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- Question: I think my boyfriend secretly has a kid?? Please help!?
- Question: Can parents with kids that got taken by DHS have more kids WITHOUT them getting taken away to?
- Question: I saw my parents having intercourse. How can I get that image out of my mind?
- Question: Help!!! 10 points best answer! Is this a broken home!!! Plz answer?
- Question: How can I convince my parents to let me have a smartphone?
- Question: I need some answers please...?
- Question: Tips to Enjoy Myself...?
- Question: How can I get my parents to be quieter during sex? I hear them all the time and it is sickening.?
- Question: Why could my mom save my sister?
- Question: What did my dad say?
- Question: Is my family taking advantage of me?
- Question: Was I wrong to spank my daughter?
- Question: I can't stand my parents!?
- Question: How do I get rid of my mom's boyfriend?
- Question: How do I get rid of my mom's boyfriend?
- Question: I think I hurt my dad's feelings? Help?
- Question: Should this keep me from going to summer camp?
- Question: HELP MY MOTHER DOESNT ALLOW ME MY PRIVACY?
- Question: The boy friends's undergrad Graduation is Mothers day, I'm conflicted, advice?
- Question: Can i file for a order of protection against my baby fathers ex girlfriend?
- Question: Is there psychological reasoning behind this?
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- Question: I hear my parents doing it?
- Question: If my mum and dad split, who is more likely to get custody?
- Question: My husband cheated before we got married?
- Question: How do I not have to go to my dads anymore?
- Question: I am getting a bit sick of my Mum and my sister?
- Question: Blended Family Issues: My wife really dislikes my son,?
- Question: Depression issues?
- Question: My parents don't allow me to shower?
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- Question: HOW TO FIND MOTHER A HUSBAND? PLZ...(read discription)?
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| Question: I think my boyfriend secretly has a kid?? Please help!? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 01:11 PM PDT So I noticed that my boyfriend has a lot of unopened envelopes that say "Arizona Department of Economic Security" and i looked up the website and its for child support and other stuff. I could see through the envelops a little bit and i can tell that he has to make payments for something. Does it sound like he could be paying child support or something? |
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| Question: I saw my parents having intercourse. How can I get that image out of my mind? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 01:04 PM PDT I accidentally saw my parents having intercorse. They didn't see me beccause they were too preoccupied. I only saw it for half a second because I was not sticking around to see any more, but what I did see scared me. No one wants to see their parents doing it. I know that's how I was born and I know they still do it, but I usually try to pretend like they don't. It's just weird thinking of your parents having sex. Now I have that image in my mind. How can I wash it away from my memory? Every time I see them together I think of that. It just makes me sick. |
| Question: Help!!! 10 points best answer! Is this a broken home!!! Plz answer? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:53 PM PDT I'm 10-13 and my father left me my brother and mom for another women. We moved in with my grandparents and my bestfriend the one I could allways talk to was my nana but sadly she died😭! My mom became abusive and my grandfather is a acholic . And my brother lives in his own world he's 13-14. Every night I come home from school my grandfathers drunk and my mom angry. I feel like dying the only time I feel happy is in school or at a friends house. I asked my grandpa to go on my class field trip bc that's the only time I see him sober. I have an aunt but she's not even realizing whats happening and my uncle doesn't come she too into his gf. Is this a broken home ?!??! How can I get help NOT from CPS bc they've already done enough destroying my life. I want my old life back the way it was 4 yrs ago!! Plz help!! 😭😭😭 |
| Question: How can I convince my parents to let me have a smartphone? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:49 PM PDT I am 16 years old. I am on track to be valedictorian of my class. I am extremely responsible and have done nothing wrong to lose my parents trust. I am active in my church and am team captain on both the cross country and track team. I have 2 tablets that I use fairly regularly. I also have a dumb phone. I could benefit a ton from having a smartphone. I have offered to pay for the phone and the plan completely. I have offered to have limitations and rules. I have offered to have them check it regularly. I have asked nicely for a long time. I have talked to them about their concerns. They have always just said no as soon as I bring up the subject without even truely considering it. What do I do? |
| Question: I need some answers please...? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:47 PM PDT I can't handle this place anymore I live with my dad and step mom & 2 brothers my step mom is abusive to me with words and there really mean and just hurts my feelings some times and my brothers are very very mean to be always hitting me and stuff sometimes they don't mean it but sometimes they do and my dad just favors the boys more than me I just feel like I don't belong here and I know my real mom doesn't mind taking me but she works all the time!! I just don't know what to do maybe someone else does? |
| Question: Tips to Enjoy Myself...? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:41 PM PDT |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:36 PM PDT Whenever my mom and dad have sex I can hear them. It's mostly because my mom is super loud. She screams a lot of dirty things no daughter should ever hear her mom say (especially when it's about her dad). I know my mom and dad have their sex life. That's great. I just don't want to know about it. They don't know I hear them because I'm too embarrassed to tell them. Telling them I can hear all the things they do in the bedroom is really embarrassing. Is there any way I can get them to quiet down without telling them? |
| Question: Why could my mom save my sister? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:31 PM PDT My mom had another child before us and her father was abusive. My mom divirices him and they had joint custody. One day on his turn he took the child to Russia. My mom went to the police but they couldn't do anything about it. Im watching a true story movie about a woman and her son was taken by the father to South Korea. Why couldn't my mom gets my sister back? Why couldn't she save her? She said our grandma used to know we're they where but I never talked to much about it because my mom doesn't like to talk about it. Why didn't she go get her if she knew were they were? Did she not love her daughter? I'm so mad about it because I feel like she didn't love her enough to go get her? Why do u think she didn't? Is there a law preventing that? I need to know my mom didn't just abandon her. There had to be a reason to leave your child. Right?;, |
