I want my son's teacher from last semester fired.She is having a inappropriate relationship with my son.They would talk about non school stuff with each ,they joke around with each other,she would share her bagel with my son,she would even say"peace out girl scout!" to my son and it's inappropriate because she's MARRIED.She needs to be fired from her job and before anyone says that that I am wrong for trying to get this teacher fired,her husband might have a good job to support her and she could find a different job and she had a inappropriate relationship with my son.She is a MARRIED 25 year old female teacher and she has no business talking to my son at all unless it's about school work because she's MARRIED.She must have forgot that my son is a male and she's MARRIED because she said"peace out girl scout!" and it's a sin against God for her to be this friendly with my son.How can I get this teacher fired? What is wrong with this teacher?My son is 18 and he has a girlfriend who's 17.My son isn't even in her class anymore which makes it even more inappropriate.

I am going to attend my ex's wedding on April 28. I want to dress nicely and tell him what a terrible mistake he made.Waiting for his divorce party! Any suggestions?

How do I see what dating sites he is enrolled in ?

My fiancé has been talking to women that were his exes and he text all the time and keeps it hidden

Ok so I have 4 kids...Ages 5, 3, 2, and 4mths. My 5 year old, 2 year old, & 4mths babies are ALL his. I know for a FACT!!! They look just like him!!!! They all got his same eyes and curly brown hair. Hes now denying all of them because we found out last week thru DNA test that my 3 year old isnt his... i did cheat on him once when we was separated and my 3 yr. old looks different than the rest of the kids so he denied them so we had test done and she is not his biologically but shes still his daughter either way cause he raised her..... now hes denying the rest of them!!!!! i know they are HIS! he dont wanna get dna done b/c he afraid that it will all come up he isnt the father..... but i wanna get them test done because I KNOW HE IS THE FATHER! We aren't married but now hes threatening he will leave me and i just dont know what to do anymore.... im down in the dumps these days over this and my hair is falling out! I just want my family to be whole again.... WHAT DO I DO!!??!?! OK I KNOW about birth control IM ON IT NOW. I BEEN ON IT and get pregnant 2 times with it so it dont work all that WELL!

It was done for temporary purposes.. It was stupid, and we know that. Just need to find out how to get this take care of.

How would you feel if your husband spent time every weekend at his ex wife's house until late at night to be with his kids.? He says his ex is at work or out w friends while he visits the kids. The kids don't like to come over our house because the ride is a hour each way. Has anyone been through this??

I'm looking for a very special friend. Online fun, flirts, talk and just down right good *** conversations lol I don't care if you are single or married, just bored out of my mind and I need a change!! Lol HELP ME GET MY GROOVE BACK lol

My wife and i got married and shortly after moved in together as she moved from overseas. I thought it may take her a few months to settle down and then she would get a job full time or part time i didnt mind, as long as she is earning money and doing something. Its 15 months on and to give her credit she searches for 3 jobs in 12 months and got 1 interview. I have a small business that i work 6 days a week so she did some work for me in the shop, answering the phone, greeting customers nothing stressful. I realised despite i pay for everything i should pay her a commercial rate of pay. So she does 10 - 15 hour per week ( 2 days ) and i pay the bills, food, her gym membership, mobile, opal card. She can spend that money on anything she wants. 1st i wanted us to do the cleaning together in the morning on my day off, she would walk out in a huff when i asked her to clean one room while i clean another or go to bathroom and pretend to be busy on something else. 2nd. Although i cannot afford it ( there is only 1 income ) i hired a cleaner as i was exhausted doing it myself on my day off. 3rd. I had to stop that i as could not afford to do it any more. Now i ask her to clean the place and she reverts back to being in a grumpy mood as to say why should i have to do that? Or saying i will do that but never does. Any Suggestions?

ugh!!! I'm BORED!! SAVE ME!!! Lol 😘

Hi. I'm 14. I live in a really dirt poor christian cult like community in Arkansas. I'm a hard core Atheist and everyone around me is actually so stupid and delusional. I want to be a gay abortionist just to rebel, even though I'm straight lol. I'm trying to go to an Ivy League and get the hell out of here. Anyway my mom had me at 16. My dad was 49 at the time. They got married when she was 16. I have 6 younger siblings. My dads an ***. He beats me up sometimes. He hits my mom too. My moms okay. They have a lot of sex thoufh... Not trying to be weird but that's all they have going for them in the relationship. My uncle got super drunk and told me that when my mom was 15, my dad went into her room and they had sex. She was 15????!?!? Isnt tbat rape?

