Hello, please read my whole story before judge me I am in a love with a guy from 5-6 years. We love each other but our relationship was long distance. Now that guy is my husband also. Everything was going smoothly. But 2 years ago I made a mistake. In my office I attracted towards my colleague, he was married and have 2 children also. He was always flirting with me. In beginning I didnot respond him but in inner side I like it.. he told me to sleep with her. Actually me and my bf both are virgin. We try sometimes but couldn't do the stuff.. my physical attraction was increased day by day towards my collegue and one day I give my self to him. And lost my virginity. We decided to do these thing secretly. Then I started to find chance when I get to do the fun. Though I was virgin he taught me all the stuff. I spent so many night with him. It happened for almost 1 and half year. Even some days before my marriage I do one night stand with him. We decided to continue after marriage in the absence of my husband. We do all the fun. I think we did intercourse for almost 25-30 times. Now I regret it. And when I do intercourse with my husband he get doubt because before marriage when we try for that his penis was not entered easily but now he can do easily. Second thing he read some chat also with my colleague. And ask me so many questions. Should I tell him truth? I am loyal to him After marriage. Dont want to loose him. None can love me like him What should I do?

My fiancé and I went to dinner tonight but I wasn't feeling well and a bit light headed. I went to the car to get my hypertension meds and came back to my seat where I asked the waitress if they had tap or bottled water so I could take my meds. My fiancé asked me what kind of stupid question is that when she left. He called me stupid a few times in the past and I told him that I don't like being called stupid because it is disrespectful and he should cease from doing it immediately. However he insists that by saying it is a stupid question is not calling me stupid. As I was very very upset and apparently I spoiled his meal. Am I wrong to be upset?

Hi, Im 23 years old and I just found out im pregnant...Im getting married in July. Ill be about 10-11 weeks pregnant on my wedding day. I already got my dress in January and had it altered because it was to big...theres a slight bit of room in it but not much. Im very thin and tall...about 5'7 and 110 lbs My fiancé and I have always used protection I don't know what went wrong...but I am prepared My mother just spent a lot of money on this dress and I would be so upset to not wear it for her... Is there any chance this dress with still fit me in 10-11 weeks!! OR is it poosible to have alterations done AGAIN to make the dress give a little (bigger)?? because I will do that if need be or if even possible THANK YOU

We're planning to have 100-120 people attend our wedding. We are thinking about serving the following food dishes: BBQ beef sandwiches Baked chicken Baked beans Fruit salad Green salad Potato salad Green beans Mac and cheese Rice pilaf Rolls Cookies Cherry pie Peach cobbler Iced tea Iced water Lemonade Soda What food dishes would you want to see? The reception is being held inside.

My question is does the adult child get their own wedding gift and bridal shower gift if they are put on the same invitation as parents or do they just put their name with parent's gifts like a 10 year old does??? See there are kids over 18 years old put on the same invitition has parents because they live at home (age range 18 to 28 years old) some of these kids have gone to friends weddings and got their friend's gifts. So are they responsible to get own gift? Or no they don't have to get their own gift because they were placed with parents. I understand the finance reason to put all the people living in one house on the same invitation. But at the same time you are treating some people as a child when they are old enough to get their own gift.

I can't stand my fiance anymore He dosen't allow me to use his computer or anything i don't have acess go anything in his life ,only if he sits right next to me. I wanted to borrow his ipad today while he was working he first said no and than gave me the wrong password to his ipad and turned off his phone. The last time i wanted to look at his ipad he took it immiditly and drived off to work,that day later when he came around again he let me use it but i noticed all his history was deleted . When i asked about it he said i am the one that's stupid and just make me feel like im crazy and it's my fault. He has explanation to everything and i feel he is manipulating me,lying and gets happy when i believe in his lies. He made bad decisions some time ago,created dating profiles and when i found that out he was still lying about them and finding excuses. He even wanted to break things up than make it work and admit what he did. Please folks please i get so depressed i don't loger know if this is worth it ,i feel so anxious and mad inside me . I don't want to look ater him like a child either but i can't trust him when he is lying all the time

Is it proper etiquette to not invite certain family members to a bridal shower because there are to many people invited? I know my nephews fiance. I do not know her aunt who is hosting the bridal shower and who is emailing the invites out. I think you misunderstood the question.

I just got engaged 4 months ago. Since then I feel very neglected. My fiancé has an 8 year old son who he put in 3 sports teams this season. He coaches 2 and goes to every practice and game for all because son's mother isn't interested in that. When he isn't coaching or going to games after work he is playing cards until 11 p.m., going to happy hours and retirement gatherings after work with co-workers at bars until 10:00, going to his men's club where he drinks with old men three times a week, scheduling fishing trips for weekends, taking weekend shifts at work just because, and never asks me to do anything. I have 3 sons, two are adults one is 11, and I still try and make time for him. Every night he has something until at least 9:00 p.m. or later. It is starting to get to be too much. I feel like I am not a priority anymore and have just withdrawn from him.

Hello! I am thinking of proposing to my boyfriend in a few months and I need to get a ring size. I tested a ring of mine on him (i'm a girl) and my guess is that he is about a size or two larger than me. So my guess is he's about a 10 or 10 1/2 but I don't know for sure and I don't want to get him measured because it's a surprise! Should I guess bigger or smaller when getting the ring? I know they can be resized, within reason, but I am still curious. He and I have talked about marriage before and we are very comfortable about it. He calls me his fiancee already because he proposed to me months ago and I said yes. He just wants to get me a ring to make it official to the rest of the world. I told him he could propose to me with a twist-tie or a ring pop and I'd still say yes haha But he has commented before that he almost expected me to ask him first. He doesn't find it unmanly that I want to propose to him. He does not wear rings. I jokingly had him wear one of mine on his ring finger and it fit almost perfect, I think I just needed a size or two larger. I was going to get the ring size from a jeweler but literally hours later the ring slipped out of my pocket and broke (it was a glass ring)

My brothers & his fiancé are playing with the idea of a barn/back yard wedding pot luck style & ask a few members of our family & hers to bring a dish. & no wedding gift. My mom is 1 of 5 my dad is 1 of 7 children her parents are both from big families. She is trying to save as much money as possible & do as much them selves as possible. (She is amazingly crafty!!) They both still live at home & would love to buy a house asap. My dads side (we are very close to) already said they would gladly help. So they could just hire someone for a few food items. Thoughts?

I m getting married in August and my fiance s family is kind enough to let us have the wedding at their church for no cost. The only problem is that on the back wall of the stage is a 15 x15 painting of Jesus with the word SALVATION in all caps. Any ideas on how i could cover this without spending a bunch of money?

wondering if there are any women out there getting married in the next year or so that would take a look at my website ( I am a wedding videographer offering a new unique service ) and tell me what they don't like about the site. You can be as honest as you like the site is theweddingwishingwell.com

I was invited to go to a bachelors party by a friend, the one getting married is his friend which I dont know. Is it weird for me to attend?

Her spouse is leaving her and her father has terminal cancer. She is not close with her brothers and her mother lives far away. She doesn't really have friends or hobbies. She has mentioned she wants grandchildren, but we will not be having children. She mentioned she really needs her son right now for support, but I find that to be inappropriate. He can be there for her, but should not be brought into the ending of a relationship. I'm worried that she has nothing and is banking on us and grandchildren to entertain her for the next 30 some years. We are planning to move far away in three months, and I feel as though we are too young to have the responsibility of her life on our hands. How do I create boundaries without hurting her? She needs her own life/hobbies/interests.