I know not all are like this but since the majority of white girls are with guys of colour I thought I should try to find out why?

Warning: long story So about a year ago I made a fake snapchat to talk to hot girls (I was somewhat immature) and added this one girl. After about 4 months of talking to her and refusing to reveal myself I left the account and moved on with life. Fast forward a year later, I was bored and went on my old fake snapchat account and of course, I accidentally snapped her. She answered and we talked for a while then I told her who I am. We talked a bit more and that conversation ended, and I haven't talked to her over snapchat since then (about 3 months) In real life we've never talked but I know her pretty well because of talking to her a year ago, which makes things weird. I have no classes with her at school and every once in a while I will see her in the halls and I'll smile and sometimes she makes eye contact and sometimes she ignores/doesn't see me. So I guess my question is what in the world do I do? I want to talk to her, but considering the circumstances, it's plain weird. Plus I'm realllly shy so I have a hard time starting conversations, especially with cute girls. Ugh I wish we could have a 3 hour conversation just to clear the air and ACTUALLY get to know each other in real life! Any help would be appreciated thanks

My boyfriend said he's loves me most definitely. But he said he's not sure if he's "in love" with me. Should I be offended, or taken back? Should I be angry? Have I done something wrong?

I am 28 and I have been talking to this guy online since May. He is in his 40's and we both live in different states. I have flirted with him however I do not want to be in a romantic relationship with him. I only want to be friends with him and nothing more. I am thinking about meeting him in September or October of this year. 1. When I first told him I wanted to meet him he said ok and to let him know when I was in town. 2. I asked him if he wanted to have sex with me he said no. 3. I told him that I still wanted to meet him and that I couldn't find a hotel. He told me to find one and that he would meet me there since he is always traveling. 4. When I asked him if he thought I was sexy and attractive he said yes and he called me gorgeous. 5. He has texted me pictures of flowers twice.

First off let me tell you the story. I am going to prom with this really pretty girl. She's a senior (I'm a junior) and she's really nice/friendly. My best friend set me up to take her because he is taking her best friend. She didn't know who I was before I asked and I barely knew her. I also am not sure what to do because we don't see each other that often around school (we saw each other once so far and talked briefly) and the last thing I want is for it to be awkward on prom night since we don't know each other too well. Oh and prom is in 9 days (Apr. 25). What should I do to make it more fun and enjoyable for us? Finally I'm wondering if I should kiss her. I'm thinking yes but again I wouldn't want her to feel uncomfortable in any way. Any help/advice is appreciated. Thanks!

Lets call this person 'Z'. October 2014, in class I admit I think Z is cute. Z is a girl and so am I. I always had a gut feeling that Z might be Bisexual or lesbian. Maybe by the masculine demeanor she held, or her clothes. Soon I forget about my thought and go on with school. But there has always been a gut feeling that maybe Z had a tiny crush on me. Again, I waved it off most of the time. March 2015, Z flatters me and that triggers my official crush on her. It wasn't anything like flirting I suppose, it was more of friendly compliments. For a couple weeks i struggled with anxiety around Z now. It must have been awkward considering I had her all year in this class when suddenly the air changes. Z starts acting minorly different. These little hints i picked up on such as, small smiles, eye contact, mirroring body language, being close when standing, and nervousness. She also started giving me special treatment. Z made me crazy. There was something between us I knew it had to be. The air was intoxicating like an electric hum. Sexual tension? Did she really like me this whole time? This week Z has been avoiding me it seems. Lack of eye contact and communication. But still some flirtatious body language. What is this? Did Z really like me way back then but gave up until I started to show my attraction? Now she is back to showing it?

