( they fked just in her room when i was in cinema.after sex,the 2 other assholes shot their semen on mom's face.that's acceptable.BUT that mofo *** in mom's mouth and forced to swallow it.mom looks so pathetic and shaking her head.then,he told her that "i will give you extra $500 if you swallow the ***,*****" mom happily swallowed and smiled.i don't want to blame mom coz i know she was horny.since dad was gone,there is no one to fk her and many times i catch up her masturbating in her room with a bunch of dildos.how can i revenge that dumbass? Note-After watching the sex tape,i realize she should work as prostitute or pornstar bcoz she's so hot.So she'll be well paid.I swear she'll so successful and become the hottest ***** in Bangkok.I know she's my mom and i luv my mom but i fap watching her sex tape almost everyday.even her son(me) want to bang her booty.tell me im shameless but im telling the truth. |
| Question: My parents is my biggest problem of my life? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:31 AM PDT They treat me bad.I have small brother,my parents give more importance to my brother.sometimes I feel to do suicide I |
| Question: 😔🙋🏽❓really please help? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:24 AM PDT So I recently took a test ,because my last concern about being pregnant. I'm only 17. I live with my mom still 😥 this is bad timing.i told my bf he started to cry his mom won't trust him now if he tells he wants me to abort it 😔 I'm a very positive person I like to see the good in everything I told him we would be great at being parents I already have a job and he does I told him to imagine loving someone you made more than life and laughing playing with it he only sees the negative and said we will have to revolve our life around it I'm perfectly fine with that I raised my 2 year old niece and she is my world I raise her as a newborn since my sister was sick form cancer I know how to raise a baby he thinks our future will go down hill but I feel we will only rise he kept being negative so told him I'll rasie it alone he wont have that idk what to do anymore |
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| Question: Are kids supposed to like their mothers more than their fathers? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:20 AM PDT i have a 3 year old daughter and I love her to pieces,I always make time for her spend as much time with her that 24 hours will allow and my wife actually told me a few weeks ago that she was feeling insecure and jealous because our daughter seemed to always want to be with or around me. It bothered me that it bothered her. Like, is my child that I had a hand in creating not supposed to love me? Are you mad that she does? She's the second greatest joy I have other than you and you want to take that because you're jealous? I started getting defensive for some reason but my wife started saying that it was fine that she appreciated and loved me more for it but she felt like she wasn't getting the love I get from her, the running into my arms when I come home, wanting to sit on lap and watch tv with me or wanting to sit in the garage and watch me tinker with my truck every once in a while. Iv been think about it for a while and I told my wife that on weekends I'll try to arrange more stuff with friends or do something else that'll have me out of the house but the thought of limiting my time with my daughter really irritated me. I started looking online about stuff like this and I hear the same thing over and over again "she's just going through a phase, it'll pass, she'll be back under you in no time" and I got really pissed because it seemed to me like I'm not supposed to be so happy with my daughter loving to be around me. Is that true? |
| Question: My step-father is dying. What can I do? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 07:08 AM PDT My mother starting dating my step-dad when I was about 11-years-old and so has been in my life for 10 years. He is also the father of my 9-year-old sister. We were never as close as I am to my actual parents or my step-mom, but in the beginning he was alright. He was good to me, there for me, and so on. But, then he changed. He worked out of state for a year and had an affair during that time. He cut my mom, my sister and myself out of his life for 6 months. Never heard a word from him. And then he started all this business of wanting a divorce and trying to take my sister away. After a little while, he begged my mom's forgiveness and he came back. But, he was a completely different person. He was hateful and spiteful. He emotionally abused me: he told me I would never succeed in life, I would never get into college, that I wasn't intelligent. He even bad-mouth my mom to her sister and cousin in the ICU waiting room after she had had a heart attack. And my mom never protected me from it. After I moved out to go to college, there broken relationship completely broke apart and they separated. Yet, he periodically would still come to stay at my mom's house. But, now he is dying from metastatic pancreatic cancer. He could go any time. I don't like him, but I didn't want him to die. I feel sad for my sister and my mom because they still love him. And I feel sad for the person he was. What can I do? I feel like I'm being cold ? |
