Marriage & Divorce: Question: I need help with divorce? |
- Question: I need help with divorce?
- Question: Sapareted spouse get social security benefits alfter death of a spouse?
- Question: Need Women's Input - Please Leave Your Comments.?
- Question: Very Suspicious Woman!!!?
- Question: He said he didn't miss me?
- Question: How do I help my irritable husband?
- Question: Can a guy love his wife and fall in love with another woman?
- Question: What's up with women with **** and tats? Not the kind of person to bring home to mom or marry.?
- Question: I am 73 male and still have a high sex drive my wife has NONE GRRRR id there any help for me. by the way I can't even touch her at all :(?
- Question: How to get this teacher fired from teaching?
- Question: To many babies why am I the bad guy?
- Question: My wife is paralyzed. Should I leave her?
- Question: Is this how a woman can encourage herself to keep working hard?
- Question: Woke up in the middle of the night to my wife staring at ya boy?
- Question: Best web site to view totally free marriage records?
- Question: Where can I view marriage records free without credit cards?
- Question: Am I nagging my husband?
- Question: What should I do about my husband's anger outburst?
- Question: Wife wants divorce following recent miscarriage?
- Question: Should I stop being friends with her?
- Question: How to get my fiancé to buy a house?
- Question: My husband has been looking at craigslist personal?
- Question: How do you fill out an arizona marriage license if I want to use my husbands last name?
- Question: What can I do to fix my wifes trust issues.?
- Question: Is it weird that im marrying my middle school sweetheart?
- Question: So am not her friend?
- Question: I slept with my sister's husband?
- Question: I am married, but my coworker touches me...does that mean he likes me?
- Question: Why do abusive people almost always claim their victim is crazy?
- Question: If your wife started telling you that she doesnt like sex and cheated and even get a baby on you?
- Question: If your wife started telling you that she doesnt like sex and cheated and even get a baby on you?
- Question: Am I over reacting?
- Question: If a California marriage license is valid for 30 days is a marriage invalid if solemnization didn't occur within 30 days of the license date?
- Question: Parents have an issue with me moving in with my Fiance a couple of months before we are married. The lease on his apartment was up last-->?
- Question: Do all marriages end up unhappy?
- Question: Should I sleep alone?
- Question: My husband sneaks around to smoke pot & thinks he's fooling me! I've told him to stop sneaking but he's still doing it- what the hell?
- Question: Are there women out there that actually like the taste of men's ejaculation?
- Question: Is it normal to say mean things when hurt?
- Question: I am a 54. He is 56 & asked me to marry him. I didn t think he was the marrying kind. I still don t. If I bring it up it ends in an argument?
- Question: Wife suddenly shaves vagina for bachelorette party?
- Question: In what ways can your husband be an a*hole towards you or others?
- Question: My wife stay in ny York for 3 week and she want file divorce in ny I live in nv for 9 year but I do?
- Question: Married to a man who keeps all his own stuff?
- Question: What should i call my wife?
- Question: What age did you get married?
- Question: Why does my husband cheat and then say "I didn't do it" I got everything offer his hard drive had it checked 3times . He still Denis it Why.?
- Question: How can I get a jiggly butt.?
- Question: In New York Husband needs documents from work to me notarized can wife notarize them.?
- Question: Can I leave my kids with Joint Custody?
- Question: Okay, okay. So I may be interested in being more silly with my wife again since things have been so serious lately. What do you suggest?
- Question: I was married for 21 years and got divorced. After being single for 6 years I remarried. Am I entiltled to my ex husbands ssn benefits?
- Question: Hi i have a question on divorce?
- Question: How do you get your spouse to do something that you don't want to do yourself?
- Question: Does your husband go on vacations alone?
- Question: My wife and I are having a very hard time believing in the necessity of sex or romance. Why do you believe in it?
- Question: Is this abuse or is this sexy?
- Question: Why did you get married?
- Question: How easy it is to replace a husband?