I just want to know why?

even the ones i talk to a lot I m 15 5 7 147 lb athletic and a little chubby, yet all the while i still have people telling me i m funny and just generally a good person to be around and that they re surprised i am single

So back when the school year started I met this fantastic girl I sat next to in class at the time (our teacher changed our seats). At first I just thought she was another girl and during the first few days of school I didn't talk to her. Then our teacher gave us our first assignment and I hesitated to ask the girl next to (we'll call her "Angelica") me to work together, obviously because I didnt know her. If I never said anything to her that day I would have regretted it and never had the chance to meet such a wonderful person. So Angelica and I worked together for a couple of days and she was really nice and friendly towards me. Things were awkward when we talked the first few weeks, but when October rolled around things were going pretty smoothly. She would talk to me everyday in class, she would even talk to me first (even though I mostly talked to her first). She told me a lot of things about herself and many stories about her life. She was always happy around me, she was smiling and laughing at the stuff I told her. Whenever I would enter class she looked at me and became happy. One day I came in and she had a huge smile on her face and was like "Yay you're here!!" On her birthday I gave her a card and she said "This is the first card I've gotten all day!! Thank you!!" with a huge smile on her face. Before Thanksgiving she talked to me about her family and she told me who everyone was and who she liked and didnt really like. And that we never see our families because they live so far away and how it was awkward seeing them. One time I was out from school and I texted her I was sick and she said "Aw feel better!!" December was when everything started to go south. One week she stopped talking to me first and I got upset and stopped talking to her first. We stopped talking to eachother and she would talk to everyone in class but me. Even my bestfriend, who sits across from me, so when she talks to him she has to talk over my desk and she never said anything to me. Whenever I would text her she would almost never text me back, and if she did she would text for a little and stop replying. My cousin took my phone and texted her "Merry Christmas cutie ;)". I texted her on new year's and she said happy new year as well, I asked her a question and she never texted me back, even the next day. One time I texted her apologizing that I haven't texted her in awhile and Im sorry for not being a good friend and she said "its ok". The next day when class was over she walked past me without saying anything (I was upset, I thought we were friends?). A few days ago I told her I wanted to talk because I was bored waiting in the hospital to see my uncle and she said "Aw sorry about your uncle" and I told her he was ok and then I asked her a question and she never texted me back. But then one time I texted her that our favorite tv show was going to be canceled and she never texted me back. The next day she didn't know it was going to be canceled? A few times after we stopped talking she was nice to me and I was nice to her. One day I offered her skittles and she said "Skittles??? I love skittles thank you!!!!" and she was really happy about it. Another time she asked me if I wanted to use the whole puncher in a really soft voice and with a smile on her face. After class was over she was on her phone for a few minutes and then she got off. She turned around and faced my direction for about a good 15 seconds li like she wanted to talk and she didn't say anything and then started talking to her friends. Recently, for some reason whenever someone says my name she always looks at me and I see her looking at me when I come into class or talking to my friends with a blank stare on her face. She doesn't even smile she just stares at me and then goes back to whatever she was doing. So this is really important to me, I really need help. I don't know if I still like her that much anymore, I used to like her a her a lot for a while. I don't know if I can take listening to the sad songs and watching the romantic movies thinking about what it would be like with her. Having a Troy and Gabriella relationship with her, upset that isn't happening to me. Please help me out, please be as honest and detailed as possible. No one or two sentenced answers!!! GIVE ME ALL YOU GOT!!

So, I know this is horrible but my boyfriend and Bestfriend talk a lot sense i introduced them, so i wanted to know so i logged into her accout to read what they had been saying i found out he got high and i called him out on it. He asked if he could hang out with my Bestfriend and i obviously was not up for that, so i went and read there messages again and they have hung out a bunch, last night my Bestfriend asked him to hang out and i acted up and was freaking out on both of them without telling either of them that i knew and they decided not to see eachother they said in the messages that they wouldn't do anything bad, but they did get high together, tonight he asked her to hang out.... I dont know what to do, i dont need to hear its wrong to read there messages, i know but its also wrong for them to lie to me, sense they are the 2 most important people in my life...

okay so I'm gonna ask this girl out at school and I'm in eighth grade what exactly should I say Like Do you want to go out with me Will you go out with me Ect.