| Question: What did my dad say? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:27 PM PDT I couldn't hear him I was listening to music |
| Question: Is my family taking advantage of me? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:26 PM PDT Okay so I'm 17, and i no longer live with my mom and her husband who live in a small town. I'm with my grandparents. However my mom's other two, My sister who is 18, brother who is 21 both live with her. I'm a junior in high school, I still go to the high school in the town my parents live in, My sister goes to a school that is 31 minutes away. Plus being a 18 year old senior she doesn't have her driver's license. So my mom drives her, and my dad (not her husband) picks her up every day. Now my mom made my dad mad, So he's no longer picking her up. So i'm getting tasked with it. Which is still a good 20 minute drive for me just to get there. As well as 28.2 miles. I drive a 2005 Ford Explorer that maybe gets 16 miles to the gallon. I said no today that i didn't want to get her. She told me "Chris, this is what family does. your brother helps me out all the time with her. He knows that family does that for each other. She doesn't have a DL..What do you expect from her?! Well thank you for your help!! Remember there may be a chance in your life when you will need the same help and you will appreciate it as well. Remember we are all we got in our family." Which is bull. Her husband can go get her. She's working i understand, But she tries to guilt me and say i never do anything for them. I help support my siblings financially though i make the least. I've given my brother up to a $300 loan. (never seen that back). I also stopped working recently. So gas is a drain. |
| Question: Was I wrong to spank my daughter? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:11 PM PDT She came home from her friends house and she was acting like a brat (I don't like to call my kids names but that's how she was acting). I asked her to take her laundry to her room (I did it all for her so she wouldn't have extra chores when she came home). she told me 'I will in a minute' so I waited 15 minutes and asked again. She said 'I TOLD YOU I WILL IN A MINUTE ITS BEEN LIKE FIVE FREAKING MINUTES SINCE YOU ASKED ME SHUTUP' and I asked her to please watch her tone and she was being disrespectful and she said 'how about you watch my fuc*ing a$$ that's not disrespectful' and ram to her room. I followed her up there pulled my belt off, pulled her pants down and hit her three times. Was I wrong? I feel bad but she was very disrespectful. She's 13. (I'm her mom by the way). |
| Question: I can't stand my parents!? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:06 PM PDT Okay, my mum recently got married last year and I hate her husband so much inside but I act as though I love him. and since she's been with him, she's changed sooo much!! my mum always takes his side whenever there was an argument and the day after their wedding, he was watching telly and i was singing a nice song that was playing at the wedding reception. And he told me to stop but i wasnt listening to him and because i didnt like him when he stop the second time i said no, then he came u to me grabbed me by my shirt and smacked me and said you dont speak to me like that ever and his daughter does worse and gets away with it, i think he favourites her more than me even thoughhe says he loves us equally. and i got so upset and told my mum and my mum argued for abit wih him then took his side, when i told my side of the sory he said i was making up lies to make him lok ba i litterally hate him i just want him and his daughter out of my life, i hate him so much i feel like crying! like when he comes home i just go in my room everyday and ive just stopped making jokes with him, i feel like mymum spend more time with his daughter than me and i just hate my life. his daughter gets away with every thing even though she turns my stepdad and her mum against eachother constantly! and my mum took my phone away from me because i was late to school and everytime i speak to her i think she doesnt want to speak to me. i just dont know what to do. ps im 15, i jsut want to grow up |
| Question: How do I get rid of my mom's boyfriend? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT My mom's boyfriend has been living with us for 6 years, and it's been complete hell. I don't get along with. He's a nice guy but he's WAY TOO STUPID to get anything done right. I sometimes think his iq is less than 100. Since he can't do anything right, my mom is always screaming at him. So far my family is the pariah of the neighborhood. During the first couple of years the fights were mostly his fault because of his stupidity, but now my mom exaggerates too much, so it's half his fault and half my mom's. I always side with mom even though sometimes she's wrong. I remember my mom slapping him, screaming at him, and even throwing plates at him just because he brought her the wrong candy bar. I sometimes think that he likes getting yelled at. My mom needs to cool down but she does not want to. My mom kicks him out of the house every other day, but he's always back ten minutes later. They scream 24/7 and I really can't take it. I don't think my mom will ever leave him because he's even cheated on her and she is still with him. I have nowhere else to go so I have to take their crap every day. I just want him to leave but he just won't. My mom always promises me that they will stop but they never do. He's an immigrant, and I once thought of handing over, but I didn't because it seemed too wrong, but every time they fight, I always rethink the idea. what should I do. The only other way is for him to die, but i would not do such thing. Can you believe it? I just wrote this question six minutes ago, and I can already hear them shouting because he did not park correctly. |
| Question: How do I get rid of my mom's boyfriend? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT My mom's boyfriend has been living with us for 6 years, and it's been complete hell. I don't get along with. He's a nice guy but he's WAY TOO STUPID to get anything done right. I sometimes think his iq is less than 100. Since he can't do anything right, my mom is always screaming at him. So far my family is the pariah of the neighborhood. During the first couple of years the fights were mostly his fault because of his stupidity, but now my mom exaggerates too much, so it's half his fault and half my mom's. I always side with mom even though sometimes she's wrong. I remember my mom slapping him, screaming at him, and even throwing plates at him just because he brought her the wrong candy bar. I sometimes think that he likes getting yelled at. My mom needs to cool down but she does not want to. My mom kicks him out of the house every other day, but he's always back ten minutes later. They scream 24/7 and I really can't take it. I don't think my mom will ever leave him because he's even cheated on her and she is still with him. I have nowhere else to go so I have to take their crap every day. I just want him to leave but he just won't. My mom always promises me that they will stop but they never do. He's an immigrant, and I once thought of handing over, but I didn't because it seemed too wrong, but every time they fight, I always rethink the idea. what should I do. The only other way is for him to die, but i would not do such thing. |