- Question: Divorce. Where do you stand?
| Question: I need help with divorce? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 09:11 PM PDT My husband is in the military. We have not lived together for the past six month. He has not given me any money I've done it all on my own. He still gets extra dependent pay for being married to me an I don't get any of his money. I'm ready to sign the divorce papers an we have a bill in both our names. It's like 500 dollars which I can't afford on my own an I have bad credit so I can't get a loan. Well my husband has now decided he won't Divorce me until I pay that bill. I have no way talk to pay that bill like I have zero options an he won't help me pay it. I don't know what to do. I'm trying to just provide for myself an survive an I won't this divorce to be over with. I think he's doing this because he knows he still gets that extra pay by being married to me. It's stressing me out. I need help |
| Question: Sapareted spouse get social security benefits alfter death of a spouse? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 08:58 PM PDT if you were married to your spouse for 36 years and were separated for just a year and a half, do you qualify for his social security benefits? |
| Question: Need Women's Input - Please Leave Your Comments.? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 08:33 PM PDT He was writing to his future wife before he ever meet you. He could never comprehend how you can tell someone they mean the world to you when you may have only known them a year. So years before he started writing to his future wife because he wanted to show how important u are to him. This included poems, love quotes articles on advice for marriage. what marriages means to him and what he looked for in a wife. told he that u met all his expectations or u would not be reading all this. He also needed a reminder of how important his vows are and if things ever got tough in the marriage he could reflect back on what he wrote years ago and remember how important you are to him. Woman how would this make you feel? |
| Question: Very Suspicious Woman!!!? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 08:28 PM PDT To the point! I'm so VERY in love with my fiancee, yet she has SO MANY doubts and suspicion about me!!! I TRULY want 2 spend the rest of my entire life with her: yet, she makes it a tad bit difficuly becuz she's ALWAYS accusing me of being unfaithful and non-trustworthy! Today I come home from my doc's appt./work and she went ballistic on me becuz I got home at 5:15 as opposed to 5:00!!! Even tried to show her that I actually clocked out at a certain time, but she refused to look at it. What more can I do to prove my honesty and devotion???!!! |
| Question: He said he didn't miss me? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 08:16 PM PDT guy i asked jokingly .. didnt u miss me? he replied with.. no i dont miss you. guys does he really mean that? or was he trying to annoy me.? |
| Question: How do I help my irritable husband? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 08:01 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for nearly ten years. We've had our ups and downs like any marriage. We married very young and started a family before we married. We now have 3 children and our own home. Id say one of our biggest problems would be finances. There's so many good qualities to him and I love him and he's a very dedicated husband and father. He is the sole income for household and makes decent money however it can still be tight due to debt we incurred when we were younger. I think for him this is the major stress point. I try to talk to him and relieve his stress and help him see all the good things we have in our lives. I just can't take how he take things out on the children and myself. He calls my young children names like stupid loser asshole etc. when he does this I want to divorce him and walk away. He doesn't want to play with them either he says that's what they have each other for and why he bought them toys. It can be anything or the littlest thing that sets him off. I don't know what to do or how to help him. He attacks me as well and cusses at me. I value all his hard work but it's difficult to get him to see that he is so much more than a paycheck to our family. Any advice would be appreciated. My young children need their father and his love. |
| Question: Can a guy love his wife and fall in love with another woman? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 08:00 PM PDT Can a man fall in love with another woman while married? |
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| Question: How to get this teacher fired from teaching? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:38 PM PDT Man,I am so tired of this woman having inappropriate relationships with my son.They would talk about non school stuff with each other other,they joke around with each other,she would share a part of her bagel with my son,she would say "peace out girl scout" to my son and this teacher needs to be sacked from her job.She's a MARRIED 25 year old teacher and she has no business at all talking to my son at all and she is a pathetic excuse for a teacher and as a MARRIED woman.She is cheating emotionally on her husband since she is talking to my son about non school stuff to my son and having laughs with my son.Why can't she wait until she leaves school to be having these laughs with her husband and female friends?In school,she should be professional at all times and she should again "say peace out girl scout" to her female friends outside of school,not to with 18 year old boys.She should be sharing her bagels with her husband and her female friends NOT with my son.She should be acting very professionally at all times with students,especially males since she's MARRIED.This teacher needs to be sacked from her job and I am willing to do ANYTHING to protect my son and other students from this lady.What should I do to get this teacher fired?Why would a MARRIED female teacher say "peace out girl scout!" to a 18 year old boy?My son does have a 17 year old girlfriend. Kizza,I have tried to do that,but it's not working.I might just go to the school board to get this woman fired. |