Okay. So, there is this creepy guy who has a table right across from mines. It all started with him throwing a carrot at me, which I gave him a face and ignored him. My friend threw it back. A few months later I came to found out that he likes me. Problem is, he is trouble. Where to even start! He's stabbed his friend "accidently", friends with people who smoke or in a gang, and gets in trouble. He's not intelligent, and a grade above me. He's stayed back a few times. He's always leaning over to my table to ask if I threw something at him, when one of the trouble makers at his table did. I'm usually sassy and have such a additude and little tolerance. But with him ; he's into bad stuff so who knows what he's capable of. All he's done is poke me and his hands are ruff and like rocks. It was not once either .... He has a class next to me and is always stalking me from the window. I think all he wants is sex, and all his friends have lost their virtinities ALREADY. I'm not into this stuff and would simply like to leave this situation. I don't know him well and only met him a few days ago. Plus on top of that he's been contacting my closest friends to help hook me up with him, but they just ignore him thankfully. I'd like to handle this in my own hands. Any ideas?

Almost every night for over a year my boyfriend has fallen asleep on me without telling me he's tired or wants to sleep. I had been getting pretty annoyed anyway but then he started to fall asleep on me when I'm in pain as well. I have a few medical issues and I get extremely bad, sometimes paralyzing pains and I tell him when I get them and he talks to me for a little bit but then falls asleep again. He used to say that he tried not to fall asleep but then later I found out that his 'trying' was laying down with his eyes closed with the lights off. Now obviously he should know that if you do that you'd fall asleep. Most would. But it really bothers me that I could tell him how much pain I'm in, or having another panic attack(which he's seen and had to call an ambulance it was so bad so he knows how dabilotating it is), or I'm down and need to talk, and he'd fall asleep. And then sometimes he'll wake up and say sorry and fall back asleep! I just don't know what to do and if I'm over exaggerating or whatever idk. And it's not like he does exhausting work during the day, he's super lazy and barely ever does his school work and then sits at home and does nothing after. How exhausting. What should I do and feel?

I am slowly living more and more inside a fantasy that have a loving wife. I have moved another chair into the apartment and sometimes talk to it if I watching tv or something. Most recently, I fell in love with a woman I was being intimate with. She made it relatively clear that she didn't consider me to be her boyfriend. And yet I wouldn't let go of the fantasy. She went to prison for a year and will soon be out. She encouraged me to give her a lot of money and gifts. I stayed "faithful" to her while she has been in prison. I'm so depressed. Am I going insane?

I'm on the left in the picture. Everyone my girlfriend is friends with thinks I look creepy. Her family also say I'm ugly, she's better than me, and that she shouldn't be with someone unattractive. They also say I'll never get a job because I am unattractive, despite me being intelligent. It's started to bother me. My self esteem is pretty low. What could I do help myself look more appealing to people?

I been trying to get a hold of my fwb since April 11. He has been ignoring me so I was messing with him by texting him with a Pinger number and he answered the texts but he won't answer when I text him from my own number. Why did he answer the Pinger number but not mine? He's 38 & I'm 36. He is a computer tech and he working on pc jobs because he wants to buy a new car (he's old car needs a lot of work done on it).

So there is this boy I really like. I'm not sure if he likes me back tho. Were in highschool. A lot of times, he will look at the back of the classroom, when there is nothing there. He doesn't have any friends behind him and he always looks in my direction. In the corner of my eye it looks like he's staring at me but idk. I try to avoid his eye contact because I don't want to show that I like him in anyway until I'm sure or even know if he likes me. He talks to me a lot in class and always gives me tips for things. He teases me and is always so humerus around me. I've never seen him act like this around any other girl. So what can this mean? Does he like me?

My ex and one of my guy friends became friends and I'm fine with that. But they became friends before I dated my ex. And they're polar oppisites, the only thing they really have in common is me. They're also friends with my cousin who's a guy. Well, I asked my guy friend about it and he got affended and wouldn't tell me anything, I didn't ask it directly. So when I started dating my ex my guy best friend started ignoring me, like really obviously. I'd say hi to him in person and he'd just walk the other way. I also noticed when I'd creep on them at lunch (they sit in the same group along with my cousin) that when we were dating they wouldn't speak to each other or even look at each other. I'd text my friend him and he'd open them and not reply. So after a while my ex broke up with me and my guy friend texted me literally maybe an hour later asking me how my breaks been. After that I didn't hear from him for weeks. He was ignoring me again. Until someone I don't know who told him I was upset and he kept asking me what's wrong and that just made me more mad. I asked him why he never talks to me anymore and he saiid 'I don't want to get into it when your upset, I'll tell you later,' well that never happened then he randomly texts me the other day saying hey and I replied only for him to open it and not reply. Then that same day my ex snaped me in his baseball uniform. Also when me and my ex broke up it was really random, we had nothing wrong in the relationship, if he did he never told me. That day he told me he loved me and he missed me. Am I crazy or is this some sketchy ****?