| Question: I think I hurt my dad's feelings? Help? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 12:00 PM PDT My dad surprised me for my birthday by booking a trip for the two of us to go to Nashville this weekend. He was so excited to give me this gift, and I am very grateful don't get me wrong. But because of school stress, major social/travel anxiety, and some health problems I don't want to go.. He knows this and we might cancel the trip, but he seems so so hurt and I feel really bad. What do I do? If you don't have anxiety, you don't understand what its like so please no hateful answers. |
| Question: Should this keep me from going to summer camp? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:56 AM PDT I'm a 15 year old girl from Mississippi. All my life I've wanted to go to like a month-long, super rustic summer camp in new england. This year my grandpa came up with the money so that I could go (I'm supposed to go for the month of June). But I just found out today that the showers there are communal with no partitions. I know this used to be common at schools and camps, and I understand that picking a rustic camp means things haven't been updated in decades, but I just didn't expect this. I only have brothers so I've never had to share a room, we have to shower in PE at school but there are curtains, and I'm just really very very scared about this. I'm considering not going/ But part of me thinks that is silly. Thoughts? Ideas? Advice? I know that nudity around the same gender shouldnt be a big deal, intelectually I'd actually argue we'd be better off body image wise if we were more comfortable with it......but I can "think" that way all I want.....but when I start to imagine having to strip down and shower in a wide open room with tons of other girls......I'm scared to death. I really want to go to camp, but I just don't know what to do. I can't imagine showering around a pole out in the open with 20+ other girls. To the people saying shower in bathing suit, those aren't even on the packing list (there isn't a pool at the camp). I can't wear a suit. |
| Question: HELP MY MOTHER DOESNT ALLOW ME MY PRIVACY? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:55 AM PDT she doesn't trust me on facebook, instagram, or twitter. she checks the texts i receive BEFORE I CAN EVEN READ THEM. she doesn't respect my privacy at all -- she judges everyone for their facebook posts and texts. if my friend curses, she doesn't let me hang out with them. if a guy texts me, she never lets me talk to them ever again. even if i like a guy, i can never talk to him outside of school. I CAN'T EVEN TALK TO MY CLOSE FRIENDS. I'm a 17 year old girl I CAN'T DEAL WITHT THIS ANYMORE. I'm literally so angry -- i'm reaching my breaking point. PLEASE HELP I DON'T KNOW HOW TO COPE I've tried making fake facebook accounts and all but she's caught me several times. she monitors my laptop usage and everything. i feel so suffocated -- sometimes i get so angry i feel like crying. why is life so unFAIRRR PLEASE HELPP AND she doesn't allow me to hang out with friends. i'm expected to stay at home at all times..... |
| Question: The boy friends's undergrad Graduation is Mothers day, I'm conflicted, advice? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:53 AM PDT My boyfriend of 5 years undergrad graduation is on Mother's Day. My mom is legit my best friend. We have done the same thing every year for Mother's day since I was like in 2nd grade. My mom has had cancer 3 times. But is (as far as we know) in good health. But the BFs mother is upset that I want to spend Mother's day with my mom. If he was my husband I could see it. I bet she'd feel like a real jerk if my mom dropped dead before next mother's day. And besides there's just as much of chance he won't be in my life for ever as he will be. But my mom will always be my mom. Any advice handling the situation? |
| Question: Can i file for a order of protection against my baby fathers ex girlfriend? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:51 AM PDT His ex says she is clean now for a week but I have a baby on the way and she is a drug addict and so is her brother and I know for a fact he is still using. I don't want this girl or anyone she associates with around my son, and I'm scared she may try and harm me psychically. I feel like he may try and get back with her and I don't want her and her family drugs use to influence my son. I just wanna make sure that she cannot be near me or my son Because I don't trust her and don't think she will stay clean. If she does stay clean and they get back together, I still don't want my son being in an environment where drugs are used on a day to day basis and the cops are always being called on her family. As a mother I don't think that is a environment for a child and I want to file for a order of protection against her. Is that possible? |
| Question: Is there psychological reasoning behind this? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:37 AM PDT My brother-Ashton has no ambitions in life. He is 22, graduating high school was the last thing he ever did. He lives w/ his 22 yrold girlfriend-Ele (at her parents). Ele use to be successful, she was in college, worked 2 jobs, bought her own car, cell, insurance etc. Until she met Ashton, she failed out of college, still working but barely making it by because she is wrapped up in taking care of Ashton. Ashton spends his days sitting inside Eles room. doing nothing. He has no cell, computer NOTHING. sits there waiting for her to get home. Ashton spends any $ he gets on action figures. Sometimes Ashton will get a job, it'll last a week until he finds some excuse to not show up. At family gatherings hes always been the first to do the dishes, or help grandma put things away. He is very helpful when he wants to be. Ashton has friends who are successful his bestfriend is an emt & firefighter, his other bestfriend is in a mangaement pos at fed ex. Eles parents have kicked him out, recently theyve gone as far to kick Ele out in order to keep him out! They immediately came to me saying they were moving out into an apartment with some friends & living in their garage. I asked if they had $ for food, rent, gas etc. "well we had 100$" Ashton gets angry when adults give him advice or tell him the right way to do things. He made average grades but teachers always said he had much more to apply. Is there a psychological reason behind this? anyone ever dealt with this? advice? |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:32 AM PDT I want to start testosterone shots soon but i dont know how, i am 15 and i know it will take years for me to transition but i really want to know if there is anyway of starting it sooner ???? |