| Question: To many babies why am I the bad guy? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:35 PM PDT So we recently took an unplanned trip to the zoo. Nothing fancy it was just hey it's a nice day, let's leave in 30 mins & go. Our kids are 2.5 & 5 month. We spent 2hrs at the zoo didn't even see the whole thing. Kids got way to fussy/tired. Thank goodness it wasn't busy. My brothers fiance texted me & asked about making plans to go in a few weeks to the zoo again. (My mom told her we went) She loves going & hasn't gone in forever. Not to mention my daughter is in love with her! I believe she loves her more then my brother. :) I posted a photo of us going on facebook. So she said "can't wait for our zoo-date!" My mother in law flipped out mad that we never invite her. That we favor my family more etc etc (Flip out for all of facebook to read!) Every time she comes around or speaks to us it always causes a fight with my husband &I The truth is we hate her bf... He his a perv, his whole family is druggies! (Offered is hard drugs 1st time we met them) We do not allow him or his family around our kids! He treats her like crap! & on top of it she is fostering her nieces twins. We don't invite her place because life with 2 kids is hard enough no way the zoo or out to dinner sounds like fun with 3 kids under 1 & a crazy wild 2 yr old. Let alone the fact that she was told Us or him. & she picks him. Why am I always the bad guy because I look out for my children & not everyone's happiness? Am I wrong for not wanting to do big events with that many little ones? |
| Question: My wife is paralyzed. Should I leave her? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:27 PM PDT My wife became paralyzed a year ago while changing a lightbulb on the stairwell. The ladder slide and she broke her neck from the impact of the fall. Now she's a quadriplegic and I have to do EVERYTHING for her. I feel terrible for wanting to leave but I can't do it anymore. I'm only 29 years old and I don't want the rest of my life to consist of catering to her needs ALL OF THE TIME! I feel bad leaving but I think I have to. What should I do? |
| Question: Is this how a woman can encourage herself to keep working hard? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:25 PM PDT By telling herself, "Keep working and eventually you'll meet either a customer or a co-worker to get married to and have kids with." |
| Question: Woke up in the middle of the night to my wife staring at ya boy? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:19 PM PDT i had asked this a lil while ago and yall acted like yall didnt see it so. Yo that was some creepy stuff ok I was just sitting there just snoozing me and my lady.. And all of a sudden I had to pee so I woke up turn the little lamp on and rolled over then BAM! KAZZAM! Her eyes were wide open no sleep or anything just bright perfect white eyes staring back at ya boy then she said HEY I jumped outta that bed..well I didn't jump cus I'm a big boy but u get the point.. but anyway she spooked ya boy til I had to sleep on the couch that night.. We've just got married in January and she already slipping up.. Yo what should I do peeps.. I told her about her life and she didn't care so what now? |
| Question: Best web site to view totally free marriage records? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:18 PM PDT |
| Question: Where can I view marriage records free without credit cards? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:17 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I nagging my husband? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:17 PM PDT My husband has been away since Thursday and since then I've only spoken to him once for a 10 min long conversation on the phone. He is very busy and out doing some business for work. I sent him a text earlier today and he didn't reply. I wonder if I'm beings naggy. At first, I was enjoying my alone time, now I miss him more than ever. Is it nagging if I call him? Would you be annoyed if it were you? It's been about 2 days since I spoke to him. |
| Question: What should I do about my husband's anger outburst? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:11 PM PDT My husband and I have been married almost 2 years now. When we have fought, it usually involves some raising of voices but is usually solved within 20min or so. The past two days he has been in a fowl mood. I figured he was just tired and didn't pry with questions since that seems to annoy him more. When I kindly told him it was time for dinner and that he needed to turn off the playstation, he responded with a mean "ok!". I made a statement about eating alone and he had an outburst! He through several objects (cell phone, and two remotes) into the wall in front of him and yelled something about going out for dinner. When I told him to calm down and let's please talk this out - he replied with "forget about it" "its nothing" "i don't know". I don't know what to do :( I want to get through to my husband and don't want this to happen again (especially when we have children -dont want them to be in danger). I want to do everything I can to keep this marriage good. |