| Question: How to make my parents not mad at me? please help me!? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 06:54 AM PDT So last april 21 2015 im the only one who stay on our house because my parents and my sister go to somewhere for scholarship. My dad is an aircon technician. My parents leave me a cellphone if therebis something that his workers will ask. We have a store and Im the one who sells there at that time. My dad was calling on the phone but I didnt hear it. So about 10 missed calls when I look at the phone. He worker will ask something and my dad suddenly call and I answer it. He's angry because of that and then he talked with the worker. As the time goes by when I look at the phone there is a message but I didnt reply because Im too lazy to type my reply and then there are missed calls. I call back to ask the price of something on out store and then he answered that they are already near and then when my parents gets back their mad at me for not answering their calls. I didnt here it because Im busy playing on my ipad and I know its my fault. Its ben few days since we havent talked to each other most of the time. And their not talking to me only on my sister. Now I want them to talk to me like where we used to be. Actually my mom talks to me sometimes butbmy dad doesnt talk to me at all. Now how will I make them not mad at me anymore? |
| Question: Do you think my mother is being ridiculous? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 06:28 AM PDT Here is my situation. My mother is Jewish and my father is Catholic. I am Jewish according to Jewish law, since my mother is Jewish. I was raised celebrating both Hanukkah and Christmas. My mother's parents were actually Holocaust survivors, and my grandmother's cousins were killed. My mother is one of those people who will never buy a German car. I am in the process of buying a new car. This will be the first car I buy myself. I really like the new Volkswagen Golf. I really want to buy one, but my mom keeps giving me a hard time about buying a German car. Do you think I am wrong? It is my money. My parents aren't helping me buy the car in any way? Shouldn't I be able to get what I want? |
| Question: So our lifes went down th hill..? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 06:23 AM PDT So my parents divorced dividing pensions was today. And we(me, my mother, my brother and sister) lost everything, our house, decorations, blankets, furniture. I mean, really everything even our beds. My father toke away everything from us with a smile in his face and full of pound of what he did to me and my brothers, his sons. And now we don't have a place to go or stay. So my life right not is really down the hill and in a shity moment has we don't have any place to go and we have to leave the house in a few months. Anybody can gives us some advice? Thank you for your time. My father isn't even going to keep the house, he is going to give it away to my cousin and to her drug addict boyfriend... |
| Question: Why do parents always prioritize their youngest child than their eldest child? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 05:57 AM PDT i experienced this scenario. at all times my parents always hanging out and bonding with my youngest brother than me and whenever we got argument with my younger brother my parents always on the side of my younger brother and they even scold me even my younger brother is wrong? why do parents do this? |
| Question: Should I call my sister to talk after not speaking for over half a year? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 05:40 AM PDT She got married a few years ago and cut ties with my entire family pretty much, and it has seriously been close to seven months since the last time anyone (in my family) has heard from her. I tried texting her and telling her I wanted to see her more often a couple times a few months before November and basically it was that meaningless small talk and nothing ever came of it. She hasn't sent me as much as a text or called our Mom. I hate putting it this way, but our family is along the lines of poor-middle class and the family she married into is very well off. I honestly don't care about that stuff, but I think she does. I just don't know if it would be weird for me to call her out of the blue after neither of us have attempted to get in contact for the past several months. |
| Posted: 24 Apr 2015 05:32 AM PDT when my mom takes us to the mall to shop my mom does her own thing but my sister(23)grabs me hand drags me around with her. i don't care that she does but she takes me to stores with her. but she makes me help her pick out her clothes,makeup,and other girly stuff and it makes me fell uncomfortable because i'm a 17.5 year old boy. the reason i say my mom is were half siblings same dad different mom but my mom took her in as her own daughter when she married our dad so we think of each other as full siblings. i love that my big sister is not embarrassed to run around places with me her little brother and i like it that shes very protective of me |
| Question: Poll: Does your husband realuze 'garbege collectionn rule? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 05:11 AM PDT At least schedule? Go away mean panda... |
| Question: My mom adjusting to me being 18? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 04:32 AM PDT My mom is really cool and everything but There's certain things she wants me to be 18 for, I'm about to be 17 but with school and everything else that's going on I know the time will fly by fast for my 18th birthday . I'm the only child so my mom is ver very very over protective , she doesn't let me drink or anything . So she's dreading the day I'll be 18 because she knows her little girl won't be little anymore ... Most of the time we go out together and stuff because she doesn't want me going anywhere by myself .. I keep telling her when I turn 18 she's gonna have to realize I'll be in college , with college friends.. Doing college/ adult things... She looks kinda mad when I tell her ... But she gets over it because she always says I have to wait till I'm 18 to do certain things... Anyway.. My cousin who will be 25 when I turn 18 had already had her clubbing days and stuff , so we are planning to go to the club for my 18th bday... Do you think my mom will let me go ?? |
