Marriage & Divorce: Question: Why would a guy with girlfriend stalk you? |
- Question: Why would a guy with girlfriend stalk you?
- Question: Caught my son having sex with an older girl?
- Question: To The Women: How can I be a good husband? I always felt like I was put on this earth to be the best husband I could be and home to someday?
- Question: Is there a time limit on changing your name after getting Married?
- Question: Husband suggested I find someone else for sex..?
- Question: Who's being stubborn here?
- Question: I am in a sexless marriage. What do i do?
- Question: His response..opinions?
- Question: My husband has diabetes?
- Question: How many married people out there feel lonely? My husbands here at home but may as well be 1000 miles away. I'm missing something!?
- Question: I was just married and my husband just revealed that years ago before he had even married me...?
- Question: How does the old woman save the knight's life? (Wife of Bath)?
- Question: Look, I would do anything for my wife. If there was something she desired, I would do about anything under the sun to get it.?
- Question: If my uncle gets remarried is his wife my step-aunt or just my aunt?
- Question: I'm frustrated. should i just let her go or be patient?
- Question: How can a married man be so lonely?
- Question: Can her marriage be saved?
- Question: Surprise gift for my wife, a car - right under her nose!?
- Question: How is losing your virginity for guys?
- Question: Christian women: What Is It Like Being Married to a Calm, Emotionally Steady, Hard-Working Man? I have one-He's wonderful!?
- Question: How can I stop my husband from Hurting me?
- Question: Survey Marriage/ relationships interview survey?
- Question: Married guys, if you were interested in another woman would you mention your wife around her, ever?
- Question: Pregnant and leaving my husband!advice please!?
- Question: Foemr how long did you date before you got married ?
- Question: Husband too happy with own family, doesnt really need me?
- Question: Can I gain custody of my step daughter while my fiance is in jail?
- Question: Is it really right for my ex to do something for my daughter after I told him no?
- Question: IF YOUR HUSBAND SAY THAT YOU ARE THE BEST WIFE I EVER HAVE AND I LOVE YOU THE MOST DO THIS MEAN HE HAD A WIFE IN THE PAST?
- Question: Why get married and have children?
- Question: Why do more women benefit more from marriage than men?
- Question: How much money can you save by not being married and not having children?
- Question: Why do people have children?
- Question: Men seem to have affairs and end marriages. Women seem to be just walking away from committment to do what they want lately. Why?
- Question: What is the cause of this fear in men, at least men "Here" !?
- Question: What do you do if people hate you?
- Question: Can someone opine on my second-hand experiences on marrying Indian women?
- Question: Yes or? A there women who love money MORE than their husbands?
- Question: My Husband moved out, he says he dosent know What he wants... Help?
- Question: What do you and your spouse do for pleasure? Eat? Romance? Sex? Argue? Sports? Drugs? Well, what?!?
- Question: What would you do in this situation?
- Question: In 2014 I was married and had a stepchild. We divorced in 2015. Is there anything I can write off that has to do with my stepchild?
- Question: Providing for my husbands son is putting a strain on our marriage?
- Question: Cheating husband, should I expect my in laws to apologise for him and their ignorance?
- Question: Married advice - which mother to visit on Mother's Day?
- Question: What do I do about my cheating husband?
- Question: Is it wrong to think like this?
- Question: Blended family problems.?
- Question: Do all wives abandon their husband if he became paraplegic?
- Question: My wife of 5 years just told me she came from a incest family.?
- Question: MEN: Would you get a vasectomy?
- Question: My husband is away and I don't miss him, is that bad?
- Question: Any countries where I can move out and get married as a teenager?
- Question: **Married People Only** Looking for suggestions for a dead end, sexless, non-romantic marriage.?
- Question: How much does "having fun" influence what you do in your Marriage or your life?
- Question: When a couple divorces, what happens to assets, savings prior to marriage?
- Question: Is it possible to have 13 wives/husbands in your lifetime?
- Question: Age is highly considered when getting married in SriLanka. How about the other countries in the world?