I don't want this thing it's disgusting and I honestly don't want it. My boyfriend wants the baby because he feels that it's only right and his responsibility but I don't want it. Can I abort and if I don't can I just dump this thing somewhere.

an yoMy daughter was in a relationship with someone who totally tore her inner being apart,to the point where she attempted suicide.Its been 7 months now shes in counseling,on medication,unfortunately going thru the court system to get her daughter back from him.She has visitation,supervised by his mother,He will not accept responsibility for any actions he did that pushed her over the edge.He can't understand why she won't go back with him,he lays a quilt trip on her whenever possible,he is one the most negative people I;ve ever met.Everyone is wrong,if you don't think the way he does then he says your an idiot.It is so exhausting dealing with him,and his mother.They must control every aspect of every issue.How can you deal with people like this?And unfortunately she has to have contact with him because of their daughter.It seems like whenever she does have contact with him,even for a short time she falls back a bit into that dark place.Any advice????

I am a stay at home mom for a 2 year old and I am 8 months pregnant, my husband came home from work today and as son as he walked in the door he called the dog the love of his life and said that he should of married the dog instead of me. I got hurt and mad when he six it and when I tried to talk to him about it he got super angry. He bla,ex everything on me and always tell me that I'm not a good mom and that his past relationships have been awesome and he sold of married somebody else. Am I wrong for stying? Is that abuse?

Hi, so my spouse found a headband hair tie sort of thing in our bed and is 100% certain that it is because I slept with another woman in her bed. I have never cheated and and have nothing to do with this article of clothing/accesory whatever you call it. Anyhow she has been treating me like garbage for months now since this happened, Feeling like I should leave at this point. I am just looking for advice because this is a situation I have never been in before. Thank you in advance.

How old were you when you met the person you married? How old were you when you got engaged? (and the time period, its changed) How long did you date before engagement? (Include, if any, any long distance factors as well, if any.) I am trying to do research on how young someone could realistically meet the person they could marry! NOT talking about High School age.(if you have one add it, but its very rare..) I am talking about College years and beyond! 19yrs+. Your info will help. Thanks! How old were you when you met the person you married? How old were you when you got engaged? (and the time period, its changed) How long did you date before engagement? (Include, any long distance factors as well, if any.) I am trying to do research on how young someone could realistically meet the person they could marry! NOT talking about High School age.(if you have one add it, but its very rare..) I am talking about College years and beyond! 19yrs+. Your info will help. Thanks!

and he dumped her

Before you think I sound like a brat, let me explain myself. Our bills combined comes to $1900/ mo. I am in school part-time, work night shift part-time, homemaker with a baby on the way! Post birth, he has plans to continue working his 70+ hours/ week. We have talked, I have voiced my concerns as he expects me to continue working, going to school, raising a child while keeping the house orderly. I mind you, I make $700/ mo without picking up extra shifts at work (16hrs/week) combine that with in-classroom and studying time. Did I mention I am paying my way through school? In order to pay my portion of the bills I must work 24hrs consequetivly, while going to school, studying, being pregnant then raising the child and keeping up with the laundry, dishes and cleaning. He however works 6x days a week and makes quadruple my salary, easily. Sorry for ranting, I'm lonely, broke and stressed out. I haven't approached him about my thoughts, I want to make sure I am not unreasonable before letting the car out of the box.

My wife gets upset with me because she feels I spoil the kids. I never say No to our daughters. I give them everything they want. They are 14 and 16 and I still run their baths and cook for them. They told me they wanted to go on vacation and I made sure I got it done. Even when I m tired I ll pushy myself to give them what they want. My wife thinks it s wrong. Am I wrong for loving my kids?