| Question: I hear my parents doing it? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:28 AM PDT Literally almost every night I hear stuff. I'm trying to sleep, and they have this 'sexy' music on BLASTING and if I walk by their room I hear.. kind of gross things. Today, it was the afternoon. And she said she needed to lay down for about an hour because her head her so bad so please be quiet. I said sure why not. And I hear moaning when I walked by their door, and music on loud. Lying to me and my sister just to have sex seems wrong to me. Also she never goes grocery shopping, and if she does, it's to get bread cheese salty foods and wine. And me and my sister don't have any food for like a week until I finally get them to actually buy food. What do I do? Because I'm 14 and they still don't that I know what sex is. And so it would be awkward for me to bring it up. Any advice is appreciated. |
| Question: If my mum and dad split, who is more likely to get custody? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:22 AM PDT My mum is a nice woman, works in a store, I think £600 pounds a month. However, sometimes she does get verbally abusive and drinks quite a bit. My dad pays no attention to me and my siblings, we have conversations sometimes but otherwise it's like living with a stranger. He builds aeroplanes and probably makes a lot of money. He seems to love his computer more than us and I understand why my mum is splitting up with him. I am theoretically a teenager |
| Question: My husband cheated before we got married? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:19 AM PDT I just found out recently my husband cheated on me 6 years ago. we have been married for 5 years. I'm 23 and he's 25. I found out by snooping in his old emails. He had sex with another girl once while we while we were dating 6 years ago and another girl 3 months before we got married. I know this was a long time ago but I'm just finding out. He hasn't done it since but I'm so hurt. I don't know how to feel about this. should I divorce him? Should I ask him about or let it go? He doesn't think that I know |
| Question: How do I not have to go to my dads anymore? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:16 AM PDT I am 13,and I hate going to my dads house. Every time I have to go to my dads,I get really sad about it because at my dads,my stepmom and her children are very mean to me. No matter how much I try to get along with them,they always insult and make fun of me. They sometimes even get my dad in with them. My mom on the other hand,she is one of the greatest moms in the world. She is really nice to me and understands me. Is there any way I can not have to go to dads anymore? I tell my dad about my siblings but he doesn't believe me and that hurts me. |
| Question: I am getting a bit sick of my Mum and my sister? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 11:02 AM PDT Hi so I am 24 years old and I live at home with my parents. My sister moved out a couple of years ago but she still visits once a week so that we can see her son (my nephew, obviously). I love my family and sometimes we get along great but most of the time I just feel spoken down to. My sister is always making some sort of comment on my appearance. I like to wear shorts as I like my legs but as I am tall it looks like I am flashing quite a bit of flesh, and she comments on it so now I only feel comfortable going out in jeans. She always comments if I am wearing too much makeup etc and it just really wears me down. I never make any comment on her appearance like that. My Mum also makes comments to make me feel bad. I fell out with some old friends recently and she is making me feel like it is my fault. She asks me for a hundred favours yet if I ask for one small thing she goes mad. I am always being talked to like I am a little kid. I know my sister cares but I am sick of being belittled, I get treated like crap at work and there is no escape from it when I go home either. I don't seem to have any friends anymore to top it all off. I am just thinking of shutting myself in my room from now and playing my PS3 because otherwise my confidence is just getting ground to dust to be honest. |
| Question: Blended Family Issues: My wife really dislikes my son,? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:58 AM PDT I have been married for a little over 6months. My wife and I are having problems with our blended family. I have one son (previous marriage) and she has 5 kids from three different men. My wife is really mean to my son. My son has a speech delay that he is overcoming but sometimes has difficultly speaking. My wife will make fun of him, and then yell at him if he cries or run off. She says my son is disrespectful because he had a meltdown when her kids are making fun of him. But if I tell her kids to stop, she say tell your son to speak up for himself. I love my son very much. I feel like I was force to be married her because of the Pentecostal church she attends. We were dating and then she became homeless because friend kick her out the apartment. I felt sympathetic and allowed her to move in. Her kids were really hard to handle but overtime I manage to a good stepdad. We had problems before but now its getting to much to bear. She gets upset when I come home from work and help my son to read. She keep her kids away from my son saying he is bad and her kids do not need be around him. Im really trying to keep from losing it. She always say your a bad parent to let your son be disrespectful. If he says" hello " she ignores him, when he says "excuse me" she will reply hurtful comment. My wife before or after the marriage will not spend anytime with my son. She says he is your child not mine. Please give me advice on what should I do. Im at wits end. |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:46 AM PDT So im a young boy (13) at home and im getting insanely bored that it makes me feel depressed. all i do is play on the computer all day and watch tv, and go to sleep. my mum always goes somewhere my dad is always telling me its tough and just ignored me, my brother is very unhealthy and spends his whole life on his computer too. i am more healthy than him but im younger too he is 17. i dont want to be like him and I want to do something with my life besides sit on my *** and play computer. ive tried asking my dad to go out but he says no. i feel like my parents hate me and they argue with me all the time, and i honestly would rather be in school than at my home, litrelly the second i get in i get insanely depressed and bored. does anyone have any ideas on what i could do to improve my life? |