- Question: How can u mend a broken heart?
| Question: Why would a guy with girlfriend stalk you? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 09:37 PM PDT Me and this guy liked each other will atless i thougt i liked me, but things changed when he got a girlfriend.. to make the long story short him having a girlfriend i don't want nothing to do with him.I don't wanna talk to him or know him him having a girlfriend i can't take him seriouly or treat him like a "normal" guy because there are so many man single that only go after who they like. Will he's always following me showing up at stores where i am, I even think he knows where i live..it makes me very uncomfortable of someone watching me..I even think i heard him talking about me in a bad way to some girl when i went to a store bummy one day..on social media its ok but not in person i stopped going to places i loved because of him ..hes very creppy..what to do? |
| Question: Caught my son having sex with an older girl? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 09:19 PM PDT My son is 16 and a sophomore in high school. Lately he has been disrespectful with me and my wife but then regrets what he says and apologizes. Anyways I come home from work a bit early I usually get out at 8 or 9 I got out at 6:30 and I hear noise from his room and he's having sex with my daughters friend. I apologize and tell him I'm gonna go buy some milk and leave, I bought milk and didn't even need milk.... These past 2days he's been avoiding me and not trying to make eye contact. I haven't told my wife about this incident. Should I talk to him? Will it make this better? I honestly don't care but, Do I tell him not to have sex any more? He had sex with his sisters friend she's a white girl (btw we are Hispanics) but she's 22 I think. She's always been over at our house but this time she was alone with my son. I think it's wrong because she's 22 but at the same time I think i am over reacting like he's a boy, I should leave his sex life to him after all it's their choice. Should I just give him a talk about making sure he uses protection? Please help me, I don't want to discuss this with my wife |
| Posted: 12 Apr 2015 09:19 PM PDT 1. Will the fact that I am a virgin and waiting to have sex with someone i Care and love which will probably be my wife make me a better husband? |
| Question: Is there a time limit on changing your name after getting Married? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:53 PM PDT Once you get married, is there a time limit to change your name with Social Security? I know that each state is different on their License policy, but to change it on the National level. |
| Question: Husband suggested I find someone else for sex..? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:49 PM PDT I've been married for 11 months. I am 21 and my husband is 24. My husband out right told me last month that we wouldn't be having sex anymore for the following reasons: 1. Its too much "work" 2. It hurts him afterwards It has been 2 months since we have been intimate. I have a much higher drive than he does I can admit and I can respect that his body is sore afterwards. I have suggested new less taxing ways that way we could still have that intimacy but I am turned down every time. 3 days ago my husband told me when I tried to come onto him: "Maybe you should find someone else." I was completely confused and asked what he meant by that he stated: "Well I cant give it to you, so maybe you should find someone else to help you out with your..needs." Instantly I was turned off and got really mad. I got up, put on my jogging clothes, and went on a run to cool off before asking why he would even suggest that. (I didn't want to sit there and get into an argument because I was mad that he thought that an option.) When I sat down to talk to him about it later he told me the same thing.. I told him I wanted the closeness and intimacy that sex brought, with HIM. To which he just shrugged and dropped the conversation. I believe even with permission that going to another for sex is cheating. I wouldn't do it. But I really do not understand why any man would tell their wife to find someone else for sex. Any ideas as to why he'd say this or opinions on the situation? @Kyra: Nope no kids here. @See level: we have gone to 2 doctors for his pain after intercourse. He was given a clean bill of health from one of them and diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome by the other. He now refuses to see any more doctors because it is too stressful for him. |
| Question: Who's being stubborn here? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:47 PM PDT I've played the piano for over 20 years now. When I moved in with my boyfriend (now my husband), I had to depart with the baby grands at my parent's house and settle for a rented electric piano. Now that we're in a house, I've been bringing up the idea of finally investing in a real piano. I'm sure my grandma and my dad would both be willing to leave me their baby grand pianos, but not until they die, which is a few decades (hopefully) away. Plus, I'm afraid the cost of hauling it from CA to WA would cost too much, so I'm just assuming the best option is to buy our own. Here's the issue: I want a baby grand, but he wants the cheaper, space saving upright. I've always ALWAYS hoped for a baby grand again, but he just seems to think it's unnecessary. I'm fine with buying a used one off Craigslist, I'm not looking for a fancy, brand new $20,000 grand piano. But he only seems to care about space. We're doing great financially, and he's the one bragging constantly about how we can afford just about anything now that our debt is gone. How our price range for a house in 2 or 3 years will be much higher than last time...so we'll most definitely have the space. But he just seems to think I'm being stubborn wanting a baby grand instead of an upright. So, which is more important: practicality and space, or a lifelong hobby? (FYI, we are extremely happy. This is not a very big issue. It's a minor squabble, so let's just focus on the issue at hand and not the overall marriage) |