| Question: Wife wants divorce following recent miscarriage? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:10 PM PDT I need help, my wife and me just lost our son, she was only sixteen weeks pregnant, after that I had just gotten a job after being laid off for two months, just tried moving to San Antonio, and she also got a puppy pit bull mix, we haven't been able to sit and talk, a lot of the time it's been my fault, sometimes hers and then there's the dogs making a mess of our home and some small things... all of this goes on almost every time that we are having a great time together, just last night for instance we came home from a more than great day together, we came home separately since she had to meet me in town, and I walked in the door to find her things set aside and almost everything the puppy could get to was on the floor along with a roof leak from the rain, which she thought was dog pee on the foot of the couch and get tablet, and many more things on the floor, she went from emotional last night to what I feel like blaming me for jumping into this relationship to this morning saying she wants a divorce, what do I do how do I approach her? I don't want to give up in this marriage even if it's not the strongest |
| Question: Should I stop being friends with her? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:06 PM PDT Ever since she got married. She has changed to this annoying person always talking about "me and my husband did this, me and my husband are in a vacation, and me and my husband that." She's super annoying with her husband talks. I'm single and I used to be friends with her when both of us were single. But now we're different and I just want to stop being friends with her. I know she'll come running to me tomorrow and starts talking but I really don't want to hear it. What should I do? She has other friends. I feel like she should hang out with married people. The three people she talks to are all single people who never been married |
| Question: How to get my fiancé to buy a house? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 07:02 PM PDT He wants a house just as much as I do, but he never follows through. We've looked at houses, and he's always very undecided, finds something "wrong" with the house, and leaves it at that. This has been going on for years. I live in a freaking cluttered apartment, the neighbors have an infant, they have really loud, weird laughs and after 6 years of apartment living im figuratively suffocating here. Im screaming get me out of here inside meanwhile he's like "meh i don't like it because the front yard is disproportionate to the backyard, blabla". Im not gonna leave him. I feel like it's impossible though, he's never gonna find this perfect house with perfect yard space for the perfect price with the perfect look and perfect aura. Then, when he should be saving, he buys something we don't need, like a portable generator (what???) At any rate, thanks for listening, this has been thoroughly therapeutic for me. He's been approved for a VA loan, things are in place for this to happen that's why im frustrated. I could understand if there was some big financial burden in the way but there isn't. |
| Question: My husband has been looking at craigslist personal? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 06:51 PM PDT He's looking at things like discreet hookups and all of the searches are in local areas. This isn't the first time, about 3 months ago I found a secret email account where he emailed a girl from Craigslist wanting to hookup. I confronted him about it and he said he just wanted porn pics. Even though the email said specifically that she didn't need to send a nude photo. I love him so much and don't want to assume the worst but I'm just trying to figure out what's going on. Any thoughts? Preferably from a male perspective. |
| Question: How do you fill out an arizona marriage license if I want to use my husbands last name? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 06:45 PM PDT |
| Question: What can I do to fix my wifes trust issues.? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 06:42 PM PDT So I have been with my wife for over 8 years now, I love her with my everything and I constantly try to show that to her, I am constantly working hard with my job. I gave up my life so that I could be with her. Recently in the last year, I came out to her about being Bi-curious and I know that this has strain on marriages, we have almost been divorced twice, but somehow we have persevered through it all. My wife has accepted this and we moved on, in the last few months though, I have caught her breaking into my emails, my phone and my facebook and looking through all my messages and all of my past conversations with family and friends, private conversations nothing relating to cheating or illicit behavior. I have asked her to stop several times, and everytime I reassure her that I would never do anything to harm the relationship and it stops for awhile. She recently sent me an IM on my phone asking about a friend of mine from highschool, who she was and also asked me about messages from my parents I got furious and changed my passwords and deactivated my accounts so that she couldn't log on them. We had a talk about it and she showed me a post and told me the reason.. "Its not that I don't trust you, it's that I can't believe the realtionship is so perfect that nothing is happening." This is breaking my heart and she has basically broken all my trust for her not to try and find a reason for me to be cheating.. I just want my wife to trust me like she did before. |