This is for a statistic research paper I am doing in college. 1. on a scale of 1 to 10, 10 highest, what rating would you give your bare feet? 2. do you wear ankle bracelets or toe rings? Tats on them? 3. what makes them the rating you gave? 4. Has anyone told you your feet are sexy? 5. Do you like your feet tickled, nibble, or otherwise played with. thanks for any help you can give.

I mean I know a lot of people go to bars that are single. But I watched an old movie and there was a singles bar. It looked like you go there and were guaranteed a hookup. It was in the 79s so if you are that old please let me know so I will rate your answer higher as truthful.

I feel there are alot of requirements when it comes to being involved in a relationship 1) having a job ; when spending quality time..sometimes you dote on lover w/ gifts..so you obviously need money to do this (im looking for work..not just for this reason but mainly for myself and to help family) 2)Being independent; mainly driving... I feel you can t really have a relationship if you aren t independent in this area..It d be awkward to be chauffeured around 3)Friends; if youre a loner (like myself) you d mostly be around him..not saying it can t work but it might bother him So what do you think? :s I would like different perspectives..and just words of wisdom

My ex and I are always on and off and he would always comes back to me asking for a chance and doing all these sweet things to me. But whenever we break up, he would act so awkward and avoid me he can't even look at me in the eyes. My ex used to be a player and he used to date many girls and call if off right away, but him and those girls are still friends and they still talk and hang out normally like they never dated? But when it comes to me, he would avoid me and pretend he couldn't see me, which he makes it too obvious. Why can't he treat me like his other exes? Where we can all just be friends and not be awkward?

Ugh, my best friend is pissing me off. He is so confusing! Earlier this week we were flirting, touching, smiling and laughing. It was great. I was so happy, every time I see him I light up. I caught him looking at me a couple of times in class. When he is with other friends, he'd leave them for me. Our prom is this weekend, and he asked me to be his date. He did it so sweetly, and it honestly made me feel so special. Now yesterday, and mainly today, he's been acting so strange. I texted him yesterday, and he never texted me back. This morning he seemed so uninterested in my presence. I'd look at him in class and just smile, and at one point mine said, "um, what?" Kind of rudely. At lunch, I was joking about how prom was so stressful, And I didn't want to go anymore, and he looked concerned and freaked out for a minute, like, "what? You're joking right?!" And when I told him yea I was joking, I just don't know what to do for my hair, the scoffed and said, " like I care what you look like? What, do you want me to tell you what to do?" It just seemed pretty rude. Then I was walking out to my car, and he had one more class, so I always walk passed him on his way to class, he was talking to someone friends, but usually at least smiles or waves at me, but today, he just ran into me, like with his shoulder into my chest, and said nothing. I called after him for running Into me, and he looked over his shoulder, and went back to talking. Wtf? I'm so confused with him

She loves pickles so im wondering if there is a good pun for it lol

My boyfriend made me a really cute nickname. What nicknAme can I make with the name "Whit"

We met at an event last Friday and myself, another girl (friend o mine) and himself went from the event for something to eat. I thought he might have liked my friend who is really pretty and young...well I am kind of shy. Still, he talked equally to all of us and is really gentlemanly. So, we all met at another event yesterday again and the minute he saw me he said 'Hey! You look much prettier without the glasses'. Then we chatted a bit and he said to myself and my friend 'we must organise another get-together..and get say 6 of us and have drinks and food'. So we said it would be great and he asked for our numbers. We're going to meet again ..all of us next week. Does it sound like he's just being friendly or he likes me?