Hello, I married this man from Kenya, I truly love him from the bottom of my heart. I have supported him for over three years now. We also have two children together. We really loved each other or it seemed that way... Then he finally received his working papers and status. I paid for his first yr. of collage, and he then started working, got hired into this great job. I would always tell him how wonderful he is doing and how proud I always was of him. But after he started working, he started ignoring me, calling me stupid, comparing me to other women at his work, he wont show me any emotional or physical love at all, he runs me over when I try to talk to him. The only time I get any attention now is when he wants sex... I cant take this. I told him today that I want us to go to marriage counselling together. He wont go, he says he don't need to go and that Im the one that needs it. He also says I have voices in my head when I try to confront him on things he has done to me. Wont ever admit he is wrong, wont say sorry, and when he received his tax return, he didn't tell me about it and hid it from me, our furnace died during winter and all our pipes froze, he wont help, I took CPS showing up and telling him he is guilty of child neglect, then he gives me money from the tax return. Other wise I do believe he wouldn't have give me anything not even for his kids. He just seems so selfish now, what can I do.... Why is he treating me like this???

I know a few women who are on their third and fourth marriage but I have never married and we are all the same age. I know from talking to them that they think there is something wrong with a woman who has never been married, but I think it's something wrong with a woman who keeps getting married. Especially when they marry within a short time of meeting the man. So, Is it better to marry multiple times than to never marry at all?

Is it possible that they don't have any character qualities and faults or defects, that could have contributed to their marital problems? I know people of people who claim they are "NORMAL" never diagnosed and are ***** and also have divorces and can make ones life hell.

I work from home full time, he works in HVAC 60 hours a week. He expects me to "take care of him" and weight on him when he comes home. I think, since I work all day, make dinner and take care of the cats, that that time is also "my free" time and I shouldn t be expected to be his "waitress", we should be a team. He doesn t even take out the trash! Lately that has caused arguments. Today, he finally took out a pizza box, but, instead of putting it in the trash, he just placed it in the screened in porch and left it there! I was furious and took it to the garbage can ,myself. He also makes no plans for "us", but, he has no problem making plans with his male buddies 2 -3 times a week and hanging out in his garage with them drinking beer, also, all he seems to care about is fixing his old bike instead of more important things that need to be repaired around the house (door trim, fireplace, paint, shampoo carpets) yet, he complains the house is a mess but he doesn t do his part. Tonight, it was really bothersome. He said "I have to go get drunk in the garage with my friends, I can't stand being in here it is dirty" after I asked him to take out the trash (he only took out an empty pizza box and left it in the screened porch as I mentioned above, but left the full trash bags in the house). I do believe this was an excuse to go drink with his friends. Basically, this isn't what I signed up for. If I wanted to be left alone all the time and clean and cook, I wouldn;t have gotten married. I feel like I have a 18 year old kid not an adult partner in life. What is sad, he wasn't like this when we met. When we met, he was awesome, I cooked and made a point of doing the dishes and actually said "If you cook I clean - right?". He made dinner and chocolate chip cookies. He was great. I feel like I was fooled. Also, because he shows no interest in me or "us", I basically just let myself go. It's interesting how much your significant other can affect you. I used to care how I looked, ate healthy, worked out, put on nice clothes and makeup. Now, I stopped working out, gained weight, eat whatever I want and wear sweats and no makeup. Typo to update 2 above "I cooked and HE made a point of doing the dishes..."

I had to put him out in May last year, he had become very desrespectul to me coming Home at all Hours, having too Many happy Hours with coworkers etc, i think he was going though an early mid life crisis, he kept telling me that we was done and that he wanted to b single,and i filed for divorse 4 months later, and all he was worried abt was his money... I Love him, and i even tried to cancel the divorce... He said he had already got used to the idea... So in Feb he Came by the house... Apologizing for What he had done, But have never said he wants to come back... I forgaved him,( for my peace Of mind), one Day he Ended up in my Room and we got to 3rd base, and the next Day I felt used. He tell me that he dosent know what he wants, that I need to be with someone that does, that he is not ready to commit , he is not pushing the divorce because he said that maybe in the future we might have a chance? I'm so confuse... He blame me for our failure, is a jerk, but shows up and wanna touch me, his actions say one thing but he says another... Last weekend he said that maybe we could go have coffee... So my dumb Self was looking forward to it, later after I text him he said: maybe I'm busy... :( and never text me back... So I was soo upset, and the next day asked him to meet me , and had him sign money settlement papers, he was furious and walk out on me. am I doing the right thing or should I fight for my marriage and wait until he gets out of his bipolar midlife crisis ?