| Question: Any good reason why my parents would never contact me? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 04:23 AM PDT I've been on my own for over a year now. Since I've been on my own my parents have never called, text, email, or come by to see how I'm doing. Correction, they came by once after a couple days I moved on my own. I always have to contact them, or come over to their place. If I don't ever contact them, I really believe I would never hear from them, or see them. I'm getting really tired of always being the one to put in the effort. I had to do that when I was younger with my biological family as well. Now I'm having the same issue with my adopted parents. I feel like I'm not good enough for them. Maybe they don't love me anymore. Maybe I was just a huge mistake. I've talked them about it and their excuse is, they get busy. My dad has more to do with one of his friends then he does me. I've went a couple weeks without talking to them just to see if they will call me, but nothing. It hurts me a lot seeing that I don't matter to them. I really believe that I love them a lot more than they do me. I was thinking that if no one can take the time to show any interest in my life, even after I show an interest in theirs, then why should I any more? |
| Question: I have no privacy to masterbate in my house? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 03:58 AM PDT Well, I am in a long distance relationship and sometimes me and my boyfriend want to be doing the naughty, but I always can't seem to because I don't have my privacy in my house. I have no door in my room so people like my siblings tend to come in and my mom is always on my back more when I'm talking to my boyfriend. She even follows me to the garage when she almost caught me doing things to my boyfriend on Skype. Seriously, this problem have been going on for three years of my mother is interfering. I tried to do it at night but my house is small and my mom caught me in situations where I am naked. We use to have a run down van but since my mother notice i use it alot she got rid of it.Im frustrated because I'm horny and angry because my mom is there all the time. Is there any other way I can have my privacy to masterbate? What should I do!?? |
| Question: My dad thinks I'm the one in the wrong in this situation? Is he right? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 03:38 AM PDT Basically, me and my dad had a little fight this morning. What happened was that I reading a newspaper that I bought with my own money. As I was reading it, my dad came in and snatched the paper off me. He said, "I always read the paper before you!" I then said I was reading it and he had no right to snatch it like that - but he just chose to ignore me. He then sat down and started to read the newspaper, but I snatched it back and said I get to read it first because I bought it. He then started shouting at me and said I was an "ungrateful, selfish brat". I got so angry I slapped him in the face. He then slapped me back. He then grabbed the newspaper and started shredding it with the paper shredder. He then said, "don't say I'm the one in the wrong because you are!" Is he right? Am I the one in the wrong in this situation? |
| Question: Does my mom love my brother more? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 03:08 AM PDT Hi. So first my mom does love me but I think she loves my brother more. Like for example today is my birthday and my brother was being annoying so I told him to be quiet so he got mad and hit me so when I told my mum she told me to give the phone to my brother (I was at my dads because my parents are divorced) so then my brother changed up the story and said I started shouting at him and telling him to shut up and stuff so then my mum told me that if I annoy my brother I won't have a birthday party and I'll never be able to go out with my friends and she'll take my phone away again (she took my phone away for a few months so I can catch up in my studying) So that's one scenario and my mum really does love me and does great things for me but I just wanted to know if this means she loves my little brother more Thanks<3 |
| Question: Ladies mature question? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 02:57 AM PDT I'm 23 and she 19. Dated 9 months without sex since she was a "VIRGIN" and wanted to wait. She left to college 300 miles away so it was on/off thing due to plenty stuff. She was never an angel but she's changed a lot. She dirty talks more deeply, wears revealing clothes, has tattoos and a tongue piercing. She's HOT not going to lie so you can bet many want her. Lately i'm having doubts if she's even still a virgin or even was..... Do you think she lying or is just a punk teen tease???? Example #1 (she wanted pizza and check out that smiley face idk if she was kidding or not) Her: Hey babe can you get me a pizza? Me: Sorry i lost my wallet Her: C'mon i will suck your d!ck ;) Me: How about we wait till next time your in my room and we'll do all this together??? Her: No you can stay dry boy! |
| Question: My grandmother does not want me to move out? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 02:32 AM PDT I am 26, two kids under 5, own place, medical career, and I am in nursing school. I am moving in 2 months,whenever I bring up about me moving, she gets an attitude or encourages me not to move out. I have always been independent; paying my way through college and supporting me and my children. I am even buying my own furniture because my parents can not help me move and this is my first real apartment. My grandmother sees me as a child and I am not; I will be 27 in 3 months and during the time, I have been living with my grandmother I have bern helping out on rent plus dealing with bs, drama, negativity, arguing,fighting, and her even threatening me when she does not get her way. I am living in a domestic situation and one of the reasons I am moving out and because of college. Why,can she not let me go? |