| Question: I am in a sexless marriage. What do i do? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:47 PM PDT Me and my husband havent had sex in last 19 months. The last time we had sex i got pregnant and gave birth to our 1st baby. We're both very happy to have this baby in our life. But my baby is 10months old now and my hubby has not shown any interest in having physical intimacy with me. I did bring up this topic a couple of times but he cut the topic short and said that he was stressed 😕. He never had a great sex drive anyway. It has always been dull. Before my pregnancy we used to have sex just once a month or so. We are married for 5 years now. I just dont understand why is he not making any attempts to rev up our sex life. He enjoys watching porn tho. i never really enjoy sex with him. He always finishes first. Honestly, i have never had an orgasm while having sex with him. 😞 yet i never say anything that will be little him. I make sure i dont cause performance anxiety. He is so weird, sometimes he will turn me on and then just leave. I am feeling frustrated now. I dont wanna beg. But i also dont wanna live like a nun. I am too young to live like this. I have never cheated on him but now i feel like its only a matter of time. P.s:- he is not insecure of me. He thinks i m gonna go no where. Any effort i make in looking good goes un-noticed. Ok, some background on my hubby's personality. He is a very picky person. He hates almost all my family. He can be dis-respectful at times. He says he only loves me and now our baby. He is very faithful I am certain. Pls advise! |
| Question: His response..opinions? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:43 PM PDT "I really love you no matter how much don't think I care" opinions? I meant "I really love you no matter how much you don't think I care" |
| Question: My husband has diabetes? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:31 PM PDT It effects his ability to maintain an erection. He won't seek help and I am so frustrated. When we do try he gets a partial erection and it's gone quickly. I feel like I'm wound up 24-7. He won't talk to his doctor and gets upset with me for asking him too. What can I do? |
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| Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:18 PM PDT I was just married and my husband just revealed that years ago before he had even married me he came to a point in his life where he had just lost his job and had plenty of extra time on his hands. he never understood how someone could say they had been searching someone their entire life when they are saying whatever they can to get some girl into bed. He wrote to his future wife like what marriage meant to him what he wanted in a wife, sweet messages, poems , articles on marriage. He made a promise that he would always send me something once a day continue his search for me and no matter what never give up. He also felt that when ever things got hard in our marriage he could reflect back on this and it would remind what its all about. I just wanted to see if anyone elses husbands does something like this and how would u feel about it? Thanks. |
| Question: How does the old woman save the knight's life? (Wife of Bath)? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:16 PM PDT |
| Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:04 PM PDT So, when I mention to her how hot I find a nice thigh gap, especially in a pair of leggings, how it makes me fully hard to the point where I could give a 100-lb woman a ride, and that I want a thigh gap on my mouth whenever I see one, why won't she indulge me? |
| Question: If my uncle gets remarried is his wife my step-aunt or just my aunt? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:00 PM PDT |
| Question: I'm frustrated. should i just let her go or be patient? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 07:59 PM PDT So I've been talking to this lady for a while now but its never progressed to nothing more than conversations on the phone or going out together for a few times. She hasn't told me much about her life but i know she nakes a substantial amount of money and she's divorced with a few children. I've never even been to her house after all this time and when we do go out, she never lets me kiss her or hug her. When we talk and i tell her i want us to go further, she's like naw. I like to keep it moving, i don't have time to be falling in love and catching feelings and all that.been there and done that.we can be cool though." i asked her why she felt that way and she says she's only concerned about herself and that it takes too long to get over people and its easier to just not get invovled like that. She also told me she might deal with a dude for a lil bit then she gotta cut him off and keep it movin. It seems like I'm running into more and more women like this. Wtf is wrong with them??? I'm just ready to be alone |