They don't see their own reflection?

I want a girlfriend but i'm shy and i don't know how to get one. I wish i could just buy one at the store

There is this guy I like. He is very attractive and has a great personality. But I don't talk to him much maybe a few things here and there. So I don't know too much about him. But I was wanting to ask him to prom some time before practice. And I need so creative ideas. So if you can come up with something to help please do. All I really know is he likes to workout and life weights a lot. But it doesn't have to involve just that. Thank you!

what does this mean- best explanation? my bf recently told me he loves me and he told his parents about me. what exactly is going on???

I want to rebuild my social life but, I am rusty. I want a girlfriend, I want friends that I can go out with once in awhile. Assume I am an idiot and you need to explain it to me like I am 5. This is embarrassing since I am in college but, haven t been social because of personal issues. Never been good making friends and I never really fit in any advice?

So I'm an eight grade girl and I'm really shy and people think I'm cute(like a Lil kid IG), I'm not super popular but popular people like me a lot, people always tell me I'm gorgeous so I guess that's true but guys like hot girls not pretty ones right? Any way he is popular and outgoing/funny but we have never talked and have no classes together,a couple of months ago I would always stare at him which got him to stare back only when he was alone and bored... But now he does all the time and it is such strong eye contact but we don't talk cause we are basically strangers. He used to hold the eye contact but recently I feel awkward knowing that we are both staring and I look away, than he does but I don't want him to think I don't like him... So what should I do cause I can't just smile, but I don't want to ignore him or blankly stare???? Does it mean he likes me if he is always staring at me because he knows who I am but do you think he is just wondering why I'm staring... Idk but he like ignores his friends and stares at me and even looks back to see if I'm behind him? What should I do when he looks at me?

I have chubby cheeks and I have a crush on this guy and I want him to love me back but I hate flirting and we both like to play games like minecraft. And love cats. So it play around with him during literature, math and lunch. So we see each other everyday. And I draw a cats on him and make him keep it for the whole day. We live not to far but I want him to take me out sometime. I used to have a previous crush but I only see him when I leave lunch. So can someone tell me how to get him to love me and at least we can go somewhere together. Please respond. I will thank you if he gets to love me.

Hello I am 18. My assistant manager is 30. He will be leaving in August to another workplace. At first, he was very confusing and sent mixed signals. He would subtly flirt then turn around and treat me as a child. He mentioned going out to an indian restaurant (since I'm indian) one day but then called me his buddy. Of course I was angry that he couldnt make his ibtentions clear and started ignoring him. Recently however, I made a bold move and called him pretty within a joke. (He has the weirdest sense of humor and is CONSTANTLY telling jokes). He had been gone for about 2 weeks on jury duty and I was feeling bold. We ended up really flirting that night, because he called me pretty back. As jokes, he also called me sweet and spicy. He referred to me as a "sensual sikh" "beautiful buddist" " tantalizing taoist ". This is what confuses me. I don't want to take his jokes too seriously. Later in the conversation, he mentioned food again and I made my doubts clear. To this he claimed that his word was as good as gold. He wasn't joking when he stated that. A few days later he texted me again because apparently we asked for the same days off. Hes going to vegas, and I joked about him not taking me with him. And he teased me that looks like he's going by himself, since I'm not old enough to go with him (said there wouldn't be much to do there for me). I then joked that at least I wouldn't be coming back with aids and he said he wasn't going to spend his money on Asian women (he makes racist jokes, it's just part of his weird humor, he's not actually racist). So I told him that it wouldn't be so tough finding the white women, to which he replied " Maybe i want those 18 year indian women, to play cricket in the bedroom or something, haha j/k." I can't tell the difference between his joking or if there's serious desires behind it. I told him that it was too bad he was joking and then abruptly changed the topic. A few texts later though, he said that I couldn't even beat him on monopoly on his ps4, to which I obviously argued. And he said that maybe we would test that out one day. He also mentioned the ps4 thing when we next saw each other at work. It was the first time I saw him after we had these conversations. I was very shy, because I want to keep everything professional, so I just tried not looking into his eyes so he wouldn't see my emotions. I like this guy, I just am not sure if he's playfully flirting or is interested.