| Question: My parents don't allow me to shower? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:41 AM PDT I am a girl. I feel really uncomfortable talking about that... I want to have good hygiene, but my stepfather doesn't allow me to shower more than twice a week, because of the money (which my mother earns, by the way).. He smokes like crazy everyday and spends my mother's money( he is not working) and I'm not allowed to shower daily... WTF?! I am a girl, I am 15 years old, I need to Take care of my self.. My mother just doesn't Say anything abou that.. She says that maybe one day I will be able to pay my bills and Take how many showers I want. Really? That is not fair! What is she Waiting for? Me leaving home and never return back ever? (Which is exactly what i am going to do after graduation) what should I do? |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:32 AM PDT so this was 4 months ago. i was getting something out of the cup holder in the door of me car and closed the door of the car and 3 of my fingers on my right hand where crushed by the i started screaming in pain she opened the door and seen my fingers all purple and mangled she got me into the car and drove to the hospital and after i had my finger fixed and wrapped up we drove home and i when to my room and she walked in and fell to her knees crying and apologized repeatedly and she said she was a bad parent so i told her to stop crying and she wasn't a bad mom it was an accident and we hugged and she left. i'm wondering why did she cry and say she was a bad parent? she didn't mean to hurt me its my fault for not moving my hand. i'm a17.5 year old boy and i don't like seeing her cry because i cry when she cries. sorry if this doesn't sense im just having trouble putting memories to words |
| Question: HOW TO FIND MOTHER A HUSBAND? PLZ...(read discription)? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:27 AM PDT Ok so i'm 13 and my mom is 37 she looks quite good. My dad is dead (7 years almost) and i' d like to find to my mom a man... Cause she is saying: No need to search he will come soon... Yeahh and this soon hasn't happened in 6 years! She had a good friend but he DISSAPEARED.... And now my mom probably hates him... I have his number.. Shall i call him? And what should i say or ask? Thx for attention) |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:17 AM PDT In the past I have been teased for my weight, eventually I lost the weight and overdosed on diet pills in highschool, I was later hospitalized a few times for an 'eating disorder'. I have gained some weight back, my dad is making comments about my size, he was making fat jokes about me. I have already spoken to my parents about it about this, to stop teasing or talking about my weight but my dad still does it. I just spoke to my mom about it and tried telling my dad, but I got yelled and screamed at by my dad. My dad is emotionally abusive and I feel because he does these types of things, it has caused emotional disorders for it as a result. when I try to have a conversation about it, they just give me their BS and yell and scream at me. what do I do in this situation? it seems like my parents don't understand that this has ruined my health and my life. because I overdosed on diet pills, it ruined my health, I literally almost died and because I was hospitalized, it also left unresolved damage and feelings about the situation and I even missed out on my education for it. Now i'm behind in school because of this situation and my dad is STILL harassing me for my weight. my sister also does this too, my sister would also purposely making insulting jokes on my size. even when I was a lot thinner and got to a thinner size, my sister would call me fat even though I was at a thinner weight and everyone else said I was skinny. it seems like no matter what size I am, I still get insulted for my weight or people especially my family will still keep talking about my weight gain or loss. how deal with this? My dad makes fun of women especially just because if they're not supermodel thin. he has even made fun of famous celebrities on tv because they don't look super skinny like a super model and he even says things like this about healthy sized women who arent really 'fat'. I actually have told my dad my BMI and he still makes jokes about me from time to time. |
| Question: My family hates me, scapegoat me and I can't free myself from me (Miserable)? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:08 AM PDT I'm 23 (female) I have no friends or any love life. Grew up in a severe dysfunctional family... I'm the youngest and I'm the scapegoat. I've always been belittled, and has endure more emotional pain than one can imagine. Always blamed My parents shelter me and don't want me to get nothing in life. My siblings and cousins always was the normal ones and alienated me. No friends or anything I'm not worthy.. my dad bought all of my siblings cars and everything growing up and not me. I was great kid, I always got A's thinking my parents would be happy and reward me and they didn't even care... I ended up dropping out of HS due to depression and my family ridiculed me and treated me like scum. I've was always been a bum and never had nothing. I did a lot of lying and pretended to be SOMEBODY. And got caught in lies. Anyhow, I landed a job in CALI and just moved here last month, plus I will be starting college here in the fall... and I won the lotto for 40k in Jan. I bought a jeep, upgraded my wardrobe and put the rest in bank and helped my parents out... And my siblings are hateful cause for once I have something and they dnt feel I deserve it. They are promising to make my life miserable. I have a facebook and now my cousins are throwing low blows on there.. and it's my fault that they treat me like this. I hate myself. I have so much guilt. How do i not care? My life is in their hands... they can ruin me. They are always going to hold my downfalls and errors against me. Smh |
| Question: My daughter who is now ten years old ten to cry in public.? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:07 AM PDT She is smart, she is beautiful but there are times that when she gets criticized, she tends to cry. It's not crying quietly but it's crying sobbing like one of the pet rabbits got eaten by a coyote in the backyard. How do you deal with an emotional child? I tried talking to her but it's not sinking in because of her age. It also doesn't help that she has a little brother. |
| Question: Help Advice Needed about Relationship and Money.? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:03 AM PDT My Mother recently came into money and told me that every month she wants to help since I am a new mom, and since she couldn't do alot for me when I was a kid she wants to do something for me now. So, I said okay reluctantly because I know everyone has a motive but I accepted hoping it was from the heart. Recently she became ill and even though she lives an hour away, I drive to her house every weekend to help with errands, and anything else I can do. Her Husband is there to help her most of the time. Since my mom started giving me money i am starting to feel like she wants something more so I told her to use that money to pay someone to help her I rather her needs be met because I am okay with or without the money. Now it seems She like she wants me to be her assistant, she calls me and ask that I make random phone calls for her on my lunch break, Even though she sits at home with her husband. she wants me to call so she does not have to be bothered. It seems like since she gives me money that I have to do these things even though I have always helped her over the years without the money. She asked me to call greyhound because she left her phone on their bus, and I told her I would get the number for her to call herself. Then she says she thought giving me money made it easier for me to do things for her that she needs done. Now I think she wants to be able to control what I do for her I am confused? what is your thoughts and advice?? |