| Question: How can a married man be so lonely? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 07:56 PM PDT My friend has started having sex with his sheep and thinks this is normal. He's even convinced another friend to have "wool socks:the real thing" parties. I've started filming this and wondered how far do you think I should get involved? Should I just pursue their wives who are smoking hot or be true to my pals? |
| Question: Can her marriage be saved? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 07:56 PM PDT was the other guy. She was married to a porn and video game addict for 2.5 years. They separated and we had an amazing time for over a month. She went back to him and tried once for a duration of 1 week. She said it's no longer there, the marriage is dead. During her separation, she became desperate because she has so much things to do to improve her life. School, work, etc...Well she partied too much and got a DUI yesterday, now she's back with her husband the same day. I know she will never tell her husband about me and that's fine, I don't have to live with that, she does. Is this out of desperation? I miss her and I will let go of her, but I know she's making a huge mistake by going back to a place that made her unhappy. She doesn't have to be with me, I get that, but I just don't see how her marriage can work after this. |
| Question: Surprise gift for my wife, a car - right under her nose!? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 07:09 PM PDT I'm looking for ideas on how to present it to her. I've been working on a classic VW Beetle for months. Buying everything new. All the color and interior choices have gotten her approval for her taste. It's currently in the body shop undergoing restoration and repainting and will be done in a couple weeks. Then home for assembly. EVERYTHING on the car will be new! Since I got the car she has always and still thinks I'm doing all this work for myself. But in actuality it has always been a gift for her. For her accomplishments as a wife, a Mom, and a student. She has a year of nursing school left but this will be an early graduation gift for her. How would you present this to your wife? Or, how would you like it presented to you?? Thanks! |
| Question: How is losing your virginity for guys? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 07:06 PM PDT So I'm basically the only one of my friends that is a virgin and I see no real point in waiting til marriage or anything. I met this older girl about a year back and I think I can sleep with her if I make my moves right. She's really open with me and has told me about the guys she's slept with and what she likes. I'm just kind of nervous, about most all of it. Should I tell her I'm a virgin? What should I do during? And is it really that big of an event? |
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| Question: How can I stop my husband from Hurting me? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 06:55 PM PDT He gets so upset if I don't do what he asks me to do. He has been abusive with me plenty of time. He does not know how to talk with me. He has a bad temper,he refuses to take marriage consulting. He calles me ugly names and hurts me. I know it would be best to leave but I don't have anywhere to go. I also know that I probably need to call the police when he puts his hands on me. I do wanna work stuff out with him but I've been trying different options but it seems that it's no working. Any suggestions how I can stop him from hurting me? |
| Question: Survey Marriage/ relationships interview survey? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 06:44 PM PDT 1. What are the some of the qualities need to make a relationship or marriage successful . 2. What were some of the adjustments you had to make once you were married or started dating 3. What is the biggest setback in your marriage 4. What has been the biggest setback in your marriage or relationship 5. How do you deal with conflicts in relationship 6: what individual qualities or characteristic are important to a good marriage or relationship 7. What five questions do you think should be asked before getting married 8. What advice would you give your children and grandchildren about getting married |
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| Question: Pregnant and leaving my husband!advice please!? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 06:12 PM PDT Ok so... I am only 22 have a 1 1/2 year old beautiful girl and pregnant with a baby girl on the way and to summarize I have been married for 2 1/2 years with a selfish husband and a bad father! So after giving him many chances to better or put forth any effort to this marriage or to his child as family members have asked of me I have finally come to a conclusion that he will never change and continue to mistreat us I am 7 months pregnant how or where will we live? No one will give me a job I can barely walk and not in good health! Are there any programs in il to get a woman out of a bad marriage? |