| Question: Is it weird that im marrying my middle school sweetheart? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 06:39 PM PDT so me and Janet are getting married in two months and both of us have never been with anyone else and weve been together since the end of fifth grade and now were 24.. and one of my friends brought up all the girls ill be missing out and have missed out on and he really got into my head even though he told me he was joking and i love janet but i dont want to have these thoughts when were married what should i do? |
| Question: So am not her friend? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 06:08 PM PDT My so called friend told her two other friends where she was going and had reasons behind going out of town but never told me. I always told her about my plans and stuff but she went out of state to do couple things. I didn't know about it so am not her friend anymore? Today she didn't come to work so I asked my other friends and they know about her where bouts except for me. Should I just stop being friends with her? I know she's going to be coming to me tomorrow and she always talks to me but I don't even want to talk to her after this. Should I just keep quiet when she's talking. I don't like confrontation |
| Question: I slept with my sister's husband? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 05:45 PM PDT I was living with an abusive husband and when I told my sister about it, she let me stay and my 3 yr son stay with her until I could find a job and rent a place of my own. Very kind and generous, that's just who my sister is. I did not go into this planning to do so at all. But I was feeling very vulnerable and her husband was so nice to me and so good with my son. I was attracted to him & I threw myself at him when she was out. Afterwards, we had some drinks and both of us went to bed separately. Next day, he comes to me freaking out. He was like I shouldn't have done that. He and my sis have been together since high school and he told me he's thought about what he might have missed out on and what it would be like to be with someone else. He didn't pursue anyone but he's never had sex offered either by anyone. But after he and I were together, he realized that he only wanted to be with her. He was crying and saying how he didn't want her to leave him. And that he f*cked up but so did I because I've known my sister my whole life and she loves me. He told me that I needed to leave, that he'd even give me the money if I was short. He was like we shouldn't be around each other. I told him I'd leave. We made a pact to not tell my sister. We both know she'd divorce him and they have 2 kids and he really is a good guy so I don't want that. Now, my sister doesn't get why I'm leaving and she's noticing we're avoiding each other so she thinks he's forcing me out. What do I do? |
| Question: I am married, but my coworker touches me...does that mean he likes me? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 05:43 PM PDT Over the last couples months, he (very very shy) touches in the following way: pat on shoulder (2x) picking something out of my hair Accidentally touching my hands quite often when we exchange items (pen, cups, etc) holding my shoulder as he picking something off my back... I am not sure he's doing this because we hang out a lot and are becoming good friends or he likes me... well, we have been working together for 5 years.. |
| Question: Why do abusive people almost always claim their victim is crazy? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 05:30 PM PDT I have seen this more than once: my friend was married to a physically abusive man and he would tell everyone they knew his life was insane and that he stayed married to because he felt sorry for her ... In the meantime he was beating her. |
| Posted: 13 Apr 2015 05:13 PM PDT Please Tell me What is happening she is always saying she doesn't like sex and I did wrong to Mary her. But I know she loves it and she even went back to the ex and got pregnant there. We are now living with that child home. |
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| Posted: 13 Apr 2015 05:08 PM PDT I am fourteen years younger than my husband. At times it seems that he tries to show his best to other women. He wants to help out and not lay around. I feel very negative on myself and don't even feel joy in taking care of myself. I notice the women he notices are very shallow and into themselves. I am not the type he dated in the past. We have been married over ten years and he asked me one night, "Would you wait for me?" I said, "No. I mean if you went to war that's one thing, but to just leave and say you may be back to see what I do is another." The other issue is he told me I was too old to have another child. I was 32 at the time. I took it as an insult and let him know that. I am unsure if he's saying these things do to the fact he is over fifty, I am almost forty, and he has to take testosterone do to his health. So during a relationship where he doesn't do anything at the end of our time do to low testosterone levels, I really feel insecure. We do things normally and at the end he does nothing. Most often these days he starts something. He keeps asking me if I will be here for him if we cannot have a physical relationship to him getting old one day. I explain that I stayed with him for two years without that part of our relationship do to doctors and his testosterone levels. To tell the I am not above having feelings, but what I care about is my marriage and family. |