| Question: My sister got raped. What do I do? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 02:18 AM PDT I'm a 17 year old boy and I have a twin sister. Last weekend, she went and slept over at her friend's house. She called me at like 4 AM and asked me to come get her. That's normal for her cause she has bad anxiety and panic attacks but I kinda thought it was strange that she called me instead of one of our parents. Anyway, I went to get her and from the minute she got in my car she was just acting really weird. She claimed to have anxiety but it was more than that. I could tell. I probably approached it the wrong way, but I kept asking her what was wrong and she just wouldn't tell me. She refused. So finally I stopped on the side of the road and told her I wasn't gonna keep driving until she told me what had happened. After like 20 minutes, she just broke down and told me everything. She got raped AT HER FRIEND'S HOUSE BY HER FRIEND'S BROTHER'S FRIEND. He drugged her WATER. Water. He drugged water. She was up later than her friend and he drugged her water and raped her. It's all so twisted and sick. She made me swear not to tell our parents but I just have to. She'll thank me later, right? I've been researching this stuff and I haven't been able to sleep cause I'm so worried. I just need opinions. Should I tell our parents? Should I tell my sister that I'm gonna tell our parents? What the heck do I do? |
| Question: General thoughts on a mother kicking their child out.? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 01:02 AM PDT I am 16, and my mum always threatens to throw me out. I am a female and i think it's disgusting. I don't know anyone who would do that to their child. When i'm a mum i certainly wouldn't dream of throwing my child out on the streets. It's usually when she wants to be right about something but actually she's wrong but wont have any of it, then she says 'pack your bags and leave'. I thinks its disgraceful. I want to know peoples thoughts please |
| Question: Do you like the name Pia for a girl? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 01:00 AM PDT |
| Question: My parent are always fighting and swearing at each other what can i do? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:45 AM PDT My parents wont stop fighting they yell and swear at each other. It once got so bad they actually hurt one another. Once when we were on hoalidays they were fighting and my mum just drove off for a few others. im the oldest in my family at 12 so i try and protect my sibblings who r 10, 8, and 6 and make sure they can't hear the swearing but we useually go outside and just cry together. whenever i try and talk about with them they just say that i always fight with my sibblings so why cant i. God they can act like kids sometimes and the things they fight about are just silly thing. Is there anything i can do or talk to that can help me thankyou |
| Question: MY MOM'S KICKING ME OUT AT 18, HELP!? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:40 AM PDT For the longest time my mom has told me she was going to kick me out at 18 and I never actually took it that seriously. I just figured if you really loved your kids and want to see them succeed, you wouldn't basically set them up for failure by kicking them out when they have no idea how the world freaking works. I'm honestly scared out of my mind, it has made it hard to enjoy my senior year because I have no idea what my future holds. The following reasons are why kicking me out at 18 is ridiculous: -I have no job (I left in January because I was unable to balance school work and the job) -I don't have a drivers license -My mom has made it clear she will not be financially supporting me at all with college and i ask her why and she NEVER answers why! We aren't broke -My twin brother is allowed to stay here! BUT NOT ME, WHY? -I cant afford to live on my own or even with a roomate. Just to clarify, I do plan on finding a job in late May, early June. But I just don't understand what my moms thinking. I wont have any way of transportation to and from school, work, or wherever the hell im going to be living. I can't afford to pay for college, I don't know how to get loans, I don't even have a bank account because my mom thinks I'll take out money. I guess what I'm trying to ask is what do I do when I have nowhere to live? I have no other family members around where I live. Also, I really really want to go to college in the fall but I just dont think ill be able to. |
| Question: Why does he continue to hurt her? Posted: 24 Apr 2015 12:39 AM PDT I can't sleep, the day I had was just hurtful. 3pm she's dismissed from school,she saw him,he saw her and he looked away and drove away from her....it was her Father, she called him to tell him why did he do that to her? And explained he was running earns and didn't know she was getting out of school nor new she was in that school (lies btw he knows what school) he said he doesn't see her because of me, uhm she's 16... He's in and out of her life for 13 years now... Never calls, never visits her, doesn't acknowledge her at all during holidays. He has four kids and two live in Cali and two live here and he ignores our daughter he pretends she doesn't exist, he told her he won't see her because he won't allow his two year old to be exposed to someone like me, uhm I don't need to meet his wife's two year. |
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