| Question: Foemr how long did you date before you got married ? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 03:57 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband too happy with own family, doesnt really need me? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 03:37 PM PDT My husband and i have been married for 4 years and have an 11 month old son. We live with his parents and sister. He says he loves me very much but the truth is he doesnt really need to spend time with me, when hes back from work he chats with his parents whilst im doing the household chores and when im done he runs to his room to read as hes doing his post grad. I dont want to interrupt his studies or career but feel theres no point of being married as he never consults me to make any decisions and nor does he discuss intricate financial details of the household. He even sleeps in his parents room as he doesnt like the baby ruining his sleep as he isnt able to function properly the next day. I feel saddened and very hurt to not be a complete part of his life and feel lonely. My parents are abroad and have nobody here. He doesnt really need me for anything other than sex. He is happy to finance my needs but thats the last thing i need really. Wish he would need me emotionally too. Wish he would chat with me sometimes. I wish life was happier. |
| Question: Can I gain custody of my step daughter while my fiance is in jail? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 03:27 PM PDT He has always had his daughter in his care full time. When we first started dating three years ago her mother was barely in the picture. It wasn't until we had moved in together 6 months later did she start being more active in her daughters life. That being said my step daughter will be 7 this year, and for the last 2.5 years I have been a primary caregiver to her. I want to know if it is possible for me to gain custody so her whole life doesn't have to be upheaved. There is no custody order between them and never has been. Her roots are here, she goes to school here... I believe it would be detrimental to her emotional and mental state. |
| Question: Is it really right for my ex to do something for my daughter after I told him no? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 03:14 PM PDT My ex husband asked me if he could take my daughter to Florida with him and his girlfriend with her children, and I told him no because I don't like or trust his girlfriend at all. Ariana has always wanted to go to Disney World, but I don't want her to go with them though. And I told him that so this weekend when he had her he told her that he was taking her to Disney World this summer since when she came back she told me about it and she's really excited about it and now he has made me the bad guy who will have to tell her that she can't go! But for some reason he seems to think it was his right to do that but that's not right to me at all. Am I right? |
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| Question: Why get married and have children? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 02:07 PM PDT I have seen so many good people do this and then get divorced and lose everything I advised them to build a circle of friends instead There are over 7 billion people on the planet and the earth is changing We need more reproductive education |
| Question: Why do more women benefit more from marriage than men? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 02:06 PM PDT Too often I read about pros and cons of marriages. It seems that women are heavily benefiting in marriage more than men. Why is this? |
| Question: How much money can you save by not being married and not having children? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 01:55 PM PDT At least $250,000 I would say That's a lot of money! |
| Question: Why do people have children? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 01:39 PM PDT Why not invest your money and enjoy high culture, intellectual pursuits, and travel? There is a higher likelihood your relationships will work out without children Why marry? The divorce rate is so high Find a partner who shares your interests and if things do not work out move on |
| Posted: 12 Apr 2015 01:34 PM PDT My wife had an affair on me that ended our marriage, so I know that these are generalizations. It seems like men having affairs often end marriages. Guys get caught up in the grass is greener syndrome. There seem to be a lot of women ending marriages for reasons like, they want to do their own thing , they just don t want to be married any more , they no longer want to commit to being with somebody else , etc..etc.. Why are women just not wanting to be in committed relationships any more? |
| Question: What is the cause of this fear in men, at least men "Here" !? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 01:26 PM PDT "Here," sometimes I see men frightened of their wives. They'll shut up with just a look from their wives. When I ask Why, they say : because She's the only one that's seen our btm naked ! I'm 53 - never married, but improvise now and again. We both always put on some covering after getting out of the ... alter, and I've never let them see my btm naked. But, if did - I would be embarrased for couple of days, a week at most. Now, why would men, be frightened of their wives! for having seen their btms naked, all their lives ? |