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| Posted: 13 Apr 2015 04:58 PM PDT The lease on his apartment was up last August, and my parents were very gracious, and allowed him to move in with us (he paid rent). So we have been living together in the same home for the past 9 months. We are getting married September, and we just purchased a home, and are hoping to move in sometime in June. After talking with them about our plans for a few weeks, my mother out of the blue told my Fiance and I,that they (my parents) were not comfortable with us moving in together before marriage. What I don t understand is why she is uncomfortable with this. Yes, she is a conservative Christian, and I was raised Christian, but have more of an open-mind than my parents. Yes, there will be more temptation, which we understand. But the only difference I can see with the living arrangements is that one, we will not be living under our parents roof, and two, we will have to financially support ourselves. We have been budgeting, saving, and watching our spending, to make sure that we could financially support ourselves. We have also been on vacation together for a whole week, and they did not seem to have an objection to that. Like I said, I dont understand what her hesitations are, or why they are uncomfortable with us living together for the 3-4 months before we are married. |
| Question: Do all marriages end up unhappy? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 04:52 PM PDT All of my family who has ever gotten married ends up divorced, miserable, or cheated on. Are there any good marriages out there? I just have no hope for ever getting married and need some reassurance |
| Question: Should I sleep alone? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 04:44 PM PDT My wife told me she wanted a divorce, to get out of her room, and get out of her house, and that she didn't want me to kiss her anymore. I didn't get a divorce and move out, I still tried to kiss her, and I just slept on the couch. Cuddling with her at night, and giving her kisses on my way out the door, and hugging her when she came home from a friends house was a hard habit to break, but I'm over it now. But now all of a sudden she mad and says that I don't love her or kiss her, and she wants me to start doing it again. But I'm not ready to go down that road yet. None of the issues that caused her to tell me to leave have been resolved. Or rather she still feels the same way about me as she did when she told me to leave. Nothing changed, she just wants me to go back to kissing her and sleeping with her again. |
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| Question: Are there women out there that actually like the taste of men's ejaculation? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 04:37 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it normal to say mean things when hurt? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 04:36 PM PDT How is it that when people fight and say mean crule things to each other over and over they can forgive ? Or act like it never happened? |
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| Question: Wife suddenly shaves vagina for bachelorette party? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 04:19 PM PDT Its been 2 months since my wife has shaved down there . The mornin after the party i noticed she was shaved . Should i be worried she had intentions of cheating or am i just acting crazy like she said. We only have sex about 1 or 2 times a week . Plz help me feel like im driving myself crazy thinkin of this |
| Question: In what ways can your husband be an a*hole towards you or others? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 04:11 PM PDT |
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| Question: Married to a man who keeps all his own stuff? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 04:02 PM PDT We have been together for more than 10 years, when we were first together, my husband kept me in the dark with how much money he made, but now 10 years later he is still doing the same thing. We have separate bank accounts, his vehicles are in only his name, he keeps my car in my name, long story short, any thing that is his , he don t share, he makes decisions without me. The only thing we share is a marriage licence. I have been trying for for a long time to get us on the same page to be shot down by him. I am considering a separation and if that doesn t work divorce. Am I being too sensitive and am making a big deal out of nothing?? |
| Question: What should i call my wife? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 03:41 PM PDT |
| Question: What age did you get married? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 03:06 PM PDT |
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| Question: How can I get a jiggly butt.? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 02:42 PM PDT My butt is to hard!!! It just doesn't jiggle enough when my husband and I have sex, and it's really killing our sexlife. How can I get that thing to be bigger, and softer/jigglier |
| Question: In New York Husband needs documents from work to me notarized can wife notarize them.? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 02:04 PM PDT |
| Question: Can I leave my kids with Joint Custody? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 02:02 PM PDT I live in AZ and I'm divorced with joint custody over my kids. I want to move and live alone in a different state. Is it legal for me to drop my kids off at my ex-husband's door without him knowing and leave? |