I had relationships with men, but they never were what I expected. Its hard to live alone on bills and things. It would be nice if someone would help me pay the bills and just go out for dinner and drinks and that's it. I am not trying to sound like a gold digger, but being in love and married is never a secure thing anyhow. Sex is sex. Everyone who is also married tell me how lucky I am to not be married. Al complaing about wives and husbands. They don't know being alone is hard to pay the bills. Trust me dated for love and to get married, never happened for me. I tried and tried where it got to point where I got disgusted. I loved sex I loved men. All changed on how I seen how it was and how they were. They wanted threesomes, looked at other women, all that man stuff. I thought I did not like to follow what they wanted.

I'm an asexual and a little aromantic. However, I might decide to take up a husband for financial security if need be. I would feign attraction, of course. I would make him think it's an actual relationship and he would never know its fake. But could I find a man who doesn't want sex? And how would I go about finding one? Do I just walk around with a sign that says 'hey doesn't anybody here NOT want sex?' I'm 17 but PLEASE don't say 'you'll change'. Do you know how rude that sounds? That's like telling a gay person that they'll eventually become straight later on in life and they're just young. It's rude. So: are there men out there who don't want sex? Would they eventually break it off with me to have sex with some girl? Also, couldn't I just tell him to have sex with a stripper or some other girl but to stay married to me? Is that okay?

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This is not a gender issue. This is a marriage issue. No, it is a relationship issue. If you can't motivate someone to do something against their will, then how are you going to get things done if you can't do it yourself?

I had to out him out in May last year, he had become very desrespectul to me coming Home at all Hours, having too Many happy Hours with coworkers etc, i think he was going though an early mid life crisis, he kept telling me that we was done and that he wanted to b single,and i filed for divorse 4 months later, and all he was worried abt was his money... I Love him, and i even tried to cancel the divorce... He said he had already got used to the idea... So in Feb he Came by the house... Apologizing for What he had done, But have never said he wants to come back... I forgaved him,( for my peace Of mind), one Day he Ended up in my Room and we got to 3rd base, and the next Day I felt used. He tell me that he dosent know what he wants, that I need to be with someone that does, that he is not ready to commit , he is not pushing the divorce because he said that maybe in the future we might have a chance? I'm so confuse... He blame me for our failure, is a jerk, but shows up and wanna touch me, his actions say one thing but he says another... Last weekend he said that maybe we could go have coffee... So my dumb Self was looking forward to it, later after I text him he said: maybe I'm busy... :( and never text me back... So I was soo upset, and the next day asked him to meet me , and had him sign money settlement papers, he was furious and walk out on me. am I doing the right thing or should I fight for my marriage and wait until he gets out of his bipolar midlife crisis ?