| Question: What do you do if people hate you? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 11:24 AM PDT My husband is the only one who supports me. But his family does not like me because I am not successful enough to them and they bad mouth me and wouldn't even come to our wedding. My dad was never in my life and so his family shuns me. My mother is in my life but she makes it hard when she constantly argues and complains and she is a narcissist. My mothers family live far away and don't talk to me. And I have no friends. I used to have friends but when I moved away they stopped contact with me because they didnt think I was Christian enough. I try to appreciate everything in my life and be kind to others. I am okay with only having my husband's support but I feel bad for him as his family treat him badly because he is with me. Is it possible to go through life having only your husband? And how do you deal with a narcissist? Thanks for your answer. |
| Question: Can someone opine on my second-hand experiences on marrying Indian women? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 11:04 AM PDT As someone of Indian descent, I was indoctrinated that marrying an Indian woman is blissful and leads to a satisfying marriage. I have realised over the years with experience and observation that the picture isn't so rosy. I know that marriage itself isn't a happy experience in today's society and that the boat could rock regardless of the ethnicity or background of the partners involved. But, I want to narrow the focus of this question down to marriage with Indian women. After having seen marriages in my family, I observed that they appear to be happy on the outside, but there is a vast decay on the inside. I have seen that in my parent's marriage, with health problems producing a strain, my mum just doesn't seem to cope like a mature woman. Throwing tantrums or hissy fits, making comparisons, moaning about the situation and not being understanding seems to be the norm. But that's how she has always been. I am not using this to sweep it under the carpet, nor am I saying that my dad is a saint. As someone in my late twenties and single, I want to be a good person and live a stable, clean and happy life. But with the crap around me, both at home and in our society, it's difficult to not allow it to influence me and develop hangups. Marrying (in general) an Indian woman seems like signing my own death certificate. P.S.: Marriages in the western society don't seem to fare any better. What's happening? |
| Question: Yes or? A there women who love money MORE than their husbands? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 10:59 AM PDT DO they put money before their husbands too? |
| Question: My Husband moved out, he says he dosent know What he wants... Help? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 10:54 AM PDT I had to put him out him out in May last year, he had become very desrespectul to me coming Home at all Hours, having too Many happy Hours with coworkers etc, i think he was going though an early mid life crisis, he kept telling me that we was done and that he wanted to b single,and i filed for divorse 4 months later, and all he was worried abt was his money... I Love him, and i even tried to cancel the divorce... He said he had already got used to the idea...So in Feb he Came by the house... Apologizing for What he had done, But have never said he wants to come back... I forgaved him,( for my peace Of mind), one Day he Ended up in my Room and we got to 3rd base, and the next Day I felt used. He tell me that he dosent know what he wants, that I need to be with someone that does, that he is not ready to commit , he is not pushing the divorce because he said that maybe in the future we might have a chance? I'm so confuse... He blame me for our failure, is a jerk, but shows up and wanna touch me, his actions say one thing but he says another... Last weekend he said that maybe we could go have coffee... So my dumb Self was looking forward to it, later after I text him he said: maybe I'm busy... :( and never text me back... So I was soo upset, and the next day asked him to meet me , and had him sign money settlement papers, he was furious and walk out on me. am I doing the right thing or should I fight for my marriage and wait until he gets out of his bipolar midlife crisis ? |
| Posted: 12 Apr 2015 10:49 AM PDT How do you get your "high" with your spouse? How do you two handle "lows"? |
| Question: What would you do in this situation? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 10:25 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for two years. We use to live in Texas but now we live in Boston. He is Italian and originally from Boston( East Boston and North Boston is where he grew up). I grew up in Texas. We are both on Facebook and my husbands female friends call him sexy and baby on some of his statuses. He says he grew up with these women in Boston and that's how they are but they mean nothing to him, only child hood friends. I told him I thought it was kinda disrespectful to me because they know him and I are married. He says that's how they are in the city and I am only bothered by it because I'm from Texas and we don't address people that way. Do you think I'm making a big deal over this? I don't have guys calling me sexy or baby because they respect that I'm married. |