| Posted: 13 Apr 2015 02:02 PM PDT This is a genuine question and I'm not trying to be an askhole (askhole - noun - a person who asks a lot of questions but takes no advice and may even argue with hit). When things get too serious, how do you lighten up the mood and become more silly? I used to be silly all the time. No, really, all the time. But then serious stuff happened and I wasn't serious enough and it hurt my wife pretty bad. She wanted me to take her and life more seriously since not everything was a joke. But now I have shifted a little too far and I take life way too seriously. I could use a sense of humor again... But there are some rules we have that could screw this up: *No raunchy jokes - we have children and we want to be good examples on how men and women should treat each other. *No mean pranks - they just aren't funny *No sarcasm or dark wit jokes - they just aren't funny either. Pessimist jokes foster pessimist mindsets. *Nothing that involves drugs/alcohol - Again, trying to set a good example and we want to be healthy. We used to be goofballs that just did silly things like climb into a huge grocery bag or take silly photos and try clown around; but there just doesn't seem to be time for this any more. Plus, there's enough of that online to go around that we don't need each other for that (lolcats and memes). So the internet kind of replaced our social need for silliness... Any suggestions? |
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| Question: Hi i have a question on divorce? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 12:58 PM PDT |
| Question: How do you get your spouse to do something that you don't want to do yourself? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 12:31 PM PDT |
| Question: Does your husband go on vacations alone? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 12:22 PM PDT Last year my hubby talked about taking a weeks vacation in early May and he wanted to go to Florida. Now that the time is getting closer and he's put in his vacation at work, we were talking about it and turns out he's going alone now. If I hadn't asked him about it, I would have been packing my bags and expecting to be there with him. Im kind of chopped up about it. I should mention that he goes out of town every other weekend to fish with his friends and leaves me with our daughter, whether I have plans or not. So, I don't have a problem with him vacationing alone since he does it all of the time. It's just that I haven't been on a vacation since I met him 5 years ago. While he goes on 2-3 mini vacays a month and now gets a long paid vacation that he promised we would all go to. Im resenting it. He says Im making a big deal out of nothing but I don't think my feelings are 'nothing'. I guarantee if I decided to take a solo vacation and leave our child with him, he would call me the worst. |
| Posted: 13 Apr 2015 12:19 PM PDT I believe in neurotransmitters. Serotonin, Dopamine, and Oxytocin are the main ones. But you can get these three neurotransmitters without sex or romance; so why do we put such a huge emphasis on these things as a culture? Socializing, self entertainment, and hugging can satisfy all 3 neurotransmitters; so why the over-indulgence? Don't get me wrong, I bet if my wife and I could see sex as more than just procreation then we'd want more of it. And don't get me wrong, if my wife and I didn't have plans on being debt free, we would be all up in the romantic lovebug fairy tale world. But since we both don't see the value in these things (over other venues available) why do you see the value in it? What do you believe that we don't? Is this a Biblical thing? Wanting sex says less about your spouse and more about your desire to orgasm or to feel desired. It is a self interest if you want sex. Also, wanting a good night out on the town says less about your spouse and more about your desire to explore or be noticed (attention seeking). It is a self interest if you want romance. So if you truly love your spouse, why are you pursuing things that are strictly self pleasing/satisfying? On here I get accused of being a narcissist a lot because I talk a lot about myself. It's true, I am a healthy narcissist and I believe in self love and self promotion. I don't care to relate to anyone. But don't you think being self interested all the time would make you an UNHEALTHY narcissist? If you believe having sex with your spouse is "Making love" - please, explain that concept to me. How is love "made" if not by firing off those 3 neurotransmitters? And if you believe romance is "expressing love" - please, explain to me how that expression couldn't be expressed in less fairy tale ways and still be considered an expression? By the way, Dopamine is the "That was fun, let's do it again" neurotransmitter. Of course sex and romance is fun, but anything can be fun. And Dopamine requires more and more of it to get the same feeling of "high". That's why people get bored of sex and move to porn and why romantics move to romance novels; there comes a point where your spouse is just never enough. It's impossible to not get addicted once it starts becoming habitual. |
| Question: Is this abuse or is this sexy? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 12:18 PM PDT Regardless of whether the wife or husband is the aggressor: If your spouse (not forcefully and not meaning to harm you at all) push you either up against a wall or back onto a bed, to KISS YOU, how would you feel? Afraid or happy? BQ: Have you ever done this? Or are you too afraid of domestic violence charges? |
| Question: Why did you get married? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 12:14 PM PDT |
| Question: How easy it is to replace a husband? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 12:04 PM PDT |
| Question: Divorce. Where do you stand? Posted: 13 Apr 2015 12:02 PM PDT |
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