Romance is a sport, tell me if you agree: All men are expected to "get up to bat". Every girl that it doesn't go well with we are "striking out". Sometimes people are confusing and they "throw you a curve ball". Arguments are considered "foul" or "bad game". But there are times when the GUY at bat (I have to emphasize that it is traditionally the GUYS job to do the batting) hits the ball and will travel a base. 1st base is kissing, 2nd base is hj, 3rd base is bj, and 4th base is to "score" with a girl (sex). The whole innuendo makes dating a sport NOT about companionship. It's all about achievement and getting that prize/trophy. Romantic love is much the same. Only as a pitcher you aren't trying to strike them out (unless you're super picky and want to be alone). No, instead, you want them to hit bases; only you want them to do it on YOUR terms. 1st base flowers/kindness. 2nd base Dinner/Movie. 3rd base nice private outing. 4th base spent the whole evening giving you undivided attention at his apartment alone. The competition on both sides is to get the ring on it (or avoid getting the ring on it) and to use sex as a weapon to get what you want and "WIN THE GAME". Then once married, you have to keep the game going or else the illusion of "marriage" is lost and you inevitably get divorced since you both have crappy personalities and should have never married. It's all just a game of self interest. What's your opinion? Oh, I forgot something.... Of course not just anyone can pitch or bat; they both have to wear their uniforms in order to play the game. Guys have to dress and act a certain way before a girl will pitch to him. And Girls have to dress and act a certain way before a guy will swing at what she's pitching. The whole "sex appeal" is programmed into us at a very young age, with preferences to gender norms like blonde hair, stiletto heels, clean shaves, and a toned body. All this just to "date". Mind you, nothing I said in this essay said anything about getting to know each other's personalities, beliefs, goals, bias, ideologies, upbringing, socioeconomic status, past, or even talking about their future together... The whole thing is designed in such a way to get a man and a woman to have sex and have more babies, all the while selling them products to "keep them in their A game" and to prove they "still got it".... The point is, there's nothing real about it. It is all a game. With getting sex as a motivation driver. And with getting romance as a motivation driver. This definition of love is a codependent intermingling of expectations from the other person to "make a move" in order for their personal needs to be met. There are no real needs here. There's no real connection. There's just self satisfaction and pleasure. Pleasure is not love. Pleasure is fleeting and must be renewed. Love is unconditional and is ongoing. I wish people here would see the difference. The way the game is played treats the man is just a wallet and the woman is just a sex toy. Objectification on both sides. And this is VERY shallow. Neither person is investigated for their deep feelings or deep mental connection. The two people only exist in each other's lives to satisfy a self gratification that they are trained to not satisfy themselves - pleasure and love. People who are "complete" don't do this. We aren't "better halves" either. And this codependency is "okay" by society. Best answer to the person who takes a stand for or against this essay and can defend their point of view. This is not a survey or poll, I really want someone to prove me wrong about how YOU live your life (this says nothing about me - I'm not this way - I am instead JUDGING YOU). While it is humorous moving this to sports, I want to open up the minds of the people in M&D so keep it there. If you refuse to see YOUR VERSION of marriage as a sport then I don't think I can keep asking/answering questions here. It is a waste of time since your idea is toxic. Toxic to you, toxic to me, and toxic to anyone who is coming here for advice! A video from TED Talks that agrees with me that Sex/romance has a sports metaphor (and it needs to be fixed). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xF-CX9mAHPo

My parents are visiting us.My parents are very prudish and if they heard us getting it on it would bother them a lot. Also, they're strict asians and me having sex with a white guy (my husband) would bother them. I know they have to know we do it, but if they heard it it would on ly bother them more. I thought I could just wait until they left within two weeks. However, it's getting hard for me to wait that long. My fiance is looking sexier every moment and I just want to rip off all his clothes and make love to him (and have him give me oral). How can I do this without having my parents hear us/know we're doing it even if we're in the same building. We're almost always pretty loud, which hasn't been a problem until now.

Is "being great in bed" a good reason? Is "treats me better than any other man" a good reason? Is "understands me" a good reason? How about "I understand them and admire them for who they are", is that a good reason? I need to know what you believe.

Gosh, I sometimes hate my spouse. Just can't take his childish, not caring behavior. He does things that I feel like am wasting my time w/him. I used to love him but now am just w/him because of financial reasons. I am too afraid to leave because IDK what it would be like being divorced. I am in my late 20s. Not as fresh and beautiful anymore.I am wondering if I can even find someone better or is this what marriage is. There has to be something wrong that I feel this way am sure. How often do you think about leaving/cheating on your spouse? My husband is a good provider through his parents. He comes from a very rich family., we have no kids. He takes good care of me but I feel very lonely w/him. He is simply not w/me on an emotional level. He was on drugs but has quit though I see it is hard for him and he does it here and there. Keeps saying it is time to change forever but all this just stresses me out. I wana just leave him and move on. Just tired of him. Who cares about the vows but am scared because I don't even have anyone I could go to. I have a part time job, it will be so hard I know. What should I do? It is like since I have been married, has been the most lonely & stressful life I ever had.

And her first husband was my father, 26 years her senior. After my mother's death, my father had relationships with dozens of women. He truly loved my mother and fruitlessly sought a substitute for her. Women slept with him willingly because he was handsome, rich and successful. She was different - she truly loved my dad but my dad saw her as nothing but a substitute. They weren't even legally married. After my father's death, I pursued her and, for reasons I am still unsure of, she married me. All these years, I've felt insecure. I'm not half as celebrated as my father. Although I work hard, people still see me as a useless son of his. I've lived under my father's shadow all along, and although she didn't mention it I got the feeling that she was using me as a mere substitute. I loved her the most while she was with my father. She was an innocent girl who was willing to do anything and everything for him. She has changed since marrying me - constantly unsatisfied, because I'm a failure in comparison to my father. I had an affair recently, with a girl who reminded me of her younger self. And she attacked me, told me I was no match for Dad, and that all these years she has not gone a day without yearning to see my father again. My heart aches. It aches a lot! I've loved her faithfully all these years, I've worked so hard just to impress her... Does it sound as though she doesn't love me at all, or does she simply love my father a bit more than she loves me?