| Question: My brother wants NOTHING in life, advice? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 10:02 AM PDT My brother-Ashton has no ambitions in life. He is 22, graduating high school was the last thing he ever did. He lives w/ his 22 yrold girlfriend-Ele (at her parents). Ele use to be successful, she was in college, worked 2 jobs, bought her own car, cell, insurance etc. Until she met Ashton, she failed out of college, still working but barely making it by because she is wrapped up in taking care of Ashton. Ashton spends his days sitting inside Eles room. doing nothing. He has no cell, computer NOTHING. sits there waiting for her to get home. Ashton spends any $ he gets on action figures. Sometimes Ashton will get a job, it'll last a week until he finds some excuse to not show up. At family gatherings hes always been the first to do the dishes, or help grandma put things away. He is very helpful when he wants to be. Ashton has friends who are successful his bestfriend is an emt & firefighter, his other bestfriend is in a mangaement pos at fed ex. Eles parents have kicked him out, recently theyve gone as far to kick Ele out in order to keep him out! They immediately came to me saying they were moving out into an apartment with some friends & living in their garage. I asked if they had $ for food, rent, gas etc. "well we had 100$" Ashton gets angry when adults give him advice or tell him the right way to do things. He made average grades but teachers always said he had much more to apply. Is there a psychological reason behind this? anyone ever dealt with this? advice? |
| Question: How do i hide a platypus from my parents? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 09:55 AM PDT how do i hide a platypus in my room? |
| Question: How do I engage my nephew's babysitter in order to take interest in me? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 09:52 AM PDT My nephew's often get baby sitters from the local college community, however there is one as of late that is a sexy girl I would love to get to know more on a more personal level. Currently, I rent behind my sister's/brother-in-law's house, and when she comes over to baby sit the 3 kids come out to play in the back yard, which is my front yard basically. She must perceive me as a loser that lives behind my sister's house, but if that is true then how can I get her to change her perspective and also get her to let her defenses down, so I can get to know her on a more mature level without the role interference of babysitting. In other words, how do I get to hanging out with her outside of her babysitting routine? Normally, I pay college girls no-mind because I know they have some growing up to do, but this one seems worth my effort to get to know on a more personal level. How do I get to spending more time with her outside of her babysitting and student roles? I am thinking she would be more interested if I did not live directly behind my sister's house. My sister also has a tendency to emasculate me in some scenarios. What are some things I can try or say to get her to take interest in my interest in her? |
| Question: Houston Parks Birthday Idea? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 09:40 AM PDT I want to throw my baby's first birthday party at a park but I wanted to bring a baby/kiddie pool for the babies to splash in. Only dilemma is how would I fill it any suggestions? |
| Question: My parents are getting a divorce and I'm not sure how to console my mom.? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 09:38 AM PDT I'm fourteen years old, soon to be fifteen in June, and my parents just told me they were getting a divorce a couple days ago. My dad and I cried but my mom didn't. I'm a bit scared for her, because she seems like she's bottling up her emotions but I'm not sure. She told me that she didn't want to tell me at first because she though my dad would change his mind, so that means he basically brought it on, right? She's been telling me a whole bunch of plans about where we're moving to, (same state, just 20-30 minutes away) me and my baby sister are going to live with my mom. She's two; and we're both doing homeschool. And we'll see my dad a couple times a week. My mom doesn't have anyone to tell because her dad and brother don't really talk to her much, and she's too embarrassed to tell her sister. She only told my godmother. As for my dad, I'm not sure who he told but I'm pretty sure he hasn't told that many people. He had a fallout with all of his family so they don't talk at all. I'm the only one that speak to his side of the family (out of my parents and I), but they never reach out to me; I'm basically the only one making the effort. But I'm worried because my mom has no one to turn to, and she can't really talk to anyone because of all of those reasons. We can't afford a therapist and don't believe in that anyways. I'm a girl btw, and I feel pretty neutral about it, I only cried the day they told me, from shock, I'm just worried about my mom, really. |
| Question: Question about a will? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 09:20 AM PDT My great aunt left my aunt everything in her will. The will also said if my aunt pre-decease my great aunt in death everything goes to someone else. That didnt happen my aunt passed away many years later after my great aunt. My question is do that rule still apply since my aunt did not pre-decease her in death? My aunt never change the deed of the house into her name its still in my great aunt's name. My aunt left everything to my father. I'm trying to figure how to get the deed changed into my father's name. |