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| Question: Providing for my husbands son is putting a strain on our marriage? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 10:12 AM PDT My husband found out he had a son 2 years ago. We've been married 2.5 years. The mom is no longer in the picture, so we have his son all of the time. I will admit, it's not where I saw myself at 24, but my husband makes it worse. Since losing his job several months ago, he's decided to stay at home so he can be there when his son gets home from school. He's started spoiling his son rotten (buying all sorts of toys and expensive clothes) and when I say I don't want to waste all our money, he tells me his son needs to feel wanted. Part of me wants to quit my job so my husband will see how hard it is, but I worked hard to get where I am and I'm not going to let him do this to me. Also, we both signed a prenup when we got married, so technically, I don't have to do this. But then he tells me we can't let his son starve. I've tried talking to him, but it's like talking to the wall. |
| Question: Cheating husband, should I expect my in laws to apologise for him and their ignorance? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 10:10 AM PDT Before kids were involved, I cheated on my husband, with a friend from my old high school make friend for 2 days, where oral sex was involved. I fell pregnant with my husband after a year or so and had my first child. But shortly after the birth my husband cheated on me while my baby was only 3 months old, and during that time, he had sex with another woman for a total of approx 7 months. My second child was born a year later and approximately 3 months after baby's birth, my husband cheated on me again. I saw the signs and in both occasions I did go to my in laws and expressed my concerns, but all I got from them was, that they will talk to their son. In other words they didn't believe me. The second time he cheated on my I was able to gather enough proof that it was happening, and my in laws have seen this proof. I just want to know weather if it is right of me to expect an apology from them. Before I get responses in regards to why I have divorced my husband, I have my reasons. Also, the relationship between my husband and his parents is that he is an only child, while I'm the eldest sibling of three in my family. He heavily relies on his parents financially and if he could everything else. For those who've answer, I'm asking this, because I feel that, I also have the right to withhold my kids from seeing my in laws as I don't want the to be learning to same traits and poor decision making as my husband, since the in laws, I feels are partly responsible for my husbands actions as they seem to do half the decision making influencing my family. They seem to think they have a say in what we do, hence I feel I need to apologise. |
| Question: Married advice - which mother to visit on Mother's Day? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 10:02 AM PDT My husband's mother lives 2 1/2 hours away and my mother lives 3 hours away. It would be so exhausting to try to see them both in the same day and make it to work the next morning. We are newly weds so we are still trying to figure out the holiday situations. What do most couples do in this situation? |
| Question: What do I do about my cheating husband? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 09:43 AM PDT I am in the army. My husband is not. We recently got a 8 week old puppy.. One morning when I woke up my puppy was whining trying to get on the couch where my husband was laying. It was really cute he almost got on the couch but at his last attempt he knocked my husband's phone off the couch... He has an iPhone so his messages pop up across the screen there was a message From a female that said okay talk to you tommarrow. This pissed me off. I put his phone back where it was because I didn't know how to react. Since I pay for the phone and it's in my name I looked online at the phone records. He dosnt work so while I'm at work he messages her and they talk on the phone. . I go to bed earlier than him because i have to be up at 4am every morning. Messages are exchanged between them late at night while im sleep.When I was put under for surgery he wad messaging he the whole time then tells me he was worried sick about me.. he sleeps with his phone under him and I just don't know how to handle this the right way.. I've always trusted him and I just need to know how to go about this.. I do EVERYTHING but get shifted on. This is my first marriage and I want advice please. ... thanks |
| Question: Is it wrong to think like this? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 09:31 AM PDT i'd leave my wife if she gets brain injury that she wont be able to function like remember me or become fully retarded from an injury but i would stay with her till death if she becomes crippled, spinal cord injury, call it what you want, i'd stay for everything else except if it is related to brain injury that she becomes unable to think, remember me and talk (all combined), i'd move on im i a bad person for thinking about leaving if brain injury but willing to stay forever and be supportive if crippled or no? im not even married, guys |