I'm 56 and my wife is 57, and for the last couple of months, my wife has been much less easier to involve in sexual activities with me. We may only do it once a month, if that! What should I do?

This is a serious question. I have to say that because today I've been pushing buttons; but I am serious when I ask this question and I want your insight on this. First off let me say, I'm 32 years old (male) and I don't value sex. I don't value romance either. At this point, I just want to work my 40 hours and go home to relax. My wife also works 40 hours and goes home to relax. Neither of us want my wife to slave over my penis. Neither of us want me to slave over her "beauty" by treating her like an object and giving her superficial romance. Both of us want to feel connected, but we don't need sex or romance to feel that way. So this got me to thinking. It wasn't this way when one of us was home... When she was the only one working I wanted romance badly. And when I was the only one working I wanted a stripper wife that made pornstars look like saints. But as soon as we went dual income, as soon as we were rewarding ourselves for a hard day worked, as soon as the dependence on the other person to "give us a biscuit" was gone, we both stopped the sex/romance game. I argue the reason we even want sex/romance is because of the media; otherwise we'd just reward ourselves with good conversation or with a good challenge. Or we'd just have fulfilling jobs. But regardless of why we have sex/romance addictions, do you feel it goes away when you no longer codepend on your spouse for your feelings of happiness? And can it really be a mutual self dependence on single income? @User named Katie - Yeah, I'm done with you. I tried to show respect to you by unblocking you, but the respect is not mutual and I could care less if you are a busy body with over 80,000 points. If you can't show respect towards ME then I don't have to put up with YOU. Bye.

My ex husband and I had a messy divorce years ago. He cheated on me and got another woman pregnant. I told him if he wanted to save our marriage, he'd have to cut ties with the other woman and her then-unborn child. He refused and divorced me. We do currently share custody of our 6 year old son. The last time my son went to visit my ex, I told him to never acknowledge his half sister as his sister. I told him to call her a worthless bastard. He listened and my ex husband spanked him. When my ex dropped him off, he came in and slapped me across the face and called me a c*nt b*tch for telling my son to do that. He said I was a horrible mother and that he is going to fight for full custody of our son. I told him if he did, I will tell the judge he hit me. My ex said the judge won't believe me. I did call the police and had him arrested for it because he left a mark on my face, so there is legal evidence that he did it. Will that hurt his chances of getting full custody?

I know its kinda disgusting cuz people looking at me everywhere. I dont like it how they stare at me, walking with a guy i called my love which is 20 years old difference. Ive known him 6 months, and yes, hes a good looking(with medium stomach) , taller than me, and the best part, hes funny and always want me to be happy. He always help my family with financial. He gave money to me and asked me to give it to my mom. Since shes ill. Mom always thought it was my money i got for my job. He bought me a house(condo) which is really comfortable. And bought me a new iphone and all branded things like guess, bonia, burberry and much more. I didnt ask for that. But he wanted to give me since i never had those stuff. Hes a married man with two kids(12 & 13) and his wife is a angry woman. Always angry on him and ask where he been all the time. He took my virginity but i was okay cause i love him. And now, he wanted to get married with me, and want me to be his official wife. But my family will object real soon cus u know, hes older than me. Our religion is so different. And none of our families married such a difference age of 20! The maximum was only 10 years. But,i really do love him, and wanted to be with him,but my sisters know him since i introduced him last year. Theyre hatin cus he always brought me home at midnight. Now i dont know what to do, after all what he done for only myself, i really cant make decision, he loves me so much, but should i marry him? I dont know what to do.

i quit my job to finish school and i now go to achool fulltime And work a part time job my wife keeps referring our house as her house when we argue she tell me shes dropping me off at my moms house. I left a good payingjob too i feel like noyhing is mine. Anybody ever feelnlike this.

hope to someday not home sorry about that lol Those are some good ones. Please keep them coming :)

I have been married for 7 years. it was just after moving in with my husband that I realized about certain habits that to me are not healthy like staying late on the internet sometimes watching pornography. Then I noticed that he does not have any interest in helping around the house or thinking about improvements on how we live. He does help only when I ask. He has his own business but procrastinates many things about it, he could be making more money and working less if he spend some time at improving his business. We have many arguments because of all of these things. Sometimes I think he is depressed or in pain for treating himself that way, then I think why i am still wanting to stay with someone that has so many issues. would be easier to just walk away.