| Question: Disneyland do annual pass never got redemmed in 2014 do I losses that really? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 09:13 AM PDT Last year my mother had been sick due to her diabetes. In January I had purchased 3 annual passes to Disney and had already been a annual pass holder for 4 years. My mother got sick so.had to.put everything aside and always said I'll go get the passes another day and then another day. As time went on I also had a death in the family my grandfather passed away. Prior to the death I had been traveling from.cali to Texas constantly so with my mom being sick and now my grandpa on his death bed I put all my things aside. My 4 year old found the passes the other day I had kept from him the whole year Now that my grandfather is in a better place and with my mother getting a little better I can put more time for us. I bought these annual passes at Albertsons and now I am really reading through and it says must redeem before 2014 I need.help money is hard and I would hate for 3 Passes to go to waste. As a self employed business owner is really hard to put work aside but seeing my 4 year old ask me every day with excitement if i am going to take him to Disneyland that day breaks my heart. The fact that the tickets are paid for really makes me hope that there is someone that can help. Because of the bad year and a half we had of the last year and the passing of my grandfather i need to cheer up this family what betrer way then the happiest place on earth please can anybody help me . His birthday is in 2 months and would love to take him for that day |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2015 09:08 AM PDT I am 16 years old, with a 2 year old son, the birth of him being the start of most of my families dysfunction. I had him when I was 13, but that's a different story. I love my kid to death don't get me wrong, but man did this make my life so much harder... My family doesn't care about me. They don't care what I have to say, nobody asks me how I'M doing, they show so much hostility towards me and my son. My mom gave up on me, left me to try to take care of myself, I'm just another person living under her roof. Yeah, I'm greatful for having a roof over my head. But that's about it, literally the only thing she provides for me. I cook/buy my own food. I even have to buy my own clothes, bra, underwear, shoes. I have no job, so take a good guess on how that's going for me. She hasn't bought me a new pair of shoes in 2 years, rarely takes me shopping, I have to take care of myself basically. If it wasn't for my grandmother I have no idea where I'd be. But now that I don't live right next door to her anymore I seriously have no help. I even had to get a GROWN MAN to pay my phone bill for me. I shouldn't have to do that man. My mom is not broke, she makes money. Just simply doesn't do anything for me. And also to add, my father just donated sperm pretty much. My mom isn't lonely she has a man. So that's not it. But I hope you readers get my point. Basically I no longer do not want to be a part of this family. I am struggling, me and my son are struggling, and I can no longer take it. |
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| Question: Dad likes to argue and start fights? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 08:53 AM PDT I was getting ready for my dentist appointment and i accidentally bumped into him. He pushed me and i said it was an accident, he then choked me and pinned me to the wall. My older brother joined in because he has nothing else better to do. I used self defense and punched my dad several times ( he started bleeding ). And it was basically 2v1 for 3-4 minutes until they ran out of breath. What can i do? I'm really tired of my dad's stupid personality he would literally argue and instigate anything |
| Question: My dad said I should of been a stain left in the bed? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 08:47 AM PDT Im in highschool and I needed gas because I lost my job at heb and he got all mad that I asked for gas money.when we got there I wanted my tank full and he just busted out saying I should of been a stain left in the bed.what should I do |
| Question: What can I do to make my mom understand? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 08:44 AM PDT I love my mom and all, but most of the time, she's very clingy with me (im 23 years old by the way) A few days ago, I made plans with my friends to hang out and I told her about it and she was not ok with it. She' said every Tuesday me and her go out to the store and that I should be taking her and and she keeps saying that my friends manipulate me all the time. She doesn't have a car and expects me to just be taking her to places because she works her butt off and that I should have all the time for her. Is she right? Or am I doing wrong? |
| Question: Was Frank Marshal Davis Obama's real farther? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 08:28 AM PDT Would America elected the conman Barack Obama aka Barry Soetoro aka Barry Davis if they knew Barry Daddy was a Marxist? |
| Question: Daughter wakes me up too early? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 08:28 AM PDT My daughter just turned 4, I'm a single father. On the weekends, unlike during my weekdays, I don't set my alarm, yet, thanks to my daughter, I'm up at 5:30-6 in the morning. She wakes up and comes to my room. Then she'll either open my eyes for me or tap me on the arm and say " Daddy, I'm up.". Look I get it, I became a parent, I signed up for this, but, I do want sleep. Do I suck it up or do I tell her that on Saturday and Sunday she's not allowed to wake Daddy up? |
| Question: Does your family criticize you much? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 08:13 AM PDT I used to get criticized a lot by my family like they used to criticize me about me being stubborn, selfish, oversensitive or I can't take a joke. But lately they don't criticize me as much as they used to. But my dad once told me when they criticized me it was usually constructive criticism. |
| Question: Parents have been fighting? Why did my dad come home last night? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 08:03 AM PDT I'm 15 years old and lately, my parents have been fighting a lot. They butt heads over the tuition for my older sister's college, work (they're both in law enforcement), and how they handle things with me and my younger brother and sister. It got really bad last Wednesday, and my dad packed up and left. Last night I heard him come home and when I woke up this morning, he wasn't there anymore. So I don't know what that was all about. But all my mom does is say how much of a bastard he is and that she hates him and stuff. I really miss him, but it's his fault my mom is so upset. I feel so conflicted and kind of like it could be my fault. If I hadn't ever gotten into trouble, they wouldn't need to argue about the consequences. He's already come home once (if even for a little bit), so how can I get them back together? Do you think they already are getting back together? Why do you think he came home last night? He didn't leave immediately. I fell asleep so I didn't hear him leave, but it wasn't right away. I'm offended he didn't come to see me or my siblings to see if we are okay. I haven't talked to him in a week and I don't know why he'd come home for a bit and not at least say hi. It's actually very upsetting :/ |