| Question: Blended family problems.? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 09:28 AM PDT I have a blended family. I have two older children from a previous marriage. Girl 9 and boy 7. I have been with my fiancé now for 3 years. We have a 1 year old together. We all live with each other and have recently experienced a lot of changes. We have moved to a new town so that my fiancé and I could attend college. We live in a family dorm type housing. The problem were experiencing is that my daughter and my fiancé can not get along. My fiancé and daughter argue like children. It is to point of driving me insane. I am to the point of leaving my fiancé bc I cant seem to make progress with the family getting along. My fiancé expects adult like behavior from the children and my children. My daughter is very mouthy and time out is not working. I DO NOT BELIEVE IN beating, whooping ***, or hurting my children in a physical manner. My fiancé makes jokes that he should not and does not understand why my children do not respect him. I believe that you have to give respect to earn respect. How can I make my children respect him when he does not respect them. Name calling and joking I believe brings him to a childs level and this has gotten out of control. My fiancé jokes too much about me as well and I think the kids are getting confused. It's just his personality. My fiancé says he gets so mad bc they walk all over me and argue with me etc. My ex-husband is in prison for 15 years, so he is not in the picture. How can I can help them get along? |
| Question: Do all wives abandon their husband if he became paraplegic? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 09:13 AM PDT I've read lots about this and i found most of women move on and leave their damaged spoused alone. after reading those, i got shocked and my desire to get married is almost destroyed, i i right? |
| Question: My wife of 5 years just told me she came from a incest family.? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 09:03 AM PDT |
| Question: MEN: Would you get a vasectomy? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:38 AM PDT If you and your wife/future wife had the amount of children you wanted already and she wanted you to get a vasectomy to improve the sex life( not having to worry about Gettin preggers, not having to use condoms, being able to be freakier)would you do it? Does it sound logical that if a woman has a baby/babies and doesn't want to rely on birth control or go through another hassel of getting her tubes tied for the guy to sacrifice? Would you do it? |
| Question: My husband is away and I don't miss him, is that bad? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:28 AM PDT My husband has been gone since Thursday and will not return until Wednesday and I do not miss him. I love him, but I don't really miss him being home. He claims to miss me, but it's something about him being gone making me realize how happy I am being alone. I feel bad to feel this way but I really been cherishing being alone and pleasing myself, watching shows and such. I almost wish he could stay out for longer. Is this bad? |
| Question: Any countries where I can move out and get married as a teenager? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:26 AM PDT |
| Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:20 AM PDT Please do not suggest divorce or counselling. |
| Question: How much does "having fun" influence what you do in your Marriage or your life? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:20 AM PDT I am on the scientist side of this question so you need to convince me that "having fun" is important. Why? Because having fun is nothing more than firing off some dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin in your brain; you can get that without having "fun" in your life, but people still prefer to have "fun things" in their life instead of things that provide them sustainability. Basically, I am a scrooge against fun because your ideas of fun are depleting. How many TV shows does it take to feel like you had fun that day? How many rounds of Call of Duty does it take to say you had fun? How many times must you receive oral sex before you've had too much fun? How many romantic dinners out of the house do you need in a month to say to your girlfriends that your husband is "fun to be around"? Do you avoid doing home chores and cooking because it isn't "fun"? Do you avoid working a desk job because it isn't "fun" like working retail is? I need to know how "fun" influences your lives. I won't understand this addiction problem if I don't hear the other side of the argument. |
| Question: When a couple divorces, what happens to assets, savings prior to marriage? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 08:14 AM PDT Say if a couple divorces. Whatever assets, individually, they saved up (checking account, roth ira, 401k, etc). What happens to assets prior to marriage? Do they get divided evenly or only the assets accumulated during the marriage? |
| Question: Is it possible to have 13 wives/husbands in your lifetime? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 07:36 AM PDT If so, would it be disrespectful to refer to them as wife #1, wife #13, wife #9, etc? Not at the same time! You marry a new one after divorcing the previous one. |
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| Question: How can u mend a broken heart? Posted: 12 Apr 2015 06:31 AM PDT Broken marriage, broken trust, the person that supposed to be honest and faithful to you has broken his/her promise. |
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