I have known her for 2 years and we have been really good friends ... I recently told her what she meant to me ... But I didn't say that I had a crush on her ... She said its the sweetest thing anybody has said to her ... So I want to send her this song and ask her out ... The song is in Afrikaans .. We both speak it but I would like to know what you think about it ... Even if you don't understand . just listen with your heart https://www.google.com/url?q=http://m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DtH0qiT0nZ_Y&sa=U&ei=MmgwVaaWI8Wt7galzoDwDg&ved=0CAsQtwIwAA&usg=AFQjCNHFQ-dHnKwe0LE_Ufrs0WJCIW7Zjw

One of my close friends spoke to my crush recently this week and this was their conversation! :) So she asked him if he was going to prom and taking anyone. He responds saying that everyone he wanted to take was already going with someone else! :\ She asks him about him and me. He's like isn't she going with someone else? my friends like no and he, shocked says really? and is like i should find a cute way to ask her then!! I'm torn since he asked someone else ( who said no ). But he asked her by making zero effort and literally saying" eyyy wanna go prom ? ". this happened earlier in the week before they , my friend and him, spoke. i know he cares about me a lot and is attracted to me. he's called me beautiful and given me his jacket and he and i are somewhat friends too. Could he like me... and is he gonna ask me out ?

Okay so I been dating this guy for about a week. But it's moving to fast, he always talked about his ex he's super perverted. We used to be good friends. I'm just stressing over alot of things right now I don't have time for a relationship. I'm so scared to break up with him but I want to I need to. But I don't know how, help? Serious answers only.

I really like this guy, he's sweet and funny and I've known him for a while, well he and I have both came out and said we liked each other but he hasn't asked me out yet, I started wondering why, well his sister goes to the same high school as us and every time he and I walk to class together she will look at him and make a snark comment like "I Dont like this" and "you know how I feel about this" or "This isn't happening" and I'd ask him what that meant but he would say nothing or she's being stupid, and on one of those days one of our mutual friends was walking with us and she said something and the mutual friend said wow your sisters a ***** and he agreed, well I asked this mutual friend what all that meant and he told me that she doesn't like me....I Dont really even know her, we had one class together but we had assigned seats and sat on opposite sides of the room, and when I did say something to her I'd say I like your out fit or hair and complement her and she'd complement me but that's about it. I asked him if it was true that his sister didn't like me and he said yeah and that she thinks that I am stuck up and thinks I'm the best at everything but then he said that she's being stupid and loves drama and knows that's not true BC he's known me for years, but I fear that the reason why he won't ask me out is because of his sister...I'm also worried that if we do date she will get in the middle of it....what should I do?

Can't tell if he is just being a friend or if he is interested. We were in a program together and in the same class. 1) we would always sit next to eachother or near eachother and then are lunch together. 2) always was stAring in my eyes 3)constantly joked around and also made fun of the other people in our class. 4) always made sexual jokes, nothing over the top or disrespectful though 5) the day I left, he came out the parking lot directly to me and gave me a huge hug, and did the same when I came to visit after we spent lunch together. 5) after three days of leaving he called and has been texting me and sending me pics every day 6) sent me a song he recorded 7) he is coming to the same place I'm at when he leaves the program and said he forbids me from acting up until then and that he has me when he gets there and were going we will have mad fun 8) called me a sweetheart and baby girl 9) told me about other girls trying to get with him but he doesn't want it 10) made plans to go hiking together 11) used me as a job reference and said he owes me dinner

1. your hands tied behind you, in front, or to the bed? 2. Ropes or handcuffs?

She's my crush and I want to find out if she's so interested in me.

Im not freaking out or anything. Im just curious. My high school gf and I have been dating for a year now. She has stopped really saying "I love you" she says "love you" now before we go to bed. She always says "Goodnight, love you <3" I asked her why she dropped the 'I' (it was kinda weird) and she flipped out and said that it means the same thing. Should I worry or am i overreacting ?