So me and my husband just recently got married a couple of months ago and a month after we married i asked my father in law for his besfriends phone number to buy some weed and he did. i had to hide it from my husband because he wont let me smoke weed. well we started talking and he didnt charge me for the weed but its not like i wasnt gonna pay then we just started talking and one thing lead to another and we're having sex. he has 2 kids from his first ex gf and 2 more kids from his current gf. his current gf hasnt been giving sex for over 9 months. we first agreed that it was just gonna be sex and no feelings thats all and one thing lead to another and he caught himself saying i love you to me. then he said he felt so bad for saying that because he doesnt want to tell me that and he then not ends up w me. a few months past and he starts calling me babe telling me he loves me and that he wants to get me pregnant but of course i dont. i dont want to have kids and my husband does but he may have low sperm count. so not too long ago my "bf" and i have sex and he says he wants to come inside me we dont use protection. so then i was almost needing to go home and i said just *** already and he said are you sure and i said yea and he said ok so he ends up cumming inside me when i didnt want that to happen. then he tells me im def gonna get pregnant and that hes willing to be w me but he needs to catch his gf cheating on him to leave her but im not expecting anything from him

My wife has known Ann for ten years. Ann has a bad history of picking the wrong guys. Ann met a guy named Max and they had three kids together. Max is an alcoholic and he treats Ann badly. No cheating or physical abuse. They just fight a lot. My wife has told Ann she needs to leave Max and Ann never listened. Ann married Max last June. Recently Ann left Max. She has a full-time job, but never seems to have any money. My wife and I live 45 minutes from Ann and Max. My wife has invited Ann to move in with us. I knew this was a possibility before I married my wife. My wife insists that Ann live with us rent and bill free. The reason I was ok with it at first is I did not really know Ann. However, over the last year of knowing Ann better, Ann takes advantage of my wife. Ann has a photo business and shot a wedding. My wife helped her out with that and Ann even sent her a small gift card. However, she dumps all of the editing on my wife and once Ann got paid my wife got nothing, yet Ann bought herself a new TV. I have told my wife I feel like Ann takes advantage of her and I don't mind Ann and her kids moving in or it being rent and bill free for a couple of months, but I don't there it should be free forever. Ann would work and pay for daycare, but it irritates me that my wife will not put any sort of a limit on how long Ann can stay free. Am I being selfish about this? I'm all for helping people, but this is going too far for me.

That's a real problem for addictive personality types. Where do you draw the line? I know the question on here is how do I get MORE sex, but raise your eyebrow to those people for a second. How much is too much? And at what point is having sex less about your spouse and more about YOU? I'm not trying to hint to a spiritual or noble meaning of sex. I don't even want to talk about that. I just want to discuss this whole "sex as a reward" thing. If you truly believe it is a reward (and the majority of you do), then how do you prevent someone from being over-rewarded to the point of addiction and/or burnout? Where you all voted: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150324140221AAByuOC

I am 18, my boyfriend is 21. We have been together for almost 2 years, and have lived together by ourselves for a year (we bought a house last year). As far as finances, we are more than stable. Like I said, we have lived together for a while, so we know the annoying things that each other can do. We know how to take care of a household together. We have 6 dogs that we have got all over the past 2 years, and they are amazingly taken care of by both of us. I know I feel about him in a way I've never felt before, and he just asked me what I thought about getting engaged at the end of the year, he knows i hates surprises so he knew he had to tell me he was at least thinking of getting engaged instead of just getting down on one knee someday lol. At the time of getting engaged we will have been with each other for two and a half years and are planning on waiting at least two years before getting married. I know he is in love with the idea of getting engaged and I am too, I just don't know if 18 is too young. NO we are not getting married because we're pregnant (we don't have any kids), NO we're not getting married just because we live together. But he knew when I moved in that not getting married WASNT an option. Just need some advice, in the end I will do what I want but I just need some supportive (or sometimes critical) advice. Thanks!