| Question: Why do my parents go through my browsing history? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 07:58 AM PDT Periodically my parents go through my browsing history to see what I've been on. I use the internet a lot, and I always fear they may something that seems right to me but not to them. One time they found out my furry obsession, and I had to lead them to a video on the truth about furries before hell broke loose. Recently my sister showed me a video of reactions to this video called 2 girls 1 cup, and I wanted to know what it was exactly, so I searched it up, and it was the NASTIEST thing I ever saw. But then my dad found it in my history and started yelling at me and judging me for it. Again, I had to explain. This is just a few of the many things I have searched up that I get yelled at for. I WANT to clear records of my history, but my parents say if I delete ANY of my browsing history, they will take my computer away. Forever. I've told them so many times to stop looking through my history, but they say I should have nothing to hide. SAYS THE PEOPLE THAT DO HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE!!! I feel like I have no privacy because of them. I can't use Incognito mode because they'll discover a huge time gap between when I opened up Chrome and the time I got off, and will suspect something. I cannot take this any longer!!! What do I do!? I'm 13. |
| Question: Do you think this is too harsh and taking things too far? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 07:40 AM PDT Basically it's to do with my parents. To understand this I need to tell you this. I always fall out with my mum and on some circumstances she replies, on others my stepdad does. I understand that in a relationship you've got to be honest and all of that but then does the other one have to get involved? Sometimes, despite my stepdad knowing, I feel that he always speaks for mum. Since we fall out so many times and I am a young adult now, I don't want my future to get like this. I got out of control and flipped at her, swearing as I've had enough. Don't worry I'm not normally the kind of person who swears constantly, especially at their parents, but when I am very angry or p'd off with someone then I will. I don't know why they're suddenly treating me like this however as we were all good to each other and now all of sudden I felt that I did something wrong and they ignored me. (The harsh bit is in the first update sorry) The harsh bit: Basically I want to change my name so I am no longer apart of this family and cut them out of my life. You might say that my mother might be busy but then she does leave a short text message usually saying: "Working" at least or "busy". Even if she is ill she will. |
| Question: How can I be out over the night without anyone notice? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 07:31 AM PDT From Thursday to Saturday my mom is away and I m staying home alone, and from Friday to Saturday I really want to sleep at a boy s house, but how can I do that in secret without my mom and dad notice? My dad is not home either and I know they will send me messages, but I thought about this: what if they want me to send a picture or something and I m not home or if they want me to start my gps and show that I am home? They don t really trust me anymore cause I ve been having alcohol at my room and been in the city and told them I was another place, and I m 16 so they still "own" me if u understand.. but please help me.. :( |
| Posted: 28 Apr 2015 07:29 AM PDT Here's the deal, I live with my mom, little brother and step dad. My step dad is always crossing his line of authority with my brother, always on his back. He always brings conflict and tension wherever he goes. And apparently, I'm the only one truly bothered by it. My mom will get onto him about it, get him to work on all of these changes. But in the end, he's still confrontational and causes me to stress the hell out. I have anxiety anyway, and ever time he gets into one of his anal, analyze everything my brother does moods, it makes me dizzy and makes my heart race and feel sick. I've come to the point now, where I don't even want to be around him. And I dislike him intensely. My mom can't understand this. And I'm alone in this. I can't talk to my psychiatrist or my mom about it. What would you do? |
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| Question: I hear my dad and his girlfriend every night have sex? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 06:54 AM PDT ( I'm 12 y/o girl )My mum and dad split up and I hate going to my dads beacuse every night I hear them having sex. It's really disturbing for me like hearing them moaning and stuff. It's always at like 12 at night. I'm normally always on my phone because I just can't sleep with them. I kinda get mad and don't want to talk to them but my da always says why are u so moody. I can never have a good sleep at dads anymore. I don't feel comfortable talking to them about it and I think my older brother hears it to but he dosnt say anything. Like even when my friend was over it was 1 o'clock and we were watching YouTube and I had to turn it up and laugh so he couldn't hear them. I also found my dads condoms while I was puting the washing away, found him jerking off and even found pornos :( I feel really uncomfortable about this and now I'm starting to hate going to his house. I can't plug earphones in either cause my brother is always awake and he will hear me....... HELP??? |
| Question: My dad threw a knife at me? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 06:51 AM PDT He normally doesn't do this kind of stuff. It all started when he thought I was eating in the living room (Which I wasn't, he saw the cereal bowl there and immediately thought I was). I had a whole bunch of stuff in my hands and there was stuff on the kitchen table so I had to put the cereal bowl (just had milk in it now because I ate it IN THE KITCHEN) on a tray thing in the living room that was near the kitchen (but was still in the living room area). My dad told my mom (who is so much nicer than my dad. She is afraid of him too) and I kept trying to object and explain that I was about to drop the bowl (which just had milk in it) but he ignored me and kept interrupting me to yell at me. So I yelled loudly "THAT'S NOT WHAT HAPPENED! Stop making stuff UP!" and then he looked at me (at this point my mom was gone and my dad was making food so there was a knife on the table) and I said "If you LISTENED for once, you would know what happened? You're so ANNOYING! You never listen at all!" and then he got mad and picked up the knife and just threw it at me. A regular knife, not something less awful like a butter knife. I dodged it and I don't know where it would've hit me if I didn't move away, but I did. He just stared at me with an angry look on his face and I marched downstairs. (I need to add an update because there's a little more) The next day, I wasn't speaking to him and he said "WE have to talk about wha happened." I said "Fine" and he said "What you said to me was completely disrespectful. Do you understand why you were wrong? You can never speak to me that way again." Not bringing up the knife. What should I do? No one knows and no one saw. BTW I'm 13 ys. |
| Question: Songs about fathers leaving? Posted: 28 Apr 2015 06:40 AM PDT I need one that best fits; a girls mom dies and the father leaves, as far as the kids understand he left them. There were all young the youngest 5. |
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